Who has secrets about themselves that nobody knows about? Also, for anyone looking to learn about what your habits says about you, watch this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j3q2oX-FhZ5-eaM
@ixi95363 жыл бұрын
HI
@Andromeda.x3 жыл бұрын
Early
@afridarafa81733 жыл бұрын
Hi Phych2Go im 6 th viewer.
@888.gibsss3 жыл бұрын
8th
@EbonySerpent9993 жыл бұрын
A lot don't know I'm bisexual. But there's a LOT that they.
@paulrouth59973 жыл бұрын
How a person treats service staff is probably the most revealing for what you need to know about a partner. The type of shoes a person wears as their favorite shoes I think is pretty useful as well.
@kantavekaria70853 жыл бұрын
I agree...!!
@st1059003 жыл бұрын
okay, so what does sandals say about someone?
@catrice12963 жыл бұрын
What if i have (undiagnosed) social anxiety and cant make eye contact and struggle to talk to service staff so all i can do is nod my head for yes shake my head for no.
@Simplifried3 жыл бұрын
@@catrice1296 then use sign language and pretend you’re deaf
@Lily-tj1zo3 жыл бұрын
i think it's important to not judge people by things that they might not have gotten to choose. lots of people have only one or two pairs of shoes- or of actually fitting shoes- that they were lucky enough to come by at all.
@cafecrows3 жыл бұрын
If you check your phone a lot, you may have a mental illness me: *sweats nervously*
@Pansotii3 жыл бұрын
Relatable. We may need to set the bar during the pandemic waaaay higher. And since we are up there once, dont even bother getting it back down
@OrangeDragon043 жыл бұрын
Nah, you just want to be informed. Checking when you're waiting or just bored is normal.
@10_AuRa_103 жыл бұрын
Me: *p a n i k* Tbh I would be surprised if I have a mental illness at this point 😔
@jimmyinnit3 жыл бұрын
Realized I checked my phone more often, and I'm stressed more often, and I'm ruder and less considerate and don't pay attention as much as I used to... Uh oh
@flamingaish3 жыл бұрын
Yes it's so correct
@lohiaanuradha3 жыл бұрын
I feel like an alien who is trying to study humans
@Staarify_3 жыл бұрын
I can very much relate to that
@sprinkle19433 жыл бұрын
Same, Thai is sad
@starquaked3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha I like your brain!!
@mysteriousstranger14583 жыл бұрын
Humans are confusing and weird. I don't like them very much. Some of them are okay, though.
@ThatShadeja3 жыл бұрын
😂 samee
@dynamitae3706 Жыл бұрын
I love she uses "might, may, can" to say that it is not settled that this is who you might be, or what you're actually experiencing.
@FlooferLand Жыл бұрын
yeah, they're all generally pretty accurate tho, with usually only one or two of the tips not being accurate.
@todallenkanaggen5907 Жыл бұрын
in reality that is just a cheap way of claiming anything you want and when it turns out to be wrong you just be like "i only said may"
@MasonTheFurryCat Жыл бұрын
But at the same time it can be super relatable
@geikaci Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@llywrch7116 Жыл бұрын
She's qualifying all of these because further investigation may reveal there are other reasons for these tells. A man might be taught by his parents to always have a firm handshake, which neutralizes that as a clue. Or say you meet someone at a cafe & they are brusque with the waitstaff: it may not be due to personality, but because that person is preoccupied with some important matter. (This would be the case with someone who is brusque with the waitstaff yet leaves a generous tip.) These are all bits of a puzzle, which needs to be assembled & studied before any firm judgment is made. None should be used in isolation.
@french-ishtoast3 жыл бұрын
“Base *solely* on the shoes he or she wears most often” That was a pun and nobody can tell me other wise.
@rere113453 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes it is.
@arianas78663 жыл бұрын
I love you
@teraspeXt3 жыл бұрын
You just made my day
@princess_sonianevermind3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!!
@peanut.buhtur3 жыл бұрын
why didn’t psych2go see thisssss HAHSHS
@yumihs23 жыл бұрын
okay pause THE ART IS SO CUTE ON THIS ONE props to the artist!!!
@AngelDonath3 жыл бұрын
Hella cute 🥺
@LactoseIntollerance3 жыл бұрын
Ya!
@julissadc92273 жыл бұрын
their names Zuzia btw 🤗
@eunahjang3 жыл бұрын
Amazing 🤩
@catttyun3 жыл бұрын
Agreeee
@Djrhplus3 жыл бұрын
Those illustrations are so cute, my heart melts.
@Psych2go3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Zuzia has outdone herself in this video! - Cindy
@grovercleveland96023 жыл бұрын
Do you need to go to the hospital
@berilturkmen3 жыл бұрын
Totally 🥺🥺
@zosiabosia87693 жыл бұрын
Ikr! And I love the big cheeks too! >w
@eileenlester43423 жыл бұрын
Love them! 💜
@devo076 Жыл бұрын
I'm working on my bachelors degree in psychology, and I appreciate the insights this channel has given me overall.
@Unknown-ew8vl Жыл бұрын
Very random, but is psychology hard? Im planning on taking it but im not decided yet.
@todallenkanaggen5907 Жыл бұрын
in that case you will definitely fail your exams
@swimzara9631 Жыл бұрын
hey me too! best of luck!
@lulekomaphumulo808 Жыл бұрын
Me too and I find @medcircle to be very helpful to
@strawburryk1tten Жыл бұрын
Don’t rely on this channel, they can be good but they also have a lot of misinformation in their videos sometimes; In general don’t rely on un reputable sources from the internet
@TheAlana.3 жыл бұрын
The little things: 1.- How often you check your phone 2.- How you treat service staff 3.- What type of shoes you wear 4.- How often you make eye contact 5.- Your handshake 6.- Whether you show up on time or not 7.- You get something for yourself and no one else 8.- You subtly put others down 9.- Where you look when you're drinking out of a cup
@sillygirl22423 жыл бұрын
Thanks!! I like this so I don’t have to watch 😃
@chrisrobin4093 жыл бұрын
Thanks a million
@randomrobloxplayerbasicall29363 жыл бұрын
Some persons are watching this video to avoid doing these little things to keep themselves confidential.
@CaveyMoth3 жыл бұрын
@@randomrobloxplayerbasicall2936 [Makes eye contact with you while drinking some water out of a cup after showing up late to the comments section, wearing comfortable shoes] You're not avoiding doing the little things, are you? That wouldn't be very honest of you. [Gives you a firm handshake and waits patiently for the waiter] Do you want something to eat?
@violetsarin37043 жыл бұрын
I don't get the boots thing because boots are the most comfortable footwear, lol
@vAqeii3 жыл бұрын
Little Thing 1: Digging straight down in Minecraft
@juno29163 жыл бұрын
So youre in homegrown and psych2go?
@souad36863 жыл бұрын
Meee😂😂
@mort133 жыл бұрын
@@souad3686 ARMYYY XDD
@lesliemorganking32833 жыл бұрын
That’s me. :)
@Jords2503 жыл бұрын
If you are one of those people, you are *brain dead*
@adebear79443 жыл бұрын
“Or your handshake” COVID: We don’t do that here
@awakeneddio60123 жыл бұрын
*Me, who is an introvert and had People tell me to please not crush their hand*
@fullofpeace34863 жыл бұрын
I've been fist pounding people ever since COVID to avoid exposure. I feel like it's both uncomfortable for them and me. LOL
@aanler3 жыл бұрын
What's COVID?
@awakeneddio60123 жыл бұрын
@@aanler have you been stuck in the Backrooms the last 2 years?
