90 Day Fiancé: Shaeeda AGREES to Sign Bilal’s PRENUP!

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Жыл бұрын

ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from season 9, episode 15 of ‘90 Day Fiancé,’ from Shaeeda agreeing to sign Bilal’s prenup, to Mohammed proposing to Yve (again) and Kara and Guillemro getting married. ‘90 Day Fiancé’ airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.

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@IvaK2458
@IvaK2458 Жыл бұрын
Is it just me or does Shaeeda have the best skin I have ever seen? This lady is so stunning!! She should do commercials for skin care for sure...
@MrKihika
@MrKihika Жыл бұрын
Shaeeda is my favorite of all 90 Day Fiancé casts. Her conversation with Bilal's mom brought the show to a whole new level. What an uplift from those tastless and cheap conversations about jiggy-jigy and sexy time. And man, she's so beautiful and classy. Please TLC, we want more Shaeedas and less Angelas, Darceys, Lauras, and Memphises on the show!
@miriamh2551
@miriamh2551 Жыл бұрын
Well said! ❤️
@topeo4710
@topeo4710 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree. Bilsl's mum n sister too are very accepting of her, and give great advice to her. Wishing them both every happiness with their future.
@AndiLovesMolly
@AndiLovesMolly Жыл бұрын
It is also nice to see a Muslim family represented accurately--as classy, cultured and refined.
@miriamh2551
@miriamh2551 Жыл бұрын
@@AndiLovesMolly absolutely, completely agree! 😃
@adrianabonitaaziz
@adrianabonitaaziz Жыл бұрын
And karens
@nicholasgarrick8855
@nicholasgarrick8855 Жыл бұрын
Shaeeda is such a sweet kind hearted lady! Full of elegance,,and class! This has to be the best I've ever seen them together but, she remains far too good for him.....
@aa-ng4ot
@aa-ng4ot Жыл бұрын
Exactly . Something about Bilal is not right.
@dreadxplayzs7849
@dreadxplayzs7849 Жыл бұрын
He comes of shady she should run
@maureengittens258
@maureengittens258 Жыл бұрын
She is going through so much arrogance from this dude is it for green card cuz My mother is from Trinidad there are good guys in Port of Spain🤫
@ththim7785
@ththim7785 Жыл бұрын
@@maureengittens258 exactly 💯! She watching too much American TV. She bought that with the price tag hanging down! I don't feel sorry for her! Not one bit.
@OmniMale
@OmniMale Жыл бұрын
What? She's a money hungry how. Stop.
@nicholasgarrick8855
@nicholasgarrick8855 Жыл бұрын
Bilal mom was spot on its the illusion of power ,and choosing your battles.
@ndiferekewilson2839
@ndiferekewilson2839 Жыл бұрын
I think Shaeeda was right in the beginning when her intuition told her not to sign the prenup. I don't have a good feeling about this relationship. I'm not sure Bilal loves her like she loves him.
@evanjuleen
@evanjuleen Жыл бұрын
I don't understand how everyone can be so flippant about someone signing a prenup that a lawyer said is one sided and shouldn't be signed. I'm not saying she should profit from the marriage but it should be a fair contract.
@JustMe-ug3mk
@JustMe-ug3mk Жыл бұрын
@@evanjuleen Even if she doesn't sign a prenup, Bilal will always be held financially responsible for her as long as she is in America. It's part of the conditions of the spousal visa...this is Bilal mitigating his losses as It's a win win for Shaeeda whichever way you look at it.
@karenmorgan2090
@karenmorgan2090 Жыл бұрын
@@JustMe-ug3mk You're Right! She's already protected by the spousal Visa... Either way this Marriage goes... Bilal is financially responsible for her! I'm surprised Bilal was OK with this!!!
@pamalladin8640
@pamalladin8640 Жыл бұрын
Shaeeda you can live like a queen in Trinidad .try if this what you want.
@oluwabukolaoyemola2494
@oluwabukolaoyemola2494 Жыл бұрын
@@evanjuleen q]
@MrBeard-ig5zc
@MrBeard-ig5zc Жыл бұрын
Marriage is not easy. I wish all of them happiness.
