6 Signs Your Relationship is Over

[@tag_76]

If you're watching this video or ones like it, you know the truth already.

[@JaysonGaddis]

valid

[@NikolaCekic-n1j]

@@tag_76 fuck I know you’re right but right now my alter ego is in such denial

[@RK-qk7ow]

1. There is no emotional connection anymore. 2. You continue to have communication breakdowns and you can't seem to get resolution. 3. The physical intimacy is waning or has stopped. 4. They begin to prioritise other things and you move down the priority list (or you do that to them). 5. You both stopped supporting each other with each other's goals or only one of you is supporting another with goals. 6. You've stopped conversations about the future. You continue to have communication breakdowns and you can't seem to get resolution.

[@JaysonGaddis]

good summary

[@michellez664]

All of the above

[@fraupertello]

THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤

[@Samaria754]

I am a woman, I was pursuing this man, we shared conversations and I knew there was a spark between us. He wasn’t necessarily a man with lots of money or very good looking. But there was this good vibe the simplicity and truthfulness in his eyes and words. I wanted us to work and I was very present in his life. But after months of sharing this connection with him. He for unknown reasons gave me this hot and cold response. As much as I wanted us to work and stay by his side for all the times. He has this pattern of having ebb and flowed connections. I felt so unwanted. I left him. Not all woman walked away because you are not making good money and having dashing looks. I just wanted consistent efforts from him.

[@rebuttalc2075]

If you are asking the question sorry but it is

[@rosecartwright2802]

Very true 🤔

[@urban_phantom7750]

Asking questions is normal, but genuine wisdom is to never assume that you truly ever know anything. There are no absolutes

[@urban_phantom7750]

Sometimes it takes courage to let go, but often it takes even more courage to hang on. You can feel bad doing the right thing, and feel good doing the opposite. What we feel is less important than making choices based upon concrete values and principles. Moods and feelings change, but our values seldom do. Anyways, doing the right thing depends entirely on what we actually believe to be important. Nobody else will ever never know or even begin to understand the full truth about our unique individual circumstances. I believe that it is better to trust our own intuition rather than external sources when it comes down to the final word about anything. Cheers 🍷

[@JaysonGaddis]

valid point

[@urban_phantom7750]

@@JaysonGaddis: It doesn't mean I am right, only that choices are seldom clear cut. Thanks for your video, and taking time to reply. Cheers 🍻

[@DillonG1435]

Great video. This one’s scary, just broke it off. And every one of your tips I could relate to and apply to this last relationship. Really got my attention. Thank you

[@JaysonGaddis]

omph. thanks

[@simsim876]

Don’t settle for crumbs 🔑

[@JaysonGaddis]

🔥

[@wendydaniel1110]

You are starting to plan a future without the person even when still in a "cold" connection

[@JaysonGaddis]

good one

[@shanecuster-v5f]

They begin irritate you more often now.

[@alyssagoentzel8306]

Really like the way you deliver your content. Its helpful on so many levels.

[@JaysonGaddis]

awesome. thx

[@dedpxl]

Half of these I don't have, so that kind of gives me hope. We were still making plans for the future, being intimate, supporting goals. She's asking for space atm so who knows maybe we'll end up back together.

[@JaysonGaddis]

space is fine, but put a timeline on it

[@juliah4359]

I think that those signs are quite accurate. However, I think that leaving is not always the right solution. Maybe sometimes it is worth trying to find a way together to lead a fulfilling relationship.

[@markartist8646]

Thank you for this. Your videos are short and very to the point= helpful to me! Appreciate your relationship school FB topics.

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thanks for the support mark. any videos you want more of?

[@lifetimeinterviewer]

It's painfully sad. But I'm actually going through all six signs and more from my partner. I'm in love with this person and she doesn't even set boundaries to having her exs communicating with her nor the persons who are messaging her flirting. I keep on putting interest, but she just annoyed by me telling her to value our relationship and respect me enough to stop doing things that don't sit right with our relationship. She doesn't have conversation with me anymore, and so much more. I don't know how to walk away nor let go someone I'm in love with.

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts with us, and yes, it's sad.!😢

[@shanicajoseph6535]

I'm going through it and I don't know what to do

[@cokeycookie]

Me too.

