6 Signs She's Not Into You (Abort!)

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Have you ever been in a situation where you cannot tell for the life of you whether or not the woman you have spent so much money and time on is interested in you??? I'm Kate Spring, and I'm here to share 6 signs that she’s not into you.
Too many people are passive aggressive and have a serious inability to face their problems head on. When I was young, I would have preferred to write a Chemistry exam than to talk openly about my feelings.
And, unfortunately, too many women are still like this today. It's not malicious. It's more of an act of self-preservation because we genuinely don't want to hurt people's feelings, and we surely do not want to deal with the guilt that follows rejecting someone. So I'm going to share 6 ways you can tell she's not into you.
I'd say the first sign that a woman is not interested in you is if she isn't responding to your texts. This is the MOST passive aggressive way to let someone know you're not interested. Ghosting is such a shitty habit of our generation
How have we evolved to such a place where this is now considered normal? If you’re not familiar with ghosting, it is the act of just not responding to someone. Urban Dictionary defines it as “fading, or quietly disappearing from someone’s life and cutting off all communication.” Horrendous. And If you yourself do this, don’t. Have more respect for people and their time. Ok, rant over.
Another way to tell if she isn’t interested in you, which you can tell through text messages, is if her answers are short. If her texting is like those one-word fridge magnet poems where you just piece one word together after another. And getting a full sentence out of her takes longer than reading the Harry Potter series in its entirety, then she is not interested in you, and you would find your time better spent finding someone else.
Another way to tell that she isn’t into you, which is even worse than ghosting, is if she makes out with someone else. This happens in dating today, and it is a very key thing to look for. As well, it doesn’t matter how drunk she claims she was. She is not thinking about you or your feelings; therefore, move on. Plain and simple.
Involved in a go-nowhere relationship, having drank himself into indifference, I had this pulled on me once. The guy I was seeing started having a dance floor make out session. My response was brief: "See you later, see you never." Needless to say, I felt like shit and had to have a serious sit down talk with myself about the type of person I wanted to be with.
It started with understanding that I had missed all of the signs and had refused to let my situation speak until I needed to hear it as a scream! I know that they say that love is blind, but, in the early stages, before your heart is invested, make sure that she is into you as much as you are into her. And that means reading the signs.
If you want to avoid situations like I just mentioned, head over to katespring.com/free and grab a free copy of my attraction building handbook, which will help you get any girl you want and keep her interested. That’s katespring.com/free. And you will find the link in the details below.
The third sign that she isn’t into you is if she hasn’t introduced you to any of her friends. This might be because she's embarrassed of you or sees no future with you. Or her friends just suck or maybe she just sucks? Regardless, move one. If someone doesn’t want to show you off, then I think we are entering the friend zone, or maybe she is just not into you.
The fourth sign is a lack of eye contact. If she does not look you in the eye, you have a serious problem. Eye contact has to do with our level of comfort in a situation. If we lack eye contact, or it is sporadic, then that is usually a sign that someone is uncomfortable, whereas if someone has strong eye contact, then that usually means that they are comfortable. And, plus, if a woman likes you, she will look at you and probably won’t be able to take her eyes off of you.
Do you guys have any questions yet? No, well when you do, don’t forget to leave them in the comments below.
Ok, the fifth sign that tells you that you should abort the mission is if she puts no effort into her looks. Most of the time, women will dress up for any situation where the two of you are hanging out. It is a way for her to show you that she is interested in you without having to say it. So if she is putting little to no effort in, I think you have entered the friend zone, my friend.

[@peterpedant]

I cant believe that if she's making out with someone else it means that she is not into me. Im shocked!

[@KateSpring]

Hard to believe, no?

[@sour3000]

Sarcasm! 😂

[@mo7med_oleiwi]

هههههههههه nice one

[@mikeandmars2345]

Tweet Protocol 😂😂😂s.m.h

[@etinarcadiaego7424]

Tweet Protocol Walks up to girlfriend making out with a guy. "Does this mean you are not that into me." Walks up to girlfriend making out with another woman "I know you're not that into me, but can I watch?"

[@robstefani9853]

She not only ghosts you, but she only initiates contact when she needs something.

[@MohamedAliGaashaan]

sounds familiar

[@sidhharthgupta5772]

Right Bro.

[@GoaWay4Sanity]

Rob Stefani ⬅️ yeeeep! females don’t like you or love you but loves what you can do for her/what you provide!

[@halo091]

Some of them are actually shy though so not all

[@izzy6583]

Rob Stefani why does girls say “ damn” , “ good” , “nice “ they always have the boring ass conversation

[@robertcollins5307]

I have more respect for a woman say she not interested because I'm ugly, then a woman say she wants a date then ghost me!!

[@KateSpring]

It sucks I know, and I'm totally against ghosting too Robert!

[@robertcollins5307]

Kate Spring Thank you ! I'm sure guys ghost too, I think it's a weakness in character to just ghost someone, just prefer a brutal rejection over lies and false hope :) I know is good people in this world too but there usually taken for a reason !! :)

[@slimmeek9410]

Robert Collins Yeah, she would rather hurt me honestly, than mislead me with a lie.

[@reginaldmurdock7630]

Robert Collins True. I much rather be told straight out then to deal with all of these games

[@julianator8991]

Same

[@billpower4885]

HAS a restraining order against you. Somewhat of a hint.

[@KateSpring]

Maybe not that subtle too.

[@Geewunner4life]

Bill Power spits in your face after kicking you in the nuts and tazering you. Somewhat of a hint.

[@billpower4885]

Botg1-originality,not your strong suit

[@truthdetector4036]

botG1head that could also be a sign of flirting Kate might say

[@enterobiousvermicularis4937]

Bill Power I'm dead!😂

[@bajikimran2304]

When a woman ignores a man that should be plenty enough to make him forget her and move on. So why do so many men hang around? Probably because so many Hollywood movies have that infamous scenario where the woman has no interest in the man but he hangs around until he wins her over. That's not the real world. I only know of one situation where a woman couldn't stand a man but relented and wound up marrying him. So guys, ignore the movies, take a cue and go find someone else.

[@KateSpring]

I agree with you Baji! If she's not interested, look for someone else. There are plenty of good women out there if you're willing to widen your horizon :-)

[@KentPetersonmoney]

Baji Kimran I use to think if I hang around and got her to get to know the real me then she'd start liking me but shit don't work that way. Most girls never will get to see what a cool boyfriend I can be.