@miriamh2551
@miriamh2551 Жыл бұрын
What a nice comment compared to all these others. God bless all of these couples ❤️
@PrincessDie187
@PrincessDie187 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@cocoa_goddess6101
@cocoa_goddess6101 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is the biggest most important step in a relationship. This is beyond being friends, close friends, or even boyfriend/girlfriend. Marriage is an investment spiritually and physically between two people. You don’t buy cars, real estate, and or jewelry for girlfriends/boyfriends because those are temporary relationships. A relationship in limbo where two people don’t know if they are coming or going. When you invest time and money into bringing someone else from a foreign land, with the intentions of settling down. That’s marital decision. Marriage isn’t a relationship in limbo. I see possible potential in these two. Everything seems to be about money though. This conversation should have taken place before bringing her over to a foreign land.
@nelkalsbeek3820
@nelkalsbeek3820 Жыл бұрын
Geven en nemen en elkaar vrij laten
@adrianarafael7458
@adrianarafael7458 Жыл бұрын
The conversation between Shaeeda and Bilal's mom was a beautiful moment and very relatable
@candor5681
@candor5681 Жыл бұрын
Bilal's mom need to be in the 90 day's "voice of reasons" hall of fame
@KiraAntoinette
@KiraAntoinette Жыл бұрын
It’s beautiful that She and his mom really love and like eachother. It doesn’t always go that route.
@ilovegoodsax
@ilovegoodsax Жыл бұрын
Shaeeda begging Bilal for a baby he clearly doesn't want smh.🙄
@dolorestafoya2782
@dolorestafoya2782 Жыл бұрын
Ik just the look on his face like no but I wanna make you happy and not hurt your feelings
@sadcatsam
@sadcatsam Жыл бұрын
😵‍💫😵‍💫
@Miss-zr1rv
@Miss-zr1rv Жыл бұрын
Money is more important for her. She just stays married with that idiot. That way she has money/food/clothes/a house etc his whole life.
@Miss-zr1rv
@Miss-zr1rv Жыл бұрын
@@dolorestafoya2782 that is called acting😂
@MissOnai_SouthAfrica
@MissOnai_SouthAfrica Жыл бұрын
Dude.
@ashleyashleym2969
@ashleyashleym2969 Жыл бұрын
Aww, his mom seems so nice. She seems like she is such a healthy person and non problematic. I hope they grow a strong bond together!
@magdasanon5469
@magdasanon5469 Жыл бұрын
His mother is a physician
@julief2830
@julief2830 Жыл бұрын
she is very level headed
@dreadxplayzs7849
@dreadxplayzs7849 Жыл бұрын
The son is the issue he gives of a selflish dishonest vibe
@sarahbouraima3892
@sarahbouraima3892 Жыл бұрын
AMEEEN YAH RAHBI 😍
@RK-su4hs
@RK-su4hs Жыл бұрын
@@dreadxplayzs7849 undercover shady. & not handsome or charming She deserves So much better
@nicholasgarrick8855
@nicholasgarrick8855 Жыл бұрын
Why would you knowingly have a kid with a narcissist. The potential for psychological abuse is crazy.
@lilyofthevalley1045
@lilyofthevalley1045 Жыл бұрын
I knooow!!! Everyone's here thinking how sweet he is... He's that good at manipulating people... Damn! And he's going to continue manipulating her like that until it's no longer subtle ..
@MissOnai_SouthAfrica
@MissOnai_SouthAfrica Жыл бұрын
Are you suggesting his other two kids that have been featured on the show have been crazily psychologically abused? 🤔
@jesusfreak5401
@jesusfreak5401 Жыл бұрын
The first wife knows this better..or rather, can answer this much better 🤷🤦
@41n98
@41n98 Жыл бұрын
potential? it’s already happening
@southsudani983
@southsudani983 Жыл бұрын
desperate
@Philthy215
@Philthy215 Жыл бұрын
“Will it matter in 5 years?” Melicia: “mmm yeah, that prenup will!” Girl 😂
@butterflylove958
@butterflylove958 7 ай бұрын
1 little side shade..😂...she did good overall
@jdalycitym8016
@jdalycitym8016 Жыл бұрын
Hands down Shaheeda and the mom was the best moment. Genuine and real!
