Is it normal to talk to yourself?

[@ZOCCOK]

When I am alone, I like to act like a psychiatrist who is giving advice to myself. As a psychiatrist, I am very terrified of how unstable my only client is.

[@jy6512]

This. This is true

[@Blankult]

It's funny but i think it helps a lot. I discovered many things about myself by doing that, and in some cases i managed to get better when i, as a psychiatrist, found the root of the problem.

[@freethepeople6437]

Don't know why,but this made me laugh 😂😂.

[@ninachand2075]

Feel this on another level

[@aired-downdisconnected4125]

"Did you just refer to yourself as the 3rd person ?" 😉

[@Kenny_F91]

Remember: if you talk to yourself outloud people think you're crazy. But talk to yourself on camera, you can be a youtuber.

[@nonyabizness.original]

just hold ypur phone to your ear and you're fine.

[@kaywee4200]

😂😂😂

[@lestranged]

just put an earphone in and everyone thinks you are on the phone. which for some reason is acceptable in public.

[@wongchunhua9914]

I think, talking to yourself out loud is the equivalent of screaming at someone when taking with them

[@oldcowbb]

streamer

[@inx0rbit]

It feels good to know that you're normal, doing a complete normal thing which people sadly perceive wrong.

[@solsystem1342]

​@@perfectogaming5240 You ok pal? If people trained you to not self talk it's ok to let those emotions out

[@halocraze9839]

​@@perfectogaming5240 cringe

[@perfectogaming5240]

@@halocraze9839 yes you are 👍😎

[@pcgaming7680]

@@perfectogaming5240 probably worst of all the trolls i've seen today

[@perfectogaming5240]

@@pcgaming7680 keep crying boy 👍😎

[@austindurham5736]

Sometimes, the best conversations are the ones I've had with myself.

[@chasehedges6775]

THIS

[@fireman624]

This

[@Jainilnagar-wu8wg]

THiS

[@aarone9000]

At least you won't be interrupted.

[@JeroldBoateng]

Realist of the real

[@charliemaybe]

I can talk to my self for an hour straight just pacing around a room.

[@MrChipathenIsMyDoggo]

Whenever I’m talking to myself it’s less about actually talking to myself and more like I’m making a KZbin video except it’s just in my head and I’m just speaking it out loud 😆😆😆

[@Nominal_GDP]

​@@MrChipathenIsMyDoggo Down to watch that youtube video

[@MrChipathenIsMyDoggo]

@@Nominal_GDP 😄😆

[@jasminehaliza4886]

Meeee toooo hahaha

[@chandrahasreddy1729]

​@@MrChipathenIsMyDoggo why not make one video

[@acardinalconsideration824]

I’m convinced that if most people took the time to regularly have genuine, thorough conversations with themselves, this world would be a *far* better place.

[@jacobcampos2407]

👌🏼

[@darthwater999]

Are you saying that other people don't usually speak to themselves?

[@nana00037]

@@darthwater999 generally I think we tend to not want to think about certain things such as little mistakes that we make and refuse to give it its proper time of thought, and sometimes we may ignore topics that we would be better off thinking about deeply as it can help interacting with others better

[@darthwater999]

@@nana00037 and what you think when you're alone doing nothing?

[@bugjams]

Self-reflection in general would help a lot of people. Sadly I'd bet the majority of people don't really reach that point. Why think when you can keep consuming drugs and alcohol and media to fill the hole? Introspection and philosophy are boring to many. I'm not even saying anyone has to be on hippy levels of meditation or anything. But that's how people react when you tell them that spending some time lost in thought could be good for them. Maybe more people would consider why money is so important, or ask themselves why they need the newest, shiniest cars or appliances when what they have gets the job done. Or they might stop to consider their place in the universe and why we shouldn't be wasteful. But alas, that's too deep for most people. Why think about any of that, when there's a new Marvel movie out... sigh.

[@sindhusingh7480]

self talk provides calmness to me.... it's like telling myself about my own problems finding solution and applauding for myself when no-one else do✨

[@ralphcorneliuscastro]

you are absolutely right

[@chetan.sharan]

@@sindhusingh7480 i am just glad I am not the only one crazy here😀

[@sammedbanu8962]

here i tought i only had this syndrome

[@sindhusingh7480]

@@perfectogaming5240 Thankyou for your concern but i don't Need your kind words!

[@sindhusingh7480]

@@chetan.sharan Watch the full video.. it's completely normal

[@nairasalah7266]

I never get bored of talking to myself, even though if someone were to caught me talking to myself I’d be embarrassed, but the lesson taught from this video is that it’s completely normal and I should embrace it

[@alieldremy]

Throughout my early teenage years i was caught self talking and it was just playful comments from my sister (she teased me alot..still does) but it made me really embarrassed and i thought something was wrong w me, silly of me..teenage years were weird.

[@nairasalah7266]

@@alieldremy I used to catch my cousin talking to himself and since having conversations with yourself out load is socially frowned upon and regarded as ‘weird’ that even though I had the same exact experience as his, every time I caught him ‘doing it’ I was embarrassed of even acknowledging it or commenting about it. As if I acted like nothing happened, we will save both of us the embarrassment! I’m learning now how to embrace it and be brave enough to be curious about whatever coping mechanisms I chose to find peace.. and talking to one’s self is something I’ll be curious about having a conversation about.

[@alieldremy]

@@nairasalah7266 never really had such a conversation actually, seems really interesting..you know what the weird thing is? I still feel like this is not appropriate to talk about openly, it just doesnt make sense to me to talk about it w other people, makes me feel like a weirdo still. Cant get over this feeling

[@darknessincarnate138]

Same bro

[@kavya2050]

Hey I talk to myself loudly like if I am in stress or nervous I just say myself by my own name that it's fine everything is gonna be alright no need to worry just when I am alone I do so . And if I am in imaginary conversation when I act like any person or a celebrity I say things and I imagine that that person is talking and I can hear there voice inside my head . And also when I am reading my friend chats when i read i somewhat feel their voice in head not surely about this but maybe .It's normal ?

[@SKoGoMoney]

I’ll tell you what, my uncle used to always talk out loud and play out potential scenarios, thinking ahead. I once asked him (as a kid) “why do you talk to yourself?” His reply was genius… “Because it’s the only way to have an intelligent conversation!” I’ve used that line ever since! 😂

[@oz_jones]

Cheeky. I hope your uncle is doing well!

[@reazulzannah738]

A great response!

[@thereviewer5562]

i am going to steal it

[@0ptimal]

Great stuff.

[@LivingMyBestLifeIAm]

It’s the absolute truth lol

[@rohanmohan5125]

Ok Let's Check If I'm Normal Or Mentally Ill.