@aanler3 жыл бұрын
@@awakeneddio6012 No 🤔
@mahamuthafathima12b19 Жыл бұрын
The last sign was a very unique way to analyze someone's personality...I really love these peculiar kind of analysis. It is very entertaining and engaging.
@melanieb86563 жыл бұрын
This woman would be great doing sleep meditations. Such a soothing voice
@gIuri-3 жыл бұрын
Yes. But I think it's best to keep it as a yt Channel.
@Crowattack3 жыл бұрын
Ik right
@shriyapatti86643 жыл бұрын
I feel the same
@ConnorRK-sl9gl3 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: thats not a woman
@horusvii61873 жыл бұрын
Lol I actually fell asleep to these videos the other night
@AmeKikai3 жыл бұрын
I can't remember the last time I shook someone's hand.
@aliuscogitabam3 жыл бұрын
When are they going to make that legal again?
@percolsin3 жыл бұрын
*last time I shaked someone's hand was my dad*
@noemistephanie933 жыл бұрын
Same but I guess it’s more prominent in the business world
@Aelvee3 жыл бұрын
Aah the good old days 🙃🙃
@orangeyakult3 жыл бұрын
corona tingz
@iri0280211 ай бұрын
I really like how soft spoken these videos are. It makes me feel calm. 😊
@GG-pt6uy6 ай бұрын
fr
@RandomPerson-qo9vs3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go: Shoes can determine your personality Me who has two pairs of shoes: *My personality is broke :">*
@l0remipsum9913 жыл бұрын
oof
@JacksterKAS3 жыл бұрын
I just wear whatever shoes my family gives me LMAO
@sarahibrahim86423 жыл бұрын
Bruh my parents are like YoUr ShOeS YoU HaVE NoW StIlL Fit yOu I just need different ones for different times and I want to be clean too.
@ZombinhoGames3 жыл бұрын
hahahahhah lmaooo same
@jalajgoswami17573 жыл бұрын
i wear sleepers bruh
@jackkaczmarski3 жыл бұрын
if anyone disrespects food service workers i will throw hands
@ppurpleduck3 жыл бұрын
looks like you’re throwing hands quite often by the looks of literally everything on the internet
@Lily-tj1zo3 жыл бұрын
it's extremely telling. for the same reasons as how people treat people who can't talk yet &/or of other species is: these are all opportunities to show empathy without the motivation being an expectation of the usual levels of accountability. unfortunately, the best tell is how someone treats someone whom they have good and used to them plus locked into a sense of personal loyalty & a marriage contract with no good prenup.
@seph60123 жыл бұрын
so true btw this reminds me of the time me and my broke friends went to a restaurant and when the bill came to $66 we paid and my friend tipped the waitress his bus fare by accident we tried to give her a lot of tip because how she approached us was really good and she was so sweet and nice. We gave her $12 and it was long after my mum came and stuff in the gc later he said he didn't have his bus fare lol. But we lived in the opposite direction and it was like 8:00 in the night. Eventually my other friend used his card and paid for him.
@Lily-tj1zo3 жыл бұрын
@@seph6012 the struggle is real.
@rednecksmakingmistakes80183 жыл бұрын
And chairs
@inkycrayon54953 жыл бұрын
"Based solely on the shoes he or she wears most often." Ha I get it.. soles
@catherinemartin19573 жыл бұрын
GENIUS
@triciadoescomedy3 жыл бұрын
Lmao yassss
@silvercandra42753 жыл бұрын
My soles are severly damaged... they're cracked and broken... Almost accurate, except that, if the eyes are the window to ones soul, I don't have a soul that could be crakced and broken, because my eyes are black.
@TheEeryTeacher3 жыл бұрын
? that sucked
@djthefox67623 жыл бұрын
haha. I don't have soles
@Nightmare-hq4oq2 жыл бұрын
Psychology is something I never thoguht I would learn but the way you present it just makes it interesting to learn.
@RonMartinJr3 жыл бұрын
Some of these are red flags. If someone I'm with is rude to a service worker I'll call them on it right there. How you treat someone you have power over in life says a LOT about your character.
@amyturner20343 жыл бұрын
My dad is always very polite her formal to people in grocery stores etc., and I have just picked it up at this point. Always saying thank you and have a good day to everyone I come across. Have no idea what that means about me though because really it’s a copied trait.
@tristantheoofer23 жыл бұрын
im a laid back autistic person. idk im sensitive to liek every single fucking sense there is (except time lul bc yes)
@regrettispaghetti25173 жыл бұрын
I have anxiety so when I get my order taken I always end up sounding scared and looking at the table, I hope they don't think I'm being rude D:
@lucky.marshal3 жыл бұрын
@@regrettispaghetti2517 if it makes you feel any better, i have anxiety and i’m a cashier at taco bell, so whenever i can see someone else with anxious tendencies i try to be understanding and be as clear and (hopefully) calming as possible cuz i know the feeling
@-criedjupiter-84643 жыл бұрын
@@lucky.marshal wow u wonderful human bean
@arthurbowling-dyer22243 жыл бұрын
"It's because of my emotionally unavailable father" was way funnier than it should have been to me
@userm1803 жыл бұрын
u alr?
@erisstephens30863 жыл бұрын
me too lol.
@deisygonzalez94803 жыл бұрын
In the video? Do you have the time? 😅
@rofl_copter3 жыл бұрын
@@deisygonzalez9480 2:27
@deisygonzalez94803 жыл бұрын
@@rofl_copter thank you loll that was funny
@ohmyohasparagus4413 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that stares into someone’s soul when they’re trying to understand someone deeply but then just ends up making them uncomfortable or creeping them out?
@covahsmusicvault89533 жыл бұрын
I do that at times too. I also have to be careful when hugging someone so I don't read into their thoughts or things personal to them. It's NOT something I mean to pry into...it just happens if I don't control it.
@ohmyohasparagus4413 жыл бұрын
@@covahsmusicvault8953 same!!
@hamidasultanakhanika30643 жыл бұрын
Oh my god I'd die if anyone did that to me ;--; I never make eye contact with people and it scares me a LOT when they try to do it ToT
@narbeta3613 жыл бұрын
I would be the one that is being stared into my soul and I would really do not like it at all
@rhea76233 жыл бұрын
I stare into souls too! even though I've tried to camouflage it with nodding and hand movements, but sometimes I get caught up and forget to hold back :( then I can see them shifting and looking away XD thank god I'm not the only one
@mojo_joju Жыл бұрын
Bro, I always treat service staff well. I know what it’s like to work hard, so I appreciate and respect everybody. Cashiers, receptionists, wait staff, everybody. On the very rare occasion that I go out to eat with mates, I always ask for things politely, wait patiently, clean up after myself, and if the staff are super cool, I’d leave a good tip (we don’t really tip here in Australia). People appreciate the little things, especially when it seems like some people often forget to treat you with common decency on a regular basis.
@StayArtsy6 ай бұрын
Same. My parents raised me to treat everyone with respect, and as I've grown older and had to do those kinds of jobs, I've just become even more polite ^^
@rutvisanghavi5033 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go is the calmest channel I know, from video animation to colour pallete to the narration, voice, style and even words! Cannot get over it!
@Ryosuke12083 жыл бұрын
It could very well be an unintentional asmr
@翁樂書3 жыл бұрын
@@Ryosuke1208 I treat it as so :)
@wayne69313 жыл бұрын
Her voice helps me calm down. I hope I can find a partner who has a soft voice like her.
