8 Life Goals I now think are a waste of time -- Reflections of a 67 year old retired man.

[@Tom-p4n1u]

Wife and I just retired at 54. Earlier then we were supposed too. Loving retirement. Great video’s, glad we found you guys

[@johnnygrageda3055]

I love you guys. Please continue sharing your experiences. Take care.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you! Will do!

[@Jen-xy4kk]

Thank you for your honesty. We retired from the corporate world about the same time the two of you retired. Agree with everything you said in this video. So nice to know you think just like us. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and thanks again for your honesty. Have a great week! 🩷

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thanks for sharing!

[@JD-wu3li]

“We’ll never get that time back” re: some relationships. Wow! Spot on.

[@RetirementTransformed]

So true! Time is precious, and investing it in the right relationships makes all the difference.

[@ianthesiow3013]

Thank you for sharing. This provides a road map for me. Keep up the great work. Cheers.

[@rickhamilton2332]

Retired four years ago at 57 and have not looked back. I was burnt out. Had no problem disconnecting and moving into new things I wanted to do. Goals have definitely changed now, but I've not really had any issues navigating that. The only thing I miss about work are the big shows/conventions we would exhibit at a few times each year. Made a lot of friends over the years at those, and it was always fun to see the people again, go out and do a little partying with them in the evenings.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Sounds like you embraced retirement with a great mindset! It’s wonderful that you’ve found new things to enjoy, even if you miss some aspects of work. Staying connected with old friends from those events could help fill that gap!

[@jenniferlowery7170]

Thank you for all your points, you really hit home with it all. Appreciate your message today.

[@josephskowronski]

Your 8 points are valid. I never had/ have any of these characteristics. Currently 65, retired at 54, I don't miss anything about work. I had the aspirations to retire early in my 20s and fortunately (and because I never married or had children) was able to achieve this goal.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That's impressive! Early retirement takes planning and discipline-glad to hear you're enjoying it. Thanks for sharing your experience!

[@PrincessLolly1]

Thank you for these REAL-TALK videos. Very grounded content.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Glad you appreciate the content! Real talk is what it's all about, and I hope it resonates with many more!

[@jeffb5781]

Love your videos. So many great points to consider. Thank you. I think productive achievement oriented people have difficulty throttling back.

[@EvanCarmichael]

True success is letting go of what no longer serves you and embracing what truly matters. Thanks for sharing! - Lipika - Team Evan Carmichael.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Absolutely! True success isn’t just about achievements-it’s about prioritizing what brings fulfillment, growth, and happiness. Letting go of what no longer serves you creates space for what truly matters. Well said!

[@patji123]

My wife and I are married for 36 years. Raised a family struggled finally achieved a level of success. Never had a honeymoon decided splurge and treat ourselves. I’m going on mine this month. She’s going on hers next.

[@PrincessLolly1]

: ) Same, no honeymoon, married 33 years ago. We've never been out of the country but we'll go to London and Paris [together : )] for our 35th Anniversary/honeymoon.

[@Mark-is-this]

Great advice. Flipping the script. Looking back 20 years in your careers when you were working your way up, would you have taken this advice from a retiree who offered it to you?

[@michaelpedersen8491]

I am really happy I found your channel, you two stimulate and confirm some shift in life values I also gone through

[@RetirementTransformed]

Welcome aboard!

[@susancassar6423]

Great video! Love your home in the background, our retirement goals to downsize and love your video's on this on how you did it, what was done well, what went wrong (2nd downsize if I'm correct? Finding right location etc and how to really do it once and well/right 🙏

[@RetirementTransformed]

Glad it was helpful!

[@maricelguevarra2164]

thank you

[@PaulGearke]

Great content. I enjoyed it!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching and supporting the channel! 😊

[@michaeligloo]

I love watching your videos, ... very informative and you're both so positive!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you for the kind words! Glad you find the videos informative and uplifting!