[@roshnisen3917]

This is an example of self talk

[@neicinvarsanonunicinyasa6065]

III

[@silvergamer7250]

Yep let’s do it

[@irembusrahondoroglu]

My thoughts 😂😂😂

[@silvergamer7250]

Nice I’m normal, wait no I don’t like being normal

[@divyaravichandran8930]

Talking with myself make me so relieved from stress and I am like my own best friend whom I can share anything without any limits

[@mrcolemans4504]

Agree love this comment ❤

[@strawberryslushy]

This! I just find a sense of trust that I can’t find with others

[@Racc-Kun_YT]

Its honestly about the only way I can process things. Just a different effect when you say something out loud instead of thinking it to yourself.

[@houssembenabdallah6599]

I have been caught countless times talking to myself (with moving hands) and I can't describe enough the weird looks I get and how embarrassing it was. So thank you TED-ED for getting in this topic. It's refreshing to know nothing wrong with that. Besides managing emotions and feelings, expressing ideas and thoughts to myself is better expressing it to another person who can laugh or take advantage of it. Also, talking to self help with learning new language. Only one problem is you don't get feedback.

[@LittleDogTobi]

Yes! I wish it weren't so stigmatized.

[@eeaotly]

Just put on a headset and you'll be covered.

[@clairee4939]

Interesting. I grew up first used BSL and family told me I was always “thinking aloud” in sign language. Sometimes I still do that home but in public only when I am thinking in English and don’t remember something 😊

[@acardinalconsideration824]

100%

[@habibanasir4364]

Exact same happens with me

[@joelkirkpatrick5688]

"The way you treat [people] is what they become" Such a good quote. How you treat people matters immensely.

[@ksask2675]

Including yourself!

[@Agent.J]

but thats not the reality

[@floof6896]

​@@Agent.J it is. have you tried checking half of the deadly dictators, serial killers, and ruthless criminals? some are rotten to the core, and many grew up in harsh environments which influenced what they became in the future.

[@giorgospapoutsakis5271]

​@@Agent.J your answer is really ironic according to that quote

[@The_Tormented_One]

The first thing that came into my mind after seeing it was that this quote has a lot of meme potential lmao

[@no_enerji]

When I was younger, I was mostly introverted and couldn’t bring myself to talk to other kids, so whenever I was stuck with myself like on the school playground or alone at home I would talk to myself as I did things. Eventually, it would evolve over time to the point that my conversations with myself are so close to having one with someone else, my parents have confronted me multiple times to check if I’m actually talking to someone. I’m pretty sure they think I’m crazy. Update: I had a therapy session with myself. I think I agree with my parents. (it helped???)

[@midnightRain5175]

same!!

[@s.s.8491]

Me fr

[@no_one_watches5424]

My mom has caught me having conversations with myself many times and she always asks who I'm talking too😂😂 OMGG THX FOR THE LIKESS💯✨🤗

[@juliant3126]

@@no_one_watches5424 this happens to me too 😅

[@iche9373]

„Cause maybe I am crazy.“ - Beyoncé

[@marshallnews4197.]

Each moment, a conversation is going in my mind. Even when I am talking to a real person, I think, guess and discuss the responses of the other person with my own self-consciousness.

[@Alvgal]

Regarding negative self talk, there's this phrase that has helped me so much: "you would never talk to your friend like that, so don't do that to yourself. You're your best friend, treat yourself accordingly". We are so compassionate and caring and loving with those around us but forget to act that way with ourselves

[@baileyundhailey_]

That is our natural behaviours

[@illkhanate9793]

i just say something funny to myself

[@Katie-61r2]

You are right,we should be care about our own too.

[@intheshell35ify]

I will not be an apologist for my bad behavior.

[@Orwic1]

This is certainly true.

[@ann4714]

Distanced self-talk has honestly helped me through a lot, with my anxiety and struggles. I'm not really much of a talker with friends and family when it comes to my problems, but talking to myself in the mirror before going to bed has regulated my emotions throughout the years. i guess that's the irony that they call "i am my own personal therapist"

[@Emanuele246gi]

​@BradynLee That's no true, I also was in this position but it takes time to find someone who wants to, there are also professions for that ;)

[@SpecterNeverSpectator]

​@@Emanuele246gi if I hire someone to listen to me I'd feel even worse I think, like when someone asks "are you okay" when you are, you begin to question yourself, you start thinking "why would someone doubt if I am okay, am I not? Is it not clear that I am? I thought I was?" or that's what I imagine could happen.

[@Emanuele246gi]

@@SpecterNeverSpectator Well those are just your thoughts, it doesn't work like that, luckily. There is nothing wrong when someone genuinely asks you that question :)

[@SpecterNeverSpectator]

@@Emanuele246gi of course, just makes you think, like a nocebo effect, even if they have good intentions, it subtly implies that I should be struggling

[@Spine223]

AYEEEEE!! lets go. it works!

[@Nah_no_cap]

Its true when you realize you only have yourself so you start to look out for yourself and give yourself advice and motivating speeches. Yes i do that and trust me it helps. As an introvert, self talk is a norm to me because I've been doing it since i was a child and after growing up i engage myself in positive self talk and its really comforting sometimes

[@baileyundhailey_]

Everyone has got self talking

[@priyanshisharma5556]

Absolutely

[@kreosootti]

Does anyone else also get like super repetitive when talking to themselves? Like I might get caught up into few sentences or a paragraph and just repeat them over and over and over again until they just come out right or something.

[@ralphcorneliuscastro]

Am I the only one who feels comfortable speaking English fluently when I talk to myself only without someone noticing me inside the house? I, as a Filipino, do self-talk all the time that became from my habit to my normal way of living life because (despite English was the first language my parents and the media and books taught me) I also felt very lonely without friends to talk to about things we can relate to each other because they live far away or any other circumstances; as a result, I tend to imagine myself talking to a friend I feel being close with. In reality, that does not happen to me. It happened to the point many times my family would notice my self-talk actions at home and felt weirded about it. However when I'm living my solitary life with no one watching, I feel very comfortable expressing what I want to say but only to myself. :) I realized too that talking to myself was the key to unlocking my special gift of speaking English fluently.

[@Blankult]

I'm brazilian and only learned english through self talking, the difference is that i do it entirely in my head. I think self talking is a great way to learn any language, it's an easy way to practice without the potential awkwardness of talking to other people. My accent is pretty convincing even though i never spoke to another person in english.

[@martinacocca4225]

I'm italian and I also always talk to myself in english

[@emmavrijburg6676]

lmaooo so true! sometimes i self talk in english even when nobody else is listenig

[@Just_Ants]

Same thing! English is not my first language, yet is the one I talk the most internally... (yet I live in a Spanish speaking country 😅)

[@AlyxForest]

I speak English, and I'm from America, but most of my self talks involve me speaking with an Australian accent, mostly just because it feels more natural to me. I never speak with the accent in front of other people (sometimes I sneak a sentence or two with the accent to see if someone picks up on it, and nobody seems to notice), but I almost exclusively speak to myself in that accent.