[@Skate4fooood]

Mainstream social conditioning literally tells men to be the "nice" guy and wait around when in reality that doesn't spark any emotion in women. So when a women "settles" for a "nice" guy (because society told her to) she isn't happy and eventually resentment can occur. Moral of the story: social conditioning is the worst.

[@SandwichDoctorZ]

Mark and guys like me grew up being told to be "gentlemen" and got set up to fail.

[@mikeandmars2345]

Baji Kimran hate to say it but u Right

[@sirtype-alot3391]

When she avoids eye contact with you,when you are sitting next to her and her legs/knees are pointed away from you,she yawns in front if you alot...always on her smartphone,her eyes light up when other guys walk by...She doesnt return your calls and texts as often,sounds bored on the phone...these are some basic signs

[@jorgeanner8577]

These are on point

[@johnwhodat8135]

My wife has all 6 signs towards me. Lol

[@KateSpring]

I have a married friend who says the same thing too. Pretty hilarious! Hahaha :-)

[@fahrudincatic7363]

You need to upgrade to new and better wife

[@michaelatelcy187]

John Whodat 💀💀💀

[@acharich]

💀💀💀💀💀

[@holo6883]

Just take a marriage+ premium membership for the small price of all of your organs

[@wolfsleigher4933]

Kate you're dressing up for the videos and looking super good. that must mean you're in to me right?

[@IXSuperRadGamerXI]

😂😂😂

[@sourdizzle8396]

Or maybe she's not introducing you to her friends cause she's married 😂

[@KateSpring]

Hahaha There is that possibility...

[@savagevideos7521]

Kate Spring What if you know her friends?

[@aaronsivasothy5587]

Or she just wants it to be fwb ...

[@archangele1]

Yep, been there. Nothing like being the 'other guy'..

[@Peristerygr]

Νοwdays not realy a valid reason as adultery considered normal and barely anyone would even try to inform the cheated husband because not his business, friendship egalitarianism or omerta -friend has lover too. Also rarely the lover is someone stranger or out of the person's cycles .

[@MrThatone35]

this lady kate spring is dope the way shes looking out for guys

[@KateSpring]

Just doing what I can to help. Thanks for your support! ;)

[@MrThatone35]

Kate Spring i subscribed

[@abhinavjain84]

I agree.. she's straight to the point and no bullshit time wasting lines.

[@kevinecheverria4703]

She help me the partner I had a lot of this sign that she is talking about. You help me understand and realize she wasn't the right person for me.

[@acharich]

✊🏾

[@tzarnikolov]

If girls or in general humans r as direct and decisive as u, this would be a much nicer world

[@KateSpring]

There's definitely plenty of room in the world for more straightforward people :-)

[@tzarnikolov]

33Chapter never

[@sifugurusensei]

@@KateSpring i didnt get along with my father but when he was younger he was brutally honest with everybody. It's not a very typical thing for Japanese people. Just for that I respected him and lately that's the route I've been aiming for. It's tremendously hard, but truth sets you free. If I hurt somebody's feelings, it's not really my responsibility to make that person feel better. If I don't like someone, I let that be known as well. You gotta weed certain people out of your life cuz most people are just nothing but obstacle in your goals. You gotta weed people out. Ghosting is shit and makes the receiver of that horseshit feel worse than a straight up rejection.

[@ScribbleVicious]

Met a girl online and we hit it off immediately. We had a lot of the same interests. She blew up my phone for days until we were actually free to meet. She was excited to meet me in person, she spent 2 hours getting ready. She was on my Facebook and saw all my pics. We went out for drinks. We laughed and had a good time, well so I thought lol. We kissed at the end of the date. She was texting me before I made it home saying she had a good time, that I checked all the boxes that she was looking for, that I am handsome and charming. She texted me the whole next day, then ghosted me. I didn’t say anything wrong or weird. The only thing I can think of is that I’m a good guy. She told me she has always been treated horribly by men and wouldn’t know what to do if someone treated her right. I guess she didn’t know what to do lol. I was nice to her and she dipped 2 days later. I texted her twice and got no reply. That’s it for me. Got other dates this weekend, but I would have like a couple more dates to see how it went with her. She probably saved me a lot of trouble though.

[@tuanang7889]

lurking over these comments and found yours, this is exactly what is happening to me right now.

[@ibanezbassist7653]

Seriously what the fuck is wrong with woman dude it sucks for us if you're normally a nice person, its like a burden being ourselves and its a struggle in itself

[@gandietaylor3288]

Her x called her and got her attention

[@bigcee5702]

This sounds like what I'm dealing with unfortunately

[@KateSpring]

I'm sorry to hear that... but keep looking!

[@justoldog]

Usually, when they recoil in horror and run away from me, I consider that some sort of sign.

[@danbasta3677]

Happened to me too many times in my life. That's why I don't bother with them let alone trust them at all.

[@n.m.3760]

What's worse is when she ghosts you and then comes back weeks later with a weak excuse. I don't respond. I'm not a "backup".

[@KateSpring]

Good for you for standing your ground. Knowing your worth is an attractive trait!

[@p.stephen5032]

Ghosting! Omg yes 😑

[@KateSpring]

Yeah... it's horrible!

[@p.stephen5032]

Kate Spring I have the upmost respect for the woman that tells me they're not interested, instead of just ignoring me. Unfortunately, I've yet to meet such woman.

[@KateSpring]

I'm sorry to hear about your experience. But I'm sure you'll find the right one along the way. Hang in there, okay? :-)

[@p.stephen5032]

Kate Spring Nah. I just ordered a blow up doll. I call her Daphne.

[@jimmymax8014]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA

[@kingmidas704]

Darn! 4 out 6, guess I need to stop trying so hard. Thanks for the video. I needed this. Thank you.

[@KateSpring]

Glad to know this has helped you. No worries though, that sounds better than 5 out of 6, don't you think? ;)

[@huypham2911]

Ghosting! R.I.P boys! 🤧😪

[@Gguy061]

She's laughing and having a good time when I'm around her. She's usually happy to see me. She deleted her facebook, and when she made a new profile, she told me to make sure to accept her friend request. She was excited to give me her number...then, nothing. She ignores my texts. Later, I got shot down when I tried breaking the touch barrier. It was just lightly squeezing her arm to feel her muscle. I dunno. I just dunno anymore. Do you have any peace of mind to spare?

