7 Lessons To Learn From Bill Gates Divorce | Kingsley Okonkwo

[@TaiwoPeterOdeh]

Without flattery, Pst Kingsley has uncommon wisdom.

[@GoingdeeperinGod]

Very apt. Thanks a million my pastor (online)

[@victorskydotdev]

He does actually...

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[@ruthchiemela1936]

Very true

[@AmaraOhaji]

Hes the only pastor i listen to when it comes to relationships He speaks to my soulllL❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@crissoa]

I tend to believe that broken marriages run in a family. It’s a spirit. If you’re from such a family, it would be wise to start counseling early.

[@adeolasaba2000]

And prayers to avoid the familiar ancestoral pattern that want the force of broken marriages to continue down the line Matthew 12:,43-45 KJV [43] When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none. [44] Then he saith, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he findeth it empty, swept, and garnished. [45] Then goeth he, and taketh with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation.

[@kayode-alliabiodun7119]

Pst Kingsley, you really have a gift in this ministry. God bless you.

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[@Tomiwa101]

I hope the video reduces the pressure on Nigerian women to marry a rich man and also puts let's less pressure on Nigerian men to be rich just for the sake of marriage.

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

Excellent point there. 👍💯

[@maydvicky3316]

Marrying a man who is starting life is worse

[@MVPMoe4ever]

So true. Marriage is really hard especially when you both start to grow individually and at the same time. Different goals and expectations start to change and if it's no more aligned together, then there is breakdown in communication. Sad that man African men don't want to do counseling with their spouse.

[@nadinelubs]

You are so right… the journey gets harder the longer you’ve been with each other, trying to fulfil your own ambitions, no togetherness, lack of purpose on what joined you in the 1st place. Fr my experience, separation & reconciliation without dealing with the root cause will still land a divorce… i’m about to let go… but still learning fr all pastor is teaching. What’s the point of counselling when the other party refuse to do it? Anyway pastor K. Thank you sir… key points that reminds us that money is not everything👍

[@MVPMoe4ever]

@@nadinelubs Yea both parties have to be willing to go to counseling but the problem is, one partner does not see a problem so marriage stand at a stalemate. Everyone just living until it crashes. Pastor K and Pastor Mildred perspective from the woman side has definitely helped me personally to work on myself and communication methods as well. I pray we all continue to learn and improve. Excellent teachers.

[@chidimmaemuh4783]

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[@TOPSYCURVEY]

Pastor,may God continue to empower you and strengthen you in this area of marriage. I have been married for 6 years plus now and I still listen to you and Pastor M like I’m a single lady. Why do I do this? It’s because I NEVER HAD GOOD EXAMPLES OF MARRIAGES “INCLUDING MY PARENTS” AROUND ME WHEN GROWING UP. I promised myself that I must marry RIGHT AND MY MARRIAGE WILL NOT FAIL. My Hubs and I are continually working on our marriage every day! Are we happy? Yes but we deal with issues while maturing every day

[@PrevailingPrayers]

We outwork divorce! Giving silence treatment to silence an existing matter is part of the cracks in a marriage

[@lexie02jones25]

to any relationships too.

[@lameckluwanda3506]

Hi there. You are doing very nice work indeed in teaching. Now, I just want to point out that the church is also playing part in the increase in the number of divorces in our society. The church is not about its leaders, I am talking about the entire church of Jesus Christ. Principles you teach must come and start from our households. They should be ingrained in our daily culture if we want to have happy marriages. I have observed people getting married for the wrong reasons such as age. Many women are pushing marriages to happen before they reach menopause. This is just one reason, there are many more. I think we should also start teaching parents how to guide their children before they make that fatal mistake. I am submitting the case and I will keep following this page for learning, I prefer to be a student for life. Cheers! Be blessed!

[@alphonsinetshibola3494]

I'm finally enjoying my single years because of your teachings and guidance. May the almighty God give you double for your trouble. We honour you and Ps Mildred Kingsley Okonkwo!

