7 THINGS A QUEEN CONSCIOUS WOMAN NEVER DOES WITH A MAN

[@thehighnoteincupidshuffle8282]

The 990 dislikes are the clowns in crowns lol 😂😂

[@lynnefreeman7687]

💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😚🤦‍♀️😂

[@chosenlight7289]

😂😂😂

[@22master65]

like putos

[@bongiwemdaka533]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sandyhagans1262]

😂😂😂 RiiiGHT!!

[@StoniB77]

I made that mistake.. cooking and cleaning doing wifely duties for a boyfriend... 🤦🏾‍♀️never again!!! always trying to prove to these men that we are wife material!

[@unleashedrider4309]

God bless your heart. The Bible says, why not let yourself be cheated. Just like the old saying two wrongs don't make a right. So you just keep on being a good woman and you'll find that good man eventually. No one said you're going to find a perfect man, but maybe one day you'll find to love the imperfect man. Keep holding on, keep praying, it's frustrating I know. when you pray be specific on the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Tell God exactly what you want. That actually happened for me because I was very specific to what I wanted. Now I'm getting married in November this year. but by all means it wasn't easy at all and it took a long time and when I met her everything didn't just fall into place. so it's up to us to show God we want it when he does put the right person in your path.

[@alexandrathegreat9812]

I feel you

[@TheKianaRoe]

Charise L SAME !

[@imonmyway317]

Me too... Been there and done that.... twice. Never a third time though. Learnt my lesson on that one x

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

Yes girl I think a lot of us have been there. But now that we know better, we do better for OURSELVES. Not for a man.

[@felishapittman2778]

I once heard a person say "if a man ask you what you bring to the table...ask him where's the table?"

[@jessikajimenez75]

I had to screenshot this

[@luvingmerevivedandblessed8520]

Good one!!

[@robyn8705]

This is exactly what I needed hear!! Thank you girl!

[@shenekamoore10]

That part!!!

[@divinediva_]

🙌🏿

[@sheadjustedhercrown1633]

Where was this man 20 years ago.. this is spot on. It took me decades to learn all of this. I have an amazing husband now but I had to go through so much trash before I got here. Ladles listen.. he is speaking 100% truth.

[@ms.exclusive4076]

He had to go , through his trials in order to teach others.I have to gone through it before can teach an touch hearts of others.

[@ginalaprova2934]

@@ms.exclusive4076 u u i iou

[@michellebarnes7284]

If’s always been here we ignored the information and did what we wanted but I Love Him

[@yesiamher9034]

When u choose to be single and work on yourself these messages sink in fr...

[@doryjo127]

shadonna kinney yasss! Single, working of becoming the best version of myself and drama free!

[@cieshaholmes6375]

Yes!

[@jillygreen7930]

shadonna kinney Yaaaas!

[@ToniViolaFreshFire]

shadonna kinney Absolutely mysistafriend!!!

[@faynitawilliams4437]

shadonna kinney Yeeees Sister/Queen! I am single and working on that better even more beautiful version of myself. 💪💪👑👑👑💕💖🙌👏🙏🙏

[@aneeciaburkscooper8966]

“He’s tall & Got muscles AND HE BROKE” 😂😂 so true

[@ButtahscotchKisses]

I feel like slappin myself across the room. 😑 Done broke every single rule.

[@nydetrarogers8437]

I feel the same way

[@justgameingday4705]

dont feel bad, we all have done this at one time or another.

[@lvncsr6166]

When you know better; you do better(Maya Angelou)

[@antoinettneil7091]

Me too

[@Terra711_]

Ten la nu emet me too hahahahaha

[@marinalaguerre6709]

I literally cried in the 1st few mins of your video, no one taught me these things... I wasted 4yrs, got pregnant and have been taking care of my child with no help from him. please ladies, listen!!! especially if you still young. this will save you a lot of trouble. its sad... but I'm happy now I know, 🙏🙏 be blessed. and Praise Jesus

[@landers127ify]

Me too. I was so teary eyed. I realize July 2021 I wasted shy of 11 years on someone. I lost myself and realize I don't know my self worth. It's time to let go and change

[@windowdancercymbals8246]

God bless your child.

[@euginawhalen4046]

❤️

[@EssenceofPolish]

I’m 29, single, and no kids..I really appreciate your story and I hear the strong heeding of your words! The “no one taught me these things” and “please ladies, listen!!!” really got me 💘and I will make you proud my sister✊🏽!! I’m so grateful to be on this path of learning my worth from his videos!! God bless!!🙏🏽

[@voiceinthedack6054]

I have two kids and he was definitely not worth of 10 years of my life

[@juliecousin2695]

You don’t even know a man until you’ve seen how he handles anger, stress, and/or loss.

[@natalieboult4726]

Julie Cousin when his ego is threatened !😳

[@angieayala6867]

TRUUUUUUEEEEEE

[@barbarawilliamson136]

Very true because a mans anger can scare u away.

[@barbarawilliamson136]

I've been placed in situations where I've dated church men and there is no clear distinction..im just learning to love myself and following Matthew 6:33.

[@xavierbradford8696]

Julie Cousin facts

[@itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280]

*"QUEEEENS NEVER FINANCE A MAN!!!!"* *Say it again, brotha Blake, for the chicks in the back!!!!*

[@mejustbeingme1207]

It's CORNROWS, NOT french-braids! for the chicks in the back lol

[@itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280]

ab de *Wait, WHAAAAT???!!!* *Boy/girl, BYE!* -u MUST be one of these soft millenial dudes -OR one of these new-age females, who doesnt know her worth

[@itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280]

ab de Aaand how does *"BIGOTED"* fit into this equation anyways lol???? I aint gonna roast u on this positive page, but learn yo words plz

[@mb5857]

It's CORNROWS, NOT french-braids! .....@16:06 .....I LOST IT!!! ROTFLMAO😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥

[@itscornrowsnotfrench-braid9280]

@@mb5857 😂😂😂 ikr?? He right tho!

