Amen. I personally stay to myself at all times no need for nonsense.
@skinfanjay3 жыл бұрын
TRUTH my brutha 💯✌️
@Shawntraci3 жыл бұрын
This topic is why my circle is as small as a dot. I really do not like invites to buffoonery, nonsense, and or toxicity. Keeping one's self away from people who drain you is an absolute must! Thanks for reminding why my cut-off game is top notch. Great advice video good Sir! Keep putting in that outstanding work...
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
My guy!
@Tyler-gq7on3 жыл бұрын
This is why it's good to be secure in yourself. Its good to be open to constructive criticism and be willing to improve, but when you know who you are and that you bring things to the table, these small minded people will barely phase you when you encounter them from time to time.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
great input!
@blackentrepreneur2443 жыл бұрын
my mom is like the people he mentioned. After falling at work (working 10 hours) I suffered a concussion. I learned family don't really care if they cant benefit off of you. I seen a totally different person. Thank God i'm slowly recovering.
@righteousmasculine3 жыл бұрын
Crazy because I know a mother that’s like this she calls her son stupid and all she do is fuss at him and I see it’s because she grew up around chaos sad thing is she’s in her 40s and still don’t see what’s shes creating
@dexterjweaver48123 жыл бұрын
🙏
@chrisbigknowledgegarland63663 жыл бұрын
The kind of people I stay away from are people that post everything we do or places we go to on social media. I'm from that era where when us brethrens link up or have conversations, its only for the people who are present. But giving out locations, share personal information, tagging and speaking on some one else's circumstance on social media will most definitely get you blocked in real life. Salutes and appreciations O.G.💯
@AtypicalM3 жыл бұрын
You said a mouthful. Attention is the new potent drug that most are addicted to.
@chrisbigknowledgegarland63663 жыл бұрын
@@AtypicalM that's the times we are living in unfortunately. I can't move like that bro.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Big facts!
@righteousmasculine3 жыл бұрын
This is the total truth you think just like me I got completely off social media last year and it’s the best thing all it is Is people competing against one another I believe GOD was trying to get my attention because I started losing interest in social media and I drew me closer to him and his word. Now don’t even like to mingle with certain women I like a godly woman
@Natureboypkr23 жыл бұрын
This is literally a blueprint for becoming a goal-oriented and successful person. Negative and insecure people will destroy your vibe.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
for real!
@louisd72423 жыл бұрын
Your so so right that’s why I cut them out like a cancer. The sad thing we grew up together as kids. You truly hit it all on the nail. Thanks for sharing good content 👍🏾
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem Louis!
@SonicBoomC983 жыл бұрын
I had to put my cousin out and stay away from him. He is the gossip, the lazy person, and the victim. He definitely pointed out the negative or wrong with others, even the smallest things to take attention off himself or make sure people knew he wasn't the only person messing up. I don't know if he was the self absorbed, but part of his victim act was always acting like he was just fine until someone else caused a problem. He thought too highly of himself and couldn't ever admit he was the wrong party. He was lazy and unclean. He was a teenage girl in a grown man's body. He was secretly jealous too
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
appreciate the input!
@hastensavoir7782 Жыл бұрын
Love the Username.
@lawrencescott17313 жыл бұрын
You are on top of it!!! Love your content!!!
@ericmeyer13733 жыл бұрын
Got rid of so many walking red flags this past year, I definitely don’t feel as down as I did in the past.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear it Eric!
@thegroove20003 жыл бұрын
I literally only have a few friends. My inner circle The selected few.
@righteousmasculine3 жыл бұрын
I mainly roll solo I know a lot of people and nun of them have nothing bad to say about me unless they hating I got a lot of guys i grew up with that’s like brothers to me but I still mainly roll solo
@deltahomicide93003 жыл бұрын
Thanks for reminding me to keep my inner circle tight, Jeff. Salute!!
@MathewRyan1113 жыл бұрын
I would add avoid men who try to make other men feel bad about themselves. Everybody has a different start line and finish line in life. We don't all have to agree with each other, or understand each other, but if he doesn't practice 'live and let live" he will one day turn his judgements--- on YOU.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
good stuff!