[@KateSpring]

Hey Alcaeus89! She's probably quite comfortable around you. That's a good thing. But if you feel her tense up when you try to touch her, then give her a little space and then try again after a while. You have to take things slow... but the point is you have to start somewhere. Start with briefly brushing her shoulder or knee. Then you can work your way from there :-)

[@saif9amar417]

shavingculture 😉😂

[@Aroselli1]

Let the woman touch you first. Before you initiate touching. 2 steps forward one step back. If she pulls away when you initiate physically it means you need to back off, and let her come to you. When she begins to touch you again, it indicates she is ready to be touched again. It sounds like this girl isn't really interested and is stringing you along for validation without any physical commitment, or extremely confused about her feelings/has a bunch of guys in the background. You might be her 3rd or her 4th option. Sounds like a headache, sounds like a lot of baggage. It's 7 months down the road now so I'm sure your already out of that situation.

[@kylejdahl5358]

She's crazy....or you are 1 of 5.

[@acharich]

@HUB GOBLIN 😅😅😅 possibly a rebound indeed, or post traumatic stress.....

[@juanpablovaldescontreras7267]

"I think you've entered the Friendzone my friend" Wow...double friendzoned hahahah jk I love your videos. They've helped me a lot on to be who I am at any time :D

[@KateSpring]

Glad to hear it _my friend!_ 😉

[@tylerblevins7921]

This boosted my confidence and made me smile

[@DaveEye65]

Why is it that women don’t ‘just say it’? Are they afraid we’ll interpret that as too aggressive/desperate? I’ve always really admired women who ‘just say it’!

[@bardeenganjeh4777]

This girl seems like she's interested, though it also seems like she isn't. I'm getting mixed signals and don't know what to do

[@danieljensen2631]

Oh shit!!!! You’ve described everything that I have noticed!

[@KateSpring]

Oh man, tough luck there Daniel. But hey, look on the bright side. Maybe you can finally start moving on and stop wasting your time if she's not the one for you right? :-)

[@justinthomas6539]

Hi. I met a girl on Tinder a few months back. Things were going great. Great first date. We started hanging out. All of sudden she goes rogue. Don’t hear from her for 2 weeks. Then she’s back. It’s all great. She even came to get me from the airport. Haven’t seen her in 2 weeks. She has brief or no text responses. The thing I don’t get is this girl talked a lot wanting kids and a life with me. I really believed her. We had such a great time together. I’m just so confused. She leaves for a few days to go visit some fiends I’ve never met and everything changes. What is up with that???

[@KateSpring]

Tough spot you're in Justin, but I think you should just tuck her into your "almost there" folder, and think about moving on. There's really no point in overthinking about it as she might not be *that* interested with you as she says she is. If you hear from her, great! Have fun and enjoy! If you don't, well then just shrug it off. Last thing you'd want is letting this get into your head when it's supposed to be *her* who should be feeling this way. Try going out with someone else. Maybe seeing you with another girl would make her think twice about ghosting you again. Good luck! 😉

[@stevebaer50]

There's a young lady who always making eye contact with me, she at times put her arms around me. If I am just sitting at college and she comes up to me starting a conversation with me. She always wants to know if I feel miserable and low. She wants to know why? She is always concerned about my being and my thoughts. She gave me her number and her messages are short but when I don't reply to her messages. She wants to know if I am mad at her at the college. I have given her sweets and she took them but never given me nothing in return. She tells me her life story all of the time.

[@iiii6784]

Nice video! Can you ever make a video about how to know a really flirty girl likes you?

[@albertgrant6670]

once again very ptactical advice.

[@KateSpring]

Hey Nick! If she gives you more attention in a group setting, then she's probably really into you. Another thing to look for is eye contact. If she looks at you a lot, then go for it! ;)

[@KateSpring]

Thank you Albert!

[@uwannakatana3990]

Kate Spring hey i have a question so this girl ive been seeing she doesnt make eye contact very much with me and reading her body language says she is uncomfortable but over text she tells me she does like me and that she is nervous around me is this a good thing??

[@GramoChopin]

I had that situation at work before. She isn't sincere. It's only to entertain her own ego. Aka she doesn't give af about you . She might tell u what u wanna hear but do u wanna be involved with a flirtatious thot that is normally like that with every guy? She will cheat on you quick, just pump and dump if u have too. And play along but never give a fuck about her either or commit.

[@eriku571]

I like your videos Kate, but l haven't found some on starting, having, and holding a first conversation with a woman in a busy environment. In my case it's a Ballroom dance studio. I meet women of interest, but lack the social confidence to really get their attention beyond just dancing. I've recently thought that l could lead a woman of interest to a quieter area of the studio to sit next to each other to talk, since l am 6'4". This is where l am at now. Do you have any suggestions?

[@KateSpring]

Hey Erik! This video about mastering small talk might be helpful in your case, but the one important advice I'd like you to remember is to be yourself. A temporary built-up confidence will do you no good. Women can absolutely tell if you're just trying to fake it so you can impress her. Just relax, have fun, and most all, keep it real! Here's that video I mentioned: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bZaqg3qBaZ2GmZo

[@thepufferfish7115]

I don't know about this one girl. She shows all the signs she likes me in person but she takes forever to text back

[@KateSpring]

Maybe she's just not the texting type. I'd say take the chance and go ask her out!

[@jeffguzman6497]

Girl likes me but doesn’t want a relationship. She says she only wants “something chill”. Today she texted me asking why I haven’t been texting her, thought I was playing her and said she’s not ready for anything serious but wants to be friends. So I agreed and she got mad blaming me for playing her because I wanted to be friends? What’s she mean? What do I do & why’s she like this ?

[@KateSpring]

This means only one thing Jeff. Friend Zone. Yeah, I know it sucks. Got a video right here on how to escape it so watch it as soon as you can! kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKbSZq2th8pmo80

[@jeffguzman6497]

Kate Spring she played me. Broke it off and had a new guy next morning. I’m so hurt.

[@jeffguzman6497]

Should I text her in a few months ? I don’t think she’ll text me. She’s the type to date new guys all the time

[@jeffguzman6497]

I’m so scared to trust girls now.

[@jeffguzman6497]

Feelfreetosayhi I found a new girl who is way cuter and super cool. Makes my ex look like nothing 😂😂🤷🏽‍♂️

[@samuelsaman9868]

Thank you for the video, Kate Spring, I've been struggling with spotting the signs if she's into me or not and recognizing the body language.

