"Who are you doing this for? To prove the haters wrong? Nobody hates you." more people need to internalize this
@tnijoo51092 ай бұрын
That’s good. I like that.
@joen85292 ай бұрын
I do have a couple people I believe hate me. I’d love to prove them wrong.
@nolimo25932 ай бұрын
@@joen8529They don't care about you. They don't think about you when you're not there.
@adveshdarvekar77332 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this so bad.
@mem1701movies2 ай бұрын
I have a monster that hates me he’s ruined my life and I never did anything to it
@moundercesar31022 ай бұрын
"Start before you are ready" really needed to hear that
@frontageroadtoolco.84852 ай бұрын
Right!? Keeps being right every time I hear it. Good luck to you out there! Do it, just do it. Don’t try. Do it. Also, may the force be with you.
@patricknoble30902 ай бұрын
100%. Listening like "Ill be home from this work trip on Saturday and I'll get my sht together then. Things are too all over the place right now, but I'll be ready then". Incorrect. Start now.
@MartinisnOlives2 ай бұрын
Same here. 👌🏻
@BAL0G72 ай бұрын
Probably my biggest struggle, that one was like a punch in the face to me lol
@AlexandruTanase112 ай бұрын
So proud of myself for signing up for college spontaneously this year and not waiting until next year, as initially planned. I'm 28. Time's passing anyway, so might as well use it
@NamrataAdke2 ай бұрын
‘to prove the haters wrong? nobody hates you’ so real for that😭
@Hussein-cd6mbАй бұрын
where are you
@EndThe2plus2equals5Ай бұрын
The “Tell no one” rule is spot on. After being a binge drinking alcoholic for close to a decade, I quit one day and told no one. I felt like it was so important to me that it needed to stay with me until I had a better grip on my life. A co worker of mine asked why I had lost so much weight and I told her I cut out alcohol- the next day she showed me a TikTok that she made, and it was her dumping all of her alcohol into the sink with a caption about how she’s changing her life, and she doesn’t need to use alcohol as a crutch anymore. The moment I saw it, I knew that it was an attention seeking bit, and was disingenuous. The post was flooded with praise and compliments…she continued coming into work hungover, reeking of alcohol, and puking in the restroom until she was sent home. I feel like that was one of the reasons why she didn’t actually quit. 2 years later and I’m still rooting for her ❤
@veritas1177Ай бұрын
Thank you for posting this comment. It really is crucial. Sometimes people just want to fit into society and fake what they think that is wanted of them. Until we can be authentic with ourselves and aware, we don't get there. I'm glad that you did it for you. ❤
@debbief9861Ай бұрын
Interesting.
@mattoucas86913 күн бұрын
I don't think that wasn't a consequence of posting the video, she's just addicted.
@Nightcall.2 ай бұрын
Joey’s easily my favorite motivational KZbinr to tell me not to watch motivational KZbinrs
@joen85292 ай бұрын
Wait what? This guy doesn’t strike me as a Joey.
@RalfyCustoms2 ай бұрын
Nah Joe @joen8529 he's a Joey foh sho
@noahschweitzer8792 ай бұрын
Easily my favourite as well.
@acebase14days2 ай бұрын
hes more likely a bro to us
@soundscape262 ай бұрын
He doesn't want competition 😂
@LowerLenz2 ай бұрын
#1 00:02 Tell No One #2 02:23 Start Before You're Ready #3 03:05 Don't Hide #4 04:14 Stay On Track #5 07:18 Grease the Grooves #6 09:18 Do It Your Way #7 10:13 Pay Attention #8 11:54 Rejoice
@deepeshbajpai44232 ай бұрын
Thank you
@dipanshusabharwal2 ай бұрын
Thanks
@RTNMK2 ай бұрын
Thank you captain
@denvernow72942 ай бұрын
Grease the grooves 🤔😏 edit: Looking again, that entire list sounds like boinky boinky innuendo...
@soulvz2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Najumulsaqib2 ай бұрын
1. Stop announcing your plans 2. Start before you're ready 3. Don't hide 4. Stay on track 5. Grease the grooves 6. Do it your way 7. Pay attention 8. Rejoice
@Ghostingstraightaway2 ай бұрын
Thanks.
@rippy002 ай бұрын
Not all heroes wear capes!