[@EvangelistNadine]

Facts! Don’t give no man you not married to husband privileges!

[@patriciaadeliteshumbanhete9772]

- Never drives the momentum of a relationship - Never trusts without verification - Never look pass a man's character - Never allow a man to rush you - Give a relationship time - Never commit to potential alone - Never finance a man. Finance a king when he is down. -Never cater to a man not dedicated to you

[@evetw7746]

I have to say lm very impressed as this lessons lve heard in Russian psychologist and teachers. And now you. Touche. Not many people teach exact knowledge 🙏🍀💚

[@comeonblessme29]

So true

[@arzookhan896]

A queen demands honour

[@JulieDozierMcCrary]

1. Never ignore a man's poor character.

[@juliettaloves]

- Queens do not tolerate DISRESPECT

[@amakaike9400]

When a man dishonours a Queen she banishes him from the kingdom.

[@brotha_pedat]

This is unfruitful and ungodly idolatrous talk. You are not a Queen and you have no Kingdom. If you're not married to the first man you had sex with then get on your face and repent. See how much my last sentence lacked in grace? This is NOTHING compared to the heresy and wickedness this man is talking, and which is being embraced by the women watching, and the accompanying hubris and delusion thereof.

[@mb5857]

That Brotha Pedat .....Go ahead. Because it looks like you may be the wolf in sheep's clothing and mad that Pastor Blakes is putting the daughters up on game... and oh yeah, BE BANISHED, sir.!!👑📤

[@brotha_pedat]

@@mb5857 LOL

[@DH-zi5ob]

amaka ike yes💯

[@BrandonsWisdomResort]

@@brotha_pedatMost women live in a fantasy so dont pay them no mind bro. Its levels to this relationship stuff but these women are letting the wrong things get to their heads.

[@nikkinorman4254]

Always be a QUEEN ladies ✨❤ Thank you for this. I'm 17 and I'm going to start being a Queen at an early age. 👑

[@muthoninjauyah3968]

Nikki Consciously living your life with God/Higher power as your everything definitely makes a Queen out of one. I find that I think of and treat myself as one more and more each day and my connection to God is definitely my source in this. God is such beautiful love! Let us blend ourselves with Him and He in turn makes gods and goddesses out of us for loves glory

[@CoachingChosenOnes]

nonnz njau So true. God bless you

[@muthoninjauyah3968]

CoachingChosenOnes Amen💜 and you too❤💜

[@royallady6546]

So happy for you young lady, God bless you for taking this decision.😘

[@ibukunbankole]

Lucky you. Please don't forget to think on these teachings over and over. Life circumstances can make you forget sometimes.

[@grownknow6857]

"Most men are lying..." hahaha. The funny thing is some guys don't realize they are lying. Then they act like you are the mean one for seeing through them.

[@teresadorta8039]

I know

[@ms.anonymousinformer242]

Story of my life with my husband every day.

[@soniadawson8548]

I have taken back my Queen status, and it's wonderful. I had forgotten. 👑

[@mariamakay5974]

Sonia Dawson same here sister

[@Lfavored777]

You are going to reap the rewards of Queen status! 👸

[@karengoldner4719]

Enjoy yourself, your majesty!!! Your royal highness. : )

[@jahmaykagreen8924]

Yes yes goddess queen

[@lexiglowingup]

Sonia Dawson yes! Sometimes we just go through so much we forget. Nothing wrong with it because we acknowledged it. Congrats to all the Queens who took back their status!! We will reign beautifully.

[@kalonnealli7242]

This man has changed my life 😢 he is the dad I never had

[@RCBlakesJr.]

Kalonne Palma 🙏🙏🙏

[@brandylizzy8]

Yes he's

[@aprilhenderson8684]

Yes

[@phumzilesiboza2483]

My goodness! He changed mine too

[@lynnefreeman7687]

💯♥️❣️❣️ 💁‍♀️I said that yesterday listening to the video on the Narssassist.. as he was talking and looking into the camera, the eye to eye contact, made me feel the same way, like "Dad' was giving his daughter a heart to heart talk. Great great Man 👌👏👏👏👍♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️✨🧘‍♀️✨😚

[@nycvision8025]

QUEENS.... "Don't Finance A Grown Man" PERIODT!!

[@slardebard]

I agree and men should under no circumstances finance women. Let em fend for themselves.

[@jksmith9161]

@@slardebard Like a Boeing 747 that tip went way over your head lol...

[@ladybluemoon1]

I think everyone should be independent until marriage now if the woman if short on some funds that’s different and vice versa but I ain’t paying no one rent and they ain’t paying mines

[@slardebard]

@@jksmith9161 let's see if get a tip, I'll bet your men support you one dollar at a time.

[@cherisebrown3028]

Yess! This is so good ❤

[@Kaelinbauu]

“Queens DEMAND honor, queens know what they bring to the table. When a man dishonors a queen, she BANISHES him from her kingdom.” 💯 😂😂This part is so funny to me

[@joymosley8997]

Never lay your body down for a man who has not laid down his life for you.

[@faauluuluganiutili1243]

This is so true ,thanks

[@MBookerLA]

Now this is a good comment. The flip side is that women start things seeing things in me I never said I have.

[@esthertschetter9544]

NEVER till married!

[@hildehausikujohannes7664]

I never knew him until the 12th year of our marriage, I got very scared to realize he is a covert nascist. I'm devastated.

