#77 Six Figures, Second Wives & 313 Real Men! || Chai With My Bhai

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[@RighteousnRich]

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[@MAhmed-zs2vp]

Isn't there a how to be a good woman. How to help your husband not be weak and stronger from muslim sister? Anyone related to you guys?

[@Hellfire_is_real]

Y'all don't have this program in the states? I wish my son could be part of this.

[@jannatfsbl-llh8319]

best things I've learnt from you are, "Place your happiness in the one that remains, Allah!!" and "Seeking knowledge". Jazakallahu Khair guys

[@oj1291]

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[@Abdullah250]

This episode was soo beneficial and heartwarming. Please do more of these, ustadh and brother AbuBakr (and the team)! Also brothers who havent joined the Brothers Club, dont miss out! Wallahi it was one of my best investments for akirath (and dunya)

[@TheSakeenahCentre]

Talkers will talk, haters will hate, even the Prophets had to undergo it and be patient with it. Personally, Allāh knows how much I benefited from this duo Keep up the amazing work guys, may Allāh preserve and reward you for your efforts

[@CoffeeSA96]

That story in the intro about the guys wife having her brothers beat up her husband is heartbreaking

[@japnanekoli981]

May Allah give him justice that got me heated wallahi

[@aatif7518]

Heartbreaking, but we Muslim men should be strong, physically to defend such injustice and mentally, by having a good control and authority over the womenfolk

[@123s645123]

@@aatif7518 I know two brothers who lost livelihood / family by simply raising their voices and getting the policed called on them by their wives who then filed for divorce. You have to be extra careful who you marry and what you do in the west.

[@zee8382]

Allahuma barik really enjoying this episodes man! The balance is amazing and so beneficial Alhamdulilah.

[@LegitDreamer96]

Brother keep up doing the good work inshallah ,Allah will judge you for you good deeds i support you even if don't agree with you in some issues,I love you for the sake of Allah,the believers should stand together, you are doing this for Allah not for any man,May Allah accept your efforts

[@revertakh1235]

Looking crispy these days ma shaa Allah tabarak'Allah ❤ love you guys for the sake of Allah

[@rizavandad-zi9jq]

Never ever thought that your doing good brothers keep going.

[@NajashiProductions]

Talking about your lives like this is good, more episodes like this!

[@SulaymanMukhtar]

جَزَاكَ اللهُ خَيْرًا One of the videos you’ve ever put out.

[@user-uy8pg4wv4b]

!!!!!!

[@zain2611]

I love this! Please keep going this is so important for us in this time

[@itsyeboi6364]

We need more men like you. I wish ya’ll make more content like this guiding young men

[@user-ve4zw6jp9i]

I just need a man who is not Redpill, let's me work part time, prays 5 times fasts loves Allah, and is quiet but funny and serious when he sees me struggling. Dependable and not argumentative not harsh not critical. Minimizes my fault maximizes my limited good qualities...

[@Jimmothyhalpert]

I just need.... Proceeds to mention a lot of things lol

[@joefrazier9282]

Make dua and strive towards it, in sha Allah ta’ala youll be rewarded, if ur sincere.

[@omarmohammad220]

you can't be asking for all that and not doing your part obliging, obeying, cooking and providing intimacy for him.

[@Nanou-zw7vh]

​@@omarmohammad220How do you know she won't do her bit?

[@Nanou-zw7vh]

​@@JimmothyhalpertEven when the most rudimentary things are mentioned, you blame women for asking too much

[@dasohmoff]

Jazak Allahu Khayran! I love these podcasts please continue them! :)

[@Jirenblack82]

I myself have been damaged by the dawah of those chocolate imams. I’d be nice to all and people would take advantage of me, thinking I was doing things by the deen while I was suffering inside. To this day, I’m still working on my character and trynna undo all their damage. Studying the Prophet’s seerah has helped me with that.

[@Cynical.safia2]

Chocolate imams ??