[@cokeycookie]

I've told him this is my last year it falls on death ears.

[@lifetimeinterviewer]

I left. On February the 22 midnight, I walked away. The healing is hard, but I'm worthy to be love and I deserve to be cherish and care for. She wanted to live a life where she can see different peoples, sleep with who she wants to sleep with etc. I learned all of that the moment I walked away. She didn't think twice to go ahead and see other people's and mess around. Which made all I felt and knew was going to happen when I was with her right. She's happy living her life, and I'm here trying to heal. ​@@shanicajoseph6535

[@SarahCortez-d2x]

You feel it is the main sign. You can feel everything when it comes down to this and sure you can't be blind even if you try to act like you are

[@JaysonGaddis]

yup

[@fakenattypolice8317]

Jayson, thank you for putting together this video. It's everything I already knew but very helpful to hear. Someone say it and express it the way you did.. sitting home alone, second week in a row on a Saturday night on our supposed date night feeling like shit . I think tomorrow I'm gonna regain my power and leave the relationship not matter or angry but strong thank you for your support in this video

[@carmenbaca7014]

This is the first time I encountered a video that really motivated me. I’m 67 years old and needed to understand that my 9 years of marriage is over. At my age I’m scared but listening to your video gave me hope….

[@JaysonGaddis]

right on. you got this. you should check out our relationship mastery course. likely could help you.

[@genshinplayer1608]

This is a really good and very informational video. Thank you this helps a lot, you need more subs.

[@JaysonGaddis]

thanks

[@stevenkovler5133]

I made the mistake of leaving an amazing woman becuase of exactly what you said about why you left relationships and now say it was a mistake. Then I eventually met a beautiful , PHD, 14 yrs younger and fell hard for her. We got married after three months. Within a month she was picking on me. Telling me I was not the same guy she dated. She was telling me how to sit, who to hang with , etc. etc. I soon realized I married a narcissist… ugh. She was out of work and could not control her spending . She spent me into bankruptcy. I don’t know why I allowed her too do that. Between the financial abuse and the emotional and eventual physical abuse , I became anxious and depressed and left. But then I wanted her back… I have been on a rollercoaster for three years ! I think a lot of the roller coaster is that I cannot picture her with another man 😢.

[@cynthiaabada3961]

Therapy will help you see the signs of being painfully trauma bonded. I found help by watching the podcasts of Dr Ramani, Dr Ross Rosenberg, Dr Les Carter & Dr Sam Vaknim to name a few. My healing journey started 5 years ago & taking my first step was extremely difficult. However, in the journey I realised I am worth the time & effort to heal. Good luck to you & peace💐.

[@carolmaz8675]

@@stevenkovler5133 any guy who starts with .. I met this beautiful woman really deserves all he gets for being so shallow

[@SMITHJOHNSON-e8g]

Wow, this is so uplifting, it’s important to stay inspired. I feel a deep sense of emptiness, it’s been 2months since jack left and everyday feels like an eternity without him. My mind’s been flooded with memories of our time together. It’s so painful that I’d never get to experience the little things with him again. zI’ve texted him several times telling him how much I miss and want him sadly he replied none. Guess all I can do is just hold unto the memories.

[@KaitlinStephan]

It’s ok to grieve dear It’s clear that you’re not just missing jack but a part of yourself that you shared with him. Your message to him is a testament to the love you still have for him. It’s takes courage to be that vulnerable. It’s ok to feel the pain of heartbreak but don’t loose hope. My own heart break story is one of devastation . It was sudden and brutal leaving me lost. Desperate for solace and guidance, I reached out to a spiritual counselor who was recommended by a friend for help.

[@SMITHJOHNSON-e8g]

That sounds intriguing, I’m curious what exactly does the spiritual counselor do?

[@KaitlinStephan]

His name is Father Tosin Ayodele and he's an amazing spiritual counselor who specialize in helping people reconnect with their ex

[@SMITHJOHNSON-e8g]

I’m grateful for your suggestion, you have no idea how much this means to me.

[@tachenvasquez3824]

Thank You 😢❤

[@JaysonGaddis]

sure

[@ahmedquiballo1990]

Thank you Jayson the inspiring message of yours.It's very helpful in one's relationship.

