Sole survivor: Brenda Lin's harrowing story of betrayal and murder | 7NEWS Spotlight

On July 18, 2009, the battered bodies of newsagent Min Lin, his wife Lily Lin, their sons Henry and Terry; and Lily's sister Irene were found in their North Epping home. Brenda Lin was the only family member to survive - saved only by a school trip to New Caledonia. After making pleas for public assistance to solve the case, Min's brother-in-law Robert Xie was charged with their murders in 2011. In 2017, Xie was found guilty of murdering all five members of the Lin family and sentenced to five life terms in jail. In February 2021, Chief Justice Tom Bathurst and Justices Robert Allan Hulme and Robert Beech-Jones rejected Xie's appeal and found Xie didn't suffer a miscarriage of justice. This story originally aired in 2017.
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[@andrewburkinshaw1446]

Dear Brenda. I am a father. I know for a fact that your dad knows you love him. I am sure he is proud of the amazing person you have become.

[@queenmommy2756]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@skatingcanuck9837]

Beautifully stated. I also like how you (like Brenda) used present tense.😊

[@missywaterlilly8775]

First time I cried while started this video is when i read this comment. I swear u must be sending her a message from the heavens so beautiful

[@sarahmats1136]

A very kind message to Brenda❤❤

[@premasivasubramaniam6621]

❤️

[@alwiyaalawi7936]

Are we going to ignore the host ? She was very compassionate and respectful towards Brenda's limits . 👏 Good job !

[@elavke5441]

Very much so.

[@lovelyscorp79]

But isnt that her job??? Like being a parent or a doctor. No kudos. A simple thanks is appropriate

[@DM-we8ej]

@@lovelyscorp79 i think the point is most hosts don’t do this

[@alphabet_soup123]

Actually this host has a reputation for not being compassionate nor respectful... so its a nice change.

[@lovelyscorp79]

@@alphabet_soup123 yikes! That cant be good.

[@blackicex1622]

The principle lady is just a wonderfully compassionate lady. When she said she wants to be there when Brenda gets married, has her first child, and has a family again, it almost made me tear up.

[@dakelei]

I find it sweet but also a tad sexist. Why does she assume Brenda will marry and have kids?

[@SUPERSPAZD]

@@dakelei Seriously, dude? 😂 Adjust.Your.Focus.

[@dakelei]

@@SUPERSPAZD Shut up. It's called having an opinion. I'm allowed to. I live in China and teach at a university here. Chinese culture is very sexist. I experience it every day. I have reasons for thinking how I do. It's bad enough when men act like chauvinist pigs. It's worse when women buy into it. Did you notice that Brenda herself has said she's not sure about marriage and kids? Should she also adjust her focus?

[@SUPERSPAZD]

@@dakelei So.Feisty. 😁 Chill TF Out. 😂

[@Zireael83]

@@dakelei what´s wrong with you?

[@tomahawkprime4719]

The Principle’s empathy is astonishing, her commitment to Brenda’s recovery and ability to instil love and hope is tragically too rare a gift. For both she and Brenda, I hope her wishes for Brenda’s future come true.

[@lanetterung4463]

Anyone watching this please. Never be afraid to report sexual abuse. No matter who the person is abusing you!

[@feliciaowens1104]

Yes yes yes because with that 1 secret so many other things are attached to that evil li this and also transcends generations when that secret is kept

[@katyap.8404]

Yes, that is so true!

[@mitchand9]

Easier said than done.

[@cedricksamaniego9146]

Even after telling a trusted family member that doesn't believe you!

[@MommiDonni1]

I should have reported my abuser but I didn’t because I was just a kid myself. He was later arrested for sexually abusing his young step daughter. It was around that time that I realized I was a victim but I still kept the secret. 😞 It makes me sick till this day.

[@RealVedicAstrology]

To anyone questioning why she’s smiling a lot it’s because she is stronger than you people. Instead of letting the trauma destroy her she is trying to remember the things she loved about her family members. Do you seriously not see the way she is smiling specifically when she is talking about her memories of her family members and complimenting them, she is remembering them fondly and that is why she is smiling, she probably has tried to push the traumatic part out of her memory, so that she can go on living. Instead of reliving the trauma she is clearly trying very hard to think about her family members when they were alive rather than their death, that’s why you see her smiling in the tears because she is trying to fight through her traumatic memories by recalling the good ones. Also she may naturally just be a person who smiles nervously when she is put on the spot. Especially in an interview about a very personal trauma for millions to see. By that same logic you could say the interviewer is a psychopathic murderer because she is smiling throughout the video while talking about an unspeakable murder, get over yourselves🙄🤮.

[@moralmentecorrecto7032]

Some people cope with hard issues or nervousness by smiling, its sort of automatic way of coping, that happens to me all the time when am nervous.

[@pnwadibie]

Spot on

[@mistyrious1111starseed]

OOOHH I didn't see any comments saying that! I would have ripped them a new one like you did!!

[@ifynwamma]

Well said!!

[@megan1445]

Spot on. People can be the most ignorant judges. They watch a 45 minute interview and a few clips around the time and think her smiling equals 24 hours of blissful happiness every single day of her life. If people weren't so self centered they would be able to see through a smile to the sadness in someone's eyes.

