90 Day Fiancé Tell-All: Shaeeda and Bilal’s Ex-Wife FACE OFF!

ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from part 1 of the ‘90 Day Fiancé’ season 9 Tell-All, from Shaeeda and Bilal’s ex-wife facing off, to Jibri stealing the show by stirring up drama with Ariela and Patrick’s brother, John. Part 2 of the ‘90 Day Fiancé’ season 9 Tell-All airs Sunday, Aug. 21, at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Honestly, Bilal's ex needs to butt out. She's so disrespectful, and the way she spoke to the current wife was definitely disgusting.

[@darksaiyan4]

Muslims can have more then one wife the way she acts is like they still together

[@Bizzimommee]

It's none of her business. any pre-nup discussion should be between Bilal and his present wife...not an exwife...she would like she wants Bilal back...when she stated she was hurt over the response to the childhood house...ma'am that's not your business 🧐

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

He has 3 ex wives!

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

@@Bizzimommee his ex wife thinks she’s in charge still! I would never let her in the house!

[@justfarida]

@@darksaiyan4 the similarities in their name for me though and yeah he looks like my wife come back.

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Cant stand jibri sitting there acting like he is so prefect, criticizing everyone like if he has a prefect relationship lol.

[@02loud]

He couldn't keep his mouth closed for more than 5 minutes. He's so annoying 😂

[@moonchild2077]

That's what everyone always does during the tell all I noticed.😂 It's both entertaining and infuriating, watching these people act like they are qualified to criticize and give advice to the other couples like they aren't just as bad lol

[@calenajackson8772]

Yesssss like shut up. It really irked he when called himself pointing out which couple would make it and who wouldn’t. Mind yo business and make sure your own marriage last

[@lynnettelandry6977]

Somebody help a old lady up off this floor ! I've laughed so hard and out loud That I've fallen and can't get back up ! 🌼💜😂💜🌼 Lorrrty !

[@GG-qy2wy]

@@02loud right!

[@QueenMB649]

The level of composure and calmness that Shaeeda has I aspire to have one day

[@outlawaz1266]

Then people will treat you like bilal

[@samanthalake5011]

That broad is faker than a 7 dollar bill.

[@lovahgurl]

Yeah unless you're in the car with her and while you're driving she decides to give you a couple of snacks LOL if that was my son I would go and break her fingers. I'm Italian that's how we do it

[@lornawilson9651]

Yeah I would of been a crazy lady

[@BDavis-ot3ny]

Gotta be the yoga lol.

[@cchxx624]

I don’t get it why people are upset about how shaeeda reacted to the house, it’s the fact that he appeared to her as someone who indulge in branded bags and watches, but live in a rundown house, that says about his poor finance management, also, moving to a new country giving up what you have, it’s a huge shock to find out what he presented to you was not the true situation you think you’ll be in

[@sabir1208]

Reminds me of anansi and the tale of nothing. He switched clothes with a rich man and got 3 wives to marry him and they all ended up poor and lived in a hut lol. And they were mad as hell

[@catherinejordan5491]

That's why the almighty queen shaeeba should have stay in her own country and live the rich life she clam she had

[@dietlindvonhohenwald448]

She never even had a house of her own, not even a small condo. Lived with her parents all her life. Most Americans do not even own a house! She’s a gold digger but her time clock is ticking, almost 40.

[@dietlindvonhohenwald448]

Ari and Jibril match better, both living off their parents all their lives and in their 30’s 🤣

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

I could watch a full episode of John calling jibri sparkles😂

[@neldamayfield3037]

Gibri is very immature…

[@samanthajones4]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@leilanistillwell8661]

Spaaaakals

[@calenajackson8772]

😂😂😂 he’s a character I don’t think he’s that bad but then again I don’t live with him

[@fionagreaves2836]

Me too. I love John.I think he is a funny guy. However Jibri is very annoying. He thinks he has all the answers.Cannot stand him.

[@applesandoranges117]

Jibri is 100 percent nervous and wanted all the heat off of him and onto the other cast members. His immaturity level has been shown all throughout the show.

[@fionagreaves2836]

ApplesandOranage Very very true,but he still wants to be the center of attention.

[@applesandoranges117]

@@fionagreaves2836 Very True! 🥴😂

[@Emily-xl2cr]

I cannot believe the level of dislike I have for this manchild.

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

The guy is a circus clown 😳

[@karenmorgan2090]

Jibri' was trying to avoid any Questions about his Marriage... But all you had to do was Look at Miona's Face... which said it all.... She's definitely not Happy!!☹️☹️

[@thisismyinferno]

I'll just say this, the ex wife is able to be disrespectful of Sheeda because Bilal ALLOWS IT. The ex wife connection came from his side and he doesn't set boundaries to stop her from over stepping because it ENFORCES what Bilal wants which is a prenuptial agreement or obedience, etc. Bilal didn't say one thing to his exwife at any point to protect Shaeeda from feeling disrespected. The ONLY TIME he got even remotely uncomfortable is when the exwife revealed the issues that led to HER divorcing HIM. He got called out and seen for who he is. Bilal entrapped Shaeeda. He used their religious beliefs to bound them together saying they couldn't live together otherwise and did this well before she came to the states. That's bull! That's why Shaeeda is working so hard to make the relationship work. She felt married to him before the ACTUAL ceremony. She felt pressured.

