7 WAYS TO MAKE HIM VALUE YOU MORE **THIS WORKS**

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I see my issue and mistakes I made. I’m too nice. I’m too loving, I’m too caring. I made no boundaries, i fell tooooooo deep in love.

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Sweet Lady sameee and they take you fir granted and it’s hard to stop loving someone or caring about them

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I feel you

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Girl saaaame!!! 😩😩😩

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U gotta be a Virgo

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Same...classic pisces behavior. I’ve learned though.

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I need to play this video every morning when I wake up until it's internalized 😂

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I need to do this too girl

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LMFAOOOOO RIGHT ?!?!????

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True..I am watching it every day 🤣

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“Anything that’s too available to a man, he does not value”. Wow that hits

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I agree more

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Powww!!!

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God is teaching me that constantly

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Yes

[@lriver5766]

Agree 1000%

[@mw7882]

1. Allow a man to show you are a priority. Do not do all of the initiating. 2. Have a full life. Let's him see you in limited capacities. 3. Do not cancel your plans for him. Match his energy and do not leave your feminity. 4. Tell him what you feel. Use your feeling words and state your boundaries. 5. Ration out your yes. Do not be so agreeable and don't be afraid to scare him off. Show him the benefit of No. 6. Do not give him wifey privileges until he shows up as a King that is exclusive to you. 7. Demonstrate that you have value.

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Making this my screen saver boflllllll

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Thanks ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

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YESSSSSS thank you and the video was ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥♥️MJ 🎉❤

[@Ashlee_504]

#5 is awesome ❤

[@goddessrulz3094]

Never cancel for a man...I was always taught a man was an accessory and not a necessity

[@YahiriJ]

Goddess Rulz good one

[@goddessrulz3094]

King Dende My grandmother showed me this.

[@goddessrulz3094]

Yahiri J Thank you

[@msslayter8276]

Y'all are lucky I'm waiting on my grandma to give me tips

[@jessicarabbit120]

But just dont tell them that. We do know that.

[@ankitaban]

“Your feminity is your power” that’s one hell of a statement.. 👏🏻👏🏻

[@blackmegriffin9240]

Um if it is WHY the F are we STILL having these issues?? Apparently being female isn't enough.....now we got gay Niggaz schooling BIOLOGICAL females i don't believe any of this shiiiiii

[@ankitaban]

Black MEGriffin the reason we are having these issues is because sometimes we forget our own worth and how much power we have.. and how does it matter who reminds us.. the most important part is that we support each other in our journey. AND BEING FEMALE IS ENOUGH! I am proud of all of us.. x

[@KKelli]

Black MEGriffin the same way women realise things about men and try teach men how to be more masculine is the same way a man can realise things about women and teach us how to be more feminine because both are attracted to eachother and knows what the other wants and likes, him being a gay man doesn’t invalidate his tips and knowledge, you sound hurt and deeply inside your masculinity (the toxic kind).

[@angelabishopfoodie]

💯💯💯

[@Elle.Webb11]

@@blackmegriffin9240 Because being a female doesn't automatically equate to being feminine. Alot of women out here with alot of masculine energy and not even know it.

[@chelseangeche8143]

"When a man has messed up he doesn't get the privilege of electronic media " 😅

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Yaaassss 😂😂😂

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Loved THAT!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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Am fucking dead at this🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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I died 🤣

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👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@JasmineBester]

“When a man has messed up he does not get the privilege of electronic communication, he needs to speak to you” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know that’s right

[@nalareignhtx]

And that's on Mary had a lil 🐑!

[@annabanana3371]

Why is it taking a gay guy to give the best advice I’ve heard about dating lol.

[@magiesam6043]

because he is a man and he know better about men.

[@HappinessTheBrand]

Cause he's in both worlds 🤸🏾‍♀️ Gay men been IT 4ever 💙💙💙💙💙 The best friends I've ever had

[@KaraboKeepile]

Cos he a man with feminine energy

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U made me s m h

[@Queensofafrica8]

Because Gay or str8...he is still a MAN...!!!