[@babyc.3015]

Never will I do that til I'm 💍 It's just never fair, sex is just like food to men while it bears morr complications to us women

[@kymberlycourage]

"POTENTIAL DON'T PAY THE LIGHT BILL'!!! This guy makes so much sense 👏👏👏

[@dorcasdonald535]

Yes the dont

[@omshkti2333]

This part made me LOLOL

[@rachaeleena]

“Potential is Not the same as being fruitful “ 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@ladycryptologist192]

Those 1.2k dislikes must be men cause this man told NO lies in this video 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@muthonispa01-10]

If they do not dislike then it means it ain’t true so we embrace the dislikes too !

[@roinetwork7467]

Lmbo! 😆 🤣 😂

[@muthonispa01-10]

@@roinetwork7467 right 😂😂

[@barbararodriguez5685]

The bank is closed for the clown in a crown!!!! Amen.

[@shelishaphilosophe]

Barbara Rodriguez Amen.

[@biggieshorty]

Amen...

[@gertrudesishartzoggibbs8031]

Barbara Rodriguez Amen!!

[@_M4Muna_]

"CLOWN IN A CROWN"!!! I almost hollered.😲🙊🤭

[@retinamitchell5993]

Gurrrrrllll!!!!! AMENNN! LOL

[@michellehunter9762]

I clutched the pearls.

[@monicaivy2497]

Yes LAWD! Preach, I bout fainted on that one!! I have seen this so many times, women happy just to have a piece of a man😂😂 and let's not forget RC: "Lee, does potential pay light bills in here?" Linda: "Naw Naw sweety." They are too cute...

[@amberl.8245]

😂😂😂 I did holler lol

[@October3074]

BROKE clown in a crown! I hollered in the gym 😄😄

[@MissRhane]

QUEENS DO NOT TOLERATE DISRESPECT! Amen

[@irishdeetalks]

MissRhane true that!!! I am only learning to be a queen. On the road from narcissistic abuse. X

[@sherriestephenssnow4154]

Dee Irish I understand

[@septiawoman2911]

And as QUEENS, we have a very low tolerance for bullshit and excuses. Agreed!

[@carlitacabrera5845]

I'm from Argentina. South america. I really like this man's advice. I love it.

[@carlitacabrera5845]

I love your words! Better than many I 've heard. You consider areas that nobody talks about. You bring God to your words and that's amazing. I will follow you from now on. I'm from Argentina South America. 😘thank you very very much.

[@irenesmith2523]

I thought I was too picky, but now that I am looking at his videos I realized that I am a real Queen 👸 and I don’t tolerate any mistake from a supposedly King 🤴

[@paulesaturday9490]

"You bringing all the fruit to the table and he bringing potential." Done 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ shame on me

[@asmieve9094]

I only cry if i think of my past wandering

[@juliahernandez6247]

Paule Samedi so true

[@vadamsable]

😂😂😂 you're bringing all the fruit.

[@vivivisions2225]

Wish my father had set me down and had this talk with me at 16

[@rachaeleena]

Linda Flynn me too yet hey most parents don’t know

[@GypsyGirl317]

Same here, it would have saved a lot of heartache. ❤️

[@FeelingFitFabFun]

Me too. I have an amazing father but he never really told me about men and how men are.

[@kimberlydobson8652]

Exactly same here. But what we can do is teach the generation to come in Jesus name!

[@iamamillionaire4364]

Linda Flynn right

[@faithgood58]

I don't have an earthly dad; I needed this so badly. I am crying.

[@veebarton7602]

It's ok dear a lot of us didn't ...so now you know and pick up from here and be the true Queen you are designed to be ...help others as well ..bring them to this channel and let them drink of living waters

[@veebarton7602]

Queens Demand Honour !!!!!.yes sir!!!! Banished if not from The Kingdom ...Amen!!!!

[@kellygarvin9586]

Hugs

[@katiegene1932]

I was thinking the same thing! The advice I need to hear.

[@hautecouture2228]

I had a lovely dad but he died when I was 15 and we never had these conversations

[@TomiaMacQueen]

As a Queen that has been with her King and husband for over 23 years, I second this message FOR REAL!!

[@wendyo7621]

The Queen is also the most powerful piece on the chessboard!

[@thisdudesam4332]

Wendy O Who created the game?

[@jerrimalone6214]

Wendy O 💪💝💝🙏🏿💝

[@Trailblazers323]

Sammy Torres It’s African

[@msnovember7537]

That's Right....

[@txs063000]

It originated in India

[@contessanowacki5754]

A man that finds a wife finds a good thing!!! Come on Jesus you are teaching!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@gipsyshir4939]

Men are hard to read. Your man might be hiding something. But it’s not what you think. Are you overlooking his cry for help? t.co/MTPSR5qOxf

[@octavia5265]

Queens never cater to a man who is not dedicated to her 💯

[@thisdudesam4332]

Tavia S What is dedication?

[@lioness8456]

@@thisdudesam4332 Dedication is when the man honors, respects, and values you as the queen you are! If he hasn't laid down his life for you and treats you right, he doesnt deserve you. 💯

[@snekomfg5915]

@@lioness8456 and what does the QuEnN do for the man? Nag him all day? Tell him to buy her clothes cos she's too lazy to get a job? Being entitled? Calling herself a queen and the house he bought her "kingdom"? You're so entitled and spoiled. Yall want the rights but you don't want no responsibilities. You're gonna end up miserable sooner or later.

[@snekomfg5915]

@Rankled Alora I'm sure if a guy falls for type of women then he's handicapped.

[@msessenceofreality]

Now that I'm a new, young woman under Christ, I'm looking for the biblical way to date. I'm not trying to fall again.