[@uche3017]

Well, if Bilal defended himself at that point, then maybe I may have raised an eyebrow as to why he didn't protect his wife. Not everyone reacts the same way to be frank

[@annconforti9294]

Shaeeda has handled things way better than most! She's a classy, elegant Lady!

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Financial abuse is a thing too. Bilal def uses the fact " he's in control " to manipulate the situations.

[@denisebonardi3685]

SO COULD I I CAN NOT STAND JIBRIS OUT FITS HE THINKS HE IS A MODERN DAY LIBERACE

[@julieweiner1623]

Bilah 🤮☠️🦨💩

[@GG-qy2wy]

@@denisebonardi3685 I love that!! 👍🤣

[@Ria-sd2ex]

Right. It's very sleezy.

[@emanbarnawi2091]

Sure ...that's why men like him always go for women with no/less financial stability.

[@Cheeeyyyxo]

Bilals ex wife has clearly overstepped. She has NO RIGHT to input on personal matters such as a prenup

[@teamcougars]

Agreed, I think she was all over that business because she wants her money to continue and milk Bilal for more money for her kids 🤦‍♀️ she is so self serving.

[@rosewanda2]

I totally agree

[@nicolem621]

I think Bilal put her up to it. I agree with you

[@InTheMourning421]

I disagree. She has kids with this man and wants her kids to be protected.

[@Cheeeyyyxo]

@@InTheMourning421 personally my personal relationship or marital affairs have nothing to do with the father of my children from my previous relationship nor does it have anything to with his children from a previous relationship. If she had concerns the conversation should have been had with Bilal and trusted that HE would make the appropriate decisions for his children, himself and wife. She had no right speaking to his woman. Personally she wouldn’t be welcomed to set foot on my home ever again.

[@ItsMe-ri5bt]

Being born in America with Trinidadian parents, she is showing tremendous restraint! Respect!🇹🇹

[@briancasa1054]

I would never let my ex get involved in my new happy relationship! Why invite headaches 😅😅🤦🏾‍♂️

[@skontheroad]

Because she is going to be her children's stepmother. She has every right to get involved! Or, at least 50%, per law, if they share custody.

[@tysan2808]

@@skontheroad No EX hubby has any right what so ever to poke their nose in their Ex-partners new marriage. The only time to be involved is when it strictly about the kids..like parenting and all. If she has moved or and is not jealous, she won’t have the time to be involved in her past

[@nateparedes44]

Shaeeda is very politely outspoken when it comes to finally speaking out to get Bilal to understand his stubborn self

[@lulamoore1655]

Bilal is a educated well spoken man. His personality is a contribution to his success.

[@nikkilynn4000]

@@lulamoore1655 Good for him. She was successful too.

[@jays45673]

@@lulamoore1655 exactly! The rest of the men other than Patrick have sponsors

[@mrssamuel1332]

@@lulamoore1655 yes it is but that personality is not good in marriage he has to work on those areas where he failed in the first marriage. It's his blind spot. Which we all have. He's not a bad man but he has to change some things and it's not hard things. His neat freak stuff is not something to change. It's k to be over clean

[@barbtastad6393]

His x-wife might have lived in the old home for 2yrs, but that was overa dozen years ago!!

[@CA2SD]

I love how Shaeeda stands up for herself without being disrespectful. I was also hoping to hear she was one of the two ladies being pregnant. His ex looks dumb getting involved in their private business.

[@des8336]

You really think Bilal didn’t get a vasectomy? Hell will freeze all the way over before he ever gives Shaeeda a child.

[@dawnlee866]

I was hoping she was pregnant as well. Hopefully soon❣🙏🏽

[@barbtastad6393]

@@des8336 I thought the same thing.

[@jarricah7920]

He be dumb to get her pregnant but I don’t think they are ready for kids of their own just yet

[@WellnesspodcastTV]

This is a show. She was called in by the host. She has a stake in Bilal's property because she has kids with him.

[@PhantomMonkey2008]

“Bilal is an educated man…” imma stop you right there, going to college doesn’t make you intelligent. He’s an emotionally stunted narcissist. Life ain’t fair, and looking at the way he treats his ex and his current wives speaks for itself.

[@anicholson5227]

Shaeeda is a very articulate,intelligent, and beautiful woman..she deserves better

[@Sandra.-.]

Thais clinging onto Patrick's arm the whole time and gaping like she's front row watching a telenovela🤣🤣🤣. She was enjoying the drama

[@truckher911]

Patrick's hand?

[@Sandra.-.]

@@truckher911 yes Patrick. Confused them lol

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

She’s looking so scared and petrified to speak 😮

[@Sandra.-.]

@@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 i think it's the language barrier. I think she wanted to chime at times

[@denisekinzle1672]

She was slumped into couch that she looked like a child

[@noinoi5949]

Then Jibri wonders why nobody showed up to his wedding. Its exactly this kind of personality thats stops ppl from being close to you.

[@kalpanabharatme]

First I was really wondering why no one is coming. But the answer lyes in his self.....

