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@dawnslagowski8375Күн бұрын
Your classes on magnetizing your man is just more indoctrination that I don’t need. You see I was raised in a very fundamentalist church. A very male dominated church where I had to be subservient. I was raised from the time I was a baby in those ideas. As an adult, I finally realized the amount of indoctrination that goes on. Your class is just another form of indoctrination on how women should be subservient. I do agree that we all need to be kind to each other and respectful. That’s where great relationships come in is being respectful and thoughtful of your significant other. That doesn’t mean we need to be in a two tiered situation with anyone. The second I am put on a lower level in a relationship. I know it’s not for me. I will never ever go back to that kind of a life. No thank you on your class
@MagnetizeYourMan23 сағат бұрын
@@dawnslagowski8375 Feminine energy is not "subservience" as you should always and only follow a man's lead when it feels good to you (such as in a partner dance). If it doesn't feel good to you then that is compliance and not feminine submission. Feminine energy is equally as powerful as masculine energy it is just the polar opposite energy that creates the "juice" chemistry, attraction, passion and devotion in a romantic relationship.
@dawnslagowski837523 сағат бұрын
Doesn’t address asking to speak. This is my last comment because I don’t believe in staying on a site or subject that I don’t agree on.
@MagnetizeYourMan23 сағат бұрын
@@dawnslagowski8375 Yes asking permission can be super helpful since it helps to make sure that you're not penetrating your man energetically with masculine energy and can be more respectful and vulnerable. Only a high-value woman feels comfortable asking for permission and asking for help because only a high-value woman believes she is WORTHY of having a man want to help her (she doesn't have to demand/take it or try to manipulate others to get what she wants)
@danilaroche11565 күн бұрын
Marriage is a God given covenant. Not a piece of paper. I'd also never advise people live together. I'm a follower of the Lord but let me share this for unbelievers: The divorce rate is significantly higher for couples who shacked up than those who didn't. Great video.
@darlenespencer7774 күн бұрын
You’re absolutely right!
@coco83864 күн бұрын
Most marriages stay together for monetary reasons. There's nothing like a whopping insurance policy for a widow that will be sacrificed upon divorce to make an unhappy wife think twice. Feelings of love DO change. Kids don't hold people together anymore (like they should). Although I do think that romantic weddings on tape are a good ritual for cementing people together. Fifteen years later, when you're getting on each other's last nerve, a rerun of that ceremony when you both had stars in your eyes & hope in your heart, will make you think twice before calling attorneys. Maybe 1% are staying together "for God."Til death do us part" vows are a crapshoot. Weddings at casinos make more sense these days than weddings at churches. Although, if there's no money brought to the table instead of witnesses, they probably should offer lawyers on retainer.
@lyndainlove2 күн бұрын
A marriage isn't just a piece of paper! It's a deep engagement. Its a legal accord between two adults (or more) to attest of that engagement. The terms of that engagement protect the rights of everyone, especially of the children!
@jewely97574 күн бұрын
My best friend’s mom used to tell us, “You tell ‘em, “Let me see the paperwork.”. Wise woman.
@rachels.74774 күн бұрын
ALWAYS USE DISCERNMENT, KEEP GOD FIRST AT ALL TIMES... SEEK YE" THE KINGDOM OF GOD FIRST AMEN 🙏🏽 AMEN
@kristenwillis27465 күн бұрын
I’m trying to respond with the statement of “I hear you” ,and then I be quiet and listen to the rest of what he has to say and that has made some of our conversations that much better.
@MagnetizeYourMan5 күн бұрын
Very nice
@vickigonya94323 күн бұрын
My husband, pulled the old, my motorcycle broke down in my driveway!!! I gave him a chance to call a buddy to take him home- acted like he couldn't After Id only met him a couple days before I was NOT letting a strange man spend the night in my house. I managed a furniture store, took him over there and locked him in. Plenty of beds dor him to sleep on. The next day, imagine this!! He " fixed" his motorcycle and rode away😂😂
@katiajimenez9716Күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@SmashMasterКүн бұрын
Awesome 😂
@melodyhampton450316 сағат бұрын
But clearly, he rode back!
