Qualities You Must look Out For Before Saying I Do | Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo

Are you ready to get married? 💍 Before you say "I Do," make sure you know the essential qualities to look for in a partner. In this insightful video, renowned relationship expert and coach Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo shares powerful advice on what truly matters in choosing the right life partner.
🔑 Learn the critical traits that can make or break a marriage. Whether you're dating, engaged, or just thinking about your future, these expert tips will help you make informed decisions for a lasting and happy relationship.
In this video, Dr. Kingsley covers:
Top qualities every partner must have before marriage
Red flags to avoid in relationships
How to build a strong foundation for a successful marriage
The role of character, values, and emotional maturity in choosing a spouse
Tips for singles and engaged couples
If you're serious about finding the right partner, don't miss this must-watch video! Remember to subscribe for more expert relationship advice, dating tips, and marriage guidance from Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo.
📌 Keywords: relationship expert, marriage advice, qualities before marriage, choosing a partner, Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo, dating tips, relationship coach, how to find the right partner, marriage tips, red flags in relationships, emotional maturity, successful marriage
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[@humphreyngobeni164]

1. PURPOSE 2.PERSON 3.PREPARATION 4.PRINCIPLES (LOVE and RESPECT) 5. PRIORITY 6.PARTNESHIP 7.PROJECT

[@gloriaofori7509]

Thank you

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❤

[@chineduchikwendu5097]

🙏

[@russelllevers9513]

I listened to them almost every day. I have been a better man. I will be a very very great husband for the glory of God.

[@lizzyphiri6069]

May it be so. God bless you

[@SPN1987]

You shall be a great husband indeed. This is wisdom packed

[@welovenayy7200]

Amen!

[@jackychela4638]

Amen

[@anitamawugbe2620]

Can I be your wife

[@anyanwujuliet8022]

7 things to look out for before saying I do by Pastor Kingsley. Define the relationship. 1. Purpose of marriage- Have a good reason to marry. -Complement each other(opposites attract) 2. The Person you enter the marriage with. -2 people can make it work while 1 angered person can destroy it. The quality the person possesses. Be in Christ,christ-like character, 3. The Preparation you put into it. How will you have an event planner and not a counsellor. 4. The principles of marriage(love and respect). Marriage has principles. A letter for men is that men love Acceptance while for women is Attention. R for men is Respect while R for women is Romance(men doing little things in extra-ordinary ways). For men* (if your present isn't presentable,talk about your future). 5. The Priority of marriage. Your partner comes first before your family and all others. 6. The Partnership of marriage. The whole idea of marriage is partnership. Agree in everything. Everyrhing multiplies when the two partners are in agreement. 7. The Project of marriage. The Project of your marriage is your spouse.

[@benardokyere9551]

Married for 6 years and this presentation will be worth while for the next 30 years of our life. My wife is my project. Help me God

[@welovenayy7200]

God bless you & your family ❤

[@benardokyere9551]

Amen 🙏. God be gracious to your family too

[@elormmortey8883]

Word

[@wingclahmbong2745]

"Marriage is not a reward, it is an assignment . Your Partner is your project you have purpose for been in their lives" Your husband or wife is your marking guide.. Soo blessed with this message 😢🎉.

[@JosephpEgharan]

Never have I heard such an intelligent man like this!!!! Wonderful and powerful teachings

[@Farm-Savvy]

When pst. K closes his eyes when talking, he is talking to our souls. 😊

[@opeolojo5978]

Sir, with humility pls remember man proposes, but Only God disposes. Many desire to marry early, but sometimes, life happens. The most important prayer should be that whenever God's timetable reaches u or mercy speaks for u, may u receive the grace, strength & health to enjoy & carry u thru the blessing!

[@FlorenceTeboh]

You are also but you and knows that most men will ready all round but choose to rubbish around

[@TruthWillprevail1313]

Father hear my prayers. I’m a single mother. Both of my sons are special needs, and require much from me but I know God will give me the strength and courage that I need to continue to keep going. So while I struggle to buy groceries and while I struggle to pay rent. I will keep faith. Always. Amen Praise God!

[@queenepps6311]

The Lord will see you dear... keep believing ❤

[@rwa877]

Amen.

