7 Mistakes Single Ladies Make | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

[@Inspired768]

Most of the single ladies that are desperate are 30 and above and they are scared that a man might not marry them again because of their age and even if they have prayed and not seeing results yet they give up. I want to encourage someone today that God is the Alpha and the omega. He will never Alpha something and allow the enemy to omega it. He's a faithful God and doesn't go back in his word. He's an originator of marriage so Just trust and believe in him.

[@joyceamarachinwaeke2781]

Thank you

[@frolic770]

I just had to like this comment for that phrase that God cannot Alpha something and allow the enemy to Omega it👌

[@kerrytosan]

Wow. Such a huge classification. Lol, we should have a statistic that supports this claim.

[@redrose3422]

I love the "He will not Alpha something and allow the enemy to omega it" thanks I needed to read this

[@SassyChiza]

Ladies in their 20s can be desperate too

[@iMercy_tv]

I’m watching this lady for the first time, And I’m already sooo loving her.

[@oktina5944]

Same here

[@ekwevie]

Same with me really

[@iffyblessing9287]

Same here

[@tshegofatsosebeelatshego8081]

Same here🔥😍

[@abigealmayowa6895]

Am really blessed wit ur words ma

[@oyindamolaalbert2519]

I’m 24yrs old and learnt a whole lot from this! Thank you so so much ma!

[@sheriabubakar2859]

I'm Muslim and I think the truth in your message is universal. I love love love the message.

[@sandrawanemi8801]

The truth in her message comes from Jesus, God's Word! John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the TRUTH, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. If you love her message, you will love Jesus more, try Him. Read the bible, you can start from the book of John. Much love friend!

[@aishatmorontodun3750]

@@sandrawanemi8801 smiles... I am also a Muslim and I love her counselling , above that I love love Jesus. I mean I won't I love someone my God said he sent to the world to lead people aright? We love Jesus sweetie 💞

[@aishatmorontodun3750]

@Gloria Brown and I also believe God gave Jesus a book to lead people right ma the same way HE have Moses and Prophet Muhammad SAW Amen to your prayer ... God bless you too

[@christianachundungpam3288]

0g. V BB bbf

[@christianachundungpam3288]

0g. V BB

[@shamisoncube770]

''you'll be confusing yourself , by your own self''😂😂😂😂It sent meeee.It's so true though.

[@gracesuah188]

I am 29 and been thinking time is running out because I will soon be getting my first degree in IT and really wanted to settle down before next year but suddenly the man who we both decided to have a family together broke up with me 1 month ago and I have cry and always think where will I start from. thanks for this message God is still God🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@helenahelen8687]

There’s no words to qualify this woman. Am short of words . She’s gifted, she’s loaded upstairs... more GRACE Mama Mildred Kingsley Okonwo❤️ I leant alot from their powerful message! 💃🏾🤝

[@KindnessObot]

Too many women have friendzoned good men!!! True!

[@brokegyal]

Many men trying to be good pple at first ,, sis we scared

[@brysonvhyck2256]

I was pushed to watch this, TBH this is should be aired on TV channels. Our generation has lost track of spirituality, I'm in love with this. Dear future wifey, better come and listen to this message. Beauty, intellect and humor embedded in one soul ❣❣❣

[@dyna1486]

Am Ugandan but love your teachings God bless you 🙏 the more I watch you the more I get blessed 👏👏

[@joanmeyee5181]

Lovely video, for the last part sha we that do not yet have the husband and are headed to 40yrs, do not lose heart and keep faith and keep looking ahead. E don't matter when it happens, God's word and his grace triumphs

[@SenaTreasureDaily]

8yrs down the line in a relationship, I met this guy that is opposite of everything I wanted in a husband, he is tall and dark. But he has the most valuable quality I was looking for, he loves and is committed to God. I left 8yrs and I'm glad I'm with him now because he draws me closer to God. We need to put relevant things for a list.

[@adalove1342]

Are you married to him?

[@MrShoman1212]

Sad story, you're glad you betrayed the other guy and monkey branched while you're in a 8 years relationship. You should have left after a year of the relationship not 8 years, enjoying all the benefits. Not a good example for women to follow, if you feel it's not right at first let it good immediately.

[@qmina1]

@@MrShoman1212 what if it was a on 8yr old abusive relationship outside the will of God , would finally finding courage to leave still count as betrayal?