@12MarieAnne11 сағат бұрын
Love this😂😂😂
@afreenpatel23174 күн бұрын
You're a gentleman raised by a queen 👑 and your wifeis blessed..❤
@themissmay5 күн бұрын
You’re honestly right about everything. I’ve been studying relationships for like two years gone through a lot of perspective and you are just correct about everything. It’s very helpful for me when I tune back into one of your videos and get a little bit of a reality. Check of how I really need to be showing up in a relationship. It’s really just a huge perspective shift.
@MichellePerdomoCoaching5 күн бұрын
I love these, especially the last one! I am so guilty of doing the opposite. I will now work on expecting the best. I think this could be life changing. Thank you for sharing!
@shelmie56 күн бұрын
When I tried using “I” statements, I was called selfish and that I was making everything about me 🤷🏾♀️ instead of empathy. 😅 I guess it didn’t work. We’re not together anymore.
@MagnetizeYourMan5 күн бұрын
Likely a "broken" man unfortunately not capable of showing masculine care for your heart
@lpmowgs24254 күн бұрын
Or a narcissist?
@galinaverbitsky93573 күн бұрын
Thanks very much very interesting information yes I am never heard about but just use my intuition 👍💯
@emilywynstra5 күн бұрын
The analogies and explanations in this video were so easy to comprehend. I feel like I embody a lot of these traits, but as someone who is now in the active purposeful dating stage, I value any new advice or perspective so that I can develop a healthy relationship leading to my husband❤ Thank you for this!
@pamelavierling462 күн бұрын
#5 Trust & respect has to be a 1 on 1 situation. Not when a Man only wants this when he won't show his face or come closer to the woman he's undetected in. Long distance doesn't create Trust & respect, it creates distrust & disrespect. I only hear words, I don't see actions!
@laushan222539 минут бұрын
Precious advice❤
@maritamaltezaki85883 күн бұрын
Very useful advice!❤
@MagnetizeYourMan3 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@VickieFleming-h1w6 күн бұрын
What if you aren’t interested in marriage but want a relationship that includes monogamy and respect?
@MagnetizeYourMan6 күн бұрын
Same principles apply
@dawnslagowski83755 күн бұрын
I’m not sure why, but the way it’s put for females to be in their feminine energy just makes me feel like you want us to be subservient. I get an ick feeling when you’re talking about us asking permission to speak…like may I ask you a question. I think it could be put in a different way. If someone asked me, can I ask you a question, it would put me on Edge. I have no idea what they’re going to ask me, so how can I agree to it??? I don’t know, It’s just such an icky feeling being put in such a subservient position . I kind of feel like the next thing to be asked of me is, here put on this Burka. Not cool…
@sunnycieli5 күн бұрын
It’s not about being subservient which is a perception. It’s a matter of coming from a place a being curious. When humans are curious by asking questions, the recipient will be more open to responding in a candid way. Honestly this is a primary communication skill - Be it male or female. It’s also how you convey the question with tone and body language.
@MagnetizeYourMan5 күн бұрын
@@dawnslagowski8375 Yes it's really about simply being respectful and not penetrating him energetically which would be masculine energy. A queen is comfortable asking for things from men because she has high self worth and believes that men WANT to give her what she asks for and that she is worthy of that rather than having to take it or force it.
@XOChristianaNicole5 күн бұрын
@@MagnetizeYourMan- I haven’t made it through the video, yet, though, one tip I remember from years ago, from Mat Boggs - is to ask a man “Will you (please)..” That it helps engage a man’s desire/need to be of service, to his lady.
@starcatcher36914 күн бұрын
What wisdom!