[@lizzyfresh07]

Speak to your problem about God, don’t talk to God about your problem, He already knows. Read Mark 11:23. Stay blessed.

[@realityidol5701]

Can we make it work together

[@oluwaferanmiayanwale]

Sorry to interject, but I see this comment on almost every MOG's videos...from Apostle Iren, to Apostle Femi Lazarus, now to PK. And you commented on every single video(especially Apostle Iren and CCI)for atleast close to 2 months now with the same words. Copy and paste. Don't you have a local church you worship at and your pastor could help? I'm not insensitive but I highly doubt the authenticity of your claim. You are basically everywhere.

[@fayemidaniel6880]

This man has seen both gender finish😂 God bless you Pastor K! My marraige is going to be great in Jesus name

[@PerfectIgani]

In a kingdom marriage we are interdependent 👏👏👏 Well done Sir..

[@EmmanuelNde-i6h]

Father I have listened and I have learned better bring me the man I will partner with and build with I will be a good wife ijn amen

[@NiwandindaMerious-jd2jk]

I like this guy with his wife. Only God knows. Much love from Uganda 🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪

[@iamkrisefobi]

Number 4: Principles of Marriage 51:06. "When a marriage is working, it's not by chance, marriage has principles"

[@chinnyireaja7416]

Pastor K is a blessing to this generation

[@ibibo-adabruce8169]

Help me Lord to key into your WILL for me. Pastor K you are a blessing to generations

[@iamkrisefobi]

Number 1: Purpose of Marriage 18:04. "When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable"

[@olukemialatise5708]

Marriage is mystery ( Ephesians 5vas32) & deeper than ocean 🌊. More grace Pastor K

[@ihejirikaadaeze1660]

I love that word " intellectual compatibility" Kudos to you Sir, u really hid the point

[@AMBROSEYEVUTSE]

As important as the message is, I must admit it's as funny as a comedy show 😂

[@nkechiagbawu7016]

Honestly

[@Realityofcreation]

You are right.... sounds like entertainment

[@estherifeoma7350]

I agree with you

[@veeydisplay]

You're right, he's an entertainer ❤😅

[@emmanuelogunjimi9239]

I guess that's the role of his sanguine temperament at work.

[@iamkrisefobi]

Number 3: Preparations you put into the Marriage 47:17. "People come to marriage with high expectations but low preparations"

[@GloriaOluwabukunmi]

I happy I listened to this before getting married

[@maryannenyambura2985]

Such powerful and profound teachings.We will marry once and we will marry right.I am so blessed

[@tugineyoimmaculate7182]

Live from Uganda 🇺🇬

[@russelllevers9513]

My God has loose my wife hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah glory to Jesus. Satan did everything to stop it but failed.... God has joined my wife and I. We are very very successful and blessed to Jesus be the glory

[@zayasnaturalhairhaven3451]

Pastor Kay with his young uncle story😅😂😂 that always makes me laugh 😂🤣😅. This message is very profound 🔥

[@DaberechiNwoko-pj4hv]

Wow... U're a blessing to our generation. God bless you richly 🙏

[@giftlicious2936]

May we never meet men who are with us only for what they can get...without real love in the heart 😢..

[@Philomena-v2t]

Amen ohh

[@Mindful_Mm]

Mariage in Africa is that... It benefits men mostly

[@chidaluben]

​@@Mindful_MmPlease stop having such relationships

[@chidaluben]

​@@Mindful_Mmsuch mindsets, I mean

[@King_Miracle]

That's called "marriage in Africa". Not Kingdom Marriage.​@@Mindful_Mm

[@olaniranifeoluwa6978]

Oh, it’s only God that will bless you for this teaching and others. I learnt a lot as a single lady from this teaching sir. May your anointing never runs dry in Jesus name sir. God bless you and your wife

[@Fervy-bold]

I am blessed When ever I listen to u Sir. God bless you 🙏

[@russelllevers9513]

I love your teaching man of God!!!! Keep it up

[@victorsolomon2623]

What a message! God bless you, pastor.