[@uni_teto]

through most of my life, i have always done self talk out loud to an invisible audience as if i'm a streamer. i've always felt strange about it, especially considering my various hand motions and exaggerated facial expressions, but this made me realize I'm not alone. it's really helped me sort out my thoughts and feel more confident

[@Erudessa22]

I pretend I'm teaching an audience how to clean, narrating as I go. Helps me organize without getting distracted and figuring out ideal configurations

[@user-he8dh1ou7n]

Haha same, i talk to myself aloud in front of the mirror, it just helps to force myself to take a different perspective than my current

[@kofabillion]

Whenever i play a game, I talk to myself and feel like im a youtuber too lol

[@superstar-su7fg]

Yes .. I relate to u !! I narrate my daily day , explain my worries and talk my mind ..

[@angelicajessicagomes2002]

Yess!!! 100% relate!

[@sunkissedroseate]

I am an introvert so talking to myself is pretty much a norm. I talk to myself out loud as if I were to be having a conversation with another person (like on the phone). There are few people I can talk to about my interests and what I am thinking so having a fake conversation helps me organize my thoughts, emotions, and makes me feel better about not having anyone to talk to at the moment. My family thinks it's weird but it brings me comfort. Additionally, I find the most effective way on how to explain certain things to others if I have already talked about it out loud to myself. It's like proof reading an essay. Thanks for this video! 🙂

[@nykasa]

The saame once my brother told me is it difficult talking to yourself?

[@shineeteentop24]

oh my god. I'm not alone! I absolutely have these fake conversations as well. I don't have many in-person friends who share my interests. So I talk about them with myself when commuting sometimes 😅

[@AbcIHateYou3]

Been doing the same thing for a few years now. It's not always healthy though, sometimes I catch myself having an argument with a friend or someone in my head, and have to remember that how I'm imagining they'd respond probably isn't right

[@nykasa]

@@AbcIHateYou3 sometimes i really wanna to quiet imagining things like that and talking with myself and be outgoing and sociable cuz i think I'm really crazy or mentally ill 😭

[@sbdreamey]

same, seriously.

[@linessmwaba1922]

I have been talking to my self since 3 when playing alone,my mom and auntie have always thought there was something wrong with me,am now 27 and i still do it the only difference is i now hide it i have even gone for prayers before just to get some help and I was told i had a demon in me i felt so offended i stopped going to that church cause here in Africa Zambia anything can be demonic to pastors and prophets😢i just feel much better when I talk to myself than when I talk to other people am glad to watch this knowing its normal 😊

[@NguyễnĐìnhKhoa-q3y]

Actually, I feel better and more confident when talking to myself, especially in some difficult situations. It seems like a dose of medicine allowing me to regulate my emotions. Because when I'm stressed, my thinking is cloudy. It also helps me understand and sympathize with myself more.

[@yakobsoulstorm5187]

I’ve always found talking to myself to really help with working through moral and social problems I’m having. You have to actually process what’s coming out of your mouth and deal with all of it.

[@LuvThyMind29]

Growing up as an introvert, it really helped me to develop better speaking skills and to communicate more comfortably with others.

[@iche9373]

Use nicotine patches to deal with your stress

[@yakobsoulstorm5187]

@@iche9373 That’s a bad idea.

[@iche9373]

@@yakobsoulstorm5187 why?

[@OscarUnrated]

This is why I don’t need to tell people my problems, I’m just better at solving them with myself

[@SatvikaSrivastav]

Samee 🤍🤍😎😎

[@kennydidier3255]

😂😂

[@titant2694]

Exactly, that’s it

[@dhaifinaarifah]

omg literally 💅🏻💯

[@syeina]

I'm an ADHDer and I self talked a lot before I got medicated. It's interesting to see that there are some studies backing that it helps with the very things that I had trouble with.

[@Hello_Vaghya]

Negetive self talk is programmed in me throughout my childhood and teenage. Recently I've been practicing positive self talk ❤ and it helps honestly 😊

[@aca4262]

😊

[@mohammadrasuli4425]

Good to hear it

[@Lavonne9870]

I know exactly where my negative self talk comes from, but this knowledge doesn't help much. I've worked on being kind to myself. It's hard to stop something you don't realize you're doing.

[@revenge8215]

@@Lavonne9870same. Good luck though lavonn, the results are worth the effory

[@jennadombroski1505]

Super proud of you ❤ I hope every day for you is progressively more and more freeing and peaceful

[@younes5745]

I use a method for selftalk in order not to look strange and weird in public i use my earphones and i pretend talking with someone on the phone with a little of hand moves , this will make you more confortable with selftalk anytime and anywhere

[@Ayeyo_fontaine]

You unlocked the code

[@madeofcastiron]

that is also the method i use. that’s why i’m so grateful that wireless earbuds are invented.

[@Pignificent]

Sorry to say it, but you're not fooling anyone with that

[@younes5745]

@@Pignificent who cares ?

[@NuskyXplore]

That's also weird... 😂 When im in public i just talk to me on my mind no need to make it loud..

[@MsHabib2007]

man... my inner self is the best person I've ever met my life

[@amirulhamizan3440]

Good for you my inner self is hella annoying he'd always wakes me up when I'm just about to fall asleep and throw random thoughts when I need to focus, if I ever met him in person he'd be ded

[@linessmwaba1922]

Same here and I feel so so much better dealing with my inner self it's so much better 😊

[@jaywhy3178]

"Thinking out loud" as I prefer to call it, helps me drown out the noisy voices in my head. Not *those* kind of voices, but self talk in my head has a `mind` of it's own - thinking out loud is especially useful when I'm trying to solve a challenging problem. The self talk in my head isn't necessarily trying to solve the same problem. For extra help working through a problem, I not only think out loud, but pacing also helps. (I don't tend to do either of these strategies when other people are around! I understand it looks/sounds unusual to some people.)

[@gurvmlk]

Same, minus the inner voices. If I'm at my computer and trying to think, and there are other people around, I'll just sit quietly and think, which sometimes causes me to doze off. But if I'm doing the exact same thing, but on my laptop alone out on the patio, and I need to think about something, I'll stand up and start walking around while I think. Only sitting back down once I've got the solution.

[@brandonborst6550]

I don’t just have internal monologues, I also have full on hypothetical conversations on the daily. If anyone saw it, they ‘d think I was crazy. The difference is, I know I’m talking to myself, and also know there is no one else there. It’s when you actually think someone else is there, that it becomes a problem.

[@Thriveinthejungle]

Litteraly I thought it just happens to me.... Even when I am engaged in different activities I still talk to myself almost all the time.... And talk as if I am talking to someone else...

[@DanielMielnik-x5z]

Amen to that Brother.