[@kaybee22]

Both the interviewer and school principal expressed incredible compassion towards Brenda. She was able to provide a glimpse into her life-her family tragedy-without judgement, and without being hurried. Her spirit is incredible. Bravo.

[@awarenessvillage]

I agree. She's lucky to have the principal in her life. And the reporter was so compassionate and respectful. I appreciated them both.

[@PureXLR8tion]

My heart broke when Brenda was feeling guilty saying she didn’t tell her dad she loved him as she was saying goodbye to him prior to going on her trip. Brenda, if you’re reading these comments, know that your dad knew you loved him. Parents know…they really do.

[@mencot89]

I have a lot of tears watching that scene knowing many of us had the same thought especially when we part ways or even just reminded of our loved ones and wondering if it was the last time you’d ever see them again. Very sad what happened to her. The family seems to be so wholesome and happy.

[@JadedBelle]

​@angeleyes-bk7unA what?

[@nononino7383]

😥🥹

[@songyi5706]

Her aunt is also a monster. How can she stand by the very person that murdered her own brother, sister-in-law, and two nephews. This is so disheartening and makes me sick to the core.

[@FallenJanettv]

And denies sexual abuse of a child

[@nyahmanismommy]

She's delusional

[@sydniesyannthomas6131]

She felt the same way about them he did

[@cmariah80]

Omg your absolutely right

[@fanaticforager6610]

Could be Grating Pride ; in how wrong one's judgment can be ⚠️ Exhibit A ; he admitted that he had sedated her...🚻

[@jayleigh_bee]

Brenda please know this: your father knew you loved him. He knew. Hugs.

[@jparko4944]

Had that exact same thought. Nicely written.

[@quirkya909]

Had that same thought as Brenda spoke of herself and how she didn’t saw anything to her father. I cried and said he knew baby he knew

[@xxyes8879]

Also if her parents never said stuff like that to her, then saying stuff like that would be really alien for her. The other kids were hugging and kissing their parents because their parents taught them that from birth most likely. So in no way should she harbor any guilt.

[@ParisXII]

@@quirkya909; With respect for the family. - .There is an error in your comments.. i.e. "She didn't SEE anything", Nor "SAY anything to her father". :(

[@masukamagambo4236]

@Henry Robinson no need to be insensitive. I’m sure if she was there she’d hug her. That’s the point of the comment.

[@1GR8LMFT]

“People become bitter or better”. What a beautiful young woman!!

[@chinchinchokhlei]

I am trying to become better thank you!!!

[@rosihantu1]

With Australians, you can't tell. Even better sounds like bitter.

[@chinchinchokhlei]

@@rosihantu1 Australian are good!!!

[@RawkClaws]

Ugh, the pure grief in her voice as she describes her last moments with her father. Just breaks my heart into a million pieces.

[@MadinaTall-f9w]

only vocal fry in her voice

[@billmeriwether605]

I am a father and one day you will know that regardless of what you did or didn’t say at a certain time to your Dad. HE KNOWS that he has a daughter who loves him ... As parents, the fact that you are young and growing as our revered children is a miracle we enjoy so immensely - we as parents are NOT looking to prove out “if” you are emoting and professing your love properly ....that isn’t the goal - We Know you Love us - it’s understood. - You will “understand” someday and it will be overwhelming- there are GREAT things in your future. You WILL get there ...AND you will reunite w/ your family someday - until then - Prayers and blessings to you

[@12235117657598502586]

😢 TRUE!

[@beautyscolary1743]

This words are a caring hug. So warm...

[@lovedove2661]

Beautiful ❤

[@kartikaadhityati7870]

Thank you..

[@Oyuki-Mayonesa]

Yes. I am a mom and this is how it is. ❤️ love is unconditional.

[@winonahdemars8861]

The interviewer was wonderfully compassionate. Didnt push when Brenda didnt want to talk about things. Her facial expressions emoted kindness and compassion.

[@cynhwon]

I was a student living around the neighbourhood at that time. I remembered passing by their newsagency and always got my bus tickets there, and my host family's daughters also went to the same school with Brenda. Absolutely heartbreaking when I heard the news >< Such a warm-hearted man her father was...

[@bonnylouwho76]

Oh my word, you were there mourning in that school and that community. This must have been so frightening for you.

[@harrypotter-mc1sq]

They seemed like lovely people. I'm glad this has been conveyed and it's not all just focused on the crime.

[@brendawehkamp3396]

Her uncle confessed to the murders and giving his wife sleeping meds. So why the confusion over his innocence. I highly respect Brenda and her teacher/principal. 🙏🏻

[@jessfrancis434]

Phew for a second I thought you said you SUSPECT Brenda and her teacher, I was like WHAT?! hahaha never mind 🤦🏼‍♀️ but I whole heartedly agree with what you’ve said. Why his innocence is speculative is beyond me!