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome Samuel! Might take you a while, but it should be a breeze once you get used to it. Good luck!

[@zozoevilishere6381]

Hey kate, I have been texting a girl who one day she's texts me in the morning about 1130 am then the next day she ghosted me the whole day. so the next day she texts me about 3 pm and acted like it was no big deal. should I move on?

[@KateSpring]

Maybe there was a reason why she couldn't get back to you that day? Don't make a big deal out of it if it only happened just once, though if she keeps doing it then that's a clear sign for you to move on.

[@skialarmahar6991]

What if the woman just has bad anxiety and just gets nervous, therefore explaining why she's ghosting and avoiding certain situations?

[@KateSpring]

Then it's really up to you if her explanation is good enough for you to take all that Skialar. I mean, if she's got an understandable reason behind it, why not give it a shot?

[@skialarmahar6991]

Kate Spring Thank you, that's good advice.

[@christophermonces9551]

In other words, leave the women in the world alone, leave it in God's hands at ALL times. Treat it like a sacred golden rule!

[@the0rangekind]

?? are you referring to when a woman has rejected you? Then yes, this is a good rule. Move on if they have rejected you. But it doesn't mean to stop trying to talk or socialize.

[@KianoUyMOOP]

But you still should do something, not wholly live a predestined life.

[@garyp411]

i did, didnt work

[@erikseidler133]

What does that even mean?

[@nopeengi1619]

God won't help you if you dont do shit first

[@cmf22281]

Hey Kate. If a woman says she's torn between two men, what would be the best way for one man to win her heart? Scenerio: Guy 1: was engaged then she broke it off a month before the wedding. The reason: She wasn't"in love" but loved him for the man that he is. And was trying to fall back in the deep love they had before. She hadn't seen guy 2 since she told him she was to get married. Then all of a sudden she says that's where heart lies. Guy 2: guy 2 had been seeing the girl off and on over the course ofva year. Because he was in a relationship. She didn't see it progressing. However, while her and guy 1 were on vacation. He decides to tell her he kicked his then girlfriend out. Now, she's in love with him. Sorry this so long. But what advice can you give, to either guy, so one of the guys can come out ahead?!?? Thank you for your time.

[@viralencore85]

How would you be texting someone who isn't interested in you? Why would they give you their number?

[@paulcooper5748]

Can you tell me whats going on in this situation i went to one of my many opponitments at a hospital i usualy go the woman that i see there i was talking to her just ingeneral conversation anyway as i got dressed and turned around she was just staring at me like she was hypnatised or something and i notced her pupils were dilated which kind of freaked me out alittle because it caught me by surprise i wasnt expecting to see that anyway we locked eyes for what seemed a very long time neither one of us looked away then at some stage i thought il say something to break the stare so i asked her a question in which she continued to stare and more intensly before answering the question but also mentioning she has a boyfriend it was strange i would appreachiate any input of what you thing is going on there why stare at someone like that and then mention having a boyfriend.

[@KateSpring]

It does sound a bit weird, but it's most likely just casual flirting. It's a positive sign that might have more meaning into it, but you're better off not wasting your time and move on.

[@CountRavenbeak]

What if she shows signs of attraction and otherwise signs there could be no interest? Do the signs of non interest weigh heavier than those of attraction?

[@KateSpring]

Positive signs trump the negative ones. Most of the time, it's the fear of rejection that makes men think that the negative signs far outweigh the positive, which will make them take the _"playing it safe"_ approach.

[@petethompson5139]

there is this girl that works at a store down the street from my house. i go in there all the time to buy food since its close. she would always say hi hi hi made me feel uneasy. i go in there to buy food and the guy behind the meat counter over charged me . i told her about it and it was fixed. i go in there now she pretends like im not there. i was nice as could since i woked retail before. now the hi and smiling stopped, what did i do wrong she went from nice to mean to me over night what to do

[@KateSpring]

Maybe the whole "overcharging" incident caused this. She probably didn't want to be dragged into it? Asking her about it won't hurt though Pete. Just a casual "Hey, what happened to that friendly and beautiful girl who used to always say hi?" will probably do the trick ;)

[@petethompson5139]

hi kate spring thank you so much for taking the time to write me back ill do this next time i go in there thx

[@darrenkrock736]

The woman I am speaking to has me confused as hell. Good: She establishes eye contact when we converse. She asked for me to call her and voluntarily gave her number. She always notices me when I walk in the room She said "Sure. Yeh. Ok" when i asked if we could chat more over dinner after she gets out of work. The bad: She ignores my texts She flakes when we make plans She doesn't ask me questions about myself. I've noticed I have to keep the conversation going while she says the bare minimum. I would rather a woman be honest with me when she rejects me, instead of playing games and ghosting me. Confused as hell. Help!

[@KateSpring]

It sure looks like the negative outweighs the positive signs. I suggest you go try and ask her out one more time. Make sure there's little room for excuse for her to bail out. If she does or say, maybe ghosts you again, it's time for you to take the hint and just move on at that point. I wouldn't want you to waste your time and efforts with a dead-end Darren. Hoping for the best for you!

[@bestestinventions7032]

Kate i think sometimes it's perfectly good to not answer people if the conversation is not worth continuing. Silence is an answer.

[@usmanmukaddam8842]

Hi My name is Usman and I wanna ask that there's this girl in my class basically she's a nerd but she's too cute and I haven't talked to her due to hesitation since the first day of my class but when I accidentally look at her she smiles back so please tell me how to approach her without hesitation?

[@KateSpring]

Pretty easy Usman! Work on your self-confidence! I know it's easier than it sounds, but the only person that's holding you back is yourself. I understand the negative side of your hesitation, but it's all about taking risks and trust me when I say you'd feel much worse if you didn't take your chance and find out that it's already too late. So *just do it*! Good luck! 😊

[@kollextesco9078]

Hi, I just started watching your videos and I love them and understand them but on til now at 3:30 you said when a girl likes you she looks at you non stop can you talk more on eye contact because I have a girl that just Sterling at me, like for minutes non stop, thanks

[@KateSpring]

What are you waiting for? Go ask her out! Good luck!

[@Wyattsarus]

Seem to be getting alot of mixed signals. She's a co-worker. 7 years older than me but doesn't act that way. Getting all the physical signs from her that shes interested. Touching, deep eye contact, playing with hair, showing neck. Gives me reasons to come visit her. We have great conversations and I have no problem making her smile and laugh. But she does ghost sometimes and hasn't offered a good time for her to hangout outside of work when asked out. She's been single for a long time and maybe she's just not sure what she thinks yet? What do you think?

