7 Keys to Saving the Sexless Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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@luyandamsomi8402 9 ай бұрын

I must be honest, I am in awe of the sheer vulnerability you guys have on this show. This is truly a ministry, may God bless you guys forever more 🙏🏾

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! We appreciate that

@mattlowe91 9 ай бұрын

As a man, and a married man who has had to deal with this. I had to be ok with the honesty from my wife as well as humble myself knowing she wasn’t articulating this to me to hurt me but rather to be honest with the hopes of me becoming better because when I become better we become better because we are a team. It’s uncomfortable at first because as men we like to think we really puttin it down, but again humility was key for me and a willingness to listen & change….so yes there are men who ask themselves that question

@VanessaSimon26 4 ай бұрын

I wish my husband for have listened for 20 years. He has neglected me emotionally and sexually. I am passionate. It has hurt me so much. Please lord turn our marriage around. Please create a miracle marriage. Please open my husband’s healthy masculine, please open his sexuality with me. I know he is blocked and now I am blocked. Please lord create a miracle in my marriage with my husband, Elkin.

@Godsdaughter771 9 ай бұрын

For us, the opposite. My husband never wants sex and i feel super unattractive. I hear so many sermons on how the men want it all the time and for us thats not the case. 😭

@vinab7843 4 ай бұрын

Same, it hurts for sure. I feel like im downing. I wish we could figure this out 😢

@Godsdaughter771 4 ай бұрын

@vinab7843 It's very lonely. I have heard my whole life how men always want it, so it makes me wonder what's wrong with me. But we must get our joy from the Lord. I get questions like is he depressed or having medical things. And the answer is no to both.

@ShirelleHerron 4 ай бұрын

I'm going through the same thing. We are Currently couples therapy. He is also seeing a therapist to work through his trauma. And I'm in therapy to work through the resentment, frustration, insecurity and temptation to step outside my marriage.

@wordhannah528 4 ай бұрын

❤Thank you for sharing. Pray. Nothing is impossible with God.

@VanessaSimon26 4 ай бұрын

Exactly it kills your self esteem. Depression anxiety. 20 years and we are finally seeing a therapist. How could he not want me? He doesn’t want anyone. Childhood trauma. But for me it hurts because he could have made the effort to go to therapy a long time ago. It feels like I was not worth it. Ya know? Lord turn this around. Please lord make a miracle happen. Please lord give us supernatural love now. Dissolve the obstacles in our intimacy and our lives. Amen. Thank you.

@tammiemontiel132 9 ай бұрын

Hey Ken and Tab. From my experience and from what I’ve heard from many women in terms of her not being attracted to her husband, it’s usually because he’s mistreating her. It’s hard to be attracted to someone who’s mean or abusive. My husband and I always say, a man or woman can be the finest, sexiest person but if they’re mean and rude… it’s makes them ugly and unattractive. Just some food for thought.

@VanessaSimon26 4 ай бұрын

And if your husband neglects your and loves their work more than you the wife,so sad. Lord turn this around create a miracle in my marriage.

@cameliamoodie4928 9 ай бұрын

This youtube channel will change and save so many marriages, my God I'm so blessed to have you two ❤️ on youtube.

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha Ай бұрын

Glory to God!

@jnew251 9 ай бұрын

Man Pastor Ken and Tabatha yall are talking directly to me I am going to do better my wife deserves it

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha Ай бұрын

How's that going so far? (:

@jnew251 Ай бұрын

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha it is going great we have become intimate and has brought excitement back to our marriage

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha Ай бұрын

@@jnew251 We love to hear that! Thank you for sharing 🙏

@GodMade1012 9 ай бұрын

I agree three times a week with your spouse is great. She’s definitely right your health is very important.

@tgjickyvex2522 9 ай бұрын

For a lot of women, the sex with their husband becomes redundant. Women deal with bad sex for the sake of loving their mate. Are men asking themselves how to get better in sex or is the ego in the way.

@dwaynebastiany9816 7 ай бұрын

Then add something to it. How come sex is based on man performance where women get to sit and judge. Ya’ll do nothing

@dwaynebastiany9816 7 ай бұрын

2-3x a week is like every other day. Sounds good to me.

