How to ATTRACT MEN (**THIS WORKS!!**)

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

What's your favorite way to flirt?

[@celestiakock7207]

Laughing at his jokes

[@goldenflower1469]

Smiling or brushing pass the person touching their back or arm like it was an accident 😂

[@keysha2030]

Stare

[@jj-2223]

Lock Eyes 🤭 & a slight smile

[@sososanchez3512]

Direct..with feminity..

[@kantik2118]

Actually, men aren't difficult to attract: slow walking, eye contact and feminine attitude, then ignoring them. Keeping a man is actually what's really challenging. And I would say, sometimes, for the feminine energy, it's better to not be around men all the Time. Draining like hell for the feminine energy.

[@peachluck1050]

Such a good comment. So true. Never have seen or heard “draining like hell for the feminine energy”, but it is so true in my experience. Thank you.

[@mayusoma]

When î was younger and completely oblivious to mqking myself attractive it like î AM now it brings in better candidates. When î let go of thee desire because men are thee desirers and pursuers we can keep in thee dark + fantasize + that energy works as a magnet because it's inherently unspoken...feminine ❤ thankhû for making this video

[@iamDavidaRose]

A man has to want to be kept and if that’s not the case, let him loose honey. Draining YESSSSS

[@kantik2118]

@@iamDavidaRose men are confused AF: they'll tell you they want you to need them but when you're there, they are gone. They are masochists in reality but like to use women Who don't know That. They like to go hard for women they want but in the meantime, they'll placeholder the 1st naive woman they meet with poor boundaries. That's why it's better to prioritize yourself. They'll go to the moon and back for you if you challenge them and decenter them and let them compete for you. But even then, you do you and keep them for pleasure. They suck the life out of women when we live with them.

[@lmiller1413]

Where are you working that you are around all men? Help the rest of us out, where do we find all the men?

[@blossom3468]

I got hunted 😂 he came for me! He saw me and scanned me while I was organising my sh@t to enter the club. My brain registered him subconsciously....anyway as he bent down to enter the club God knows why my eyes were in that direction but my soul recognised him from outside and I was on cloud nine ( he's 7ft 3 and YUM ) He came and stood behind me and kept pulling my hand. 10 years later and my soul is still activated ❤

[@sisblk786]

"The better you make him feel when around you, the more he will want to be around you." 💯 *facts

[@kimberlyclark4559]

One thing that I do is compliment men. I feel men don’t get it often and it’s something they need to hear. And it’s not even flirting, just giving them a compliment & making their day. It also gives them the option to converse if they wanted to initially but afraid to.

[@ministerkimberly]

❤

[@temirene]

Yikes. This is why I stopped complimenting men. Each one would think i was trying to get with them when i was just making a casual positive observation about their appearance.

[@BlackberryTitties]

Yeah I’m not complimenting anyone! Not here to stroke the male ego!

[@kennethfaried341]

@@BlackberryTitties lol 😂😂😂

[@beasaroze5596]

Men love when you flirt with them. I love it when I can get them from frown 😠to grin😊.

[@geminisun12]

“And if you’re fat - just lean your face forward”. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Kim1310]

toook me out😅😂😂😂

[@eugeneordonez33]

Will do

[@zenobiapeterson1406]

😂😂😂 right

[@junelleweaver5900]

Yo I spit my drink out at work lol

[@kathyweekes1937]

@@junelleweaver5900Thank God I didn’t watch this at work!!😮😂🤣

[@TaKyraMoonlight]

I have social anxiety but I constantly have men staring at me and my body language I know screams DON’T COME OVER HERE. LMAO really I’m nervous asf. Just recently I decided to try to be a bit more open and I have 2 dates this weekend, with a personal trainer and an engineer.

[@ministerkimberly]

🎉❤❤

[@SO-sb5sf]

Okkkk dennn lookatchu 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 whatever you doing keep doing it and just go with the flow and im weak at my body language screams dint come over here thats so me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@yota0209]

Have fun & ENJOY!😊

[@jasminealexia]

Go girl! What did you do? Inquiring minds want to know

[@rosalindclemons4529]

I love listening to MJ, especially when I'm having a not so good day. He keeps me laughing

[@Peachie90]

I agree!