[@keziasraelibaiden773]

@@MrShoman1212 foolish talk

[@narkwa31]

Woaw i got tears in my eyes. God restore me all my wasted years and draw me back in the right path. I avail myself. No more mistakes and time wasters

[@ceciliatembo3790]

The grace on this woman's head is amazing... thank you so much pastor M💕 Lots of love from Zambia🇿🇲

[@damiloskiski4059]

Can I just say this message has truly opened my eyes , I have been meditating on these for 3days , for the first time in 5years, I started understanding why my marriage ended up in shambles , this message is deep... Foundation for marriage is extremely important .... Thanks for sharing.....

[@treasure_ebeagbor]

"You're not created to be side chick, you were created to be main wife" 😇😇😇

[@mkrsms1225]

True mama😚👏👏

[@karengacheri9716]

Amen

[@gwehnesline4388]

And truth be not all ladies nor men will get married

[@jamaica2010ism]

1. Desperation - makes you choose people that you hv no business choosing. It makes you do stupid things. 2. Having unrealistic lists. Determine deal breakers vs essentials. Ask yourself what is important. 3. Seeing men as trees - not seeing guys for who they are or for the potential that they have. 4. Pre-Marital Sex 5. Fighting everbody when you finally find somebody to marriage. Don't through your family away. Get counsel and be truthful at counseling. 6. Lack of preparation - we prepare for the wedding but not the marriage. Proper counseling will prepare you for marriage. You produce after your kind. You attract what you are. 7. Wasting time "Satan is deceiving you, come out." So true! "He's practicing" 🤣

[@HolySpiritInspired]

Thank you. U just save time

[@Inesnes1]

GOD BLESS YOU O JARE I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU for writing ✍ this list here

[@angelaogeto636]

Bless you ❤

[@okohonyinye4562]

Thanks 🙏

[@okohonyinye4562]

You no fail ; u no pass u no commot for class

[@edithibebuogu180]

Only you will be saying rubbish to your self when u are in love, "This part hit me" God bless you richly ma.

[@tina24mars55]

Am so ooo blessed by this teaching, am a mother and divorced but I can still learn. 👏👏👏👏

[@peculiarcreations6877]

Sunday Ezeany the audacity...that’s a personal and sensitive question to ask and it’s none of your business 🧐

[@peculiarcreations6877]

@Tina, pls ignore...of course you can still learn

[@abuabbas5171]

You may learn for yourself

[@berthabweupe6600]

Pastor Mildred this video made me feel like I was having a one on one session with you. I accidentally stumbled upon it at 4 in the morning 😂. Aaaaaaah I love you already I thank God for you

[@ernestinejallah8188]

I usually follow her husband on social media but she's the real sauce. I can't stop watching her videos. God is really using you, Ma

[@focusrelentlessly8829]

She's so realistic and relateable . Oh my God. Pastor K , you got a GOOD GOOD GOOD ONE

[@shirleyamoah-danquah4798]

My first time listening to this amazing woman of God. I just love her. She is smart, obviously anointed and funny

[@drmosa9143]

God led me here today. I started with 7 mistakes married women do, and now I'm here. I love her already❤️♥️

[@Praiseirawaji]

God I love this woman.... More grace to your elbow

[@preciousjayeola]

If this was a live seminar, I'd have lost my voice shouting... My palms would hurt too from incessant clapping! 😭 Ma'am, your words are life! Beautifully selected! 💞 The wisdom, the honesty and the sense of humor! 😂 Kai! God bless you ma! First time watching/ hearing you and I soooo love you already! 🙌🤗

[@salishasingh1842]

Amen , you nail it , lots of women need to hear this .

[@kabuuwinnie4064]

I feel exactly the same... she's right here talking to me.

[@ruthchigwida4067]

you said it all. this information is vital for every young lady

[@hadassahbaraka2913]

😊😊😊

[@hadassahbaraka2913]

😊

[@Dimarluxuries]

This is my first time watching and I think I’ve gotten myself a mentor......very clear, precise, not judgmental and very diplomatic 🥰👌❤️ you are very intelligent and reasonable ma’am ❤️❤️🥰🥰more grace🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@onehubuk]

The way I flew to this page.. your style of teaching is amazing, very real, no gloss, the openness indeed is refreshing .. thank you Ma for being a Blessing 😘😘

[@manye99.9ideas]

My first time listening to mum. And I must say am blessed. After listening to you mum I just had to subscribe without wasting any time. This message as really blessed my soul. Am here to learn more as I still prepare to go to the alter. God help and equip me with wisdom, knowledge and understanding to word word. 🔥🔥🙌🙌🔥🔥 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

[@Babiielicous1996]

Came across this video, am Portuguese was with Nigerian man(igbo). Had to leave him, his intentions wasn't right too rushed. I prefer being single no rush, social is really pushing people to get into something. I followed my intuition, asked God. I did the right thing God showed me who he really is. All I want is to be happy, a man that believes in God, same height as me or an inch taller because am short, generous, supportive, ambitious as me and is on a journey like myself( like looking for a job, finishing university, not in a rush of marrying and children etc) this is essential. I love your character, if you ever have seminars would love to come 😊 I enjoyed this, got me to understand certain things 😊

[@memoij6715]

So much love from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪 thank you for this teaching.

