6 Texting Signs Your Crush Is NOT Actually Interested In You

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Psych2Go

Psych2Go

Күн бұрын

You haven’t received that many texts back from your crush. So, is your crush really interested in you? How can you tell through text if your crush likes you back? Maybe, the person you’re dating suddenly changes through texts? Here are a few red flags maybe your crush is not as into you as you think. The more signs you see, the more likely. Just one or two signs doesn't mean much as everyone's texting style is different.
How to tell if someone likes you over text? We've got that covered here: • How To Tell If Someone...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
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References:
Jalili, C., & Jama, A. (2021, August 4). 8 subtle texting clues that mean someone isn't interested in you. Elite Daily. Retrieved from www.elitedaily.com/dating/how-to-tell-someone-isnt-interested-through-text
Shatto, R., & Sullivan, C. (2021, May 27). 6 ways to know they're not that interested, just by how they text. Elite Daily. Retrieved from www.elitedaily.com/dating/dry-texting-signs
Lawrence, A. (2014, June 21). How to tell if she doesn't like you (90+ texting signs). PairedLife. Retrieved from pairedlife.com/dating/Signs-She-Doesnt-Like-You-Through-Texting
Devoe, N. (2021, March 3). 7 text messages that prove he's just not that into you. Seventeen. Retrieved from www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/g2889/text-messages-that-prove-hes-just-not-that-into-you/

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@Psych2go
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
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@CyrusShameli
@CyrusShameli Жыл бұрын
Hello there
@annabelle.mae.333
@annabelle.mae.333 Жыл бұрын
Yes,that's very helpful thx♥︎
@efrainvelazquez9133
@efrainvelazquez9133 Жыл бұрын
Hi
@KiaiandAvery
@KiaiandAvery Жыл бұрын
Ty :D
@love_bug.
@love_bug. Жыл бұрын
While I did find the meowth to be adorable i'm not that comfortable about being in front of a camera so I don't think I could do a reaction video
@sippinlosses
@sippinlosses Жыл бұрын
I love when someone doesn't ever hit you back, but when you're with them in person, they physically can't put their phone down.
@daisuke910
@daisuke910 8 ай бұрын
Tell me about it. Or possibly they mute you 🥲
@Defcon1691
@Defcon1691 7 ай бұрын
Same, it sucks
@childkillers_shouldve_NoState
@childkillers_shouldve_NoState 3 ай бұрын
😂
@KingLauradin-lq3io
@KingLauradin-lq3io 6 күн бұрын
Mine is clearly interested because they always text me back but I think they are just friends
@FwAyani
@FwAyani Жыл бұрын
Yea I be catching on when they don’t wanna start convos / never text first or anything it’s like constantly putting in effort for somebody avoiding you 💀
@khalilahd.
@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын
Yeah that’s a tale tell sign. Sucks but it’s better to know
@IgnitedQuils
@IgnitedQuils Жыл бұрын
And another scenario is this; you leave, and there are times people will know what they had until it's gone, and the some won't at all which hurts more. It's best to just leave for your own sake as tying yourself with the person only gives pain.
@startc9080
@startc9080 Жыл бұрын
like sakura and sasuke
@jacquelinecastillo965
@jacquelinecastillo965 Жыл бұрын
That's the worst!
@michaelperez5822
@michaelperez5822 Жыл бұрын
@@khalilahd. I'd rather go and be like F. K this s. T I'm out mm f k this s t I'm out
@pierre0227
@pierre0227 Жыл бұрын
Been through this. More importantly never assume someone wants a relationship unless they tell you.
@funplayer05.1
@funplayer05.1 Жыл бұрын
Very wise advice.
@veeo2169
@veeo2169 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯
@Lonevessel
@Lonevessel Жыл бұрын
Very informative and helpful
@viksinha5410
@viksinha5410 9 ай бұрын
It’s the hope that kills you
@KingLauradin-lq3io
@KingLauradin-lq3io 6 күн бұрын
They always text me back it’s obvious they are interested but just as friends
@illymns3339
@illymns3339 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes people are just bad texters but like you in person. They might be busy or going through a lot, so I think it's good to just be upfront if there's any doubt about it. Signs are just signs, and not the law XD
@HUYI1
@HUYI1 Жыл бұрын
That is the explanation my mutual friend and therapist gave me but I still have these feelings in the back of my mind if he still feels the same way about me idk anymore
@emmittthompson9376
@emmittthompson9376 Жыл бұрын
@@HUYI1 why not just ask him or talk to him about it.. If he hangs out with you or gives you attention, then he's interested. If he doesn't spend time with you then they're not interested.
@valerieblackthorn13
@valerieblackthorn13 Жыл бұрын
Signs are signs and they should not be ignored. Some people will not admit when they are not really interested in you, even if you ask directly.
@HUYI1
@HUYI1 Жыл бұрын
@@valerieblackthorn13 good point
@IgnitedQuils
@IgnitedQuils Жыл бұрын
That's true, yet not everyone who doesn't initiate back are busy. Chances are, they don't really value the initiator. Hence why it's best to talk it out to see if they care or not.
@TheJourneyyy
@TheJourneyyy Жыл бұрын
Here we are lovely fellas: 0:30 They're energy is off or suddenly different from yours 1:25 They don't initiate the texting, you do 1:56 They always take a long time to respond 2:25 Their texting focus is always on physical intimacy and not emotional 3:00 They don't text back any questions and they don't keep the conversation going 3:45 Their texts and replies to you are short or one-word responses Have a good one
@Halal_Gaming
@Halal_Gaming Жыл бұрын
Most people I've met done that ngl.