[@rudymootoor9032]

I brought up all these issues listed with my partner. I gave MANY chances. Three days ago was another repeated disagreement that was left u resolved and I just stopped. I’m done. I’ve had it. Haven’t responded to texts and/or phone calls. They’re calling and messaging me asking to talk now. I am pro ghost!

[@JaysonGaddis]

pro-self-respect

[@blaiseamony8037]

He married me for financial benefits and i realised this very late. 3 children together and i feel so trapped. All that u have said fits into my situation. I feel so broken for being used. I really want someone to love me for who i am and not what i have. Unfortunately he makes it so difficult for me to move on because of his frequent threats.😢

[@JaysonGaddis]

ouch. get help

[@karsaorlong3761]

thats a great video

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thanks!

[@SS-fc5mm]

Thank you!

[@JaysonGaddis]

you're welcome

[@phantom197]

I knew it was over for her wit me when I realized I’m sick of cheating on her and selling her false promises bout us having a future and I ralized that all I’m doing is damaging her and causing her stress it was the right thing to let her go

[@EagerMeerkat-kr7cp]

Yep all of them.

[@EagerMeerkat-kr7cp]

We are not working thru this. We need to fix it or leave.

[@JaysonGaddis]

yes

[@angeladevine632]

Thank you

[@JaysonGaddis]

sure

[@GoogleUser-pc6tu]

Don’t date someone initially that doesn’t have any kind of goals 🙄

[@phyllismontoroula6454]

My crush calls me just about everyday comes to visit me and every couple months be lives out of town and very supportive of my goals

[@lurkzie]

The relationship is truly over when both people are unwilling to try councelling or councelling isn't making a difference

[@suri_surita]

I broke up with my bf 4 months ago. Because he doesn't give me time and he made it clear that he won't marry me, because his religion is different and I am older than him. But after 4 months he text me and i give it a another try. All day he avoid me but he says that he loves me. I know it's all a lie. But i don't want to leave him. I can't leave him. I'm becoming sick 😢

[@JaysonGaddis]

this is not good. do the work to get stronger. you're putting yourself in a very damaging situation

[@doglover5519]

This has happened to me too. Literally sick and can't stop thinking about him. Missing him so bad, can't sleep it's terrible!!!

[@ScottHendrix-yz3du]

We all go through it my dear. It will pass.

[@suri_surita]

I'm ok now 🙂

[@suri_surita]

@@doglover5519 stay Strong it will pass

[@cheralucy7659]

I just got beaten up by my husband because I caught him with 8 different fake accounts. I’m leaving him for sure but something doesn’t feel right as we have a baby. Its hard

[@JaysonGaddis]

move on. get out

[@rc6184]

I recently ended a four-year relationship with my ex-girlfriend because of our differing values. We were politically opposites; she was a closet feminist who supported abortion rights and voted for Harris in the election. Additionally, we had stopped being intimate, and I had a gut feeling that something was going on with her. She would never show me her social media accounts.

[@JaysonGaddis]

ouch, but good move

[@LarkRoland]

Thanks I didn't leave I have job lose it I'm relationship is I think over 😢😢

[@derekbraggs5607]

If your goal is to leave do you share this with the person that okay I'm leaving my goal is to leave in 2 years I mean how does that work?

[@JaysonGaddis]

stick to your timeline

[@tanyaabernathy3486]

😔 my marriage has all the signs. I'm lost.

[@JaysonGaddis]

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[@MacMcDaniel-gy3ko]

I see all of the signs

[@JaysonGaddis]

and what are you going to do?

[@MaribelPorte-k1z]

Hello,have a blessed day... i want to know what to do.. My man told me, "okay find someone else" What is that mean, and what to do?

[@daleduncan5080]

It means leave the relationship. He said it. Believe it

[@doglover5519]

​@@daleduncan5080 Wow he's a jerk!!!