[@KateSpring]

That could be a reason, yes. But by the looks of it, she's totally got you in the friend zone. I say try to keep your options open and start seeing other girls. I'm not saying you close the doors on her, but a healthy jealousy is pretty handy when used right. Maybe once she realizes she's not the only girl out there, she'd stop playing hard-to-get. If not, then you've already got a head start by seeing other women 😉

[@TheLeoGamer17]

She has a very special vibe.......Compared to many women that like to tutor to guys on how to talk to ladies but use words like creepy, weird, childish, she actually doesn't put herself or other women on a pedestal and just says it like it is-which is awesome!!! Not many women are like that nowadays......What a shame Big ups to you though Kate Spring! I wish you all the best and much success, because you truly deserve it!

[@KateSpring]

THANK YOU! CAPS LOCK FOR THIS COMMENT 'COZ I MEAN IT WHEN I SAY I APPRECIATE IT ❤

[@adesubomioshun1319]

Hey Kate Spring, i have a lot of questions and need a lot of advice. Is there any way i can talk with you privately(maybe instagram dm) case my questions are to much to type in a public comment space

[@KateSpring]

Head over to my website katespring.com and use the contact page 🙂

[@amramr-od2hk]

Hello Kate, the video is helpful but still confusing me, I dunno if she is into me or not, can you help me in the decision

[@bryanmccallum4614]

This makes perfect sense! Thank you Kate!

[@ronaldobale8201]

couple weeks back, I introduced myself to a girl and we talked about where was she from and stuff like that. Then, after that , we didn't talk anymore, but whenever we see each others in lunch, she pretend to be in her phone and not looking at me. I am not sure but I think she sometimes look at me too. So, my question is do you think she isn't interested in me or what? because I really don't understand what is going on. Please help me understand

[@drewlloyd430]

Ok so I like this girl and we ft a lot and hang out and she seems to like me and her friend says she likes me but she doesn’t like to text a lot and she doesn’t want to talk at school. I don’t want to waste to much time if it’s going nowhere. What should I do

[@KateSpring]

Tell her how you feel. You can't find the answer anywhere else but from the girl herself. You're in the endgame now Drew. Good luck!

[@airmanaw3]

Hello kate. I have had a crush on a coworker who lights up everytime she sees me. I have been getting mixed signals from her. A few months back she willingly gave me her number, (i didn't even ask for it.) i send her texts from time to time as i am not sure what to text her. We have good conversations with each and decent chemistry. So a few weeks ago i asked her i asked if she wants to go for drinks after work, her response was "...i am sorry i cant". The next day at wirk she was ignoring me, but now its back to before, where she lights up when she sees me, we laugh and have good conversations, but the chemistry doesnt appear the same. Should i continue to persue her or move on?

[@KateSpring]

I think she likes you Aaron. You may just need a little help so you can get things to another level. You should download my free eBook. Here you go! www.katespring.com/free

[@protohass]

I prefer these videos over the ones where someone is interested

[@KateSpring]

Glad to hear it. There are many telltale signs that a lot of men most often misinterpret. Knowing both positive and negative signs will definitely help you improve your game. 🙂

[@raydaniel7514]

I asked the girl I like to hangout out and the answer was yes. I use to be in her friend zone but I managed to get of it. What should I do to her have very strong feelings for me. (I think she has some feeling but not that much)!??

[@KateSpring]

Hi RAY Daniel! That's great! Now, you should build the attraction up slowly. You can't rush things or you can scare her off completely. Right now your focus should be enjoying each other's company and deepening your connection. One thing you need to remember, is that you should to listen to her. Ask her questions, get her to talk about herself and what she's passionate about.The feelings will develop naturally :-)

[@macariohernandez5247]

Kate Spring Thank you! I have a similar situation, but it's slightly less positive(to me though, so I could be wrong, maybe it is just as positive).

[@aloycekalimba312]

hello kate! please do help me with this, my girl is like sooo close with this guy whom she says tc just her friend and i shouldn't have to worry about them... so now tell me should i listen to her or this is like a warning sign already??

[@pacomermelas230]

Okay so I have this problem and I would like to know what you think , me and my girl have been dating for 10 months and lately she has been acting different she’ll be texting short and whenever I ask her why she told me that she’s busy and she doesn’t even like texting , Also every time I try to do something for her she’s like ...you’re cheesy or if I say ...hey I miss you ,she’s like okay and idk if she’s losing interest or what’s up with her , I asked her and she told me everything is fine but she hasn’t changed ...do you know what this could mean ?

[@KateSpring]

It does look like she's losing interest. This is a very common scenario with almost every relationships Paco, something you can definitely prevent from happening again. It's good that you've noticed this on it's early stages before it becomes something serious in the long run. You just need to fire up that spark again and make her feel excited whenever she's with you. I've got a video that talks about this and you'll definitely learn a lot from it. Watch it here! kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXqolIedmd2fY8U

[@danielsalazar6211]

Wow Kate, What you just said is exactly what's happening to me. I've been seeing my coworker for almost almost a year and a half. Taking her out dinner and drinks. When she messages me I drop whatever I'm doing and go. When I tell her how beautiful and sexy she looks that I find her attractive she loves it. But nothing. When I tell her that I'm tired of being alone that I should out and meet women she tells me to wait that the right girl will come to you not to go out looking for women. I tell her that I'm ready for a relationship but she tells me she likes being single and I should do the same. Not to be looking for other women. It's sad to say but I beginning to realize that all I am to her is a friend to her when she has no plans on the weekends or only wants to company when she's having drinks. I have told her that I do have feelings for her but all she has is not now it's for us being single. I don't want that Kate. I want to have a relationship with her. It's a hard pill to swallow when but I guess I will have to go and move on maybe some other women will appreciate what i offer because I know I can make them happy.

[@KateSpring]

Awww, so sorry to hear that Daniel. It's always hard when you're stuck in the friend zone. But not all is lost. Have you seen my video about escaping the friend zone yet? If not, watch it(link below) as soon as you can! kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKbSZq2th8pmo80

[@memeswereablessingfromthel3942]

So what if she's doing the oppostie of all of these but you're still preety sure she's not into you?

[@KateSpring]

Well if you're pretty sure about it then there's no reason for you to give it more thought and just move on. You're better off not wasting more of your time and go on finding someone else.