[@juleemango84]

Same!!!😆

[@peaceofmindofpeace1650]

Yes very uplifting and humorous 😊

[@tamikabrown1409]

I said the same thing to a male friend of mine who was married about a month ago and he agreed. Men are not going to approach women who are in groups. And women have a tendency to roam in groups because they are too afraid to go at it alone

[@alikazan24]

“Shut up and listen!” I LOVE it!❤🎉

[@Ms.Simone7]

I just want to flirt, go home and stay single in peace 😂😂 I’m listening though!

[@Allthingsfazzi]

I feel you pain lol

[@KellyAnnPinnock]

This took me out

[@kathyweekes1937]

I definitely feel the same way!!

[@jenniferrascol5940]

I thought I was the only one!!!!😂

[@trinityp8575]

To attract is easy… how to keep a relationship that’s the difficult part. Especially nowadays.

[@daniellecharming]

Please make a video on flirting, showing a guy interest, and how to meet a guy in public and at the gym!! Love you!

[@seraphxangel9353]

This

[@featherbabes]

Lol. Its what this vedio was babes😅

[@London4Paris]

Practice your looks in the mirror first! 😂🤣😂 Yes, this is so true yet funny!

[@TheJfaye1113]

😉 😂

[@jamieolivarez9083]

Good advice MJ! Building confidence is key. I have started my self love journey a few months ago when left a guy who was a toxic person. Since I have been feeling way better and trying to be a better flirt.

[@mck20012]

I’m a straight male and you was spot on you get it exactly. Thanks for this post.

[@comeasyouarewithyourvision725]

I love your voice when you demonstrate what a man would say. You just make my day 😊

[@feliciaatwell4236]

MJ you have me hollering!! This video had me evaluating how I go out. I realize that some of the things you said I naturally do without realizing it. You just gave me more to add to the bag of knowledge! ❤you! Keep doing you!

[@ExoticalFHTips]

I agree with that “activating” men because I don’t have a problem with approaching anyone I have interest in at all

[@desireck821s7]

Hello 👋 I’m a women and I have lots of masculinity lol working on the femininity. Most men I attract are very feminine 🙏💕

[@gingerjoy5836]

Omgsh you are Absofreakinlutely Hilarious!! I’m married almost 30 years, but just love hearing you!😆😂🥰

[@feliciaatwell4236]

My biggest problem is activating the ones that don’t appreciate the activation! 😟 Finally activating one whose energy finally matches mine. Fingers crossed 🤞🏾. Love me some MJ

[@GlendaGray-xi9uz]

git away from your bald headed girl friends!!!🤣🤣🤣 I was dying... You tell the best stories and gems MJ . 💯

[@IndigoWisdom1]

Here for the *masculine voice* voice over acting by Malcolm 👏🏽 love it!!!❤

[@TheoriginalOceanwife]

Body shaper is just good marketing ❤❤❤❤❤ I love it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I’m taking these tips 💯

[@flowersroses4430]

Thank you MJ! You have re-inspired me to get physically in shape and how to attract men. You are awesome! ❤⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@lmiller1413]

Go girl!!! You got this!

[@Afrolatinalexi]

Just shut up and listen💯, MJ you are the GOAT!! AND you did it in a nice way!❤️

[@katloirishermasuge4123]

🤣🤣🤣🤣"I knew where i was going in life". i had to pause a couple of times to laugh🤣😅

[@Queenintheblack]

They do not want to be rejected. Just like sales people, who hesitate approaching a person to make a business connection…

[@tikaroxanne7286]

Thank you because i gotta work on my flirting skills in person but with texting I got it going on lol

[@louisefecentese8109]

Girl, you are Beautiful in so many ways, it's just simply Awesome to watch you and listen to you. I'm a straight woman, a widow and single so far. You are such a pleasure, just found you and subscribe. Can't get enough of a good thing. Love your sense of Humor, naturally hilarious.....Thank you 🙏 for being yourself. Can't help but love your straight Honesty. Much Love ❤❤❤❤❤ from Spain 🇪🇸

[@Cristy_Kuchiki]

Just watched your July 2021 vid on emotionally unavailable men (love the sweet and insightful way you described everything ☺️). LOVEE your July 2019’s 5 warning signs he’s not looking for commitment vid too!

[@patandersen4271]

Loving all the on- point info you share. You are the girlfriend we all want even us older ladies because we KNOW you are speaking truth. I like to compliment a man on his appearance (clothing, shoes) if he's intelligent, I'll let him know I appreciate what he's sharing with me.