@ha_iza11323 жыл бұрын
'If you check your phone a lot, you may have a mental illness' Literally the whole of gen z: shook
@3th00n43 жыл бұрын
I AM *SHOOKETH*
@ratsflow133 жыл бұрын
Most genz already know they arent mentally stable
@ha_iza11323 жыл бұрын
@@ratsflow13 that’s true 🤣
@goodday31853 жыл бұрын
**Cries in checking phone to see if my friends feel like talking to me**
@ha_iza11323 жыл бұрын
@@goodday3185 same 😭
@Cocolicious11113 жыл бұрын
1. How often you check your phone? 2. How you treat service staff? 3. What type of shoes you wear? 4. How often you regularly make eye contact? 5 Your Handshake 6. Whether you show up on time or not (Multitasker / Laid back) 7. If you get something for yourself but not for someone else 8. If you subtly put others down 9. Where you look when you're drinking out of a cup *Cackles in neurodivergentness, iffy eyecontact an fixation on wearing the same attire*
@soniabernatchez74663 жыл бұрын
checking your phone is annoying
@haha_noty3 жыл бұрын
help I relate to this way too much for my comfort level-
@Silencio1253 жыл бұрын
1. Not much. 2. With politeness. I don't like drama. 3. TMI. 4. TMI 5. No idea. 6. TMI 7. I do. 8. Nope! 9. I don't pay attention to small details like this.
@janglass82193 жыл бұрын
Yeah this was a stupid video.
@sharonandmarkwilliams86903 жыл бұрын
@@Silencio125 g
@ctpLynae Жыл бұрын
That last one actually gave me chills, as I am the one who usually drinks with my eyes closed... Though, in strange environments or around new people, I look over my cup because I don't trust anyone around me...
@Muho_is_me7 ай бұрын
This is why she said "might" it doesnt have to be
@treznopresto48783 жыл бұрын
Sum: 1. How often you check your phone 0:50 2. How you treat service staff 1:53 3. What type of shoes you wear 2:34 4. How often you make eye contact 3:40 5. Your handshake 4:12 6. Whether you show up at time or not 4:59 7. You get something for yourself and no one else 5:39 8. You subtly put others down 6:07 9. Where you look when you drinking out of a cup 6:36 Yo sorry for slow typing!
@treznopresto48783 жыл бұрын
Man, i really have a bad time (no reference intended) this end, just one mistake and my parent punish me forever??? What? Huh, sorry for bothering, just thought making this at comment make me feel better, cuz i want to share ot to someone
@karuna66583 жыл бұрын
@@treznopresto4878 dont lose hope yet 🙃 you’ll be good soon and this is happening for a reason. There are people who still love you so you’ll be okay. Take care and just a lil hardwork you can get what you want
@Jamie-im7bl3 жыл бұрын
@@treznopresto4878 don't worry everything gonna be ok maybe not now, not today but someday sonner or later....if you are feeling sad or depressed or want to talk to someone i am ALWAYS here for you....if I can do a little help to you ☺️
@seanmcfadden37123 жыл бұрын
For each point. 1. Most of my friends and family are quite a distance away, and I don't like to seem like I'm avoiding them by not texting back as soon as I can. 2. I try to be friendly and polite to others in general. 3. I wear gumboots around home, especially in the paddocks, because it's safer (especially when the brown snakes are out). I wear comfortable runners if I'm going into town or something. 4. I tend to watch a person's mouth when talking with them, rather than their eyes, unless I know them well. 5. I don't like shaking hands. I find it uncomfortable. 6. I'm very punctual, if I have a say in it. 7. I definitely check with others if I'm grabbing food or beverages if they want something. I also check if there's anything I need to do then or soonish before I start anything that's going to take a while. I also consider surprising others if there's something cheap and I have enough change. 8. I don't think I put others down, but it is possible that I do so accidentally. If it gets pointed out, I will apologise... and then potentially mess it it by trying to spin what I said into something more positive. 9. I close my eyes when drinking out of a cup. What does that tell you about me? I'm curious.
@siddhiraskar54643 жыл бұрын
👍
@yeonie99393 жыл бұрын
me : a calm introvert also me: wears ankle boots *_there is an imposter among us_*
@MemeMeme-qv8bq3 жыл бұрын
You are the imposter...☠️
@philip84983 жыл бұрын
@@MemeMeme-qv8bq throw him out the airlock then.
@stoverboo3 жыл бұрын
My Blundstones are the most comfortable shoes I've ever worn. Interestingly, the person who turned me on to Blundstones is actually pretty aggressive.
@babyyoda94073 жыл бұрын
SUS
@catsandotheranimals2143 жыл бұрын
HEY,,stop talking about me...hahahahahhahah!!!
@crispyquality47273 жыл бұрын
"if you're someone that's more so aggressive, you probably like to wear ankle boots" **aggressively hides my combat boots that look exactly like the illustration**
@Nickcoetzee41153 жыл бұрын
*looks over at my boxing shoes in guilt*
@TheTrueDuchess3 жыл бұрын
*glances over to my combat boots that look the same (they're brand new, so haven't worn them much)*
@击nya3 жыл бұрын
fr tho i have so many
@janegale35343 жыл бұрын
Or you come from a violent childhood. Boots provide safety that shoes and sneakers simply do not.
@TheTrueDuchess3 жыл бұрын
@@janegale3534 Oh...makes sense...
@dwitaasjhgf Жыл бұрын
i appreciate it when you decide to use "less diligent" rather than "lazy" ♥️ It may sound simple but thank you
@sarahschulz79873 жыл бұрын
"someone who only gets takeout for themselves is rude and selfish" me: "or just lives alone" ;_;
@lestranged3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. There is no one else! Am I supposed to buy food for imaginary people?
@imalittlestinker3 жыл бұрын
Right or maybe nobody else eats my vegetarian diet and I'm too poor to buy everyone food anyway 😩
@kattyen47823 жыл бұрын
I believe they meant it in a case where the presence of others are involved. So asking out of courtesy basically. Otherwise, it's obviously not obligatory to ask them to join you. And even if you don't, you are no bad person. Those are just people's expectations playing. And we know how expectations can get 😑
@ScarabD3 жыл бұрын
Yeah that one's weak, tbh. Like yeah it's nice to offer but there's plenty of perfectly good reasons why somebody wouldn't do that? Like, maybe you just have enough money for you and want to treat yourself? Why is that necessarily a bad thing when it's a want, but not a need?
@a.k27413 жыл бұрын
I often buy it for myself, but the fun part is that I'm not rude at all. I may be selfish, but not rude.
@ethandriessen55653 жыл бұрын
Psych2go: shoes can tell a lot about who you are The people with crocs: *nervous sweating* *edit: my KZbin notifications will never financially recover from this
@annetallegrand56563 жыл бұрын
lol
@broadstork3 жыл бұрын
Nah people who wear Crocs just don't give a shit 😂
@G2Chanakya3 жыл бұрын
Crocs show that u r casual. It shows about the financial status and the recent past place u came from. With the real scenario and example...I can tell more.
@owenmerce65303 жыл бұрын
Why should I be sweating
@Lily-tj1zo3 жыл бұрын
You mean the unvain, well- cushioned people?... Why sweat?!.. Crocks show that you care more about being comfortable than looking comfortable! i don't recall whether they seemed easy to dance in without them falling off, though. :/
@BulbasaurBennett3 жыл бұрын
9 little things that reveal alot about you: Shoes: Looks at shoes: Ay ya boy is poor
@minermole1013 жыл бұрын
and I'm basic
@nonbeliever50273 жыл бұрын
You juged me
@ashnotfound78903 жыл бұрын
i cant wear my tie shoes because i cant tie and its hard to find shoes that are slip ons and look good :(
@craftyteebavlogs31233 жыл бұрын
Aja Tipp: dont wear shoes
@00imz3 жыл бұрын
@@ashnotfound7890 don’t you have anyone to teach you? You could maybe watch a tutorial as well,, sorry if you’ve tried either
@WhiskerWhiskey11 ай бұрын
I treat every staff with kindness and passion just because I'm touch-starved and also seek compliments because it's what i lacked as a child.