[@Chamseibnmasood]

As they say you can’t help the poor by being one of them.

[@MAli99923]

Abu Bakr looked waaaay better without the fade, may Allaah increase him in beneficial knowledge

[@JOYRIDEUS]

Amin to your dua but you sounding sweet bro not gonna lie

[@FocalVision]

Honestly I prefer the badr club name way better and is so unique

[@Hessa6thKhaled]

Third point : The Ayah : ‎يَا مَرْيَمُ اقْنُتِي لِرَبِّكِ وَاسْجُدِي وَارْكَعِي مَعَ الرَّاكِعِينَ ‏It has nothing to do with the characteristics of men, and there is no tafseer that indicates this, but reciting qunoot in the mosque was usually restricted to men at that time, and she was the only female in that place, and it had nothing to do with the characteristics of men. I found this on tafseer البغوي : ﴿ مَعَ الرَّاكِعِينَ ﴾، وَلَمْ يَقُلْ مَعَ الرَّاكِعَاتِ لِيَكُونَ أَعَمَّ وَأَشْمَلَ، فَإِنَّهُ يَدْخُلُ فِيهِ الرِّجَالُ وَالنِّسَاءُ، وَقِيلَ: مَعْنَاهُ مَعَ المصلّين في الجماعة. ‏I did not complete half of the video and already had enough of this , any muslim with basic knowledge in seerah and hadith and tafseer can see through this nonsense , Many channels many talk but very little real solid knowledge unfortunately , may allah guid us all.

[@kemchy3838]

Is brother imran qualified in tafseer, fiqh, hadeeth etc?

[@Hessa6thKhaled]

@kemchy3838 I dont know , what his qualifications are , but even if he has , its does not make him impeccable… حمانا الله من شرور ألسنتنا و أهوائنا ،، " وهل يكب الناس على وجوههم إلا حصائد ألسنتهم "

[@Hessa6thKhaled]

@kemchy3838 I dont know , what his qualifications are , but even if he has , its does not make him impeccable… حمانا الله من شرور ألسنتنا و أهوائنا ،، " وهل يكب الناس على وجوههم إلا حصائد ألسنتهم "

[@Chamseibnmasood]

Sheik I feel like working in freemixed environment is a lot of fitnah please advice what industry is good to work in.

[@mountainguy8940]

Teaching

[@waqarsarwar4522]

Akhi imran❤

[@hockeyguy9974]

Y’all really out here pressed that Mufti Menk said he’d move to another country to be with his wife. I don’t think he was implying that his wife had control over him. No wonder the world has such a negative view of us Muslims.

[@piqueny8872]

Mufti menk already leaves his 2 wives to travel the world So for him remarry and move to be with another wife is an easy decision

[@anwar8712]

Can someone pls put the timestamp for the guy who got beat up by his wife’s brothers

[@zuhasbekillin3461]

16:50

[@anwar8712]

@@zuhasbekillin3461 Barakallahu feek akhi!

[@Kingkhangp]

Disagree with having multiple Islamic teachers, it just creates doubt and confusion. That's why we are told to choose one school of Fiqh.

[@Mr.Noobodyyyy]

Its not easy to stand infront of bullets 😂

[@ahmedmoosewarsame6864]

Therapeutic hearing this akhi, solution I was upon and reassuring that my brother from another mother is upon the same Haq

[@barryhay8935]

Lol the same haqq. Sigh. Saved sect syndrome will be here till the last day. For now. All we can do is point it out.

[@TheLion377]

As Salaam Allaykum. Brothers need to stop talking about "alpha" and "red pill" you're embarrassing yourselves and nobody takes it seriously. We have Islam. Whatever the Quran and Sunnah guide us to, we follow regardless. Helping your woman with chores and doing other things which some "red pills" regard as a "woman's job" is the height of manliness.

[@taimurahmad]

No its not. Its a woman's job to do house chores. If he helps here and there this is sunnah

[@gulletinoaden6268]

@@FreeToThink0 This community isolation and family estrangement is only the norm in the West.