@tumelozar3 жыл бұрын
Nice
@Tyler-gq7on3 жыл бұрын
Usually dudes like that are severely insecure and gotta put others down to feel better about themselves. But theyre also fun to mess with when you own your own flaws and turn it to be something positive, insecure people get worked up around secure people.
@williamjones62763 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👍! These are great tips to keep the stress level from "pegging" on the High side in our lives. And the great thing about avoiding these types of people is that they usually show their true selves so that we can get a glimpse into what type of people they are so we can decide to not even associate with them.
@mikenice75882 жыл бұрын
Salute Jeff!! The Negative and Gossipy people will drain you and like you said if the gossip is about someone else...eventually it will come around to you. You've hit another homerun!!
@bobbyrebholz2183 Жыл бұрын
This video really made me think of certain people that deserve love from others because they're hurting, BUT, the love stops at friendship. With friends, it's much easier to distance yourself and walk away from it if it's toxic. Romantically however, you're in a world of shit lol. Never date anyone with bi-polar disorder, severe depression, hyper anxieties, or narcissistic tendencies. You will slowly be gaslit and be miserable for yeeeeeears.
@godheadlux3 жыл бұрын
Stay far away from people with the mindset of “They don’t care if you doing good as long as you are not doing better than them”.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
For real!
@Joe-vc2cc3 жыл бұрын
Love how you give real life advice for our generation man. Appreciate you OG.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Jose!
@ClayHales3 жыл бұрын
Great list. My brother in law married a victim. We never wanted to see them. It was too much work just being in the same room. I would add yes men. When you need to be called out for your bad idea, but you've got someone saying how great of an idea it is. It's not quite the opposite of a negative person, or an overly critical person, but possibly just as bad, if not worse.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
great input Clay!
@righteousmasculine3 жыл бұрын
When u said you didn’t want to be in the same room as them I felt that I know a person that I can’t stand being around I don’t even like hearing that person voice everything about them just annoy me only because I love peace and they are the opposite
@kenneth78263 жыл бұрын
Excellent points you have made brother Jeff...each one is on target.....PEACE and SALUTE to you.....
@bethel21433 жыл бұрын
Style OG...You are the man!!! Thanks for the pearls of knowledge...YEA Man!! I am not given to quoting basketball players, but one former NBA player said this..People come into your life for one of 4 reasons: to add, to substract, to multiple or to divide. If they can't add or multiple my life, I don't let them subtract or divide. We also have to assess people we let in our lives as assets or liabilities... It can be hard, but it is needed.
@kevinszczepanski57142 жыл бұрын
Great post, Jeff. I made a list while listening, noting at the end that I need to avoid exhibiting these traits myself!
@mikesnorthwesttips37763 жыл бұрын
Really great to see these, I forgot about some of these traits to avoid. Thanks for another one OG
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@edgraham35673 жыл бұрын
This brother here is always on the money. Great content in each video!!!! I can't lie these O.G. vids has helped me a lot. I appreciate you brother.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear it!
@kingokoro81213 жыл бұрын
True facts💯. Stay away from people that talk too much! They’ll tell all your business and pretend like nun happened.
@glrnnel50503 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jeff making me analyzing myself. I have been quick to anger for some time now. Got to get this under control because my lady noticed it and I dismissed it and tried to justify it.
@williorio87333 жыл бұрын
Hey Jeff! Just picked up some new leather Chelsea boots but after wearing them once, I’m already noticing creases. Any tips on how to prevent this?
@kennethsteele68083 жыл бұрын
I agree with Tyler in the comments section. I admit, I vent from time to time, but only when something is wrong and what is going on in my surroundings. But I also look at the positive in things ,too. Peace!
@user-oj5ii6dl2p3 жыл бұрын
Keep up the phenomenal work and your recent video on avoiding certain people is spot on! Salute and Peace!