[@kenchika4358]

Honestly,God is sweet

[@synthiaakinsola7708]

This is quite different from all these bloggers spewing out nonsense just to be seen on internet. Very educative and insightful

[@keneilwemarwane]

We need God

[@debbiehilles]

Absolutely correct! Money doesn’t necessarily make a Marriage work!!!!!💯💯

[@joyfiyinfoluwa2686]

It is this point for me "Principles does not respect you" I love God ehn He made sure everything is equal for everyone...what you" put in "is what you "get out"

[@hugs2mama425]

Point number 6 for me is so true. I believe it is so crucial. Unfortunately people overlook it thinking time will make it better. It really doesn’t and even when we change to accommodate our differences if it is only one person doing the compromise it eventually becomes burdensome.

[@themuyiwaolagunju]

Thank you Pastor K for your consistent coaching. You remain a blessing to me

[@bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239]

"Respect principals because principals won't respect you" lol...funny, but more importantly very true! Amen! I thank God he lead me to this ministry. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@genevieveadiekwue999]

Lp0

[@eniolaolaitan4705]

It takes a lifetime to know a successful wedding!

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

I loved this video ❤️❤️❤️ The last part: Respect principles because principles don’t respect you🙌🏼‼️

[@hugs2mama425]

Thank you Pastor, for your wisdom. I am commenting before watching. That’s how much I trust you and your impact. Now let me learn.

[@canadianlife5832]

Pastor pls do you have videos on reconciliation after broken homes

[@julesyarling1227]

Dear pastor Kingsley, after listening to ur conversation with toke makinwa on Toke moments, I'm officially a huge fan of u. More wisdom my pastor. I'm new here guys welcome me with some words of wisdom

[@Mywatercrystaltv]

1. Celebs are human: be compassionate 2. knowledge & genius in career or business does not translate to success in marriage. 3. Money doesn't necessarily equate successful marriage 4. Money influences relationships- sense of entitlement, less patient 5. It takes a lifetime to know a successful marriage 6. Cracks & Issues should be tackled heads on. 7. Principles of marriage don't respect status or moods!

[@isebi7592]

Thanks love 😍 you saved me time.

[@Sheruffin04]

Thank you so much for the cliff notes. Can you do this for all videos? Lol

[@victoriaayoola4755]

Well done

[@edwinemmanuel5347]

Principles don't respect your mood or status... Powerful!

[@zakiyyanazifi3860]

Wow...wisdom...this is really helpful...Pk I have been listening and reading your materials of late...like today I spent over 2 hours watching your videos...gosh sir...u have been a blessing to me..😭😭😭😭

[@motivateme2869]

It depends on what part of the world you come from. In Africa and some part of Asia ,people marry for money but in the west, people marry for Love 💕

[@user-hw3hh6qr9h]

Many thanks Pastor K. Your wisdom is profound. Always a blessing. Yourself and Pastor Mildred are a blessing to the body of Christ.

[@obinnaezeobi]

I think the West or most developed countries have the belief that marriage is a CONTRACT instead of a COVENANT. So, as long as couples Subconsciously still see Marriage as a CONTRACT, the possibility of DIVORCE is inevitable. Bill and Melinda Gates’ Marriage was built on a contract not a covenant. When I found out that Melinda Agreed that Bill Gates could spend some weeks on holiday with his Ex, every year, I knew that was one of the cracks from the unset of the marriage. Thanks Pastor K, always on point with your Teachings. Gracias Muchos.

[@victoro.2696]

Kai! More grace Pastor Sir! There were indeed underlying issues from years before Year 27 that weren't dealt with... God help us

[@moneypenny3050]

Pastor Kingsley when you talked about being willing vs being ready for marriage and how you just ran into the bush and sat down ... you had me rolling with laughter - I shared the video with my friend. I also like when you said it's hard to fail without useless friends😊 You're the best

[@queenalayaba]

Pastor can you cover things on how to console your husband when he is facing hard times?