@RANDOMvideosForYOU7778 ай бұрын
Yoo shut moew up 💀
@WhiskerWhiskey8 ай бұрын
@@RANDOMvideosForYOU777 realest‼️
@Ghostfrog3 жыл бұрын
Weirdly, making eye contact physically hurts me. The relief I feel when I don't have to make eye contact in conversation, is like flopping down in your comfortable bed at the end of a long day.
@squeakycamp2073 жыл бұрын
its the same for me when I look into a camera. For me it feels like I am staring into the sun and my eyes literally start tearing up, even though it isnt very bright.
@darthidiot52933 жыл бұрын
Yeah I have a real problem with eye contact lol
@grape6723 жыл бұрын
I was mentally and physically taught to make eye contact. Now I make eye contact with my shy crush. I just can't not do it.
@Ghostfrog3 жыл бұрын
I'm not really looking for one
@shrutiiyyer27833 жыл бұрын
I know it can be very comfortable but it makes it really hard for the other person to trust.
@shadowstalker85083 жыл бұрын
I believe how people treat an animal like dog or cat, tells a ton about them.
@xxxluckycharmsxxx3 жыл бұрын
ESPECIALLY cats
@creatureoftheeast33313 жыл бұрын
Nazis loved animals and Hitler did as well and was vegetarian. My own father saved orphan animals but almost killed my mother multiple times. I don't know if that is true
@xxxluckycharmsxxx3 жыл бұрын
@@creatureoftheeast3331 Okay maybe not in all instances, and I'm so sorry your father was awful, I hope you and your mother are doing good- and didn't Hitler almost wipe out a whole breed of dogs because one bit him/didn't like him???
@creatureoftheeast33313 жыл бұрын
@@xxxluckycharmsxxx my family escaped him and I don't remember him. And there's some sources that say Hitler was for animal rights but it's hard to believe. I wouldn't be surprised if he did hate a whole breed
@MeemahSN3 жыл бұрын
Cats are epic
@guineapigsnthings3 жыл бұрын
1. How often you check your phone (0:50) 2. How you treat service staff (1:55) 3. What kind of shoes you wear (2:35 4. How often you naturally make eye contact (3:40) 5. Your handshake (4:13) 6. Whether you show up on time or not (5:00) 7. You get something for yourself but no one else (5:40) 8. You subtly put others down (6:07) 9. Where you look when drinking from a cup (6:36)
@taniya36263 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this
@guineapigsnthings3 жыл бұрын
@@taniya3626 No Problem, happy to help! 😃
@iateerensmom21783 жыл бұрын
i wanna say thank you also 🧍🏽♀️ cause thank you so much
@lizycolette53053 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@gabybun3 жыл бұрын
Thanks lol
@orth82 Жыл бұрын
All very good points. The way people treat others who they "don't have to be nice to" says a lot about how they will eventually treat you. Pay attention to how they talk to their parents and siblings as well as their close friends too.
@whyamIaraccoon3 жыл бұрын
I trained myself to maintain the "confident" eye contact and handshake so random people don't realize how miserable I am 😅
@hazellevesque88093 жыл бұрын
Sameeeee
@ricksanchez62203 жыл бұрын
🤣 me to
@saradavidsen15023 жыл бұрын
Im doing great but i do not hold eye contact like at all
@KittySnicker3 жыл бұрын
I naturally hold eye contact but made my handshake firm on purpose because people are like sharks and will smell weakness. I’ve been this way even at my lowest.
@nikitaamien4043 жыл бұрын
Aw man, do you need to talk?
@yuzuru5253 жыл бұрын
"Is your date complaining nonstop about your waitress? Are they losing their patience or temper over every little thing that the waitress does wrong?" *: you're dating Karen*
@stephencoldbear3 жыл бұрын
"Is your date turning a common name into an insult?" : you're dating an ignorant jerk
@weedle47363 жыл бұрын
Karen spotted☝🏼
@twomp56133 жыл бұрын
@@weedle4736 I’m glad you exist
@2008MrsKim3 жыл бұрын
Or he took her to hooters and isn't paying attention to her..LOl
@juliakay74463 жыл бұрын
@@weedle4736 omg you are amazing 😂
@bonecag33 жыл бұрын
“If you wear ankle boots, you’re aggressive” Me, who owns mostly ankle boots but can’t even say anything when a waiter gets my order wrong: *”Something’s not right, I can feel it”*
@georgia36233 жыл бұрын
it means you are probably 12 years old
@bonecag33 жыл бұрын
@@georgia3623 I’m 15 💀💀
@melissa15433 жыл бұрын
I think it can be a sign of protection to wear shoes to the ankle...
@CandidlySubtle3 жыл бұрын
Maybe there's an aggressive side in you that just hasn't come out yet. You probably like to feel powerful, but it hasn't been expressed outwardly YET.
@shadowfox32573 жыл бұрын
oop- same haha
@nolanbennett3464 ай бұрын
These videos are calling me out on my depression. I think that I need to have a stronger bond with my therapist.
@nicoleonfeels3 жыл бұрын
The more you are able to let your true self show, the more you are safe to foster a meaningful connection 🙃
@APufferfish3 жыл бұрын
'if you make eye contact a lot youre likely to be more socially dominant' me who just wants to have a staring contest:
@daviddejesusvegacampos8673 жыл бұрын
That's dominant
@Q.T-T3 жыл бұрын
Staring contest is the OG dominance establisher tho.. Like literally for every species lmfao..
@aur90353 жыл бұрын
Lets goo i love staring contests too! Bet on your pet pufferfish?
@rednecksmakingmistakes80183 жыл бұрын
Just talking about what ya had for breakfast and silently having a battle the the blink
@cheepiignacia603 жыл бұрын
Bucky Barnes is proud of you lmao
@frostyfails69353 жыл бұрын
“If you make a lot of eye contact your usually socially dominant and confident” Me: *looks at everything but the person and their eye*
@silvercandra42753 жыл бұрын
I just focus on their noses.
@itslondonlove35343 жыл бұрын
I just feel weird looking into other people’s eyes so I never make eye contact
@334...43 жыл бұрын
I'm both anxious and I hate people, but I have no problem keeping the eye contact.
@EvanBagwell3 жыл бұрын
I have social anxiety, so this is me 😂
@addy2253 жыл бұрын
SAMME my friend is like I aways make I contact and I’m over here like 😢 I’ll look everywhere but the wyes
@stonecold007 Жыл бұрын
Punctuality is a good way to show consideration for others, rather than letting them sit and wonder what happened to you, if you're going to show up, etc. and wasting their time, especially in a professional type of situation or regarding appointments, as a lackadaisical attitude toward being on time can be indicative of unreliability, regardless of how much stuff you've got going on; at least call and let them know if you're going to be late, which is indicative, again, of consideration for the other person. That tells a lot about you.
@FancyShrimpp3 жыл бұрын
People always say “Don’t bottle up your emotions!” And to them I say, I bottle up my emotions so much that I forget I even HAVE negative emotions and they just come in jokes at my own expense! I am 100% fine because I refuse to acknowledge my mental health because I have so much mental baggage and can’t afford a therapist so therefore I am alright!
