90 Day Fiance The Other Way: S01E11 - Deavan And Jihoon Bonus Scene

[@stormyjmc4644]

Jihoon has such great parents. Even though their culture is strick about marriage they are still willing to open doors and arms to her and her daughter.

[@lolamaytena7471]

I feel sorry for him taking on her daughter. She's like a nightmare and all deacon does is look at her like she's so cute

[@lolamaytena7471]

@UCUqQeYuzo1-FH5D0xIwU60w too funny. Did you see tonight's episode? Her makeup reminds me of tales from the crypt. She is mean to jinhoon and bags bags bags him. It's her fault for not keeping her legs closed so deal with it.

[@clarencemerritt5003]

@@lolamaytena7471 that's a bit harsh don't you think bitch?!

[@lolamaytena7471]

@Natalia Esco ya I know but she's just expecting too much and I can't stand to see her daughter drinking from a bottle too weird

[@lolamaytena7471]

@@clarencemerritt5003 no I don't think. And you picked the wrong person to call a bitch then again I rather be called a bitch over Clarence anyday thank you very much

[@rubirodriguez4166]

Jihoon’s Dad “If it weren’t to me I’d go in a heartbeat” 😢 how sweet!

[@hillarybillary21]

rubi rodriguez you mean we’re good lord

[@jwill1027]

rubi rodriguez huh?

[@theMiraculousAngelic]

rubi rodriguez **were

[@MAXXY8D]

@@hillarybillary21 you mean were

[@Sierra-xf8il]

Damn here's a qaulity family right here this is a good set of parents😊 encouraging their son to do what's right

[@margielynneverette8046]

They do seem like very nice people. So accepting of Devon when I thought for sure that they would reject her ass because her behavior is just weird but she should feel lucky to have such a loving in-laws and a man that loves her but she will probably not be content I can tell

[@ShawnTheRazor]

@@margielynneverette8046 She will probably find a way to sabotage it, but hopefully not.

[@margielynneverette8046]

@@ShawnTheRazor 🤞

[@allim.830]

Yet he’s still choosing to not go

[@MaiyahXiong]

@@allim.830 Probably not enough money

[@Angell_Lee]

TLC should pay for your plane ticket.

[@Jerseygirl5612]

They like drama of course they wouldn't do it

[@Angell_Lee]

@@Jerseygirl5612 I know but still :/

[@Kathie6767]

Agree💯!!!!

[@IawIiette]

Tlc is there to record their lives - theyre not supposed to be helping them. Thats not why theyre there

[@meredithj8175]

PureBloodAlmond well considering they literally stage scenes and create drama, I can’t see why interfering in a positive way would be bad

[@jamslam5641]

Devean is the only lucky girl on the entire show cause her in laws are friendly and supportive of them. Plus it's the only country that is modern, clean and low crime.

[@sexitaliana629]

Just don't cross that border lol

[@VictoriaM2023]

I agree!

[@jamslam5641]

You must be a fake Korean cause Daejeon, Kwangju and Daegu (cities in S. Korea) were named to top cleanest cities in the world. Must be North Korean or something.

[@pattygaugler9636]

@@jamslam5641 north Korea, at least what we've seen,, is spotless. You can't even chew gum in north Korea. People are constantly cleaning and sweeping the streets. The people have nothing there, except for the. "chosen" ones. The average person there knows nothing of what's going on in the rest of the world. They just honor ill Jung un. They think he's a god. Ugh

[@babykale2778]

Korea is clean except for the hongdae area lol and also Seoul is pretty dirty in some areas (tourist popular places mainly)

[@ryisahammet3898]

Now this is how a normal parents are !!! Not like chantel parents . Parents should encourage, give advice, teach what's good and bad but , never get involved when their kids have wings to fly .

[@atongkuol5270]

But Chatel's dad is good...

[@ryisahammet3898]

@@atongkuol5270 yea he is but what's the point of it if , he has a wife that controls and manipulates him . That woman is a living hell of a mother. I don't have and never knew my mum but if I had one like that , I would let her out of my life .

[@kay_red1156]

I think it’s hard to be supportive when you think someone is using your child.

[@melodramatic7904]

Chantel lied to per parents at first and didn't tell them about the wedding until 2 days before. According to her brother, Chantel has never lied to her family before that. That alone will make anyone suspicious. Then add in top of the fact that Pedro continued to be standoffish and get suoer defensive whenever they asked hin ANYTHING about himself and you got a recipe for disaster. If he had attempted to humir them and just answer any questions they asked, then it would have been a different story. When I met my husband in the states we knew we wanted to get married after 3 months but then his company demanded he return to his home country to join a new project. I decided to move with him (basically 90 day the other way but before the show was even a thing). My parents were stunned cause I had just starts a nice job witha good salary and benefits and i was going to leave all that for a guy. They literally say us down and asked us every question they could think of from the reasonable to the ridiculous. We both answered every question as hest we could. By the end they accepted my husband and gave us their full support. That is how you do it. Honesty wins every time.