[@redandblack2176]

Why is wife not talking! Why is he a better women at womenhood than him? I don't bash women not men on social media especially black ones. We have it bad as it is. Vanessa

[@deborahphillips5651]

it used to bother me to be dumped when I would not agree to sex..now I realize I have saved myself a lot of heartache

[@emg.9246]

Deborah Phillips yes you have sweetie and frustration. Them niggas would of only given you 5mins worth of pumping and they wouldn’t of given a damn if you had your orgasm or not

[@thisdudesam4332]

Are you happy?

[@beverlyfrancis8433]

Deborah Phillips....sometimes they don't dump you because you won't give sex, they just harass you about it every time until they wear you down and lay guilt trip on you.....a sign of a player.

[@williamnabors9135]

Deborah Phillips hey

[@pearlharbor4790]

deborah phillips, yes, i hold out till i see who they are. if it ends at least i did not give any. no sex is the test.

[@yesiamher9034]

I'm 41 years old with over 25yrs of relationship experience and I'm getting to old to be still blind to the facts..

[@lwinston5950]

shadonna kinney 36 and feel the same

[@tonyascott6203]

At times I have knowledge of things.. The know how.... without fully understanding the process... So I knew some of these things but didn't understand the process.. POWERFUL Teaching

[@gspence517]

Tonya Benn agreed, powerful

[@MsKofi1]

Don't feel bad. I'm 48, recently divorced after 25 years, and still learning. I don't know if anyone ever gets it right!

[@poleprincess5621]

shadonna kinney you’re honest and we’re here learning..#growth #wisewomen #nubianqueens

[@feliolipa3851]

And i quote " queens do not finance a little broke clown in a 👑" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@allesschwarz_liebe5871]

Feli Olipa 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sylviasylvia8551]

lol

[@queenateeba4803]

Lol😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭🙌🏽

[@mimib___6709]

Currently doing the inner work in myself and these teachings are pure gold. ❤

[@mistikalnawe]

all these 27 years i thought i was being too crazy/high standards out here, turns out i was acting in my Queenly right, just didnt know it. HUH! Thank you so much for this, brother.

[@taneelawson4945]

jvnic3 I said the same thing... I'm like am I too hard on myself

[@robinsonshanekqua219]

jvnic3 sammmmeeee here! I knew I was different.. most men swear I’m stuck up... no sweetie I just know what I want.

[@dani09eveline]

Go queen!!

[@slingeerulz]

Thank you for this... Imma straighten my crown and keep moving along!

[@ladyb129]

Me too!

[@DD-yo6cs]

A lot of women say that's why single women are single-because a lot of them don't allow men to disrespect them. They also have standards about who they date.

[@PucciNYC]

D D I rather be alone than settle for less than what I deserve. Women know I worth. This why these men out here running rampant without respecting us. Smh!!!

[@tanyab4128]

Jam Onit Amen 🙏

[@meganeurope1521]

DD uou are so right. 🙏😍

[@deborahday1786]

Yep.

[@vickicsurbs444]

I've been single 25 years because I wont tolerate BS, Games, Drama or disrespect From men or anyone.

[@deniselopez6226]

“A Queen does not tolerate disrespect” I wish I have have heard this advice 25 years ago at least a yr after getting married. I would not have become suicidal 5 yrs ago. After hearing your advice, it’s the 1st time I hear this beautiful advice almost 1 yr after my ex-husband left me and my 2 children for another woman (after 26 yrs of marriage). Thankfully I have been close to God through this process, and HE gives me strength. But today is the first time I understand I already did everything you mentioned a queen does not do 😭. Thankfully I’m still alive, and I’m free from him. I pray God makes a way financially, so I can attend your next retreat. You have beautiful fatherly advice that all females who don’t have this fatherly figure could use. I pray any single/divorced female will listen to your advice (myself included) and make any necessary changes. Hopefully what I just shared will also help these women. Don’t tolerate disrespect in any way, even if you’re married. If you don’t see change in your man, move on. Your life will be better!

[@tanushreebaranwal06]

More power to u girl 💪❤

[@milliesecond102]

It's been a year now. I've been going through my hell with a narcissist husband of 24 years and filed for divorce after our sin graduated from high school in June. How are you doing now?❤️

[@pinkroser.e5112]

And because a lack of respect from my ex husband , I got divorce.

[@pamelaclaassen4898]

1. Queens never ignore a man's character 2. Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship 3. Queens never trust without verifying 4. Queens give the relationship time 5. Queens never commit to potential alone 6. Queens never trust a man that is not producing 7. Queens never finance a man 8. Queens never cater to a man that is not dedicated to her 9. Queens never tolerate disrespect 10. Queens DEMAND honour 10/10💕💕

[@The_Matriarch_and_Her_Cubs]

Amen

[@AandP4dummieslikeme]

Thank you :-)

[@Mmmmkaaay]

Thx😘

[@continuousself-improvement1879]

It says seven in the title, though. And he also said (1) queens never drive the momentum of a relationship.

[@isaacmixson8001]

Amen

[@ItsLotus89]

I committed to potential in a prior relationship, like a dummy lol I once was lost, but now I’m found 😩 Was blind, but now I see 🙌🏾

[@mostdefmodest]

👑

[@TiaJoy1372]

Come on now

[@graceemade1703]

That makes two of us. Recipe for disaster.

[@madeby__vee]

And I’m found found.

[@victoriousme9068]

Same here,I'm so embarrassed about my naivety then. Thank God who opened my eyes I left him

[@purposedpatience6597]

I'm balling crying 😲😭😭 I've been told I'm drama because of this..Thank you for clarifying my stand🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@mogetit5999]

Exactly I'm glad you know that YOU are not the problem they are! Keep respecting yourself young lady!