[@memeswereablessingfromthel3942]

@@KateSpring I've tried and I couldn't, before I could control it but ever since her birthday party I have literally not been able to focus on my studies, training or myself. Even though I meditate, have always been calm and been able to push down any types of emotions in the past I just can't this time. I just texted her that I need to talk to her tomorrow and whatever her response is I will come out happier, I just hope she doesn't get too sad.

[@queensguardofficial4037]

Hey, i go to a mountain with a girl and like 50 other people eacj week. I started talking with her and we have very similar intrests, and sometimes she looks at me while talking. What should i do?

[@KateSpring]

Keep talking to her! And when you find a good chance, ask her out. Just the two of you ;)

[@Gman6755]

You are so right on the texting comments! Ghosting and short answers, damn! I must have been blind not to see it early on. Oh well, live and learn about women.. Love your videos!

[@KateSpring]

Live and learn... I like that :-) As long as you're open to learning new things, there's no limit to how much you can improve yourself. Thanks for the feedback!

[@Walshy1Jojo]

This is gold. So clear, concise and direct.

[@nikhilmhatre9226]

hii kate, i have crush on someone but we meet just 2 weeks before,we communicate face to face for couple of times,she sounds to be comfortable at first but whenever i talk about meeting sometime later she always said that shes too busy,is she avoiding me?

[@KateSpring]

She might actually be busy on those times you've asked Nikhil. How about asking her when she's available? ;)

[@nikhilmhatre9226]

well can it possible that she have boyfriend?

[@shahrukhbaig330]

Ok I'm confused. Cuz I see half of these signs n half of these don't in the girl I'm seeing.

[@brianjake9454]

Hey,I've got a situation.. so I have this ex girlfriend who we broke up like an year ago and I tried to get her back but she said she has a boyfriend,I let her go but after some months aroundDecember she texted and we linked up but then went along mute again for months.. two weeks ago she texted asking me to help her find a good quality TV which I did and later asked if we could hang out next weekend and she agreed though she strictly suggesting if I bring up relationship issues she'll ghost again.. should I invest any feelings or is there any hope in this?

[@KateSpring]

Nah, I think you're better off moving on Brian. As much as I'd love for you to get your ex back(if you still want her), I also don't want you to waste time and effort chasing her around. I'm not saying there's no hope at all but you deserve someone who appreciates you so I suggest you give it an extra thought if you're planning to give it a go with her again ;)

[@brianjake9454]

Kate Spring Thanks for replying,I've watched almost all your videos and I'm getting some signs from some video you did,I never stopped thinking about my ex even after I tried it out with other chicks,.. so since that day we linked up,I was looking way good btw.. she has been texting me up first but making sure there's a reason for texting like *hey,the TV is working okay just need some aerial stuff but I ll buy*.. laughing alot on phone calls instead of being serious like when she was mad at me for whatever mistake I did.. You still suggest I should move on? You the pro here

[@joe36026]

I have a question Kate what if you text your Crush and she text you the next day or if she text you late?

[@KateSpring]

That means she knows her business Joe. I've talked about this topic on this video, so watch it as soon as you can to know more! kzbin.info/www/bejne/i33EaYevbpV8nbc

[@kingwzard818]

Hey Kate, there’s a girl I’ve known my whole life pretty much and I have strong feelings for her. She’s very passive when I text her now but she always responds. She’s friends with my cousin and whenever she comes over with her in a group setting she’s gets flirty and playful with me. I catch her looking and listening to the little things I like. But I’ve never taken it to that sexual tension flirting stage cause I don’t want to treat her like every other girl. As of late she stop being friends with my cousin and I never see her now.I was wondering if you think I have a chance or if I’m in stuck in limbo and just forget about her lol...thanks

[@KateSpring]

I think you still have a shot. But it's about time you asked her out :-)

[@davidromancelly]

Did anyone notice at 2:43 she said “get any girl you want and keep her interested” but the point of this video is to know the signs of when she’s not interested. So therefore if she shows the signs she’s not interested because she’s not attracted to you there’s no way it’s possible to get every girl to like you

[@KateSpring]

Except that the statement is actually about The Attraction Handbook that I mentioned a few seconds earlier, not about the video. Nice try though 😉

[@davidromancelly]

Kate Spring hhmm, that’s interesting. I certainly wasn’t expecting a response. Thank you Kate 🙂

[@stevebaer50]

She always listen to me and I asked her out and she said she would want to be friends with me.

[@KateSpring]

Friend zone alert! Watch this video to escape it Steve! kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKbSZq2th8pmo80

[@bman2cool4u68]

Ghosting happens to me with every single girl I text on dating sites, all I ask is what kind of hobbies they have. It's like if your not interested just say so.

[@KateSpring]

It sucks when that happens, I know. There are times when it's unavoidable like when maybe she's busy or anything but if you notice she's been ghosting you a lot and out of nowhere, then I think you should just stop wasting your time and move on.

[@bman2cool4u68]

@@KateSpring sad thing is that it's not one specific girl, I just talk once to each girl who I think might be interesting.

[@Kennedaddy]

Me and this girl met in summer of 2017 and we’ve been good friends. She comes over to my house a lot, I make her laugh a lot, and she even got me a Christmas gift. When me and her being a thing is brought up in a conversation among friends she says something along the lines of “uhh no, haha.” She’s also taken super long to get back to me some days, and we have hardly ever make physical contact. Whenever she comes over or we go out to get ice cream or something she does dress up. I really like her but I don’t wanna ask her out and then we like stop taking

[@KateSpring]

I'm sorry to say this, but you're probably in the friendzone. I have a video that can help you get out before it's too late. Here you go! kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKbSZq2th8pmo80

[@siediman420]

now i am even more confused about wheter this one girl is into me or not

[@acharya.11011]

Hey kate thanks that you replied. She lives in a rent house near by my home studying something. whenever we cross paths she gives an innocent look to me. So how should I approach her with keeping my self respect.

[@KateSpring]

It won't cost you your self-respect to approach her Raktim. Just give her a nice smile and say hello :-)

[@justinrvarga7236]

I still have friends both male and female that take ghosting as a serious insult 😂. Who cares???? There are tens of thousands of great people out there. Sooner someone ghosts or tells you there not interested the better. The sooner you find the right partner and your time is not wasted but that’s the thing we can’t buy time.