[@ryisahammet3898]

@@melodramatic7904 that's all true . But , I 100% blame Chantelle. I think if I knew my mum or maybe if one day I get the chance to meet her , I wouldn't allow my mum to interfere in my life if all was under control but to be honest, I can't say much because I'm human and I will only judge in what I see but the truth is , I don't know how mothers are supposed to be .

[@trish.goes.ironman]

The flight tickets are really expensive. They're just being realistic.

[@poopta]

Definitely a couple thousand & that’s hard for a middle class family to make up, plus the fact he’s going to miss more work puts him in a big deficit

[@trish.goes.ironman]

@@poopta True. My tickets for a holiday trip from Asia to the UK for example, costs more than a thousand bucks in USD! That's a whole two months salary for some, or maybe even 4 months wages for others. It's not that cheap to fly across the world, unless you're really rich that you can re-book anytime you want.

[@poopta]

@@trish.goes.ironman exactly and korean national average salary is ranked a lot lower than the United States by a long shot so his worries about money is completely justified and it shows hes thinking ahead

[@meta-etherealinfo2445]

not big deal ahhhhhhh just about 1,600 to go to usa ahhhh cheap flight ahhh common ahhh,,you are stingy just of say so!

[@magari5036]

virgo wolf eyes your richness is showing 🙄

[@adollie2650]

He just came back from the USA he probably really can't afford to go back so soon. Perhaps his on a tight budget to provide for his new family. He doesn't get paid to be on the show his just another ordinary guy who has to work to survive. Don't judge

[@padmasalam5267]

A Dollie Exactly! His selfish babymother knows what you have stated, but is selfish and feels entitled. She think he should be there to witness his child’s birth, and that’s that. What’s the point of placing all this unwarranted guilt on him? Sad state of affairs, really! So, so sad. 🥂🍺 Cheers and beers mates.

[@josiejewel766]

Right

[@margielynneverette8046]

@@padmasalam5267 I miss the episode but I was wondering what was going on when I saw the preview and he was so sad and talking about how he would have guilt the rest of his life.! And that's the reason? Cuz he didn't make it in time to see his kid born? And she's putting a guilt trip on him? Who in the fuck does she think she is? SMH she is just want the attention for herself that's it it's not about the baby and she's the type that would be jealous of the baby. Weirdo

[@andreafabe-heywood8184]

It was his choice to buy the ticket. Deavon told him not to book. Months has passed since the US trip. The show has a faster timeline.

[@sineol87]

If he was on a tight budget he shoulda bought a jonny instead of making a jonny....kid deserves more .🙄

[@Angelface11]

Youre not a bad father Jihoon...We have so many bad fathers here in America- The fact that you don't want to be one and question things and try and make sure you are a good father- by definition..makes you a good dad. Just keep trying- that is all any good parent can do. No parent is perfect.

[@charpyles8923]

Angel Face - Your comment is SPOT ON!

[@LM-eu8yr]

He had 9 months to prepare. My husband, who is actually a good father, would have made sure to buy travel insurance.

[@theMiraculousAngelic]

Angel Face This comment is gold comment.

[@ThinnkTwicce]

@@LM-eu8yr Well that's good for him

[@skylalala5753]

@@LM-eu8yr but he might not have the money or he really had to work until it was time for him to fly. There are many other parents who try to be their best but sometimes things just get on the way.

[@iries7232]

Jihoon's mother's skin is glowiiiing

[@Dachdogoriginal]

Koreans take very good care of their skin.

[@obdiane]

It's a foundation.

[@meowsticsism]

Korean women usually have a beautiful skin

[@fleetwoodmacdreams1695]

It's a makeup called glass face

[@sunnydee196]

It’s a Korean thing lol We take excellent care of our skin starting as young as I can remember. I’m 50/50 Korean/French and 40 with a son in college. I get mistaken for a student or sister when I visit him. I only use moisturizer/sunscreen, lip balm and mascara when I go out. My skin is comparable to 20 somethings. No Botox or med spa treatments.

[@messymexican9452]

I like how the parents are very worried about Devan. They’re actually giving him good advice and support.

[@jessicaaudate]

👍

[@jeezydasnowman9408]

TLC ain't shit for letting that man miss the birth of his baby.

[@amandamadera2485]

Jeezy Da Snowman real talk

[@emeliaacetosoprano]

Jihoon and his parents are the kindest and cutest people on this whole show. They’ve been nothing but kind and supportive 😩

[@shipfreevideo2562]

lia I agree. Asians are the nicest people, but they are always being misunderstood and antagonized by the Western media.

[@lLooN3y]

I am 100% sure mom be giving her the wrath of Korea once the cameras are gone. lol, dad seems to be legit understanding tho. The body language and displeasure is all I need to see. Its like when you act up as a kid when your mom's friends or not so close relatives are over and you think its all good. Then comes hell on earth.

[@angelkathrynvillegaz8409]

I think Dracilla needs to live with this kind of family so that she will have some manners 😅😂😂😂✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻

[@AM-reacts]

She'll definitely change since she's young. It'll be cool to see her in a decade. She'll be more disciplined and speaking fluent Korean.