[@WellnesspodcastTV]

It was a fake photoshoot.

[@brianawhittaker8152]

Exactly he attacks everybody before they can do it to him bc he's insecure. No one will wanna hang around you if you're mean and nasty all the time.

[@intheraw6393]

Apparently, well I just heard, they've been married for 2 years

[@brownskinbeauty.]

@@intheraw6393 Jibri and Miona??

[@lisacampbell7459]

I don’t get how someone can feel sorry for Bilal. If they are ganging up on him, he absolutely deserves it. He is getting a taste of his own medicine.

[@shelliejones434]

Bilal got called out and shut down for the first time all season. He never owned his crap and Patrick owned it. That's the difference and why Patrick was only called out by his wife. Soon as she said "you do that too" Patrick said "yes I do"

[@teebaby3663]

Bilals ex wife needed to have that conversation with bilal not with shaeeda. I understand she is concerned for her kids but she is no longer with him she needs accept that whoever he brings into his life she will have to trust the same way bilal does

[@mrssamuel1332]

the thing is the first episode ever she discuss protecting the kids assets and stuff so I don't know why she felt the need to speak to her on something they were still working out between them. Bilal needs to keep their martial business away from her. Only talk to her about the kids. Marriage is not all 3 if them. Co-parenting only is. She is too mouthy for an ex. And is now personally attacking her.

[@aferak145]

@@ladywed2699 definitely bilal put her in it for sure!! Bilal needs to keep his marital life in his home and not take it to his ex-wife. It was not her place to ask shi to sign the prenup not at ALL!! Am glad he chose Shi’s side and distance himself from his ex.

[@monapop]

@@ladywed2699 she already took half when she divorced Bilal. Also, the kids do get something provided Bilal and his NEW wife have no kids. If they do they also have equal rights. So I call bullshit. Happy she was smart enough to hire her own lawyer.

[@faithrodney1148]

@@ladywed2699 ,didn't Shaeeda sign the prenuptial?????what's still the issues..Caribbean people are hard working and progressive and she Will achieve her own in due time..

[@aminahshabazz895]

Oh she has all right just as Bilal to make sure the mate of the children are with a person of great interest an financially safe. Bilal an My sister are both powerful leaders in entrepreneurship an this is the model they are an project.

[@k3ilak3ila007]

Watching I feel that the EX wife is way too involved and needs to learn some boundaries now that Bilal has a wife. She came in hot involved on their financial situation..

[@sophie2084]

Yes!! Why is she even attending this tell all???? I cannot believe Shaeeda married Bila. I really don't understand it. She is so much better than him

[@patriciamorrison187]

Bil ex should have not left her husband bilal so why is she pointing her fingers at his present wife when she abandoned her marriage seems the ex do not want him to be happy wow

[@julieweiner1623]

Ex needs to just go away. Not his kids. That ex. Stfu

[@k3ilak3ila007]

@@patriciamorrison187 because women are naturally territorial. She seems like she may know Bilals weaknesses and exactly how to have continued feeling like his centre because of the kids. I think she liked being the one who walked away but Bilals new wife being there certifies her time there and voice in that house is no longer the only one that matters. She gotta take a step back weather she likes it or not. She didn't think Bilal could find someone else.

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

This guy has many problems! Neat freak? NO sicko! Remember the ice coffee incident!😡😡😡😡

[@DcRoyalti]

Jabri want his mom to be jealous so bad. Nobody called his parents jealous but HIM. “We look good together! We shine!!” 🙄😂😂😂😂😂

[@vivianperry6471]

Ari asked if thought his mother was jealous. His mom said when he brought Miona home he stopped being him self. She was concerned not jealous. As for others being jealous who knows.

[@rebecca1331]

Imagine the man who said ppl are jealous of his relationship bc they “look good” says that someone else’s relationship isn’t gonna work out😭

[@SharonWarfield]

Bini was daydreaming about NOT being there. 😂😂😂

[@GG-qy2wy]

🤣🤣🤣

[@TheMariemarie16]

Unless he is dancing or fighting he is always daydreaming.

[@august88837]

He just wants to get his green card n go back hm lol

[@SharonWarfield]

@@august88837 If I was married to that woman, I’d want the same thing. Lol!

[@robelredda2130]

@@august88837 you are ruthless 😂

[@rachelbare4198]

Shaeeda’s eyes 👀 when Bilal says we are trying to build an empire together 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@lesleyk1727]

Riiiiiiiiigggggghhhttt! Definitely caught that 😄😁

[@monicabro0404]

Right I peeped that too

[@patpat32]

I so saw that 2 but they say a good wife don't put her husband on blast infront of other people so well then ok

[@TheFallonCarrington]

I completely agree with Patrick calling out Bilal and his salesman manipulative ways, he explained it very well!

[@r.k.youtube4888]

Jibri is quick with noticing other's relationship problems but can't seem to notice his problems. His response of "jealous because we look good together",is childish af I can't stop laughing lol

[@erikascholten8994]

Just because he wears expensive clothes and has LV luggage does not make him a classy man. It's a smokescreen to hide his insecurities.

[@vivianperry6471]

Yes!! He’s playing a part. and not to well.