@miriamh2551
@miriamh2551 Жыл бұрын
Heart touching and beautiful ❤️
@mekosmotivationalmessages
@mekosmotivationalmessages Жыл бұрын
Great point on submission. I agree. Submitting to a GOOD man is not a BAD thing. Submission does NOT equal control. It’s just allowing your husband to BE the man. I’m not following a fool, the blind can NOT lead the blind; everybody will end up in a ditch child! If he’s shown he’s intelligent, responsible, strong, also caring and willing to compromise: I’M ALL FOR IT. He can be the HEAD, but I’m the NECK…the head can’t turn without cooperation from the neck😂😂😂. You ever had a stiff neck? 😂😂😂. You have to turn your whole body just to look to the left😂😂😂. All jokes aside submission is not a dictatorship, it’s a partnership. I’m 26 years into my marriage and I have no problem with submitting (to a GOOD MAN). I prefer my husband being in the leadership role, that’s just me though. Do what works FOR you.
@picklepoppers8223
@picklepoppers8223 Жыл бұрын
The mother has wisdom that can be published in a book. She is calm, positive and extremely practical. A high value woman.
@shashamarie4760
@shashamarie4760 Жыл бұрын
Are you talking about his EX wife?
@picklepoppers8223
@picklepoppers8223 Жыл бұрын
@@shashamarie4760 the mother in law. The guys mother. Very very strong and intelligent lady. Now I see where does he gets his level headed behaviour from.
@shashamarie4760
@shashamarie4760 Жыл бұрын
@@picklepoppers8223 ohhh-ok. I see. Yes, his mother is amazing. Not sure he has all of her calming skills.
@picklepoppers8223
@picklepoppers8223 Жыл бұрын
@@shashamarie4760 he does. Otherwise he would not have been able to be so successful. He knows what he wants and is not afraid to set boundaries.
@shashamarie4760
@shashamarie4760 Жыл бұрын
@@picklepoppers8223 I'm fine with boundaries. But tricking someone to get in a white van and a house that you no longer live in ia called "trickery ". Shady. He needs to stop playing with her emotions. Prenup is fine too, but she's gotta protect herself. He's ALL about HIM She is disposable in his eyes.
@bee9037
@bee9037 Жыл бұрын
Bilal's mom is such a wise woman. 👏
@nahtally.b9139
@nahtally.b9139 Жыл бұрын
It would not surprised me if Bilal get a vasectomy without telling her and blame it on her for not getting pregnant.
@babyrheas
@babyrheas Жыл бұрын
Ohhhh. That will be an evil thing to do..but it's something he is definitely capable of👿👿
@miriamh2551
@miriamh2551 Жыл бұрын
Nope, y'all are haters. I think he's a decent, honest man
@diamcole
@diamcole Жыл бұрын
@@miriamh2551 Lol well, I pray for your emotional well-being if that’s who you would choose as a partner.
@miriamh2551
@miriamh2551 Жыл бұрын
@@diamcole praise God, my hubby is wonderful, and I think Bilal is an honest, upstanding man too. He's just letting her know upfront what he wants & he isn't doing things secretly behind her back. I pray they have a beautiful marriage ❤️
@lockedin6699
@lockedin6699 Жыл бұрын
Doubt that. Vasectomies are not permitted in their religion.
@kikiz3893
@kikiz3893 Жыл бұрын
The biggest mistake shaheeda will be marring a man who wants to have power over you. It s his way or no way
@lovelilpeep6588
@lovelilpeep6588 Жыл бұрын
I Love his Mom 💗 she's such an Amazing Blessing. I Love her soft & wise voice.
@julief2830
@julief2830 Жыл бұрын
Her advice and the way she speaks reminds me of Maya Angelou
@karenmorgan2090
@karenmorgan2090 Жыл бұрын
@@julief2830 Yes!!! She's Very comforting & compassionate!