@ceciliatercic71033 күн бұрын
Thanks for your advice. This is how l feel ... In a mature relationship l am supposed to feel free to be myself from a place of mutual love and respect versus having to control what l say or how l say it all the time, l just can't 😊
@alexandrapf8894 күн бұрын
Hi, I would like to express my gratitude for your incredible videos, with so much wisdom in regards to the masculine&feminine. This should be teached in school. I think that maybe 90% of the population of the planet is not aware of all the things that you teach. I bless you and your wife with infinite prosperity and abundance!💫
@MagnetizeYourMan4 күн бұрын
Wow, thank you and you are so welcome! :)
@Bright-It5 күн бұрын
Imagine you invest time, energy and patience to know someone, holding it to finally find out that sexually it not you expected? It happens …
@bl7817Күн бұрын
It's AWFUL. I became close friends with him, got to trust him, fell deeply in love with the person he is----and the sex was very disappointing. I am open and verbal, told him what I prefer. His response? "This is what 'women' like." He would not hear me, and I just couldn't continue. Otherwise? I would have married him for his other fine qualities. Thank GOD I tried before I buyed!
@CarmenPerez-kz6rw2 сағат бұрын
@@bl7817then there was never true love.
@VickieFleming-h1w5 күн бұрын
How about we just be ourselves?!
@aerochicc5 күн бұрын
Because... Relationships. We're all vulnerable in own ways. Everyone is afraid of being hurt.
@cierrajames10304 күн бұрын
This is how I feel lol I hate that there’s so many mind games…
@smilez4us6 күн бұрын
Excellent
@baryl39696 күн бұрын
I realized early on that that man could not be and do what I needed in my life so I let him go so he wouldn’t feel all these future emotions of not being enough. But when I let him go he was so hurt and couldn’t understand why I let him go.
@Celinaanthony-x6v5 күн бұрын
If he sent massages saying he won't let me down, two time massages, per day . If I am ignoring he is worried, both are different country's. Can I believe him.
@JeliOra5 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@bellaanthony4646 күн бұрын
Law of attraction!
@KulaVrahimi4 күн бұрын
At last someone who knows what he is talking about, most people now want to jump into bed from the start it’s disrespect to each other, not that long ago people especially men went to sex workers now all they have to do is go on a so called dating site.
@mariadepalma776 күн бұрын
I don't necessarily agree with this as a strict rule. Like men who get to experiment to find out what truly works for them emotionally and physically, women have every right to do likewise. I'm not advocating to have a physical interaction with every man you meet but on the occasion where it might seem like the relationship has possibilities I think it's totally logical to follow it where it leads both emotionally and physically. As someone who had no experience at all, I married the only man I ever had sex with ..but there was something missing for me...he kept saying something was wrong with me and I believed him because men were expected to have previous experience while we ladies, in my era, were taught the opposite is unacceptable for females. Eventually, I realized I loved him but wasn't in love the way I should have been had I done my personal journey sexually. Now, decades later, I know exactly what and who I want both emotionally and physically...not just one without the other in a long term committed relationship. I always tell younger woman to be very careful...but if they feel comfortable with a certain person or enjoy sex they should be very discriminate as to those they truly want to engage physically with...additionally, to explore it further if they are both emotionally and physically fulfilled...not one without the other unless it makes no difference to them...but, women deserve the chance to determine their individual personal happiness and personal sexual satisfaction.
@kimberlyturner8204 күн бұрын
You did excellent. You did it the right way. Had you not been a virgin, you wouldn't be a wife.
@kingadatoma4 күн бұрын
The thing is that after intercourse a man could feel the need to continue searching, not be commited to the woman. Just because he fully had her.
@mariadepalma774 күн бұрын
@@kingadatoma Likewise a woman should also have that option...how else will one know what fulfills them.
@seemu29274 күн бұрын
I agree with this. Due to religion I’ve never had intimating but now it’s got to the point where I did it for the first time at such an old age. Not worth the wait.