@ObeyaCorpsArmory3 жыл бұрын
The G in O.G stands for GURU. The Style Original Guru! Speaking the truth again and again. Thank You OG
@JamesEternal3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for consistently dropping value Jeff. The blue Jean jacket is slick. Can you drop a link ? I would love to cop one thanks.
@veronikavanquish3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how you balanced out what you DONT want from a person..with the healthy element you DO want (from the extreme manifestation)
@myv8x93 жыл бұрын
So, So true and I've made the adjustment in my life to avoid many in this video mentioned by Jeff and will show this to my adult son. Many thanks, bro for the enlightenment and truth about many that we encounter throughout life.
@allanclaridge62793 жыл бұрын
Man, you've hit all them on the head. Each one you hit splits off and mutate. So, we all have to hold ourselves accountable by limiting exposure and expectations.
@paulbrandel59803 жыл бұрын
Another strong video, Jeff. I would add the know it all. They're related to the self obsorved.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
For real!
@hellfire5103 жыл бұрын
I watch all your videos brother. Style O.G. what do you think about suspenders with business casual outfits?
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
classic style move
@DapperOver403 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Jeff!! Hope things are going well👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
All is well. How are you my friend!
@DapperOver403 жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOG no complaints on this end…👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
@Victorfeshley3 жыл бұрын
I'm always happy each time you release a new video God bless you my brother!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Same to you!
@deerock68463 жыл бұрын
If I listened to your advice I would have no one in my life. I think the trick is to be aware of People’s flaws and not let them interfere with your life, personality and your goals
@glenngray68593 жыл бұрын
What's up my bro Og. Jeff you and I think so much alike I try my best to keep these very people out of my life. Great knowledge video my G. Salute my friend.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Glenn!
@kgee88143 жыл бұрын
Style O.G. You missed out on befriending the ex’es. Lhh but it’s hard to choose Friends since many People act this way that you encounter. As my Son always says “Play the Game.” You choose when to stop communication when you see the Game coming. We equate it to Chess as you would say “Awareness helps a Brother to grow.” In this life of Business or just living you communicate with all walks of life, discernment is the Checkmate.✊🏿Excellent Lesson Jeff.
@chuchoworldwide3 жыл бұрын
Always appreciate your content. Shout out from Rhode island ✊
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Chucho!
@leroyw37993 жыл бұрын
Bravo Jeff Style O.G , I know many of those people , and yes I stay stay as far as possible from them . But again I learn from this video . Thanks a lot Jeff.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@sandilenjozela38983 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing these videos, I'm in South Africa it's 22:05 right now.
@MathewRyan1113 жыл бұрын
hello from the United States!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@paulevers35383 жыл бұрын
Heeeeey Jeff you're back man!!!! Your videos always inspire me! Men plz subscribe to this man! #Salute
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Paul!
@ernestcarter70733 жыл бұрын
Love this video, avoiding certain people. I agreed with this one. One thing I learned from your video is tempomental people. I just experienced this last month from someone. I can't figure or what to call it until now. This was a perfect timing on this video. Thanks and salute bro 👊💪
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Ernest!
@trenthurt22613 жыл бұрын
I had an coworker who was one of my closest friends but as time went on they developed (or at least started showing) narcissistic behavior to which I was hating my job and believing what they believed. Once they left the job, I became happier and felt more appreciated in the office and was given more responsibility. It is amazing how 1 individual can affect your personality.
@stevemartin80682 жыл бұрын
Once I learned to cut those negative and lazy people out of my life in my younger days, I noticed myself becoming more motivated which lead to more success. I tell younger people all of the time, you have to know when it's time to cut some people out of your life.
@freedomring30223 жыл бұрын
Once again. Great advice OG. In a world filled with a lot of nonsense it’s great to come to your channel and get info one can actually use.
@FatherAndTeacherTV3 жыл бұрын
Excellent points as usual! Thank you, brother.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@DonWonn253 жыл бұрын
Another banger from the bro #StyleOG #Salute
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Donald!