@VJASK93
@VJASK93 Жыл бұрын
I felt so touched by bilal’s mom ❤
@misninjathatil6879
@misninjathatil6879 Жыл бұрын
Bilial's mom gives great advise ❤️ she's going to be a good mother inlaw
@ConstellationCommunication
@ConstellationCommunication Жыл бұрын
To Shaheedah I would say be careful and don’t fall on the sword too much after one tender conversation with his mother. Know this, parents will MOSTLY side with their children. He may be a good man right now so to speak according to his mother but that doesn’t mean he’s for YOU…❤️
@babyrheas
@babyrheas Жыл бұрын
Oh my..this is an accurate statement. She took what his mom said and literally ran with it. She needs to tread lightly..and follow her own gut.
@CelesteJem
@CelesteJem Жыл бұрын
The mother trained him well. Like mother like son. Shaeda needs to be having this conversation with her own mother. Why would his mother serve against his interests in favor of yours?
@courtneysmallwood5253
@courtneysmallwood5253 Жыл бұрын
I need the scoop on what happened with Bilal and his ex! His ex says they’re friends and has the right to be concerned about his new relationship, but all Bilal’s family talks about is how much his ex hurt him. 🧐
@michellejade3272
@michellejade3272 Жыл бұрын
Don’t like Kara’s personality at all but her Old Hollywood look on her wedding day was GORGEOUS.
@ellavader4411
@ellavader4411 Жыл бұрын
I'd love to meet the person she thinks she is ... Her ego is off the charts ...
@pmd1933
@pmd1933 Жыл бұрын
The mother conversation is so great!! Wow yes real talk. Mothers have the life experience and know their sons.
@sadcatsam
@sadcatsam Жыл бұрын
She has to beg him for a baby !??? Wow he has nerve
@mmakgotsonganga9537
@mmakgotsonganga9537 Жыл бұрын
A choice rather.. It seems as if she is doing what most women do... Force things too much
@edzisanipatriciavhuromu801
@edzisanipatriciavhuromu801 Жыл бұрын
I’ve doubted her from the start cause she seems to be more in material thing and it’s good that Bilal protect himself in anyway. She is in love with what he have and that wouldn’t end well so prenuptial contract is the only way to go. Wish them all the best.
@diaflowers1822
@diaflowers1822 Жыл бұрын
I was one of the people who could not stand this man since that car ride..but at the same time i understood him wanting a prenup....however this scene has definitely made me look at him differently..I see a lot of people saying he don't want more kids and he NEVER said that. What he said was he didn't want to have a kid when they are still in the beginning stages. He want to make sure they have a chance of making their marriage and relationship stronger BEFORE kids come into the pic...and there is NOTHING wrong with that.
@denaa4517
@denaa4517 Жыл бұрын
Also...I think Bilal is someone who could've definitely benefited from therapy. You can see this push and pull within himself. (Unfortunately there's still a stigma around therapy and mental health in some communities, especially when faith based where "pray it away" mentality is strong. Both are important in my opinion. I have noticed this stigma is fading thankfully) I actually never thought he was a bad guy in the first place...but Shaeeda was right to say she is paying for the damage someone else caused in some way. Hopefully they are happy and healing together.
@adrianabonitaaziz
@adrianabonitaaziz Жыл бұрын
Melicia ... Being wonderfully diplomatic 🤗 and sensible for 18 minutes straight 👌
@paulabrault301
@paulabrault301 Жыл бұрын
Yes Melicia! I really appreciate how you acknowledged and addressed this difficult conversation while remaining the beautiful, strong, independent woman you are and while being equally diplomatic yet true to who you are. 👍🙂
@adrianabonitaaziz
@adrianabonitaaziz Жыл бұрын
@@paulabrault301 Exactly !
@reyprzz
@reyprzz Жыл бұрын
of course Shaeeda is even gorgeous when she's sad
@02loud
@02loud Жыл бұрын
She's so beautiful, I look forward to her outfits every episode loll!
@profitsncoffee
@profitsncoffee Жыл бұрын
One thing I like about Shaeeda is that she is up front. You’ll never have to wonder what she’s thinking.
@megopheim5228
@megopheim5228 Жыл бұрын
I want to be Shaeeda's friend so bad. She seems like such an empowering person to have a relationship with.
