7 Reasons Why They Came Back After You've Gave Them Distance | Stoicism

[@SuccessSeasons]

Actions speak louder than words. Believe in what people show you, not just what they say.

[@jamesriggs4858]

I say I see your mouth moving but I didn't hear a word

[@merrickcampbell4303]

Exactly

[@jimnorris5095]

@SuccessSeasons for the most part yes but not always there can be other things that cause actions to be disliked, like subconscious programs, other problems bleeding into making new ones. So I will never judge immediately. Something is the cause of negative actions and people are quick to condemn the other assuming it was intentionally. Talk with them and take a minute to explain and see how it goes. Subconscious programs are automatic and happen wo thought

[@KennethGuidry-o3o]

I am starting my journey and have been waken to how weak and needy I have been living my life. I thought I was a completely different person. Though I checked all the boxes with military service, college degree, good looks, tall and charming with principal, values and character. With the failure of my marriage were I was used and taken for granted and an after 16 years, I was unaware how little I meant to my wife and in my tolerance of bad treatment and need for validation. I bought into the happy wife happy life philosophy! I didn’t realized how low my confidence was and how comfortable I was making others happy!

[@Cheryl_Wick]

I am proud of you. I completely understand and I have had the same experiences in life. I am about to be 46 and I truly enlightened and uplifted by stoicism.

[@UltimateStoicism]

This video is a masterclass in emotional manipulation. Is anyone else feeling uneasy about the way it encourages using someone's realization of their own worth as a weapon?

[@florisareserva6255]

​@@UltimateStoicism to ppl who experienced that already feel that everything he said was true

[@AnastasiaSambo]

People like us are always unlucky when it comes to relationships, how I wish God could be pairing us with right people

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your perspective. The intention behind this video is not to promote emotional manipulation, but rather to empower individuals to recognize their own value and set healthy boundaries. Stoicism teaches us to focus on what we can control-our own actions and reactions-rather than trying to manipulate others. It's about fostering self-respect and ensuring that we are not taken for granted in our relationships. If the message came across differently, I appreciate the feedback and will strive to communicate these principles more clearly in the future. Your unease is valid, and it's important that the content resonates in a way that aligns with the core values of respect and integrity.

[@stoicsecrets-101]

Sometimes, giving space allows both people to reflect and understand what truly matters. 'Distance brings clarity, and clarity brings connection.' 🤝

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Absolutely!

[@trinityp8575]

Clarity can bring letting go too.

[@ClaudiaChaffin]

Actions speak volumes. You are what you show me. I will never allow someone to abuse me, use me or take me for granted. I am enough! I am strong! And I don't need anyone's validation except for my own.

[@AlexanderGonzalez-qp4tj]

😂

[@albertharris1824]

I am irreplaceable and highly valued!

[@evelynacido8951]

I walked away silently ,and focused on getting to be a better version of myself.

[@KhetsiweMotsa]

😅

[@AnaRockRose]

The thing that happens to me after distancing and starting my new life phase is... That I stop having desire to be with the people who didn't respect me. They could really work hard to deserve having a place in my life, but I just feel ignorance and dont need them anymore... I always meet new people, when I change and focus on new things and don't feel need anymore for friends or partners who didn't value me enough.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your experience! It's powerful to see how distancing yourself and focusing on your growth has led to such a positive shift in your mindset. When you prioritize your self-respect and well-being, it naturally filters out those who didn’t truly value you. It's inspiring to hear that you've embraced this new phase in your life, meeting new people who appreciate you for who you are. Keep shining and moving forward-your journey is a testament to the strength that comes from recognizing your worth. 🙌🌟

[@stoiclove143]

It sounds like you've gained a strong sense of self-worth and clarity. Prioritizing your peace and well-being over relationships that no longer serve you is a powerful step. Your ability to distance yourself from those who don't respect you shows growth and self-love. Keep focusing on people and opportunities that uplift you-this new phase sounds like it’s bringing you closer to the life you truly deserve.

[@PureAgma]

Starting workout, working on me, not reacting on everything, silencing

[@tonhunguyen2686]

I AM HIGHLY VALUABLE ❤

[@grisselday905]

I'm applying time on self and letting go of a narcissistic relationship. I've never felt so defeated and used, and so much negative energy. I'm pressing and moving forward; not looking back.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Hey, I just want to say how proud I am of you for making that tough decision. Letting go of a toxic relationship, especially one with a narcissist, is one of the hardest things you can do. It’s completely normal to feel defeated and drained after all the negativity you’ve endured. But you’re doing the right thing by focusing on yourself and not looking back. Keep pressing forward, and remember that every step you take is a step towards healing and reclaiming your power. Stay strong-you’ve got this! 🌟

[@noeleneism]

I am not here because i need you. I am here because I value myself. I changed my diet, joined some new activities and made new friends. Everyone could see the change and me, so did he. I was just tired of giving myself too much. Just focusing on myself now.