[@divawendy]

i think they did it together i really think his wife was involved

[@lily2011uk]

@@divawendy I think so too. It does not make any sense his wife is so protective of him. Poor Brenda and his grandparents. No words to describe.....very very sad

[@cynthia587]

I guess the truth is unbearable, she has to denial it in order for her to continue to live

[@divawendy]

@@lily2011uk, hope she will have her peace one day and her own family and a man that really loves her 🙏❤️

[@Alexa-dm8wm]

The principal is extraordinary human being. She is a real role model.

[@NehaKarim.]

Very very true ❤

[@julieli5381]

i dont think she is a principal at that school anymore.

[@leahallen8420]

@@NehaKarim. she was my principal

[@leahallen8420]

@@julieli5381 yes she retired

[@NehaKarim.]

@@leahallen8420 such an amazing soul and beautiful person inside out.

[@melissatejkl7169]

Her high school principal is a rock star she saw through him immediately She is working at the job to save this girl That was God I do believe

[@videoettaceo8900]

You're right.

[@kumaralockwood3172]

No that was a real person. Give credit where credit is due.

[@delinasemere911]

@Starman lol you need to f***ing chill, wow. go troll another comment section.

[@noelalexisshaw-nas-noz5142]

@Starman that is your belief...others believe different.

[@crookedhead3075]

God showed up AFTERWARDS? Grotesque.

[@milaherana534]

She smiles all the times when she talked about family horror but if you focus to her eyes when speaking about her sad experienced, you can see sadness, hurt and pain in her whole being. She is a very strong young person . God bless her al the way of life.

[@KK-ez5iz]

I think it is a normal reaction because as the victim she is watching the interviewer react to her trauma. That is why it is hard to share trauma stories because it is exhausting having that feeling like you need to support the listener's feelings. I hope she finds a way to peace and doesn't feel survivor's guilt.

[@user-su6zt2of2p]

Its due to disbelief. Obviously whole family gone in one day is hard to believe

[@coltv319]

i think some of them are like smiles of defeat... or self-assurance reaction

[@sonjaheck3156]

I act the same way, appearing to smile in the worst scenarios - obviously nothing this bad, not even close, but I understand this action. It is not that uncommon.

[@carolinehoughton3685]

She’s been through an unspeakable amount of pain and trauma. She has every reason to hate the world, but instead wants to make it a better place. Her strength to move forward is extremely admirable. She deserves to live a very joyful and fulfilling life. On another note, her uncle deserves to never see daylight again.

[@jameshama]

Hello Caroline how are you doing today

[@LoveAlways1002]

If "A woman's intuition" was a person, it looks like the principal 💯💕💎🙏🏽😭

[@mmichy]

God bless that principal. All it takes is ONE adult to speak up or care. We all have that responsibility. ❤️

[@sharingmyusaexperiences]

Every school in the world needs a Principal like her..

[@julianakleijn9254]

PREACH

[@ilianaaah1]

I think she doesn’t process the abuse because that means the murders are “because of” her in her mind ...so sad I feel for her so much

[@lomont6786]

It's not her fault her uncle is a psychopath and that he murdered her family. At the end of the day, we are responsible for our own actions. She doesn't process the abuse because she was betrayed by a loved one. I feel bad for what happened to her family not because she might have caused it because she didn't.

[@dgcfgvvgb6555]

@@lomont6786 i think that op meant that she would blame herself in her head, not that it was actually true. Victims blame themselves all the time. Its why survivors guilt is such a big thing

[@mikewoodson6930]

Yes, I agree. Text book. She is a rare person being in this situation. Help is not so educated with her needs. God bless her.

[@alethastevens6151]

It is IMPORTANT to tell mom who is abusing you right away!!!! Don’t be afraid you may be saving your family heartaches! Keep close to grandma to she didn’t live long for nothing! She’s a wise owl even within!!

[@yolondambrowm9803]

@@lomont6786 one day you might learn to LOOK before you leap! NOTHING in that comment placed a shred of blame on her! It’s not uncommon for victims to blame themselves. Get it together FOOL!

[@courtneyfrost915]

Hands down, this is the worst case of betrayal by a family member that I have ever seen! I am amazed by this girl's strength.

[@robertjones1528]

The uncle seemed like a pretty obvious person of interest from Day 1, and there seemed to be a lot of circumstantial evidence against him as well as physical evidence if they only looked. How did it take two years before his initial arrest? That seems like pretty lackadaisical police work. Meanwhile, that poor girl was forced to live with this monster during this time and endure sexual abuse. And the evidence of sexual abuse was suppressed at the trial? WTH kind of messed up legal process is that?

[@elsielukiv2410]

I agree with you robert Jones that part is very sad and sloppy police work

[@fairiesflame1345]

Not only that, but it took about 4 trials and until 2017 to put Robert Xie in prison.

[@Angelstar7774]

Sometimes defense lawyers will argue that certain facts would prejudice the jury against them, especially if its just her word, like not proven at that point.

[@cstempleton]

its the ozy cops dont expect too much unless your not wearing a mask then they will be all over it, there is a huge wealth of evidence of ozy cops fucking up and being corrupt, they really are the worst

[@wendyqallab6906]

What a monster too bad it took so long.

