8 REASONS WHY POLISH WOMEN ARE A PAIN IN THE 🍑 And Why we LOVE IT! (w/Filip Mówi Po Polsku)

Ok let's admit it, Polish women can be a real PAIN IN THE 🍑 sometimes 😅 They can be stubborn, strong willed and bossy but at the same time, many of these traits make them some of the best women to be in a relationship with.
My friend Phil from @Filip mówi po polsku co-hosted this episode with me and we had a lot of fun sharing our stories.
DISCLAIMER: We know these are generalisations and not all Polish women are like this. Also, we did this in a light fun way so please don't feel offended.
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Chapters:
0:00 Intro
3:04 Hospitality
4:35 Panicky
6:36 Grooming
9:00 Taking Charge
11:21 Their Priorities First
13:24 Witty & Fast
15:25 Loud & Not Delicate
18:46 Stubbornness
21:17 Outro
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[@VigosDad]

My lovely Polish women, this is all in good fun and most importantly we have MASSIVE respect for all of you. ♥

[@waldemarmachnik1545]

Not you!!!! We

[@janwojtyna3392]

@@waldemarmachnik1545 Walduś "cycu" take it easy...

[@waldemarmachnik1545]

@@janwojtyna3392 Cycu jak cos to z wielkiej litery sie pisze buroku.

[@wowza3036]

I think now both of your Polish wives should sit together and talk about how it is to be with foreign husband! 😃 I would love to see this episode 🤗🙂🙏 I'm Polish woman with English boyfriend and oh boy.. How many things I could say😂

[@MagsArt]

@@janwojtyna3392 🤣🤣🤣 świetne

[@danielsennerstam9130]

Married 17 years to my Polish wife and 3 years of dating so 20 years and counting. After 17 years in Sweden we now moved to Kraków:)

[@silkcitysocialist420]

There is a Polish saying that goes.... the man is the head of the family, but the women is the neck that turns the head.

[@kamilpustula2454]

Everyone is saying that polish guys are so strict, determined and hard working - but in real we are not even close to our girls, and they love to judge. So we don't really have a choice, we're just trying to keep up ;-(

[@lauraswoboda6265]

Depends. I wish my man would appreciate the person I am the way you guys describe it 😅

[@HotSzejk]

Haha good one 😁 you Poles are amazing man and we love you 🇵🇱❤️

[@flammette1779]

We're not panicky, we just multitask sooo much and literally all. the. time. When you alter the plans just like that we first get pissed you ruined the scheme and then we're trying to go through all the plans in our head looking for things that will need to be readjusted 😜 And yes, I may be stubborn, but my Polish husband is just as stubborn. I can't just pass, I need to make my point! 😁

[@monikawokowicka7142]

mam tak samo

[@annagolemiec633]

It was literally my first thought.

[@kayaquestions]

Agreed!

[@tom-was]

best comment

[@ml-oo5uo]

Friendly correction: I think you mean "system", not "scheme". "Scheme" in English is not the same as "schemat" in Polish, and it's usually very pejorative. "Schemat" in Polish is closer to one of the meanings of the English "system".

[@jafissherse8137]

Polish women after World War II: We cannot live like this! Come on, guys. It has to be done. If you don't do it, we will do it. Polish women after the fall of communism: Everything needs to be changed. Go on. There is no time to lose. If you don't do it, we will do it. It works every time.😜

[@janwojtyna3392]

it does mainly cuz you ain't sure it will be done right and you also know you will hear about it at every possible moment.

[@treytucker5619]

🤩

[@rossomak71]

My husband always laughs that my first answer for every question in "NO" and after that I start thinking about the answer 😂

[@VigosDad]

Oh don’t I know this! 😅

[@mydearwoodlands]

Indeed. That’s a very polish thing to start the answer with no even if the answer is of a positive connotation… contrary to the uk… where they begin with yes and then process to answering in negative 😅😅

[@tom-was]

@@mydearwoodlandsexactly, it's true for both polish men and women

[@nandoflorestan]

@rossomak71 wait, is that "NO" an English word or a Polish word???