[@Woburngirl68]

Applying stoic principles. Work on involving myself.Adapting a postive self care routine. Work on my insecurities and my past trauma. Learn about my negative reactions and vicious mouth.I want to reinvent myself.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Hey there! Your commitment to applying Stoic principles and working on yourself is truly inspiring. Embracing a positive self-care routine, addressing insecurities, and confronting past trauma are all powerful steps toward reinvention. Recognizing and learning from your negative reactions shows a deep level of self-awareness and growth. Remember, the journey of self-improvement is a continuous process, and every step you take brings you closer to becoming the best version of yourself. Keep going-you've got this! 💪✨

[@dorcas6709]

I am blessed,worthy and an irreplaceable

[@tammyhuynh4063]

You are! ❤

[@EHUD111]

I'm hilariously valuable. I don't chase. What's mine chase me.❤

[@TinaBornemannn]

I loved them truly. And genuinly. But not any more. I just don't care. There are so many good people, everywhere. I stick with them now.

[@WandaBeasley-qu8yj]

@@TinaBornemannn what I don't know you have awesome life 🙏 ✋❤️🙏

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your experience! It's great to hear you've found a community of good people who truly appreciate you. Sometimes, letting go is the healthiest choice we can make. Surrounding ourselves with those who uplift us is so important for our well-being. Keep shining!

[@stoickingdom2024]

*Your strength and self-respect are powerful forces. Giving someone distance often shows your own resilience and inner strength, and sometimes, that’s exactly what draws them back. But always remember, your worth is not defined by their return-it's defined by the confidence and peace you find within yourself. Keep standing tall, stay true to your values, and know that amazing things are ahead for those who honor themselves first. Your journey is leading you to something greater, so keep moving forward with grace and courage.*

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! It's so true-our strength and self-respect are the most powerful things we possess. Distance not only gives others space to see our worth, but it also allows us to reconnect with our own inner strength and confidence. And you're absolutely right, our value isn't tied to whether someone comes back, but in the peace and self-assurance we build within ourselves. I'll definitely keep standing tall and staying true to my values, and I appreciate your reminder that this journey is leading to something greater. Thanks again for your support! 🌟

[@freespirit1375]

Thank you ❤❤❤

[@angelajenkins7655]

Thank you so much freespirit1375 I really needed to read that cause your right I am valuable, strong, irreplaceable!! I know Im an independent woman and I have been alone for awhile but I'm not going to let a man not value me or disrespect cause I deserve to be valued and respected, admired & loved!! I like that saying do unto others as they do unto you.... which to me I translate that as you have to respect me to get respect so what I'm saying if you treat me good and value me and respect me , I will give you the same value,respect and I will not except anything less then that!!!!

[@sheilaallen6451]

I'm exercising and getting ready to get my teeth fixed and I'm growing in God

[@mbogallilian407]

I'm enough, strong and resilient i dont chase, i attrack.... I'm irreplaceable

[@prospermkwanda4218]

I will start focus on what i am good at, change my bad habits,grow in knowledge be it intellectual or business,change my circle and make new connections.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

That's a powerful plan! Focusing on your strengths, improving habits, expanding your knowledge, and surrounding yourself with the right people will truly set you on a path of growth and success. Keep pushing forward-you've got this! 💪

[@QueenC1111-cn7mh]

I am highly valued and can not be replaced. They've lost me. They should have treated me with respect. #facts

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Your comment radiates strength and self-respect! 🌟 Knowing your worth and standing firm in it is what truly sets you apart. Those who fail to see your value will realize their mistake, but by then, it'll be too late. Keep shining and holding onto that unshakable self-respect!

[@GerhardHaberstroh]

Absence makes the heart grow fonder or it may the heart wonder. Either way you'll find out where you truly stand with them.

[@TinaBornemannn]

Well, that's true. I've distanced myself from them. At first. And now I've made it. They are cut of, of my life. Of my space. THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Well said!