@SINA-ux9tb
@SINA-ux9tb Жыл бұрын
That means Mohammed’s mom don’t want him back home. Hahaha kiddin 🤣🤣
@jahmekmi2165
@jahmekmi2165 Жыл бұрын
Lol..exactly
@erynspiritualdiva376
@erynspiritualdiva376 Жыл бұрын
Secure that citizenship
@Bestlivexg
@Bestlivexg Жыл бұрын
in their they don't marry an old woman he just wants green card after to run away from her
@mypoint3051
@mypoint3051 Жыл бұрын
But 💯😉
@skweek2258
@skweek2258 Жыл бұрын
Shaeeda is going to have her own business and a green card even though their marriage didn’t go well. That’s nice.
@evanjuleen
@evanjuleen Жыл бұрын
I don't feel like shaeeda has ever asked for too much but my goodness Bilal has gone way too far several times, "testing" her w his old house and getting mad when she asked for equal legal representation in reviewing the prenup, the fact the prenup is so one sided, letting his ex show up to talk shaeeda into signing it 🙄🤔. Him not respecting the award winning business she had already built back home.
@khululiwekhuzwayo1436
@khululiwekhuzwayo1436 Жыл бұрын
This is what my sister always say: women love the status of getting married, marriage is not about the ring its about what happens afterwards, the after. She exactly knows she's marrying a psychopath. She's unhappy as a gf what the hell makes her think she's gonna be happy as his wife?
@bgipper4109
@bgipper4109 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right!
@hopeb.4440
@hopeb.4440 Жыл бұрын
She’s desperate and wants a rich lifestyle.
@amiejalloh2467
@amiejalloh2467 Жыл бұрын
Submission can mean so many things.
@NG-th8ny
@NG-th8ny Жыл бұрын
No, no, no! This is a great example of a woman making the wrong decision because their clock is ticking loudly and they’re desperate for a ring and children.
@mariamonge6831
@mariamonge6831 Жыл бұрын
Bilal's mom- Wisdom, Strength, Tenderness
@Keepbe
@Keepbe Жыл бұрын
Shaeeda is being manipulated big time. Submission does not mean neglect your needs. It should go without saying that the prenup should benefit and protect her as much as it does bilal. I really hope she doesn’t completely lose herself in this marriage listening to the advice of others
@MarriageAcrossCulture
@MarriageAcrossCulture Жыл бұрын
The prenup HAS TO or it’s void.
@maleman9894
@maleman9894 Жыл бұрын
How is a prenup going to protect her she don't have s*** to protect. Y'all always want broke ass women to benefit from a marriage when a rich woman won't even entertain a broke man.
@rhondadenis3469
@rhondadenis3469 Жыл бұрын
Submission is all about trust. I submit to my husband when necessary, I push back when needed. But at the end of the day I allow him to lead because he has my trust. I know that he has our best interest at heart.
@denaa4517
@denaa4517 Жыл бұрын
Guillermo was super cute dancing. He is in love! They seem to be genuine. A blessing on your house Mazel Tov! Mazel Tov!
@bernadettemitchell2155
@bernadettemitchell2155 Жыл бұрын
I like how his Mom speak very slowly and teaching her some important lessons
@sharonpatricia1335
@sharonpatricia1335 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Melissa 😊 Luv your breakdown.
@BritimaShow
@BritimaShow Жыл бұрын
The mom gave really wise advice. I had to rewind it a few times
@mistiangelroserosa2410
@mistiangelroserosa2410 Жыл бұрын
Me too..!! 😹 I also wrote it down in my notebook.!!
@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 Жыл бұрын
Shaeeda has no business in the US with narcissistic Bial. She's never been married and has no children. There are plenty of single childless men in the US that she could've hooked up with to have a family. Bilal doesn't want anymore kids. He just doesn't want to be without companionship.
@simpaticaafilipina
@simpaticaafilipina Жыл бұрын
Before she turns 40 ? Why wait that long ? Getting pregnant at 38 or 39 sometimes won't be that easy anymore
@pierr6496
@pierr6496 Жыл бұрын
She's already I think 37 or 38
@simpaticaafilipina
@simpaticaafilipina Жыл бұрын
@@pierr6496 so should be now. I have two friends who both had a hard time getting pregnant at 35.