[@mrsTraveller64]

Brendas parents did an amazing job raising her, she is loving, kind, warm, intelligent..she got all the tools she needed to be able to survive and go on, her parents greatest gift to her❤️

[@TheJademerald]

Exactly, that’s what I thought too! She turned out to be such a fine young woman. So calm, composed and vibrant.

[@berniceopare9405]

How did they do a good job, they failed to protect her and her brothers from a monster?

[@am-outtagas768]

i am your black aunty in London UK, sending you lots of sincere love, guidance and protection. You are loved by so many people who hear your story.I know, everybody who hears your story, wants the BEST for you. I want you to thrive and one day little one, you will have your own cute family. you are not alone.

[@blueblue5427]

Awwww so sweet of you .

[@nora4981]

You are an angel ❤️ stay blessed ❤️

[@farhanahnijam8833]

Your comment is one of the most heartwarming things I came across. More power and love to you

[@show._bug]

❤️

[@thabsilechamane3774]

God bless you 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@Johnnyza0514]

I’m also an orphan and I recently lost my sister as well so I understand how she smiles when speaking about her family and the pain she is going through. It was very hard for me to watch this because the pain of living without your family is very hard and exhausting and I wish this pain on no one at all. But she is so strong and resilient. That’s what life and the loss of it teaches you… you must go on. I genuinely wish she experiences no more pain and is able to find a man who loves her and willing to give her the world.

[@preetigupta7514]

I wish you only love and happiness in the times ahead. You are an amazing strong person out there. Much love to you ❤️

[@bernedettekuteyi3843]

Rip to all your beloved family

[@tarrynkoko602]

I'm sorry 😞 I hope you find love, happiness and peace xxxx

[@ritawu1221]

Always love yourself. Love people around you.

[@FeezFBaby]

I pray that any man that she dates never ever use her for her money or fame & never ever play games with her or treat her wrong in any ways 🙏🙏🙏💯💯💯This poor girl has been thru enuff.

[@squirrelywrath07]

I can’t imagine the amount of grief to not just lose one member of your family but all at once. Not only that but the only relatives that could look after and comfort you, could do such horrific things. My heart goes to that poor girl and am amazed at her strength.

[@abhishekgupta3612]

So much respect for the principal who made a difference in Brenda’s life.

[@joeywrightster]

His wife is still standing by him despite the fact that she now knows he molested his niece before and after the killings is crazy. She knows he drugged her to carry out the killings as well as moving his niece in the family home so he could continue his escapades.

[@awarenessvillage]

He's evil! I would bet his wife was physically, sexually, and emotionally abused. An abuser seldom abuses only one person.

[@stockwellsantley6606]

Because that's how girls are trained unless we intervene.

[@awarenessvillage]

@@stockwellsantley6606 Truth!

[@merhona3472]

That evil monster choose to find the body with his wife. He choose to expose his wife to the sight of bodies and brutality. And she still supported him.

[@jasonsandifer3250]

Absolutely, Horrible, Terrible, and Highly disturbing

[@daisydd1709]

susan the high school principal is so lovely. the world needs teachers like hre

[@mrs.doolittle2180]

I feel so bad that she is so conflicted still about her uncle and the sexual abuse. I pray she can realize that he was a monster and she was his victim.

[@jennaeveliina313]

These are things that sometimes take years to fully accept and see that full picture. They are just so complicated, and thats why for most people who have gone through these things, the healing process is for life and never completed. She just needs time..💔🙏

[@sunshinepatriot1846]

Truly remarkable women, smart, beautiful and an inspirational story of courage.

[@brookemckinley5709]

I know! It’s heartbreaking!! I hope she realizes this sooner rather then later. I know she’ll probably spend the rest of her life healing from all of this but I hope she finds happiness, real, true, genuine happiness very soon. She’s already been thru so much, she deserves to be happy!! Everyone does (well except for monsters like her uncle) but especially her!! She’s so incredibly strong!

[@brookemckinley5709]

JeNa _1990 yes, I think she’ll be healing from this the rest of her life! I can’t even imagine. I just hope and pray she can be genuinely happy within herself very soon! Sounds like she’s starting to get there. She deserves it! And I hope she can see herself thru our eyes and see just how strong and incredible she truly is! 🙏 ❤️

[@amber_Forever16]

She’s not a victim she’s a survivor

[@murdermysterieswithmegan141]

I feel so incredibly heartbroken over the pain this young woman had to endure in her life! What an absolute tragedy!

[@suzyn9119]

Dear brenda lin. No one should ever make one bad comment to you ever! So sorry this all happened to you, honey. Goodness and good times to you for the rest of your life.

[@jasonsandifer3250]

I agree

[@GabrielJarod]

😭😭😭😭

[@MCDubs-we2oh]

That principle is every child's mother! She knows how to love, nurture and be present for her students.

[@TaylorLee]

I had to pause and write this comment because I totally understand the sadness she felt when she was explaining the last time she saw her father. As an Asian whose parents are also immigrants, you never experienced love and affection as a child. You just knew your parents loved you because they worked so hard to give you a better life. It’s almost uncomfortable to say “I love you” or give hugs but you just never know when it’ll be the last time you see them 😔

[@nikkichan79]

I agree! I grew up the same way.