@corncobbob23262 ай бұрын
Thank you
@voskresenie-2 ай бұрын
These summaries completely remove the point of these videos. The point of the video is the explanation and the time spent reflecting on each point. When you read a list like this in 10 seconds, you won't internalize any of it. It's literally just consoooming
@OldManPaxusYT2 ай бұрын
Someone not as lazy and $$greedy as "Better ideas" - Pity he's too lazy to even 📌 this comment!!! 😆 🤣
@klooskapooАй бұрын
“Just doing the better thing instead of the worst thing is the answer to everything” is such a good line
@user-oo5cc5tk5g2 ай бұрын
Clear, focussed, direct, wise. I am 61 years old and learning a lot with your videos. Thank you😊
@johndonaldson36192 ай бұрын
*"Who you are **_becoming_** is more important than who you've been"*
@TTVsterlingpa_Ай бұрын
BAAARRRSSSS
@Hussein-cd6mbАй бұрын
where are you
@waziotter2 ай бұрын
The best self-improvement advice I ever heard (possibly on this channel) was “today is the youngest you will ever be”. It has been honestly life changing and has been the kick up the backside I needed.
@azri25237 күн бұрын
Same 🤣🤣🤣 I was all serious and focused and that just kicked me right to laughing
@joelaumedesserrano79942 ай бұрын
3:38 "LISAN AL-GAIB" got me, i didn't expect that at all 🤣🤣
@Freakazoid123452 ай бұрын
Nice.
@Niushaaslk2 ай бұрын
me 2🤣🤣🤣
@Trokasychingaderas2 ай бұрын
Same 😂😂😂
@OrangeJungle2 ай бұрын
Lmao real asf
@LivingstonCrain2 ай бұрын
I’ve been watching your videos for few years now while I’ve been on and off with my sobriety. Today I celebrate nearly 3 months sober from alcohol, I built a home gym, I’m getting into the best shape of my life, and literally the other day I wrote in my journal right before I went to bed “doing the right thing feels SO much better than doing the wrong thing” and hearing you touch on that exact principle is that affirmation shit I do like. This has been my favorite video of yours so far and I’ll be sharing it with my family and friends for sure. 🤘🏼
@Crystal-ss8vr2 ай бұрын
Stay strong king!
@aclusterofstars2 ай бұрын
congratulations on your sobriety! It is not an easy task, I know firsthand the mental battle it is. Good job, keep going.
@justfun4280Ай бұрын
Congrats 👏🏿
@debbief9861Ай бұрын
Well done
@biasedknowledge2 ай бұрын
"Let the results be discovered, not announced!" 🔥 This hit hard. Time to keep my goals quiet and let the work speak for itself! 💪
@Ed-vi8lj2 ай бұрын
If you keep quiet, and don't make the progress that you touted, you can still stay motivated . Others are quick to remind you that you're not making your goals
@nohunger32062 ай бұрын
#1 00:02 Tell No One #2 02:23 Start Before You're Ready #3 03:05 Don't Hide #4 04:14 Stay On Track #5 07:18 Grease the Grooves #6 09:18 Do It Your Way #7 10:13 Pay Attention #8 11:54 Rejoice #9 13:33 Rejoice some more..?
@shawndesouza15142 ай бұрын
I'm 13 minutes and 37 seconds from getting my shit together
@InvisibleJesus19192 ай бұрын
Step 1: Tell no one.
@Mrtamps2 ай бұрын
No, because the video only came out 2 minutes ago...
@tapir2k32 ай бұрын
save it in watch later and wait for a day that will make you watch it
@Mr.Griddyton2 ай бұрын
bro failed the first step
@InvisibleJesus19192 ай бұрын
@@K9kfklfl8 don't hide
@toffeethedev2 ай бұрын
Another kino masterpiece from Balder Ideas
@j.fischer7072 ай бұрын
Video been out for 1 min when you wrote this mate
@toffeethedev2 ай бұрын
watched it on 13x speed
@JesseWakeU62 ай бұрын
@@toffeethedev 13x? bro wtf is 13X
@LeSpongedeStardust2 ай бұрын
@@JesseWakeU6 Speeder, Speeder Faster and higher, exciting desire
@abdul_wahab02 ай бұрын
Tf is Kino
@a_dam97172 ай бұрын
I’ve watched plenty of these videos. I can say full well this is the most level headed and correct way of goodness. I’ve never heard something this logical and consistent in a while.
@niiick72152 ай бұрын
i love this. it’s real straight to the point. no bs. i love how he says you don’t need to be ready to make a big change in life, you just need to do it, and take one step at a time.