[@thenovicenovelist]

I work in radio and a lot of us in this field talk to ourselves. I walked in on a coworker doing it and he felt embarrassed and I told him I did the same thing. My boss told me he once heard a former employee screaming at someone and went to the studio to see who the employee was screaming at. Turns out, the employee was screaming at himself for messing up on something.

[@di_wn_]

Same. Some people really think I'm crazy... That's why I started to think if it is ok or not. But I also know I'm talking to myself.

[@thelordcomanderwhocriedwolf]

I do the same thing and often have whole Ted-Ed talks at home😂 I also am aware that I do this, and because of poor soundisolation in my home, I try to decrease my volume to mumbling or one-on-one conversation/regular phonecall to not distress my neighbors.😂

[@TojiFushigoroWasTaken]

I kept failing in math in my hs despite putting in the work. It came to the point where i used to feel anxious whenever i saw math equations because they reminded me of my failure. Oh a whim i started self talk when working on math just to calm myself down, gradually this seriously helped me figure out several stuff.....went from barely passing to getting 91 points in it at my graduation (probably the biggest achievement in my life lol)

[@Fairymairy123]

I am going through the exact same thing right now i talk to myself in my head while solving it so that i stay calm

[@HughJass-313]

Way to go Mr Nutjob! ❤😜❤ _(seriously.... good job!)_

[@KaiKaiRee]

I talk to myself all the time. Talking to myself has actually gotten me through some pretty bad and stressful times, providing a voice of reason even if I _myself_ am walking to an emotional cliff. I am also an aspiring writer and I talk to myself in character to help figure out the flow of a conversations between the characters in my stories and snippets. I do this all the time, everywhere I go. Even _if_ it's embarrassing to be caught doing so by a stranger whose looking at me like I'm crazy.

[@KaiKaiRee]

*now

[@superstar-su7fg]

I'm a bit of a writer but I play characters which I've never written ... their whole life is in my mind ..

[@MariaFernandaRibeiro4]

I do that too and I'm also an aspiring writer. Would you like to connect on social media?

[@elisabisignano9294]

I do the exact same thing for the exact same reason and yes, it's very embarrassing to be caught doing it 😂

[@rabindranathdash1376]

I talk to myself but I don't have hallucinations.I am talking sometimes as if I am vlogging even if Iam not.While I usually talk as if I am a different character just like you.That helps me become a good story writer

[@julianalopes2467]

Talking with yourself is really important. You feel more calm and organize your mind.

[@dragon2knight]

Are you kidding? Talking to myself is the best conversation I have all day! My thoughts are clearer and I feel much more centered every time I do it, which is daily. It's how I start all of my meditation sessions and it's the key to me not choking the life out of my very inconsiderate neighbors in my apartment building 😉There's nothing wrong with doing this at all, I couldn't more highly recommend it 💕

[@Cyber_Engineer]

There's nothing better than a conversation with a smart person isn't it? :)

[@SunitaSharma-ij7xx]

"Talking to myself is the best conversation" Can't agree more ... that's just what I say to myself ...I talk to myself almost about everything and it helped me understand myself better. No one ever told me or taught me to do so yet it's a childhood habit it's gonna remain for life Ig lol also I'm an introvert

[@tammzy65]

For a long time I was self-conscious about my self-talk because I can't help but vocalise my thoughts out loud but I didn't want anyone to think I'm a weirdo. So glad to finally get validation that, not only it's perfectly normal, but healthy with clear benefits :)

[@milaliah]

THANK YOUU omg me too 😭 i’ve been doing it since i was little and it just helps me decipher and vent my thoughts like let me be !!

[@facetubetwit1444]

you can still be a weirdo and still do normal thing to ya know. this justification doesn't stop you from being a weirdo.

[@tammzy65]

@@facetubetwit1444 ?? What are you on about?

[@geneivy]

You are certainly not alone in this. And maybe someone will think you're a weirdo, but really why should we try to make a good impression on every random stranger? I think we should let them think whatever they might think.

[@tammzy65]

@@geneivy very true!

[@chauswriting]

I've talked to myself since I was 10 and I never told anyone in my life about this thinking they'd see me as a crazy person. Thank you for the validation!

[@flzhashfaster8918]

Bro me too❤❤❤

[@Jediah-s6p]

I stared at 10 to

[@ENLIGHTENMENTING]

I do the same. Salutes frm Spain.😊

[@MelhorHomemVIVO]

1:00 "the honored one"

[@AliZegler]

Got me with that one😂

[@tetaball9210]

@@AliZeglerhe got me too 😂

[@Damstar]

Gomen amanai

[@aditi0507]

​@@Damstar😂❤

[@MsHarmony-qd7mx]

Growing up as the only child, I got used to talking to myself. I thought it was weird but at the same time it felt normal. Listening to this video is comforting and reassuring. I feel better knowing I'm not strange or the only one doing this. 😁

[@kayenjee]

Only child here and same.

[@TheRealDeal130]

Introverted third child, who suffered extreme trauma in childhood and adulthood. Self-talk helped me survive and thrive.

[@khanhhalevu4975]

i am also the only child so i understand your feelings ;[[[

[@momo7gato]

Finally, we can put this discussion to bed! Having been continuously ostracized for being a self-talker, I am glad that it is considered "normal". I have been accused of being a little batty because of it.

[@perfectogaming5240]

That’s because it’s not normal, boy.

[@The_Tormented_One]

​@@perfectogaming5240 Bro nobody gives a flying f lmao.

[@perfectogaming5240]

@@The_Tormented_One apparently you do, boy

[@momo7gato]

@@perfectogaming5240 You clearly did not watch the video, then. And what's with "boy"? I hope that you get paid well to troll.

[@momo7gato]

@Mansory You make discussions internally ALL THE TIME. Out loud (to yourself) shouldn't be that much different.

[@JesseFred]

This video is so comforting! I have depression, severe anxiety, autism and ADD - and I also have a physical disability that severely limits my movement (CIDP, my immune system is constantly destroying my nerves, I've had it for 12 years). Because of all of that, I've become housebound. For the last 9 years I had a cat who was my best friend and only company, and I'd spend all day talking to him. He was everything to me, so when he died in december 2022 I lost everything and I've never felt more alone. Since then I've been talking to myself all day long, and I was very worried that it was too weird. At least now I know that I'm not "crazy"!

[@Sebastian37s]

Nice cutie Kittie (profile photo) Hope you the best, friend ❤ I'll pray for you, no matter you like it or not, but I'll pray 🙏

[@JesseFred]

@@Sebastian37s thank you, I appreciate it a lot 💜

[@Maniacc007]

​@@JesseFred Hey..hope you are doing great. Just get on social media if you feel al9ne😊

[@iche9373]

How about trying keto diet and intermittend fasting to cure your depression, severe anxiety, autism and ADD?