@-Yosei-3 жыл бұрын
Then one day I got one missing chicken nugget and all feelings came out no but something like that happened
@FancyShrimpp3 жыл бұрын
@@-Yosei- It’s like one of those infomercials, “Do you want help but can’t afford a therapist? Well sucks to suck! Now go cry over chicky nuggy.”
@-Yosei-3 жыл бұрын
@@FancyShrimpp your name is my favourite drink. That makes me happy😊
@Arlesmon3 жыл бұрын
@@FancyShrimpp therapy should be in the universal healthcare system. As in, funded by the people and used by those who needed it. I would say free, but it's not technically free.
@FancyShrimpp3 жыл бұрын
@@Arlesmon It really should
@annab8373 жыл бұрын
A wise man once said “if you want to know what a person is really like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals”
@balasoundar58703 жыл бұрын
Sirius Black!
@madhatter41293 жыл бұрын
@@nurpeachmusic this was in harry potter, and here the inferiors refers to a house elf with the name of Winky.
@amazinggrapes30459 ай бұрын
@@nurpeachmusicThey mean in social hierarchies dude
@kay9kill3 жыл бұрын
“Sorry can’t talk rn I’m doing hot girl stuff”
@UnchainedMelodie923 жыл бұрын
Lmao that part was so funny!!!
@disgust-d28333 жыл бұрын
Inspired by Megan thee stallion ✨AAaHH✨😜
@YTuser8543 жыл бұрын
ik!!!
@moon.lanasky3 жыл бұрын
I struggle w that
@devil-_-24773 жыл бұрын
Love the censoring
@mishanooman76393 жыл бұрын
can we talk about the fact her voice is so relaxing?
@JillKirchner3 жыл бұрын
It's Jan Brady in the movie "The Brady Bunch". I can't stop hearing her say,"Marsha, Marsha, Marsha" !!!
@brianaparker7742 Жыл бұрын
I love giving myself a mini self analysis while watching these videos, thank you Psych2Go!!
@aliviak20023 жыл бұрын
Time stamps: 0:52 How often you check your phone 1:55 How you treat service staff 2:36 What type of shoes you wear 3:42 How often you make eye contact 4:14 Your handshake 4:59 Whether you’re on time or not 5:44 You get something for yourself and no one else 6:07 You subtly put others down 6:37 Where you look when drinking out of a cup
@DarkPrincessLisana3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your extra work💜
@zanfiobrien20012 жыл бұрын
THANK U
@The_Kini2 жыл бұрын
1:50 Amogus
@peppermintspice58732 жыл бұрын
Ty! I love when people put time stamps
@nusaibasultana49022 жыл бұрын
That's on the description box
@rikaokumura2663 жыл бұрын
Number 7 might also be a person who was never exposed to the culture of getting smth for someone else. Especially if that person is from a consistently abusive family. It's not nice to only paint people negatively because of this one thing they never learned to do
@covahsmusicvault89533 жыл бұрын
So true, @Rika Okumura: I concur on that one. I was adopted into a very macabre family. I'm nothing like them, but as I said in my own lengthy comment....this video seems bias and likely only guinea-pigged almost perfect specimens for this study.
@mrsfigueroa8623 жыл бұрын
I was never really given gifts or had a birthday celebrated so because of that I make sure I’m always giving when possible on regular days and birthdays to family, friends or strangers it’s a learned trait. i want a person to feel like they matter because growing up I felt like I didn’t. And I never want a person to have that feeling.
@iampomegranates3 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t abused but I still feel like that’s a cultural thing. It can be nice to get people things if you have the money and there’s no reason not to, but some people weren’t raised to believe you should always get gifts for others even if you can hardly afford what you get for yourself.
@covahsmusicvault89533 жыл бұрын
@@iampomegranates Nobody should ever feel they must gift to someone. My adoptive mum was very cruel to me yet she "bought" so-called friendship with others her whole life. She even did this with my own children. It got so bad that when she was w/o a job, she refused to visit my kids because she felt she had to bring them a gift each time. When she finally showed up 2 months later, my daughter answered the door and refused to let her in because her mei/nana had NO gift. I wanted to be angry with my daughter, but I realized it was NOT my child's fault...it was her mei's. This is why I deeply wish others to know that your existence in someone's life is priceless on its own. Never let anyone make you feel as if you must pay to be around them or be their friend....such expectations are NOT friendship! I hope this helps anyone that is in doubt of their own self-worth.
@kemblyhp3 жыл бұрын
I was learn to be generous al the time because it is what a “good person has to do”. 2 years ago I went to a Psycologist and told me is good to treat myself and stop doing that as an obligation.
@T_Cup3 жыл бұрын
When you're comfortable with direct eye contact, but avoid it because you know it may make others uncomfortable, what category do you fall into?
@annetallegrand56563 жыл бұрын
People pleaser lol
@ppurpleduck3 жыл бұрын
supa dupa coolerman guy who get the ladie
@Leonid-e5i3 жыл бұрын
How can it make others uncomfortable?
@T_Cup3 жыл бұрын
@@Leonid-e5i In various ways. People may find direct eye contact too personal or intimidating, for example.
@Leonid-e5i3 жыл бұрын
@@T_Cup maybe... Did you feel this way yourself at some point?
@FerralFireworks10 ай бұрын
Specifically for the cup one: I have trained myself (subconsciously) to look around my surroundings when drinking, or to look down but not inside the cup to be aware of what's happening around me. So.. I don't think it really shows my personality very well, but for others, it is probably more accurate. (I am a Looking-inside-the-cup personality)
@falgunisgoyal3 жыл бұрын
Did anyone notice- "Sorry, I can't talk right now I m doing Hot girl Stuff" 😂😂
@feonadabson21093 жыл бұрын
yess, that animation was soo cutee!
@lillymathews95453 жыл бұрын
Yes Eheheh i love ir
@luminethetraveler88223 жыл бұрын
That is my new favorite line abd I will make sure to use it as often as I can lol
@thenewkidontgeblock9033 жыл бұрын
"Did you know checking your phone too much is a sign of mental illness?" *leaves*
@annetallegrand56563 жыл бұрын
lol
@ronniebutman3 жыл бұрын
We're all doomed 🤪
@abagthiari96663 жыл бұрын
@@ronniebutman 😆😆😆
@elshadayalemu75123 жыл бұрын
same lol😂
@ra51663 жыл бұрын
Psych2go: “if you look on the rim/inside of your cup or close your eyes…” Me who looks at the wall: “uhhhhh so no personality?”
@corbinluchon1213 жыл бұрын
I look at the ceiling, wall, or just to the side…
@astralwatcher13 жыл бұрын
Looking at the wall is looking over the rim of the cup, three options were listed.
@tzuyuchou40493 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@KuroiRenge3 жыл бұрын
I always look up at the ceiling, apparently.
@Yuki-jr3ns3 жыл бұрын
Me who change the direction I look everytime : sooo I have all the personality? 0-0
@NevaehEvol9 ай бұрын
the "judging someone based *solely* on their shoes" was such a sly pun
@CjRose-p4f9 ай бұрын
fyi it is spelled NEVER
@김애기-n4i3 жыл бұрын
Waiter: *gives water* Me: Thanks Waiter: *gets plates* Me: Thank you Waiter: *gets food* Me: Thank you very much Waiter: *cleans up food* Me: Thanks so much Waiter: *waves when I'm leaving* Me: Thank you for the great food
@brokeneggshell50413 жыл бұрын
are you trying to prove how great you are
@Karina33333 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo
@moonlit72733 жыл бұрын
ok
@luxia68703 жыл бұрын
Lmao....