[@hannahansah612]

I can’t stop laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣…….. wisdom is speaking. Very educative and inspiring.🙏🥰💃😘

[@ekaetefujah]

You can’t imagine how helpful…

[@gospelvesseltv]

Am preparing for my marriage , I need to get knowledge before. I enter and your books will be a great blessing for me .Following you this few days You really inspired me . Thank you and God bless once again

[@Felixehidiamhen]

No. 7 is very striking. Principles doesn't have respect for status. Success in any sphere of life is a product of adherence to Principles. Thank you sir

[@foluerinle2982]

I agree sir, money influences relationships and egos are highly inflated. It's actually a great concern for me, God help me 🙏🏾 Yes, time only reveals things not heal them. The 7th point is still something I've been pondering on for a while. Thank you very much PK

[@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439]

My 1st pre marital counsellor said he had nothing to teach us since we were educated Ha!!!

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Wow

[@diyallthings]

🤣

[@nelsonasuen]

Wahala ooo🤣

[@okoanamabraham3417]

Omo.. Wetin be this? 😆😆😅

[@marylyndaobioha]

God forbid bad thing. Tufiakwa!🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@nathanpsalmist2242]

Wow it takes a life time to know a successful marriage....

[@onomeochuba8148]

Thank you Sir, i enjoyed this.

[@ernestmulenga3890]

Very powerful massage for us who are about to enter into the journey of marriage.

[@insightwithgoodness]

God bless you Pst Kingsley. Lots of profound wisdom here!

[@iggytv7849]

Pastor K sha like 7 ehn! 🤣🤣😂😂 Always insightful! Thanks sir!

[@danielattah1836]

I'm 100% convinced that I'd have had a divorce if I never heard these things.

[@ayolovephat]

Wow. That's.....deep.

[@bismarckbetty6799]

God thank you for the gift that you packaged in pastor K.

[@nneomakalu2008]

This was funny and insightful as always. Thanks Pastor

[@judithymwafisheni5911]

Lots of love PK & PM

[@aduragbemiadedamola5579]

I've sincerely been looking for answers since bill and melinda gates got divorced,saw this tonight and it had answered my questions.thanks Pastor K

[@goldiaebere7773]

This was So insightful. Thank you so much Sir

[@ikegbunamwendy9227]

Thank you so much sir for your knowledge 🙏 I’ve learned so much from you 🎉

[@ligomthaddeus3855]

pastor, it has been my dream to counsel our youths and save the next generation. The society is bad as result of failed marriages.

[@andrewmicheal8878]

Profund

[@emmaJ1873]

Patience is the key thing. Like you said when a person is rich, he or she will not tolerate anything from the partner. Patience is the fruit of the Spirit, even a rich man doesn't have Patience to serve God. Tolerance and patience is what every man or woman needs inorder not to be a victim of divorce. Not everyone living together is happily married.

[@nontoncube8450]

I don't think it's about the person being rich. It's solely about the person valuing money over the relationship. It's not like being rich is a curse.

[@dorcaskulugh128]

Gold and diamond seller😂🤣🤣🤣🤣. Pastor K the gold consultant🤣🤣🤣🤣. These points are so real and helpful . Thank you sir.

[@apostlestantv5043]

Thank you pastor Kingsley.. Respect principles and learn to work hard.. marriage requires hard work and learning...

[@victoriaayoola4755]

It has been helpful 🎉

[@jonathandepth9364]

"Marriage is a GIVEN"!

[@josephinemutiso8599]

thank you Pastor K

[@ekaetefujah]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@peggytony4425]

I think there should be a reason section for people who give a thumbs down

[@divinerevealations]

I am sharing this and applying to my life . Thank you pastor

[@favour6429]

Principle has no respect for status. Powerful!! God bless you pastor.hmmmmmm

[@evelynchizoba9085]

Great! MOG you are so graced in this area. More grace sir.