[@pigandbobshow9043]

hope your doing good and 2023 is finding you well 😊

[@s.a.1253]

My inner voice makes me feel more enlightened and engaged in real beneficial conversations with only myself. I feel very analytical of things around, life, politics, you name it. I enjoy talking to myself ❤🎉😅.

[@Hiro_Trevelyan]

Anyone else got really relieved when she says it's normal at 0:44

[@Short_insomniac_]

Yep

[@Your_Local_Weirdo75]

yeah

[@Yousoro07]

Sometimes I talk to myself, just to hear what a real one gotta say.

[@youlovemisslee]

💯

[@Nahidwin493]

Realest shi ever😔

[@Nigerosaurus420]

I can't go 1 hour without talking to myself.

[@lordbingabogus42]

realest shi fr

[@SleepingDemo]

WHO TF IS REAL ONE

[@nathanebluepanda8207]

As someone with severe Depressive, I thank you for pointing the anxiety part. It really troublesome when mind is flooded with intrusive negative thought.

[@dshepherd107]

I offer only a humble suggestion because it has helped many with the same problem. KZbin Patrick Teahan

[@iche9373]

Do a keto diet to cure your depression

[@iche9373]

@The Funny If I don’t say „cure“ they won’t even try it.

[@jenkathefridge3933]

​@The Funny just report there comment for misinformation 😊

[@helenaduarte60]

​@@iche9373 lmao

[@aporifera]

One thing I've noticed in school is that when there's a problem I don't know how to solve, especially a math problem, explaining it to myself out loud is very helpful in straightening out my thoughts.

[@Ali-gb5dl]

Definitely, not just math for me when any complicated and big problem face me in life i always talk to myself and anliyze it by explaining it to myself and saying to myself what am I going to do about it, it is so beneficial

[@eeaotly]

Actually, this is one learning technique.

[@rebecca4680]

That's a great learning technique! I've always heard about explaining a concept to someone else, if you can explain it then you know it. Talking yourself through the steps is like that, if you explain all your steps to yourself and it makes sense then you're probably right!

[@Your_Local_Weirdo75]

Same!

[@minhmeo9506]

I’m always talk to myself as a way to self-healing and find out ways to escape real-life problems, but all my relative used to think that I have some mental issues, so serious to the point they nearly success in bringing me to hospital. And thanks TED with this vid, now I have the perfect weapon to counter-attack 😂

[@HAHAd2]

If your relatives think you have mental issues then you might have mental issues

[@obadzikjordsson7361]

​@@HAHAd2 That is such an awful thing to say. Don't you dare gaslight OP. You are very unintelligent. OP, thank you for sharing your experience. I am sorry for what you went through. You are good the way you are :)

[@HAHAd2]

@@obadzikjordsson7361 real and true

[@srustimishra9]

😂😂😂 good luck 🤞

[@Agent-ie3uv]

Mental 🤣

[@werul]

I practice distanced self talk every single hour of the day. Mainly bc I have no one else to talk to, so 2 years ago, I began talking to myself both internally and out loud on purpose about things I would want to talk with other people so I wouldn't feel so lonely. Over time, I was talking to myself like that in most thoughts I had, and now its become the normal way I process information. Its like I have someone there with me to talk to all the time, that someone is me.

[@cloudynights3]

This is sort of similar with me, Im alone a bit so I self talk alot. So when I live my daily life it translates to me muttering things to myself while Im walking to get lunch etc

[@Шерлок-к3щ]

Can you talk with me? I want anybody to help me in the learning of English especially if you’re the native speaker, I’d be very grateful.

[@eeaotly]

I heard somewhere that the most intelligent conversations are those with yourself.

[@SophiaTheDork]

As someone who is socially anxious/not always good at talking with people, I do the same thing! I'll have conversations with myself as if I had a best friend in my brain and talk about whatever topic pops into my mind.

[@rinkukumar-tk8jm]

​@@Шерлок-к3щ Lets talk

[@NDfreedom_100]

Sometimes talking to myself giving me realized that I have my little child inside and it could make me relax after an anxious day 😊

[@wvlfkvnt]

Been talking to myself since i was 4. My mom thought it was creepy and then cute. And growing up she would tell all her friends about it like it was hilarious. Practically making fun of me. Later on, now 40. I realized i talk to myself in the same manner, but i realized why looking back. I had an absentee narcissistic mother who's distanced and avoided me my entire life. And still does to this day. Nothing I ever do is as great as her stellar military career. Every hurdle i climbed, every promotion i fought tooth and nail for was miniscule compared to her 30+ years in the military. Im doing everything i van to not give up. I gained and lost everything ten fold at this point. I just want peace, and maybe someone to care about me for once without there being a motive or unrealistic expectation. Im so tired.

[@jrdg_mpanda]

Self-talk has helped me understand situations in order to avoid doing something irrational due to stress and anxiety. But it also means I tend to feed my introverted self since I'm more dynamic in self-talk when I'm alone in a room. It also helps me plan certain things. It's just a challenge though that I tend to go off-topic with myself, which then I sometimes have to remind myself to stay in topic during the self-talk.

[@AlyxForest]

I go off topic a lot too when I do this. Tangents galore. I sometimes even forget what I was originally talking about.

[@vah_nessa]

@@AlyxForest same here 😂

[@luname2356]

As an introvert I talk to myself all the time and my ''talks'' are pretty long at that. But it's not as if I respond to myself back and forth as if there was someone else in the room. The video said it perfectly, I just voice my thoughts. I'm an overthinker. Talking out loud lets me make sense of all the mess that's in my head. I also don't get distracted as often and it lets me develop my ideas fully. Most importantly, I don't get bored because I'm always in my company and it helps me deal with anxiety and low self-esteem. I always have something to think about and be critical about. You're definitely not weird for talking to yourself.

[@poetic_videos]

Same here

[@Guibs27]

On the same boat as you. I definitely relate to "talking out loud lets me make sense of all the mess that's in my head". In parallel, I always compare my inner monologue to be of a turbulent sea, as if a bunch of ideas are being thrown at me constantly, with no pauses. There are exceptions to it, but that's the mainly reason I voice my thoughts.

[@shivaprasadmallikarjunaiah3751]

As an introvert, I can fully relate to that. I do talk to (or should i say "within") myself a lot, a lot of times to get a clarity or rehearse what I would say during the actual discussion with the other person. Sometimes it helps me bring out the solutions by having a imaginary conversation with other person, without actually talking to him/her in person. For this, the other person is someone who you are very familiar, like a friend or spouse, that you have interact a lot and know him/her very well ..so, its like getting his thoughts in your mind.

[@Guibs27]

@@shivaprasadmallikarjunaiah3751 Duuude I do that too! Sometimes I imagine a hypothetical situation where I'm debating with someone, then I take a guess at what they would say and what I would say back, in case that really happens or just for the sake of it. It's pretty entertaining actually, 'cause I mostly come up with some kinda dramatic discussion, even though it never happens lol

[@snowflak6173]

Same boat man, same boat.