@ilovegoodsax
@ilovegoodsax Жыл бұрын
The viable egg count drops drastically after age 35, and infertility, miscarriages, birth and genetic defects (i.e. Down Syndrome) increase. At age 37/38, Shaeeda might want to freeze some of her eggs like NOW.
@WinterWeFell
@WinterWeFell Жыл бұрын
@@simpaticaafilipina I think the point is if they start trying, let’s say a year after marriage when she’s 38, it might take two more years of trying to get pregnant regardless. Not that they start trying when she’s already 40
@rainstorm571
@rainstorm571 Жыл бұрын
@@simpaticaafilipina I think you misunderstood, basically it’s before she turns 40, so she’s saying she wants to start immediately and not wait for him to make up his mind
@marsargoxmiso1695
@marsargoxmiso1695 Жыл бұрын
I understand the compromise but Bilal is manipulative I don’t know I feel like he will invest in her yoga studio and if things go sour he’ll take it away from her. Mohamed just wants that green card he clearly does not care for compromising at this point I think his mother is like take this this opportunity or come back to little opportunity in Egypt.
@elizabethj2182
@elizabethj2182 Жыл бұрын
Yep that summed it up well
@miriamh2551
@miriamh2551 Жыл бұрын
I think you're being negative and thinking the worst of others intentions. Give the guys a chance, I wish these couples the best
@maximumblackness1
@maximumblackness1 Жыл бұрын
Her advice just helped my married ass too lol I love some good parents advice nothing better than that
@mayrafrancis7127
@mayrafrancis7127 Жыл бұрын
His mother is a touching lady because she's knowns when their get hurt and she's try to be the best mom that gives her children advice.
@indamix8221
@indamix8221 Жыл бұрын
Girl RUN I don't know why I'm getting such a bad feeling about this relationship. I want the best for her but something feels so off
@karlaknapper7616
@karlaknapper7616 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad he is compromising and can see things from her point of view.
@rkhomestt8741
@rkhomestt8741 Жыл бұрын
Shaeeda represents my country very well.
@annatyra671
@annatyra671 Жыл бұрын
Omg Malecia, I love you even more after this episode and after what you said about submission, oh what a triggering subject. You are so smart what you said makes perfect sense, thank you a tiny piece of healing has been done through your words. I greatly appreciate you 😌 I hope you feel through my comment what this means to me.❤
@girlwakeuppodcast4622
@girlwakeuppodcast4622 Жыл бұрын
I Absolutely Love the HOST OMG! She's perfect for 90 Fiancé Recaps
@RachelAli1791
@RachelAli1791 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your calm and respectful discussion, Melicia! This would not be a situation that worked for me, but as the saying goes...if they like it, I love it.
@pn4640
@pn4640 Жыл бұрын
Bilal sent his mom to manipulate shaeeda and she truly fell for it
@yvonneblake2
@yvonneblake2 Жыл бұрын
In our culture his mom become her mom the mom needs to be impartial... Plus in their religion submission is important... That is why dating is important why would you marrying someone who don't know what they are doing?
@CelesteJem
@CelesteJem Жыл бұрын
I’m just saying!
@stormyzee5272
@stormyzee5272 Жыл бұрын
Yup lol
@katewhite7652
@katewhite7652 Жыл бұрын
Not the Mom gaslighting her into marriage 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
@Blackprince18
@Blackprince18 Жыл бұрын
Wise words about relationship from a elder . I myself will take into consideration the advice she gave .
@michellejade3272
@michellejade3272 Жыл бұрын
Emily needs self awareness!!! She will end up driving every husband she weds, AWAY! NO man wants his wife to treat him like he’s a child! Let a man have his dignity for crying out loud!
@AfricanWifeinPakistan
@AfricanWifeinPakistan Жыл бұрын
She needs to find her feminine energy. She s too masculine, energy and vibrations, and by the time Emily does. Kobe will be out of the door, gone.
@robfiore1503
@robfiore1503 Жыл бұрын
I like your show, you make really insightful comments and you seem genuine. Keep up the great work.