[@ShawnLivingLife]

Jibri got words for everyone else's relationship except his own. He needs to sit back and hush. As for who would win in a fight between him & John, I totally believe John can take him.

[@tiffanyvarelli8834]

Question is why is Jibri always fighting ppl

[@jaelsalcido689]

John will win forsure

[@manesitaasmr]

Completely agree, he’s doing to much for no reason!

[@glenngrant3205]

@@jaelsalcido689 I'm with you, my $$$ is on Boston John!!!

[@catherinejoannides2229]

John was really good at it. He is a little rough around the edges, but I love what he said. I really like Bini, but he was a disappointment that he didn't say something to Jibri and protect her. I guess he isn't the guy I thought he was. Not too happy with Kara either. She is way too bossy and Giuillmo ( not sure how to spell his name) is so adorable and deserves better. Anyone know why her ex from high school was on? Another wannabe. Uninteresting!!

[@maigokonekochan]

Shaeeda the type of girl to be like "I can fix him"

[@m.b.8795]

Lol "spackles" I'm dead 🤣💀

[@acoupleofkays]

Miona looks so embarrassed by Jibri's behavior. 😩

[@karenmorgan2090]

She doesn't seem Happy at all...she could have said something to stop him from embarrassing both of them!!

[@qckdg175]

She just sat there like a shocked hostage. The only thing that gave her away as being real was the blinking.

[@katella]

@@qckdg175 like Bini.

[@vivianperry6471]

@@karenmorgan2090 I don’t know with his mood, she probably knew just let him vent. Then I won’t have to hear it later.

[@lillybethford1915]

Patrick is absolutely correct about Bilal. The entire season, Bilal gaslighted, avoided accountability, deflected and manipulated Shaeeda, in my opinion, borderline, emotionally abusive. He allowed his ex wife, sister and Mother to do his dirty work..narcissistic.

[@isitjustme_]

@M B Exactly ! Thank you !

[@annat6249]

@M B some people think they can fix their partner. They normally end up hurting. You cannot change a core of a person. Minor change is possible but that is it.

[@sacredsoundswithsky]

Agreed!

[@mloose7870]

Ughhh and I bet Shaeda did absolutely nothing wrong as she like all u women are perfect angels who don’t do anything wrong or have flaws 👍🏽🤡🤡

[@TheFallonCarrington]

@@mloose7870 what exactly could she have done wrong? His ex wife left him for the very behavior Shaeeda has pointed out. Did you even watch that segment?

[@urbanohiogardener]

Call someone NOSEY without calling them nosey "Opinions are like a nose, everybody has one."

[@ali-xf9mo]

"Are u still living at home sparkles" 🤣🤣

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

Bilal shared too much of Shaeeda's life with his ex-wife. Yet, the ex-wife is still out of line.

[@samiraismail5514]

I know right she sounds like Bilals mom I don’t know who gave her the right over this relationship when she had her time and especially the house I mean she stayed there for 2years so what did she gain(she is going to be a problem).

[@lindywheeler4192]

@@samiraismail5514 Your right! She needs to stay out of their relationship. Her only concern should be her children.

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

@@lindywheeler4192 - Ex-wife wants Bilal's money, and dollars are all she's concerned about.

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

@@samiraismail5514 - Ex-wife doesn't know her place, especially since she was the one who filed for divorce from Bilal. He can easily establish a trust fund for his kids, which has nothing to do with his ex-wife.

[@Amandabrown83]

Exactly what I was thinking. How did she know about the prenuptial unless he spoke with her about it.

[@AshAsh32]

I really like Shaeeda, she’s the only cast member that didn’t make me cringe. I wanted to believe Bilal was a victim of editing but that’s all natural 😂😂😬.

[@brianawhittaker8152]

His ex wife seems bitter lol. I can see why she's all worked up though shaeeda is prettier than her.

[@WellnesspodcastTV]

@@brianawhittaker8152 let her remove her cake makeup and fake eyelashes then we see. It's not about looks but about intellect. Shaeeda was so desperate she traded her dignity with being abused. Now that's ugly. And she has the nerve to complain. Also to keep saying she was something or had someting in her country. That's nonsesne if she never brought anything here. She starts from zero.

[@DrewRycerz]

She's the only one that made me cringe haven't you ever been in a relationship before?

[@karenmorgan2090]

@@WellnesspodcastTV She never convinced me she had it going on in Trinidad. She tolerated too much of Bilal's emotional abuse, they Seemed more like Roommates then a Couple about to be Married!!! I Agree it needs to be More then Beauty to keep a Relationship, I Doubt if Bilal's EX wife is jealous of Shaeeda who is heavily Made up to look pretty because the Ex Wife has Natural Beauty without any makeup!

[@AshAsh32]

@@DrewRycerz I like who SHE is, I can’t give a shit about her relationship choices. She knew who he was before she got here…. You should relax

[@kenya2323]

I loved John throughout the entire show, he was the main character for me.😂

[@firetiger4849]

This Heifer needs to go away and mind her business she’s not married to Bilal anymore so girl bye 😒

[@welp6210]

Patrick was COMPLETELY right about Bilal

[@AbbyMore]

Shaeeda is gonna get it when they go home. She agreed with everyone publicly and it embarrassed him more lol

[@kymCPT]

Nawww no wayyyy Sheeda’s nor her family seem like they’d play that “She get it SH💩t”…🖕🏽that

[@brindahough2501]

🥱🥱😂😂😂😂🥱 he deserved every bit of it..

