7 Habits to Stop Caring What Others Think

[@SharrellKline]

Thank you for this. I turned 65 yesterday I've finally realized just how fierce I am. 2025 will be my best year yet. BTW I love your hair so much! Your entire look actually.

[@janelleespinosa6247]

65 and after have been my BEST years so far!!! I agree, Emily's hair and makeup looks fantastic today!

[@yilomina2047]

Happy Birthday!

[@SharrellKline]

@ 💝

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes!! Cheers to 2025!!! 🙌

[@LRWdesign]

Happy birthday!! 🥳🥳🥳 You are fabulous Ms 65! 🥰❤🤗😘

[@smd8226]

I think this is truly your best video. All the fashion advice in the world is meaningless if we don’t learn how to tame our inner critic. As someone who has been thin their whole life and now find themselves with a menopause belly and a body that feels entirely foreign- this video has reminded me of the beauty that comes with embracing the “wear and tear” and not giving a F.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Ahhh thank you so much! I really loved making this video so I’m glad you feel that way! ❤️

[@donnaalpert]

“Unhappiness is purely the result of comparison.” -Kierkegaard At 70, I’ve learned to employ the Gallic Shrug…then go on my merry way. Key to contentment in life. Well said, Emily.

[@EmilyWheatley]

I love that! And definitely keeping the shrug in mind 😃

[@LRWdesign]

👋🥰 Hello again my inner pixie twin, it’s pixie grandma here. 😂 At age (almost) 64, I’ve learned a few things. 1. Growing up without social media or cell phones vs today’s technology has shown me that personal interaction will never be replaced in my life. I love social media, but not in big doses and I’m picky about it. So be picky and stare at screens less - go take a walk, start a project, read a book made out of paper. 2. Tell yourself every morning ‘who let the elves destroy my hair!’, laugh, wash your face and throw on clothes that make you happy. It’s why the elves mess up your hair when you sleep - so you do things for yourself in the morning. 3. Love yourself. You are you and you are special and unique. There is no other you. Rejoice in yourself. Stand tall in your mind and give yourself grace. ❤ As an artist I find inner peace through acceptance of myself as I am - at any age I may be.

[@patriciaalloway5909]

I’m loving your channel. You have great style and I find your advice empowering! ✌️

[@jamieseaweed5908]

I have a habit of 5 hours of reading non-fiction and fiction a day before I can look at social media! It builds my vocabulary, builds my career knowledge, and boosts my capacity as a learner in all aspects of life. Don't ask me what is on my nightstand because there are 20 non-fiction and 20 fiction books at the moment :) I also make sure I'm reading from BIPOC and Queer writers :)

[@egeyermusic]

I've been returning to your channel for years. You're a beacon of fresh air too.

[@TamiThePinkHairedGirl]

So much great advice! #6 (romanticize your body) is the hardest one for me. I'm 54 and post-menopause, and let me tell you, menopause does some really FUN (she said, dripping with sarcasm) things to your body. I've lost quite a bit of weight over the past year and a half, I eat healthy, and do pretty heavy duty workouts at the gym 3x a week. So I'm in pretty great shape for my age, but there are just areas of my body -- my lower stomach and my batwings -- that are never going to be really toned again unless I were to get lipo. Most of the time, I feel pretty fierce, but accepting the state of those areas is a constant struggle. I think what makes it hard is that even though I'm 54, inside I FEEL 35, so sometimes it feels like my face and my body are betraying me. 😁 But I continue to fight on. 💪😊

[@EmilyWheatley]

Ahhh that is such a conflict for sure! You sound bad ass so just remember that even if it’s hard to romanticize your body.

[@TamiThePinkHairedGirl]

@@EmilyWheatley Thank you! 😘

[@moniquemoreno8742]

Perfectly timed video, Emily! We’ve all over indulged at Christmas time. And that’s ok! Thanks for the reminder to not be too critical when looking in the mirror at ourselves. Some people aren’t as lucky to make it to the age we are currently. You remind me every day to embrace being alive. Thanks for showing up every week. 😊

[@EmilyWheatley]

Great comment! So true about not be ao critical with ourselves after over indulging at Christmas. Thanks so much! Your comment means a lot!