@christopherchristopher25393 жыл бұрын
Nice list and I have enjoyed your content previously. Just a ponderment. Is incorporating the term og in your "brand" name identity really in line with where you are trying to go? Don't know. Perhaps it is. Probably something over my head.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
OG is now commonly used to indicate someone with experience and knowledge in a certain area having evolved from it's original meaning
@christopherchristopher25393 жыл бұрын
@@TheStyleOG Ok. Thank you. I did not know that.
@ravipeiris43883 жыл бұрын
Great video, appreciate it. Please create more video content on similar subjects like these.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, will do!
@dholmesjr3 жыл бұрын
Great advice and solid content... All your videos line right up... You emphasize staying on your purpose . Just by doing that will keep you away from those type of people.... Thanks again Jeff. Salute.
@mngkyouGoD3 жыл бұрын
SOLID AF!! Salute Good sir 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Johnnie!
@Btwice97743 жыл бұрын
Style OG what's good today!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Everything!
@TheoJay6153 жыл бұрын
It really hurts when you grew up with these people and shared so many great memories with them. But that was the past and who they were then has little bearing on who they are now. I had this experience with a close friend and the most painful part was realizing and accepting I could not "save" him. You really are the combination of the 5 closest people to you, so choose them wisely.
@dougingram41833 жыл бұрын
the fire those people put you through probably honed your best traits. ended up giving you power others in your circle lack. i am grateful for those more difficult moments ... 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
everybody can't go with you!
@_Christopher-sh2nk3 жыл бұрын
You hit this one out the park salute
@beansngreens80063 жыл бұрын
Great advice for us ladies, too! 😉. I have maybe 3 friends. Maybe. Lol. The last time I tried to become friends with someone new it was a #2 and #8 combo. 🙄. Quickly went back to my “maybe 3 friends”. 😉. Thanks O.G. for always keeping us straight! 💙💙💙
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem!
@westfieldartworks81883 жыл бұрын
My buddy Randy calls America today " The home of the Victim Olympics." Randy, (not his birthname), grew up in a refugee camp in Laos/Cambodia during the VN War. He emigrated here many moons ago, and just put his nose to the stone and became a huge success. No bitching from that guy. That's why I like to chat with him when I'm in one of his stores. Salute, G.
@raymeester78833 жыл бұрын
"Victim Olympics" reminds me of Anton Daniels.
@era_6823 жыл бұрын
This actually makes you weaker. My mentor once said: *"Never rebuke or run away from the dirty glass. Just place a clean one next to it as a demonstration of possibilities"....* With all these human flaws you just mentioned, you're basically encouraging mental sponges to kow tow to their gullibleness and run away from the world. I advise people to focus on mastering themselves instead. When you've mastered yourself i.e. your triggers, your past, your strengths, your flaws, etc. you don't run away from the filth. You become the center of cleanliness that encourages the filth.
@coachlamont10833 жыл бұрын
Great advice much needed information.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@cliftonsledge9623 жыл бұрын
Some of the people on the list are hard to get rid of, because they are family 🤣. Great video and salute !
@georgelush19983 жыл бұрын
Ain’t that the truth.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No doubt!
@jmorgan08293 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯🗣FACTS excellent job!!!
@regbanks78883 жыл бұрын
That's true OG. All are correct. Especially the temperamental person.
@missfinino3 жыл бұрын
Good luck and love your videos from Canada/Morocco :)
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@shackl65203 жыл бұрын
Salute Mr O.G. All facts.
@darryldessa64442 жыл бұрын
You just mentioned the majority of people in my life growing up, & most of them were relatives.
@rashadjefferson82953 жыл бұрын
Preach my guy keep bringing that knowledge. Great insight. Thumbs 👍🏾
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Will do!
@davidsyengo18933 жыл бұрын
"Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes." - Sigmund Freud 10. Avoid *energy vampires*
@juliolua21043 жыл бұрын
You look good bro but I don't know about that jean jacket... Nevertheless another on point upload that will definitely help many. 👊🙏👌💯
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate that!
@carljhardy793 жыл бұрын
Once again, true content to be applied. Appreciate the guidance. #Salute
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute Carl!