@mariadepalma774 күн бұрын
@@seemu2927 That's truly a shame...now you've lost interest except its never too late if you still were open to meeting someone... it could happen when least expected especially when you aren't even thinking about it.
@tamaratindall16885 күн бұрын
A relationship with your partner will never ever work out if you have sex before a commitment and marriage.
@tamaratindall16885 күн бұрын
It's just the way it was ordained n By Jesus
@trupinys19794 күн бұрын
This is simply not true.
@claudiacastano72292 күн бұрын
@@tamaratindall1688Marriage was ordained by G-d and it means an intention from both sides to be in a long term committed relationship, a contract was made and signes by 2 witnessess. Now with organized religion it's a bit more of a legal process.
@SUNGod_YoriichiTsugikuni_wife5 күн бұрын
2:07- you had me at your body pregnant with his child😅
@Gracie4012_2 күн бұрын
Ok I get what you mean about making it about us (the women) and not him by sharing our emotions and how we FEEL. But what if how we feel is attached to something specifically the man is doing? For example, if he doesn't reply to text, leaving you on read or delivered. I'm currently in this situation and it makes me feel uneasy and anxious. I get the feeling he is not interested HOWEVER when I pulled away and didn't speak or talk with him for months, all he did was watch my stories but never called me or reached out. So when I re-emerged and tried to make it about me and not him (I didn't bring up that it was his nonresponsiveness that made me go silent) he stated that it made him confused about me not coming around anymore. As you stated I didn't want to accuse him of anything but by me not stating that his specific actions made me feel the way I did, I believe it made things worse because now he has withdrawn much more because I muddied the waters by not communicating exactly what I was feeling and WHY, which was because of something he was doing. I guess my issue is, how can I bring up something he did without sounding like I want to change him? He's now stated that he is now hesitant to do anything towards me that will send the wrong message. Is that code for, I don't want to lead you on and make you think there's something there or he doesn't want to pursue because he doesn't feel I want the attention because of how responded by not communicating with him properly in the first place? Smh this is just so confusing.
@bl7817Күн бұрын
"Hey, can I tell you (or share) something with you?" He goes...."Sure, wut?" You say, "I feel anxious." He goes..."Why?" You say, "When you don't respond to me, I think you're not interested in gettting to know me. It makes me anxious." That is, unless you're texting constantly and being annoying. I'd say the above if we were communicating regularly, and he suddenly stopped for a few days.
@jasminjar66674 күн бұрын
Can u pls do a video about : why doe's a guy flys out to u from another country ?
@helz11433 күн бұрын
I've yet to meet anyone that was worth so much effort.....🤣🤣🤣
@chatsu54413 күн бұрын
Marriage is not just for convenience or comfortable to show your parents
@SUNGod_YoriichiTsugikuni_wife5 күн бұрын
5:27- i see
@JeanettePeAceLoVe3 күн бұрын
I refuse to have sex with anyone unless I feel ready until he has actually proven to me that he can be trusted and care about my well being with my life and health physical and mental health because I personally don't find any man who is constantly putting everything about him to be all about or all into sex is unattractive to me and I have my own personal private problems with sex from not just my past experiences with sex but with the here and now with how men seem to come at me about sex.
@tamaratindall16885 күн бұрын
Thevex husband I had made me do all the dishes , clean tbe house, take the garbage out. For 22 years married. A terrible abusive man.
@tamaratindall16885 күн бұрын
Divorced his tail
@GoldChocobo772 күн бұрын
Were you a house wife? Or working too
@lesleybrown15834 күн бұрын
Life is spiritual,if you have sex outside of marriage it will bring curses!