[@nunanagift100]

😂😂😂😂😂I love Pastor M❤️❤️❤️, such a realist "I cannot do 5.11ft 😂 ", thank you for being so transparent and so real honestly, thank you Ma'am, God bless you please.

[@sherinahmatovu3710]

Thank uuuu soooo much for changing my life , am crying rite now coz yo talking to me thanx so much so much so much

[@bricelegendnducho]

PM never disappoints, watching 2024

[@okonkwocynthiaugochinyerem3486]

Mama you are so beautiful and real, thank you for choosing to help us young ladies😘😘

[@evolveug8161]

This shows up on my timeline and I'm watching her for the 1st time..........loving her n the message

[@ogo2317]

God bless u am trying to heal from the trauma I experienced 2 years ago he left me 3 weeks before our wedding didn’t call me till a month later I stayed after due to financial ties but broke things off recently to focus on my healing women we truly accepts things we never will if u r not careful

[@SimaSambo]

Oh dear... May the Lord strengthen you.. I'm so sorry 😢

[@cathrinemanyeruke6028]

I am very sorry l feeling your pain l am crying everyday too cus for men 😂.

[@ekomewanglouise9622]

Am really grateful that I came across this video. I tried too until I was 23 and I regret that act till date am now 25 years and am praying that God helps me find the man for me and start seeing men like men not tress. Am Louise please pray for me 🙏

[@stellaokoroha8231]

My lovely sister and my wife you are too much. The good lord will continue to bless you more and more IJN Amen.

[@joanaacolatse6167]

THIS IS MY FIRST TIME LISTENING TO THIS KIND OF ADVICE AND I AM LOVING HER CALM APPROACH ALREADY. I BELIEVE HAVING MORE FROM HER WILL BUILD ME GREATLY. THANK YOU, APPRECIATIVE

[@amercy5024]

This lady is real o!!! Straight shooter, I love people like this.

[@adriennedavis6619]

First time listening to Pastor Mildred. She brings a wealth of wisdom, humor and reality to her teaching. Listen❤️ and take notes.

[@prinyecookey5526]

I can only attract who I am....hmmmmm God can not waste his precious son nd give you what your not.

[@ololademary2506]

I clocked 24 years old yesterday, thank you so much ma

[@ogbonnahchiamaka]

Pastor M, your breed is too rare. God bless you for the work you do. I love you as well as your mentorship sessions because they are realistic, filled with humour, love, and authority.

[@diessolisjoel6255]

Father am sorry for dating married men have your way now in change me oh.... Lord.

[@uzoemengo]

It's not by mouth resist temptation

[@KindnessObot]

Uzoamaka, that's actually a wrong approach to this, Love" the bible says, covers a multitude of sin/wrongs, diessollis Joel, God loves you too much,yes! And theres no sin, no sin at all that the Glory and love of God cannot handle. Thank you for taking this step, God will help you🙏 Pray to God about it,and pour your heart to Him, ask Him to help you stay away from it,He will help you! Pastor Mildred Ma'am, please Ma, I feel it strong that maybe you should follow up.

[@F.J.O]

Diessolis Joel, thank God you've realized your wrong. God, in His love and mercy can forgive you. Only confess and forsake ALL your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you will receive mercy (Proverbs 28:13). Ask for grace to live a godly life (you CANNOT do it by your power or by trying). Consciously separate from those that won't encourage your new found faith! Study the word of God and pray daily, join a bible-based church, live daily for Jesus by His grace, and tell others about Jesus Christ and His saving power. Also pray to God to give you a godly mentor. God bless you in Jesus' name!

[@glomab2758]

Forgive me oh Lord for dating married men

[@tatendapunyuka2389]

😂😂😂😊🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nkechichisom59]

I just love the way you speak the truth. God bless you richly mama.

[@wanjirukarago9308]

Am enjoying this single season 😍😍.... very peaceful....I can't lower my standards only God knows my standards don't have to advertise it on social media 🥴...no matter how long it will take will wait ... nothing good comes easy.