[@homestatzfarmher8919]

Jody’s “postpone joy” comment hit me hard. Thanks for this wisdom!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Glad it resonated with you!

[@elizabethwollmann1099]

Thanks so much you guys rock !! I love your videos, 🇨🇦

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you so much. We love you too

[@petertoh355]

Point 2 striving for external validation : once you reach the level you doesn't need to prove, you don't dress to impress or act to impress.. Now I only focus on true relationship.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s a great mindset! Focusing on genuine relationships brings real fulfillment. Thanks for sharing! 😊

[@aleem3205]

Very informative video, I am 56 and my wife is 51 retired in 2020 and to your point I have enough money why Chase. My wife will have a pension , and even without savings we’re fine I come to realize to start enjoying life early and do what I wanna do and not wait till 65.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s a great mindset! If you have enough to live comfortably, there’s no need to keep chasing. Enjoying life early and prioritizing happiness over waiting until 65 is a smart and fulfilling approach. Wishing you and your wife a wonderful retirement!

[@purpledream1045]

spot on❤

[@RetirementTransformed]

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[@meteor1237]

Both retired 8 years from Fortune 150 company. Agree with all your points. It’s hard; you have to keep these new points in mind after doing jobs for 35 years. We are out of that “game” . People known there were not really friends. Enjoy your stuff.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s true-adjusting after decades in the workforce takes time, and recognizing the difference between work acquaintances and real friends is eye-opening. It’s great that you’re embracing this new chapter and enjoying life on your terms. Wishing you both continued fulfillment in retirement! 😊

[@anthonyhirst3940]

Like authentic and you two seem very natural ❤

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you! We appreciate your kind words and support. 😊❤

[@tariqjan-xl4nu]

Makes perfect sense to me. I am not going to write books which I thought I would do in retirement. Instead I will start charity work which is more meaningful and important

[@RetirementTransformed]

That sounds like a wonderful and fulfilling choice! Giving back can bring a deep sense of purpose and joy in retirement. Best of luck with your charity work!

[@catharinefreeman5940]

I really liked this video..thanks- 65. & 51

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you very much!

[@solutions553]

U guys are spot on with great advice and observations.!..ignore the negative ninnies...!!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thanks for watching😊

[@cindymeschke697]

Thanks. Thanks.

[@RetirementTransformed]

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[@X-7-Ripper]

The audio for your videos sounds really great.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you :)

[@gertbrichau8208]

Really well done. Cudos!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you kindly!

[@AbdulSalam-wd8yo]

Great video

[@RetirementTransformed]

Glad you enjoyed :)

[@xbalance]

Great video. That 30 day challenge sounds very hard. Are you expecting to make any lifestyle changes based on the 30 day challenge once it is over? Are you monitoring health metrics during the 30 days like glucose, blood pressure, visceral fat, etc. ?

[@RetirementTransformed]

Yes we are making lots of changes. We are going to do a new KZbin video next week and share our results.

[@yarnmotivated]

The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle

[@RetirementTransformed]

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[@Lion_McLionhead]

Owning a house & marriage were the 2 big ideas in childhood which ended up not being worth the squeeze.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Everyone’s journey is different! What works for some may not be the right fit for others. It’s all about finding what truly brings you happiness and fulfillment.

[@brucemel1]

One of your better Videos

[@RetirementTransformed]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@TripleBtrd]

I can't imagine someone not being nice you guys with their comments. Maybe they are a little jealous! Great video and content!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you! We get used to it.

[@carolyncook6970]

Y’all are so much fun and always interesting and a wealth of knowledge. You know how to keep things in perspective. I always look forward to your videos!