@jamelbunny5732
@jamelbunny5732 Жыл бұрын
@@Halal_Gaming yeah it kinda sucks tbh. 😕
@Halal_Gaming
@Halal_Gaming Жыл бұрын
You’ll find someone eventually.
@TheJourneyyy
@TheJourneyyy Жыл бұрын
@@Halal_Gaming
@Halal_Gaming
@Halal_Gaming Жыл бұрын
@@TheJourneyyy
@sgaf7001
@sgaf7001 Жыл бұрын
One reason why I don't initiate texting even to someone I really like: I don't like getting ignored or receiving late messages. Let's just say I went through some phase of my life being ignored whenever I called for help, so now I'd rather wait for the person to text me or if not, it is what it is. It's hard being this way because I am often confronted for "not being interested" when I am actually interested. 🤦
@IgnitedQuils
@IgnitedQuils Жыл бұрын
Relationships are a two way street; not just romantic. It's reasonable for you to not try when the other side isn't putting in the effort. I did the same and I only talk to a few people. Even when I confronted the ones I stopped talking to about it and said how I had people not value me but they didn't show to sympathize.
@staciedixon3802
@staciedixon3802 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes people are just busy .. it doesn't mean they aren't interested in you.. I know how bad I feel when my one texts and I don't respond immediately .. Because I was doing or working on something not looking at my phone. I feel like you should be able to walk away from your phone for a little bit because your trying to accomplish something. When I go check my phone and notice she did text me . A feeling of like panic washes over me and I start to feel like ..OH NO SHE TEXT AND I MISSED IT ! So I call her immediately. Then feel even more awful because her feeling are now hurt and she's thinking you don't care enouf about her to keep checking your phone every 10 minz to see that you didn't miss a text.. It's a super sad thing when your 1 thinks you don't care or have time for them . So have your phone on you at all times. Check it often so you don't miss her text. Ok
@funplayer05.1
@funplayer05.1 Жыл бұрын
@@staciedixon3802 relateable. I mostly feel like I didn't do enough for her if I miss my gf her text, so now I just set my notifications to DMs only as she is the only one DMing me. So whenever she messages, I get notified and nothing else gives me messages XD
@baileyjohn5010
@baileyjohn5010 Жыл бұрын
You’re loving from a place of fear
@sarahsnow9088
@sarahsnow9088 Жыл бұрын
@@baileyjohn5010 l agree with you. The original commenter is not opening up emotionally. Instead of them being left on read when texting first or always being the one texting first the original commenter is leaving everyone else on read. If they were really interested in someone they'd take that risk for the possibility of a true connection. Maybe therapy would be a better option for the original commenter to help heal the pain of past wounds instead of inflicting the same wounds to the next person who tries to connect. As someone else said to them above a relationship is a two way street but if your vehicle needs a tune up go to a licensed "mechanic" before you cause a wreck for another human being. I figured you Bailey would understand what I am saying better than the original commenter since you appear to be in a good head space like me on this subject.
@emmittthompson9376
@emmittthompson9376 Жыл бұрын
This isn't always the case, mainly number 3. I have seen and been on both sides of the coin. Some people are horrible at responding, or their anxiety can stop them from doing so. I liked a girl who would be pretty responsive. She would text me first, but she suddenly stopped the last month of our friendship. Turns out she didn't feel the same. She admitted that she only texted me first a lot of times because I helped calm her anxiety and depression in the morning. Yet, the girl I like now and talking to messages me every morning but is terrible at responding to a text. In-person, she loves to touch, kiss, and hold hands and is very responsive
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
My woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?". Does this mean anything
@improvementcloud5085
@improvementcloud5085 Жыл бұрын
I wish i had this video back in highschool! I was stuck trying to be with a crush i liked for 3 years and never looked at any one else. I put myself through a rollercoaster of feelings. But i've learned from it. Thank you for posting this video for those that need it. Save yourself from feeling hurt, and remember there is a lot of other people in the world.
@bluemarshyy6205
@bluemarshyy6205 Жыл бұрын
Bruhh mine blocked me for no reason 😂😂😂
@Slytherin10784
@Slytherin10784 Жыл бұрын
i confessed to my crush a few months ago but he just said what do you want me to say? i dont like you sorry
@IgnitedQuils
@IgnitedQuils Жыл бұрын
Yeah, it also sucks when they don't care that you take an interest in them, referring to just talking to them, not with them not liking you back.
@maryna.angelpa
@maryna.angelpa Жыл бұрын
If my enthusiasm is not reciprocated then, I don't bother them anymore.
@ziomeczus
@ziomeczus Жыл бұрын
I am so happy that I have a friend that is exactly the same irl and through texting
@CryingAutumn
@CryingAutumn Жыл бұрын
“3 weeks ago” “Uploaded 1 minute ago” This ain’t adding up.
@1Laetus2asinuS
@1Laetus2asinuS Жыл бұрын
???
@JeremyLionell5
@JeremyLionell5 Жыл бұрын
How is it 3 weeks ago?!
@user-cz1il8fh1b
@user-cz1il8fh1b Жыл бұрын
3 weeks ago😐
@CharltonCharles
@CharltonCharles Жыл бұрын
@@CryingAutumn It was an unlisted video.
@khalilahd.