@jamestheredd2 ай бұрын
I also find that announcing my intentions creates this vicious cycle of different announcements and a sensitivity to the response of the person, which has the ability to throw me off center. It's good to just shut up and take action. 🚀
@Shade7x2 ай бұрын
I swear by this when it comes to kicking bad habits. Don’t announce it, just stop. Really takes the pressure off.
@Neon18802 ай бұрын
I’ve noticed that has been happening a lot with girls for me. I’ve been going on a lot of dates recently and I keep telling my friends ALL about them and how it went, but it just ends up in ruins and I always have to explain the downfall and next girl to them and they think I’m a whore now. So ya, don’t tell people ANYTHING
@GymGarageMan2 ай бұрын
Was called too old at 50! Started training in crumbling garage lifting rocks doing pushups on paint cans pullups on beams got in decent shape at 54 years old!!!
@CatGirl-ny8dw2 ай бұрын
Proving it on your channel garageman brutal training keep it up grandpa 🔥
@Hoppitot2 ай бұрын
Who called you too old? Assuming it was someone of similar age they were probably just making excuses for themselves tbh
@popaoomowmow2 ай бұрын
The fact that your garage is crumbling isnt relevant at all. Well done though
@godzillaeyes2 ай бұрын
I need to do that. I'm 50 and watching my mom and aunt hobble around on walkers and canes, on pain meds for constant pain though they're only in their 70s, really shows me what I'd like to avoid if possible.
@youtubeviewer41272 ай бұрын
Never too old to change!
@dna50212 ай бұрын
I've been in my head about not starting earlier. This nasty ooze of regret that festers into inaction. I really needed to hear #8. Thank you
@namesaditya2 ай бұрын
2:41 - Takeaway - "You need less information, not more information. Transformation is something that happens through action!" (take it with the context though)
@gonzo25482 ай бұрын
Do you have more info on that?
@BlackNight6032 ай бұрын
I needed this so much. I love planning, I tend to sit hours at my desk planning stuff, writing down everything, trying to consider every potential obstacle etc. The hardest part is getting into action. Sometimes, when I finally get myself to do it, I am amazed of how good it feels and how easy it is. I am wasting my time planning stuff, I should just do it.😢
@ReallyBigHead2 ай бұрын
13:34 “if Uranus was this big it would be a black hole” 💀 classic Vsauce
@Dart202Ай бұрын
The information we NEED to know XD
@Adithya_PrakashАй бұрын
Classic vsauce 💀
@betterchapter2 ай бұрын
When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you
@jimf.13182 ай бұрын
😢
@ninoclarke2060Ай бұрын
Females especially. Pay them no mind and they all come flocking to you out of nowhere.
@slackerlitgeek2 ай бұрын
I"ve found that the "don't tell people" rule also plays out in the realm of creative writing. When you spill the beans on something you're working on because you're excited about it, that can have a negative effect on your motivation because your desired result (telling a story) is already fulfilled.
@EarthNeedsHeroes2 ай бұрын
I just recently broke this rule and regretted it right away. Told a friend about one of my new character ideas and they immediately started chiming in with "suggestions" of changes. Even though I trust it was in good faith, just trying to help, it was still a downer especially since I knew better than to say anything about it this early into the process.
@AlfredvanKuik2 ай бұрын
You're doing amazing my man, the videos are getting better in terms of both quality and actual content. I've been doing very well over the past years: successfully fighting a very difficult personality disorder and completely beating the deepest depression of my life. I've been living a life I never imagined possible five years ago. But the little voice you mention in step 8 is very strong. For me, it tells me that it's still not enough, always telling me I should've done more, earlier, better. I've been working at actively being proud of my achievements, because otherwise it's very easy to slip back into bad habits. This voice is an evil thing. It tells you you're worthless for not working out while it itself is the same thing telling you not to work out because you're worthless. Do not give it this power. It only wants to sustain itself on negativity. You actually have the power to tell it to fuck off and it works surprisingly well.
@jordangray52442 ай бұрын
“It feels good to feel good” well said.
@Arlo-y1q2 ай бұрын
I also found out that telling people about your goals can actually attract jealousy, unfortunately not everyone wishes the best for you
@SK-zu8pw2 ай бұрын
people can feel attacted because they know they should also make a change but dont want to do it
@airstry28282 ай бұрын
it just shows who your true friends are!
@fuzzy762 ай бұрын
It highlights their own lack of effort. And it shows you who you should spend less time around. Who you socialize with has a huge effect on your own life.
@goodlifesince902 ай бұрын
Evil eye is real!