[@simonemaddox3784]

#1 DO NOT be the first to always initiate conversation #2 DO NOT be available all the time #3 DO NOT cancel your own plans for him #4 TELL HIM your feelings #5 BE SURE TO SET BOUNDARIES #6 RATION OUT YOUR YES’S don’t be afraid to tell him NO! #7 DO NOT GIVE HUSBAND/WIFE PRIVILEGE UNLESS HE IS COMMITTED TO YOU!!

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Yessssss thanksss!❤️❤️

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Thank you💪🙏😍

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Thank you 💯

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Thank you

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Appreciate you🙂

[@TheBargainAddictCeCe]

You are the Gay Best friend, i never thought i needed.😩😩😍. Thankyou for the uncut & raw advice with your cute self🤝🏽

[@eternalivy1908]

MzCandy Cayne ...yes, girl...he’s the Gay Best Friend in my head...lol! Some of this advice he shares is SO ME already, I swear!😂😂😂

[@TheBargainAddictCeCe]

@@eternalivy1908 just came across him recently. And I'm so glad😍😄🤛🏽❤

[@indiam9673]

I said the EXACT same thing😩🥰

[@Melanie-le6mw]

💯💓 I agree

[@Queensofafrica8]

I soooo agree

[@chelseaclayton2194]

“You don’t cancel your plans for a man, Hell motherfucking nah” 😂😂🥰

[@claricezamira1604]

Okay. I took notes but got only 5. What 2 did I miss? 1. Do not always initiate communication. 2. Have a full life 3. Do not cancel your plans for them. 4. Ration out your yes’s 5. Don’t give wifely privileges until he treats you like a queen.

[@kaykaykendra6889]

I love this. We should bo friends we would have a blast together. 🤣

[@annettebradford4434]

Do not leave your feminine power or softness for him. Do not get out of character for him

[@annettebradford4434]

Train him with actions, train him to respect boundaries.

[@shemeekawright6513]

I miss those 2 myself what are they.

[@kaceycat3661]

Omg I've been doing a wifely duty

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For personal reasons, I will be watching this every single day for the rest of my life 😌

[@ehealer2743]

saaaame

[@rozadaw2178]

I hate it here guys😔 we're watching stuff like this and they will never care😌

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🤣😂😂😂

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@@rozadaw2178 the right man will care.

[@Itsjustmechanell]

Period

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I’m addicted to your personality 😂

[@RaquellMenezes]

Me too🤣

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Preach

[@theonetheonly8887]

Same

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Me too.. b4 he starts... I'm like get in here, get in here get in here.. 😂 I'm already addicted to that..

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Me too I subscribed within the first 30 second of watching 😂😂😂

[@marisevilla662]

"When a man messes up he does not get the privilege of electronic communication" THIS! I will be forever grateful for this statement.

[@christinewimer5523]

My mother taught me all this, it's called, respect yourself first. I'm in my 60s now., I guess girls now a days need to re learn this.

[@brendachepchumba5409]

Hi Christine

[@kaylamaribela]

Yes, sadly... Growing up in the new millennium, we have had way too many external influences and grew up with a skewed perception of how to treat ourselves. A lot of us are putting in work every day to get better, but it's hard when you don't learn this as a young lady

[@bethehype5339]

We were never TAUGHT

[@criminyworldriseedify8962]

It was a lost teaching. You could always find a young women to mentor and help the younger generations out. They would really appreciate that.

[@sheenaupmost876]

You can't lean something you weren't taught

[@misssford_4528]

Loll this actually does work! I’ve been doing most of these subconsciously w/ my bf. & boyy them tables turned tf around so quick 😂 I used to chase him, nag & was desperate. But I stopped that crap, now he’s the one worrying & blowing my phone up. He just spent 337$ on a dinner date for us a few days ago lmao Ladies take that man off the pedestal & put yourself 1st ! Make his ass see your value! But most of all YOU have to know your value.

[@arrestmariorobertgarcianow]

_sonflowerr _ see I’m in a relationship and I wann do this so bad your comment give me hope

[@2290Kelsey]

How specifically did you change the dynamic within the relationship? I’ve been in my relationship for a year and looking to do the same. Happy for you!!

[@Lex.aubreyy]

Period 😍💯

[@nyakimkhat]

Okay queen!!