[@AbbyMore]

@@brindahough2501 yeah but he paying all the bills lol she’s a joke too.

[@brindahough2501]

True but that still don't give him the right to belittle her.. he knew he would have to support her way before she came to the U.S. its not like he didnt know. its called choices..

[@meserettsegene6997]

@@AbbyMore he’s a man ! Men provide and always have what’s new ?

[@ali-xf9mo]

The fact that biniyam didn't say anything when jibri was disrespecting his wife is like he agreed with jibri

[@juliecharles9008]

Thais's expression was the best part of this recap. She was all in 😂

[@BayArea-bx7er]

Jibri couldn't get his own parents to attend his wedding even when he offered to pay for it ... hardly the person to tell anyone else how to have a functional relationship 😂

[@brindahough2501]

Jibri is so full of himself.. he really shows how immature he really is.. he behaved like a brat..🥱

[@kickrocks333]

When John call Jibri “spackles” I cried laughing looking like a human disco ball

[@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529]

hahahahaahah, hilarious! yes, a walking, talking disco ball!

[@faith6575]

Me too 😂😂😂😂

[@d.h4421]

🤣 I died

[@allydg7925]

I was cracking up 😂

[@akuasalaam490]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣‼️

[@naturallylexie7777]

Jibri was just trying to desperately get as much camera time as possible🙄✌🏽 Also, I was so pleased with John getting Jibri together😌😂😂

[@sandralamkin2252]

Thank you SO much for this video. It brings the underlying problems clearly to the forefront.

[@jsk1473]

Shaheda has the appearance and the intellectual capacity along with a beautiful way of speaking ... She seems like a natural beauty pageant winner ☺️🏆

[@niara961]

Shaeeda or shaheeda

[@ayah999]

@@niara961 both have the same name 😅

[@zuryzinibi4154]

X or new wife

[@trinijoyl1720]

Thats my Trini Sister. Most Trini women wud not behave so humble. Shes one of a kind

[@theycallmebeautiful3041]

Shaheda is a low class thug. Her behavior this Sunday was disgraceful and thuggish. So she was pretending on the tell all.

[@fatmaali768]

Why does the ex sound bitter? Isn't she supposedly over the relationship with Bilal and remarried? Why is she so hostile to Shaheeda and why does she feel she has a vote in Bilal's marriage..prenup or not that is a decision for Bilal and his wife..she should keep of with her opinions. Move on

[@marywright5457]

Thanks for the recap, Sis!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@truejewel9501]

A “SALESMAN” was referencing him being a mass manipulator not his job. Bilal needed a taste of his own medicine. 😩💯

[@RAJOHN-ke7mc]

Bilal will lose Shaeeda if he doesnt change. He thought her mild manmeres behaviour would make her a push over

[@marilupulido9725]

People don’t change

[@itsnotmeitsyou717]

Nothing will push shaeda away. She's willing to settle and put up with Bilal. She literally said it in the tell all.

[@karenmorgan2090]

Shaeeda looks very unhappy.. Regrets of Marrying Bilal!!! ☹️

[@karenmorgan2090]

@@marilupulido9725 They Sure don't!

[@ronnie2699]

She not going no where

[@teamcougars]

If his ex wife is so perfect and knows Bilal so well, why aren’t they still married? Shut up Shadheeda🤦🏼‍♀️

[@katlegomhlauli8423]

What you said about Binny really threw me off almost chocked on my wine 😂🤣🤣🤣 please host the Tell All please 🙏🏾

[@carmenvaldes5449]

What happened to Bini protecting his wife from Jibri??? He looks like he was not caring or into the tell all at all. Wake up Bini and protect your wife!!!! Put sparkles in his place.

[@krystingrant6292]

Now you know damn well....he let his sister spill wine on her. 😐

[@SMGyal]

@@krystingrant6292 right he has his countdown on the wall for his green card. He was never into her

[@thisismyinferno]

Bilal is abusive. I LOVED how Patrick was absolutely a million percent on point with how Bilal is. And will always likely be. The ex wife knew exactly what Shaeeda was stepping into. I fully think that's why she wanted her to get a prenuptial agreement. The ex probably got alot herself in their divorce for having kids with Bilal. The ex is overstepping her boundaries. Bilal is very good at getting others in his family to jump on Shaeeda and having them believing she's a gold digger. It's sick..Bilal was wrong with the house thing, period!

[@godsgirl7201]

Oh dang that's a good point!!

[@Sandra.-.]

Ex wife is so messy 💀. I know she's still hurt from the break up because she's too invested

[@FionaChandoll]

She didn't want to be married to him but wanted to be the important woman in his life. She can't have both.

[@Sandra.-.]

@@FionaChandoll exactly. Thats her issue here. She needs to move on. It could be the money aspect too. Perhaps her new husband isn't as rich so she wants to keep securing the bag with Bilal but now the bag is being compromised

[@biancabugatti9723]

She is married herself! I wonder how her current husband feels?