@h24anderant642 ай бұрын
"A lot of people want you to do good, but few people want you to do better than them"
@noman1012 ай бұрын
"it's the small choices that we make in out day to day life" is reallly powerful
@tnijoo51092 ай бұрын
Oh wow! That is really good. I’m going to write it on a post-it. Thanks!! 🙏
@Hussein-cd6mbАй бұрын
where are you
@tracyphoenixx2 ай бұрын
9:14 Joey, I like the mustache!
@Pyromanemac2 ай бұрын
Yt Mobile kinda scrolls through comments. This comment popped up right as he said that. Good timing yt haha
@andzelowka2 ай бұрын
The most essential video i saw for a long time. Thank you very much ✨
@siddharthchhangani2002Ай бұрын
Loved this. One of THE best practical advices. ❤
@harryg72032 ай бұрын
The STASH is looking good brother
@HomeAutomated-v2r2 ай бұрын
That's a cookie duster
@Creamada_Crop2 ай бұрын
#2 is an incredibly important point. When I want to start doing something, I start researching "what's the most efficient way to do this" or something along those lines. I spend so much time thinking and researching about said thing that I end up not even doing it. It's like Nike's motto Just Do It
@melkerart17932 ай бұрын
If I'm going to repair an appliance I'm definitely going to investigate the shit out of it beforehand. _Don't_ just do it.
@Creamada_Crop2 ай бұрын
@@melkerart1793 that's not the context of what the video or my comment meant. I highly encourage anybody to research how to fix a control panel before they start poking electrical shit with a screwdriver. The context of the video is saying if you're going to learn how to ice skate to just lace up the skates instead of looking into "how to skate". Babies don't "research" how to walk they just do it.
@TheCostantinus2 ай бұрын
@@melkerart1793 This analogy doesn't make any sense, it has nothing to do with the video. We're not talking about repairing appliances, we're talkig about doing something to better ourselves.
@Ryuuuuuk2 ай бұрын
Start immediately - but small. Like running for many people can be bad if they just do it, because they are overweight and lack the muscle, so they injure themselves. Better to start with walking.
@Uncommony2 ай бұрын
You owe it to yourself to get you sh*t together. No one will do it for you. You've got this. Stay Uncommon!
@sparshchaudhary17152 ай бұрын
I rarely comment on videos, but this is just one great video! I was watching a random fitness video from an Indian channel and had gone to pee to come back that this video played right after. I don't know if I would've otherwise clicked on this video, I rarely watch videos like this. But man as soon as I listened a few sentences, I couldn't stop and listen to the whole thing. There was so much in this video that I felt like I needed to hear. And I totally love and understand the feeling of feeling better when you're on the path that you know is good for you. I agree to everything you said in this video and oh man I'm just so grateful this video popped up on my KZbin. Thank you so much!
@senecablount22302 ай бұрын
“Start before your ready” has been on my mind all day. I needed to hear that.
@DevonVanNote2 ай бұрын
The caffeine addiction section is exactly what I do. I've tried to quit caffeine, but as someone who rarely drinks and doesn't smoke, it's the one vice I like haha. I do the exact same thing you do and have been going to the gym 3-5 times a week the last 7 years. I feel great pretty much every day.
@jamesdesousa55282 ай бұрын
Actions speak louder than words.
@scorpions19652 ай бұрын
Words action louder than speak
@KrispyRootbeer2 ай бұрын
Bible man and Luigi
@mauricio88592 ай бұрын
Regarding to step 3: "Don't hide", I agree that is inmature. But when you feel so bad about yourself and even feel shame, it is almost innevitable to hide, going ghost mode, deleting social media, Letting the others "forget" about you so you don't feel that shame as much. And eventually coming back not like if you were some kind of perfect being but at least someone who is not ashamed about himself. Coming back like nothing bad have actually happened to you and you have most things figured out. I'm currently going through that, sadly. Knowing that is inmature I'm doing it anyways. The pain is so intense to bear. On the bright side, the last two steps helps a lot. I will definitely work on that.
@ugocaquais55982 ай бұрын
i agree, but in the other hand, it works according to step 6 "do it your way" : if you feel like this it what you need, because of who you are, or where you currently are in life, then go for it
@wbr94012 ай бұрын
@@ugocaquais5598 From personal experience I think that advice is helpful. Reframe “immature” to “my way”-takes a judgment from anyone else to only the person’s judgment that matters. Do you want you want to do your way if it’s what you think is best for you.
@vadim63852 ай бұрын
Deleting social media did wonders for me.