[@tihashool3771]

I grew up the same Way

[@midlifebiker7424]

Hope you get the chance to have a more open loving relationship with your own kids as all they really want is your time....until they are teenagers and then its $$ and taxi service haha

[@jewelnabq01]

Same.

[@nicolebee3273]

My family is German and Dutch and it's the same with me. Very cold and as you explained uncomfortable.

[@carlbowman3366]

That poor girl, she has cried so much she can hardly shed a tear any more.

[@robinmcinarnay7827]

Pretty much the same! Am I the only one crying throughout this entire interview?!! This girl, or woman rather, she is a class act. Sucks she lost her Aunt as well. Somehow I already knew she'd be in denial tho, standing by her man.🥱😶🤐

[@joyceshealy7191]

I didnt see tears but i wish she would stop worring about smiling, a genuingly cry

[@jenniferlawrence9473]

@@joyceshealy7191 You must be joking, smh.

[@oliviasmietana2789]

@@joyceshealy7191 respectfully, shut up

[@anniewong8794]

Like do u guys even watch the whole video.. she was literally crying. I bet u just watched 1 min of the 43 minute video.

[@teridemedeiros975]

Two weeks after their murder, the uncle is running the family business. He had this all planned, he wanted the business.

[@patriciakeith6164]

No he wanted his niece and he got her she moved in to his house.What a monster now uncle was he mother or father brother.If he had not been arrested his wife would be next victim he was interested in his niece in bad Way's.But she came out strong Brenda keep doing good for your family and make them extra proud of you.

[@gatitam2875]

I believe he wanted it all the business & his niece, sick pos! I can't understand why his wife still says he's innocent but I know that deep in her heart she knows!

[@LunnaJannah]

Wanted their life and daughter

[@suetunamotu9517]

@@LunnaJannah ih 53

[@mobalance4736]

Such evil from one family man.. Who we supposed to trust. No man. Man is evil.

[@Laura-wb2se]

Brenda’s friends are impressive. They understand the importance of treating her no differently. Her desire to focus on the good and not choose bitterness is not only wise but is obviously proving to have a powerful affect on her life.

[@jameshama]

Hello Laura how are you doing today

[@Totcali]

The Principal has a big heart, she truly cares on her student as family member!?!

[@jeromeclaessen3921]

I hope she finds a great man and has wonderful children. So she can have a family again.

[@All_Loves_Lost]

I could never be an reporter like this I would cry the whole time she was talking and I wouldn’t be able to sit across from her without feeling the need to comfort her, hug her or hold her hand. 😢

[@atonement7232]

Me too ❤️

[@SangKtan]

I think every parent should have that conversation with their kids weather they are boy or a girl that what is a good touch and what is a bad touch. Kids should know that parents are always there for them whenever they want to share anything. We often don’t talk about this and kids are scared to share the sexual abuse that is happening to them.

[@martinathompson4003]

Whether

[@cherishoneal9108]

Jealousy is a strong feeling. There is room for everyone, people. Brenda’s uncle could’ve asked for help to flourish like her father.

[@aleasemontgomery7845]

You’ve never spoken truer words. Jealousy has been the down fall of a many of person. While they’re spending precious time on nonsense they could use that energy to better their lives. When you observe someone achieving you don’t know what they’ve don to become successful and you don’t know what they have to do to keep it!

[@naveah319]

its not just about jealousy its about pedophilia as well. 🙄

[@alayabegum9802]

And that was the first sin that was committed between the Lucifer (Iblis) the devil and Adam, which caused the him to be out casted from the heaven. But please note that the devil was never an angel he was infact a jinn, a creation also of God created from a smokeless fire. Lucifer's arrogance was so much so, he refused to bow down to the unveiling of Adam to all the inhabitants of the 7 heavens, when all the inhabitants of all the heavens did. He refused claiming to be superior and mocking Adam (AS) to be hollow and weak, as he was able to pass through Adam so effortlessly with ease.

[@pixelhill]

Did you watch the whole thing??

[@jmtv1963]

It occurs to me that her father might have found out about the uncle molesting his daughter and the uncle killing the whole family to keep from going to jail. That he got it all was a benefit. Until it wasn't. I know, I know: I have a vivid imagination. Still, the thought was there and made me wonder.

[@eddielee3928]

To hear how her younger brothers went down fighting the monster tore my heart out to another level. A tragic story, for a very strong woman. May her angels continue to watch over her.

[@symphonyinkart]

❤️. Agreed. What an absolute despicable man. Amen to those babies.

[@williscooked]

She is her dads twin! A successful, bright and intelligent individual who worked hard all his life and was a loving father ❤️❤️❤️

[@pammcquaid]

So if her aunt thinks the police are framing her uncle for the murders then what about the sexual abuse?

[@michellefox-bishop38]

Exactly

[@anahernandez4043]

That lady knows he is guilty. No way he left at night and she didn't know. Then come back home with bloody clothes. Not to mention how he acted around Brenda. She knows but is denying it because she'll have to face her part in it.

[@anonymouslyanonymous7883]

Yep. She’s obviously in denial

[@doinglifemyway1755]

@@anahernandez4043 Didn't the reporter say he was recorded saying he had drugged his wife that night?