[@wowza3036]

I think now both of your Polish wives should sit together and talk about how it is to be with foreign husband! 😃 I would love to see this episode 🤗🙂🙏 I'm Polish woman with English boyfriend and oh boy.. How many things I could say😂

[@Angelcynn_2001]

It's very common to see Englishmen marrying Polish women here in England :) good combination in my opinion 👍

[@krewetkaaaa]

Regarding patience and "I'll get to that". There is a joke where guy says : Jak powiedziałem, że zrobię to zrobię! Nie musisz mi przypominać co pół roku! Sounds a bit like it ;-)

[@TheAngellina90]

Omg I laughed so hard because this is so spot on…Polish women - lovely yet bossy and impatient - that’s meeeeee 🤣 thank you for this! Only one thing is - I wouldn’t say we are panicky. We just like to be organized. We multitask alot. And if you ruined what we have planned then we get mad cause we have to reorganize everything so it’s perfect again 😂

[@Immigrantwriter]

👏😂

[@Jadisek]

Soooo true! 😁

[@JDRatka]

Yesss! 🤣

[@magorzatacharczynska5656]

To fakt mamy plan w naszych głowach na każdy dzien nie mówiąc naszym mężom (partnerom)o tych planach stąd te nieporozumienia 😉🙈 zmiana planów powoduje u nas panikę i rozwalony caly system dnia hahah

[@pieniny9857]

Polki są władcze ? To spróbuj z niemką 🤣

[@beatamigdal8513]

"Nie wierzę w latające talerze chyba że żona do ręki je bierze" No cóż z głowy tego nie wymyślił pan Jan Sztaudynger Pozdrawiam wszystkie Polki i ich mężów ❤️

[@joannapiotrowska5203]

This video really did make me laugh so hard. When I heard about stomping on the steps, throwing the silverware or emptying the dishwasher at 5am at first I was like wtf.. but then I realised I do it too… Cheers! Never realised us, the Polish ladies, can actually be that distinctive..

[@Lillireify]

Same! XDDDDDD

[@gosiakidd5646]

Ive same response.

[@Julia_goolia]

Spot on!

[@joannazielinska8575]

No i stało się Panowie 🤣. Staliście się prawdziwymi Polakami.... Narzekacie na własne piękne i mądre żony, które chcą wycisnąć z Was wszystko, co najlepsze 😅🙃😄🤪

[@VigosDad]

lol

[@small_things5291]

@@VigosDad haha, not true! Stay unpolish, RESIST! :)

[@Kristoferroz]

czyli pieniadze i checi do zycia

[@joannazielinska8575]

@@Kristoferroz czyżby Pan aż tak źle trafił 😏

[@ajmaciejewska]

👍🤣👍

[@jackmarshall8061]

Napiszę tak ; Polki to jedyne Kobiety na świecie, które mogą za jednym razem wykonywać 10 różnych czynności i wyglądać przy tym jak by wyszły właśnie z salonu piękności. Gdy będziesz miał wroga, Polka pierwsza wyciągnie z garażu armatę i zapyta "kochanie , a gdzie to ku..wa się ładuje" Pozdrawiam serdecznie, kanał pierwsza klasa \m/

[@annadillon933]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kagu3849]

Yeah even Otto von Bismarck who hated Poles, about 200 years ago said: If you want Poles to do something, let their women do it.

[@clockwatch5222]

My husband is an Irish Pole. He is a perfectionist & a neat freak, which stresses him to verbal outbursts... He's is an amazing problem solver, not afraid of hard physical work, a great protector & super affectionate.

[@irenadziedzic5046]

Yes, I'm a Polish women and I agree with what you said . When I asked my husband to cut some branches he said that the saw chain has to be fixed. After two days or so of waiting I bought a small saw chain and the job was done (by me of course)😊

[@pakkslac133]

Tell that lazy bum to get off his s and do some work.

[@small_things5291]

So why do you ask your husband to do things for you?

[@annaradice7300]

The example of emptying the dishwasher at 5am and being upset no one has done it at 4:45am is BRILLIANT 😂😂😂

[@jcobb7762]

I'm blessed with a wive who llikes to do that, and who likes to do cleaning in general. She asks me to leave dishwasher filled so she can empty it. And she is doing it at 4:30 :) But quietly. She is Polish.