@k.m.clarke2 ай бұрын
This is too real brother . Too relatable.
@andib.24552 ай бұрын
I am/was in a similar situation and felt shame for myself cause i realized a lot of what i thought was 'me' and my 'status' were suddenly gone and thought hiding was the way to go because i felt intense shame and pain. Deleting social media is definitely not a bad idea because its a superficial and toxic place, but generally the thought that you feel ashamed of yourself and that therefore you have to hide is extremely unhealthy, cause saying you will come back when you have it figured out is like saying you are only worthy to be in the presence of your peers or society if you are up to a certain standard of worldly achievements, which is the wrong angle cause, as i realized, most people don't give a shit about you anyway and those who do don't care about your achievements cause that doesn't change who you fundamentally are as a person. That doesn't mean you should stop working on yourself etc., but you shouldn't take the negative thoughts of people that actually don't matter to you as your main motivation. What really helped me letting go of a lot of these thoughts is eckhart tolle and the concept of 'Ego' and how bad it actually is to be too identified with your achievements instead of being content with yourself and going your own way at your own pace. Can only recommend some of his talks here on KZbin on ego, gratitude and happiness. Wishing you the best, i know how painful this is.
@ZdeněkPolák1984Ай бұрын
Love the straightforward approach! These steps feel doable and practical. It's refreshing to see such clear guidance on getting organized and motivated. I can't wait to start implementing these ideas and see how it transforms my routine!
@juanmarquina11372 ай бұрын
Amazing video my brother. Thank you
@Krayton862 ай бұрын
0:34 That book has written in hungarian! Greetings from Hungary!
@misst41472 ай бұрын
This video popped up just as I was about to procrastinate. Thank you I’m choosing to get shit done!
@iannorton22532 ай бұрын
I've spent all morning procrastinating; it's tired me out, so I need a lie down now for a couple of hours before I can do any more. Maybe I need to think about it for a while longer before making a decision; no use rushing things.
@defaultytuser2 ай бұрын
Did you get shit done or ended up procrastinating a bit more?
@misst41472 ай бұрын
@@defaultytuser I actually got stuff done, I did something important I had been putting off for weeks. Then I had a clear out and I’m 3/4 way finished, will finish it today, then I hit the gym:)
@defaultytuser2 ай бұрын
@@misst4147 you go!
@Monster333362 ай бұрын
Don't listen to BetterIdeas he doesn't care about you just his pockets.
@BryceKoebel2 ай бұрын
"nobody hates you" is so real and such a dillusion a lot of us live with to give us motivation 😂😭
@selian_Ай бұрын
Joey, absolutely loving your honest and logical content. Thank you!
@kidsilver38848 күн бұрын
Love your mustache and your facts of advise. I needed this
@arnavtrivedi49182 ай бұрын
Thanks Joe, for all your videos. Each and every single one of them is cinema. Your videos are filled with positivity. I like them. Keep it up Man!❤
@joen85292 ай бұрын
I always pictured this guys name was Steve or Dan.
@eugeniamikulan33282 ай бұрын
Life's been hitting with some failures after taking big risks, but to get my shit together I'm starting to think that first I want to do things to feel better about myself REGARDLESS of what reaction or result I can get from it. I think that's step 1 when shit hits the fan. Thank you
@rx8mw1142 ай бұрын
First of all, great video. You talked about some things that I haven't heard anyone talk about before when the topic of changing and getting your shit together is metioned. Let me bore you for a second, I'm 23, and I have been on the journey to better myself for the last 5 months. I've lost weight, I started taking care of my hair and my skin, started working out and I've never felt better. I still have days of feeling useless, fat, unattractive, days when I lack the motivation for anything. But I found myself getting more and more happy with each day, I stopped hating looking in the mirror, my stress levels have died down, my depression slowed down to the point of me being able to function normally on day to day basis. I feel like a different person all together. The thing that helped me the most was starting off slow, I was one of the people to jump into the deep water with everything, be it weight loss or exercising. I found myself very burnt out in a week, sometimes even less. In april of this year I decided to make slow adjustments to my lifestyle, minor things like eating less sugar, less calories, trying to exercise everyday while at the same time not blaming myself if I didn't have the time or want to. I've been hearing people saying all these things about "trusting the process" and "keeping it up for a long amount of time" and that always scared me away from starting (my idea of dieting back then for example was to eat basically nothing, or like a max of 500 calories a day). It really isn't as hard as I thought It would be. When I look back I'm not blaming my younger self for not taking the first steps, my plan is to enjoy this lifestyle and the person I am right now. I am at peace with the person I was before. I hope you have a wonderful day.