[@emilnavod67]

One thing I've noticed is after i read a book or binge watch a TV series, my inner dialogue sounds like a conversation from that TV series/ book

[@nxsyya]

Absolutely! After reading a book, especially a "fancy" book with "harder" English, I catch myself talking to myself in the type of language used in that book.

[@TahminaAkter-yq9ku]

I like to talk to myself when I am alone. It helps me to reduce stress and anxiety. It’s more effective when I can talk loudly as if I am talking to an actual person.

[@luvnatexo]

I’m alone most of the time and talk out loud constantly. as if I’m talking to a camera or someone in the room, who isn’t there. I ask questions, make banter, etc. I can, and oftentimes do, this for hours. just by myself. It can range from having philosophical debates, talking about funny memories from my past, existential conversations about the universe. anything that pops into my head, really.

[@crownedone200]

same😅

[@unaincreibleroca3427]

me too, kind of

[@spanishead2426]

Same

[@kayodeadewole6332]

This literally being me here 😂

[@yakobsoulstorm5187]

I don’t have an internal monologue. Ideas and concepts just sorta float around in my head. But when I’m alone, I’ll talk out loud to myself. I’ve found that it allows me to process complex stuff much more easily and work through problems. My mum used to tease me about it a bit, mostly harmlessly, but I still felt embarrassed. Good to know I’m at least mostly normal.

[@sheepcommander_]

I was hoping this vid would cover having a lack of inner monologue but it basically didn't

[@uk4725]

This video confuses between self talk and inner monologue, self talk can be non verbal also.

[@natashambulo3510]

Ah someone else without an inner monologue. It's also a reason why I talk out loud too. Besides of course the mild social phobia I had when I was young

[@monikawrona7227]

I have something similar, it's just not random thoughts, but more like one giant story.

[@yakobsoulstorm5187]

@@monikawrona7227 Pretty sure that's an internal monologue.

[@lightindarkness695]

Everyone talks to themselves when they are alone. It helps express your thoughts aloud. It’s completely normal!

[@crazyplanet1560]

I talk to myself so often. I do negative as well positive talk sometimes i enjoy gossiping with myself. I usually do it non verbally but sometimes it becomes verbal with expressions and then people call you mad haha. I think i do self talk because i can't find someone i can talk to openly or someone who will understand me without judging. I think i am the only one who can understand myself and provide best advices and solutions of my problem. I friends and family complains i won't share much about myself now who will tell them that i have talked enough to myself so that i don't have to tell everything to everyone lol. I usually play a listener role with them. But when people genuinely willing to listen to obviously your loved ones, one will always love to talk.

[@susannaalexanyan1345]

When I was a child talking to myself was very natural and normal for me. Growing up, it started becoming more and more abnormal and strange because of public opinion. Silent self-talks are very common activities of mine, and the question of it being normal interested me for a while. Video is very helpful and knowing that most of the people have self-talks is really helpful!

[@Nosewrecky]

This practice dragged me out of a really dark place a couple of years ago. Helps me to think about how i would treat a loved versus how i treat myself. You're supposed to love yourself!

[@hakimdiwan5101]

I don't self-talk much and never loudly but it doesn't take much for my inner critique to show up whenever I goof up. Over the years while battling depression I adopted positive self-talk through affirmations. Positive affirmations drastically reduced negative self-talk and when I goof up, most of the time instead of berating me it now soothes me. I highly encourage people who are suffering from that harsh critical noise inside head to adopt positive affirmations. Talk to yourself the way you would talk with your loved ones or your friends, it will help you alot.

[@theFalcon_1]

Its like every second pwrson in the world is suffering from depression

[@hakimdiwan5101]

@@theFalcon_1 Please come straight to the point.

[@bamboo___]

@@theFalcon_1 okay and?

[@thatguy5233]

@@theFalcon_1 i mean... it's just related to the topic of the video. go watch a game of e.g football, and you'll feel like "everyone loves football"

[@namquanthieu3295]

Really needed this video since everyone around me was calling me crazy for self-talking

[@Pod-o-Peas]

I have ADHD, so at all times there are multiple thoughts in my head. The only one I can actually understand is the main train of thought, but the muddled noise of the others can make it difficult to hear or even overpower it. Talking out loud to myself seperates my thoughts from the noise and makes them feel real. Sometimes with all the background noise my actual thoughts begin to feel dissingenuous, so saying them out loud brings them to reality. This habit has actually become more prominent since my childhood and I was worried something was wrong, so it's good to know it's normal.

[@MasterMagikarp]

I relate to this so much-

[@bruh-xm1sj]

Omg finally someone who has this too

[@Sweetie4820]

hmmm, what is ADHD?

[@MasterMagikarp]

@@Sweetie4820 It stands for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and it’s a mental condition. I suggest looking it up because I don’t think I can do a very good job at describing it in it entirety.

[@elisabetheastwood5163]

Yep! If I don't say it out loud, I'll lose it completely. I've recently started a Tumblr blog for all of the self-talk I do. It's nice because a) it's completely private so no one can hear me, b) it saves my thoughts and acts as a sort of time capsule to future me, and c) it helps me sort through things just like talking out loud does. I mean, I can't type nearly as fast as I think, so it's slow and tends to be shorter than my usual self-talk sessions, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. Getting to the point of what I want to talk about quickly is not something that happens often when I'm talking out loud.

[@dakshha8341]

I always thought that self-talk was a bad habit which I have,and whenever I'm caught by my parents or my sibling talking to myself,I'm QUITE embarrassed.The reason why I talk to myself is mostly because I'm pretty bad at expressing myself and self-talk also helps me to understand about what's going on in my mind

[@10228-hjw]

as you also saw in the video, self talk is not something to be embarrassed about.. so why don't you self talk with positive word instead of expressing yourself pretty bad?

[@dakshha8341]

First of all,thanks for this kind message,i appreciate it and ofcourse I'll try my best to talk positive of myself Anyways,have a great day -by a random stranger

[@Chrono..]

Do you self-talk loud? I have never been caught by anyone while doing this because I always speak in my head or else I just move my mouth, maybe whispering a little when i'm alone.

[@dakshha8341]

I mostly move my mouth and i use ALOT OF hands while talking and sometimes even whisper maybe that's why I've been caught a few times

[@NéstorFabián-t9p]

I've found myself talking to me several times during the day, most of the time feels like my brain it's talking to my heart, and sometimes it's my heart talking to my brain. I can feel the difference between this two speakers, both of them are wonderful and they try to lift me up, sometimes I need compassion and that's when my heart talks to my brain to cheer me up, and sometimes I need to be grounded and that's when my brain talks to my heart, so my feelings stay stable. I love to talk to myself, because I have such interesting conversations.