[@peteroz7332]

yeah... but... if someone DOES it at 4:45... then a war ensues for making noise so early, waking up 15 minutes too soon and... "why wasn't it emptied last night, before going to bed"? -> in a nutshell -> you can't win 🤷🏻‍♂️😉 it's just better for everyone to get used to "5am dishwasher emptying" 🤔😅

[@monikawikarek1520]

Mój mąż Polak opróżnia zmywarkę tak wcześnie, pomaga mi co mnie denerwuje bo mnie budzi 😂

[@Shorin1000]

or cooking or cleaning the house at 4.00 am without thinking about other people sleeping. Also, my husband is sooooooooooo lazy. plus a great procrastinator.

[@aleksandrabezon1258]

Gdyby maz nie byl leniwy I ogarnol zmywarke wieczorem, nie byloby glosnego rozladowywania rano. To takie proste!

[@VigosDad]

🤣

[@EttebMyLittleWorld]

LOL True

[@martynab3542]

Amen! :)

[@treytucker5619]

🤩

[@torm3ntor]

Ale wiesz, że życie to nie tylko zapierdol?

[@dorothyirby5740]

As a 64 year old woman, raised in USA in a Polish household, I can agree with every single thing on this list. God bless my husband for tolerating me for 26 years!! lol

[@rain999wi6]

I thing you are american and behave just like them.

[@dorothyirby5740]

@@rain999wi6 Your point love?? I am American, but was raised with a strong Polish woman who had a mind of her own, thank God. I make no apologies. These are admirable traits. But know this, we also are fiercely caring about our husbands, and do for them like no one else.

[@dorothyirby5740]

@@rain999wi6 And I think you just want an argument, which I won't give you. Polish/American women are that way!

[@rain999wi6]

@@dorothyirby5740 I don' want to argue, but I know american women, becouse I live in America . And I think they are not quiet little mouse either, quite opposite rather. A Very strong minded women.

[@dorothyirby5740]

@@rain999wi6 OH, ok I thought you were just trying to demean me because I was raised here. You understand that first generation women here are different, and I am that, I have more Polish values than American ones, Still keep the traditions and teach them to my kids. I can be quiet and respectful but family is #1. You mess with my family and I unleash the Polish wrath of the woman who rules the roost. lol. No worries. Thanks for clarifying. Oh, and I'm sure you don't know all American women, unless you really get around! lol

[@uwu5210]

9:34 it's mostly cuz of our moms, if we won't do something immediately after they ask us they will do it themselves and then we have to see them doing it and hear their anger so at some point we are "trained" to do something immediately and don't waste time.

[@nandoflorestan]

Wow, those are terrible mothers then, because children learn from the example, not from the words.

[@barbaramrosek4094]

Exactly the same patterns!

[@PannaDzastin]

Such a relief. I'm not crazy, I'm just Polish 🤣

[@irenadziedzic5046]

yes, that's a relief for me as well.

[@anicjusz]

Same here 😂

[@goalslifeandme]

Omg...im crying . I am a Polish wife to English man and I am showing this video to him in the morning. He will agree with all of this ;) 😉

[@ricardobartolomei3562]

Wow, I couldn't agree more with most of the points you've made. I've only been with my partner for a year and the truth is that it's like that in almost everything. She's always stressed, she wants to do many things at once, she moves fast and the floor bangs - unlike Latinos, but she's beautiful, very willing to help, super smart. She is learning Spanish and when I speak Spanish to her she complains, she says I only do it when I am angry.😂😂 I enjoyed the video very much, I hope to see you in August. Éxito a ambos.

[@danielstaszewski9197]

Vigo and Phil, great video. I'm Polish but I grew up in Australia and like you I am honoured to have a Polish wife. For a joke one night I hung my underwear on an empty hook in our living room before I went to bed. I left for work the next day completely forgetting what I've done. Later that day while I'm at work, a gas maintenance engineer (which my wife booked) came to our house to do an inspection. While he was doing the inspection he looked up on the wall and saw my underwear hanging on the hook, that second my wife noticed what he was looking at

[@Aki0Hikari]

'Stop making us look bad' No no, you just need to start doing something. 😅 But on a serious note, if I have to wait half a year for something I can do myself, I will just do it. Here a lot of guys say 'I will do it', but they never even intend to, so we are just fed up with that.

[@tracyportersr]

Unbelievably accurate with my Polish wife and her older sister. I'd add #9, OCD and #10 constantly changing and rearranging the rooms with each season.