[@ryandeffley7652]

A very basic test I run when I first start talking to a woman is making an open ended statement. If she's remotely interested, she'll want details. For example: Her : How was your weekend? Me : It was great. Especially Sun! **If she's the least bit curious she'll want to know about Sunday. If not she'll change the subject back to her. It sounds so simple on paper. But you'd be amazed at how many women ignore basic social cues and put no effort into conversation.

[@KateSpring]

Great tip Ryan. Thanks for sharing!👍

[@RIPHS23]

hey how do you know if a girl likes you when she is super flirty in person but hardly snaps me first. I can snap her and get a good convo going but she rarely snaps me first, and we have a streak!

[@itsminas6489]

I have no any idea... She has got a boyfriend and post photos on social media... We had few talks too... But what do i do further????

[@KateSpring]

Got a video for this specific scenario. Check it out at kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqaVaqBsiseMiac

[@johnnyboyyyyy]

I was ghosted pretty hard after a girl told me she was genuinely interested in me. I think she was trying to tell me what I wanted to hear, then ran the other way. Pretty crappy move, but, her loss!

[@KateSpring]

You got the right attitude by not chasing her but we never know what the future holds or what her reason is so don't close the doors just yet John 😉

[@johnnyboyyyyy]

Kate Spring even though it went on for two months? I knew her for several months before trying to start an intentional dating friendship. Doesn’t seem fair.

[@Imhotep397]

Kate, can you give any advice on reading women that are struggling with mental disorders (depression/schizophrenia) and/or are victims of rape? A lot of times guys view these women as "defective"...I don't view them as defective, but it seems they will have the same kinds of responses as women that want to reject you, but warm up later. Is there a way to tell the difference in these kinds of case between lack of interest and fear motivated by past trauma and/or issues beyond the woman's control?

[@renzoquiroga1]

Great way to sum it up! I really appreciate the upfront and factual approach in life in general. By the way your eyes are out of this world.

[@KateSpring]

Thank you Renzo! 😍

[@renzoquiroga1]

Anytime! By the way I added you on LinkedIn... I’m intrigued with your content now.

[@saadmahmood5396]

hey kate, should you tell your partner about your past relationships, or just say no relationships?

[@KateSpring]

I don't see any reason why you should hide your past relationships Saad. Being honest with your partner is a good foundation to any strong relationships 😉

[@andromedagalaxynebula5751]

Help me with this. I recently hung out with a female friend. We took a long walk to the beach but we didn't have much of a conversation. We barely talked and had long awkward pauses. We just walked to the beach and back. That was it. There are some girls I meet that love to talk and I like that but she was not. It was more like asking questions back and forth that having a conversation. How can I get women in general (friends or women I like) to invest more into the conversation?

[@KateSpring]

I have a video about mastering small talks and controlling the conversation which I think would really help you. Watch it here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bZaqg3qBaZ2GmZo

[@andromedagalaxynebula5751]

@@KateSpring wow thank you

[@stanko36]

Hi Kate Spring could you please help me? I am into a girl but I’m not sure if she likes me. Like to hear back from u

[@ameensh2439]

Quick question.. what if the girl responds and you guys hangout and sometimes even train together.. how can you tell whether you're friend zoned or she likes you? It can be confusing sometimes

[@KateSpring]

You can't just simply assume you're in the friend zone Ameen. You need to make your move to know if she actually likes you or if she'd just rather have you as a friend. Then you'd know if you're in the friend zone or not.

[@keyarsworld9104]

hi Kate your video is very useful and practical. I have questions for u. one of the girl keep talking about me to my colleagues every day but when I ask her what she is talking about me she is not replying. I can't find an answer for this . is this type of girl interested in me or she just passing time.

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome! Well... how's her body language? Does she give you a lot of eye contact?

[@keyarsworld9104]

Thank u kate for replying. Yes occasionally she gives. she care little about me. but she is not openly talk to me she skip when ask about anything happen or avoid me if ask . But I care lot for her. I even thought of telling some colleagues see her wrong way but she is talking with them only. I don't know she knew about this and behave like that or fake things up. we are surrounded by colleagues

[@KateSpring]

Hmmm. Then maybe you should initiate a conversation with her :-) Ask her what she likes, and ask her some more.

[@keyarsworld9104]

Thank you Kate I will try to ask her about me

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome! Enjoy! ;)

[@goebann4856]

I have no idea if a certain girl is into me or not. I noticed many things but these could be interpreted incorrectly. I'm at a loss. I have no idea how to find out if she likes me or not.

[@KateSpring]

This video's like, the opposite side of what you just watched, but I hope it helps you shed some light on your situation Goe. Good luck! kzbin.info/www/bejne/pGiQYWyObsZ-nZo

[@SkateboardingMotivator]

just found this channel, kate seems cool, I like the advice, seems like rocket science but it all helps, subbed right away

[@KateSpring]

I'm glad you found my channel helpful Mondo. Thanks for subscribing! I have more videos coming up, so you won't regret it ;)

[@danrhone9756]

Well said Kate. I need some advice in a worse way but I can always listen

[@KateSpring]

You can always look at the positive side Dan. At least now you can pretty much figure out if it's time to move on ;) Good luck!

[@sirtobias]

What about if she always makes an excuse when you ask her to come out but you still text regularly

[@KateSpring]

I think you should stop texting her for a few days and then try asking again :-)

[@KefkaTheDeathJester]

Hey so found your video and very informative gotta say. However I don't know if this lady likes me or not. We both work at the same job I think she's cute and would of course like to ask her out. Although she does hold eye contact and a full conversation about a lot of non work related topics. I still don't know if that is a green light or if it's just her way of being nice. A lot of times she comes near me for whatever reason either for help, getting food for lunch, or just randomly. Still don't know if she's just being nonchalant or just nice. Edit: Forgot to add that while we walk together within the workplace- she'll talk to other male coworkers jokingly about whatever topic but not in a flirty way from what I've seen. Some of my jokes aren't all that funny but she still laughs and gets the giggles. Also I asked if her friend (who's a guy that I know of) might be related to her- she said "no we are just friends" in that oh no it's nothing more than that type of tone. Apologies for the paragraphs just trying to see if it's all in my head so I can save myself the time.

