The Dangers of a Sexless Marriage Pt 2

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@scorchedearth824 4 ай бұрын

Im late watching this, but let us be real, a lot of us as believers came into our marriages not fully healed, Ive experiencing this now, im taking hits for things i wasn't a part of.

@bobbywallace4225 4 ай бұрын

I feel you. All you can do is lift your prayer game, and be supportive. You see and feel the change. That person must read there Bible and get the healing they need. We must all look into ourselves to be sharpened.

@mrs.jasmine4151 9 ай бұрын

Thank you sooo much for part two . It was much needed

@joyhearn6792 5 ай бұрын

“You are not my friend.” My God this is so me.

@tayshacole964 5 ай бұрын

Same!

@PatronErdos 23 күн бұрын

MeToo

@Jazminndowns 5 ай бұрын

I want to be the wife my husband wants but he wants me to do it all and somehow have the energy to be affectionate and soft. When I broke my schedule down all I got was “you got the same 24 hour like me” basically figure it out your my wife and you have wifely obligations. I have 2 jobs, 2 kids under 2 and a dog that he wants to keep. I can’t even get a monthly date, I have nothing to look forward to with my marriage at this point. I don’t know how much more you want me to give when it’s one-sided. He doesn’t understand why I’m so upset with him when I been through so much to feel like I’m getting nothing out of being together. It’s crazy but these videos are helping me not just end it all with him.

@taraboddie 5 ай бұрын

I greatly sympathize with you. Many women have felt that burden and it is difficult to bear. If you are able to lighten your load by hiring help do so or pray that God gives you a job position that will give you the ability to find balance.

@c0nundrm 3 ай бұрын

2 jobs? And take care of the house? Does he help? And what does he do for a living? If you’re working two jobs then apparently his job isn’t enough. Or atleast the home duties need to be split evenly.

@kimberlynewman1081 6 ай бұрын

So informational, Thank you

@angieashby71 5 ай бұрын

This is some good information. Can you do a video about a narcissistic spouse that withholds intimacy /sex as a form of punishment?

@akinyemidaniel1817 6 ай бұрын

I am glad I found this

@shanamanning8892 26 күн бұрын

This is really good

@weldit 6 ай бұрын

So i work physically for 12 hr and then come 45 minutes home one way only to work another 4 hours sharing cleaning and child care , then spend 45 minutes warming her up for 15 minutes of enjoyment. Kind of one sided.

@taraboddie 6 ай бұрын

If she's at home and doesn't work her job is at home, but she gets to get off work too right? When you have small children BOTH of you have two jobs. If you ignore the need to co-raise your children to save your marriage you'll lose your wife.

@Faithfullfertilitytv 6 ай бұрын

45 minutes!?

@weldit 6 ай бұрын

So maybe a little over exaggerated.

@QETVAN Ай бұрын

@@weldit sometimes it doesn’t matter what or how you do it they still ignore you. Even if you take all the load and stress off your spouse and the outcome is still No, or don’t even think about it, eventually you’ll quit making advances. My wife didn’t care what I did it wasn’t happening, and no my shape was good, this all started soon after marriage 34 years ago. Divorced now. As of 2023.

@melstarr1864 Ай бұрын

So, you would prefer not to have to “warm her up?” Or are you one of those men that believe that the woman’s foreplay should be satisfied when you write the check to Con Edison?

@summerarnold-hs6hr 5 ай бұрын

I have 6kids 1bd and I literally work all day non stop and I have been communicating this for 9years 17:20 is exactly me I left him and now I’m boohoo crying because I have to let him come back because I have absolutely no help with all these babies I thought my mom would help me and nothing not one person to help me idk what to do I left it to god and I’m just boohoo crying I don’t want to work it out I want to leave and never look back but I got all these kids by myself 😪😪😪😪

@eddieburnett4954 5 ай бұрын

Great information I love it

@bobbiemichaelsNyc86 2 ай бұрын

So powerful

@1979Rockstar1 20 күн бұрын

Been married for 10 years wife cheated still together not sure why anymore. I come home to see my son but I’m in a sexless marriage . I have someone on the side . I checked out a long time ago but I don’t think this is healthy anymore . What should I do ?

@taraboddie 20 күн бұрын

@@1979Rockstar1 You all need marriage counseling. This is definitely not the road to be on. Tara Boddie.com under services.

@kevinlayne8129 19 күн бұрын

Leave, and just be there for the kid. Self respect is everything. ❤

@JohnDretired 15 күн бұрын

Leave.

@Faithfullfertilitytv 6 ай бұрын

SOOO good!

@joannadiaz2954 5 ай бұрын

No communication with in the marriage

@victoriam.8938 5 ай бұрын

I'm new to your Podcast and love it.😊 However, neither spouses are mind readers, so if a spouse is lacking a need in a particular area then that need to be communicated......which is another conversation. Next, men are quick to say they need peace and respect, but they forget things that they may have done to contribute to the "nagging!" For an ex. affair (physical or emotional), lack of support, validation, or a simple "thank you" for all we do as wives! Therefore, to me it's NOT nagging...it's a women's way of trying to let her husband know how she feels. While she may sound as though she is nagging....it could be because her needs are being neglected possibly and most likely due to some of the things I've named above!

@c0nundrm 3 ай бұрын

I feel like she started to exhibit some of that masculine aggression around the end. And the. To fall back into the scriptures as protection. To say “men are supposed to do all of the work, women are just a helpmate.” Was pretty tasteless it ruined a really good series and gave alot of women an out. Where this series was pretty well balanced until then. If we want to go to that scripture and look at it that way. I’m a supervisor/a leader of people as my company puts it. I’m in charge and at one point early in my career I was trying to do it all and it was killing me and I was failing. Until an old supervisor told me “yes you’re responsible for it all but as a leader, you can’t do it all so you should know when to delegate activities to your subordinates in order to make the whole work. They started off talking about partnership then for her to interject that bit really put a sour taste in my mouth. Not to mention she seemed to dominate the bulk of the 1/3 of the discussion. They seemed to lose that synergy that was so good in the first part.

@PhilmaticLingo 4 ай бұрын

These conversations seem so one sided I guess for the majority of marriages most men can be lazy. But I know men who cook clean. Help with child even tho most of the older ones are self sufficient. Go on dates give compliments and words of affirmation. Most women don’t even know what they asking for when a man get in the gym and eats right. Ya testosterone goes up and libido goes up and most women are not honest with themselves the cannot keep up with that type of sex drive anymore. There are stages of marriage 1-5, 5-10, 10-15, 15-20 etc they always talk about 1-10 with little children I understand those years are hard but what about 10-20 two totally different marriages

@taraboddie 4 ай бұрын

@@PhilmaticLingo You’re listening to one video about one stage of marriage. There are several videos discussing the other stages. Although stage 1-5 is not the only stage it can have a tremendous effect on the others. If you and your male friends are doing right in partnership with your wives this message isn’t for you. It’s for those that aren’t.