@jakieboi02163 жыл бұрын
"Looking over the rim means you can trust others easily" Me: *looking over the cup and watching people because my brain says that if I look away they're gonna steal something or try and murder me*
@heartsmyfaceforever81403 жыл бұрын
This made me laugh hard!
@greatwavefan3973 жыл бұрын
Me: *it looks dark and cozy in there*
@genevaeram3 жыл бұрын
LMAO SAME FR😭🤣🤣
@chocolatesugar-lovage96783 жыл бұрын
Same. I look over the rim when I drink, but I blindly trust others. I only lose trust when they break my heart in some way (talking about my parents).
@BearHawks3 жыл бұрын
You CAN NOT trust strangers around your drinks!?🤦♀️
@Lokis_Tea3 жыл бұрын
“If your hand shake is firm, then you’re most likely an extrovert” Me…an introvert who shakes hands firmly: *Who am I…*
@The_SaneHatter3 жыл бұрын
A human, who does not fit into societies standards of binary personality traits. One is not simply one or the other, but a complex balance between the two.
@Lokis_Tea3 жыл бұрын
@@The_SaneHatter I was makin a joke but alright Shakespeare
@apushman3 жыл бұрын
introvert here and was taught to always give a firm handshake. It shows you are confident and focused on the person you are meeting
@demoulius15293 жыл бұрын
A weak handshake can also be considered rude. Like you dont care enough to give a decent handshake or are un-interested in the people you are meeting.
@Lokis_Tea3 жыл бұрын
@@demoulius1529 thank youuuu that’s exactly right. It’s what I was taught to do so like- ye that’s right
@ava_swans9 ай бұрын
Literally my biggest pet peeve is people who mistreat service staff like unless they literally are NOT doing their job there is no need to be disrespectful towards them.
@moonhajung67423 жыл бұрын
me: wears running shoes everywhere not because of taste, but because in case there's a disaster or villain attack I could run fast. 😤👍
@jackrobertson68083 жыл бұрын
Somebody get this man a Nobel Prize in ingenuity
@firdoussiddiqui29603 жыл бұрын
I feel like giving u an oscar 😂😂
@speaktruth99893 жыл бұрын
Omg get out of my head that’s exactly me
@doctorsincebirth50723 жыл бұрын
Bruh you live in the future
@DhrithionVocals3 жыл бұрын
I only have 1 pair of shoes lmao so I wear that every time
@Relle.3 жыл бұрын
Mind blown when she explained people who wear uncomfortable shoes. I definitely internalize a lot of pain
@vivalachoba3 жыл бұрын
Me: those heels go well with my dress My feet: bleeding from everywhere My internalized self loathing: that's the spirit!
@msmayalanski3 жыл бұрын
That one was what really got me as well but it makes so much sense when you think about it
@aaaa-oc7en3 жыл бұрын
🌸THIS ART STYLE IS SO CUUUUUTTTEEE🌸 Edit: This channel always makes me feel better about myself :D
@Psych2go3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback! Glad you like the animation! And happy to know that our videos make you feel better :D
@7Write4This9Heart7 Жыл бұрын
As someone who is service staff, I really appreciate the second point!
@YourFavouriteCheeto3 жыл бұрын
''the amount of eye contact you make'' me with autism: well about that-
@covahsmusicvault89533 жыл бұрын
@Galatic Luna: I was thinking about that too. My son's autistic and I've raised foster kids over the decades w/special needs too. I suggest that you continue to do what works best for you. People with autism are amazing individuals that quite honestly reside in a much more accepting realm than the one we're all expected to deal with here.
@gabimurray59553 жыл бұрын
Same I dont even actually really look at people when I talk to them. Maybe that's why i never notice haircuts or remember faces
@Staarify_3 жыл бұрын
I grew up with 5 autistic siblings so I COMPLETELY understand
@covahsmusicvault89533 жыл бұрын
@@Staarify_ I bet you do. Bless you & that informative comment.
@GirYlla3 жыл бұрын
Same with ADHD!! I can't focus on the conversation if I keep eye contact ahahah
@justmemyselfandmymultiplep41613 жыл бұрын
"How often you make eye contact." Me, who looks people in the eyes when they're talking, and also doesn't make eye contact: "Yes, but also no."
@kidcaptainwembri3 жыл бұрын
Omg same! I look people in the eyes when they're talking to me, to show I'm listening, but I avoid eye contact when I'm talking bc I'm also incredibly awkward and hate attention lmao
@justmemyselfandmymultiplep41613 жыл бұрын
@@kidcaptainwembri I am the exact same way.
@ohhowkeni87093 жыл бұрын
@@kidcaptainwembri I’m the same way!!! I also just can’t process my thoughts and words while making eye contact when talking to someone 😅
@Notintoit123 жыл бұрын
Duh...du. dissociation..? 😁
@classicalsquire2016 Жыл бұрын
I LOVED the thing about the cup, I find I look all the 3 places mentioned. AND that these are indicate of my mood. But most commonly I tend to look inside, but usually outside and then inside. First to see if anyone is watching me drink and second to see how much remains in the cup.
@n1fffan3 жыл бұрын
"if you're someone who is more so aggressive, you probably like to wear ankle boots" I almost feel attacked with my boots now lol (I wear my boots to better support my ankles, and much prefer to avoid all conflict when possible) that being said, it is definitely an interesting concept to use such things to guess a person's personality
@coffeelizard74763 жыл бұрын
I wear ankle boots too, Combat boots are my favorite, And yet I'm known for being sweet
@ionageman3 жыл бұрын
I hate to think I’m aggressive .. but I don’t really like people , I find them rude and abrasive . I wear king gee work boots for the ankle support .
@prisle3 жыл бұрын
@@coffeelizard7476 sweet ankle boots wearers from all over the world UNITE ( ⌯ᵘ ᵕ ᵘ ⌯)
@GoroAkechi_Real3 жыл бұрын
I’m sort of in between? My favorite pair of boots are my black ankle boots because they look nice with my fishnets/skirt, and while I have more of an aggressive personality I also prefer to avoid conflict because it’s super stressful.
@quiksilver00003 жыл бұрын
Subconsciously the elevated height in heels and boots makes one more confident and therefore, can come across as more aggressive than someone with flip flops...
@RodderickPrinceParker3 жыл бұрын
It’s a pleasure to finally make this announcement to a community who understands: I look in my cup. Thank you.
@souley27523 жыл бұрын
thank you, for some reason I needed to read this today :D I do too!
@elultimo1023 жыл бұрын
We're the first to see the grounds, stray hair, or dead bug in our drinks----LOL (It happens).
@jeanie11373 жыл бұрын
It's like a warm hug for the soul. Knowing i'm not the only one.😂
@RodderickPrinceParker3 жыл бұрын
@@elultimo102 Don’t remind me!
@RodderickPrinceParker3 жыл бұрын
@@jeanie1137 lol we’re not alone
@tejaswinibanubakode51353 жыл бұрын
I feel so embarrassed when I make a confident handshake and the other person's handshake feels like they don't want to touch you like I know some people don't like to handshake but come on now people!
@firerose21643 жыл бұрын
corona😅
@かずみ-k1i3 жыл бұрын
Hyperhidrosis :(
@tejaswinibanubakode51353 жыл бұрын
@@firerose2164 😅
@brokeneggshell50413 жыл бұрын
I'm kind of a flimsy handshaker but my weak handshake has nothing to do with the person I'm shaking hands with, don't worry
@kuyaleinad41953 жыл бұрын
To be fair, it could also be because I didn’t expect a handshake 😂 I normally only expect it in formal meetings and were surprised some people do it when they first meet you...