@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын
I feel like these are great tips for discovering who is your real friend and who isn’t as well. Especially the texts and initiating things 😕
@giannacore444
@giannacore444 Жыл бұрын
omg i see u everywhere
@nctallowed
@nctallowed Жыл бұрын
i read the title, and then started crying
@justafoon
@justafoon Жыл бұрын
Eventually, I just have so much self doubt that I end up ignoring THEM.
@Ethan_is_me
@Ethan_is_me Жыл бұрын
IKR
@whyherrodere3784
@whyherrodere3784 8 ай бұрын
Self fulfilling prophecy. If u ignore them, the consequences will cause u to continue to distrust urself . Therefore the answer is: don't ignore them if u dont want to
@efficiencygaming3494
@efficiencygaming3494 Жыл бұрын
You got me at #2. I have a crush that I text sometimes (or at least used to) and I would always be the one who had to keep the conversation going. She would never text me unless she was responding to my texts. I stopped texting her in early May when it became emotionally exhausting. She hasn't texted me at all since then. I'm thinking it's time to move on.
@robertoriverajr4439
@robertoriverajr4439 Жыл бұрын
I learned that people just expect them to text them instead of doing it themselves or initiate conversations. What was the conversation like? Dry or it would go on a direction when y’all talked?
@efficiencygaming3494
@efficiencygaming3494 Жыл бұрын
@@robertoriverajr4439 We used to talk about all sorts of stuff early on, but then eventually I ran out of things to talk about since nothing really interesting happens in my life. She always seemed to be really busy too, so there were many times where I would text her and she would reply saying that she was doing something for school or hanging out with a friend or something like that. Eventually I got the impression that I was disturbing her, so that was part of the reason why I stopped texting her.
@robertoriverajr4439
@robertoriverajr4439 Жыл бұрын
@@efficiencygaming3494 if she replied with the “I’m busy” bs text too many times, then yes… move on. I understand that work and school absorb our time because I’m at college and work. However, it takes me less than a minute to reply and I do it at later hours of the day. That goes with any type of relationship btw.
@twentyeight602
@twentyeight602 Жыл бұрын
I'm at the other side and I feel kinda bad for it, she always texts me with so much enthusiasm and I love it so much but I never initiate conversations cause I'm kinda shy and don't know what to say and I hope she doesn't mind it
@whispersweetnothingsuwu
@whispersweetnothingsuwu Жыл бұрын
@@twentyeight602 As a girl who is super bubbly and happy to always text the guy I like/my bf I say you should let her know this. She might be feeling that she need to do more to keep your attention and eventually she might think your not into her as much as you are. My bf is the same way he is pretty quiet but he does text back but at first it made me think he wasn't as into me. But he told me he just feels shy sometimes so yes it this girl likes you she will hopefully understand and not me mind leading the convos. So I suggest telling her.
@joy1696
@joy1696 Жыл бұрын
I could’ve used this video years ago. Thank you for FINALLY making it!! 🙏🏼
@XaYt0b33
@XaYt0b33 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! I really been needing this lately. I recently got this girls number and she tells me she’s shy but I just feel like I should keep the energy positive and she has reciprocated a lil more lately.
@simran750
@simran750 Жыл бұрын
no but whoever has the guts to at least send a text to their crush, Y'ALL ARE SO STRONG SHIT
@rednblack301
@rednblack301 Жыл бұрын
So true 😅
@Spiralredd
@Spiralredd 3 ай бұрын
It's not that hard.
@celineowemji
@celineowemji Жыл бұрын
hello! i love watching your videos, they're very helpful ^^
@allanivie6311
@allanivie6311 Жыл бұрын
My crush at first was greatly annoyed by my texts. When I first got her number, our relationship as friends was fresh, which, if anyone wants a romantic relationship with someone, become their friend first! :D. I eventually asked her on a date, and things progressed to the point where we fell in love with each other and she enjoyed responding to my texts! I’d say, if you’re good friends, and they’re a decent person in general (in person and texting) then you need not give up hope!-Even if texting a crush can be nerve racking, exciting, sometimes crushing *wink*, effort CAN pay off through genuine care.
@OtterSkull
@OtterSkull Жыл бұрын
It's so cool things worked out for you! Congratulations! And best of luck!
@neo3rdworld462
@neo3rdworld462 Жыл бұрын
I love the new drawing style
@nubreed1980
@nubreed1980 9 ай бұрын
This channel hits everything all of the time 😂
@Daybreakhasme
@Daybreakhasme Жыл бұрын
Reciprocity..it has to be the main ingredient. Thank you Psych to Go.💯
@kaiwithcloudz2843
@kaiwithcloudz2843 Жыл бұрын
I don't know why but I just put effort into someone who avoids me and doesn't talk to me. I don't know how to stop this simple crush.
@rememberJAW
@rememberJAW Жыл бұрын
I’ve got a friend who I really like but am pretty sure doesn’t like me back. She’s very open and talkative around newer folks that she hasn’t met yet, but somehow when she is around me, she feels more closed off, and less interested in continuing conversation. We were very friendly in the beginning and had great conversations before, but there is a weird invisible boundary that I am trying to break but can’t seem to do it. I also get the short text convos where I am doing most of the work, but she does short answers or doesn’t even answer at all. Still trying to pursue the friendship and see if a relationship in the long run is viable, but it is tricky when it feels like she is continuously pursuing friendships with other people and not interested in talking to you as much anymore.
