9 Things Women Crave In The Bedroom (But Are Too Afraid To Tell You)

[@deanmccormick8070]

My lady responds well to the statement, "You've got too many clothes on." Not quite a command, but a firm statement.

[@StrongerThanBigfoot]

That’s a good one

[@zdlax]

That's a good one. Indirect yet obvious.

[@Neoteny374]

I grew up with four sisters. They had a lot of friends. It was a sea of girls growing up. Hybristophilia is a real thing. Don't hurt your woman(too much) but don't shy away from manhandling her.

[@user-cw4zj6kc8u]

And this is why the world is full of pain. Women give life to all the men that make society harsh and cruel.

[@gino-g2f]

You can treat her how you want and do what you want as long as you dont inflict internal damage hahaha

[@tgchism]

Yes, the bod boy thing!

[@joseburgos9654]

Those fantasies die after years of marriage. Regardless, sex for women is an extortion tool whether married or not.

[@THEBATZZ]

Lord god. You must be a gem to be with. 😂

[@terdferguson1736]

@@THEBATZZweird that you think it’s him that is the issue in the relationship.. you think he just made that up? and at this point in our culture it’s clear that a majority of women have become delusional and self important. Hell I wouldn’t date a women who didn’t have conservative voting tendencies. This is a great way to give you a chance to stay away from the aforementioned type of women.

[@JimKittell6486]

New and unusual acts are called for. I used to subscribe to a paperback size magazine "Variations" that was full of personal narratives about zillions different sexual encounters, many of which I never imagined. There's probably an online version, find stories that interest you, then share them with her, and vice versa.

[@pancakes_go2940]

​@@THEBATZZHe's right.

[@JaneThatcher89]

People always project their miserable marriage onto others. The romance and fun does not have to die! It’s been a decade for me and the sex gets more and more exciting and our connection grows deeper intellectually, physically and conversation-wise. So fun! Beauty in a marriage doesn’t just happen. It has to be nurtured in order to blossom. It’s different from the carefree days of dating… marriage is actually building a life together. If you want wild passion, it will take effort and planning sometimes… and other times, a willingness to be spontaneous sexually!

[@SlenderMam-jy8sf]

Rather than plagiarizing from MyNonLeatherLife channel videos you could have done a commentary on her videos, like most ppl do.

[@dutchpassion84]

This content is clearly lifted from a video by original content creator mynonleatherlife! Even the title is barely altered. Give credit or stop plagiarizing! She has a lot better insight and nuance too. This is just shameless!

[@christopherkrembs4253]

Thanks!

[@phlowphree2853]

Yo, your money would be better spent on a channel called mynonleatherlife...... the video you just tipped was directly plagiarized from the mynonleatherlife gal 😕

[@PennVvs]

Plagerism !

[@garrykennedy5484]

I invented that word!

[@thomasdorsey3227]

Or... Maybe two women share the same philosophy....but you have to admit the delivery is definitely better, sexier and more to the point....just sayin

[@tedbarley5861]

So Dawn, youre plagiarizing Mynonleatherlife's work and blocking anyone who confronts you about it?

[@ultimore]

One of the things that blocked me up for most of my adult life is the disagreement between my ethics and my sexual tendencies. Ethically I seek to be kind, generous, forgiving, and loving. But sexually…well, I’m kinked and not exactly like that, nuff said. Consequently I was a dishonest lover in my own confusion, and I suspect some if not all of my relationships failed, in whole or in part, because of this incongruity. The ability to feel safe in role-playing in a healthy and loving relationship is a blessing.

[@Jonbwriter]

You are to be congratulated for your self awareness. You recognized something within yourself that needed to be changed. Mad props dude 😎

[@ultimore]

@@Jonbwriter Thanks kindly! I could have had a much better life if I figured any of it out before reaching my early 50s, but better late than never.

[@PulseCodeModulate]

I have a similar perspective. Sex is sacred to me and when you add in that I grew up in an violent home, It makes it difficult for me to show displays of powerful masculinity because it triggers memories of past abuse.

[@popstacker]

Awesome man. This exactly for me, I’m just at the figuring it out stage. I am not sure how to break out of my shell with my wife of 26 years. We have always been very Vanilla. Sex is something we haven’t talked about a lot unfortunately and I have always seen her as a beautiful delicate little flower. Lol. I have been working on things and would love to introduce more into our sex life like role play or some light dom/sub stuff. Do you have any advice on how you got to where you are?