[@carlettachristian369]

sweetie 4 ever God bless you! You are still a Queen in Gods eyes!

[@purposedpatience6597]

Carletta Christian aww thank you sister💕💕💕

[@purposedpatience6597]

Mo Getit amen💕💕💕

[@purposedpatience6597]

Miss Klassy actually I've never dated or was married to a broke thug. My ex husband is a 20 year detective on the police force and my last two were successful business owners that were respected by many so I can't relate to you assuming that women only deal with bums and broke men.. I'm not broke nor am I desperate I simply don't take no crap no more from a clown like the bishop said.. what my problem was I dated "NARRCISTIC" men who reflected my father. A woman's first example of a man is from her father or lack there of.My father was in my life yet he wasn't nurturing but critical and abusive emotionally.. My father is a well established attorney of 30 years yet he is still a broken man.. Until a woman deals with her daddy issues then she will entertain men who resembled their father's dysfuntion, which i did...Its alot of successful damage men and women out here who look the part yet lack "wholeness". Dysfunction is not bias nor reduced to material or economic status, it comes on levels..Don't be fooled!

[@soulsister4898]

MY ALL TIME FAVORITE VIDEO EVER!!! I've been celibate for 12 years because of these principles and teachings since my hubby died. My mother and father taught me these principles. I made the mistake of dating a childhood friend (after my husband died) who turned out to be a "false image of a godly man." He taught me so many lessons/things that I should not have done. Mainly, I should not have veered from my parents' and late husband's teachings and examples. GOD BLESS YOU...😇 KEEP TEACHING THESE TRUTHS! They're not antiquated teachings... their truth!🙏🏽

[@arivera6720]

Some people, learn life lessons at different times in their lives. Might be at 25, 35, or at 46. Point is, progressing is continuous.

[@landers127ify]

I'm learning mines at 39.

[@EmoniQSauvid]

I wish I had heard this 10 years ago, but today I'm progressing regardless.

[@ruthpaloma6560]

@@landers127ify same here 39

[@purplet72walker72]

Queens Do Not Finance Men!!Amen

[@grwnupmiss]

Tracie Darthard So sad I can't like more than once!!

[@77deerose]

Tracie Darthard Amen, so many women doing the opposite in these days, that These men ask you out and tell you to pay for first date. Not this queen. lol

[@gertrudesishartzoggibbs8031]

I refuse to finance a man...

[@dewdrop4330]

I never had a father figure. I appreciate you sharing your words.

[@evearcana2392]

God bless you Xx

[@giulias.5104]

I am 43. I had to learn this lessons by making bad moves and paying the price of it. It is ok. It means to me that my soul wasn't evolved enough to hear this wisdom before. We often have to pass through pain to evolve. I feel grateful for the pain that lead me where I am now. Sir, beautiful channel and great wisdom. Thank you for sharing it.

[@vivavidadela]

Well sis you ain’t alone🙏🏾me too.

[@giulias.5104]

@@vivavidadela 💗🌺

[@KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching]

I’m 49 and finally learning. I wasn’t ready till I was in pain enough to transcend. It’s never too late.

[@myrabonatz2601]

True, blessings ❤

[@adianezhernandez5877]

I’ve been single for 3 years , going to church and improving myself. It’s sooo had to find a date yet alone discern a man to qualify thru all this. Lord have mercy, God bless us.

[@heressammy9796]

Ain't bringing nothing to the table but fruit of the loom. Boy bye!

[@luciewajesus731]

😂😂😂😂

[@ejstrawberry9659]

And dirty ones at that!😂😂

[@cheryljuliette5017]

Hang it up!!! 🤣😁

[@kismatali9839]

Am dead,,oh Lord..Hehehe

[@JKat-we1nj]

😂😂😂😂

[@asamoore4076]

Things we must share with our daughters.

[@marylewis469]

Brother you are speaking truth I love it you have encouraged me deeply

[@Trailblazers323]

The boomer generation truly did drop the ball. We now have two generations of men and women who don’t know the basics anymore.

[@LovelyCeee]

Asa Moore share this with our sons as well !!! They need to hear this too !

[@pimpindymepiece]

I’m Muslim & still find these videos SO helpful. I am very close with my dad & he gives similar advice so these videos feel so familial.

[@darlahenderson4734]

You are blessed

[@taaruskincare2552]

Same here girl.

[@brownskingirl2101]

@Princess yasssss Sis, my Dad started 👑Queenship conversations with me at age 9, repeated and added more at 13, and still fresh in my mind! Thank You Dad❤RIP

[@katibac1763]

I’m a Muslim too, Pastor’s advice is mind blowing

[@e.m.3843]

i can relate...i have the same Dad...and sometimes in the past i forgot about my Dad^s advices...and now i know he was always right. SOOOO powerful!!!!We are all QUEENS!!!!!!

[@lailamorse5339]

After 44yrs of getting it all so wrong, I finally understand my worth. I have given of myself with love in my heart, without knowing the truth. Thank you Father, for sharing these videos. I am ever the student willing to learn. I love myself more and more each day. I respect myself by setting boundaries. Thank You Jesus for all You did and still do for me. I am eternally Yours Lord and You are mine. I love You Lord and offer my humble gratitude for Your guidance and Protection. Sending all my beautiful family, all over this planet and those in Spirit, my unconditional love, light and blessings. 🙏✌️💖✨🤗🥰

[@srky4346]

I could’ve used this advice 20 years ago. Parents sit down and let your daughters watch this. 👸

[@macrocoachkellimichelle]

Same here

[@Adulttvfree]

Oooh same!!!

[@rhondamiller9047]

Ditto!!!