[@otonielreyesnicolas]

Great quote. How positive Thoughts can help you; bad thoughts can harm you. Remember be kind with yourself in whatever situation you are going through. Life is one. so, don't waste your time harming yourself.

[@gamemaster4947]

I was always concerned about this because whenever people catch me, they’re concerned. I do my best problem solving when in self conversation, so this is a relief. Sometimes I’ll talk to myself for over an hour.

[@bruh-xm1sj]

Fr my mom thinks I’m crazy! I have adhd and I’ll walking around in circles talking to myself 😅 I can see why I look crazy to her

[@larisachan1787]

Talking to yourself even aloud is strange to others but its really helpful. It helps to organize thoughts , clear your confusion, relief youe negetive emotions...it has a lot of cognitive benefits.

[@xantishayde-walker4593]

I'm pretty sure it's related to the phenomena that removing audible distractions while trying to concentrate on finding something (like a certain building while driving) helps you to better focus on finding the place. You're freeing up the verbal processing function of your brain to rehash (either verbally or internally) the directions to help you find it. It really does work. Good to know that me talking to myself doesn't make me *that* crazy. Lol!

[@marolil]

Actually I don't really understand if you find that talking to ourselves is normal thing and I do ,I find it normal too and others do the same , we all know that it's normal and we all talk to ourselves so who are these people that we are afraid of why we are afraid and feel not normal while they do the same 🚶

[@astra8372]

@@marolil maybe some people don't do that, maybe they pretend to not do that. I know some people try to feel superior over other people because of silly reasons, like age or gender, so maybe talking to yourself is another thing they feel superior about because they must be so much better people if they don't do that, right?

[@TheCheeseManOfCanada]

"your"

[@mariaeduardadias3935]

I'm passionate about talking to myself in front of mirror, it is such a stranger and comforting experience. What's more, it help me so much in the process of learn a foreign language! I have often spending my whole day in a self-talk in english and it is helping me to getting confidence and familiarity to the language. I love talk to myself. I love my own company!

[@Der.Geschichtenerzahler]

I personify my logic and imagine as if it were right next to me. Then I talk to her in all the languages I know about all sorts of topics. Of course it's weird, but in these 27 years of life I haven't found any advantage on being normal, so...

[@ЯрославЯковлев-ш8х]

​@@Der.Geschichtenerzahlernobody have, so keep being yourself, its wonderful)

[@melanbait1631]

I always talk with my self every single dayyyy & i love this time when i talk to me😂

[@peetashmangulati7020]

I'm 17 years old and i as a kid used to talk with myself often but in covid 19 pandemic.i often talked to my friend but i started talking to my myself aloud which really increased my focus,treated anxiety....and even when i had noone to have conversation in english...i started to talk to myself in english to improve my listening and english talking skills and even if i feel depressed or there's no one to give me sanctity...then feel like..i'm enough for myself..i need noone..and that's the thing that keeps me going through the negative thoughts through positive thoughts about myself...❤❤

[@doaagamal4222]

Great job dear 👏 😊

[@RiddishreAIIMS]

same for me tooo high-five👋

[@whitefeather8387]

Bro I am going through that right, yeah I watch anime and that made me to talk with myself in English only in English I don't even think in my own mother tongue when I am alone😅

[@hope-.]

I'm in love with these psychology and self enlightenment videos lately. Seriously, it's helping humanity since mental health and our brain are something we understand least about and stigmatize the most. Thank you, team TedEd. We appreciate you.

[@ItoeKobayashi]

I remember back in school, a fellow student caught me thinking my to-do list out loud. They looked at me like I was an alien from another planet and asked me what I was doing. I explained that I was saying it out loud to remember it better, but they still looked at me like I was crazy. I actually felt bad for them in that moment. Somewhere along the line, someone took away that tool from them by teaching them it was "crazy talk".

[@silversolver7809]

Before I clicked 'Play', I said to myself 'I bet it's normal', and now that it's over I said 'See! Told ya!!'. Great animations :)

[@infinitevoid2964]

4:20 CBT is my favorite psychological treatment

[@cihloun]

Ye... right...

[@NatDaw-je6wb]

Yeah, just dont get physical...

[@theseekingsankta3106]

i was searching for something like this 😂

[@mahjabeen5835]

So, here's the thing, if you talk out loud, people will think you are crazy (even though they do the same), so, just take out your phone, bring it close to your ear, and talk as much as you want, no one will judge you 😁😌😉

[@aaronthenorm5400]

@@mahjabeen5835 And the whole time some AI google thing is listing in trying to make sense of it! :D

[@TheCostan]

Unless you receive a call and your cellphone starts ringing 😬

[@KhadijaAbbes-bl8of]

LOL so relatable

[@markmuller7962]

I have ADHD and an inner monologue that never stops talking, there's absolute no difference for me between thinking and speaking out loud

[@iche9373]

Try keto diet and intermittend fasting to "cure" your ADHD

[@TheSMSaad]

I make decisions and plan things after talking them over with myself. This really helps because there are some things you cannot share or talk about with others, even with your friends or parents. But sometimes people around me think that I'm abnormal. So, I try to put earphones in my ears so they think I'm on a call. If you feel the same, you can try it.😊

[@teainnit27]

The part where it got about negative self talking that leads to anxiety and depression felt way too relatable and true to me, still is.

[@iche9373]

Try keto diet and intermittend fasting to "cure" your anxiety and depression

[@swoopskee]

Just the video I needed. I've been anxious and thinking whether I'm going crazy due to all of my internal dialogue. But now I feel validated and comforted that it's nothing strange at all. I suppose it's just my way of dealing with the stress I've been experiencing, and actively applying learnings from therapy as tools to improve my daily life. Thank you!

[@phillip9270]

I also feel validated.. Thank you so much for your comment

[@Anfdora]

Samee

[@Fafner888]

Another benefit of talking to oneself that should be mentioned is that it's a great way to practice speaking a foreign language. That's how I become decently fluent in English despite living in a non Anglophone environment. It's a very effective way to practice the language cause you don't need a partner and it removes insecurities about making mistakes. I got into this habit to such a degree that English has become the language in which I think despite it being my third language. I honestly just taught myself to speak English without having any experience of speaking to other people. I was actually surprised myself how good I've become.

[@flargarbason1740]

Oh, I do that in ASL, but that’s moreso just for practice rather than just for unknown reasons

[@spanishead2426]

Yes, I do the same !!!

[@goodboi1725]

Thanks for giving me something to keep my language skills in check

[@moonlight.2159]

I talk to myself and imagine someone is answering me, i don't really hear it but just imagine it. i imagine real people most of the time answering me, people who were in my mind for a while. i sometimes also imagine them watching me and i can't do what i want comfortably

[@Chris-gt2nm]

But is it weird that the inner person you're speaking to also replies back to you with some forms of its own personality? Cause I often talk to myself like how I talk to a person, I don't know if it's an unnatural thing but it feels like I'm speaking to a different person than my own each time I talk to myself. But it's a comforting feeling altogether..