[@hoangthanhson2887]

Best video I’ve ever watched on the value of pulling back and reclaiming power. So grateful for all that you shared ❤❤❤

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad the message resonated with you-pulling back and reclaiming your power is truly transformative. Stay strong and keep valuing yourself! 🙌❤

[@PhillyJones-gk8tm]

Your guiding made me to stop having doubts and stop feeling worried when i distanced myself. And when they trying to search indirect where i am , i feel strong and know how to handle the situation and i know there is nothing new they are bringing.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! I'm really glad to hear that the guidance has helped you feel more confident and empowered. It's incredible how clarity and inner strength emerge when we take a step back and trust ourselves. Keep embracing that power, and remember, you deserve nothing less than what truly aligns with your worth. Stay strong and keep moving forward! 💪✨

[@francisedem2420]

I am listening to this recording, taking in where I lack but also where I can do better because I do not want to be the reason for them keeping their distance. I AM HIGHLY VALUED

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s great that you’re reflecting on both areas for growth and where you can improve. Taking responsibility like this shows a lot of self-awareness and dedication to your relationships. By being mindful of how your actions impact others, you're already taking steps toward creating a healthier connection. Keep up the good work you’re on the right path!

[@MarkClay-f6x]

My confidence is built one day at a time

[@snehaprajapati9197]

1. Shock of Unexpected Growth - Grow mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually and career wise to become more confident and more capable self of You 2. The magnetic pull of self Sufficiency - Let your inner strength shine and tell them that I am not here because I need your I am here because I choose to be with You 3. The Envy of your New Found Confidence - You are capable and deserve all good things in Life 4. The intrigue of unpredictability - The irresistible pull of not knowing what comes next and making them curious and thinking about your next step 5. The Realisation of what they've lost - Making them realise what they have lost by taking you for granted and loosing you in their life 6. Desire to be part of your new Journey - The feeling of being left out of an amazing adventure by stepping up to be part of your new Life and new You 7. The Fear of loosing you to someone else - The fear that someone will be able to see what they failed to see in you if they don't step up in their Game. Transform yourself to a level that they Step up or risk loosing you

[@stoiclove143]

Embrace your growth, know your worth, and let your confidence inspire those who truly value you.

[@stoiclove143]

Your words are exactly what I needed to hear today. Sometimes stepping back is the best way to move forward.

[@mariesafaite-antoine20]

Keep on growing and evolving my stoic friends! You have the power within you to do just that…. RESILIENCE

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Well said!

[@markjohnson8256]

I think we all prolly needed a Good Wakeup!!!! This Dude is Awesome!!

[@hibbertsh]

Happier being on my own. Trust in people is tantamount. Can't wait to come across someone that has that important quality, it may well take time 😊 Thank you for this exellent content

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Love that!

[@BLACKGoldAKATexasT-1]

I will be Getting in shape Designing my necklaces Styling my hair Making some art

[@LindsayKelly-z9m]

I AM HIGHLY VALUABLE!!❤

[@carolynminnifield9643]

I am highly valuable . I am somebody . I know my worth.♥️

[@merrickcampbell4303]

I value myself over and over again I stand firm on my principles iam no puppet for no one you don't pull my string

[@annnjoroge7759]

This is what I have been doing since December....your words are confirmation

[@TinaTrussell-k6p]

I am irreplaceable & Highly Valued Amen

[@karee8144]

Getting my life better and more happy

[@zenaydaventurina]

yes they like to come back some never want to give up thank you for your nice meaningful words

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You are so welcome!

[@silviacera2958]

Yes it has happened to be rejected and after i started seeing a new person they came back immediatly

[@sierraG333]

How long did it take for them to come back.

[@silviacera2958]

3 weeks

[@jimnorris5095]

Space , is healthy, you will feel like your left for dead. Everyday is a chance to be a better version of who you were yesterday. Never give up.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I completely agree-space can be healthy, even if it feels tough at times. It's in those moments that we grow and become stronger. Every day is truly an opportunity to improve and become a better version of ourselves. Staying resilient and never giving up is key. Keep pushing forward! 💪🌟

[@jimnorris5095]

@@powerfulstoichabits power of positive thoughts

[@MichaelJamesSwart]

By doing what matters most regarding my wellbeing and happiness and meeting with myself in solitude surrounded by my own company...

[@Neelimasri386]

Yes it's true my sudden growth of my life made him get back to me after 5 months it's no contact situation that was amazing Now I realised after seeing this

[@gloriamargolis581]

There is only one me and he told me in the very beginning he was smitten with me the first time he saw me ❤ I was shocked ,didn’t expect that but he has personal issues and said he needed space so I acknowledged that and so be it

[@BeauForrest]

I am HIGHLY valuable and confident and loved

[@rosemacintosh5528]

JUST AWESOME. POSIVITY IS THE KEY. NUFF RESPECT AND BLESSINGS TO YOU.