[@Maija-Liisa-o5n]

I buzzed my hair and I'm 71 years old, dyed it Platinum blonde at home. Love from Liisa Sweden 🌺

[@mairead5891]

So much love for this! It takes confidence to develop your own style and be comfortable in your clothes, and you are such a great role model!

[@karenberube8739]

Emily, you have such wisdom for a young mother. There's a poem titled "Warning" by Jenny Joseph written in the the 60's. It made the rounds again in the 80's/90's when The Red Hat Society's became popular. It's opening line, "When I am an old woman I shall wear purple". It speaks to a lot of what you're saying here. I can't agree more, but it took me until my 60's to really feel it in my bones and become courageous enough to be that authentic. It's beautiful, liberating, fun! You're a wise one!

[@katarzynamichalczyk4299]

Girl, if only I could give you multiple thumbs up for the video, it would be today!!!!! You've been on point! And I'm proud that this is my first comment on this platform! I've been following you for quite some time but this is the first time I have to express this! Keep up with the good vibe! I'm curious of your journey :-)

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thank you so much!! So your comment means a lot!! I’m so glad you are here and congrats on the first comment! Happy it was on this video. 🙌

[@susangoodrichlerner7819]

Gosh, you struck so many chords there! I've thought of all those things during my life. A while back, I went off social media. Too tiring to deal with! I have reached that certain age when women become invisible. It is so liberating! I wake up and look at my short, cowlicky hair and then put in some product. If people think it looks sub par, too bad. Two things that were told to me on a regular basis as I was growing up were, "perfect is the enemy of good." As you say, one only needs to be good enough. If you are a perfectionist like I am, that has to beome a mantra.The other is, "It is always better to underdress than overdress." When I go to a big event, I think, "Will people remember what I wore 2 weeks from now?" Bingo. Emily, you are wise beyond your years.

[@jackielambes7208]

Preach sister. For myself it’s the little girl inside me that was made fun of for my clothes. We were poor and I didn’t have many clothes. Even though I can’t buy whatever I want it still makes me insecure to put an outfit together. I am close to 70 and am trying to love that little girl but let her go.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Ahhh that is so rough. Hope that little girl heal ❤️

[@annie-sc]

I really do think this is your branding. ❤ thank you for making us feel that permission to just be ourselves. I live in a city with a very casual environment. But I saw this well-dressed woman in our neighborhood one day and I felt inspired to slightly overdress since then. If we dress well, I believe we kind of allow others (even just a few) to do the same. 😊

[@MelissaAnderson-y1k]

Most people don’t remember what we wore today when we run into them tomorrow- especially if your personality is what they’re attracted to! Rock your clothes my friend!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yes, so true!

[@kq1613]

Bang on as ever 💙💙💙

[@littlecitygirl]

This is just what I needed today, Emily. Thanks for constantly being inspiring to this 60 year old with a very strong inner critic! :)

[@k-lynnb2868]

Awesome, Emily. You, my friend, are the breath of fresh air we all need!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Ahhhhh thank you so much!! That means a lot! You have no idea ☺️

[@lisamcelroy5183]

Thank you so much. You have made such a huge impact on how I feel about my clothes. I started watching you because I absolutely loved your style and now I also love my own. Thank you💕

[@MsMaggieNolia]

Thank you. I started following fashion trends because I needed to build a professional wardrobe after years of wearing scrubs almost every day. (OMG Scrubs were so much easier!) The more I learn about fashion and how rapid trends can come and go, the more I realize I really do not give an F. I could hold my head high and walk with the confidence of a Rockstar in scrubs covered in the most disgusting things and yet deciding which width pant leg I should buy for the office intimidated me. My choice? The pants that fit my body and make me feel like a freakin' rockstar.

[@jrob8071]

Love your hair!!! Thanks for the pep talk!

[@plarsen2654]

I do what I like!!!!That's right. and I like what I do. Be fierce fashionistas!!!!

[@EmilyWheatley]

❤️🙌

[@daphnejackson4348]

Just what I needed to hear❤❤❤. This was right on time and needed to hear it

[@lucjagrabowska2726]

'... I like this outfit and I'm gonna wear, easy as that' ❤

[@tereclemmer7923]

Truly, an inspiration to aim for. Thanks ✨️

[@christinewhite656]

Nice ! You do a very classy video girl, soo here for it ❤

[@BarbSterk]

Loved your #5. Very true and a great way to look at it. Loved all these!