@ShiouderWannkossak2 күн бұрын
The readiness needs time of simmering.❤
@kkc61554 күн бұрын
Claim you ?!?. What century is this ??. Solve your problems?! Take care of you ?!? Negotiate the price of a house ?!? WTF !!! I'm responsible for my happiness and taking care of myself. Not any man. Set us back a century
@GoldChocobo772 күн бұрын
So tell me: what's the point of having a man if he doesn't do anything for you? And the point isn't that you can't do things yourself, but that when a man loves you, he will want to give you everything he can. If you don't receive anything from him you're not letting him love you. It's not a power dynamic, it's a love dynamic, giving and receiving. Which goes both ways.
@Jesus-lives-inside-me12 сағат бұрын
Well said @@GoldChocobo77
@JesuisLord3 күн бұрын
No sex till married, do not give advice to a man it’ll feel bad to him, be happy he NEEDS to feel like he can make you happy, expect the best from him believe men want to help (no neg self fulfilling prophecy),
@sheriwilliams89423 күн бұрын
Do not have sex with him until he Marry's you!!! Save it for the Wedding Night no matter what this Guy doing the Video says! Men can claim a lot of things and then you sleep with them and then they change their mind. Respect Yourself and Wait and if he Truly Loves You He will have enough of his own Respect for himself to wait until the Wedding Night.
@hollykay49474 күн бұрын
I disagree with waiting until marriage. I would never buy a car without taking it for a test drive. All the men I’ve met recently are totally noncommittal and a woman has needs…
@lyndainlove3 күн бұрын
Human r not cars
@CarmenPerez-kz6rw2 сағат бұрын
Gross
@tamaratindall16885 күн бұрын
This is why God has sabotaged relationships and dating, because fornication is sin. I repented from all that. I gave my body to God.
@throughfrankieseyeznow4 күн бұрын
Amen. Praise Jesus, I agree❤
@afreenpatel23174 күн бұрын
Good job u are absolutely on the right track❤❤ Respect
@JesuisLord3 күн бұрын
Gods way is best
@kimbaker435247 минут бұрын
A man shouldn’t need validation three times a day (that’s absurd), if he doesn’t know his own value and needs constant affirmations about how needed and wonderful he is that sounds immature, he’s suppose to be a man not a child.
@bloom72046 күн бұрын
First ☝🏼
@koi52424 күн бұрын
WTH, i FEEL that this man is discriminated against women by saying that too much about gender norms!!!
@evaherrey50384 күн бұрын
He is right though.. I’ve seen it up close… specially stepping into control “ taking on the masculine”
@l.m323313 сағат бұрын
I'm very sorry, but if I'm not feeling well I won't act like nothing has happened and hide my feelings just to make my husband feel like he "did his job and helped me overcome my problem." Men hide their emotions, not woman! Men provide solutions, but we women are sensitive and need understanding and someone who will just listen to us, without telling us what we should do and then simply shifting the focus.. LOL.. It would be nice if you gave men advice on how they should behave to understand their wife, girlfriend or whatever!! I'm tired of always listening to what the women has to do. And what about Men?!
@gabriellazagopoelman64455 күн бұрын
❤
@Paleman1004 күн бұрын
This relationship advice are out dated. It's more complicated. The #1 is communication, advice from men I've have known.
@kkc61554 күн бұрын
Oh FFS. This is horseshit.
@noukie91513 күн бұрын
If we just want sex and stay free?
@naranjamorena2 күн бұрын
Excuse me, how old are you? This thought is either very boomer or very Catholic, but it is impossible for you to know that there is more than attraction, compatibility and admiration, if there is no sexual chemistry. Let's be rational not just idealistic, you can really like a person, but the sex still may not work (don't make me go into details). It seems only possible in a very ideal and out of reality or Catholic world, that someone could say I love you as my wife, without first knowing that sex was something they enjoyed.
@judysutton97586 күн бұрын
I like the advice you’re giving. It’s very helpful. An insight into how a man thinks. Thank you. ♥️
@MagnetizeYourMan6 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@judysutton97586 күн бұрын
@@MagnetizeYourMan lol .. even at my age I can learn. Important to have an inquisitive mind.