[@deidredesiree]

So true, MJ! It's so ironic just before seeing this video tonight. I started saying all kinds of compliments to my new Boo this evening since I've been feeling a bit more comfortable with him lately, and his response was....what's happening to you??? Lol. It surprised him immensely. Thanks so much for all your excellent advice!!!

[@danipandaxo]

LMAO IM DYING AT THIS VIDEOOOO. THE LOOKS TO GET THE MAN TO COME OVER, SAYING I MIGHT HAVE TO SWITCH SIDES , THE PART HE’S PRETENDING TO BE A LION AND FLICKING HIS TONGUE MADE ME SCREAM😂😂😂😂

[@jasminealexia]

Girl! I had to pause the video on those points cuz omg 😭🤣🤣

[@ItsIzzyandFamilyFun]

I’ve been blushing this entire video😂 You definitely activated me🥰

[@lmiller1413]

Yep. My mom said this to me. Men are afraid of rejection, so they wont approach. So, smile.

[@sardiniaramos5801]

😂 On point! I love the way MJ addresses relationships with light humour❤

[@michellewade6274]

Love this video. MJ is so funny and honest and entertaining. Pure joy.

[@carollove2427]

I Love Me Some You Teach Them Baby You Go My friend Friend I’am 67 Yrs Young Your Good That’s Just How My Husband Found Me 37 Year Ago Keep Up The Good Work ❤❤❤❤. 😊😊😊😊

[@amylee9]

You’re such a blast to watch. I love your expressions.

[@cherylmontcrief7600]

Thanks am 54..and never done this. Good advice.

[@Blackcatsaregoodluck11]

You are so entertaining and the information is amazing! 😅

[@firstsecond98]

We are in the world where we attract 10000s, awaken their love without the intention of loving them .... Dont attract anyone if you are not ready to live with them forever through good n bad

[@joeyj5495]

I live for these videos MJ ❤. Plz keep them coming. Raw and Uncut.

[@michellegray3921]

Me too sis. I literally go through withdrawal when I haven’t seen a video.

[@Experiencethehack]

Thus worksssssss I do it alllll the timeeeee

[@chariselacroix]

Hey MJ, thank you so much, definitely rusty in the “what to say” portion, the back and forth conversation is really helpful. Can you do another one on things to say? I heard to take his mind off work but I feel you should show more of an interest in what a guy do.

[@reneejohnson3423]

I must say I Love listening to you you make a lot of sense.❤😊

[@malaikahill321]

The names you come up with !!! Lol 😂 you are a MESS …. A good MESS …. Lol 😂 luv ya Malcolm

[@applepie6559]

This had me So Tickled🤗😆

[@lovice43]

Great video, beautiful 💯thanks

[@tangiegamble1577]

The second wink says let's leave this place 😂😂😂

[@senorasolitaria7908]

If you watch this one aventura music video, the blond gives him a come get me look and walks away, then it shows how his face shows a desire to chase and conquer. It came to mind as an example

[@AngieA-s5b]

This was so on point! I had no idea! Thank you!!!

[@LOVELY-hx8ll]

Everything you say is golden 💕

[@juliejuju7419]

I'm loving how to become a smart coquette by this man😍

[@berniegueu8830]

You're so darn cute, smart and witty. You teach me so much. Thank you for all of your excellent advice. I love you so much.❤❤❤

[@smart22cute]

Wow MJ you smooth with it, the convo just flowed, I ain't got no game. I'm going to watch this convo a few times. Love u ❤

[@brendacunningham5070]

MJ...As Always You Give The Good News💚💚💚💚Thank You...

[@cathynykolaishyn8926]

I’m going to try this 😊. You are funny and awesome. Glad I found you!

[@theresarodriguez7818]

I’m sharing this with my beautiful daughter 😊

[@SDC8686]

Yup! Not Thirsty, but single as hell😂. I'm not desperate, but i could use a drank 😋

[@ramoore6197]

Baby... the way you have me 😂😂😂 this early in the morning! I love your honesty and energy.

[@shereshamarks4517]

Very true a guy liked my pic online I liked his then told him I think I like him now we are planning our date we both can’t wait 😝😝😝

[@a.l.ingram7998]

Love, love, love this! Just what I needed to see and hear. Thx doll❤

[@patifernandez7848]

Please do a video explaining how I can go from good friends to more without looking needy, I’m in love with this man, not sure if he knows we are friends?