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay, I'm so glad you liked them!

[@lindacurtis7267]

So hard! I’m 68 and still have trouble with this.

[@janelleespinosa6247]

I do believe our main goal in this life is to love ourselves, completely, I'm just a little older than you, and I am just enjoying every minute, even washing dishes, I've decided that everything I do is exactly what I want to be doing. Everything!

[@EmilyWheatley]

I think it will always be a working process for all of us ❤️

[@lindacurtis7267]

@@EmilyWheatleyI need to channel my fearless 16 year old self!

[@clara3322]

Loving this ❤

[@elisabethsteel3382]

I really like your makeup today! It looks very nice on you! Thank you for sharing your thoughts, much appreciated Emily! Have a great weekend from Canada! 🤗👍

[@EmilyWheatley]

Thanks so much! You too! 😊

[@matshagonius6022]

From this episode I learned a lot.....🥰🥰🥰

[@SomebodysNan]

Brilliant topic Emily, just what I needed to hear today!!..bless you!...you truly are inspiring!!!!..Love Margaret in South Australia!!!!

[@MidlifeMinimalist]

I’ve been bingeing your videos and love your style. I have always loved black and white clothing but it is hard not to get sucked into the color analysis trend that seems to be going around so these tips were very timely. I’m already on a social media break and I’m going to focus on perfecting my style and what I love to wear.

[@yilomina2047]

Love your wisdom!

[@EmilyWheatley]

☺️

[@judithroers9655]

Very helpful. Love.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Yay, I'm happy it was helpful!

[@ALEXCHASKE]

Hi 😌👋 how was your thanksgiving and Christmas and new years I sure enjoyed it I even enjoyed Native American heritage day cause I'm Native American myself and I say that your the most beautiful woman in the world 😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌍 and I still got this pow wow to go to I'm gonna be dancing and when I come back home to relax and I'll be watching your content again and again

[@Daisies_work]

Wow! 🤩 Absolutely Lovely! 😊

[@maryjaneboxer2600]

Amen.

[@EmilyWheatley]

:-)

Love this! Thank you!❤

[@emmar3035]

Thank you, Emily💕🩷 perfect message at the perfect time - Emma

[@EmilyWheatley]

So glad you liked it

[@lisanester3338]

YES!!!❤

[@Aisstylish]

Amen!👏

[@hermytools]

Amplified for you, I think, as a creator. 👍🙌🏼❤️

[@chrismctague5015]

Oh glad you just said this. I always think clothes are too plain and masculine a lot of times. Really I just love lines and their infinite configurations. I also love your decor. I'm just not at that level of minimalism in decor.

[@chrismctague5015]

I meant my clothes.

[@ClubFoxRedwoodCity]

Love this. Required viewing.

[@EmilyWheatley]

Love that!

[@Jessy928]

This is like the Axel Vervoordt of clothing style. Leave it to you, Emily to be at the forefront of a fashion movement. ❤

[@EmilyWheatley]

:-)

[@emeraldfernandez5010]

@3.29ish and just before it and after. Is this a subliminal add for that contraption framed by the plant? What is it? it looks grose.

[@likewise6867]

my favorite love scene(s) actually with Rachel MsAdams in the movie About time 💗

[@EmilyWheatley]

Ahhhhh I forgot about that one!! That’s one of my favorite movies and I think that’s the image I was thinking of because she is softer in that one, more real.

[@likewise6867]

i agree ☺

[@wenDesigner]

Absolutely! F**ck em! You rock! Just adore you! 😊❤

[@judithomas5504]

❤❤❤

[@Casscapri]

👋👋👋

[@rhondamcmahon1202]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@shirleyguy7152]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@melocoton7]

It's really easy when you're a nihilistic asshole like me LOL I can't stand most people so imagine how few fucks I give about their opinion of how I look 🙃

[@isol]

What is going on currently??? Unsubscribed!! See yaaaaaaa

[@christinewhite656]

What is that about ! ? ! ?

[@isol]

@ you know what is about!

[@christinewhite656]

​@@isolbless yer lol. You go and enjoy your life