[@Cøøkię-tc4]

You are so real😂😂😂 enjoyed your teaching First time actually listening to your message I actually listen to your husband's message I love u💖

[@mw7882]

"If he loses his temper why must he find it on you?". Well said!

[@MurungiGloria-ce3rk]

Who also is watching this in 2024 ❤❤❤

[@relinddanielle5593]

😂😂 just realized it's 4years back chaiii This is crazy Thank you Lord

[@gloriajola928]

Meee😂

[@madukaaustin9931]

Sorry is not the apology for doing wrong but sorry is for peace. That hit me hard. Thank you mama

[@gladnessadesina6474]

“You can’t do 5’11, 😂😂😂 May God not let you get 4’3 🤣🤣🤣🤣“

[@oluwarachel]

🤣

[@mmadiliilozumba1896]

I legit hollered 😂😂😂 when she said it.

[@MANDEE7962]

Jokes

[@franciscaonoabhagbe9186]

🤣🤣🤣

[@khomotsophokanoka8299]

True some say what if the man is diabetic they must test him before marriage

[@gloriamutoni5137]

I love that she is bluntly honest.

[@nanaakua1961]

This is the wisdom we need in our dispensation. Hitting the nail right on the head. First time listening to you and I have been enlightened. God bless you Pastor M

[@Purityadvocate]

I refuse to lower my standards…I will enjoy this season and maximize it as much as I can. Thank you mama ❤

[@jessicaaletor8860]

Fav: Fighting everybody when you now finally find the person you want to marry. Dont go to counseling and lie. Laughed out loud at slap = affection tap.

[@nomthandazokubheka3102]

You are exactly what we all need to hear! I appreciate the love, truth, rebuke and correction. God bless you Ps M

[@maureenbala9928]

I've been following your husband for awhile now, and am just asking myself why haven't I follow you all this while......I love you

[@Thewriter911]

I don't like what I hate😂😂😂you can not annoy me and go caughtfree 😂😂😂😂 Ma you are really a blessing. Thanks so much ma for the words

[@blessingnkrumah6185]

Pastor M to the world.....God bless you ma, you are such a great blessing ❤❤

[@phyllisakinyi6063]

That proverbs 18.22 opened my eyes!

[@NhyirabaInspirations]

This message hit me so hard that I fell like crying, God bless you woman of God

[@theKorna_woman]

Mama actually made me leave my movie to continue this...........waw. Thank you so much for this tips.👏👏

[@marykonadu8395]

Thanks mummy God bless you

[@tayookunfolami2522]

Hay God this mama has finished work!!!!!!!

[@denisejoyce9910]

I wish every single lady will watch this video it's so touching thank you so Pastor M

[@ShiningLightWorld]

Pastor Mil said He will share it and make it reach all of us 😂😂😂😂

[@dydyv.7625]

Merci maman....I'm wordless.... Love you from Côte d'Ivoire 🇨🇮 (Ivory Coast). God bless you more....

[@estherforson7789]

God richly bless you for this timely message. It couldn't have come at a better time. Pure, unadulterated word

[@Tracytheyoutuber.]

First time here and I believe it's not a mistake I stumbled on this.

[@tomisindabo4275]

"it is from a place of love"- Pastor Mildred. 🙏Awesome truth Ma👌

[@none-si9pq]

Very Good answer'a lot of people from church and family members rushing me our insulting me because i still single'but the all true that they don't i don't want to make any mistakes and still regreting later'our have children's with different baby father.My sister t You said the true of all mistake that single woman wi doing all the time very it really touch me in my heart.love it my sister with love and wisdom

[@gladysumeh6087]

Summary of 1. Being desperate:Desperation causes wrong decision, regret and pain. Desperation causes you to go into relship with people you have no business with. Stop doing things you know you would not do just to get married. Men are not externally motivated.A man has to truely like you to be in a relship with you.Enjoy your season of being single. Do not be desperate. 2.Having an unrealistic list/demands. Ask yourself the deal breakers and the essentials. 3.seeing men as trees: Not seeing men for what they are. Seeing a man for not what he is.

[@gladysumeh6087]

You end up loosing a good guy 4.premarital sex: "why buy the cow when the milk is free?"Premarital sex is wrong. Gods plan is that two people will marry and figure themselves out in marriage. Premarital sex will destroy your destiny and life for you. Flee fornication. 5.Fighting very one when looking for the right man.Do not accept what you cannot allow in your life. Look at your family and good friends. Don't let any man keep you a secret. Pls get counselor and counsel 6.