[@KateSpring]

It's totally understandable if you'd like to play it safe before asking her out considering you're workmates. I personally know how awkward that can be.You can watch this video to see if you can spot a few more positive signs and if you do, then give it a shot! kzbin.info/www/bejne/pGiQYWyObsZ-nZo

[@theYguy300]

Yeah I've been trying to come to terms about this girl I work with who seemed like a very good option: Not into herself, kind, funny, outgoing, and quite honestly she didn't put a lot of effort into her appearance when we first met, but showed mixed signals. We even had a 2nd hangout/date planned and when I mentioned her getting me that time (I paid for her the 1st time), she laughed at that. Needless to say I backed off a little and tried coming back. I have her number, wanted to call, she's busy. So more and more, I think yeah she isn't interested. I really do need to move on

[@KateSpring]

You actually did great AJ! Backing off and biding your time is a lot better than pushing yourself too much to the point where you look desperate and needy. You don't want to overstay your welcome, no matter how small your chance is.

[@senorsneaky8590]

Ok there's this girl at work that I think might be into me. She's crazy sweet but seems to also be sweet to everyone. That being said she has on multiple occasions found reasons to touch me or get my attention. Sometimes when I'm working I turn around and notice that she's staring at me. I'm very tempted to ask her out but here lies my problem. She told me when we first met that she had just gotten out of a long term relationship that ended badly so the last thing I want to do is take advantage of someone who might be emotionally vulnerable. Plus other guys at work have asked her out and have been shot down. She could just be a girl looking for a good friend which I'm cool with but if there is even a remote possibility that I could have a chance with her I don't want to miss it. This girls signals are all over the place and not knowing where I stand is driving me a bit bonkers.

[@KateSpring]

If you don't want to miss your chance then why haven't you told her yet? It sounds like your fear of getting rejected is the one that's holding you back more than not wanting to take advantage of her. Just go and ask her out before someone beats you to it!

[@scottg518]

Your videos make so much sense. My issue at the moment is I am interested in someone and they are giving me mixed signals. I get one word text responses and ghosting, but when we are together we have great eye contact, she dresses up when we're together, and she even asks me out to do things. So confused! Any thoughts?

[@KateSpring]

Hmmm. She probably likes you and is playing a little hard to get. I suggest you keep meeting and flirting with her.

[@karthikk4731]

This is a typical one . the matter is that she used to like me more than anyone in my class and she used to even call me with some nick name . but all of sudden she stop avoiding me like anything , she doesn't even replay to my message too . may I know why she is doing like that .? but I am sure that I didn't do anything that hurted her .

[@KateSpring]

It doesn't take rocket science to figure out she's lost interest with you Karthik. You can watch this video on how to avoid it from happening again: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXqolIedmd2fY8U

[@alshiram6484]

Does it mean game over when a girl u like opens your snap on snapchat but doesn't reply? If not what should I do next? Haven't seen this girl in a while though so I probably missed my chance (please tell me I didn't though hahah)- and I didn't wanna snap her again because I didn't wanna seem "needy"

[@KateSpring]

That doesn't mean game over for you Al Shiram. But yeah... don't try again too soon or you will give off the impression of being needy. Give it a few days at least before you try to contact her again. By the way, you should check out my free eBook. I think you'll find it extra helpful. Here you go! www.katespring.com/free

[@alshiram6484]

Kate Spring will check it out, thanks! Also what should I say in the snapchat because she ignored the "hi what's up". What do you recommend I do as a next step?

[@ranshikahettiarachchi1735]

What if she used to flirt when texting,and after some time she kinda trying to neglect.

[@KateSpring]

That means she's losing interest Ranshika. This is a common scenario when women don't find it exciting as it used to be. I've got a video that explains why this happens so you better watch it to make sure it won't happen again! You can watch it here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aXqolIedmd2fY8U

[@connorjones9314]

Hey Kate good video I'm also new subscriber to this channel my situation I'm at the stage where I'm talking to my ex after being apart for 7 months so far think signs looking good and met up a few times casually but I want to take it to next level of getting back with her Question is what is the best approach to convince my ex to thinking of giving a new relationship another go thanks Kate

[@KateSpring]

Thanks for subscribing Connor! Since you're already starting to reconnect with your ex, keep meeting her every now and then. Have some fun with her, keep the atmosphere light. You can even flirt a little. You shouldn't bring up the subject of getting back together though. What you should do is help her arrive at the conclusion that you are great together and make her want you back. That would be the most effective strategy in your situation :-)

[@cayr7745]

I'm sorry I didn't find this when I could use it. Amazing. Thank you!

[@3214mike]

Hey Kate, what if I’ve known a girl for years and suddenly meet up with her and hadn’t connected in years, had a great conversation and says hey let’s hangout and gives me her number then ghosts me? Probably not interested right

[@KateSpring]

I wouldn't dismiss it right away. She's the one who invited you to hangout and gave her number after all. There's probably a reason why she ghosted you but if she did it a couple of times already, then yeah, I think it's time to take the hint.

[@3214mike]

Thank you Kate! I kinda feel like there is a reason also, and all in all I think I did get the hint because I didn’t try getting her number or reconnecting in anyways more of just a catch up conversation, and all of a sudden she asked for socials and asked to put her number in my phone, I was more like okay awesome! And then getting ghosted I was just more of confused I guess. It’s been more than twice that I got ghosted, first couple times she did text back but vaguely, not sure where to go with it because I have had a crush on her for years lol

[@3214mike]

How should I go about it, just let it be

[@RandomVideos4U]

If someone is on the edge how do you know they are? Also how do you know she’s flirting and not really friendly?

[@KateSpring]

If she's overly touchy, chances are she's probably flirting with you ;)

[@RandomVideos4U]

Kate Spring okay, I’ll keep that in mind! Thankyou! Also congrats on your commitment to the channel, I love how you genuinely have taken the time to reply. Keep it up!

[@KateSpring]

You're welcome! And good luck!

[@arc7744]

There is a girl in my class who I’m very attracted to. When I look her way she looks back at me. I tried to say something when she came in to class but she quickly left the room before I could say something. What does all that mean?

[@KateSpring]

Does this happen everytime? If not, then try again and make sure you've got a better timing next time you do. She probably had to go somewhere urgent at that time 😉

[@ftaveras81]

Well. I spend a lot of time with this woman. I know her family and we talk all the time. We hold hands while driving. Or i can leave my hand on her leg while driving. If I don’t call her or text her. She freaks out. But she has told me that we are just friends. She tells everyone that I’m her boyfriend number 2. Yea. She’s has a boyfriend, but I’ve never met him and I’m always with her. Help me.