[@cyndihauptman5857]

If this didn't set off my ROCD like times a million😢

[@Danielle-t7t]

Do you have a Spanish version of this I have friend that needs help and she doesn't speak English she is also not a citizen what do I tell her to do how can I help her she is being abused and very manipulated

[@JaysonGaddis]

We don't have spanish version yet :/ sorry about that. The video has the subtitles feature and i think youtube can make the translation from english to spanish

[@KmNry]

Gosh that’s all of those. my SO stopped being intimate with me years ago and I shut down after a while. Now it’s reignited cause a guy came onto me. And I just want out. But how. We’ve been together 40 years. I’m so scared. It’s either the worst thing or the best thing. My SO has checked out. Ages ago. He won’t talk. I’m a fearful person. Help me get out.

[@KmNry]

I’ve given too long to this marriage. My husband lost his dad a few months ago. Can I still leave him

[@KmNry]

What if my husband will not accept it? I’ve tried talking to him. He won’t talk to me anyway I would be to sell our house and split it. I think it was just ignore me and pretend it wasn’t happening. Historically he’s always done that I can look after myself financially, but I can’t buy him out

[@urban_phantom7750]

Try marriage counseling before you check out. The first person you will meet is "you", for better or worse. Nobody can tell you what to do, only offer suggestions as to what steps are required to make up your mind

[@louiserohan117]

Where is the video about staying because you have a child together

[@JaysonGaddis]

lots of videos on dealing with partners who are not up for the work, etc.

[@KmNry]

Never got cheered on.

[@michaelbekendam5449]

i liked your video

[@christianaa.darlas1102]

Interesting ok

[@SillyJaguar]

This is looking like a loss for me. I think the best thing to do here though is to chat it out and see if we can fix it, otherwise we’re definitely done

[@JaysonGaddis]

ouch. likely

[@SillyJaguar]

@@JaysonGaddis I’ll give an update later

[@Tetelestai-cw8qy]

RIP

[@AgentQQ8]

Jesus

[@johnthomas7756]

It requires more courage to stay than in does to leave as a general rule. The advice in this video is dangerous to give so broadly. The world would be better off if more, not less people stayed committed to their marriages. Therefore, shouldn’t leaving be the exception, not the “go to” reaction to your spouse checking out? After being together for more than a decade, I believe you are almost certainly going to go through periods where one or both people are struggling and will likely experience these “signs” that you should leave. I have also found that when you come out of this period, you fall deeper in love than you were before.

[@wendydaniel1110]

Co dependant people stay in bad , unsupported relationships because they are fearful of being alone They come up with all kinds of excuses why they can't leave so the sacrifice themselves. . They don't have much self worth and value preferring to settle for crumbs at best. Courageous people leave bad relationships because they know they are worth more as a human being to be happy , loved and have to have self respect. The confident and empowered one never settles.

[@urban_phantom7750]

​@@wendydaniel1110: People stay in "bad" relationships for as many reasons as there are stars in the sky. The thing about opinions is that everyone has one, but it doesn't mean that they are correct or even pertinent. Don't tell me anything like you actually know, because you don't

[@RioRM1]

Looks very masculine point of vision about relationship. Sex CAN slow down and it is completely normal. Absent of intimacy for a long period of time can be sign of an end if one if the partners isn’t happy with it and it is a deal breaker for them. If they are both ok with that then who am I to tell them they should break up for that? People should break up because they are not their priority anymore? Yourself should be ALWAYS the priority. Not letting the person do their hobby, activities and etc sounds unhealthy and possessive behavior. It is completely healthy to let your partner enjoy their life. I ended watching the video there on the 5min, did not feel it was worth watching the rest of it

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thanks Rio. if you watch the rest, you'd get more context.

[@EagerMeerkat-kr7cp]

And I don't want to lose u my man.😢

[@lisamadden6367]

How does a person get out of a 16 year abusive marriage, my husband is is emotionally, physically, and financially abusive. I have no money, and no car, I feel trapped 😢

[@faithnightingale1019]

The bible state,s "Apostle Paul "Only marry in the Lord.If they are not practicing church goer,s going by the ,"Word of God" it will not work the marriage will breakdown eventually "The bible also state,s "What does light have in common with darkness,also what does a believer have in common with a unbeliever and many more script,s in the bible giving counsel on Relationship,s and marriage.Apistle Paul state,s "Only marry in the Lord" ☝️💯

[@atreyuprincipalh4043]

Thank you

[@JaysonGaddis]

You're welcome.