[@geminiots2121]

And the sons needs to watch this too. All of these biys running around who get mad when a girl rejects. This can hopefully explain why and help them change to become better men. I do agree with you. These young girls running around with their cheeks hanging out their pants and wonder why men don't respect them. Moms raise your girls to be ladies and dads raise your boys to be gentlemen.

[@landers127ify]

15 years ago for me

[@sharigetzfit6042]

Queens don't finance an unproven man.. I love it.. Some men don't want to hear this message but those aren't real men. They should be the queens..lol

[@lettie131]

Shari Morgan but that Is what the queen's is coming to though right?!

[@Ericatheinspirer]

I wish I had known this years ago, I was so ignorant and I'm almost ashamed to admit that, but I'm growing into a Queen now 👑💕

[@monnea2407]

Yes ma'am.... I have had several types of circus clowns in my life but the lady I am today.... Don't even try it!!!

[@7125joyce]

Don't feel bad because I was a fool and naive but thanks be to God for Pastor Blake allowing God to use him to help us!

[@BarbieBarnes]

Right me too. But we had to learn

[@nonkosiebucie2852]

Yep me too.

[@beverlyhall4578]

Don't stress over it. You now know better.

[@cathrineii696]

"Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship....if he's not man enough to drive the relationship, he ain't man enough to maintain that relationship..." 🙏 Thank you for everything you teach and share with the world. Greetings and gratitude from the UK.

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

1: Queens never ignore a man’s proven character 2: Queens never drive the momentum of the relationship 3: Queens never trust without verifying (1 John 4:1) • not gullible • verify through intentional questions • give the relationship time 4: Queens never commits to potential alone (Mark 11:12-14) • If he ain’t producing his potential: leave him on the elevator 5: Queens never finance a man (2 Thessalonians 3:11) • the only man a queen will finance is her King: TEMPORARILY, if he’s down (with provisions) • never finance unproven men • only finance your sons, through teaching him how to take care of a woman 6: Queens never cater to a man that’s not dedicating himself to the woman (Ephesians 5:22) • don’t give wifely duties to an undedicated man 7: Queens never tolerate disrespect (1 Peter 3:7) • Queens demand honor

[@eveheart2876]

#4 is legit

[@kelishapatrickable]

I made so many mistakes with my children's father and my second relationship. God is getting my heart ready for a true King now that I'm walking as a true Queen!

[@imabeloveddaughter]

Kelisha Patrick amen. me too.

[@yongmimi3058]

Aah pray God gives you the best man

[@LUV733]

Amen to this! 💖

[@carlanicholson1516]

Where did women think financing a man was love? I learned at an early age that a man is suppose to provide for a woman when my stepfather married my mom with 8 kids that weren't his They had one together making it 9 kids and my stepfather worked and took care of all us including his grandkids until he died. From that learning experience I don't finance men and have a good man in my life that is a provider.

[@lioness8456]

Wow! You truly experienced a REAL man, so rare these days! I have 4 babies with my husband, but God forbid he leaves I still aint worried about another King finding me! Queens are good women that never have to stress about a man. She's a prize, babies and all. 👑 Blessings to you and your family! ❤ 💪

[@newme6476]

Now that's a real man. Same thing with my grandad (my mom's stepdad) He married my grandmother when she had 4 kids by a man and a 5th child by another man. She had her 6th with him. She didn't have to work but never went without....always had whatever she needed/wanted. Took care of the kids. My mom is the oldest (61now). I've never seen my grandparents disrespect each other. She passed last year and my grandad told the grown children pick whatever casket you want, real flowers, etc The funeral was beautiful...it hurted to see the tears flowing down his face cause he loved her....That's the kind of man we deserve ladies....

[@resilience4lyfe331]

I pray that never happen to my son!

[@toyawimley647]

I agree👍

[@pamelaborst6272]

That I feel is awesome! Looks like you found your king !

[@_.marialek._]

"Trust is not a gift given. It is an honour earned" Yes.

[@Silkyslim48]

I love this!!!! Women do too much for these men we call OUR MAN!!!! Ain't worthy!!!

[@cheryljuliette5017]

Gutrrrrrl!!!!!!

[@bhdreamer]

Potential doesn’t do a damn thing! I needed this video in 2015! But Thank the Most High it has already been eliminated.!

[@eveheart2876]

DXXP SOUL ikr sis. True talk I’m watching closely to someone I just started talking to. 😂 if I don’t see production since he wants to be serious. Might as well stay in the friendzone.

[@regina6827]

I’m a QUEEN. I have always had this “Queen Mentality” and didn’t realize it....I just thought I was very “picky & guarded” around a man. So, although lonely, I will continue to WAIT for The King to present himself to me; and I will allow this king to prove/show his worth to me. I have been alone for several years and willing to wait for MY King because a new talks a good game but he needs to SHOW me. I’m in NO rush to prove anything to him.🌟🎊 🙏 “The Queen😇”

[@pearlofwisdom4045]

You're not lonely queen. You are alone, but even then you're not alone you're never alone. Namaste ❤️

[@gracendahani]

Yes Queen, it gets lonely sometimes but it'S Worthy it

[@newbeginnings9297]

Second

[@charitylee292]

Amen

[@jessfamilytv6045]

Boom!!! Yes Queen!

[@lorenparker7846]

I like how he interacts with his wife during the teachings so she feels included. Just checkin on her. 🤗

[@JustineMfulama]

AHHH I LOVE THIS. He might have the "potential" but if he can't manifest it, then there is no value to it. Boom. Absolutely agree. A lot of us women put too much hope into potential and believe we can change him, but that is such a dangerous mindset, that more often than not leads to heartbreak. THANKS FOR SHARING!