[@MagdalenaM71]

I am Polish wife and all you said is absolutely true 😀 I improved however one thing : instead of vacuuming on Saturday morning to be sure we have it clean and can move on into the day, I empty the dishwasher at 6:30. I believe my family notice that 🤣 At my age of 50 I am convinced more than ever that we are always right,seriously, even when we are wrong, we are right, righter than others. Our nature simply 😂

[@sienkiewiczmonika1161]

Stubbornness - we usually give our opinions/ adviced/ feedback after solid research the topic or based on our experience. That's why it's so hard to convince us to change our minds 😉

[@ineffige]

:"feedback after solid research the topic or based on our experience" - LMAO

[@saltcitytarot]

Polish women should just rule the world. Wonderful humans ❤️

[@niko0220]

What an interesting episode! It's really enjoyable to hear how you guys compare your experiences (and struggles) haha 💜

[@WaningMoonrise]

It is not stubbornness of Polish women. It is Polish DNA that was shaped over centuries from our survival so Poland can still proudly be on the map today. LOL… great video and all true points (except the stubbornness, because that’s all Polish people in general).

[@rain999wi6]

O no...please...not the same old story again.

[@WaningMoonrise]

@@rain999wi6 ?????

[@angelikabailey]

Yes!!! You both nailed it 😂 What an awesome episode. This was so hilarious but oh so true about us Polish women. I stomp but I think I’m being quiet, and I definitely throw silverware away 😂 My (Australian) husband has told me many times that I have improved his own style, and he enjoys the shopping in 🇵🇱 also. Polish and proud! Keep this series going please, so fun to watch you both compare 😀

[@rain999wi6]

Its not "so true about us polish women"...Its true about women- wifes in general. I wish to hear what they would say about latinas or bossy american women ;))))

[@knittingmachinestepbystep]

Love it!! I’m Polish woman and I must say that I agree with what you both said in 99%. I really enjoyed to listen to this incredible conversation by two great guys. After that I know myself better, thank you. Asia 😊😊😊👍

[@cs-op8td]

Hello from USA. I really like watching your videos as I can better understand how others percept us. Funny that on other foreigner videos I hear usually how quiet we are, e.g. in restaurants or at intimate settings, So 'loud' took me by a surprise! But true. My daughters complained about my loud music in the morning while they sleep. As also Polish they had to come across in a firm way to enforce softening of my morning routine. Polish women still mostly marry Polish men with who we naturally complete the picture. They are a huge part how we behave. Polish men are handy, work most of the time after work at home or garage or gardens. They love their projects. Being a single in USA I just can't wrap my head around how 'admirers' are ... 'useless' as my Latia female friend says slowly & firmly. Even when being a teenager, I had always someone who could fix TV, electricity, furniture or a car (Polish men friends). Everything was done. To find a man who is a gentleman, handy man when needed, agreeable, collaborative but strong enough not to be destroyed by a Polish woman is not easy man... We like when men know where there are the boundaries, can calm us down & when they are protective.

[@VigosDad]

“strong enough not to be destroyed by a Polish Woman” 😅 you see how monumentally strong we are! 😁

[@cs-op8td]

@@VigosDad O yes,: you are strong, cool, taking it with a grain of salt & adding some sweetness to it ;-)

[@symulacrumorlando]

Bardzo ciekawe spostrzeżenia, miło się was Panowie słuchało. Więcej waszych wspólnych spotkań! Serdeczne pozdrowienia dla waszych żon :)

[@paulinas_5839]

Hahah mega filmik! Uśmiałam się 😂 Trzeba przyznać, że trochę w tym racji :P Pozdrawiam

[@sebastianlubrecht]

When men decide to do something , you don’t have to remind him every 6 months to do what he promised! :-) Greetings from Denver CO !

[@marlenapiwonska9468]

Such a fun video Guys 😜 Ciap ciap 🤣🤣🤣 Pozdrowionka z Hillsboro Wisconsin 😘

[@bojomax1755]

I’m married to Polish woman. And even being Polish myself I 100% agree with your observations. Poles like to challenge existing situation regardless of context or gender 😀 Would be great to see more of you two colabs!

[@adriannaozarek7174]

Odnajduje we wszystkich przykładach siebie! Tak jestem Polską kobietą! 😁😁😁😁

[@margplsr3120]

polską (żeby było poprawnie po polsku)

[@itsmecah4]

I'm a Black female in America and I will vouch for all 8 reasons! I worked with Polish women, and we got along very well. We both had clapbacks for days. I definitely can recognize a Polish woman from anywhere. They are exactly how you describe them to be. I came across this video, because I was cooking pasta with cabbage and wanted to see what other cultures use the same ingredients together. I found out that Polish people make a dish called Lazenki or Haluski in the US. Now, my KZbin algorithm has included Polish content, lol.