@Okkkkokk
@Okkkkokk Жыл бұрын
That normal since she is a talkative person
@gojo-ep5zu
@gojo-ep5zu Жыл бұрын
ah noo im sorry about that :(( if youre close, perhaps discreetly try asking her about it subtly (not in terms of a friendship or relationship specifically, just as people) just to try and salvage your current friendship first. you could even ask angood friend of yours that is also friends witj her. good luck, i hope it goes well !!
@lorijones564
@lorijones564 Жыл бұрын
Time to move on. 😊
@_dinleX3
@_dinleX3 Жыл бұрын
This is basically me and my friend that I have blocked until I'm completely over them since I've had a crush-ish on them. They would respond with just "ok" everytime I'm trying to show them that I love or care about them, even if it is in just a friend way. They send screenshots of their relationship with their other friends and I see that they are saying ily to them and seems like they are more interested in talking to them then with me. I've tried to do everything I could just so they could seem a little bit more interested in me again but nothing has worked. It upsets me so much and now this whole break is happening bc of their actions ☹️
@MsElizaRae
@MsElizaRae Жыл бұрын
@@Okkkkokk Very true if someone who talks a lot runs out of stories to tell a specific person
@halle212
@halle212 Жыл бұрын
#4 for me. Cutting someone off today because they don’t make me feel good about myself
@SS-kc1wq
@SS-kc1wq Жыл бұрын
Good for you 💛💐
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
@user-qn6yv6dw8s
@user-qn6yv6dw8s Жыл бұрын
My friends won't even text me and i'm thinking about a crush i talk to 3 times in a year 💀💀💀
@coffeedrop4764
@coffeedrop4764 Жыл бұрын
I've always been interested in what kinda thought process they have when deciding to text back a person they're not into? Like????? Why won't you just tell them you're not interested and let them leave you alone and leave peacefully? Why do they pick dry texting over simply declining the other's offer to talk by text??? Like, dude, just say ya don't like me, I'll move on. Why would you decide to give me one-worded replies instead, wasting my time and yours??? Why?.. Can anybody explain? I really don't understand what they're thinkin about. Sorry for my bad English btw
@bumpkin8009
@bumpkin8009 Жыл бұрын
It's kinda weird yeah it's not that hard to text back either just tell them, that you don't want to text or text back with a bit of effort, but don't beat around the bush
@whispersweetnothingsuwu
@whispersweetnothingsuwu Жыл бұрын
Well from experience it's either the person likes the attention negative or positive due to low self esteem and a need for reassurance no matter who it's from. Feeling desired feels good to some people even from people that are not attracted too. There is also a misguided sense of guilt where the person is too passive and afraid to reject the person or tell them they are not into them because they don't want to look or be the bad guy in the situation and will hope the other person gets the hint. Not wanting to hurt their feelings I think in some cases this is more common with people who have a savior complex that gets burnt out in the process.
@KateJn
@KateJn Жыл бұрын
I can't explain because all that you said is literally so relatable. It's all true what you said
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
@@KateJn Does this mean anything if I told my woman friend "I want to see you at my party and I don't take no for an answer" and she replies with "👍"
@KateJn
@KateJn Жыл бұрын
@@egertroos1691 I mean my love life is in shambles I don't really know if my advice counts for anything but well I think that depends on what type of relationship you have with this girl. If your friends and she wants to go with you or is happy to go then cool. If your more then friends then idk it might mean something more. Just whoever it is if she's really special to you then don't let her go
@hollyharte7831
@hollyharte7831 9 ай бұрын
These videos always warm my heart so adorable 💓
@strawberrydome
@strawberrydome Жыл бұрын
Love the animation!!
@kaushalyadav3591
@kaushalyadav3591 Жыл бұрын
I need more videos based on texting. Please make it happen 🙂
@ohlookitsrosie
@ohlookitsrosie Жыл бұрын
YES
@IgnitedQuils
@IgnitedQuils Жыл бұрын
Usually when I see experiences of people always initiating conversations with their crushes, I see people put the blame on the initiators but rarely on the crushes themselves. If the crush doesn't respect you, reciprocate appreciation, best not to try. You're not losing anything and usually they won't know what they have until it's gone. Even when they won't notice that, it's best to go to where you're needed. Keep in mind, I'm not talking about crushes where the crush isn't interested back romantically and still treats you decently, referring to crushes that don't value you and their time with you.
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
@samirmuhammad1781
@samirmuhammad1781 Жыл бұрын
In my experience I've been with people who are extremely thoughtful and kind, and present when you ar with them, and that makes up for all the time we are away from each other and not really texting much. There are people who are just bad at texting, or maybe the dynamic that you and this person developed does not require constant texting. I don't text my friends, and I take a while to respond as well. It's not that I don't like or don't care about them. The important thing also is to kmow your needs. If you in fact need someone who's going to be always available to respond, and will always match your energy, you should not invest your time in that person.
@AmaryxYT
@AmaryxYT Жыл бұрын
I got some hope. The girl I been crushing has actually messaged me first! It's always enthusiastic and she thinks I'm funny! She doesn't do 5 out of 6 of these! Sometimes she takes long to respond but that's because she's a single mother but when she texts back she actually apologizes and explains where she went and has admitted she's not the greatest texter but has always asked questions and kept the conversation going! The energy is always good and is the same as in person!