[@iOvercome2024]

Thanks a lot

[@afiamensah9828]

God bless you

[@flowthinks]

6. Lack of preparation. Marriage counseling - go after knowledge

[@flowthinks]

7. Wasting time

[@Habibekatez]

First time here and thou shall not be desperate enter well 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you mama i was really so desperate and to think im only 22 imagine relationship after relationship hopefully from today God shows light into mylife.

[@biancajoseph3644]

Am delighted to have you, I do listen to pastor Kingsley you are my mentor for life. You are the best. God pls am 28 by 29 I want to get married Amen🙏

[@praisearifayan6836]

I’m blessed with this. Now I know what to work on as a young lady so help me God

[@tithemidozard2854]

Why is the whole world not listening to this right now 😍

[@debbiequeen4785]

Wao This is just an eye opener May God help us

[@favourogedengbe8767]

Wow so on point. I really love this woman She knows what's up and I like the way she explains things. May God Almighty continue to increase her and her husband.

[@prinyecookey5526]

Your not the only one Prinye. Premarital sex is indeed a sin

[@karengacheri9716]

Am here writing notes,nodding,saying amen...I mean all this in one💜

[@wadesonmupudzi4769]

One of the best teachings i have ever heard.... well said.

[@giftlicious2936]

I dont think I ever wanna skip ur videos again ma..u really touched my soul in a deeper level.. Number one in ur list was really me in the picture of desperation and I cried for my soul wishing I saw this video long ago before my mistakes.. God bless u so much ma..your calmness ,beauty courage,enthusiasm, and good sense of humour is really inspiring and kept me glued to the end.All I see is a pure heart of love .you are really a relationship expert like pastor Kingsley.. Am so greatful I got ur notification. God bless this day

[@ifeomaamadi4308]

Hahahahaha “ 5’11, u can’t manage 5’11, may you not end up with 4’3” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jesugbogoenis]

I see the sense of humour pastor K has been talking about. I couldn't help but laugh while still getting the messge. It's my first time here. I just came on KZbin to explore. Knew I was searching for something but didn't know exactly what it was, but immediately I saw this channel, I knew I've found it. God bless you ma for being such a blessing.

[@joysebacwa6670]

Am blessed to listen to this kind of advice.God bless you more

[@myneighborhood3466]

Thank you for being real. I missed counseling from a person who is truthful. You are a blessing

[@vivianodilichukwu6293]

Pre martial sex is wrong u nailed it well said pastor M thanks 🍾🤛🏻👂

[@pricelessgifts1398]

Hahahaha... Here I was thinking I love Pastor K....why do I see myself in Pastor M?!... My love for Pastor K and Pastor M ❤❤❤

[@SholzTV]

"He didn't really slap me, It's affectionate tap" 😂😂😂😂 I can't! That wallet thing happened to my bestie oh. how can he forget his wallet every single time..na mehn. I love how real you are Pastor M..thank you! Learned alot! 🧡Sholz

[@rosemachi5695]

You're a Muse...An impact to this Generation!!!! If only u know ma how you have affected my life. I can't wait to meet u in person ma'am .... May the good Lord continue to keep and uphold u in Jesus Name!

[@chidimmaeche75]

I love you Ma.... Thanks for being a blessing

[@eniolaenioluwabo7784]

Pastor M. You're so blunt. I LOVE you faaa....God just has to give you a pastor for a husband and put you in relationships ministry. You're breaking the right tables.

[@harriethdera587]

Gosh! I'm so blessed. I love u so much ma'am..... The way u speak, so real....I find myself smiling along with u, that's how much I feel u're speaking directly to me. God bless you, more Grace on your ministry

[@gladysumeh6087]

6.Lack of preparation. Not preparing properly for marriage, but the wedding every marriage gets to have a test. Learn how to settle matters. Learn the main courtesues:sorry, thank you, please. Read books on marriage -Attend seminars -Prepare fully and properly fie marriage. -You attract who you are. 7.Wasting time:As a woman you do not have all the time in the world so do not waste time. Do not just pick any body. Be a woman of virture. Always make use of your precious time. Avoid time wasters and human delays. Dating married men is wrong.

[@pamelakeku7903]

Only you will be saying rubbish to yourself... 😂. Thank you so much Ma for all your advice. God bless you abundantly.❤️❤️❤️

[@nwakaprecious701]

Am so happy I met this on time 😩 So so grateful

[@oluwanifemio.6747]

My first time listening to Pastor Mildred. She's so down to earth!! Love her

[@JaniceHylton]

It is so hard these days for our single sisters. I pray the Lord will bless them with christlike husbands. The book 23 Types of Giys You Might Meet is a valuable source.

[@doopea]

This message is so timely! Thank you Pastor M! ❤