We connect the dots-including the missing ones not expressed. We don't just sense the tension in the air; it is a part of us, much the same as how other people see or hear. We must learn to separate self from the anxiety of others. This requires a deliberate, conscious effort, and so, being in groups for any length of time wears us out. Strangely, this awareness can span any distance, coming through a simple text or even no contact at all. (Not often, but not an exagguration.)
@z32luvr2 ай бұрын
Our toxic trait is caring too much about people we shouldn’t have. As we grow older we learn how to set boundaries and understand that not everyone deserves our attention or empathy.
@tinag75062 ай бұрын
I just realised this recently. How odd.
@nociable2 ай бұрын
Sigma INFJ is like that because of deep rooted childhood trauma. They had to survive in environments that required them to constantly measure the pulse of others around them due to destabilized family dynamics. This video content trying to make you feel you care because you are a good person. You may be a good person for sure, but the traits the video mentions, at least some of them are just aberrations from their own trauma. It’s all about the reactions that are shaped by environments and interactions learned early in life in order to survive.