@rmenendez
@rmenendez Жыл бұрын
Bilal’s sister is joking. Look at her. That’s probably his mom’s dress.🤣🤣🤣
@manishacocco5923
@manishacocco5923 Жыл бұрын
he’s so toxic, she needs to get out of this asap
@heatherbukowski2102
@heatherbukowski2102 Жыл бұрын
the mom seems like such a kind, warm person. I'd never personally marry into a family where women are taught and expected to submit to their husbands lol. but hey... to each their own. they aren't hurting me.
@mrssamuel1332
@mrssamuel1332 Жыл бұрын
Submission is beautiful 🥰 but the men have to prove he can lead and make good decisions as the head of the family. And a women only is submit to her husband not no boyfriend or just any men she with . I understand shaeeda submitting but I hope she understands it don't mean you says yes to everything and goes along with everything. you have to have person hood. Don't make marriage your everything. Or revolve your life around your spouse. After 7 years of marriage I learned the hard way.
@yvettesmith6704
@yvettesmith6704 Жыл бұрын
Mama said don't bring your ass back here. She on vacation time.
@ellavader4411
@ellavader4411 Жыл бұрын
He has the personality of a dial tone ...
@georgenep1082
@georgenep1082 Жыл бұрын
Melecia is like the perfect BF in my head. Love her commentary
@Sunflower-wo2xw
@Sunflower-wo2xw Жыл бұрын
Bilal mom Mansha’Allah she is good mom, May Allah give her good health and long life.
@itsjustbrandy4290
@itsjustbrandy4290 Жыл бұрын
Girl, your hair and makeup are always on point!!!
@deeelisa1890
@deeelisa1890 Жыл бұрын
Submission works if done correctly! If the man treats you like a queen, then why not?
@zeekay8225
@zeekay8225 Жыл бұрын
Bilal's mom seems like a sweet lady, but oof, so much of her "advice" was so problematic, such as her perpetuating the flawed idea that men are divinely anointed with special qualities, skills and wisdom that women do not have, which allows men to hold positions of authority in home, but not women. This patriarchal notion has kept women down for millennia. His mom was (maybe unknowingly) gaslighting her - telling her to submit, that the woman doesn't always have to be right, men can have less tact when speaking etc.?! Basically telling her to ignore the pit in the bottom of her stomach that is telling her she's being mistreated and accept him for all his flaws, because he's allowed to have flaws but wives cannot. Terrible, terrible advice. Shaeeda is also naive to think that just because his mom was married for a long time means she had a great marriage. It could just mean she stayed quiet and "submissive" while being treated unfairly. Why is it so hard to accept that women and men are equals?!
@bandito241
@bandito241 Жыл бұрын
Religion.
@zeekay8225
@zeekay8225 Жыл бұрын
@@bandito241 seriously.
@arieswoman824
@arieswoman824 Жыл бұрын
Bilal looked terrified at the idea of another child
@Kariberri208
@Kariberri208 Жыл бұрын
Her reaction to that dress 😂😂🤣🤣 She didn’t hold anything back!
@thayouth
@thayouth Жыл бұрын
lol, I remember how my husband wanted us to get a prenup cause he had divorced friends that said every couple should. I was like: hell no, I'm poor, you're poorer, we have nothing to secure. So we got married without one. Still happily married. But it's good and important to agree on the major subjects before marriage. Things like children, jobs etcetera, so the convo is more important than the document.
@bandito241
@bandito241 Жыл бұрын
“I’m poor and you’re poorer” Guuurl I’m dead 😵
@eddieblount8862
@eddieblount8862 6 ай бұрын
He should've stood his ground. Women are totally different during divorce 😂
@melgray4530
@melgray4530 Жыл бұрын
The man said that he didn't want to have kids. RED FLAG. Now he has to compromise and have a 👶 baby.
@aluko401
@aluko401 Жыл бұрын
I came across your channel and I'm absolutely hooked!!!
@02loud
@02loud Жыл бұрын
I liked that they were able to come to a compromise on the prenup. Good for them and yes I want to see that wedding too because they'll look amazing.
@MissOnai_SouthAfrica
@MissOnai_SouthAfrica Жыл бұрын
What compromise tho? 😂
@02loud
@02loud Жыл бұрын
@@MissOnai_SouthAfrica Shaeeda including clauses to protect herself and him accepting her amendments, simple enough for you?