[@rossrache6928]

I love how you 2 are just vibing, nice video!

[@VigosDad]

that’s my boy Phil. we share the pain 😅

[@annaboczynska5601]

Haha it was very eye-opening i guess to hear how we, the Polish women are 😀Great episede!

[@xdlol59]

I was laughing all the time, because you were describing my mom and my sister, and me XD

[@agnieszkaszwaja1555]

and me:)

[@ragnargrabson1287]

Let's face it: we Poles are not only stubborn , but also rebellious which can be explained by historic context and instinct of survival as a nation throughout our turbulent history and thanks to this, we are not Germans or Russians. I was born and raised in Poland, and when I was growing up in Poland in the 90's, quite a bit number of Polish ladies around me were pretty focused on the wealth factor. I came from a modest background so I was not a popular guy. Eventually, I married an American women and moved to the States and we have been happily married for a long time. But I am still friends with Polish women who are married to Americans and they are ambitious, outspoken, hard-working, good Moms,...and yes bossy, big time bossy that I feel somewhat sorry for a guy. But those American guys seem to be fine with that....

[@TheSetsuka09]

Your channel is truly something !!! I'm about to marry a Polish woman next year... we're in long distance relationship, but we've met and being together for around 3 weeks... I've experienced what you said about cutting the trees or paint the room already... within that 3 weeks 😅..well in my case it's about broken umbrella and shoe rack position but the thing is it's exactly like you said..🤣🤣 Guess I'll be going into the adventure of a life time, and I'd happily do it cause i love her.

[@VigosDad]

you are in for a ride, the best ride, but a ride nonetheless! haha all the best!

[@elizakowalska2584]

Świetny materiał. Pozdrawiam

[@agabrzostkowski8354]

Oczywiscie😆 great conversation, good to hear someone from other perspective ☺️ my husband could not agree more with you two😅

[@karolinadziakowicz8737]

I am polish and I think you are brilliant guys 😂🙈 I was just soooo laughing and everything you said is true 😁😂🤭

[@Immigrantwriter]

omg Phil the comment about the shoes for a very specific situation is so funny, we do that so much :D

[@annadillon933]

Very true 😂😂😂😂

[@pawellewap9179]

As a Pole who once had a Polish wife and Polish girlfriends I have to say that everything you said is true and it's not that only foreigners have to learn to fight it and survive ;) But paradoxically - there is something optimistic in what you said - and namely that not all women are like Polish women ;) However, it gives some, although a little, hope to people like me ;) Greetings from Krakow

[@agneselsayed8948]

I looooved it ! I was constantly agreeing and laughing BUT the bit about being loud, not me man, I am like a butterfly 😂 Great video and insight guys 🤗

[@VigosDad]

Maybe you THINK you are like a butterfly 😅

[@agneselsayed8948]

I AM! It’s everyone around, and especially my husband walking and behaving like elephants 😂 Drives me mad 😅

[@martaabc7188]

Ha! So im not the only one! My husband - I am sure - would agree with you. :) Please - record a video about communication difficulties in marriage of two cultures and languages. My hubby is polish but he was born in Germany and spend there 20years of life, he speaks polish, but he completely doesnt understand some cultural "sayings" and sometimes simple words can be understanded differently. Sometimes is funny, when you say something and other person understands it completely different way. I fell like i can play this Benny Hill's funny song in that time. Just a cabaret sometimes 😂

[@anna_rosestyle]

💯 I love your video, It makes me laugh a lot. Especially abouth the making noise walking on the stairs! It is me 💯!

[@bondann8]

Sooooo funny! Most of it is absolutely true. I'm a doctor, working mother of three sons, I live strictly by schedule. Some time ago my mother arrange an event in almost two weeks ahead and when she called to tell me about it I heard myself saying: "you cannot notify me in the last moment" 🙈 But I'm not loud, especially in the morning! I cherish every second when everybody is asleep 😆 Thank you for this video! By the way: you are both screwed, guys... 💋

[@chaneld5202]

This is too funny 😂 Love it !!