[@soniarhoden4630]

@@nyakimkhat True words

[@Melanie-le6mw]

“Anything too available he will not value you” now that’s some stuff right there! ☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@MARIAHLADY19]

"How you allow a man to value your time is how he will value you" PREACHHHH MJ

[@RiRithe1]

This is why every woman needs a gay best friend! Love my gay friends!

[@LuLu-kk5gs]

They are real deal

[@iwjfhaifn2950]

Female friend can do this too.. Why do you value woman less than a man..?lol

[@sandrene6918]

@@iwjfhaifn2950 because he is a man, giving information in relation to men

[@fayecoleman9384]

A gay husband is better😊

[@lola47022]

@@fayecoleman9384 lol 💯 once you are over the uncomfortableness.

[@nadegemt]

I wish I could have this man as the little voice in my head!

[@ysmithriley]

Yep. Before you make a move MJ would tell you what to do. ROFL.

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Yesss me too

[@shari_labella]

The Journey YES!

[@tshiofficial]

Me too❤

[@meganoflint6645]

Omg me too it would be so handy

[@TMA2NC]

You can’t MAKE anyone value you. You can value yourself by having health boundaries.

[@richrich2862]

Its when you value yourself you up your boundaries and worth and that reflects into the world and people will reciprocate

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@C RD ain't that the trith!

[@meeyaayeemdiy5837]

"You do not leave your femininity! You do not leave your softness!...You don't do that for him!! He's not worth it!" 🔥🥰🥀✨

[@jus.peachii3190]

When a man messes up he no longer gets the privilege of electronic communication 👌🏾

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Periodtttt 💯💯

[@charlottetheartist327]

I see. At first I didn't understand but now I see.

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Period •

[@kishanaali8144]

What he is saying is so true,i guest because he is a man with a lot of feminine energy.

[@kitasworld3214]

That was it for me !!

[@naturallybeautiful9109]

The more and more he speaks I get angry with myself... I did everything he said not to do... 🥴🥴🥴

[@TheAskylum]

Naturally Beautiful 🤦🏽‍♀️ same sis. Is it too late to turn it around?

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Same sis 😭

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Girl me too! LOL

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Naturally Beautiful me too!!

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[@msmaglorie4720]

Dating in this day and age is so depressing

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Oooh...Ms. Maglorie.... that is so true!!

[@TheQueenishere91]

Weak victim mentality

[@geturlife1694]

Ms Maglorie BIG FACTS 😑

[@MayLynn1977]

I still have hope though.

[@adianezhernandez5877]

Ms Maglorie lol, so true. It’s hard to find a date yet alone work all this magic.

[@jacke8847]

I used to wear my heart on my sleeve....Now that thing is locked up in ice, down at the bottom of a river, lost the key. So, now I can only play mind games. Scorpio moon...💀

[@Versiongurl]

It’s really sad

[@bbbb9795]

I care way way too much. Ladies have the mind of a man, care but not enough to get hurt. And be able to move along with no regret, guilt, or shame. We are better than what they portray us to be. Show em.

[@BeautyliciousTaylor2019]

Facts💯that's exactly how i move in my relationship

[@dominiquejacksonn]

PERIOD!!

[@polabear9710]

That's exactly what I do. My problem is that men when they like me it b expanded and I always end up in a "relationship" before getting to know them.

[@calili97one]

It’s been difficult I’m so glad that now I can move along from anyone be it close friends or men. Unbothered that’s what I am. I don’t have time anymore.

[@LuLu-kk5gs]

Right

[@kkarinarre]

I just ended a shitty relationship and I found this. Let me tell you that after I watched this, I realized all my mistakes! This made me smile during this situation. Thank you so much!❤️

[@Kiki_Get_Geekie]

Kari Anai stay strong boo 💗

[@shaim1114]

Same girl

[@shaylabyrd8449]

Same here !!!

[@monicaford1070]

Same , he was fine too not to mention understanding but I was crazy in love

[@janetr9450]

1st of all you didn't make any mistakes just because a man doesn't want you doesn't mean that you weren't good enough it just means that you weren't the one for him to has nothing to do with you it has to do with him you're perfect the way you are and 1 man will find it

[@rubycarranza]

“You just cleared space in my life for a man that gonna treat me better” yassssss ❤️😘👏🏽

[@kerlineresor7737]

Right!!!!👌👌

[@brittanykay568]

I know I’m late to the party but this is beyond eye opening and I truly appreciate this. I am crying through it because I’ve literally made every mistake but now I know what to do moving forward. So thank you!