[@joycewatt8289]

I’ve been married 16 years now I’m only 15:40 in but I am cracking up 😂 😂😅 because it’s so true …at least it has been for me…I’m doing better y’all but my husband has told me some of these same things…. One think I’ve learned FOR SURE …Is most men VALUE peace.

[@humphreyngobeni164]

MARRIAGE is not a REWARD, but is an ASSIGNMENT

[@mattanthony6458]

True talk

[@NiwandindaMerious-jd2jk]

It's a sacrifice also

[@Timothy-Faniyi]

This is really profound. God bless you and your ministry in the name of Jesus

[@amercy5024]

This is indeed a University of Marriage, your take all the courses prescribed in this class and you shall have a successful Marriage life.❤❤🎉 bless the Okonkwos🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@petronellamutalama3621]

I needed these teachings. Now my eyes are open, and I've realised where I was going wrong, and I now have the right tools to use as I wait on God to order my footsteps and allow my assigned mate to find me. Thank you for helping me learn how to prepare for my man. Thank you for the 7Ps and the true meaning of acceptance and respect to a man and for a man. Please keep me in your because one day soon, I will testify of the faithfulness of God and how He has used your ministry to not only deliver me but lead on the right path 🙏 I'm trusting God❤

[@jenniferqueen8695]

Pastor k is a blessing to this generation.God bless you sir

[@worshiptheholiestofholies.8851]

Thank you pastor for this word. It's an eye opener for me to see my husband as a project.

[@raphaelnkemakonam5430]

This is a great podcast for all married couples and those intending to do so. I really appreciate his way of bringing out the little details we badly need to succeed. If you can please buy those books he mentioned. I have all of them and they are interesting to say the least. God bless you Pastor Kingsley.

[@dubemprecious-so3gx]

Pls, can u send them to me via email if u have soft copy

[@agahchiemerieprecious3535]

I want hard copy

[@oghenetegaenaohwo3384]

Pls I want them how can I get them from you

[@victoriapaul-ameh]

Pastor K. God bless you!! Omor. These words are divine

[@essounabrahamstephen4785]

This is powerful esp on the PRINCIPLES of marriage.

[@gloriakasunmu6316]

Am blessed God will continue to increase ur anointing in the name of Jesus amen 🙏

[@lubinda87]

I was indeed blessed. Thank you Jesus for lading me to this video. Thank you Pastor K for the teaching..

[@ZippiThompson]

the only pastor with great wisdom i`m interested in listening to in this era.

[@Jacycute16]

Thank you pastor Kingsley Okonkwo for saying yes to God

[@VictoriavBedell-ku5mx]

Thank you so much Pastor, it's my prayers that we applied these teachings in our marriages God bless you, and your ministry with more grace. I'm truly blessed by your teachings

[@amatsolutions5569]

I thank God this morning for the new knowledge length from you. This is what I always wanted. But I never have this opportunity. I am very very grateful.

[@aremugbemisola8069]

Am glad I came across this video, have really learnt a lot thank you Ps Kingsley 🙏🏻

[@jennehlansana5868]

THANKS FOR THIS MAN OF GOD, I AM SO BLESSED TO LISTEN THIS.

[@majekodunmioluwatosin-g8i]

Married for 15 years, but this message really blessed me. More grace MOG

[@ritaonyinyechi494]

Kai, God bless you pastor K Im so blessed 😮

[@ezilovely]

God bless you pastor K, thank you.

[@JesuyemiDeborah-wisdom100]

Am blessed, this meet me right on point

[@RachaelOkoniha]

I love this word. Thank you so much sir

[@obenelvera4081]

Thank you for this message ❤❤

[@tokonigbendo496]

So blessed by this God keep blessing and preserve you and all yours Pst K🙏

[@otutuamajeffrey7211]

Pst K is effortlessly funny but message was powerful and filled with wisdom

[@ezembachinazor1771]

Amen. God bless you Pastor K.