[@bebecaca8374]

That' wonderful how accurate you are 🤣 As a Polish woman I can relate not only to the rules but even exact examples🤣 And I always thought I wasn't a pain in the a. of my Love, as other women 🧐🤣

[@martafernandes3642]

guys thank you for this video :D My Brazilian has same conclusions :D:D:D because of you guys I don´t feel bad anymore, I have just understood I´m just a Polish girl and there is nothing wrong with me :D ahahhah

[@VigosDad]

nothing at all!

[@Immigrantwriter]

I love the painting impatience story :D

[@Immigrantwriter]

@Filip mówi po polsku go Asia! 🇵🇱😎

[@barbaramrosek4094]

Polish woman here😂 married since 5 years to an indonesian guy. We met while our studys in Germany, at the moment living in France, having 2 kids. Someone copy with that, please😅 My solution to get the things done at the house: invite polish friends/family. During the last vacation my brother and father added one room in the hause by mooving the furniture, fixed 2 doors, one gate and one window and constructed an easel in ONE afternoon. It would take minimum 2 weeks to explain to my husband what I plan to change( he is ingenier too, by the way😉) I am looking foward for the next vacation...

[@JM-ff6sg]

thanks for the video! I absolutely agree with that and I to be honest, I am now learning how to let things go and that I do not have to be perfect all the time. This gets me sick how I was brought up, that I had to meet some crazy expectations of my Mom. I am struggling not to have bad feelings of me taking the rest. Of course it's been commented in the family but sorry, I cannot waste ALL SATURDAYS for crazy cleaning actions.

[@ml-oo5uo]

I agree about the legendary Polish hospitality. There are two Polish sayings: "A Guest [coming] into the house [means] God Himself [coming] into the house" (Gość w dom, Bóg w dom), and "Get into debt but put yourself on [the table]" (Zastaw się, a postaw się)

[@aleksandralainson9177]

🤭 Yep, that's us 🤣 Shared this video to my wonderful English husband 😜😆 He is gonna love it 😝 Laughed a lot, well done guys and best of luck 😁

[@VigosDad]

Thanks for sharing! 🌹

[@MrHansSchuman]

All is absolutely true 😅 Hi from Czech Republic 🙋🏻

[@jenniferholder5728]

As a polish woman who was raised in America, I do agree with a lot of this. If I’m stressed out I turn into a methodical nightmare woman who is relaxed, but also ready to rip the head off a hamster and paint the walls with hamster blood. I also like having special handmade soaps for when guest come. I also work on my own car and do most of my house stuff myself. I’m not waiting for people to find people to hire other people. Also, damn boy, you had time to record a whole podcast, edit it, and publish it, but you haven’t touched a screwdriver in years. Got it. Copy that.

[@VigosDad]

😁

[@martajumi.inranbows3285]

Haha I think there is a lot of truth to that, what you need to understand is that this kind of stuborness, "hard" character and always looking for optimum was lernt by women many generations before, especially in war times and after. There were many families without men at that time (as they went to fight, some of them never came back), so in fact women tend to take a role of a male and a women in the family. They had to look for ways of doing things that usually men would do, even if that cost a lot of work or was considered hard. Also as money was the issue they would not hesitate to save up in milion of ways but still had things done and provided for all basic needs of the family . So in todays world Polish women are well-educated, they are very capable and won't take just ANY kind of answer of proposal, they themselves will look for doing things in most optimum way and they will act fast as if there is no time to loose. :)

[@dancelikeflower]

I agree with you in 100%.

[@magdalenag.1736]

Thanks for the video, a lot of fun 😀

[@malgorzatamakowska9910]

Jak bedziesz mowil ciagle po angielsku ,nigdy polskiego sie nie nauczysz...po tej zlotej mysli dodam ,ze majac meza Wlocha ,to ja nauczylam sie wloskiego ,inaczej jakbym mogla dyskutowac z nim! I dodam, tak dobrze ,zeby miec racje! Tak naprawde to on czesto mnie juz nie sluchal, chociaz powtarzal ,tak tak, a ja wtedy : powtorz ,co powiedzialam!!

[@lesp315]

Ja wyrobilem sobie sposob na zapamietywanie ostasniego zdania mojej zony. Chociaz nie wiem co ona powiedzila. The only thing is, I do it in English because she speaks to me in English even though we are both Polish. I's complicated.