[@joleencox5900]

I feel ya on that one! I too have made every single mistake mentioned….🤦‍♀️ BUT…… I am going to memorize (and practice) every single one of these do I will be a pro next time!!

[@nursekillm]

"You don't kiss my lips, you kiss me right here..."😂👌

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A mess 😂😂

[@nicolem92]

Where the heck were you when I was in my early 20s??!!! 🤣😂🥰

[@Bunzi3L]

I know right!

[@DonShayBates]

Literally

[@darleyrice7866]

Okurrrrrrrr😄😄😄😄👏👏👏👏👏

[@Brownocean]

Okay?? I'm knocking on 40 learning this good shyt

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

YES! Men treat you how they think you DESERVE to be treated. So be a Queen.

[@reginajackson2378]

How you allow a man to value your time is how he will value you!...Period👏🏽👏🏽Create space for a man who will value and treat you better❤

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There is no problem without solution let me introduce you to someone who helped me get my lover back and my relationship was fixed without delay within few days

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[@ashleybell5546]

When a man messes up he does not get the privilege of electronic communication. Call me ;)

[@jmeezy2362]

I felt that

[@oluwatobiasekun4692]

WORD.

[@Melanie-le6mw]

💓💖💞😂

[@Gawdessofficialpublishing]

Isn’t a phone call electronic communication? COME TO MY DOOR AND SERENADE ME! Lol

[@SightC]

Hell no..you call me or come see me...

[@sandyb7672]

I'm from Canada. My man canceled his plans and left his family because my Grandpa passed away yesterday and he said I needed him more 😭💖 he is such an amazing man

[@missinfinite5360]

Literally making me realize I could be more feminine.

[@abanks3551]

MJ Harris, you need to write a book ASAP. So much love, energy and genuine advice that I needed long ago but I’m happy to have found you! Amazing. I’m so grateful!

[@amandagonzalez981]

This human is absolutely incredible and tickles my heart

[@destinyhinks306]

Lol

[@riacollins3993]

I've been guilty of being to available & accommodating to males who didn't deserve me.

[@tammyp8260]

Me too. Too available but not anymore

[@kierstensenise4197]

“ when a man is messed up he does not have the privilege of communicating with you through electronics” I said PERIOD BABY!!

[@sparksspice9137]

This guy is on point. Knows what he’s saying exactly. And so funny! I love his energy.

[@HabibahElAmin]

The Art Of Seduction 💯

[@fimja]

“Masculine energy does not know how to handle your emotions” - Peter from the bachelor has been the definition of this quote

[@ne2604]

💀💀💀ik thats right

[@skynbyrm6748]

He just snatched my entire life! I'm way too masculine sometimes and too caring Thank you for this video hunty!

[@Smilemaker4u]

Amen...My thoughts...EXACTLY!

[@ShaniquaSiphiwe]

This is me completely...I need to change my ways

[@user-bu3bv6fj7c]

I would be a great guy😩because sometimes I think I’m more masculine than guys. How to be feminine? I look very feminine, but I developed my masculine energy to survive and protect myself in this world, and in the end it doesn’t make me so happy.

[@ShaniquaSiphiwe]

@@user-bu3bv6fj7c its okay girl we gat this...we can change

[@carolinar3638]

"Im going to show you that im valuable, by showing you I know my value"🙏🙏🙏

[@1Nekole]

Unless he's about to be deployed lol Wowwwwww that speaks volumes about errors I've made being too attentive and compromising. No more! And the moment I decided to take time to love myself which took two years of celibacy, I manifested my king who understands the power of reciprocity. We feed each others mind and always build upon the good ground of respect. I'm proof that anyone can glow up... took alot of failure and life lessons but at 38 years old I have someone who can match my dedication. Moral to the story is invest in your own self care. That's where the magic happens.

[@goldenbutterfly9771]

😄😄 Everything he’s stating is dead on!!! I did all these things to my man 4yrs ago. And he made it known he wasn’t letting me go.