[@ultimore]

@@PulseCodeModulate Trauma is no joke, and our culture unhelpfully denies and suppresses it in men. I hope you find healing.

[@georgeks173]

It's really bad when you steal content from other youtuber and don't even mention the source.

[@dkarukas]

Doing chores around the house doesn't work. The instant she realizes that you can do it faster and better she'll be pissed. Learn basic electrical, plumbing and carpentry skills. One day the water pipe to the house burst. Took me hours to dig it up and fix it. Wife made me something to eat and while I was taking a shower she came in and just used me. Over the years I bought and fixed a used hot tub, installed a patio deck with a kitchen, painted every room in the house, installed new light fixtures, planted fruit trees, built an outdoor bed, etc. It all works.

[@krustysurfer]

Some would rather learn to do it themselves than let you have any leverage...

[@tabi122]

well, you can't be certain you'll do every chore better or faster

[@yellowdog762jb]

Same. The heavier stuff is, and the more power tools it takes, and the more noise the project makes, the better. When I'm doing a big task I'm showered w food, treats, beverages. Then, after I clean up, the really good stuff happens.

[@Dr_V]

Well in my case being married for almost 15 years and raising 2 young children it's often more about making sure she has enough time to rest and relax. We're both medical doctors, but as a radiologist I have more free time and maybe a little less stressful job overall, so I gradually took over some chores and kids raising activities and this improved our sex life more than anything else over the past few years.

[@biohazard20161]

It always worked for my late wife and I. I often took charge in the bedroom.

[@robert4you]

Hmm... this video is very similar to one of _mynonleatherlife_ videos... and no credits given, Sarah? 🤔🤔

[@joejones4296]

Then 30 years later she changes her mind and drags me through the courts.

[@krustysurfer]

😐

[@tabi122]

someone's projecting

[@rmigalla]

😢

[@LexRex11]

plagiarism

[@ohreputzerr]

content copied from another youtuber..

[@JosephSinclair._13]

You're awesome absolutely I crave every bit of this

[@Michael-gd8op]

As much as I appreciate this information, there seems to be something inherently sexist about continually placing increasing relationship expectations on men while women are simply expected to just turn up. It's no wonder that so many men are going MGTOW.

[@rmigalla]

Does it matter whether it's sexist or not if it's effective and makes your own life better and happier? I'm not detecting expectations in Sarah's work. It all sounds to me like suggestions based on some pretty good research.

[@frankrobbins5130]

I love your content. Don’t listen to the haters.

[@robertodebeers2551]

Excellent presentation. Covered a lot of bases.

[@troyehnisz9907]

I called my gf a cougar and didn’t know she was already self conscious about the age gap it ended up not going well

[@shanehester5317]

[@rolandrabier5984]

Nowadays men are told to loose their toxic masculinity, so few dare to take control like did our ancestors.

[@crushingalldeceivers]

There is no such thing as toxic masculinity, that is a liberal buzzword. The sooner people realize that, the better things will be for both sexes.

[@bobmorgan5636]

I dont watch "Leather......" never heard of it. This is good advice... from wherever. Thanks

[@ronedee]

#7…..honey, can I clean something?” Best pickup line ever!

[@goblynkyng8666]

These a very....very situationally specific. Some women LOVE this....but it's ONLY when they want it to be done to them

[@Iam_shianne]

Thanks big sis! This is so true!!

[@michaelb2279]

Love this Channel and love Sarah Dawn. But, guys don't fall for the chore play BS . It only works until it doesn't I did it for years and received so many empty promises I can't even count how many were broken . This may sound very transactional but make her earn your attention. The moment they realize you'll do everything she wants is the moment she'll stop caring about what YOU need. 24 years in and I should have left 15 years ago when she stopped caring about what's important to me . Be warned!

[@hustle3011]

^^^this. Amen! Wife wanted me to do certain things, did them and nothing. Thought I would try another route, nothing. I just said f it and just treat her as a roommate and do my own thing. Kind of sucks but I am very good at the it is what it is.