[@davep2945]

I work with the elderly and many of them are quite wealthy but fearful of losing or spending anything. They live as though they barely have two dimes to rub together which may have served them well to reach the point where they are in life but as they need more assistance and they would benefit from simple modifications to their homes they refuse to do anything different because it isn't what they've always done. Continuing to plow forward as the mud gets deeper eventually leads you to getting stuck and it's something a lot of older people hinder their lives with. They limit the potential joy and ease of their retirement years with fear of loss, fear of financial disaster and fear of change. The truly sad and ironic part is that eventually time and life forces their hand and they end up spending far more of their wealth on care or living arrangement they would ever have needed if they had made better decisions just a few years earlier. But no one ever wants to make a decision that they feel could be a mistake so they wait for time to impose those decisions on them.

[@kristirichards2249]

Exactly.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s such an insightful observation. Many people spend their lives being financially cautious, which helps them accumulate wealth, but when it comes time to enjoy it or invest in their well-being, fear holds them back. Ironically, avoiding change or necessary adjustments often leads to greater expenses and stress in the long run. Planning ahead with flexibility and a willingness to adapt can make retirement much more fulfilling and comfortable.

[@maricelguevarra2164]

❤

[@andrewstone4422]

You mentioned the importance of purpose. I would love to hear you elaborate on purpose and perhaps share some insights. I believe over the last few years of retirement that I have found my main purpose in my retirement studies. It is discovering Christian apologetics which is increasing my faith and giving me peace joy and understanding through scientific study and readings from brilliant insightful scientists and mathematicians. I didn’t expect to go down this path, but I’m glad that I did. I suppose you could say I found my one large purpose, but I’m interested in adding some others and hoping you can help me along the way. Thank you for your help and desire to reach out teach and share your insights.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s a fantastic approach to retirement-having a strong sense of purpose through intellectual and spiritual growth. Christian apologetics is a deep and rewarding field that not only enriches faith but also stimulates the mind. It’s great that you’re open to exploring additional purposes. Many retirees find fulfillment in mentoring, volunteering, creative pursuits, or even physical challenges like hiking or fitness. You might consider teaching or leading discussion groups on apologetics, engaging in community service, or even writing about your journey. Purpose evolves, and adding layers to it keeps life meaningful and engaging. Keep exploring! 😊

[@williamread8186]

I am guilty of all of this except acquiring assets and wealth. I know the fundamental issue is that I live in a social desert, been an underachiever so I am always seeking validation and I do obsess over fitness and my looks and so on even at 67

[@RetirementTransformed]

It's great that you're self-aware! Finding purpose and fulfillment beyond wealth and appearance can be a challenge, but connecting with like-minded people, embracing new experiences, and appreciating your journey can make a big difference. Keep going! 😊

[@susanroper6287]

Another great video, thank you 🙏

[@RetirementTransformed]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@rajbeekie7124]

The non accumulation is wealth is cool to talk about when you are sitting one millions and millions that are growing. I have a colleague whose portfolio is about $9,000,000 and he drives a beater. He knows he is wealthy. He has no desire to impress anyone.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s a great perspective! True wealth isn’t about flashy displays but about financial security and peace of mind. Many people who are financially successful embrace a minimalist lifestyle, knowing that their money works for them rather than the other way around. It’s all about priorities!

[@andregoy6996]

1st comment

[@RetirementTransformed]

:)

[@SoCal9705]

This is all kinda depressing. 😑

[@RetirementTransformed]

Depressing in what way?

[@SoCal9705]

@@RetirementTransformed It's sort of like all that stuff you dedicated your life to, chasing and achieving, forget it it's worth nothing now. I have trouble seeing it as anything other than the end of something, even though for many it is the beginning of something new. I need to strive for something.

[@Jen-xy4kk]

I don’t think it sounds depressing. I think it’s helpful to realize that people of different ages just have different goals. They still have goals, as they stated in their video, but their goals now are different than their goals while working. I’m 61, retired for 5 yrs, and my goals now are certainly different than my goals were while working, and those goals were different from my goals while going to college, which were different from my goals in high school, which were different from my goals in elementary school. Our goals change with age, and that’s just fine!