@rail7646 Жыл бұрын
drinking from a cup with closed eyes just means you focus on the joy of the drink and are highly aware while this video corelates it instantly to negative traits, oh well it's not that obvious what all these things mean, but I was impressed about you saying how you treat the waitress, thats really an excellence thing to keep an eye on
@ALICE-wx7eq3 жыл бұрын
1:51 among us has been so burned into my brain that seeing the word sus was like a jumpscare
@amieamie62683 жыл бұрын
I think the shoes thing is way more complicated than so. It's also a generational and trend based thing. Also, ankleboots can't just be about agressivness, right? I feel like that's more about expressivness and an individual who are either mentally very stong or is very much not, but hides behind an external frame that makes them look as if they are a strong individual.
@eliclinton91263 жыл бұрын
You have to be a special kind of person to wear ankleboots on a daily basis.
@juliajohnson94913 жыл бұрын
Or... You just want the ankle support when walking on ice.
@alocacoc19503 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree. I don't the shoes one really works for me. I wear shoes based on necessity. I wear a couple different heals for work because I work cooperate or I'll wear Tom's for work for casual days. But for winter months I wear a couple pairs of ankle boots for work bc their professional but warm. I wear running shoes or hiking boots more often than not for dirty stuff like hiking, talking my dog to the dog park, working in the garden etc. I wear flip flops for walking out the house real quick. And lastly I wear slippers in the house no matter matter time of year.
@holywaterslurp10873 жыл бұрын
Honestly, i only use ankle boots and higher boots bc other shoes just can't be combinated well with my outfit
@wert_.3 жыл бұрын
i am aggresive and i have ankle boots so i guess the aggresive thing checks out for me
@mirabellewang3 жыл бұрын
3 things: 1. These points are so interesting to learn more about others and the self 2. Absolutely LOVE the art and colour palette of this video 3. The narrator has such a calm nice voice!
@GOPGonzo2 жыл бұрын
I had to laugh on the shoe one. From my own experience wearing hiking boots can mean you are aggressive, or that you destroyed your ankle back in school and need the support to avoid limping.
@denzl13973 жыл бұрын
Psych2go: how often you check your phone. Me: but I don’t have a phone
@akanshakapoor32483 жыл бұрын
Same i use my mom phone to watch KZbin videos
@bethyeary89953 жыл бұрын
I have a phone, but most of the time I can't find it.
@akanshakapoor32483 жыл бұрын
@@bethyeary8995 ohhh whenever you can't find a phone take somebody else phone call yourself, and then you will find your phone by your ringtone ;)
@bethyeary89953 жыл бұрын
@@akanshakapoor3248 I can never remember my number.
@akanshakapoor32483 жыл бұрын
@@bethyeary8995 oh 😂
@amfro42763 жыл бұрын
A few years ago i was reading a comic and the main character would look at people's shoes to determine what type of person they were as they were too shy to actually get to know someone. As someone who's also really shy and introverted, i can confirm that its very useful and ive been doing it ever since.
@amfro42762 жыл бұрын
@@sridhanyakomaravolu3819 sadly I don't remember, it was pretty long ago. Wish I did tho
@hoimeh9354 Жыл бұрын
Was it called Wonder?
@TinTin-ir8wx Жыл бұрын
One of my relative female said in my high school time she look at her male frnds, classmates shoes whenever they try .. n if they r righteous. Same unknown guys , known guys, strangers fr same .. I noticed guys who wear that type shoes to prove good in real shits I hated so I'm biased also mayb sorry.. but shoes , behaviour wth servce staff etc can't prove who is what.. we all r into civilization n hygiene, neat clean, good presentation, good image establishment, educated proved etc in religion to outer world rules orders must do issues. Also mood, mental condition, past life to current life, likings dislikings, financial status, willing to give efforts or no need effrts uselss nothing related based, physcl energy, dfrnt way presentation issues thinking based simple or nicely or heavy etc based, environmental or situation or own condition otthr ppls condition based, plans , excitement or no excitement based or as usual simply based, personal life d expectations n current overall based , importance level based, using types based..etc does matter fr ppl..
@C0PP3R. Жыл бұрын
Can I ask how it works??
@noorthekool21193 жыл бұрын
“ sorry I can’t talk I’m doing hot girl stuff” LMAOOOO
@mojo_joju Жыл бұрын
I cannot stand people who mistreat service staff. I was at a restaurant with a buddy a few weeks ago, and witnessed a waitress dealing with an absolutely arrogant customer. After we finished our meal, i slipped her an extra $20, told her I'm sorry she had to deal with that, and that she was doing a great job. I hope she's having a better day today.
@SnowpointSilver2 жыл бұрын
I love Amanda’s voice :///) she is so good at sounding like she’s talking to you like a friend. Her voice is up there with corpse and lily with soothing voices.
@vir.b_10 Жыл бұрын
she sounds how the lofi girl looks
@SCARLETTE. Жыл бұрын
@@vir.b_10 lmao
@hellokittyl8vr Жыл бұрын
Idk abt u but my friends do NOT like EVER have a nice calming voice 😂
@pokyttruuruynn537511 ай бұрын
Ahmen 🥰🥰🥰
@pokyttruuruynn537511 ай бұрын
Makes me melt honestly I’m so enthralled
@GabrielleTollerson3 жыл бұрын
"people who struggle with mental health are more likely to intensively use their smartphone as a form of therapy".. I can confirm that,I do it daily,it's called escapism. I suffer serious depression on a daily basis,my family won't talk to me,nir do they care about me,and I don't have any friends,so I just play a ton of games or browse pinterest to numb the pain of reality.
@markfennell11673 жыл бұрын
Great comment. And before cell phones we have this thing called “Books” Also “Thinking”. Forms of escapism I used my entire life
@abigailmushi27513 жыл бұрын
Lol I used to read then my dad forbid me from reading fiction
@iksebgaming19613 жыл бұрын
@@markfennell1167 Great comment And before "books" were a thing we had scrools Also going outside Things that ALWAYS People did
@reginyra84013 жыл бұрын
@@abigailmushi2751 OH. My parents grounded me from reading, I feel that. To spite them, I read ahead in my literature class. lol
@Gahahaaa2 жыл бұрын
Also remember with the cup thing, the handshake thing, and the eye contact thing, they're dependent on circumstance and upbringing. With eye contact and handshakes, some people are still taught to make eye contact as a sign of respect, and to have a firm handshake, because first impressions and stuff. Because of this, firm handshakes and more eye contact are more common in business settings. A person will also make more eye contact with someone whose company they enjoy, even if they're introverted. This also applies for the drink thing. If you're having a conversation with someone, they're more likely to look at you over the rim of their cup while taking a drink. I've done this a lot by accident with people I liked or whom I wanted to like me, but when I'm alone I look down at the drink with my eyes half-closed. Also remember, when the video lady mentioned looking over the rim as a sign of awareness: it might be that the person is keeping an eye out for someone/something, or they might be on edge. Be sure to look for other body language signs, such as the direction the person is leaning/facing, tense shoulders, or narrowed eyes in order to get the whole picture.
@Lucian_Media Жыл бұрын
Yes. Thinking it is a bit culturally skewed.