@XDGamerFrPhz
@XDGamerFrPhz Жыл бұрын
We only talked just a couple of times I reached out to him first (which was the baddest decision I've ever made) and then like maybe after a few months he texted me first congratulating me in my graduation day. Though he doesn't send shorter messages I still think he's just being kind but that's ok I can just find another one if I wanna as if he's the only living male in this world but I thank him for replying me back cause if he's one of those guys who just leaves someone on read I'd be dying from anxiety and will forever be haunted by my past
@czeianamiguel5543
@czeianamiguel5543 Жыл бұрын
I can't believe you posted this on my birthday! best birthday ever :D
@vivekvarma2469
@vivekvarma2469 Жыл бұрын
Happy birthday🎉
@KhalCrochet
@KhalCrochet Жыл бұрын
Interesting video, tho I hardly ever text someone I have a crush on, since them being a crush usually means that the feelings won't be reciprocated so I just don't text them or contact them as much and I eventually lose interest in them so I won't have to think about them all the time or worry if they responde at all which helps keep me stress free
@PowWowChikaBowWow6902
@PowWowChikaBowWow6902 Жыл бұрын
I relate to all of these and it’s not just crushes, but friends in-general. Thank you for the video! Now I’m sad🥲
@baldski1
@baldski1 Жыл бұрын
After watching this iv realized I'm always first texting across the board. It seems I only get texts off anyone when they need something.
@honestreviewer4864
@honestreviewer4864 Жыл бұрын
Felt this. And this is why I've stopped messaging people. If the effort isn't reciprocated.. leave it alone
@robertoriverajr4439
@robertoriverajr4439 Жыл бұрын
@@honestreviewer4864 some people are just used to you reaching out, is not that they don’t care. If you don’t get a response, then that’s a different story.
@Nina666
@Nina666 Жыл бұрын
I am so happy that Psych2go said they wanted to do EVEN more!! Because mental wellness is so important and we all sometimes need someone for support, but some people need a bit more than that and that's completely fine! Some just don't realize that they need help and psych2go can help everyone so much! And when i say everyone, i mean everyone. Even if you aren't depressed, you can still watch their videos about depression and learn about it and maybe spot some signs in a friend and try to help them! Psych2go, you are doing such a good job. Please continue doing this! Could someone please correct me if i made grammatical errors?? English isn't my first language and i am still learning so that would be very nice, thank you!!:)
@kase1550
@kase1550 Жыл бұрын
No mistakes at all. Your English is all well :)
@Nina666
@Nina666 Жыл бұрын
@@kase1550 Thank you))
@EddiGomaMusic
@EddiGomaMusic Жыл бұрын
This video came into my notifs at such a bad time 🤣🤣🤣
@kiomaru1943
@kiomaru1943 Жыл бұрын
i wish i knew all of this before suffering badly for someone who didn't even care about me, i was stuck in a cycle of emotional manipulation over and over while the person made me sick and dependent of them. at some point i discovered i wasn't the only one and this person was doing this to multiple girls, which was both infuriating and destroyed me totally, but at least it made me get over it faster... i never spoke to this person again, but i am pretty sure someone who are able to treat others like this without being honest with their feelings are totally shady and will never grow or be better.
@HUYI1
@HUYI1 Жыл бұрын
It's like some men just hook and sinker their emotional claws right into, treat you like crap but refuse to let you go so you can move onto maybe something meaningful, they keep you around like a corpse 😞😑😑
@kiomaru1943
@kiomaru1943 Жыл бұрын
@@HUYI1 YES THAT'S EXACTLY IT!! they don't want anything serious with you, but want the attention you give them, so they keep you around not cuz they actually want you, but for the good things they can receive from you. now that i know all of this it blows my mind how selfish and egocentric some people can be :(
@OtterSkull
@OtterSkull Жыл бұрын
@@kiomaru1943 I'm sorry this happened to you, that's awful, I hope you'll be able to heal and find someone who deserves your trust, have a nice day!
@kiomaru1943
@kiomaru1943 Жыл бұрын
@@OtterSkull Thank you so much for the kind words ❤️❤️ I've been healing faster recently, unfortunately there are sometimes that i still blame myself for being naive and trusting someone like this, but I'm at a better place now. I hope you have a nice day too!! ❤️
@OtterSkull
@OtterSkull Жыл бұрын
@@kiomaru1943it's great to hear that! It's all a learning experience so keep it up :)
@Newwitt
@Newwitt Жыл бұрын
Thank youhhhh!!! 💜💜💜 Lots of love from India!!!💮
@Leonlion0305
@Leonlion0305 Жыл бұрын
being on either side sucks. Not receiving the feeling you have towards your crush no doubt sucks. On the other hand, aware that you don't have the same level of affection they pour towards you also sucks. For me, it is because I know I am not matching up to their level in terms of emotions and I know it is going to hurt them eventually. I still don't have that much experience and EQ to know how to deal with this peacefully. Still improving though.
@HunterGuitar5347
@HunterGuitar5347 Жыл бұрын
Every single girl I've dated has done most of these over text. Even physically they pretty much ignored me. I gave them my heart and they all stomped on it. I've given up on dating for now, until I can find someone who actually wants to be with me.
@Jason_Maier
@Jason_Maier Жыл бұрын
My crush (beverage server where I work) and I don't text each other, and I find it healthier that way. She & I still smile wand wave when we make eye contact 😀
@mxddhxre
@mxddhxre Жыл бұрын
Hi i love your videos they are very helpful and cute!!!