[@rmigalla]

I'll bet there's more to your story than meets the eye. Have you looked into Zak Roedde's polarity work? It's so hard to look into our own part in what causes a marriage to fail, but it's totally a worthy pursuit and can give you better chances at the next go round.

[@jimmyddddd]

You should consider giving credit if you are going to "borrow" other people's content.

[@321j3ffr3y]

Borrow is such a nice way to describe stealing

[@LastNineBreaker]

You live under a rock if you think this is only the second time someone has ever talked about this. Cosmopolitan magazine covered this shit over 20 years ago. You might as well say any and ALL relationship advice or dating ideas are stolen. Get off your high horse.

[@321j3ffr3y]

In Jimmy's and my rock house, we don't throw glass 🧐 and we don't steal. Covering the same topic as another person with your creativity and input and copying half the content of someone else word for word is slightly different. And maybe you can help me. My horse won't let me down unless I understand intellectual property. Please explain that to me. Exploiting the creativity of KZbin creators with fewer followers is such a lame move. Are you just her with another account defending this? That be tragic!

[@johnschmidt3149]

J​@@LastNineBreaker😮😊 1:00 1:01u 6:13 the 😮th😢 2:3😢u3 😮6u66up5g🎉😢😮😢😊😅e 😮p

[@cowlover1975]

Truthfully I'm not even listening to what she's saying I'm just enjoying watching those words come out of that pretty mouth of hers

[@abk6673]

First copy of @mynonleatherlife

[@JimKittell6486]

Sarah: I'm so delighted to hear you day "my boyfriend". Here's hoping you experience the magic of a good marriage. This is a wonderful 1/3 century long marriage talking.

[@JustMe-999a]

Barf

[@JimKittell6486]

@@JustMe-999a Shame you'll never know. It's beyond your imagination.

[@MarxistischerMillionaer]

I‘ve seen this content before copy cat 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛ meeeoow

[@thomasdorsey3227]

Don't listen to the haters, excellent content with great delivery!

[@richardfarris2227]

Having never heard of that book, I found the info really interesting.

[@PulseCodeModulate]

I love your presentation Sarah. You amalgamate important truth and wisdom between the sexes and do so with a beautiful, low toned, calm voice and just the right amount of eye contact to feel intimate. Thank you. Jeffrey Z. in SC

[@Snarge22]

So much of this complication, this dance at a very high level is an indication of just how easy society is today. Now imagine a much more primitive scenario where getting enough food is difficult, everything is much more laborious, and it's simply more dangerous out there. That is an environment where women have a much, Much greater dependency on men. Somehow I don't think all this complication and dancing around each other would be occurring. Am I advocation for such a scenario? No. I'm must commenting on how incredibly easy modern societies are today. It enables women to not need a man, just want a man.

[@Jonbwriter]

Thanks for the explanation about women testing us. And thanks for the big laugh I had.

[@UpendoChivunga]

Thanks for this advice has come on time

[@jacobflynn9939]

Thank you for your videos, some of these things seem counter-intuitive until you explain the reasoning from the female POV. Been married for 20 years and things were pretty bleak until a year ago when i challenged myself to be more invested in the relationship and try like i hadn't since the beginning. Without resources such as your channel, there would have been more trial and error and frustration, so thank you! Also, I overheard my wife giving her brother recommendations based on what I had learned and implemented so she has clearly noticed and appreciated the difference!

[@jeremiahalexander5513]

5:50 the broken faucet scene in My Cousin Vinny is prime example. The back and forth banter about the faucet shows the chemistry between the two characters in a way that, out of context, could seem pretty hostile.

[@joakimkissmule175]

Love your content! It might be like trying to stop a tide, but woman and women have a different pronunciation.

[@davidkanalos6710]

My girl loves when i call the boys over for the football game and they all pass her around she a little sore after but talks about it for weeks !!!

[@mosconioni4523]

Wow, I can no longer subscribe here Sarah after discovering your stealing and plagarizing dating content from other content creators literally word for word, distasteful, unauthentic and utter disrespect. "UNSUBSCRIBED"

[@KenOnStrength]

I’m on Team @MyNonLeatherLife

[@Bleen76]

Just tell her that you’ll give her your credit card to go shopping and you’ll get whatever you want. Is that simple

[@1pcmedic]

Proof it only takes 3 1/4" to make a woman happy.