[@vilxux9752]

Often when i'm alone for a long time, i start to get more lonely and anxious. So i start to talk with myself outloud and it feels like it's another person that i'm talking to. It almost feels like there IS another person or a different version of myself that's listening to me. I'm kinda concerned if it's normal or have i completely lost my mind :/

[@ikelom]

As far as I know, if your inner voice appears to be a different person, that is not typical and is likely a sign of dissociation of your identity. That sort of thing takes a very long time to unpack. I think it would be a good idea to talk about it with a mental health professional and/or someone you trust very much. But I'm just a person on the Internet. Don't take my word for it completely. Stay safe.

[@dinodare1605]

@@ikelom You didn't actually explain why it was bad and so you advising that they seek help is completely irresponsible.

[@ikelom]

@@dinodare1605 Oh. I see. I don't know enough about this topic to explain it properly... My apologies. What should have I said instead? I'm asking genuinely.

[@abrasp]

@@dinodare1605 Advising to consult a mental health professional about a mental health question is completely irresponsible? What are you on about?

[@just_kos99]

I talk to myself constantly, so my sister/housemate has learned to ignore it unless I make it clear I'm talking to her. She got me a t-shirt that says "I Talk to Myself, Then We Both Just Laugh and Laugh". I loved it so much, 'cause it's so true! I crack myself up frequently.

[@anthonyrobertson2011]

I find it quite helpful to talk outloud to myself when alone. I can more easily address my feelings and brainstorm. I can work out approaches to problems I'm having or help myself find new possible interests. I think I tend to be more stable and well grounded because I was never afraid to get alone and talk things out to myself. It's a great tool for facing life's problems and goodness in general.

[@tbbtbt1262]

The quote in the beginning is so eye opening and deep for me. I'm someone who struggles to understand people's behavior towards me and it's like millions of my problems have been solved with that qoute. "the way you treat people is what they become"

[@atriyakoller136]

One benefit that I didn't see in the video is training when you're studying a foreign language. You think of how you should say it in that language, choose and process variants, ask your teacher later if you can, and repeat the right/better variants to yourself. It's a huge help for boosting your confidence and speaking skills (speaking from my own experience here)

[@katerinadask8558]

This actually helped me a lot while studying English, the problem is that now my outernal monologue is mostly in English and my internal monologue is also like 95% English so I find it hard to express myself in my native language and I often get the languages mixed up.

[@bruhh1138]

Relatable except I don't often speak in English aloud 😭

[@atriyakoller136]

@@katerinadask8558 this is so relatable, there are a lot of concepts I find difficult to express in my native language these days 😭

[@atriyakoller136]

@@bruhh1138 understandable, but the more you do it, even alone, the better :)

[@manu_bdl9333]

Yeah! When I started living by myself I started talking to myself a lot and figured might as well do it in english to improve my oral skills and they've improved so much!

[@rickseiden1]

My inner monologue only stops when other people are talking, and then, only if I'm actually paying attention. It goes on all day, and I only feel like I'm partially in control. But it's "normal" stuff like, "I'll load the dishwasher later," or lyrics to songs that are going around and around in my head. When I'm working, my inner voice guides me through the tasks at hand. I don't know how to really describe it.

[@OXIR]

I talk to my self daily. I like talking about my feelings and thoughts to myself. Another benefit I’ve seen is language improvement. English is not my native language but I talk in English to myself a lot and it has definitely improved my pronunciation and speech. I can say that I can talk similar to a native speaker even though I don’t have any English conversations with other people. But sometimes I’m rude and merciless to myself, especially when I’m angry, disappointed or depressed.

[@Mystic_Paths]

Self talk is generally good, but its impact depends on whether it’s positive or negative

[@Astro_Rohan]

People ask me how I stay calm. Self talk is one of the big reason. I have internalised different versions of myself who come up and calms me down, gives me advice how to proceed when I have too many things, is funny, is kind and a person of reason. I know it sounds crazy but it helps me stay calm, find quick solutions and be rational while still respecting my emotional side whenever unexpected situations happen. On a tangent, hopefully this video helps you feel empathy towards homeless people who may talk to themselves. Since sometimes they just seem to do it since no one else talks with them and is a way for them to make sense of their dilapidated situations. So dont be nervous around people who may self talk in public, rather show compassion!

[@sachinv1911]

I find it much relatable. When I'm home alone or anywhere alone, i usually self talk loudly to myself about many things. And it feels so good and I feel it gives me some positive vibes throughout my day.

[@Snowman_44]

I've never had much friends since I lack social skills. So from childhood, I just imagined friends and talked to them. I gave them different personalities and appearances. When I'm lonely and need to talk, I imagine a friend and imaginary-talk about different subjects and sometimes work out solutions. I know it's weird, but many times my trust in people has backfired. And that's frustrating. And I've been ignored many times as well. So I thought, "who understands me best? me.". And that's how I became like this. I just tend to focus on my studies, games and fun.

[@salmaislam3415]

Same as me

[@Blankult]

Can relate, though i try to not always trust myself, don't wanna get trapped with myself forever

[@TheVenomology]

i saw you somewhere before in the comment section of a video.. that pfp is familiar

[@melodysafo5437]

You should probably move out! Find people who appreciate you for you!

[@cinnamonricecake5]

i actually talk to myself so much that it is ridiculous. i will have full on conversations, my mind and inner monologue is person 1 and my verbal self is the other person.

[@jadasusca2711]

literally could care less if it’s normal or not.. Talking to other people pisses me off because they’re more crazy than i could ever be chatting with myself

[@dilipaweeratunga]

When we were taught to do compassion meditation in our school, every morning, it always starts with wishing good for ourselves first. Then the exact same wishes to our parents and family, then teachers, then neighbors, friends, non friends, haters and at last to every living being.

[@simangot400]

The head pats from the sock at 3:43 was way too wholesome than it should be omg

[@mctwistx1248]

im getting stuck talking with myself instead of talking to anyone, i just imagine a conversation with that person rather than talking with them in the reality, because of my social fobia, i'm actually good at imagine a small talk with other person but when i do it in the reality i'm bad and dont know what to say

[@jvx358]

When I'm by myself, I often come up with different potential scenarios and talk out the situation out loud as if they are happening. I find that it helps me organise my thoughts and trains me to keep a conversation going during the actual thing.

[@punishingbirb4180]

I always assumed it to be not a normal thing, but I do it anyway because I simply dont care. I have full on conversations with myself, and it really helps me to formulate my thoughts and make them far more clear, it especially helps when I talk to someone else about a subject I have already discussed with myself.