@calebwilson.27
@calebwilson.27 Жыл бұрын
Woah I’m never this early!! I love y’all’s vids! They help me find new coping skills a lot, and I don’t feel as alone with my problems haha!
@May4XD
@May4XD Жыл бұрын
Never thought I could relate so much to this video. Every step hits home unfortunately 🥺😳😔
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
@Drboi420
@Drboi420 Жыл бұрын
Man why you mocking me at 3 am
@justsomerandomguy4269
@justsomerandomguy4269 Жыл бұрын
Well, this has been the case with everyone I’ve had a crush on for years so I have just give up as accepted that no one is ever going to have interest in me, at least all my friends got lucky and are in relationships which I’m super happy because they really deserved it.
@JeongYunho17
@JeongYunho17 7 ай бұрын
This hurts bad. Everything you listed perfectly describes my situation
@Sarikii_gGamer
@Sarikii_gGamer Жыл бұрын
I don't have a crush, but I'll need to send this to a friend that has a big visible crush on me, and I'm not interested in him 😓
@ObliviAce
@ObliviAce Жыл бұрын
I literally wanted to tell my crush i liked even tho i know they are not interested, and literally 32 seconds later this video comes out🤣
@SS-kc1wq
@SS-kc1wq Жыл бұрын
Tell them. X
@etahhcumosevahi
@etahhcumosevahi Жыл бұрын
It’s takes me about 3-4 days to respond back to my wife’s text. And she averages about 30 lines of messages before I respond back with a 👍. But I love her dearly and she knows it ❤️❤️
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
Do some women do the same as you?
@shawnciantar1953
@shawnciantar1953 Жыл бұрын
if you speak everyday with person doesn't mean to lose your liberty
@ericharrison4067
@ericharrison4067 Жыл бұрын
I just asked my crush over text if she liked me and she said no. She exhibited pretty much all of these signs so I kind of knew at that point, but I still just wanted to tell her. We will probably still talk but it isn't ever happening. Now I don't have a crush in a small town as a homeschooler. If any of y'all have a girl who you can tell likes you and you like her, tell her soon. Don't let her get away
@tasyfan.314
@tasyfan.314 Жыл бұрын
I love this channel and I think these tips are very helpful though honestly in my opinion it is still hard to tell whether someone likes you through texting (bc of the nuances when it comes to text messaging) and i think sometimes it can be difficult to really know even by their actions in person. So if you like someone and want to know if they like you back, please just talk to them or you will always be wondering, Its impossible to know unless you tell them or ask them
@edenstarysky
@edenstarysky Жыл бұрын
Also sorry I haven't watched you guys in a long time you guys are one of my favorite shows I've been acting strange and I'm always tierd
@pongoni7586
@pongoni7586 Жыл бұрын
sometimes I'm angry watching these videos because at the back of my head and inside my heart i really want us to work. but they're telling the truth . reality hurts indeed
@bravequeen4650
@bravequeen4650 Жыл бұрын
I already know my crush doesn't like before I even confess
@frostthewolf1443
@frostthewolf1443 Жыл бұрын
If i had this in before February, i couldn't avoided a lot
@hyperrxti6064
@hyperrxti6064 Жыл бұрын
Claim your here before 1 hour ticket here
@KiaiandAvery
@KiaiandAvery Жыл бұрын
Claimed
@nateshaw1424
@nateshaw1424 Жыл бұрын
Yuo yup
@frostthewolf1443
@frostthewolf1443 Жыл бұрын
okay?
@noir0934
@noir0934 Жыл бұрын
Claimed
@yukiryu5772
@yukiryu5772 Жыл бұрын
Claimed :)
@stephenwillis6937
@stephenwillis6937 Жыл бұрын
I've recently discovered I'm Aromantic so my texting can definitely be more Physical them Emotional. I've started being more open about being Aro so that people who might feel that way about me don't get their hope's up. I can definitely like you in a physical capacity but emotional as in Romantic is a no go.
@garrickoestriecher1259
@garrickoestriecher1259 Жыл бұрын
So I used to work with this girl, and I swear the way she smiled at me was different than anyone else at my family's firm. Not sure why she'd smile at me like she used to if she wasn't interested at all though.
@NG6_Studios
@NG6_Studios Жыл бұрын
THIS THUMBNAIL IS LITERALLY HOW I WOULD REACT!!!
@urjabadkul3702
@urjabadkul3702 Жыл бұрын
Such an Incredible animation in this video...K.🤣🤣...with amazing script. Thank you Psych2Go 🤗🤗. Truely Happy to see your positive videos ☺️☺️.
@animeguy4074
@animeguy4074 Жыл бұрын
6 Texting Signs Your Crush Isn't Into You: Number One: Their vibes were off at Applebee's
@LEGI43ON
@LEGI43ON 9 ай бұрын
Painful video and topic but music so peaceful
@toxicjoshua7934
@toxicjoshua7934 Жыл бұрын
Dang it I always do 1 text emojis to everyone 😬😂
@Izzi3blue
@Izzi3blue Жыл бұрын
No one calls or texts me anymore if I don’t first, they do but they want something, I wish I had these videos sooner
@keeshasinh
@keeshasinh Жыл бұрын
Yooo about the physical intimacy text one was so accurate to my case. I did got suspicious bout that but my dumbass chose to ignore that and at the end.... I got played.... throughout the video I was thinking if this video would have been posted months ago, but it's okay I've learned my lessons.