[@Shaniceisdivine]

Do you have the potential to manifest and multiply.. ???

[@Shaniceisdivine]

My apologies sis! I just needed a place to take that note. Not intended as a response to you.

[@aweleokocha8284]

God led me this page. Timing and situation likewise

[@BrendaBaBoom]

Awele Okocha Enjoy being anointed!!

[@gayanngodfrey2824]

Me too🙏🏿

[@bonnielindsay4764]

I wish my father would have taught me these principles. I will share this video in hopes it will help someone. Priceless truths!

[@tabithagonzales9339]

I wish my father took the time to teach my sisters and I this as well. The room was more important than the queens he had in his house 😔

[@Msrareedition]

Anybody, but then again would I have listened I was so hungry for a man

[@byyahbaby9211]

Its ok because you have it now😘

[@YHill-pn3bb]

"I think you got off on the wrong floor" PREACH and TEACH, dear brother!

[@TheLadyindigo87]

YES! I almost married a man with "potential".Now im in queen consciousness and know MUCH better. Yes a woman should seek and work to be independence but the man should be her provider!

[@carmendesir5057]

“Potential doesn’t keep the lights on” “Queens don’t finance a man” Come on now! You stepping on toes! Thank you!

[@lightpinkrosey]

Gyrlllllll did u hear the church say AMEN!🙌

[@sierushest1991]

More like slicing toes 😂

[@ritamutoka7768]

Not even toes feet ! Ha, ha, haaaa !!

[@lashuanjones1213]

My God I wish I had a man in my life that taught me these things when I was younger. It would have saved me a lot of unnecessary pain.

[@lashuanjones1213]

I’m a Hebrew Israelite woman, and even in my church they don’t teach this information. But I now know these things and I’m always speaking out as a woman and letting them know that just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean God won’t and can’t use me in his ministry. There are a lot of Israelite men who are BROKEN and they hold women down because of their brokenness, but I’m proud to say I’m not one of these women who can be held back or down.

[@1111DoubleOH7]

That right there 💞

[@josannebruce3096]

Alot

[@madelinebigio7565]

@Iashuan Jones well said is a shame we have to go through so much pain before we learn

[@DarrenLenzylll]

It’s ok. Self compassion.

[@theelephantqueen748]

“Because potential without corresponding character is equal to no potential “ . Wow . Wow. Wow. Way to sum up what has been my biggest lesson reaching age 30 in such a perfect powerful statement ! I LOVED this video, just discovered you , you have gained another subscriber.

[@lioness8456]

"Yo lil' clown in a crown" 👑 so sad but true! I know women over 40 supporting grown men financially, but I've never understood how you even respect him as the head of your household. A piece of a man is WORSE than no man, remember that QUEENS!! 👑 ❤

[@tiffwashington1]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jennyg495]

-"Potential don't pay the light bill." RC Blake's message 100/100

[@alicehong7809]

Lol.

[@deanikiliagwu1595]

Potential don’t pay the light bill lol

[@lulub5059]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@vanouchie]

nadine ikiliagwu . True that!

[@yahwehsaves7044]

nadine ikiliagwu Don't get involve with a broke man. Don't spend your money on him. I learned this too too late. Romance without finance is a nuisance.

[@dakarawilliams228]

😂

[@ytelevy]

•Queens don't ignore the signals & signs. •Queens don't drive the momentum of a relationship. •Queens trust after they verify. •Queens give the relationship time. •Queens never commit to potential ALONE. •Queens never finance an unproven man. •Queens don't lay their body down without the man laying their life down first. •Queen never tolerate disrespect. BONUS •Queens demand honor.

[@fizahaque]

Queens don't cater men.

[@catricesmith6849]

I agree!!!!!!!! My father taught my sisters and I exactly what you were saying. I laughed while I was listening because it was funny hearing what he taught coming from someone else.

[@latonyahiggins3596]

Not all have fathers/male figures to impart such knowledge in this manner. This video will bless many. Thank you. #ForQueens

[@mmejias23]

Love how you’ve backed your statements up with Scripture 💪🏼❤️

[@thegossetfam5304]

The devil looks good on paper🔥

[@shakitashontajones]

Man I was a Queen early but ppl said I thought to highly of myself...23 years later, I'm coming back to her. Praise God. Trust God. Trust yourself.

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

Shakita J ..because they thought to low of themselves

[@empress_highpriestess3307]

Shakita..Im very disturbed that I too..when younger..knew my worth and value -- and lost sight of that.. Life teaches us through experience comes wisedom - I don't understand how I could have moved backward through the decades..

[@QB42477]

HONEY!!!! YES!

[@UnapologeticallyCynthia]

Shakita J the enemy wants us to believe our standards are too high and we’re being too much! Don’t believe the hype. I too did some things I regret but to God be the Glory those mistakes taught me to continue to fight for what I believe I deserve. And what make it so bad it’s nothing more than wanting my husband to be the MAN in every area. Not just the bedroom.

[@bsean1179]

I love every part of this video. I am a King! I make good money, but I have yet to maximize my greatest potential. I've been at a standstill waiting on my Queen: It's just me, so I saw no need for certain things unless my better half was present. I know now, that I have work to do. I guess, if I build it, she'll come. God bless you Pastor. Keep pumping that goodness to 'em.

[@thephoenix2176]

True this King.. .Patience is of virtue - Good luck

[@judisnyder4868]

Amen! From a women's perspective, a man who is focused on his work and bettering himself is the most attractive!

[@truckergirlgoddest1968]

Amen

[@tashanicole6323]

Amen.