[@Adam-fc2lf]

To say that helping your women with chores is the height of manliness is not only doing a disservice to Islam but also the prophets. It's important to help out but certainly isn't the height of manliness. Embrace Islam not your feminist religion, you're embarrassing yourself.

[@7esna]

Why do you men leave so much tasks that require common sense, among other skills, to women nowadays? Where is your battlefield? 6 figures? It seems you two are very into making a lot of money. If you are Men, take your responsibility instead of leaning too much on your sisters, wives etc when it comes to certain tasks you just don’t like to do! Taking care of parents for example. Doing your own administration, having difficult conversations with companies/healthcare workers related to your household or your parents

[@hamzaahmed5436]

salaam alaykum brothers, barakallahu feekum i feel so bad for the brother but my question is WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY did his wife stab him and get her brothers to jump him, why why layshhh limatha whats the point where the obedience of husband specially when hes haafith and taalibul ilm, plz someone answer allah yahfadhkum why on earth his wife was violating the miskeen brother like that

[@Jimmothyhalpert]

In what world is that the norm. Are so many men being beaten to such an extent and the ummah is silent. I don't understand why that story would be mentioned with no clear context. It's like talking about a baby being killed but giving no other information. Just sparking emotions.

[@Jirenblack82]

Men should just follow their nature and stop listening to what women say they like, cause they themselves don’t know. They’re just puppeteered into wanting weaker men, until they realise that’s not what their fitrah wants. You need to be a mixture of kindness and strength. Don’t be afraid of showing dominance when needed.

[@addisachannel169]

what The problem how many got beat up every time

[@Kingkhangp]

Charge more? Wow

[@Hessa6thKhaled]

‏When you mentioned the hadeeth ناقصات عقل ودين , you didn’t mention the full explanation, because the Messenger, may blessings and peace be upon him, said that the lack of ( akel) is related to testimony, i.e. the power of memorizing , not logic and common sense, otherwise he would not have consulted Umm Salamah (ra) in the Hudaybiyah if women were really lacking on common sense , and also menstruation means stopping Prayer and fasting as obedience to God’s command, so how can obedience to God be a lack of faith? There is a big difference between a lack of faith in the heart and having less rituals to obtain . Please give the Hadiths fully at it is not how you wish it is . حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ السَّرْحِ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ، عَنْ بَكْرِ بْنِ مُضَرَ، عَنِ ابْنِ الْهَادِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏"‏ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْ نَاقِصَاتِ عَقْلٍ وَلاَ دِينٍ أَغْلَبَ لِذِي لُبٍّ مِنْكُنَّ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ وَمَا نُقْصَانُ الْعَقْلِ وَالدِّينِ قَالَ ‏"‏ أَمَّا نُقْصَانُ الْعَقْلِ فَشَهَادَةُ امْرَأَتَيْنِ شَهَادَةُ رَجُلٍ وَأَمَّا نُقْصَانُ الدِّينِ فَإِنَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تُفْطِرُ رَمَضَانَ وَتُقِيمُ أَيَّامًا لاَ تُصَلِّي ‏"‏ ‏.‏

[@Hessa6thKhaled]

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَا يَسْخَرْ قَوْمٌ مِّن قَوْمٍ عَسَىٰ أَن يَكُونُوا خَيْرًا مِّنْهُمْ وَلَا نِسَاءٌ مِّن نِّسَاءٍ عَسَىٰ أَن يَكُنَّ خَيْرًا مِّنْهُنَّ ۖ وَلَا تَلْمِزُوا أَنفُسَكُمْ وَلَا تَنَابَزُوا بِالْأَلْقَابِ ۖ بِئْسَ الِاسْمُ الْفُسُوقُ بَعْدَ الْإِيمَانِ ۚ وَمَن لَّمْ يَتُبْ فَأُولَٰئِكَ هُمُ الظَّالِمُونَ ‏The other point is in your interpretation of the Ayah قوم Was mentioned before women , and in the tafser its means group of men ,, nonetheless, I am sure that you know that the reason of this Ayah revelation was because group of men mocked the poor sahabas ( ra) ‏be realistic brother, you speak as if men are angelic creatures and women are demonic creatures, and that the feminine qualities are the other name for the satanic qualities,