@askwhateverlol
@askwhateverlol Жыл бұрын
I agree sadly. It’s always that with me. Nobody wants to be with me or connect with me emotionally, just try to sleep with me. It’s depressing when all I really want is a connection, a relationship. I find it quite hard finding anyone who wants what I do though
@chef7415
@chef7415 8 ай бұрын
i really needed this, i'm becoming the most delulu person ever
@Toga_Reventon
@Toga_Reventon Жыл бұрын
Most of the time my bf tends to ask more of more physical intimacy then just getting to know more of each other
@scottpilgrimfan92
@scottpilgrimfan92 Жыл бұрын
Proud to say my crush doesn’t apply to any of these. Maybe a lil on the long responses, but the max is usually 25-40 minutes bc they are busy hanging out with their friends most of the time. Otherwise they respond quick and have the same energy..
@a.simp_
@a.simp_ Жыл бұрын
The thing for me is that, they may ask "why" but I will just reply with "oh nothing"...and like, I will always somehow end conversations cause I'm not sure what I should reply them with(tbh I think I'm a bad/dry texter)..so even if others or even my crush wants to continue the conversation, I will always ruin it..I really have troubles replying people..I care about others' views towards me, so I will try to find the most normal-looking reply and usually it's short answers..so probably people think that I don't want to continue our conversation..to everyone, pls forgive me, I really don't know what/how I can/should reply, I'm really very sorry for randomly ending the conversation 🥲
@User-pm7zf
@User-pm7zf Жыл бұрын
”Nice Prank” is what my crush said.
@marsmallowgus
@marsmallowgus Жыл бұрын
Yesterday I went to Open House at my school and I got to see my friends again. I have seventh period with a boy who I used to have a crush on, who's just my friend now, and when I sat down next to him, he didn't even speak to me once. It reminded me of how he's never started a texting conversation with me, and the one time we really had an actual one where he replied quickly and it lasted more than three messages was when I said I had a crush on him and he said he already knew. (I wasn't too good about hiding it, and basically every girl at school had a crush on him.) My mom claims that she saw us talking though, so maybe he did try to say something to me? This year, I want to try and be better friends with him without being as creepy and pushy as I was last year.
@Spiralredd
@Spiralredd 3 ай бұрын
What's funny is that normally guys are completely oblivious when a girl likes them. Yet a girl who doesn't like them is the one they go for. I learned that lesson early.
@moonlightlms8761
@moonlightlms8761 Жыл бұрын
maybe he just likes to talk in person i still have high hopes
@CrockyDile15
@CrockyDile15 Жыл бұрын
Don't get your hopes up. Always expect nothing in order to preserve yourself. Let them prove who they are first.
@popcorn-vn1ug
@popcorn-vn1ug Жыл бұрын
my crush likes talking more in person but through text not really
@popcorn-vn1ug
@popcorn-vn1ug Жыл бұрын
@@CrockyDile15 I disagree
@Okkkkokk
@Okkkkokk Жыл бұрын
@@CrockyDile15 I agree
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
@@CrockyDile15 Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
@DrummerSwagger
@DrummerSwagger Жыл бұрын
Great animation
@bluestrreekk5650
@bluestrreekk5650 Жыл бұрын
There's this girl from my dance class who I thought might like me. It was mostly a gut feeling, but I could've sworn I'd noticed her looking in my direction often. Or sometimes mimicking/mirroring the way I warm up before class. And whenever I goof around, she's usually watching and usually laughs. We happened to end up as dance partners for this one piece we were learning, and we got in contact over email to discuss the dance. Our conversation was very amusing, but one of the things that worried me was that fact that I felt like I was running the conversation. I'd ask questions and she'd respond and that would be it. Her responses did have a bit of energy, but I felt like the initiative came from me... In person, I still got the feeling that she might be into me. Plus, she got along with my siblings, who were also in the class. We haven't interacted since our performance of the dance. And since I felt like we were becoming friends, I got a little worried. I didn't know if I should reach out, tho, bc I was the last one to do so. So, I came to look for videos that could help. Going through the 6 signs: 1. No. Her energy never seemed off. She was more relaxed and goofy over email, but reserved in person. 2. Yes. I always initiated the conversations. 3. Yes? I'm not sure if this one applies bc who checks their email all the time? I'd usually receive a reply several hours after mine, but I didn't think much of it bc she mentions she works late, so her schedule is a bit skewed. 4. No. Intimacy was never a topic, so that one doesn't apply. 5. Yes. Usually her responses were just answers to questions I'd asked. However, I assume that's because I tend to write a lot... so I probably answered all her questions just by rambling >< 6. Yes? She'd typically respond with one or two sentences.... It feels short considering the fact that it was over email... but on the other hand, two sentences is probably pretty standard for texting, plus I know I can write an abnormally large amount. In conclusion... There's never a guarantee since everyone is different. But given the signs outlined by this video, I think my initial gut feeling was a figment of my imagination. Kinda feel bad about assuming that someone liked me... it isn't right of me to assume such things of people >
@vivekvarma2469
@vivekvarma2469 Жыл бұрын
Did you confess your feelings to her?
@bluestrreekk5650
@bluestrreekk5650 Жыл бұрын
@@vivekvarma2469 I did not. I felt like it was too early for that and that I should just focus on being her friend first
@vivekvarma2469
@vivekvarma2469 Жыл бұрын
If it is ok for you, Can i know how long it’s been since your first meeting?
