“When you were born, God thought you were good enough and everything that happened after was other people disagreeing with God.” The best thing I could ever hear. ❤️❤️❤️
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@peacegiver10003 жыл бұрын
As women we do not need to wait until a man has moved on to live our best lives. Women need to live their best lives and move on and NEVER WAIT ON A MAN. ...EVER.😇
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@pastorjeanna3 жыл бұрын
I got told by church, "Love him more." Church needs to open their eyes to the reality of the destructive nature of covertly abusive marriage partners .
@staywellma64523 жыл бұрын
Marriage and dating are 2 different things
@cherries9803 жыл бұрын
This is not just KZbin, this is life giving and mind expanding, Chengy, you are talking life. All of this you have said is so powerful. I appreciate everything you’ve said and all that you are♥️
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman3 жыл бұрын
"When you were born, God thought you were good enough. And everything that happened after that was people DISAGREEING with God. Come into divine alignment with God" Chengi, this was so GOOD. And so very heartfelt. God is really using you sister. I feel the need to keep you in prayer because you are helping to free so many and I know because of that, the enemy is upset. Continue to stay in God's presence and walk in obedience to what He's calling you to do and speak. I know it's not easy. But know you are making a difference and that you have others praying and warring in the spirit with you.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Swan. I deeply appreciate you and this message ❤️❤️🌸
@thecorporatebrokeauntie3 жыл бұрын
In my last relationship I tried to show a man his greatness and I really made him feel like he’s not enough. I had to let him go because he wasn’t ready for growth and see greatness in himself. I had to understand I don’t have the power to change anyone but can only give advice, I can change me ❤️ Thank you for this Chengi❤️
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@arialdemi3 жыл бұрын
Chengi, you always give us loving, honest content but this video has resignated in a way that has really opened my eyes in a new way. ❤
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@yasmindavidson51713 жыл бұрын
Exactly! As long as a man is prepared to work, and is content with what he does for a job, then thats worth a lot. He's probably not going to drop down dead from stress induced illness , God willing and be around for the duration. I don't really mind so much about money. I do mind that he gets up and goes to work to earn a living. It's nice to see a guy who is passionate about something in his life. But maybe that's a personal interest/creative hobby etc, when he really lights up. But still..he has a good work ethic , and shows up each day to do what needs to be done. I love that.
@maricelg7773 жыл бұрын
Great advice. Thanks for sharing 🌸🤍
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@remiem-iw7uk3 жыл бұрын
Good morning from the West Indies @Chengi. Thanks so much for what you do. That colour looks beautiful on you!! Be blessed!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@kworth3263 жыл бұрын
Thanks Chengi, this is so true lies are so toxic, especially when lies become coping skills. Keep up the great inspiring videos!!! truth sets us free!!!✌️&❤️
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@IevaKambarovaite3 жыл бұрын
He'll change if I change. Yes and no. I had a date night with my partner. We like to eat simple food, so dressing up over the top sometimes doesn't make much sense. But on that night I made some extra effort. When he saw me in a beautiful dress, he straight away changed into a shirt and took me to a really nice place for dinner. When I want him to wear something nice I just make some extra effort myself instead of telling him what to do. So in this situation it does take just one person to introduce that change. But *Run as far as you can* as Chengi suggests if he's an abusive man, if he's mistreating you. It's not your fault he's being like that and you deserve so much more 💜 I saw my dad terribly abusing my mum when I was growing up. He won't change
@ELamy8023 жыл бұрын
I needed this Word today. Thank you 😊
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@hk44253 жыл бұрын
Loving your green dress and the wonderful wisdom as usual!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@jmkalinzuki48493 жыл бұрын
Thank you Chengi! You are heaven sent.
@thehumblehygienist28053 жыл бұрын
Had to watch this twice back to back. This touched me to my core! Thank you for this video. It is time! 🙏🏽❤️
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome ❤️❤️❤️
@joyejohnsonauthor3 жыл бұрын
You may think you’re not good enough, but other people know you are and might assume you’re stuck-up. Your ignoring them may feel like a rejection because you don’t realize you have the power to hurt. So accurately seeing yourself spares others from pain, not just you. Personal lesson.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@Bckn4th3 жыл бұрын
Yes!! We all need to hear this!! Thanks
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@SoleilBlanc113 жыл бұрын
3:43 is when the actual subject starts
@Cassidy88643 жыл бұрын
That was beautifully done,Wow, after watching you with RC Blakes I had to support your channel. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Welcome ❤️❤️❤️
@ViolaLabi3 жыл бұрын
Co-sign
@simplyredislandgirl3 жыл бұрын
Insightful!💪👏😉 Sending love to everyone from Barbados!🥰🥰🤗
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@childrenshine1523 жыл бұрын
Thank you Chengi. You truly have shared so much valuable knowledge that will be of great benefit now and for future generations! 🥰