@butterflylove958
@butterflylove958 7 ай бұрын
Did they marry?
@bellalee6927
@bellalee6927 Жыл бұрын
His Mother is dropping some gems.
@uniquehomes9903
@uniquehomes9903 Жыл бұрын
Yesssssss loving the hair cut.
@ebonyjackson3198
@ebonyjackson3198 Жыл бұрын
There's something about Bilal that seems off and just doesn't sit right. But I hope I'm wrong and that they have a happy and healthy marriage.
@tayerozzay
@tayerozzay Жыл бұрын
Why would the sister not follow her design for her wedding dress and then tell shaeeda that sometimes customers don't really know what they want ummm No she told you what she wanted and you went and did something else and gave her that ugly dress just days before her wedding if you couldnt create what she wanted you should've said that
@QueenMel_
@QueenMel_ Жыл бұрын
i heard a rumour saying Bilal got a vasectomy and can't have any more kids anyways 👀 that's messed up if he did and should null and void the contract agreement
@bonitaapplebum40
@bonitaapplebum40 Жыл бұрын
I just love his mom!!
@RedBunnybaby
@RedBunnybaby Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe she would sign that 🤦🏼‍♀️
@user-le9bd4cs2r
@user-le9bd4cs2r Жыл бұрын
She deserves way better.
@raysha9932
@raysha9932 Жыл бұрын
What is wrong to be submissive to a good man ? If he’s doing everything he suppose to im all for it
@macvictok6322
@macvictok6322 Жыл бұрын
You’re Right, I just hope he doesn’t change on her right after she signed it
@SB-fh3sv
@SB-fh3sv Жыл бұрын
i like the advice on asking sure you don’t take their manhood away. Kobe needs his woman to listen to this. Being submissive to a good man means the man steps up and is not a child
@xolovenicole
@xolovenicole Жыл бұрын
Key word… good man
@Azucarmelove
@Azucarmelove Жыл бұрын
Healthy relationships include compromise... not if one or both are submissive to each other... using toxic controlling terms like submissiveness are huge red flags.
@ilovegoodsax
@ilovegoodsax Жыл бұрын
@@Azucarmelove Agree.💯
@Sacha6100
@Sacha6100 Жыл бұрын
all i wanna know is what brand of lashes shaeeda is using
@michelleallred8521
@michelleallred8521 Жыл бұрын
I think Sheeda looks much better in the pink than the dark red in her interview. The lighter color compliments her well
@amandajockisch7172
@amandajockisch7172 Жыл бұрын
Ugh they did Shaeda dirty with that crying face of hers as the thumbnail...
@InhumanCondition-gh2qj
@InhumanCondition-gh2qj 2 ай бұрын
If a ring and a wedding don't make a woman feel secure then not signing a prenup is in no way going to make her feel more secure. She wants a child before 40 because that is money in the bank with child support.
@lydiapicano8806
@lydiapicano8806 Жыл бұрын
I really like Bilal's mom. Bilal not so much, however, I wish them the best.
@SraRivas-vt1jm
@SraRivas-vt1jm Жыл бұрын
Shaeeda run for your life. That marriage doesn't look good.
@erickafergus6975
@erickafergus6975 Жыл бұрын
This young lady articulates herself so well. She makes me proud to see her on television. A positive intelligent women!!!
@christinengo9153
@christinengo9153 Жыл бұрын
I agree with the strong and tender part
@alishaphilbert4754
@alishaphilbert4754 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is hard already and Bidal omg good luck girl I'm routing for you sis.
@iStorm-my5fp
@iStorm-my5fp 9 ай бұрын
His mom is so nice
@tressamorgan1128
@tressamorgan1128 Жыл бұрын
Another great read melicia girl! We agree on the submission thing as I will not follow no man into a ditch. The man has to show you he can lead before I will follow so for me he must have a sincere strong relationship with God & he can start to show his leadership while we’re dating. Don’t wait until you are married because that’s too late. IMO. Also glad to have a couple from Kansas City. I want to be on this show so bad.
@kimararichardson9413
@kimararichardson9413 Жыл бұрын
Mama is a blessing...the Lord gave her those words
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