[@neesiesfashion2895]

@@doinglifemyway1755 yes she did say that ,she didn't no he sneaked out that nite

[@amylamcf52]

I was deeply betrayed by my father and my brother on their business issues and I understand how hurt it could be to have somebody who are your close family members had been taking on your advantage and ditches you when your used, it's really hurts

[@cassywilson8072]

May GOD put his loving arms around this young lady.

[@feliciaowens1104]

Yes yes yes

[@kikiprimavera9203]

@TWO VerGO’s He already did it, by saving her life, and keeping her sane in this trauma. Amen, thank you Father&Son&Spirit !!!

[@snowbird7377]

What a twisted god to watch 2 young boys get bludgeoned to death let alone 3 adults.

[@katieclark1597]

If he was loving he would have stopped this.

[@syedanidariaz1899]

@@katieclark1597 Human beings have been given freedom to choose what they want to do. Uncle Robert chose to do the despicable, and he will pay the price for it not just in this world but in the hereafter too. Her father on the other hand chose to do the right thing, working hard and taking care of his family, for which he will be rewarded. When people blame God, I find it pretty amusing. Would you blame the parent who had two children, one who grew up and chose to murder while the other grew up and chose to help people? I would blame the murderer, but you guys clearly went the other way. 🙄

[@thegoatgirl]

She is am astounding woman. Not many people could survive all that, much less still glow after.

[@ycaceres3357]

Many do in even in worse situations humans are resilient

[@atonement7232]

What could be a worse situation?

[@unknown2741]

I want her to be apart of my family I don’t want her to ever feel alone....

[@alliereesor115]

Uncle should have been charged for what he did to her. Praying for Brenda's healing and happiness. What a beautiful, sad soul.

[@standstrongforus3427]

For anyone saying anything about the way this girl is talking or her expressions should be ashamed. Have you been through what this young lady has been through? NO! Everyone has a different way of coping with stress this is hers. She can not control her facial expressions or her voice in high stress situations. I have done the same thing when in a high stress situation. You don't know how you are going to react in this type of situation and you shouldn't judge her either. If you look at the expression she had at the funeral she was in shock and was totally lost. I have been to a lot of funerals and I have never been to one where someone didn't smile. Have you never heard of a nerves laugh? Well you have just seen and nerves smile and voice.

[@nancystamper8705]

Bless her❤️

[@cherry-or2rk]

Thank you!! Everyone copes in their own way.

[@vickiehaper4615]

She Brock my heart for sure

[@ellevaniti4525]

I suffer from PTSD and when I used to be in therapy my therapist once said to me "I don't know if you know this but when you talk about something particularly traumatising you always smile". She went on to explain that it was my brain's way of trying to trick myself into being happy. I could see the exact same thing happening whenever Brenda was talking about things that clearly still hurt her so much. Her brain is just trying to make sense of the pain. And I can bet like me she has no idea that she does it too.

[@lovedove2661]

yes, absolutely true. She is on camera as well so she is trying to be polite while being broken again inside with all her memories flooding back to her. Prayers to her, this was so sad to hear and watch. She is a very strong woman to be able to move forward. 🤍

[@angiehansen8985]

Gosh.. what a remarkable human Brenda is. After watching this interview, I am amazed and in awe of her character and gratitude during what can only be described as an unbelievably horrific tragedy for one young woman to endure. I see great things for Brenda. Amongst the darkness there is light and may she continue to have support, love, compassion and kindness thrust upon her as she makes her journey through life in her family's honour. Best wishes to her. 🤍

[@judybrown7601]

Prayers

[@maryzook4739]

Brenda. your progression in your journey of wholeness, does indeed bring hope to others! Godspeed! May Uncle learn even in prison, ( where he certainly needs to stay), that in destroying others, we destroy ourselves. In kindness to others, we are kind to ourselves. The GOLDEN rule.....thank God, this principle never changes!

[@bobjolly7795]

She is such a beautiful person inside and out....her parents would be so proud of her

[@augustvukosovich4683]

Her parents did their job before they left. She is such a kind soul. And she doesn't need to share the particulars about her abuse at his hands. It's really none of our business. I know she will do well in life with whatever she ever does and I have a lot of love for her.

[@ruthpearsall2618]

Big shout out for her headteacher. This tragedy has brought out the best in some wonderful people. Brenda will thrive because she started with a loving nuclear family, and she'll survive and thrive because of the loving 'family' of friends and supporters who have her back👍

[@marijkeseidlitz9899]

@Freddie Boom Boom Washington The school principal who informed the police at an early stage.

[@lisehrby2565]

This heartbreaking story brought me in tears. The horror you had to endure and at such a young age leaves me speachless. But also the love and support from friends and your principle. I wish you a beautiful life with much love from the deepest of my heart ❤

[@emoneyquarantino2208]

She's obviously such a sweet and innocent young lady. I hate this for her, I'm emotionally gone after seeing this, I can't imagine how she manages to show that beautiful smile regularly. I'm here for you Brenda if you ever see this.

[@lk6015]

The wife needs to wake up and how evil Robert is, he disgusts me to the core

[@margaretr5701]

The murder took place in 2009, it's shocking that his appeals have dragged on for so long.