[@lyndsaehunter7841]

Yes!!! I needed this. I’ve been having the same issue as the friend you talked about in the beginning. I didn’t know, now I know. Thanks boo!

[@L.Cumming]

Get away from your baldheaded girlfriend😂😂😂😂😂My best friend is baldheaded, this made me laugh so hard.😂😂😂

[@vulolaalbino]

I came through your videos and i couldn't resist. Im your fan. All the love from South Africa ❤❤

[@taylornj8582]

You “licking the water” took my ENITRE soul! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@daniellecharming]

This is EXACTLY what I needed!!!! Thanks boo! ❤❤

[@emiliebyfuglien7967]

You need to be my friend… I love your directness not many of us. Come move to Switzerland 🇨🇭 I live here, though from Norway/Philippines ❤️

[@lovelymiracle]

This video is hilarious!!! 😅 I took notes tho. Excellent advice…❤️

[@tanyabriggs8690]

Another golden nugget. Thanks MJ ❤

[@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok]

Hi harris!🌷yr biggest fan 4rm south africa

[@reneakoons4392]

Loved all your tips,Thank you❤

[@MartinaSands-dv5cg]

😂😂😂 You go girl I love you so much I'm gonna support you my sister you are gorgeous tell them beautiful lady's out there how to attract man God Bless🙏♥️.

[@tameramitchum7867]

Good afternoon darling your video popped up and you are so charming your giving correct advice I'm in philly and I'm a young 72 full of energy living my life to the fullest every day i enjoy watching you so keep on being you and give your watches what they need to hear my love i have subscribed and will keep watching take care darling and be safe smuches ❤😊

[@Queenintheblack]

Nailed it MJ!!!

[@Sassysagg-m5o]

5 second rule is perfect it works. Don’t cut it short 1 2 3 4 5 then put on the biggest scooby doo smile.

[@Brook_vs_Tash]

Thissss!! I’ve been told I’m too intimidating 😩

[@TheoriginalOceanwife]

Raise your cheekbones if you’re fat, go like this❤😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🎉🎉

[@TUEWHANNA]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@reesecupinthemil]

I love you. You always give the best advice and tell it like it is. ❤

[@tracyculver9998]

MJ Harris I love your messages and god bless

[@Pyseasprynzess]

Im on the floor laughing😂 MJjjjjjj i LOVE u sooooo much!🤣

[@idablake8649]

I rarely comment on videos. You funny🤣🤣🤣 as hell

[@2many2fast2soon]

You are so right I didn’t know he was even watching me I was with my girlfriends as soon as I was alone he came we started talking and talked the whole night he ask me to dance we talked some more hey we still kicking it🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉yessss

[@TaylorTot_707]

Unrelated but I love your energy! You are simply adorable

[@lornaturner7]

You got it RIGHT!!!!! EXPERT!!!!

[@bjoyful2185]

Excellent insight! Thank you MJ! 👏🏽🥰👏🏽💕😘

[@doreenkennie1714]

You are so right 💯💯

[@rbellishere88]

Love you back. The Rose🌹

[@sabrinadebarge1926]

Auntie MJ coming through, as usually 🙌

[@allisonbutler4829]

Seeing you demonstrate this, I DEFINITELY understand why men don’t approach me now!!! Lol!!! I can be pretty reserved & will LOOK AWAY if I see someone blatantly looking at me 😅this is mind blowing. This is me realizing that I have no idea how to flirt 😂 thas alright, I’m cute & I have the internet. I’m gon learn today ❤

[@davitapeterkin6320]

I loves me some you because you are so real. So down to earth and I'm here just cracking up hard

[@beverlygarcia6475]

It was a guy that spilled his guts to me told me how he felt about me but then I rejected him with some things that I said how do you go about trying to get him back to get him back to where he was before and felt about you. I did not realize that he felt that way about me so many guys play games and you don't know what's real or not anymore

[@Candy_Tonia]

I love you and your advice! I laughed so much and this is good because I’ll remember what you said.

[@Dauseana]

You got me over here CTFU. "Go to the one who look good but you dont know what they are" IM WEAK😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Kim1310]

😂😂😂😂

[@sherylglass7886]

ABSOLUTELY RIGHT❤

[@keyf6845]

😂 I love your content, I get a good laugh and wisdom 😂 you know your stuff too.