[@MsJazzy49]

I am so glad I came across your video , because I really need this I have lost myself a lone the way after my son was killed in 2016 and I push men away but I'm ready and I need to get me back , all I seem to meet is unavailable men . I am so ready to be happy and in Love in 2020. Thank you

[@houseofbraidsandnailsbymsg1564]

Jazzie Blue blessings to to you queen on finding ❤️

[@21Yaam]

Jazzie Blue You will receive all your hearts desires mama! You are so strong and beautiful, keep pushing on. God has you. ❤️

[@MsJazzy49]

@@houseofbraidsandnailsbymsg1564 Thank you 💞

[@MsJazzy49]

@@21Yaam Thank you 💞

[@vicfuentesseyebrowsismyspi5231]

You got this. U R Strong Darling. You deserve Real love. And it's here.

[@jr9941]

Yes, MJ thanks for confirming all the expectations and actions that women should have with these men. My favorite part, when the man has messed up, and sends you a text, tell him to give you a call. He does not get the privilege of electronic communication. Now, that's a gem! And I picked that one up and deposited that mug! Thank you ♥️

[@hoseabitrus5232]

I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

[@hoseabitrus5232]

He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

[@hoseabitrus5232]

Whtsaap him"**

[@amorili158]

Can’t wait for the how to flirt video😭Lord knows I need it

[@mcharle01]

Amori Lì omg me too

[@Mari-zm9sy]

Same!

[@amyholloway1691]

Me too

[@colombianitta101]

same lol

[@Meenalena06]

Me TOO

[@chicksburghfitness7273]

U got me out here living my best life! I'm literally talking to someone right now about my boundaries and making solid plans for me. I wish I met u when I was like 13.

[@sophiia5193]

Fat Girl Fitness Fanatic what do you tell him in order for him to know your standards and boundaries girl? Happy 2020 💓

[@ysmithriley]

@Fat Girl Fitness Fanatic Ummm, your mom woulda let you date when you were 13 years old? LOL

[@chrismiccomedy]

ysmithriley haha of course not. ijs. I wish i learned more abt self love and value way earlier.

[@ysmithriley]

@@chrismiccomedy LOL This is a reply to Fat Girl Fitness Fanatic. Her replies are turned off. I'm not sure how my comment came to you.

[@chrismiccomedy]

faith umuk lol like i said to someone else, i meant i wish i learned more about self love and value way earlier.

[@annalbano5304]

I finally found a perfect man. I just fell in love with you

[@maliam6730]

How are y’all doing?

[@Dedrag7]

I’m going to give you the same Energy you give ME!!! Amen ✅

[@delishaenvy2564]

I need to work on that feminine energy i be comin to man like a man when he done pissed me off 🤣😂

[@TeenK7]

Delisha Envy I tell them straight up, girl I feel you too 😂

[@yisel-yaaz5689]

🤣🤣I am 💀. Girl I know what you mean, chiilll my hubby has gotten scared before, the inner lion came out and we almost got into a car accident, I was scared of myself 👀👀 I was like “👀who was that?” 🤣🤣😭🤭

[@conniebeach1925]

Delisha Envy GIRL! i can relate 😂😂😣🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😩😩😩😩

[@thelocc144]

I can definitely agree to this lord 👌🏽

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

@@TeenK7 you can be straight up while being feminine because this man does it well balanced

[@Fashaion101]

Listen when I tell you I screamed watching this entire video and here’s why bc this happened to me before watching this video. A guy stood me up and I made him wait before meeting him again. I was not giving him much conversation and he begged for me. I expressed how he made me feel. This man showed up on the second date early as hell had food ready etc. it really works when you shut them down and make them feel bad

[@daniellehayashi9616]

How is it going now? Lol

[@deel42]

@@daniellehayashi9616 I want an update tooooooooo lol

[@daniellehayashi9616]

@@deel42 I know, she's holding out on us!

[@LetmonstersRawrr]

Consistent Emotionally available Treats me good Only seeing me Respectful

[@RaquellMenezes]

I loved that

[@voquoncarter924]

@@RaquellMenezes ALL THIS AND GODLY

[@juliawhite7152]

And you must make sure these 5 men don't know about each other, lmao!!!