[@seattlerain8655]

I believe he may be innocent. Asians behaving differently in a white culture get harmed. Standing too close, speaking too loud, don’t look like a nice person (are all ugly people bad? Most would say no. But when it comes to judgment time, it’s much easier to convict people who don’t look like us. Especially unattractive bald short Asian male with a weak chin like uncle Robert Xie). I think the police framed him with the guide of that Principal. Another example of xenophobia.

[@jazzyjonas6646]

@@seattlerain8655 😡

[@annieb5050]

@@seattlerain8655 believe means nothing when there’s hard rock evidence shown in this video. You’ve repeated this comment a few times on this video, if you’re trying to convey that the principal is being racist because the uncle is non white then why would she be there every step of the way for Brenda (an Asian child) if she disliked asians so much. Please don’t involve race and Asian mannerisms into this, show some respect to Brenda and people watching this triggering devastating video.

[@annieb5050]

@@seattlerain8655 oh and sweetie, I’m Asian myself so I know when racism is involved. And this video with the principal shows nothing of this. So please refrain from commenting such nonsense.

[@JacobieShean94]

This has to be the saddest story I've ever listened too yet the most inspiring

[@Wolfstar26]

i can't imagine still wanting to be alive after this. brenda is incredible to even be able to keep living, let alone to laugh and smile and advocate for her family. an inspiration

[@deesanti6212]

Her principal though! Such a good person, also her friends for staying by her side. Keep going Brenda!

[@pokomoprincess]

Many years of sexual abuse, it brought me to tears, she is a strong girl ❤

[@Saltysaltire97]

What a strong strong soul. I can't imagine what she's had to process and go through emotionally the past 12 years. Sending Brenda so much love. Her school principal is brilliant.

[@juanitarichards1074]

Floods of tears for that girl and her family.......I can't imagine the pain and loss. They were a beautiful loving family.

[@katyap.8404]

Me too, crying.

[@shanimalia]

Brenda sets the bar for maintaining the ability to persevere through tragedy and perceive beauty in humanity. I love how she appears to be smiling even when she’s not. I love how she held such dignity when speaking about the devastation her uncle inflicted upon her life. In whole, I love her entirely with every cell in my body and I will pray for her until I am no longer on this planet. Brenda, if you are reading this…please know that your auntie is not strong enough to accept her husband’s actions because if she does she will be swallowed by overwhelming grief. It has nothing to do with you…it is a survival mechanism. You exhibit love with every aspect of your being and I admire you and adore you Brenda 🥰

[@alison4316]

I feel so bad for the young girl Brenda was. Her family would be proud of her strength.

[@jameshama]

Hello Alison how are you doing today

[@Mega0507-b3g]

I am so sadden by her story. I would never imagined how she can deal with that family. I wish I can change the time back. Hope she can have only happy life forever.

[@analiecortez2773]

Susan as previous principal kindness was beyond with her duties with her student.

[@iamshebang]

To burry 5 family members at once is too much for this lady at the time.

[@divinebeauty2070]

😩😭😭🤧 idk if I could do it!

[@aznmochibunny]

It'd be hard for an adult, but she was a teenager at the time. Can't imagine how she would have felt.

[@lindaallen9016]

This poor girl lost everything and her uncle murdered her whole family my heart goes out to her. May they all rest in peace

[@cynthiawilliamson5905]

Bless her heart! Also, a special human being as a Principal.

[@robinanderson8048]

Hello Cynthia, how are you doing?

[@mauranoonan8951]

This beautiful girl has nothing to feel guilty about. Her father knew she loved him. ❤️

[@elizabethmercado6766]

What an amazing story. Brenda is such a wonderful, thoughtful strong woman. To endure so much pain at such a young age. I am suffering with the resent passing of my mother...& fighting stage cancer at the same time. She has inspired me to want to continue with life & to love & be happy. Thank you Brenda for being so courageous & sharing your story. Im so happy for the love you have received from your classmates, principal, & community.

[@caity2hip466]

She shouldn’t have to justify why she doesn’t want to talk about her abuse, and she shouldn’t be asked any further questions about it.

[@cusinator]

This infuriated me too! She told you very politely she wanted to be private... yet she asks a follow-up. She’s already bearing her soul to you, let her keep one thing private.

[@nora4981]

But she agreed to the interview... if she didn’t want to share her story, she could easy have detained the interview.

[@cusinator]

@@nora4981 what??? She likely agreed to the interview on the basis she would not have to talk about her sexual abuse.

[@rina5687]

@@nora4981 your saying that if she didn’t want to talk about her abuse she shouldn’t have done the interview??

[@senoritamaminah9634]

@@nora4981 Do you even know what the interview is all about? Smdh

[@maburg713]

As harrowing as the facts are, what a beautiful group of people surround this lovely young woman. It is horrible that it had to happen this way, but thank goodness she had such a wonderful support system to help her through it.

[@feliciaowens1104]

The strength of this young woman is beyond words and the principal is a freakin mama bear she is an example of people that we need working with our children all over the world and when it comes to children we must have that by any means necessary attitude to love and protect all children

[@cinthiafraser4533]

I agree 100%

[@janaskibo871]

Her parents did an amazing job.