[@jasonaseye2809]

Very helpful insight

[@limungaregina-jw8yz]

Wow that's awesome i have learnt alot

[@absolutelysimon9209]

Excellent 👌. Do you have videos on in-laws or parents with regards to marriage??

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

I have some books , visit www.LDMwithpk.org

[@kwamealbertMusic]

The supervision of return of the rings 💍🤣🤣🤣

[@abieyuwaolayinka9011]

You are amazing pastor KO. Thanks again for this insightful teaching. You are also always humorous

[@LME101_]

Sir, please what do you mean by a crisis marriage? Thank you so much for your insight.

[@pharmclare]

Words of wisdom. Thank you Sir. The money part were on point and it got me especially the analogies. Time and healing, very good perspective 👌

[@Queenestherstrybe]

Thank you Pastor Kingsley

[@ayichipromise6465]

Thank you Pastor I'm enjoying my singleness because of the lessons I have learnt from you and PM. God bless you sir

[@LOLAandOLA]

Awesome video. Make sure your time stamps shows the first as 0:00 if you want it to show on the video.

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

Done it 🙏🏽

[@samuelakinbola8654]

Thank you sir for your consistent effort to liberate us from future errors that may likely occurring. In the multitude of counsel there's safety...

[@chordkeys]

Is it about getting help, knowledge or both individuals just cooperating. The two people have to be operating at the same frequency and they just truly want to be together. You won't even have certain kind of issues if this be the case

[@neneuko]

Thank you sir..Marriage is alot of work and tests character and the ability to balance other aspects of life..We must be ready to become neophytes all over again to learn if we must grow in certain areas.

[@ivyrmadziwa943]

So profound teachings

[@ijeomacash211]

Straight talk. Remain blessed

[@rimamglobalministries1351]

Thank you so much sir for sharing. Very rich as always. God bless and keep you through sir

[@lewisowusuboadi5970]

Is a blessing watching this. Thank you.

[@royaldeehomestead1028]

True words Pst K. Marriage issues never go away. And the many points are food for thought. Great Wisdom Sir

[@olivepaul488]

Weldone Sir. More grace

[@FavourFAjayi]

I absolutely agree at the inflated ego part

[@ruthekrigwe515]

It is the supervision of the returning of the ring for me. Lol

[@jerrseyy1088]

Very interesting. Great points made! Thankyou

[@tafusmurielle298]

Very helpful, thank you for sharing your insight.

[@evangelistcabradoose]

Thanks for the nice intelligent piece. How does principles affect marriage when they are insulted?

[@SimiAdelusi]

PK with the wisdom…thank you so much for all this insight

[@Mekuzee_Khen]

Pastor Kay!!! God bless you sir!

[@cpalmer0903]

👏🏾🤎💯💪🏾 YOU R THE GOAT!

[@essehappinesspius7460]

God help me?, am not really rich yet I already hv it planned to have my separate building Incase my husband starts giving issues I will jst go to my house for awhile because am sure my family will never let me come home, my mum always say choose wisely if you marry a man you never return home it's till death... thank you sir, the massage has Correct my ideology I better start preparing to solve all issues that might come rather Dan running..tnx sir

[@modupeoladeinde8995]

These 7 lessons mentioned here are very insightful Pastor Okonkwo, thank you!

[@Mowatojesu]

Always detailed

[@benedictdeorti]

This is true sir. I attest to this sir. Thank you for this warning.

[@calisteroyekunle7739]

Very helpful thank you so much pastor K

[@gospelvesseltv]

Rev God Almighty richly bless you for the wonderful work you are doing in the kingdom of God . I need your books on marriage to buy , am in Ghana how can I get it to buy?

[@maurahans_]

Amazing! So full of gems. Thank you, sir.

[@patkatiduh4768]

Thank you.

[@bkgee007]

Fantastic!!

[@freshangel1]

This was very helpful

[@Ewoenam05]

It’s the brokenness that’s making my mother stay in marriage 😅😅 my father can travel but mummy cannot oo 😂

[@marylyndaobioha]

Yess Pastor....It was helpful!👏