[@LevelUpYourLife]

Only give yes when you want to say yes “The best NO is a No that the man sees the benefit in.” LOVE THAT!

[@ShermtaF]

Girlll, I was taking notes

[@rosesolorio81]

😄

[@NiaMSnow]

Oh my.. this entire time I have been dating wrong, no wonder why I'm single lol. Okay I'm gonna try all his tips!!! Especially being patient to anger.. no reason to be mad.. at all

[@celineramazani]

okay, this is it. I WANT HIM AS MY BEST FRIEND

[@TimaFatih]

When I cry my husband just walks away. Not all men are the same!

[@goddessglow6996]

My dad hates seeing me crying

[@armonelovesaustin]

Sad you just can’t love genuinely gotta play mind games to get “love”

[@PrincessaChula21]

It’s not mind games. It’s being open and honest with your boundaries, wants, and needs in a positive way. They choose to either jump on or jump off

[@kerlineresor7737]

Katherine Negrete you are right. Not mind games just letting them you not gonna be waiting around.

[@jdouce6074]

Tssss smh 😓

[@theteam4793]

It’s minds games , been saying this

[@daniellenicole6989]

Yep and I hate it 🙄

[@kamijames2855]

You hit some things right on the nail....I used to be a “yes” woman and by doing this he definitely took me for granted

[@katieg2215]

Unless he bout to be deployed 😂😂😂😂

[@Gawdessofficialpublishing]

Yep. My dad was in the military. I told men that if they are going to choose to be absent then it’s not going to work. I won’t date a military guy. My needs evolved from that trauma.

[@Vonity_]

Cosmic Unity Co Deployment isn’t a choice. 🤣

[@thebusinesswoman23]

@@Vonity_ yes but, in my opinion, it is their choice to sign up for armed forces in the first place unless there's a draft .. and with that, there is certainly a potential to be technically "absent" from your family due to deployment. I believe that's what they were saying here more .

[@Wealthybaby]

Vona Syeh kinda is 🤣🤣 prior military I’ll say they know they’ll deploy before they sign on the line I get what u saying tho

[@Vonity_]

Fancy Pants Current military and it is not a choice, it’s a possibility to get deployed not a certainty

[@xoSimplyLexx]

I had to come back to this one cause I started getting too masculine wanting to control but expecting getting my feminine perks. MJ you’re amazing thank you ☺️

[@linamike172]

KEY POINTS:- =>Never initiate conversations with a guy. Just reply to their texts in 2-3 words to the point that's it. =>Never be easily available and accessible. How you allow a man to value your time is how he will value you ♥

[@sashasmith9947]

2-3 words? That’s no convo

[@annaw4551]

i think he meant don’t always initiate conversation, verses never initiate conversation. match his energy

[@amberdavis9529]

Baby you going to be single thinking like that lol

[@jamiejackson1780]

I think that women from my Community, Black Women✨ sometimes throw away our feminine-energy TOO soon or too easily & go into SURVIVAL-MODE!!! 😬😖☹️ ... this is GIVING me life & reminding me that much of my magic (power 😅) comes from my SOFTNESS!!! 🥰🥰🥰 THX MJ, you are SO AWESOME!!! 😘😘😘

[@tojiadawkins8383]

I don’t typically like sharing my feelings, but felt the need to this weekend, and stayed calm and soft....he melted.

[@godsfavor6939]

I LOVE 💗 your frankness!!! I sent this video to my daughters because they act like they don’t know because I’m the one telling them. But coming from YOU is more powerful and they will listen. Thank you for the advice love!

[@Divinely_Delicious]

I love this........ “THE WAY YOU TREAT YOURSELF SETS STANDARDS ON HOW OTHERS TREAT YOU “

[@Lovetheonewithin]

I have difficulty staying in my femininity when we have a heated discussions.

[@ingridhendrix3981]

aaliyahsmommy1608 Me too I feel dizzy when I try😂😂😂

[@Lovetheonewithin]

@@ingridhendrix3981 LOL!