@bricelegendnducho 4 ай бұрын

I'm in love with this channel already, love the vulnerability

@gaillastof8851 9 ай бұрын

This was good. The practical advice was useful. Maan having children really does change things, cause talk about libido. Also on the flip side there's those times when you want to be intimate with your Hubby undisturbed. Lol. I'm glad you touched on the intimacy without necessarily going as far as penetrative because that level of care and attention especially after a long day can be So meaningful. ❤ Thank you

@nontobekomagwaza2455 9 ай бұрын

Love this channel! We are greatful for u Pastors! Watching from South Africa.

@verontabryant3441 9 ай бұрын

This is by far the best teachings of this topic I’ve ever heard. God Bless you guys!

@JohnDretired 15 күн бұрын

Starts at 25:30 .

@Nomfundomahlati 9 ай бұрын

This was very informative thank you……Tabatha you are just gorgeous 💐🤗

@keithjones1028 9 ай бұрын

Great information for marriages. Appreciate being transparent and upfront

@megan.alexis 8 ай бұрын

I absolutely adore you two. My husband and I are at your Florida campus . Love these conversations, I def needed that push to get hormones checked ! It’s important 💕💕

@lionelcyrillebomgning7681 9 ай бұрын

God bless you for this wonderful show

@judith018 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for keeping it so real and vulnerable.

@aviharris6874 9 ай бұрын

Today's church dont talk about sex during their sermons...so many divorced ppl in the church and alot ended due to sex, money and communication

@VanessaSimon26 4 ай бұрын

Exactly.

@allisonburgess1180 9 ай бұрын

What if the roles were reversed and it's the wife who's always ready, to initiate, and yet being rejected?

@priscillachinsembu4669 9 ай бұрын

It works the same....

@claudiawilliams7682 7 ай бұрын

I wanna say thag God led me ro you guys ministry and i thank him for that. Just in a couple episodes I've felt conviction, and understanding of my role as a wife now. You guys are definitely being used by the Lord i appreciate your obedience in your ministry. Im becoming a better wife and woman of God. Thank you so much. God bless you guys dearly

@carlenemccutchen4570 9 ай бұрын

Wonderful Episode! Great Biblical Teachings! God Bless the both of you and your ministry!

@brianadowning2904 4 ай бұрын

Great tips! Definitely need to implement. Thank you for sharing.

@carladraffen9145 3 ай бұрын

I Cor 7:6 “But this is a concession, not as a commandment” This context is important. ❤

@tazangel3813 Ай бұрын

In regards to sex within a marriage?? Or period

@ShellyGyrlLife 4 ай бұрын

I absolutely love this! Thank you so much and i pray God continues lead you on this journey of vulnerability.

@vashabrown2139 2 ай бұрын

Awesome podcast!

@nankyasenungi7382 9 ай бұрын

So good! I appreciate the teachings and Godly perspective.

@paradiseparadise9413 9 ай бұрын

I thank God for you two!

@tawandadunbar8731 5 ай бұрын

Oh this is sooo good!!!

@SheSharpNotFlat 9 ай бұрын

Awesome tips!

@clarencebarnes6264 Ай бұрын

First time watching very informative podcast

@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha Ай бұрын

Don't forget to check out the other episodes :) Thank you for watching!

@hardythomas21 9 ай бұрын

I'm seriously going to ask my wife to watch this with me later and hope she says Yes. Because I think most couples in these situations never get fixed because only one is all in on fixing it.

@mrs.wilson2275 9 ай бұрын

This was awesome!!!

@AnetraDraine 9 ай бұрын

Awesome

@corinamarie3666 5 ай бұрын

I’m currently going through this

@cameronking1424 9 ай бұрын

Great

@dtrainNY 4 ай бұрын

I’ve been married 12 years and my wife is with holding sex and says we need to go to therapy, yet I’m not the one with holding sex but I am willing to go.

@annabanzon313 4 ай бұрын

Therapy for what? Did she say?