[@rockpaperreads]

She is mad he moved on.

[@annconforti9294]

She divorced him. Hello...

[@lilmayne6611]

Lmao when She brought up how Bini ain't even here I cried laughing 🤣

[@aramaijonassill7670]

Everyone is well spoken. Bilal is a straight up manipulator. The moment Shaeeda has a baby, it will be over. The financial abuse will be added to his emotional abuse. Surprisingly, Jibri was spot on about everyone.

[@ftmb1022]

Bilal ex-wife needs to go focus on raising her children and taking care of her husband and stay out of their marriage. There needs to be boundries set between the ex and the current wife. She needs to stay away from their marriage.

[@TheUniquemariah]

She's married ? Lmao 🤣🤣😂😂😂 even worse

[@ftmb1022]

@@TheUniquemariah right!!! Where she find the time to be involved in their marriage.

[@daphuc1]

Melissa definitely favors Bilal and always makes excuses for him. Patrick's salesman comparison was spot on. Sure that might not be all Bilal is but he absolutely uses that education and success to belittle others.

[@urbanohiogardener]

She gives him too much grace for some reason.

[@thegoodgirl6935]

Bilal is just hardworking and confident. He's a real man. She's lucky to have a man that's God fearing, ambitious, and is a devoted father.

[@daphuc1]

@@urbanohiogardener I'm starting to think she knows him outside the 90 days world. Maybe they're friends or something

[@jokbok995]

at the end of the day nobody really knows him and judges him because of some edited videos

[@Movemee387]

Its getting weird

[@LexxLeoppard]

I'm going to need the host to stop simping for Bilal. She's *always* making excuses for his toxic behavior! 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@johnsalmon7071]

That was hilarious calling Jibri Sparkles! Lol!

[@leilashalhoub7040]

Melicia correction- no one painted Bilal anyway he came off that way right out on his very own. He is who he is!

[@yak1572]

She loved to defend him. It’s so annoying

[@asmeretsare822]

@@candygirl4107 what’s the tea ???

[@GG-qy2wy]

@@candygirl4107 whaaaaat? Did I miss something? 😳

[@teresamarie7460]

@@candygirl4107 Nope. He wouldn't like her because she isn't a virgin.

[@erikascholten8994]

Absolutely concur!

[@Sandra.-.]

Miona is so mature for jibri. I know she's constantly annoyed by his antics 😂😂😂😭. This guy...she'll probably leave him for a baller/celebrity down the road. Im sure they're all in her dms right now

[@ematique4392]

I hope she does 😂 She can do way better!

[@ashleybanks7841]

As she should… he acts an looks like teenager. His parents were right, an his friend

[@tyaburgress4981]

He wants to be a star so bad

[@shanicew6576]

Girl I'm annoyed with him and I don't have to see him everyday 😂

[@SistahTuMuchMarley]

They have been married for years. She is not going anywhere.

[@blondeblue156]

I can't believe not one person on the tell all didn't call out baby Jibri for coming into the show as hot headed as he was, he had a missile for everyone. And SPARKLES! Loved that! But what gives baby Jibri the right to comment when controlling Miona won't let baby Jibri play music to his heart's content as has been his life's dream? Who's calling the kettle black now? He's letting her decide the wedding, their life, where they'll live, their jobs, etc. Hence the name baby Jibri.

[@chessicaambrose2014]

He got on my nerves seriously I wanted to jump through the screen and tell him to shut his face lol

[@myabeda3573]

Bilal's ex saying that she was hurt by Shaeeda's reaction to the old house...oh please! I bet she would've had the same reaction had he brought her into a home with peeling walls, a tv from the 80's and no faucet in the kitchen!

[@yikesyikes5974]

Nope, I cant stand Bilal. He is a manipulator. He is abusive and he triggers me. He is awful!

[@luckysaira4470]

I'm shocked that Shaheeda's still with him

[@prettybarbie9273]

@@luckysaira4470 I'm not

[@luckysaira4470]

@@prettybarbie9273 Why? He's seems unbearable to me. I couldn't tolerate him him at all. She came across as no nonsense in the beginning so I thought she would've dipped🥴

[@curiousgeorgia11.11]

Abusive?

[@TheJuiceor]

@@curiousgeorgia11.11 absolutely

[@Errolyn27]

She divorce the man, but wants to be all up in his life. Shaheda will shine. Why would Shaheda get a loan from her husband? A real man give his wife money, not loan his wife money. Hopefully, you freeze your eggs for your NEXT hubby.

[@Victoria-nu4td]

Correctly said

[@mrssamuel1332]

That's why I think she needs to stay out their martial business. Bilal is the father he can make good decisions without her directing anything to shaeeda. She divorce him for simple things I thought it was serious stuff. She is the reason the wife spot was vacant. Now another women filling it so she needs to go study her husband and kids in her own house.

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

Like she said. He will do everything to NO get her pregnant? This guy is low down! 😡

[@kalpanabharatme]

Absolutely right

[@hi.goodbye2167]

Facts

[@kaybenny4669]

The editing 😂😂 always the best. Don’t even watch the show, just watch her recap it

[@soundstosanity8262]

Loved the positive outlooks in this video 🤎

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Kobe is a wise man ,and I really hope it work out with his wife....they have beautiful babies.