[@alexandraj7736]

Super video

[@irena.el.o4198]

So true lol you guys are cute in your understanding. My favourite saying always was, by the time you think of it, I've DONE it. Haha didn't realise it was a Polish thing.

[@gosiakidd5646]

Well summed up. True and hilarious in my view. Sent the link to my Scottish husband. Im sure he will agree with you both.

[@Immigrantwriter]

we are not LOUD! we are quiet delicate flowers LOL

[@VigosDad]

oczywiście…. 😌

[@monikaskirzynska-podgorska4579]

… z kolcami 😆

[@gbplus747]

I have been scrolling to look for your comment :P

[@realace108]

This has to be your funniest video I watched on this channel. Two thumbs up 👍 👍 Objectively speaking you guys are spot on with most of your comments. Masakra. Stubberness!!! Ha ha. I'm debating if I should re-watch this video with my wife. 🤣 what do you think?

[@VigosDad]

do it! be brave! 😁

[@ras.ivi.official]

Haha all is true 😆 uśmiałam się niesamowicie

[@annab6948]

LOL! Many of these my Swedish husband (and our sons) would agree with.

[@paulinakakol5879]

JT this was one of your funniest videos! My husband needs to be the THIRD guy up on that screen since he agrees with EVERYTHING you guys were saying lol. He is also married to a polish woman for 13 years. Let me know if he can help!❤️😀

[@VigosDad]

he understands then.

[@annaochal4396]

Nie mogę przestać się śmiać.....panowie znacie nas zbyt dobrze🤣🤣🤣buziaki i pozdrawiam serdecznie obojga😁

[@kitek1727]

Obu

[@kingasokolowska940]

a myslalam, ze tylko ja tak mam 😂 cala prawda o polskich kobietach 😁 dzieki chlopaki to bylo bardzo smieszne, ale tez prawdziwe i pouczajace ☺

[@vitobrown3157]

Nailed IT !!

[@Malanka_wild_garden]

Omg its so accurate, 99%. Greetings from Poland!

[@marzena6115]

„Ciepłe kluchy” ha ha ha ha …. She nailed it!

[@annadillon933]

Love you guys. You are so funny. You just described Ania 😂😂😂😂😂😂, shoes ......haha 👞 i love it. I love everything what you said . I would say 99% you are both right. Thank you guys ❤❤❤

[@acidsacc]

9:00 "if I've said I'll do it, I will do it, you don't have to remind me of that every 6 months" :P

[@VigosDad]

🤣

[@flammette1779]

My thoughts exactly! 😁

[@katarzynakataryna3685]

It was funny to see this 😃 as a Polish woman I need to admit ther's a lot true in what you said😃

[@marysiahall7894]

Very funny and interesting! I’m a polish a woman married to an Australian man for the last 40 years…. I can’t wait to see if his, no doubt long experience, can add some interesting points to your debate.

[@KasiaZosia04723]

I can relate! I have been married to Australian man for 24 years!🤣

[@MacrisMaQ]

As a Pole it's also mostly true for all of us Polish guys 😜 But in difference to you guys, we grew up with that. It was at first from our mothers and then from wives... XD

[@violetl.4615]

I'm an Indian girl, who grew up in Canada. I feel like they are describing me when talking abiut their wives... am I Polish?

[@williamronan4058]

Made my day.

[@joannakozlowska6140]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 cała prawda, a ja się dziwiłam dlaczego moi przyjaciele pytają się ,,are you alright?"🤣🤣

[@monikar2700]

So spot on

[@TheNicofl]

1:15 - 1:38 this is exactly how my husband speaks polish 😄🤪 he’s Portuguese and lives in Poland already for 7 years at this point 😆 On the stubbornness- yeah, you need to prove it, otherwise you can’t be right 😆😄And yes, we are at 99% of time right 😂

[@agnieszkaszwaja1555]

Prawda,swieta prawda:) 1.If noone told you, we polish women haven't been too much pampered at schools and at homes,there is always a lot of pressure and expectations put on polish young girls, from everywhere ( I'm now grateful for all of that as I wouldn't have what I have today without that lessons). 2.So there comes a day that I realised that I'm actually capable of doing much more than I thought,than I'm smarter than they told me, with university degree, experience, ambitions, with good work ethic, honest,loyal, emphatic,good mom and just a good person. Maybe because there is 1 and 2 we sometimes seems to be difficult and bossy🤷‍♀️ Maybe because we know we own it, we finished those lessons, we gained skills, noone but we. Thank you for the video, I really enjoyed, it's soo true😉 💖

