As a female watching this video, everything you said in this is straight factsss
@marshallyama66153 жыл бұрын
I knew a. Girl for 4 years and she lost her interest because I was too nice 🙂
@MahdiTidjani3 жыл бұрын
Happens brother. We live and Learn.
@HMD1986-3 жыл бұрын
After living 35 years old. I realized what was my problems . All girls I met . They showed me lot of interests and as my nature I was good . So they changed 180 degrees changed . This video was exactly for me . Thanks brother
@mohammada31163 жыл бұрын
I many not agree with all your ideas but respect to you for sharing your wisdom on tiktok insta and KZbin, you’ve helped me a lot and I appreciate it brother🙏❤️pls don’t stop anytime soon
@MahdiTidjani3 жыл бұрын
My man a pleasure
@haithamgharibjumamuhammeda96512 жыл бұрын
This could be a reason why women stay longer with abusive husbands
@asinner3 жыл бұрын
Akhi, you’re speaking facts.
@primeriddles31073 жыл бұрын
amazing video jazaka allah kheir brother
@MahdiTidjani3 жыл бұрын
Barakallahufeek a pleasure
@razer00720733 жыл бұрын
1:26 Yess correct!! 4:07 6:41
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo65433 жыл бұрын
if you are a nice guy you are not a challenge, and this is esp. hard on insecure women. - too available? what if a baby was just born? but ok I get it... - too nice? wouldn't say feminine, I would say be Nice with structural thought. - be on purpose? - should be Ibadah though. take time off ok, but focus. - fail test? - where she is disobedient you mean, she is seeking her submission? - too dependent - breaj ups turn around, look at her and say One day I might not love you! (sad not the times of limited monogamy and child rearing) - male friends? - Agree men & women can't be friends! (nongra khotaht) - don't say I love you too soon... - - indecisive and don't take lead. funky follow up though... - no overly validate...
@phoenixknight88373 жыл бұрын
Jazakallahu khayr wa barakallahu feek!
@_s1kx3 жыл бұрын
Bro just wanna say you inspired me to purchase some books from Amazon so wanna say thanks
@MahdiTidjani3 жыл бұрын
Lov this, good on you
@ashey1813 жыл бұрын
This is not how a marriage should be, don't have this silly mentality, this is not love no one is better then anyone your better for each other, christ sake what am I hearing? I can't belive their is such girls love is ment to be living a nice pleasent comfortable life not like as thou you are treading on egg shells and trying to doge booby traps! I can't belive this is what I am hearing!!
@SignsofAllah12 жыл бұрын
12:20 right on breda!! :D
@ashey1813 жыл бұрын
I would like to talk to you about this topic please?
@ghurabaa114xx2 жыл бұрын
Number 8 is so true lol
@solodolo42353 жыл бұрын
Asalam Alaykum bro, u gotta up the quality on ur vids, this is in 240p, and where did u get that thobe? its nice Mashallah.
@PassingTraveler14213 жыл бұрын
I don’t think that’s a thobe😂😂
@solodolo42353 жыл бұрын
@@PassingTraveler1421 Looks like it to me 😂, its just different design, theres no disconnect at his waist it goes all the way down
@PassingTraveler14213 жыл бұрын
@@solodolo4235 it’s a shirt and trousers bro you can see the slit of the trousers in between his legs if you look closely
@MahdiTidjani3 жыл бұрын
Walaykomassalaam my man, working on the quality side; new to this whole youtube thing. And Im wearing a shirt and trousers.
@686sami3 жыл бұрын
Solid content
@Rxxul73 жыл бұрын
You should make a podcast 💯
@TruthBeliever55572 жыл бұрын
Just don’t be a rich Russian 50 year old man getting 20 year old Russian super model because that’s just helping gold diggers.