[@Ahimbisibwe-kk5hy]

This was an excellent piece.

[@HectorVentura-y1z]

Physical Fitness and Business Growth

[@dionnemeddings8602]

I am highly valuable!!!!! I know my worth. He knew it, forgot it, now he miss it and regrets it. It's been almost 15yrs and he still apologize for fumbling a great woman

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Absolutely! Knowing your worth is so powerful, and it sounds like you've done an incredible job of recognizing your value. It's amazing how sometimes people take for granted what they have until it's gone. Your strength in holding onto your self-worth is inspiring, and it’s a reminder that the right person will appreciate and cherish you fully. Keep shining! 🌟

[@Kweku3424]

Relationship ended today, currently in gym going hard. 6 months of working on myself, starts today!

[@kingespela6106]

I am irreplaceable and highly valued!!!!!!

[@towonascott1711]

I am going to improve my health, wealth and my career this year, so next year, it will be a BRAND NEW ME!!!

[@adebayoayo5813]

I AM HIGHLY VALUABLE

[@LexChileshe]

I now understand why am through the journey of being sought after.

[@loyalvessel]

I did everything u said now I'm on this unexpected journey they would tell me they got me figured out play to become less interested

[@megangilbert1094]

Yes... *I am highly valuable!*

[@michelleparris8254]

I AM HIGHLY VALUABLE!!! ❤

[@WandaBeasley-qu8yj]

Old but good people 🤣🤣🎉 to myself and I 🙏

[@Paulc-l3z]

Doing things on own , self reliance.

[@AlGreen-b2y]

Working out and bettering myself.

[@chummalee7244]

Indeed I can resonate with this. Each day is the time to evolve and be the best version of yourself. I believe in the essence of impermanence the way to cultivate peace and Equanimity in a relationship to make it thrive. Im enjoying the ride as I make them crave to join at my own terms not theirs. I validated myself good enough and I'm worth their time and effort. Thanks for this profound thought of navigating this journey of self worth and awareness.. Love and Light ❤

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Your comment is truly powerful! 🙌 It's amazing to see you embracing the essence of impermanence and aligning with your own worth, that's the energy that shifts everything! By validating yourself and standing firm on your terms, you're not just evolving, you're thriving. Keep enjoying the ride because you're showing everyone that you set the standard for how you deserve to be treated. Love and light to you too, and remember, you are unstoppable. Keep shining! 💪✨

[@chummalee7244]

@@powerfulstoichabits thank you so much...I appreciate your inspiring response... love and light...

[@hrider56]

Best pep talk I have ever experienced Thank you Thank You❤❤😅

[@franciscocallirgos2908]

Started working out consistently. Took care of several medical issues & surgery. I am currently seeking more financial freedom opportunities.

[@floritashelby]

Excellent Stoic 🇨🇦❤️🙏

[@hrider56]

I am Highly Valuable.

[@margarettemullings2527]

Believe Dont Give Up Focus Be Loyal To Yourself .. Let Your Faith Guide U 👍🤣😘

[@paula-rd7gk]

I'm 💯 ready to let the past go and embrace my growth rising g as a Phoenix ♥️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿to be the best version of myself

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Hey there! That's the spirit! 🌟 Letting go of the past and rising like a Phoenix is such a powerful move. Embracing growth and becoming the best version of yourself is the ultimate journey. Keep shining and keep that fire burning! 🔥 You're on an incredible path. 🖤✨

[@arnoldshannon7222]

Good Clip No more Taken For Granted

[@bettygable2246]

This is exactly what I needed to hear. I remember my value, worth and importance. I use to be so strong and confident. He chipped away at me piece by piece until I completely forgot who I was . I am just gonna work on myself and put me back together again, I gotta search for things I enjoy and like after 20 years together I can’t remember the things I once enjoyed, what made me happy. Time to discover who I am now and how great life can be. Thank you so much you truly inspired me. 🫶🏼🦋🫶🏼🦋🫶🏼

[@dondiablo5583]

Its a men channel my dear🙂you lost here. Woman are the problems here

[@powerfulstoichabits]

I'm so glad to hear that my message resonated with you! 🌟 Remember, rediscovering your true self is a beautiful journey, and it takes time and patience. It’s inspiring to see you embrace this process of self-love and exploration. Focus on what brings you joy and fulfillment, and know that you are worthy of all the happiness life has to offer. Keep shining, and never forget how incredible you are! 🦋❤️ You've got this!