[@jays45673]

He's not that wise he married Emily 🤷🏿‍♀️😂

[@ilovegoodsax]

Both of the kids look exactly like Kobe. Those Cameroonian genes are strong! 🇨🇲 🇨🇲 🇨🇲

[@kaybrown2201]

@@jays45673 behave. 😂😂

[@GG-qy2wy]

@@ilovegoodsax they are beautiful children! I wish them all well.

[@MistyEE21]

@@jays45673 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Cyzners]

Okay Spahkles 😭😭 he's hilarious to me 🤣

[@caroldowning7671]

I couldn't figure out if he was talking about Jibri's jacket of his skin tone, I wouldn't be surprised if it was a dig at both, tried to insult him in a not so obvious way,

[@Sprinkleshun_]

@@caroldowning7671 defly his sparkly ass suit

[@oco987]

Bilal's ex needs to focus on her own pockets and leave his alone. At the end of the day, she can go out and build a legacy for her children as well. When she left the marriage, she left. And let Bilal go on to leave is life with his new wife.

[@mangao4334]

I was laughing so hard on the daydreaming part 😂

[@plant3508]

Bilal ex is a witch imagine the audacity of her

[@denisekinzle1672]

I can see why she left.She couldn't take it anymore.Child support is big in Mo.I live near by his home.Realtors always sell their homes after two years to move to another to make money & avoid taxes.Its not a fun life for a woman but when he retires they will have a forever home

[@diamondwata]

Jibri look like Christmas wrappings paper 😂😂😂😂😂🎊🎉

[@kalpanabharatme]

Absolutely right 👍🏾🤣🤣 I don't know why he needs to show off like that all the time.... Well, honestly I do know. We all know. He is insecure. I think the answer to his insecurity is Mahalla or what ever name that she has 🤪😂

[@GG-qy2wy]

Christmas wrapping paper!! 👍🤣🤣🤣

[@elvishhudson2402]

😂😂😂🤣😂 Facts 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nonononottrump2623]

This was so good!!!

[@charlotterhotilde7388]

Bilal is toxic just because someone is educated does not mean they can’t be a narcissist.

[@02loud]

I think Bilal can't catch a break because of that initial prank. Like Kobe rightly said, he tried to make the woman he had been talking to for 2 years, spiritually married and brought over to the US look like a golddigger to the world...and it backfired. I understand a prank if they'd just started dating or something but that was ridiculous. Made him look very questionable. Edit: The ex-wife is ridiculous. I'm sure that house didn't look like that when she lived there years ago 🙄

[@teresamarie7460]

👏👏👏👏

[@anarchist_parable]

What Bilal did was emotional manipulation, not a "prank." He then proceeded to treat Shaeeda poorly the rest of the season. He doesn't deserve a break.

[@josierosie100]

100% agree with you... I was thinking same thing...bet the ceiling wasn't coming down on you sista... hmmm

[@lvanasse2]

And if most likely had a kitchen faucet at the time, too. That sink had a fake plant where the faucet should have been, poor Shaeeda probably had go wash dishes in the bathroom sink or haul a bucket of water to the kitchen.

[@downwithfaith]

Not sure if it’s true or not but apparently Bilal had flaunted his lifestyle on social media(very likely because he’s obviously very status-conscious with his showy designer goodies), so she knew what he had. In any case she showed that she IS in it for the money when she was so disgusted by the truck and the house he grew up in. And she was rude about it too, asking if he could “even afford to order food”. If he was testing her she failed the test. I don’t know why he decided to just overlook all that despite her snobbery and allow her to act the victim. That being said Bilal is immature and can be mean.

[@mrsonpoint]

The ex wife is salty and shady. She said “shaeeda, you have no assets, you have nothing in America and don’t have a home in your country, you live with your parents” 😭😭😭😭 Ma’am that’s a lie, she has those red bottoms as assets. She can sell them on Poshmark 😭😭😭😭😭

[@ronnie2699]

🤣

[@aminahshabazz895]

Baby thats not shade thats how we talk

[@urbanohiogardener]

And how did the ex wife know so much about Shaeeda's life? Not by spending time with her. But because Bilal talks about Shaeeda behind her back to his ex, and the rest of the family. That's why the Ex is so hostile towards her.

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

She is pretending to be a successful. She is following Anna Bey from School of Affluence. As a Muslimaa from Kuala Lumpur , Malaysia she is hardly a successful woman. She just exaggerating without solid evidence. Nothing about her car , house in lovely Trinidad. That's a red flag for a woman claiming to be successful. I think her marketing is overhyped. Rich , successful woman will never worshipped a house in America. I'm a smart woman Islamically , I invested my worth into our country stocks investment giving us dividend. Many Muslims unlike her are smarter and re-invested for our best. Real, successful Muslimaa with comfortable income never behave like her. Not all MuSlimaa are gold-digger like Shaeeda. Many of us move out from parents' house and financially independent because we are humble yet ready to learn at university. She is almost 40.