@mrozu6256Ай бұрын
Thanks for that comm dude. I was about to write a comment myself about all my bad thoughts but i decided to first check this section and thanks god i did it. Im 22 lvl already and i guess im in the place u were few months ago. My biggest problem is to think im bad at everything i do and im totally worthless. I fight with that all my life and your story reminded me that its getting better but just slowly. I fucked up a few things last couple years and my motivation is at level 0 but i hope the future will be kind for me. I will remember your story and i will try to get my shit together with the time passing by. Thanks and good luck in your jurney
@juanaalturk59392 ай бұрын
i've watched all of your videos and they always hit.. truly helpful! i really feel like you're a wise person that knows what you're talking about, i also love your choice of words, i get excited when i see you've posted a new vid. i've recommended your channel to people multiple times. I've actually never left a comment on a video before, but then i thought it'll just take a minute and it'll probably mean alot to you.. KEEP GOING!!!
@fernandoamador22202 ай бұрын
Truly the most straight forward video ever! 🫡thank you so much!
@hellsgate70020 күн бұрын
For those who need to hear it 🙏🙏 13:34
@theelsanto322 ай бұрын
You’re so right about all these things that it makes me mad how much you called me out lol
@Kamppix2 ай бұрын
That Vsauce video at the end XD
@mikabakker12 ай бұрын
We've all seen it ahah
@Darknight526Ай бұрын
Man does #8 really ring a bell. Thanks bro, for making these videos. Much appreciated from the community.
@youshallnotpass2140Ай бұрын
Seneca's quote = goosebumps Love your channel. Keep it up man!
@jonesmax212 ай бұрын
What i've learned in half of year of self employement and reaching my goals. Your biggest opponent is YOU. I was a big talker before because i was convinced i could do it. Instead i failed a lot and looked like a fool and also have been a naive fool. Be yourself and keep to yourself. Also sometimes all it takes is a video from a majestic mustache man.
@ravenbutaya2 ай бұрын
I don't recall giving you permission to observe my life and publish everything I did wrong 😔
@camilojdz2 ай бұрын
0:42 "IM GETTING JACKED THIS YEAR DUDE I SWEAR"
@Shivonkar2 ай бұрын
Bro, please let me know after 358 days. let me start too drop a comment on 17 sept 2025. lets start today.
@camilojdz2 ай бұрын
@@Shivonkar haha well, I was just making a joke, I don't really care for being jacked, I find the gym quite boring, muscle for musle's sake? idk man... I play a lot of tennis! I enjoy it a lot I'd say don't get too hung on on "hitting the gym", if it's about being in good shape I went with bouldering, skateboarding, motocross and tennis like really see what the gym is... lifting objects from one side of the room to the other... counting reps... looking in the mirrors... booooooooringgggggg
@URJUSTWRONGАй бұрын
@@Shivonkardon’t forget
@URJUSTWRONGАй бұрын
@@ShivonkarI’ll join
@mamoon_3738Ай бұрын
No no don’t tell anyone this is the message of the video🥲
@Storm_VII2 ай бұрын
Thank you Joey for even caring enough to try to help us with these videos. Sometimes I feel like a lost cause but having someone sitting there talking common sense through my phone screen is a huge blessing. 😌
@RobertPlank10 күн бұрын
This video was a real eye-opener! The biggest lesson for me is to keep plans to myself and let actions speak for themselves. Starting before feeling ready is a light bulb moment too-perfection isn't needed to begin. The idea of using my quirks to my advantage was unexpected yet practical. Lastly, it’s refreshing to remember to appreciate the journey and not dwell on lost time. Thanks for the wisdom!
@PeytonChambers-g8c2 ай бұрын
I vow to make my 30’s wayyyy better than my 20’s
@cucumbertoucherАй бұрын
You got this bro 💪
@edd89892 ай бұрын
13:33 you just had to put vsauce on one of your videos and I love it
@Santoshkumar-hx6fj2 ай бұрын
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
@amber83492 ай бұрын
I like using Neville Goddard’s techniques. manifested money and flexible work last year, when I was 18. As well as maintaining an ideal weight without much thinking. His visualization techniques are worth researching, the info is free and public -to anyone that reads this.
@zKaizen82 ай бұрын
@@Santoshkumar-hx6fj bruh Law of Attraction is not bullshit.
@zaddymac47682 ай бұрын
Beware of dark arts- manifestation comes at a cost.