@ChaosEnthusiast Жыл бұрын
me who struggles with eye contact and being on time bcus im neurodivergent:
@nurfarida20045 ай бұрын
Checking phone, shaking hands, shoes. I feel more and more calm. Because i realize that i'm getting understand more. Thanks❤
@thestupidgenius68663 жыл бұрын
Me who wears ankle boots, but is scared of everything, has never gotten into a fight, and wouldn’t be able to hurt a fly 👁👄👁 Edit: Guys pls stop arguing and complaining about it. I wear ankle boots because their comfortable, I like the way they look, and they go well with my outfits. And also I don’t just wear ankle boots. I wear sneakers too. I never rly wear sandals or heels unless I have to be if you do good for you! They look great I’m just clumsy and I prefer more comfortable and casual stuff. It’s a personal preference. People can wear whatever they want. We all have different opinions. Feel free to comment about what you wear and why but pls don’t be rude thx!
@cant_escape_3 жыл бұрын
ohh same with mee..🤭 don't know if wearing ankle boots are that obvious to be an aggressive one, as i don't relate to it much, i'm always just the only quite and cold person among most of the people that i know and have never fought with anybody aggressively. (not even my siblings or friends) 😕
@thestupidgenius68663 жыл бұрын
@@cant_escape_ Sameeee I mean I’ll admit I am into more darker styles of clothes and I enjoy things like horror and thriller movies, but I’m not exactly an aggressive person. I can typically come of as cold and kinda standoffish because of my rbf and how quiet I am as well as my clothes and terrible communication skills.
@nadiamaula90183 жыл бұрын
Agressive can't only be interpreted that way, though
@thestupidgenius68663 жыл бұрын
@@nadiamaula9018 I know but I simply wasn’t sure how to word it for other things
@valeriataylor83373 жыл бұрын
Maybe you wear them to hide your shyness, trying to look fierce
@acynicalasian2 жыл бұрын
Oh, I guess the extroverted introvert label really does kinda fit for me. I'd consider myself an introvert, but off the top of my head, the eye contact, handshake, and cup drinking things really resonate with me, although the eye contact and handshake things are partly due to being raised to be polite in the traditional Korean sense.
@Memez_Goalpost2 жыл бұрын
I think the term would be ambivert, maybe.
@Strix3582 жыл бұрын
@@Memez_Goalpost Correct 👍
@WandaMaximoff1998 Жыл бұрын
I grew up homeschooled, so I was taught similarly (didn’t have a lot of friends so my dad would teach me handshakes and such), and consider myself an extremely introverted extrovert lol Edit: I’ve since learned that introversion/extroversion doesn’t correlate with social skills or even the desire for a social life, but correlates with how energized you feel around people. I’m definitely an extrovert, and I have social skills but I’m painfully awkward 😂
@caroletorres14872 жыл бұрын
You are a god-sent. My son is struggling with anxiety and depression but your videos are helping him much. May God bless you for your efforts.
@Tigress9074 ай бұрын
5:39 nooo now I feel so bad 😭 I always forget to get stuff for other people or I just don’t think of it. But I just straight up forget. If I remember, I get something for them.
@psudodrake3 жыл бұрын
#4: Eye Contact Autism - Those who are Autistic, even high-functioning Autists, find it VERY difficult to look even loved ones and friends in the eye. We fear it. Meeting someone in the eye means making a connection of a sort that we find very uncomfortable, even abrasive. Sociopaths - These people don't give an F. You know how someone says if a person blinks a lot they're lying? Or if someone stares at you too intently, they're lying? If you want to know if someone across the room is watching you, fake a yawn, and if they yawn, they're watching you? These tricks do not work on a Sociopath.
@vincem37483 жыл бұрын
Yep, I'm surprised the video didn't relate eye contact with ASD
@ShadowSkyX3 жыл бұрын
There's also social yawning. One person does it and many follow suit without entirely realizing it.
@notmyrealname43633 жыл бұрын
Autistic person here to say that the system of functioning labels are (finally) becoming out of date due to it being from a eugenics view of autism, as well as not actually being sufficient in describing the experiances of autistic people. Yay for us! Some people when hearing this default back to calling 'high-functioning' autistic people as having 'Aspergers syndrome' but I strongly discourage that; calling on the name of the nazi scientist who, having experimented on us, decided to name us after him (no he wasn't even autistic himself) ain't a good look. My recommendation would be to say that "even those on the spectrum who take to communicating through social interaction very effectively" since that's the specific trait you're talking about. Hope this helped! :)
@notmyrealname43633 жыл бұрын
@Delta Tha Fella I sorry I came across that way. My meaning was that it shouldn't be something that other autistic or allistic people should label us as, it's something for us to decide for ourselves and to say that as an individual you are ok with that label, but that it shouldn't be assumed that someone is comfortable with that. There is definitely a culture and a community that we as autistic people have and aspie has been a part of that. I think that should stand on its own separate from Asperger. It's something that belongs to members of the autistic community that is about #actuallyautistic people and not some N*zi. It has it's terrible origins, but it's more so about community, than said origins or just another way of saying aspergers. My intention wasn't to imply that it's wrong or bad, only that it's wrong to apply it to people in the same way as aspergers syndrome (outdated terminology), but instead as something that some members of our community find comfort in- beyond any reference to specific diagnostic terms used at any given time.
@akiamini40063 жыл бұрын
Interesting
@fernandomelgar8923 жыл бұрын
The shoe bit is clever as hell. I used to wildly insecure, in a constant state of internalized pain. I wore dress shoes all the time. They were relatively uncomfortable, but I did not want to wear anything else. It's cool because as I got older I put away many of my dress shoes, and currently wear a pair of shoes that are very comfortable. I really never thought of that until now.
@setsumaki83073 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if this is normal but the drinking one was scarily accurate
@Gabrhil Жыл бұрын
I'm not that aggressive, I just ride a motorcycle.
@CaffeineSuki3 жыл бұрын
U can tell something about them "SOLELY" on the shoes they wear😏
@amelia15073 жыл бұрын
Aaah, cheesy pun alert! 🤣
@oreneile_3 жыл бұрын
dum dum tsiii ! 🥁
@itsyaboiwan64163 жыл бұрын
i wear sandals becoz its common in malaysia
@takemeseriouslynt3 жыл бұрын
Honestly this is true this tell everything. Worn out, clean, new, rare, old, fitted, colours,...
@swatisharma52983 жыл бұрын
Yep like how big hole they have in there pockets 🤣 like i doo 😣 Wearing old shoes over and over again for comfort And new once for just show 😎
@XDHelloViidaXD3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been through a lot and tend to be harsh on myself when things aren’t “perfect”. These little videos help me to understand me a bit better and realize how cute I can be. Took a lot of pain to get to this point in my life but I really do love myself for pushing through ✨God bless you all🌻
@mountaindewred90853 жыл бұрын
And then here come out parents taking away our phones not knowing that the phone is what keeps us from going insane and having a mental breakdown
@-criedjupiter-84643 жыл бұрын
And during the pandemic?! 😔😭
@mariamohsin23763 жыл бұрын
It's so true when I don't have my phone i cry myself to sleep or atleast walk or exercise so To get myself tired .
@mira3943 жыл бұрын
Maybe that's a good thing, bc it aint good if your mental health is directly linked to your phone
@zagnose3 жыл бұрын
@@mira394 you're right, if you've reached a point where only your phone can comfort you then it should be time to take a break and find something else that can help you..
@mousytaxidermy73793 жыл бұрын
But also you need to talk to your friends to get over mental health problems
@Innamoramento98 ай бұрын
Being rude to a server = instant turnoff. Unless they are overtly disrespectful to the customers or clearly on drugs while working, treat them with respect.