[@bossjelz5376]

THE POWER IS YOURS! 😂🦸‍♂️🦸🏻‍♀️

[@CherylRatliff-w5p]

I am highly valued. 😊❤

[@evalineshirima7431]

Never underestimate the power of your growth

[@juliathomas2807]

I am highly valued and I am worthy of real, true love 💯

[@powerfulstoichabits]

That's exactly the mindset to have! You are absolutely worthy of real, true love, and embracing your value is the first step to attracting the kind of love and respect you deserve. Keep shining and never settle for anything less! 💯🔥

[@JosephPring-e5p]

Working physically and mentally to be much stronger

[@toskataylor987]

I AM HIGHLY VALUABLE! .....🙌🏽💯

[@SweatiDadi]

Yes. My journey of transformations....

[@WilliamRodriguez-ri5db]

A complete total transformacion

[@RealStoicEgo]

Such an insightful and motivational video! The concept of using distance to highlight your own value is brilliant

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@deeromero9690]

Thank you. You don't have an idea how your videos help people like me. More power to your channel!

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Happy to hear that!

[@jeanfrantz2788]

This is what I did I reclaim my power and myself not to allow somebody to use me and degrading me Lil me at the same time

[@powerfulstoichabits]

That's powerful! Taking your power back and refusing to let anyone diminish your worth is a huge step toward self-respect and growth. Keep standing strong because your value is undeniable. Remember, the moment you stop allowing others to mistreat you is the moment you unlock your true potential. You're on the right path, keep going! 💪✨

[@nubianqueen938]

I AM HIGHLY VALUABLE!!!

[@rubaiyarahtin9219]

I am highly valued

[@sandradarick7209]

Thank you, good message.❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏👍🙋🥰

[@ravicholachagudda5912]

Crystal clear with the voice and content. Amazing. Keep it up. People need this type of channel.

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@TotalCountryGirlHere]

I AM Highly Valuable

[@thyatt3559]

I am highly valued. ❤❤🎉🎉

[@Woburngirl68]

I AM HIGHLY VALUABLE!!

[@arleneambersley8431]

I'm highly valued!!!!!!!

[@Kaykaybotch]

Great masterpiece 💯%

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Glad you think so!

[@rahyanadam8328]

I am highly valued!

[@Paulc-l3z]

I haven't experienced that yet , but I'm.open and decide at that point.

[@musicandairplanes6330]

I exercise 3 to 5 days a week. I change up the exercise every month. I went from walking, to jogging to sprinting the last of my jogging. My goal is get back to the 2 miles I was jogging and sprinting the last 50 yards 6 years ago. I have become involved in a business group in my Town and the Town Business center. I spend time with my children (5 grown adults) and their families. (One is my Xwife’s Son (my stepson and his lovely family.) I am learning to improve my mind and my spirit! My confidence, I had as a Master Sgt in the USAF has returned. I was so in love with her I let her make all the decisions and just went alone. BIG MISTAKE! Never Again. I am out dancing with women. One asked me to dance last night! It was great. I love to dance! 😀

[@powerfulstoichabits]

It sounds like you're really taking control of your life, both physically and mentally! It's inspiring to see how dedicated you are to improving yourself and staying active, especially with your exercise routine and involvement in your business group and family. It's awesome that you've regained that confidence you had as a Master Sgt in the USAF, and I love how you're embracing new experiences like dancing again. It’s clear you're not letting the past hold you back, and you're living life on your own terms now. Keep going strong-your journey is really motivating! 💪🎉

[@gloriamargolis581]

I AM HIGHLY VALUABLE ALWAYS❤

[@nenevirgo82]

I have power over my mind not outside events 💪🏽

[@GabriellaWawaulo-bs7gl]

IAM HIGHLY VALUEABLE❤

[@hrider56]

I fall away for me. But always in the hope that He will grow.

[@Beela2020]

Distance ❤

It’s so unbelievably true Thank you to sharing with us❤

[@powerfulstoichabits]

You are so welcome

[@SamsungPhilips-m3l]

Am highly valued

[@stephaniecarter900]

I told my half If you want space then take it don't be so dam long and here's the rules: don't lose contact, communication, don't share( hooking up with others ), not here to play games, here but don't want to wear out a welcome mat, ECT ... Guss what he changed his mind dam mind blowing y'all

[@powerfulstoichabits]

Sounds like you set some clear boundaries and stood your ground, which is powerful! It’s amazing how being direct and firm about what you expect can shift things. Glad to hear he changed his mind-it’s a reminder that knowing your worth and not settling for less can lead to surprising results! Stay strong!