@hughrobinson84183 жыл бұрын
All these characteristics is my captain at the fire Dept. 🤣. I just pray for my guy
@thegroove20003 жыл бұрын
Me as well ha ha.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
oh boy!
@stevegainey26473 жыл бұрын
I had a few Lt's like this bro smh its crazy
@samueldiaz15083 жыл бұрын
Great video!! Thanks for the tips, brother! ✌🏼
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem Samuel!
@dougingram41833 жыл бұрын
AGAIN ! Great content ... Just the right touch ... Bravo 🤘
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks again!
@manders86833 жыл бұрын
All Facts!!!
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@porkchopking6563 жыл бұрын
As a sigma Male I can see rite Through people's intentions So I can appreciate your video In letting others know be careful the company you keep
@t.k.n.y84023 жыл бұрын
Great video topic👍🏾
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@stevenanderson71943 жыл бұрын
To quote Dolores from Westworld: Free will still exists; it’s just f**king hard. Getting certain prople out of our lives is easier said than done.
@AtypicalM3 жыл бұрын
OG, These days it's best to keep away from everyone. Good people are a rarity in this generation.
@toddbaker643 жыл бұрын
T. Stamps - After I watched Jeff's video I was thinking the same thing. It's sad, but almost everyone I know (including myself) can be put into one of those 9 groups. Evil comes in all shades of skin, politics and religion. "Good people" truly are a rarity nowadays. May God help us all...
@AtypicalM3 жыл бұрын
@@toddbaker64 Exactly. I judge people by their integrity, not their color. The government purposely want each race to bicker with one another so they can maintain power.
@real_fjcalabrese3 жыл бұрын
Change starts with me, and I have to not be like the 9 types to avoid.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Agreed Frederick!
@cashmerefunk21363 жыл бұрын
Just passing thur💯what's up big brotha great information if you meet me iam always by myself that way i don't have to worry about somebody else also i never go inside a store with somebody i don't have to worry about them doing something bad. ( no new friends) hey cashmere we are goin to the store you coming nah iam good✌
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
My man!
@brentshern61993 жыл бұрын
Salute Mr Style OG, great video. Can you perhaps make a vid on how to get better sleep ?
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
good topic!
@jamestownsend88083 жыл бұрын
You are telling the truth salute O G Style👍👍
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Salute James!
@georgewatkins883 жыл бұрын
I will keep watching you brother keep up with the good work.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Awesome thank you!
@bryanreilly12903 жыл бұрын
I would also include people pleasers/ martyrs. They are constantly trying to please everyone which is futile to the detriment of accomplishing anything at all. They are often left spinning their wheels and not achieving anything while trying to please everyone.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
appreciate the input!
@oldschool62683 жыл бұрын
You just described my father all but one.
@georgewatkins883 жыл бұрын
Thank you style OG. You are absolutely right salute.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@melvinmckinney91203 жыл бұрын
Great video Jeff. A lot of people don’t know how to act and they to be real men and women.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Melvin!
@geewizwiz33 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I've encountered all these people. Family, friends and coworkers.
@skinfanjay3 жыл бұрын
People are. Great. BUT at times it is good to stay to yourself and enjoy your own company
@jimyoung92623 жыл бұрын
Good advice
@ReadingF.7583 жыл бұрын
You are officially my babies daddy, lol...i needed help to give my 2 sons and step son and male students advise..thank you so very much. Peace ans love to you always.
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Hope it helps them!
@nanakwabena613 жыл бұрын
Salute brother and great advice
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@lotoferos_2 жыл бұрын
Good video!
@nononsense51822 жыл бұрын
Have a small circle of people that are ambitious like you If your not positive you can't add to my grind
@mroie3 жыл бұрын
That why I keep to myself it an lot cheaper and I must happier
@clesser873 жыл бұрын
Great advice Jeff thanks!!!😁
@TheStyleOG3 жыл бұрын
No problem Chris!
@robpalatchi70273 жыл бұрын
An inability to be still, let things settle, to take time to observe and think before concluding and/or admit to still not knowing.