[@MelivaTamfu-bn3fm]

Pastor K is a comedian abeg 😅😅😅

[@joanaagamah6877]

I'm blessed, God bless you papa K for such a powerful key🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@SELEKEKEMEGODSGIFT]

Sir I learnt a lot from this message. Thank you for accepting this call of God and staying put. Please sir, I'll love to buy all your booksss

[@SELEKEKEMEGODSGIFT]

Sir I love this message...it's too obvious DAT u re really blessed by God in this field

[@AkwiJudith]

Thanks for this wonderful message

[@ChisomAkakuru]

@1:15:00, totally agree. Lord knows how much initiative is appreciated😅😅😅

[@aohio7186]

Thank you very much Dr. Pst. Okonkwo 😊

[@EUCHARIAZERMSUUR]

God bless you pastor Kingsley, I needed this message right on time

[@LovenderOkoroma]

You are too much sir. I am really blessed with this message. More grace sir.

[@olayemiakande5849]

What a message! So profound & filled with so much wisdom, knowledge, & practical points. God bless you always🙏💯

[@Chikakindy22]

Thank you so much Sir 🙏 God bless you 🙌

[@TeesSpace23]

We love you pastor K. We appreciate all this wisdom sir

[@WelnessFactory]

How do I like this video A hundred fold

[@AdaobiPriscilia]

Thanks for the idea sir More grace and wisdom

[@clarissewehgee7796]

Very good and interesting teaching. Seasoned with much laughter😅😅😅. Thank you Sir and remain a blessing

[@Priest244]

This is wonderful. The best I ever watched.

[@lacksonmwape8376]

This is just owesome message❤🎉

[@baafibernice287]

Thank you so much Pastor K This blessed and enlightened me ❤

[@queennyx4264]

Very powerful. I learned so much. Thank you, Sir.

[@br_josh]

Mercy and goodness has sent this message of hope to me at this time. I will not be too busy, conceited or careless. The devil will not distract my attention or prevent me from receiving this favour. Amen. Interestingly, I can buy this book 'Nuggets For Salvation' by Joshua Daniel to get the divine message and, yet, I can recover my money and, maybe, get more if I encourage my family and friends to get the book too. If I get this book, I will edify my spirit and soul, I can earn money and I can contribute to uplifting humanity. There's no reason why I shouldn't buy this book. Why will I not want to learn more about salvation? I will not be accursed. The devil will not win against me. Even if I don't have the money today, I can, at least, register for free as an affiliate. Whichever way, I am going to be better-off. This is very much in my favour. I will now search for 'Nuggets For Salvation' by Joshua Daniel and put the devil to shame. So help me God.

[@Jamanaja237]

My question Pastor K is, does God make choices for the partners we want?

[@RichloveBrown-rp1zz]

u are full of wisdom. keep it up

[@mauieden2798]

Much love, from Canada. ❤

[@mauieden2798]

Wow, wow, wow. So amazing! So true.

[@roseykeys]

So good!!!!❤❤❤

[@FerventIsoken]

Thank you Sir in the name of Jesus i will marry once and I will marry right Amen 🙏🙏

[@DominicHudson-c4d]

I’m definitely going to try this out, thanks for the advice!

[@CodyBurroughs-v2x]

You always make things seem so simple.

[@FidelisNwode]

Insightful

[@emmanuelobi3403]

Honestly

[@dominicebere9414]

Great message!

[@kateofmanycolours]

Thank You, Jesus

[@AnzoSun-dez]

Great words ov inspiration ps kinsley

[@KinlyAmbongha]

love this from Cameroon

[@iamkrisefobi]

Number 2: Person in the Marriage 35:11. "The success of a team is based on the qualities of the members of the team"

[@blessingsadoh4629]

Thank you sir God Bless you sir!

[@Sanctified_Sinner]

I needed this. Thank you

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

THIS IS SOOOO GOOD! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@johannandilokelwahaufiku3768]

But sometimes we as women dont want children's, all we need is a man to go with me in destiny PASTOR .

[@semeionsho]

And that is fine, such a woman needs to be with a man who is of the same opinion and interest

[@TOSAXXCOUTURE]

I smiled all through this sermon 😂😂😂and I learnt

[@Jamanaja237]

What a message 👏 🙏

[@Pettypetlove]

So powerful. God bless your ministry. You are loaded sir.

[@ibibo-adabruce8169]

Lord give me that Man I will partner with you to help 🙏