@bluestrreekk5650
@bluestrreekk5650 Жыл бұрын
We’ve been acquaintances/classmates for a little over half a year. We only started talking at the beginning of July, though. So, we haven’t known each other for very long, but I had been wanting to reach out to her for a while bc I’d noticed some behaviors that made me wonder if she wanted to get in contact.
@vivekvarma2469
@vivekvarma2469 Жыл бұрын
All the best buddy ❤️
@lazy9175
@lazy9175 Жыл бұрын
I mean for me neither of us really ask questions we just talk about whatever we think of
@prosauropoda
@prosauropoda Жыл бұрын
I fell in love with my friend and told him how I feel though I know perfectly we both aren't ready. I just had to say it cause hiding feelings was literally killing my mental health. He said it's nice to know that I have feelings towards him, but he's not ready and wants to keep things this way. I was ok with that. But it seems like at the moment he only saw my feelings, not me. We had a conflict like a week ago. I tried to text him/send something funny. But his replies were really dry, not like when we used to be friends. I stopped texting. Him too. We work together and almost ignore each other ever since. Time to move on, I guess.
@ther.w.d.channel1501
@ther.w.d.channel1501 Жыл бұрын
For me, it is 2, 3, 5, and 6. But it isn't always these. It is just most of the time. But she used to have a bad sleep schedule and can get busy often, so I haven't thought about this much. Especially because she and I went on a date together and I also suck at texting. When we're in person, we talk more, ask more questions, and sometimes just enjoy eachother's company. Or at least I'm hoping so. I don't know... I wish I hadn't seen this video as now I'm going to be thinking about this for a while till I hear her tell me how she feels🥲🙄
@wordsarealive
@wordsarealive Жыл бұрын
I love you. I've never received a text even once in my life. idc I just like being nice on occasion.
@iamgoddessoflove
@iamgoddessoflove Жыл бұрын
Stop wondering if you are good enough for them. If they don’t value you, they are not for you. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
@miggzmarcus1426
@miggzmarcus1426 Жыл бұрын
well i have gotten a "k." but its only when shes mad at me or i did something wrong but i try to fix it and were back to talking sweet again we share dreams, thoughts, passion, future, and we think on what will we be if we suddenly got hurt or who will prupose first like we are having a competition of love. remember dont be shy or scared to ask whats wrong because asking on whats the situation sometimes help you and your partner in a relationship, but if she doesnt say anything try to figure it out its not bad to ask your friends for help but its better doing it by yourself because it like you are dedicated to make your relationship stronger and better
@tejasmeshram1074
@tejasmeshram1074 Жыл бұрын
I needed this video a few hours ago... Although I am happy that I am seeing it now
@lynxofficial8990
@lynxofficial8990 Жыл бұрын
Now i do know that my crush don't like me...😪 i could've move on but idk why I'm still wating for her 😔
@emii0252
@emii0252 Жыл бұрын
Good to know, but can you now make a video on “texting signs that might mean that your crush DOES like you” please?
@Casper_th3_Ghost
@Casper_th3_Ghost Жыл бұрын
my gf is just like this i swear shes like this all the time, she just answers very quickly
@mrovarb
@mrovarb Жыл бұрын
Most accurate video so far wtf
@camillex5916
@camillex5916 Жыл бұрын
It is so damn desperating to realize/be reminded of the fact once more that she (my childhood best friend) is definitely not into me as well as not interested in a friendship… I don’t want to lose her for the rest of my life now that we’re moving out from our home village 😭
@xxxtenationsvibes8515
@xxxtenationsvibes8515 Жыл бұрын
Life is just different now a days
@yeety1208
@yeety1208 Жыл бұрын
to be honest, i used to start conversations more often before i told her i liked her then after she told me she liked me back she started more of the conversations i think it was probably because she didnt know what to say, but now she says good morning every day which is realy nice
@funplayer05.1
@funplayer05.1 Жыл бұрын
“If they respond with 1 emoji, they’re not for you” Me and my gf: just sending a chain of 1 emoji messages (mostly hearts tho) to eachother in a fair amount of the conversations we have
@funplayer05.1
@funplayer05.1 Жыл бұрын
@DDiyorbek F You'll find someone sooner or later, dw. Just be yourself :)
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
@@funplayer05.1 Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
@funplayer05.1
@funplayer05.1 Жыл бұрын
@@egertroos1691 what did you respond to that? Cuz that's a pretty big sign if ya ask me...
@expoyui
@expoyui Жыл бұрын
Hits too close to home especially rn for me :)
@HUYI1
@HUYI1 Жыл бұрын
The whole video does, and it's always something I notice too about other men that I've chatted too when they either talk to you like a human being or just use you as a peice of meat, I tend to just block these type of men, but the most depressing thing is the majority of men I meet only want one thing and nothing meaningful, this is alarming and depressing, this is why I gave up on finding anyone for good and I've been with my boyfriend since
@ashleyklump4638
@ashleyklump4638 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes you need to knock on their shell to get them to chat. They maybe closed off due to trust issues. Sometimes, patience is a good thing to.
@egertroos1691
@egertroos1691 Жыл бұрын
Does this mean anything if my woman friend asked me when we were texting out of the blue "do you like me?"
@bluberryfrozenyogurt7017
@bluberryfrozenyogurt7017 Жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure my crush is not interested in me. But still watching this video 🤣
@Windermed
@Windermed 4 ай бұрын
watching this video makes me question wether or not someone had actually liked me at ONE point. I'm not sure what i must've done wrong however since texting went really well.
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