[@paulbalzarano]

I could have used this so badly a few months ago..a woman way out of my league suggested going to the beach. I was reserved all day. Towards the end of the day, I threw some seaweed at her and the look she gave me....man it was obvious. I done wasted the day!

[@KS-yb1wq]

Sarah, sultry content today. The masculine gaze (lusting) is very powerful. Thanks for reinforcing it.

[@thomasrossi31]

Hahaha, #1… “😂” & walk away. That’s her response

[@timebanditrvtravels3449]

Need a new girl

[@GoodOldGamer]

Great vid. Deserves better comments. Gonna be a mess about those tests for sure.

[@larrygruber1261]

I really love your shows @larry

[@Ko.is.pure.rap7]

She's stealing someone else's material! @mynonleatherlife

[@lionellong638]

Half Cuban. Say hello to my little friend 😂😂

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

Hi there 😊

[@larspeterthomsen9798]

Funny thing about us men: If we try something, even from this list, and get a negative response, we're less inclined to try again. So if she rejects something she wants, she's not gonna get it.

[@AK.AK.12]

PLAGIARISED the content of the entire video from @mynonleatherlife!!

[@SagiSid]

Agreed

[@rg1360]

She's a copycat grifter

[@ogonnaonyedike3986]

Looks very much like it 😢

[@djs12007]

Well, if you're only HALF Cuban, then you can only be partially pissed off. 😂😂

[@anonymissed3611]

Need to know the other half.

[@raofsonshine5975]

In general I like some of these. The hoop jumping in an absolute No. Women will endlessly lift the hoop.

[@davidduff9871]

Great ideas. I like them all.

[@jamesclough2638]

Awesome thanks

[@cryptowealthonyt]

Married a while to a real boss girl. But number one is dead on, but has to be done at the appropriate time.

[@_Trakman]

I need help with “TESTS”

[@mdhazeldine]

Sarah, im really disappointed that you stole this content from @mynonleatherlife. You should take this video down and apologise to her publicly. What a shameful thing to attempt. You put out some good stuff but now i dont know if any of it is actually genuinely yours! Such a shame. You have completely damaged your credibility by doing this.

[@terrysharpe23]

100% facts tell her what to do

[@ninjaboninjabanana]

Been with my wife for fifteen years. She likes romance but I struggle with ideas because the stuff I have read or videos I have watched, I already do e.g. I cook, clean, put the kids to bed, etc. She appreciates this stuff but it's just part of marriage and parenting and needs to be done and we both do these things. What are some romantic ideas especially for someone whose love language is words of affirmation? Also, time is a factor because I have young children that take up much of our attention.

[@georgeelder8415]

Read the Song of Solomon together...

[@tonedef56]

Tell her things like what a wonderful mother you think she is or how you still find her so attractive. You know her. So something like this that works for you. Or wait for a moment that feels right and describe everything you have been thinking about doing to her. You might have to practice it. But you need to make it sound confident.

[@michaelrodriguez3329]

Live and let live 🌏🌎🌎

[@VTPSTTU]