[@nishamack586]

The key is to NEVER argue with a man. Cry, walk away ! This is the secret. Lol...Then when he feels guilty for being mean , obtain all that you want😂😎

[@Lovetheonewithin]

@@nishamack586 lol

[@miyonchees]

Me too, first instinct is to take off my earrings... but I was given advice long ago... let him blow up, all by himself. He will eventually hear himself, his voice, his words echoing back to him and will feel like a fool.

[@cocopuss718]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ok.. tell me why I'm over here practicing MJ"s hand gestures maximizing my feminine energy .. LMAO 😂😂😂

[@nunnallyai]

Coco P 🤣

[@nunnallyai]

And water sipping

[@cocopuss718]

@UCBvzWlAZTHPMrHbnaD9biHA it's fun.. relax, not that serious..

[@nenelje-lo4652]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA XD

[@buttahscotchkisses3133]

Girl I'm batting my eyelashes. Even tho I do it already. Now I know what it looks to other people. Lol

[@SquishyPanda4190]

You need your own podcast!!! 😘😘😘 you're the cheat sheet for all of us!!

[@theresaswift1855]

I need “BE CUTE WHEN YOU DO IT..” on a tshirt ASAP...MJ!!!

[@SashaFearless]

omfg i love you and i had to subscribe, i was having such a hard time with a man but I watched one of your videos yesterday and my perspective completely changed. I was crying and depressed and everything but something you said clicked. I have to value me more than I value any other man. The only reason why he was interested in me in the first place is because I was scarce and when he walked me home in the beginning I said goodnight and closed the goddamn door and meant it. Also, when we first started dating he realllyy wanted to pursue me because I said WE WOULD NEVER DATE. You hit the nail on the wall with this. YOuve literally jolted my ass out of depression. Thank You so much. I refuse to be an option for any man. PERIODT....

[@kerlineresor7737]

I feel this on my soul

[@SashaFearless]

Kerline resor amen sister, why did it hit you

[@shawtrickajoseph6367]

1 ... do not always initiate pace myself have a full life .. friends ... limited capacity ..2. Do not cancel plans for him ... 3.... communicate feelings.. 4... ration out your yes ...

[@Suckafreevibes]

Facts I used to feel like playing these “games” were boring like I’m ready NOW but as time went on and lessons I’ve turned into blessings THIS is exactly how we gotta be out here moving! Don’t give away or show too much in all aspects ❤️❤️

[@umaradam4941]

He can help you manifest whatever or whomever you want to manifest within 24 hours without no delay💘💘💘💝💝💝

[@umaradam4941]

What sapp him

[@umaradam4941]

√⏮⏮⏭⏭2349050804927

[@latashaboyd720]

I do not know why I can’t stop laughing at his impersonations but he is teaching me so much!!!

[@meganoflint6645]

Loool me too but it's so helpful

[@adrienneparnell4821]

1:23 never seen someone put glasses on this smooth lol 🙂

[@kimberlymann8102]

😂🤣so smooth

[@mollystroud2618]

This advice is excellent. I've been studying relationships and coaching for years. This advice is spot on and spoken well to be understood. Thank you!

[@poweidethompson7256]

I have been doing everything wrong, making me look so desperate and I’m not 😔

[@melanieharp7633]

Girl, you are not by yourself

[@nalareignhtx]

Change effective as of now!!!! You got it Sis 💃🏾

[@OneFaithFilledLady]

Right. I'm so mad at myself. Now I'm trying get back to my boss chick energy... smh.

[@JeannideV]

This man is giving us the whole script!! Yessir!

[@powerfullyhappy5226]

Can you do a video on how to get him to re-value you and chase you again, after you have lost value in his eyes. Some people have relationships that they want to rekindle especially if you have children together.

[@Amuthe-vp6vi]

Yesssss MJ, please do!!

[@cherrycoked3]

This!

[@vierhans1553]

!!

[@yeewandex3846]

Yessss!!