[@taimurahmad]

He is correct. Women are not strong mentally as men. All the innovations were done by men. Men have more intelligence, go look it up. Yes he asked her for advice, doesnt mean she had the final decision. Man has the final decision because they have more prudence. Qiwaamah (the role of being in charge or head of the household) is one of the things that Allaah has given to men, exclusive of women. What is meant by qiwaamah is that men are entrusted with the task of being responsible for women, to take care of them, to guide them in the best possible way, and to issue commands and prohibitions - just as a ruler takes care of the people under his control. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): "...but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them [women]..." [al-Baqarah 2:228] and "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allaah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means..." [al-Nisaa’ 4:34] Ibn Katheer said: "This means that men are in charge of women; they govern them and discipline them if they do wrong." Al-‘Allaamah Shaykh al-Shanqeeti said: "This indicates that men are better than women, because the masculine is honour and perfection, whereas the feminine naturally has something lacking physically. All people are agreed on this, because all peoples give women the best of adornments, which is only to make up for this natural lack..." Rare cases among women are nothing to go by, because the exception does not change the rule. Some of the reasons why men are given the role of qiwaamah include: 1. Men are more intelligent and have a better ability to distinguish right from wrong. Al-Qurtubi said: "Men have the advantage of being more wise and more capable of management; for this reason they were given the right of qiwaamah." 2. Men’s religion is more complete, because women menstruate and bleed after childbirth, and do not pray or fast at such times - unlike men. 3. Spending money in charity and on one’s family is a duty on men, but not on women. Thus if a man refuses to spend on his wife, she has the right to seek an annulment of the marriage by going to a Qaadi (Sharee’ah judge). In summary, qiwaamah is only for men, as is made clear in the Qur’aan. If a woman spends on her husband, herself and her children, this is an act of kindness on her part, as Allaah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): "... but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it (the mahr) to you, take it, and enjoy it without fear of any harm (as Allaah has made it lawful)." [al-Nisaa’ 4:4] Qiwaamah is for men in all cases: one can hardly imagine a man asking his wife for permission to go out, for example. And Allaah knows best. For more information on this matter, please refer to: Ibn al-‘Arabi, Ahkaam al-Qur’aan, 1/531; Ahkaam al-Jassaas, 2/188; Tafseer al-Qurtubi, 2/169; Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 1/491; al-Shanqeeti, Adwaa’ al-Bayaan, 1/136-137)

[@Hessa6thKhaled]

@@taimurahmad Who mentioned Qwamah? Focus on my point brother

[@cyberspace7208]

Just because a person has نقص العقل doesnt mean they are are dumb, but women use their emotions more than logic, there are some women who are more logical, and connected to their deen which strengthens their logic, but these women are few in comparison. I myself as a women will say, women are indeed ناقصات العقل. Its part of our fitra. And the Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم consulting his wife is no proof against that fact. And to have less of something doesnt mean you have none of something, there are also men who also arent logical, but it doesnt change the fact that women operate on emotions more than logic.

[@taimurahmad]

The qwamah was given because of intelligence. Its very clear scientifically and deen wise

[@nazammushtaq8103]

There are many women fighting on the front line nowadays ....seeing bullets fly by 😉

[@Ibrahim-bl3uf]

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[@Jimmothyhalpert]

Cope tbh. If it's a halal business/service, there is no need to justify it with anything other than the Quran and Sunnah. Bring the proofs and examples. Sounds like some wishy washy grift tbh. Allah knows best.

[@VisualVantage-uk5ff]

P B my. Bobo