Thanks for an interesting video. I once had an experience that seems to go along with what you said about giving commands. In some ways, I'm not sure about the whole thing because the relationship wasn't healthy and I'm not sure whether anything she ever said was an honest reflection of anything. Assuming at least a few of her reactions were honest, she had a thing about the expression "sit tight." I never even thought that I was using the expression as some kind of major command. It was just an expression I used. We might be on the phone and I needed to get something from another part of my apartment. I'd say something like, "Sit tight. I have to go get that three-pronged widget." She said that my using that expression turned her on. The tickling thing worked to my disadvantage. I'd sometimes try to give very soft, very slow caresses thinking that they would be sexy. I also just liked the texture of her skin when I felt it without pressing with much force. The problem is that making a soft caress too soft turns it into a tickle. An unexpected tickle ruins the moment. I would try to recover by saying, "Sit tight. I'll start over." Based on this video, maybe I should have said, "You're going to lie there until I get this right." On the other hand, maybe that would be funny but not sexy. In terms of a woman being "sassy," I see a fine line between being "sassy" and being "bitchy." I'm not always going to be right in my interpretation. On the other hand, I don't see anything wrong with thinking that a woman in a relationship with me (back when I was healthy enough for that) should also learn to adjust her communication in that area to avoid sounding bitchy just as I would need to learn to adjust my communication with her in some areas. I have almost zero experience in romantic relationships and have only a sketchy memory of banter if at all. In some non-romantic relationships, I've been able to banter with women. I'm not good at banter with men or women. That's just not my thing. I believe that good, friendly banter between two people relies on them reading one another and adjusting to the timing and tone of each other. I think many men who say that they refuse to be around women who are sassy are men who have encountered women who refuse to develop the skill of adjusting their banter to the man that they are dating. With any of this, I believe that both people have to adjust to one another. You wrote "erothic stories" on the screen. Is "erothic" a version of "erotic" that has some special meaning that guys have to learn? I hope it's just a typo. Having to learn a new definition of "erotic" is going to feel wrong to most men. When you talk about men saying what they want to do to a woman, what's the timing on that? How much lead up is needed? For instance, if the couple is already in bed, is it better to say what one wants to do to the woman or is it better just to do it? Is it better to say that stuff on the phone when being physically together isn't possible? Is it okay to bring it up on the drive to a restaurant at the start of a date? (That would feel very awkward for me.) Imagine a guy saying, "Those are beautiful earrings. You'll still have to take them off tonight so I can kiss your neck." That feels creepy to type. Is it as bad as it feels? Could a guy adjust that or is it completely doomed? I can't imagine getting to the pet name stage. The idea of taking care of things sounds good, but that still seems to require a balance. If a guy takes care of too much, he seems to become a servant and not a partner. I've heard you say that you are discouraged with your comments. I mean no harm in these questions or statements. At the same time, I'm going to type what's on my mind until I'm asked to leave.

[@diamondmeeple]

I love your singing videos.

[@smferreiro2610]

I'm missing the red cloth background!

[@todds.6028]

I don't think they're AFRAID to tell you. They just don't want to HAVE to tell you. You're supposed to "just get it"

[@eligreenslade7699]

I find the zooming in and out distracting, so I scrolled out the picture and just listened to the narrative.

[@ernestcook4285]

I shared with my wife the 4 animals a women wants, jaguar in the garage, mink in closet , tiger in bed, and lastly , jackass to pay for it all. I told her I was the jackass. Sad because she didn't deny it.

[@goblynkyng8666]

Not very helpful tips here, though. Men aren't done because of women being assertive or strong.....we're done because we're done with games. We love strong women...we HATE women that play games.

[@Funtravels1234]

Very disappointed in you stealing other people’s content and passing off as your own. At least give her credit. Hard to take advice from someone displaying a true lack of integrity and bad character. SMH

[@fastmachinemedia]

Yes, because all this is new information. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@isaiahFANOFTHELASVEGASRAIDERS]

and it because i baseball fan tooo

[@MBelizariusz]

Shameless really, stolen content, almost 1:1, only few nuances were adjusted, almost nobody noticed? 😂

[@highlanderknight]

I'd say a lot of these would work some of the time with some of the women, and then it depends on her mood too. I wonder of what the equivalent of a woman doing for a guy would be. I'd suspect it would sound much simpler than this.

[@georgedanker-f7i]

What does your research say about bad spelling?

[@thegrimharvest]

This is all interesting and whatnot but I have no idea how you're supposed to actually implement any of this without it horribly going wrong and blowing up in your face and the woman just telling you "no" or deciding post facto that she actually didn't want these things so its now your fault you didn't have her sign a 37 page contract of consent in front of two witnesses and a notary. I assume this all presumes that the woman actually wants this but as usual will never tell you but expect you to know it by osmosis and psychic voodoo astrology via ouija board. Still, I'll file this all away in the file cabinet of things that I may need to know but will likely never have an opportunity to test in the field. At least you're trying to help, Sarah.

[@renem2257]

Cool

[@prestonshort6324]

Yep, and this is why an initiatied Scorpio will ruin sex for women unaccustomed to “darkness and theatricality”

[@maximt1401]

Lol you stole all this content from another KZbinr !!!

[@rursus8354]

No, I won't give orders. I'm more like a business type male, trying various products, using persuasion. I'll give orders in a military situation, and never anywhere else.