@adhirathpatil2 ай бұрын
it's already bs if I'm "attracting". we earn things, the universe doesn't go out giving goodies to it's favourites because it has none.
@zh2266Ай бұрын
Bot
@BenMaleHealthCoach2 ай бұрын
Heck yeah man, love this ❤ " Do it your way" clicked the most for me. Currently in a big growth arc of my biz and this felt so right! 😊
@tsukabull16502 ай бұрын
I needed this so much at this point in my journey - glad it came to my attention and thank you for making it.
@nickheld7972 ай бұрын
0:16 and nooobody cared xD
@IHearVoicesUwU2 ай бұрын
So fucking true. No one cares, n you only have yourself.
@Xnight-X2 ай бұрын
That’s not what matter, it’s about you going around and talking about your goals which in turn makes your mind believe that it has already achieved the sought after goal, it’s all in the mind.
@Produktionsbaer2 ай бұрын
Morgan Freeman narrating my life: "He watched it not having his shit together, and neither would he get his shit together after watching."
@MrG__22 ай бұрын
🤣
@boswcheydoesart13142 ай бұрын
Yeah that's a good belief system (sarcasm)
@youokboi85562 ай бұрын
Or you could yknow, actually try and follow this advice, the results may surprise you!
@Freakazoid123452 ай бұрын
If people could just get their act together, they would. Also, lots of videos like this have different advice and the aim is to get views and no help each person who stumbles across it.
@watch-Dominion-20182 ай бұрын
3:38 - that Lisan al Gaib quip caught me off guard 😂
@user-ee1fn4vt8b2 ай бұрын
Every time I have a minor success I’m going to exclaim this.
@Dray.TheChosen1Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this! It's a fantastic reminder of how important mindset is in achieving success.
@roliFPS2 ай бұрын
Easily the best video and best advice I have ever seen. This helped me sooo much you have no idea
@jasondouglas1522 ай бұрын
Step 1 is very important. Especially when you tell everyone, you visualize it as if youve already done it and then lose interest. Never tell anyone about anything
@fareedoncrackАй бұрын
Bro thats so truee i told my brothers about me going gym and waking up early and stuff then i never woke up for it. Not once.
@SM-be5dh2 ай бұрын
2:15 bruh i don’t tell anyone and still not consistent
@altacc1232Ай бұрын
That’s discipline.
@fati3339Ай бұрын
we’ll at least no one else knows you’ve failed and no one will know that you tried again and if they do who cares you’re doing it for yourself anyways only your opinion matters
@dhendroid23732 ай бұрын
I told someone I'm gonna run every single day and they said I'd never stick to it. It was 3 years ago and I'm still running every single day to this day
@marcusvisser17 күн бұрын
Very helpful, going to really focus on what you said and not let this info fly past me, appreciate you doing this.
@ZargGahlАй бұрын
Step three really resonated with me. I've always had a very low opinion of myself, always felt like everyone around me know what they're doing more than I do, therefore as an example, I've never asked questions or wanted help, thinking that whatever I lack I have to compensate for by myself, that I have to know whatever I'm learning before I even start. That has made me give up on almost everything I've started basically at the beginning, stagnating in life for a decade now. I'm in the midst of this cycle of failure right now, actually. I think one reason for this is that I've never learned anything from school, for instance. I had good results, but that was because I would learn most things by myself. Things that didn't interest me in my free time I barely got through, while subjects that I was interested in I passed with barely any worry. The end result has been a complete lack of ability to put the work in, which has sabotaged my life since. And of course, the more you fail, the less you want to try.
This guys doesn’t look or seem like a Joey at all.
@emmbee87542 ай бұрын
@@joen8529 watch the video again
@tomwylie1232 ай бұрын
Great to have you back!!
@zaccrowlands2 ай бұрын
Track progress and motivation becomes seamless Great video!
@SomeCallMeTato2 ай бұрын
8:50 people will criticize this, saying that you are faking your consistency, that you "SHOULD" be able to do the things either way, meanwhile they create excuses to why they dont do the stuff they wanna do. Tactics are a thing
@dnzzn2 ай бұрын
That's why you "tell no one"
@DominicVictoriaАй бұрын
Yes exactly. Basically hack your own brain. Whatever helps.