[@kimhminyee]

YAS PLS

[@mzansinatural]

"your cup is going to overflow with other men" I'm deeeaaadd :"")

[@janelleharper1189]

“His tail between his legs” I AM DECEASED

[@BritBrat444]

Boundaries equal self love

[@wifetowolf]

Having a past career in relationship coaching, I must say your advice is dead on. You're a real resource to anyone trying to get it right. Preach on gorgeous

[@elainataylor4202]

“This is GRADE A!” ... I felt that in my spirit😭🙌🏽

[@AndriaLeigh_]

Soo true! My boyfriend is so pressed and I love it. He keeps me in my feminine energy and I just stay there and I’m not leaving. It’s fun I get to be pretty ..just as I am 🥰💅🏾😂💖

[@astridthepastrid]

UGH you have literally given me the absolute BEST advice compared to any other relationship advice channel out there. Your delivery is so effective and inspires such confidence and feminine power in me. I truly have never felt so powerful and valuable. I finally know EXACTLY what to do. You are a treasure and a blessing. I'm subscribing!!!

[@astridthepastrid]

the amazing thing is that you are a gay man (I'm assuming!) which is your gift I think. You come from a perspective that is so valuable to me as a woman because you understand both the masculine and the feminine and how their dynamic works. You know it SO WELL. it makes me feel at ease because you are spitting straight LOGIC! Lots of love from the Netherlands baby ;)

[@yamommahoe4491]

I let my guy initiate first contact. I do this to see how much he really is thinking of me and to see how hard he is willing to work for me. I do not like chasing or doing what the man is supposed to do. I do this until I know for sure he is completely putting me as a priority then I may initiate from time to time but I truly believe in letting the man do the chasing and initiating like they like to do. They love a challenge.... it's a part of their masculinity 🤷🏾‍♀️ so I definitely agree with the initiating part. Yasss... love your video's.

[@stephanyrenae4544]

😂Everything he said is accurate I text everything he said to a man , HE CALLED.

[@Arankine]

Same

[@victoriya33]

Omg I used the “ when you get this, I’m going to let you f*** the heaven and hell out of me”. He rang me absolutely floored and panting away. He loves it when I text him goodnight handsome. It workssssss

[@helenar3297]

I LOVE how you give us like real examples of things to say, and they're great

[@gigi2004k]

1000% never done this until my guy now. Amazing! He called and apologized and said he didn’t realize he had made me feel invalidated. That was before I watched this. It works!

[@aynur1720]

How did u get him to know he felt that way?

[@ges3061]

Ooooh I love me some you... I screamed when you leaned in to whisper in his ear yaaaaaaaaaaas

[@Ceilingkatwatchesus]

I leaned in when he started whispering haahhaahahahahah... I was like, “ what you gonna say?”....👀🤣🤣🤣

[@gailsmith8058]

Yeeesss me too, I'm listening and learning thnk u so much this is something u dont hv to do.

[@ges3061]

at 25:15 lol had to go back and replay this.

[@lesleybunkete8018]

Same I screaming to the roof topp

[@tpquest6959]

Mee too lol i was listening hard

[@tabithatierney6512]

I’m 38 years old and just settle cause I feel there’s something wrong with me since I’ve never been married I’m trying to work on this wish I would of known this all a long time ago!

[@janetr9450]

Honey im 55 never married, I am marrying myself, to obtain self love and discovery, then you will receive the right guy. All the other in-between are just learning opportunities

[@FLYDIEHARD]

Why settle you have the rest of you life to live

[@cn.1787]

I married twice. 38 too. But I was doing opposite. Totally opposite to these advices. And turns out he is right. We need to. We have to respect&love ourselves first.

[@stacyvonglis1001]

I'm 36 never been married I was with the father of my kids for 14 years he tried to get me marry him more than once I knew I didn't want to marry him so I would tell him I don't want to get married at all to anyone ever I was able to see that I didn't want to spend my whole life with him but wasn't able to see I should have left the first time I said no so being 36 and never been married and a little over 2 years single I know I made the right choice and don't regret that choice for one second hes married to the girl he seen after me instead of heeling and working on his self he put his energy into that relationship me no i done and still trying to work on my self be better and also I will not downgrade (I will not date a guy on is level or lower ) I am all about looking for an upgrade and they few guys I have seen all was upgrades I'm not throwing shade just saying he was and didn't give me what I was looking for like stability more financial stability emotional stability someone more on my page/level to say and as far as I know/can see his wife is on the same page as he is which good for them my upgraded guys things haven't worked out which I believe is more about me needing to do more work on myself I know what I want from a man a relationship I feel like I'm not there on that level just yet why I haven't had any luck but I will be soon