[@angelaflower9333]

HAHA listening from Canada born in Poland , whatever you said is sooooo true LOL

[@Carrie-so3ro]

I have to admit that even though I am Canadian born it appears that my Polish heritage is still alive & kicking quite well. I match every one of your complaints (except for the rattling loose things to the point where they absolutely break.) Polish women (like Polish men) are probably more intelligent because our brains are made to be, we're in training from the very start. You are TAUGHT to think ahead - a NUMBER of steps. You are taught to plan. You are taught to consider outcomes. You are taught to CONSIDER what someone says & don't just accept that what the person is saying is true. We KNOW that the other person could have a motive in what they say to us or have gotten the original information mixed up etc. As your friend said, it doesn't mean we won't change our minds on something - we are often quite willing to (unless it is a matter of religion, morals, family etc.) BUT you DO have to show us a GOOD reason to change our minds. We know that we came up with our view BASED on thought (or long-term family practice & tradition - & traditions are also important to us) & to change our view, you DO have to provide as much thought as we put into ours & have it very reasonably spelled out. We are also NOT lazy people - the men or the women. When other people say that they will do it later, we want it done now because we want it FINISHED - so it goes off of our mental do-to list & gives us some mental relief that 1 issue is DONE. ALSO - those that say they will do it "later" , usually do not have any SHORT "later" in mind, but instead some very vague time, somewhere in the future. To us, that is not good enough. There will be plenty of OTHER things to do by the time you get around to "later" to handle, so you do what needs to be done NOW. (Also, we KNOW that life doesn't always go the way we want & things CAN HAPPEN in the future that prevent whatever thing from being done then. Now is always best unless there is a good reason to put it off - like illness, a twisted ankle, some other issue that NEEDS to be done NOW. We are also detail-oriented. That is also why we plan - & we like to get things perfect (or as close to perfect as possible.) This is the reason we don't like things thrown at us at the last minute. Doing things quickly without much forethought, means it will never be done as well since we can't get to all the details of it & do it as well as we would like. Hosting is also DRILLED into our brains from a young age. It is about courtesy & showing others a hospitable welcome (& respect) - whether at home or elsewhere - & this includes LOTS of food. (It will even be a SCANDAL - literally - talked about throughout the whole community & REMEMBERED - for YEARS, or life - if you are cheap with not providing enough food, etc). Everyone will be completely scandalized by how CHEAP you are & you will not be looked at the same for a long time (during which you will have had to host more times with the proper amount (& quantity) of things. Yes, we want to look nice when we go out & we certainly expect our men to do the same. Don't men enjoy the look of a woman all fixed up? We like to see our men all fixed up too. Furthermore we get dressed up & you will be with us & if you don't bother to fix yourself very nicely too - you show us that WE ARE NOT WORTH THE EFFORT - a sign you do NOT respect or care for us that much if you won't bother for us. Just my reaction as a Polish-Canadian woman. (I told you I still had my Polish heritage in me. 🙂)

[@tjblues01]

Hey, try to get in touch with Russell from Love my Poland!. I bet he can add few things to this topic 😉

[@AAaa17219]

I'm polish wife, yes yes. And my husband not latino not american but still tomorrow, slowly 😜. Let do this and this. I fix a lot of at the house, Phil 😀. Dobra robota chlopaki😁.

[@annaochal4396]

ach i potwierdzam jeszcze jeden ważny punk który obaj poruszyliście.....my zawsze mamy racje🤪

[@basiunia33]

As a Polish woman who was essentially raised in Canada and has been living back in Poland for the past 8 years, most of the stuff is reeeeeeally spot-on. I disagree with the grooming though. I much perfer the chill&relaxed style of North America. I don't have the time or patience to groom for 4hrs each morning... let's chill-ax. ;) Great video guys!

[@joannalu1894]

OMG! You just described me in 100%

[@matollsen2523]

5:50 yes, you are right, it is the different way different cultures expose their emotion. For example I spent time in Sweden, and when you first go there everything is calm and nice. But when I lived for a while and know the culture, you understand that's not the case. Sometimes " world falls apart" and they are still cool. But only on surfise. Inside they expload.