[@naysworld]

She's coming

[@jesuslovesleno6109]

YES 45 YEARS OLD AND NOW FINALLY LEARNING...THANK YOU🎓

[@allisonrose4796]

I wanted to take the time and express my gratitude for this man. Growing up I didn’t have a father to understand these things and I am so blessed that I have come acrosss your channel as it has guided me to become closer to God and know my worth. You are a wonderful man, and a great Spiritual Father anyone can ask for. Thank you.

[@kimmcleod]

One of the most overlooked components to women not knowing or understanding that they are not behaving in a way that's in their best interest is childhood trauma. Many simply are not aware that growing up in an abusive environment sets the tone for what you will and will not put up with. A toxic, abusive, neglectful and absentee parent(s) (parent's can be physically available, but emotionally unavailable due to alcohol, etc) is not assisting the child in developing their emotional intelligence or consciousness and this leads the child to being a broken adult that's susceptible to almost any kind of treatment. So, my point is that the origins of why women may be tolerating this type of character from a man needs to be addressed.

[@kimmcleod]

Miss Klass, hahaha...we have a ton of "boys" out there who claim to be men and they are extremely abusive and women need to understand that these types are to be left completely alone!

[@marielove9529]

True

[@DairiesofaDarkSkinBeauty]

Kim McLeod thank you for mentioning this important point.

[@rosa629]

YOUR TRUE` Kim McLeod...

[@bre970]

Amen, and I'm a living witness. I'm glad I woke up but I pray more people come to where God wants us to be.

[@velvetice100]

I just imagined the "Burger King mascot" when he said...."Clown in a Crown"!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤡

[@luxuryedition78]

velvetice100 HEEHEH HEE!!!! Love that!!!🙌🏾😂😂😂😂

[@Songtress777]

lol B-R-O-K-E man in a crown

[@velvetice100]

OMG yes loloololol

[@TheOfficialJessicaDivine]

I was not sure if this was going to be some "relationship coach" foolishness. However, THIS WAS ON POINT. Thankfully, I caught on to all of this wisdom early on in life. Having this mentality has blessed me immensely. I have been blessed with such a respectful, honorable, and loving husband of six years. He is a provider, protector, intelligent, affectionate, supportive, chivalrous, loves the Lord, etc...Having high standards will run a lot of fools off. However, that leaves room for a good man to come in. Don't allow loneliness and desperation to have you settling.

[@gardeniajohnson6855]

Thank you wise counsel. Queens demands honor.... God bless you

[@BrendaBaBoom]

MsJlaw13 Being a true Queen paid off.

[@veronicahaney3145]

Can we talk about not financing an emotionally and spiritually broke clown in a crown, with his addictions and escape tactics?!

[@bettyspencer3120]

I am almost 70 yrs. Old yet I feel so stupid right now! But I thank you for what you have brought to MY table!

[@trasation1774]

I get it...but, each one Teach one (or more). You (we) have the opportunity to learn and share to others who will listen.💞🔥👑

[@venishacharlemagne4284]

Yep 34still learning

[@dandelionkisss]

It’s never too late and you are not stupid at all!

[@darlahenderson4734]

You aren't stupid you feel you are good . I feel that too but you know I see it different now.

[@livinghigher4837]

Ladies, dont you just love his videos?

[@RCBlakesJr.]

Live Higher Woman! Thank you. 😂😂😂 Not all of them- SOME OF THEM HATE ME. 😂😂😂

[@livinghigher4837]

Robert Blakes the truth hurts.

[@Letsbreal2023]

I love his videos. #wisdom

[@corinaweber9014]

Live Higher Woman! I love his videos. He gives the advice a father would give.

[@gratitude5740]

Live Higher Woman! First video! I’ve got a lot to learn. From a door mat to a queen type of lady ...

[@_me.Kanika]

Finally. A man speaking truth about relationships that does not hurt, devalue, or underestimate women. Much respect!

[@UnapologeticallyCynthia]

Kanika W I agree ☝🏻

[@scrubbingoffinternet5221]

Praise God

[@taneelawson4945]

Kanika W Right that's why I'm listening now..

[@kellielene]

I wish my dad taught me this growing up! Would’ve saved me a lot of heartache!

[@jessicajohnson2559]

Sad to say pastor, I have done it before. Everything that you are saying is the truth. You do better when you know better.

[@poisonpoison686]

Jessica Johnson That's ok WE GOT IT NOW.

[@Carolyn100000]

Yes Jesscia, forgive yourself. we know better now so let us do better.

[@IsabellGreen]

THIS works just the same for ANY relationship with a man or any human! I fired a mechanic last week because of his disrespect. I also feel EVERYONE out that is in my life! Same goes for lawyers, doctors etc........ One thing I have learned this year is to NEVER put up with disrespect from ANYONE!!!!

[@angeledwards6521]

Yup

[@royaldominionauthorityglob4813]

Me too sis, this is definitely the year of Revelation for God on all levels/aspects of our lives when it comes to relationships from all people

[@faridahnakayemba1496]

I also fired Aman who wanted to take me for dinnwr the niga told me to do reservations l told who told u l wanna meet u man up pliz

[@toniagreen7836]

NEVER

[@darlahenderson4734]

I called out racist calling chinese man wang the man calling him wang was indigious . A holes come on all races. Doesn't matter color race or greed evil is evil. Said he was an activist yah right another fraud

[@kittygalore2010]

I admire this man and his wife so much they are an excellent example, role model, and blueprint of how i want my married life to manifest 🙏🙏🙏

[@kittygalore2010]

green world you took my statement out of context be blessed what is for me is for me. I don't recall explicitly asking for this man's life. Now if want great things to manifest in my life synonymously to his then so be it. Make it a great day!

[@HypnotizMindZ]

"Your little broke Clown in a Crown!!!"😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😩🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤦🏽‍♀️😩😩🤣🤣