[@sandrabentley8111]

Completely heartbreaking. This young girl has gone through so much. My God he even sexually assaulted her! Don't have the words. Cried through this whole thing.

[@j0fiz986]

The sexual abuse, the justice system has to bear some responsibility for that. They put this girl in the custody of the man that murdered her whole family...the guy who was prime suspect from day 1. That's appalling. She should sue

[@jeanettebarrie5850]

Brenda is a warrior a soul survivor she will come along way, her school principal is a legend there should be more of her around

[@jameshama]

Hello Jeanette how are you sound today

[@dizzymindy6024]

Brenda, if you read this, you must be one of the strongest people on this planet. You are Incredible.

[@jameshama]

Hello mindy how are you doing today

[@casimiraganding3256]

could stop crying. The principal is like a mom to her. Brenda will be a good lawyer, a woman of substance, with amazing heart

[@icypassionz]

Even if he got away with murder, he'd still go to jail for sexual abuse.

[@residual14]

If only that was true, so many people get away with sexual abuse.

[@user-ej8cc8zn9h]

That’s not reality. Sexual abuse and sexual violence is one of the least punishable crimes with some of the shortest sentences and most lenient terms of all violent felonies.

[@adellsternberg]

Oh my God this had me in tears😢 . I feel so bad for her that any of that had to ever have happened. She sounds and presents herself almost like Princess Diana. A gracious sweet young lady, that has endured about the worst thing that could ever happen in one's lifetime. She has so much strength that I take my hat off to her. I'm praying now that she has a happy life and that her future will be filled with brightness and happiness, she deserves that. It had to be hard for the interviewer also and she did an exemplary job and was so sweet

[@soxpuff]

Pray for Uncle Robert's wife, that she has the strength to come to terms with the truth of his actions and the courage to take action to leave him and make a life for herself and that she does well in doing so.

[@ivana92ify]

Thank you for this. I see so many people acting her in the comments, calling her an accomplice. It's more likely she was a victim too. Also, let's give some healing energy to her grandparents and the rest of her family as well. ❤

[@LudySanchez96]

How is this the first time I'm hearing about one of the most disturbing family massacres I've ever heard about?

[@passion4vintage559]

Same here! And i am just sitting here crying 😭. So hearth aching! Especially Brenda’s voice…the tone of her voice is a mixture of sweet, kind hearted, loving, yet sadness in there.

[@nadiashireensiddiqi]

Australian non-American crimes are often not documented and proliferated

[@yearzola79]

Because they are minorities.

[@pixierainbow7]

i cannot fathom going through something so horrific. Brenda is so incredibly resilient

[@_ofg.116-80z]

Whoa This story definitely had me in tears like I personally know this family That’s so crazy The people you love and trust the most are always the ones who hurt you Condolences to her ❤ May God stay with you

[@mildredturner3853]

"I cried because I had no shoes until I saw a man who had no feet." Brenda Lin's Story stopped my own pity party.

[@whatyoutalkingaboutwillis12]

Beautifully said darling.what an amazing comment.

[@leannesmith5818]

Imagine going to a funeral and you see 5 coffins and they're all your family,sad beyond words

[@kiki29073]

I've been to one with 2.

[@evapektas3832]

yes so horrible and sad

[@katyap.8404]

Absolute horror.

[@markaburns4436]

I don't know how anyone can overcome that kind of grief. I pray that his young lady can live a life full of love and happiness.

[@mitchand9]

Why would you want to imagine something like that?

[@MAIX88]

I got very emotional when she say they left and she’s behind 😭 so sad and unfair that she have to be alone by herself knowing her family is gone forever 😢

[@cela9852]

Why did the other judges dismiss her sexual abuse in court when it was clearly relevant to bring it up especially with him being a main suspect.

[@cela9852]

@@sespurinchechu6369 but wasn't she a minor when it began? How can that be looked at as an affair by the courts?

[@RachelKristinaMakeUpArtist]

Her school principal makes me sob😢❤

[@lordwalker71]

Not sure how his wife can say he is innocent when he told another inmate that he drugged her so her could leave the house unnoticed.

[@surayaiffah4967]

the power of denialllll and repressionnn FREUD

[@paintinganimalsonrocks7633]

@@surayaiffah4967 sounds as delusional as a MAGAt.

[@HelloWorld-ok5ej]

Her principal makes me believe in humanity again.

[@juliearcand2358]

I was sexually abused too but could never speak of it. Still, nothing what you went through. You are a strong woman and deserve all the happiness life has to offer.

[@silaslizzie43]

So glad she has a dog in her life.

[@carmencorleto1479]

Me too

[@patsyhodge9071]

Best thing ever for her soul.

[@wanda4573]

Good idea as I cannot imagine she doesnt have anxiety and panic attacks.

[@_Dougs_Mum]

A Pup loves your heart, they know you better than anyone.

[@ranchoboomerang]

Me too! They are a God send. I usually dont watch stuff like this but this one has a special message. What a beautiful woman of supreme courage

[@AussieCrimeCases]

So much love for Brenda and her friends