@aHnzoMn2 ай бұрын
nahhh the line at 3:38 caught me off guard
@mattc8252 ай бұрын
That woke me up! 😂. I was almost asleep
@No_fear_of_paper_2 ай бұрын
13:10 already did👍
@alexdelsolar70822 ай бұрын
needed this today, perfect timing... thank you so much
@justabby92 ай бұрын
I don’t think you understand how I audibly gasped when I watched this video…. You literally put into words everything I was thinking…. The going into hiding , wanting to tell everyone… you said everything I was doing to a T …. The first video I have found that’s about self improvement and that doesn’t constantly shit on the watcher and tell them that they are nothing and they need to do better in life… thank you for making a video that you talk to someone like they are genuinely lost and need guidance ❤
@Swing0nTh3Spiral2 ай бұрын
Summary: (make sure to watch the video too) 1. Don't tell anyone. Do this for you. 2. Start before you're ready. The feeling of readiness will never come, atleast not without prior experience. So the only way to feel ready is to start before you feel this way. Whatever you feel (tired, insecure, etc) do the thing anyway. This is how you built confidence. 3. Don't hide in the shadows. Insecure people tend to want to improve without anyone seeing the process and the mistakes along the way. Don't do this. Keep living your life, imperfect as you are. 4. Life is like a trainride Every little decision is part of the big trajectory. No need for "big moments" just many little "boring" correct choices. 5. Change your environment, change your behaviour. It is that simple. Make it as easy as possible to do what's good for you. 6. What do you want and why? Figure this out. Know yourself, know the truth. If you think about it, bad behaviour is bad because we delude ourselves and than regret it. Once you put faith in the good path, and start to see some results, you will not want to go back ever again. 7. Pay attention Notice how much better it feels to be who you want to be. To know you're on the right track. It is the most happy life. 8. Rejoice Take time to reflect on your behaviour and what this entails for the future. Don't listen to the little voice saying "why didn't you start earlier" this is completely useless. You had your reasons then, and you learned your lessons. You just weren't ready, but somehow, by not giving up you have become ready, and are living it now. If you can just keep working hard in good faith, what could the years bring? Who could you be? Isn't that more interesting than hypotheticals about your past? "The secret of change, is not fighting the old, but building the new." - Seneca
@GoodasCoffee2 ай бұрын
02:33... Yes!
@MrX9x9x9x92 ай бұрын
The fact u still do AG1 adverts is just crazy.. don't do that to your community dude!
@heth912 ай бұрын
I was just about to write that. All these tips and than AG1? Seriously?
@serendipity-1082 ай бұрын
AG1 tastes like ass
@alexklabo53762 ай бұрын
Then*
@variable_X_Y2 ай бұрын
If we stayed on the video past 5:55 then we failed the assignment 😂
@loose_moose2 ай бұрын
What’s wrong with ag1?
@shimonishmaelАй бұрын
I needed to hear this - very WELL DONE! Appreciate you more than you. I would love to be mentored by you!
@juanjacobo962 ай бұрын
Tbh this is the best self improvement video I’ve ever seen!!!
@RichWithTech2 ай бұрын
13:33 what are you watching step bro?
@matthewd.50342 ай бұрын
Probably Zac films
@Schweitzer9942 ай бұрын
Sounds like Vsauce
@seyidagakerimov14062 ай бұрын
@@Schweitzer994 yeah I watched it, he edited the video so good that the Uranus sounds like Ur anus 😂
@Ravvox2 ай бұрын
Its the latest VSauce video
@AlexandruTanase112 ай бұрын
Best cameo ever
@twgood58822 ай бұрын
7:52 Life hack: Keep your vitamins in your beer fridge.
@ryan998422 ай бұрын
mainstream stuff about self-improvement are so overrated.The best investment you can make is in yourself. Books are the ultimate learning tool. Reading Bruce Thornwood's Unveiling your hidden potential helped me build discipline and separate my mindset from 90% of other people
@SK-zu8pw2 ай бұрын
Scam. Dont buy. 400 likes after 1 hour and no comments.
@ibnefayaz51072 ай бұрын
😢😂@@SK-zu8pw
@deDANIEL116092 ай бұрын
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@sixtynineclock2 ай бұрын
Scam don't buy
@fotopunkt_chАй бұрын
thank you Brother🙏🏼 this was what i needed💪🏼
@DevTheGuitarist2 ай бұрын
I can't tell you how much I really needed to hear this!
@Jimmy_992 ай бұрын
" #1 Tell No One " I just moved to a different country and my family doesnt know where I am. This is great
@AlvinaGachugu2 ай бұрын
All the best! 😊
@joen85292 ай бұрын
I’ve told literally everyone because telling no one wasn’t working.