[@SagiSid]

This is blatant plagiarism.

[@aelfredrex8354]

After a point, you have to take charge because the constant fireworks have left them in a daze.

[@shanehester5317]

when she said men are naturally stronger than women i can almost see the feminist seethinganother great video tho.

[@slowdancer5563]

You're half Cuban so I don't want to piss you off. You will find, me. LMAO. Bring it on.

[@ThePhilosophyOfNature]

You're good! Still...

[@waynejones5635]

Every woman is different, but it is my experience my wonan loves my dominant side.

[@BobSimmons-y6i]

The only thing a women cares about is does she feel safe in knowing you will pay

[@paulymac5513]

So, nothing to do with actual sex, it's supposed to be all about attitude and emotions, should have known.

[@JimKittell6486]

This is the first half, which is warming her up, getting her full of lust. Their minds are always in gear, it's hard for them to focus on one thing. So start teasing her, comments like "have I got plans for you tonight!". Be vague, mysterious, so she thinks about it, wondering. All day long.

[@celestesoniafox84]

Bruh.. as a woman, trust me when i say. This has EVERYTHING to do with sex. We’re women, not men. It’s not just physical for us. Sex is emotional for us. We are emotional women who want dominant men to be submissive to (in the bedroom). And if it’s not given to us, we WILL and DO fantasise about it, maybe with (i don’t know someone stronger than you and willing.)

[@celestesoniafox84]

@@JimKittell6486You got it.

[@Outlook2025]

Wrong video for me. I can’t get past the 3rd date

[@martinhovehansen3391]

❤👌🏻

[@jeffherringa4709]

I'm not into Telegraph or other social media, since I see too many scams and posturing on them. Prefer straight E-mail. Just a quiet guy's observation.

[@Lawrence-z3y]

This sounds wayyyyyy too much like work. Except for the "Go out and rotate my tires while I have a beer" thing. Now that's sexy.

[@guntertorfs6486]

0:32- come over here and make me. I dare you.

[@expressoevangelism80]

I think it funny listening to you talking sex to me. Thank you very much. You make me smile. As a 6’+ bloke, I find it very uncomfortable doing the handcuff restriction and bum smacking bit. I’m aware it does something for you ladies, but I just feel very uneasy. I think it’s sort of under the potential of one slip up and I’m then the big baddy, and as I don’t like it anyway, that seems just awkward. I definitely don’t need it for my own confidence. There was one lady who a few years back, who was only 4’11”, but I could not smack her bum hard enough. The marks I left on her cheeks was horrifying and long lasting. I was leaving evidence, as it were. Knowing how you ladies can flip so easily, that is like walking on eggshells.

[@honesteddison]

Sarah Dawn Moore DOESN'T WANT YOU TO KNOW: she stole this almost word for word from a channel called mynonleatherlife

[@Zeon7510]

Lol this video was garbage

[@StrongerThanBigfoot]

I always command my girl around but it be nice if she took the lead occasionally

[@garystritt5750]

💯 truth. Its nice to be wanted too

[@celestesoniafox84]

Tell her. Still confidently. Don’t be sooky about it. That will turn her off. But be honest. Don’t say “i want you to take the lead.” She will think your into some weird kink where you want her to be the man (im not joking). Men lead period. Just say sometimes it feels like you don’t crave me the way i crave you. Sometimes I’d like you to show me how much you want me and start something. I promise you I won’t reject you. Then whisper in her ear “It would turn me on so bad, I couldn’t help but eat you up.” You’re still taking the lead but then leaving it in her court to initiate. Hope this helps.

[@thetruther954]

Yeah, when I was having a pseudo-romance at my last job. (A real romance would involve nobody else knowing about it, if you read me.). This was kind of an experiment with something familiar, but not well understood. There was no physical touching. And I learned a few things.. And maybe black men know more, but the man pretty much at the top, besides CEO. One day, he was commenting “I like it rough. How about you?” You know, what comes with “rough”, I don’t like at all, and I think he was playing. That’s why I’m still seeking the inner Andrew Tate among women. It must reveal the “real woman”. I’m just missing it. And me in particular, I really can’t tell till I’m there. That’s just something you need to know about me.

[@larrydunlap7053]

🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@sveinsannes2329]

☯