@bjwkusgxjdks10 ай бұрын
This sounds like people who are doing khutba not married people man… I usually love your content but most of these points I feel can’t apply to wives. Sorry, mainly “too available, showering in compliments and you love her too much”
@sadieleonard60243 жыл бұрын
I’m in split minds over this. Isn’t this a bit toxic. I get to a degree being a bit stand offish is very attractive and makes u crave a man more but to this extent I think I’d go insane. Also how does the man want the woman to act about this?.Back when I was younger I’d of been acting right up about this and causing a constant headache to my husband which could come across as I’m desperate because I keep chasing this man until he gives something back. Now I’ve matured I’m like fuck this shit I don’t need the stress. I think woman who would except this don’t have much self esteem or are very venerable . What are men expecting in return or trying to achieve ?
@mehdiblazzer21083 жыл бұрын
yes it s toxic but t s the reality man it is what it is
@ashey1813 жыл бұрын
Sadie if a man doesn't accept you for who you are doesn't like you? I'm sure there will be someone out there that will enjoy your company and love you for you, this man has been through alot of issues in his life with his wives maybe they are like that but they shouldn't be, look at this poor guys face, he's talking like as if he's married to a serial killer always having to watch his step, that's not marriage, marriage is a beautiful thing, with the right person marriage is suppose to give you sakoon a person that helps you to achieve your best, and no your goal and priority is not yourself first it's your partner and that is the one who is the right lady herself she should encourage lift you and do dua when your on your death bed the way this guy is he might aswell do prays to get better himself, the right person is the person you can lean on they are their to help you in every situation,to give your mind a relaxing ease, marriage shouldn't be stress you marry once and with the right person someone who can't be irreplaceable, have that mind set for once, I don't know too much about this guys life the way it is but this guys looking at his poor face he looks to me like he's on medication, your wife should be your only herbal calmness cure, and that's through verbal as well as physical. God Lord!! May Allah make it ease for you! 🙏
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo65433 жыл бұрын
@@ashey181 i feel some of his points are good but he expressed it a bit off or gave not so clear examples at times. I think he is talkign about women with low iman and just sub consious triggerring, yes sub consious is considered but conscious thinking based on Iman should always lead! As a ppl of hijab we put hijab on.
@EV-EV-EV Жыл бұрын
If this is toxic then toxicity is human nature
@ghurabaa114xx2 жыл бұрын
Hmm, true but. . . .isn't some of this advise against Islam!? Cause, ur meant to be the best to ur wives
@Farhan_in_Delhi2 жыл бұрын
It says be good to them. Not simp them... Not simping and not being rude, there's a significant difference between the two
@tahirballikaya2132 жыл бұрын
With being "less nice" it is actually meant to be true to yourself and have a backbone. Defend your opinions, values and boundaries etc. Not being rude or harsh to your wife
@ghurabaa114xx2 жыл бұрын
@@tahirballikaya213 ah okayyyy, I get it. . 😬
@ashey1812 жыл бұрын
Gentlemen take advice from a man who's failed a marriage 3 to 4 times he surely will lead the way! 😂
@yorgenibnstrangle30722 жыл бұрын
He learned the way from experience
@lenaknowledgeseeker43043 ай бұрын
For God to make your marriage fail and have people laugh at you for giving advice afterwards Ameen
@zarathomas60743 жыл бұрын
Id like to disagree with this, I have been with standoffish men that didn't treat me right, they have pushed me away cheated abusive (like you happily admit you were) this approach is so damaging to women then you wonder why you can't find a woman that isn't damaged in some way. Be nice to your woman and treat her right show her you are there for her when she really needs you to be and you will heal that damaged heart and mind.
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo65433 жыл бұрын
I do hope you get through this, its also due to ignorant women not choosing good fathers, or their daughters just wanting to follow tv and choosing the wrong guys, thats much on them, and thats why mothers with good sons may avoid such women unless they are like reverts!
@mathew18122 жыл бұрын
lol, go to a therapists .. most men won't and aren't interested in filling someone else's damage