[@melod1767]

She comes off as a jealous ex.

[@tunumigila8995]

SpakozzzZZ 🤣. This made my day lol 😆😂

[@isabelrogers1825]

Bilal dug out his own narrative, all on his own

[@sheilan6959]

Omg Kobe's baby girl, is his twin. Kobe is an honest man. I hope they work out with Emily.

[@karenmorgan2090]

Both his Children look Exactly like him... Surprisingly they were the only couple that seemed Happy!!!

[@andrenehall1467]

I love John...he was able to hit sparkles where it hurts.

[@lebogangshwalane1331]

😂😂😂😂 not u saying sparkles..

[@meserettsegene6997]

Same !!!

[@christybradley9471]

Malecia…no. Bilal‘s wife is in danger of being married to a manipulator, and someone outside of her marriage had to affirm that to her. You can tell that she has been gaslighted, and gaslights herself in turn. I’m so happy that the cast stood up for Shaeeda in ways that she could not stand up for herself, and hopefully Bilal Will take this as a lesson in humility.

[@MsLiberty101]

No worries on the technical difficulties...You're easy on the eyes and have a pleasant voice so carry on my dear.

[@journeymansmitty8283]

At the point when he said build an empire together just to look on home girls face says it all LMAO🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂

[@brostar9050]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@GG-qy2wy]

I noticed that too. 🙄🙄 kinda like that?

[@monicabro0404]

I peeped that too

[@vivianperry6471]

Yes she wants to build something by herself which is an excellent idea. You never know he could lose everything so it’s best to have separate incomes.

[@TheQueenrevolution]

Bilalas ex-wife needs to be slapped. Her husband needs to wonder why is she so invested in her ex.

[@angelesm3102]

Jill Scott’s Daydreamin song almost took me out! 😂😂

[@YsaBelisario]

OMG Melicia.. your comment with Biniyam is just hilarious 🤣

[@destinyn63]

Patrick was right about Bilal. 🤷🏽‍♀️Don’t ignore the red flags shaeeda. The ex divorced him for the same problems you are having.

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

He won’t change! He thinks he’s always right! Sicko! 😡

[@ilovegoodsax]

And no doubt the previous wife too. Remember, this is Bilal's THIRD marriage.

[@beatrizgarcia9637]

THIS. How can people say that was too harsh when it is the truth.

[@caroldowning7671]

I don't quite get though the jealous from Bilal's ex, & yes I do sense some there. There's more to this than just her being concerned about her kids needs. Despite why she divorced him she doesn't seem to be completely over him.

[@sharicereesespieces11]

And yet the ex is inflicting upon Shaeeda what was done to her during the marriage. She needs to take her bitter, nosey behind somewhere and sit down.

[@morewithmariama7723]

Jibri was louder than them clothes he has. So freaking annoying.

[@MaddHeather]

I'm not a big fan of him🤷‍♀️

[@GG-qy2wy]

🤣🤣🤣 louder than his clothes!! Thanks for helping me laugh today. I needed that. Peace

[@sg5720]

He looked crazy- surprised his wife let him walk around so. She very fashionable. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@doriannorman1205]

Isn't Jibri like..28 and still in his parent's basement? 🤷‍♀️ I'll take John for 200!!😂

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

Jibri is a trust fund man. His parents is sponsoring his lifestyles

[@caroliamurri3872]

I love John bringing down Spahkles!!😂

[@vivianperry6471]

That’s awful. If was giving advice that’s great. They both were out of line. And should have been removed. But it’s television so we don’t know if it was an act.

[@LucySkyDiamond]

Why does the ex wife know she was living with her parents back home?!

[@sunherybabie1472]

Still together I think,she knows everything about the new wife,who told her about shaeeda,if not bilal.

[@sunherybabie1472]

Still together I think,she knows everything about the new wife,who told her about shaeeda,if not bilal.

[@ronnie2699]

Because Bilal tells her EVERYTHING

[@lesam7813]

She probably watches the show. A lot of the family members of the cast watches. Bilal probably also said things about his wife to his ex. She has overstepped the boundaries. However, she has kids with Bilal. & with the history of the men on 90D.F throughout the years are, especially with their kids, even more so when they're in new relationships. She has a right to feel some type of way.

[@ClassybitchSassybitch]

The ex-wife did say they remained good friends after. I mean they are co-parenting after all.

[@themealeyfamily]

Shaeeda was like “excuse me ma’am…who don’t have no assets?!”

[@jays45673]

She doesn't 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@plant3508]

@@jays45673 the audacity of you to.pretend to know what this beautiful educated successful young lady has imagine that look go eat a banana 🙊

[@kaybrown2201]

@@jays45673 she has a business for years and lives with her parents, which means she must have saved some money.

[@teresamarie7460]

@@jays45673 Bilal knows her "assets". However, a divorced mother should never speak on who has assets.

[@sweetcheeks5775]

@@jays45673 She’s educated and sold her successful business. She has assets

[@debbieshuaib8467]

Your ex wife telling ME to get a prenup with you? Lmfaooooooo. Dude😂😂😂🤣

[@lovelilpeep99]

The Aknowledge & ignore sales tactic is my personal fave 😂