[@fizunnaharfiza8967]

Is dracilla jihoon daughter

[@dulcec7834]

Fizunnahar Fiza Dracilla is Deavans daughter, and Jihoon’s stepdaughter

@@AM-reacts kids who aren't told no from a young age grow up spoiled

[@ana-maria1976]

She is just a child bro. It's normal for her to be this wild. Not everyone is the same, yes, it does count on the education. But it's also the fact that she does have a lot energy and is also a very energetic person

[@janetelock5312]

I love how he respects his Mom & Dad. He's visibly shaken about his dilemma

[@Geo-rg2yq]

People be on his shoes, he is not rich to afford a change of ticket that fast. It was unexpected besides if he has money I'm sure he will go in a heartbeat like what his father said.

[@tabbyc3970]

And he probably bought one that’s non refundable for a cheaper price.

[@andreawalker8343]

She told him not to buy it yet though! If he'd have listened, then this wouldn't be as much of an issue.

[@Geo-rg2yq]

@@andreawalker8343 yeah you are right.maybe he was expecting to be there on her 40th weeks or bought the ticket early because it's cheaper rather than buying it on just any day. Also he said he quit his job so probably he can't afford it. It is bittersweet.

[@Geo-rg2yq]

@@tabbyc3970 yeah, we Asians do that..

[@andreawalker8343]

@@Geo-rg2yq I do get that, but he's a bit to old to be THAT naive. I don't think he's a jerk; I just think he is an extremely irresponsible person. He had unprotected sex with a woman he just met, maxed out a bunch of credit cards, didn't seem to think through the proposal, and now bought a ticket when he was told not to. Get it together Jihoon! lol

[@chocolateangle8163]

His parents are good advisers most people don't ask their parents what to do when They are in a difficult situation like this. He going to be a great dad💖

[@theMiraculousAngelic]

chocolate Angle Gold comment

[@divyasrirajyala6517]

I think if u have good parents that u look up to .. u can ask them .. but a lot of the parents in the world are meh

[@geniespice1]

I want to adopt jihoons parents as my in-laws. ♥️

[@reishuko]

Uggg i know they seem like the best

[@wifislilpeach]

Yeah they are really sweet

[@x-tina1373]

Me too! My Mother-in-law live 4 houses down from us and she doesnt call or even visit her grandkids and if she calls its when she wants something...cant stand her!

[@deathbybunnies3593]

You would probably be a better wife than the one he has now lmao

[@x-tina1373]

strawberry_shortcake4life tried! We tried hard! Why do you think we gave up like we have! We’ve called and she won’t pick up! We’ve asked if we could come by and there’s an excuse which we find out is bull! We even invited her to go on vacation with us 4 times! Trust me we have tried! Only time she calls is when she’s beggn for somthing.

[@naqiszhalia9334]

I really like these people, Jihoon is a nice guy.

[@stephjones7104]

Jihoon's parents are good people.

[@chimpunkzeegamez4118]

Feels like watching a Korean drama here! They need a Korean spinoff for Jihoon and Deavan!

[@slipersox]

I mean, she has a KZbin where she makes vlogs and shit with him...

[@somethingbright4268]

I like that family. They are lovely.

[@ceilconstante7813]

I really like this family. They're quality people!

[@lauravevers98]

His mam and dad a good people! I liked when his dad said I would go in a heartbeat! ❤️

[@soxpuff]

2:27 the faces your parents make when they know your messing up as an adult, but they're letting you make the decision.

[@angelg.8462]

I like Jihoon and his family. There was a time in the USA where the father couldn't even be in the room until AFTER the baby was born. We all made it just fine.😉😚

[@margielynneverette8046]

Exactly the important thing is to be there throughout the child's life. Anyone can stand in the delivery room and watch the baby come out and a lot of them do and then they take off. I hate the way she made him feel so guilty that he was almost on the verge of tears and said that he would feel guilty for the rest of his life. Someone needs to talk to him and tell him he has nothing to feel guilty about at all. That woman Devon is a neurotic control freak

[@mistymorgan8068]

It's not about being there when the baby is born, but to help the mom with the baby because she's just been cut open with a c section.

[@shauribaby1]

I really like this couple..I hope it works out an they stick together. What a beautiful family

[@theMiraculousAngelic]

Mariah Ali Me too they're my favorite along with Nicole & Azan. (Both Deavan & Nicole have daughters from previous relationships & have foreign boyfriends from different countries)

[@Alexis-ki6hc]

The Dad came in wanting sum of that tea

[@ashlynn1652]

Y'all I love how concerned his dad was about both Deavan & the baby😊❤

[@Mr-wt4eo]

Well at least they don't seem to be messing to much in their relationship. At least the father said he should have gone to see the child instead of work.

[@martinezandy15]

This family is very chill, humble, and compassionate (unlike Chantel’s parents)

[@lovelyflower2762]

Jihoon is a good man, his parents are a wonderful example of this.

[@sakshiparab8845]

Honestly his parents are the sweetest ❤️❤️❤️

[@bethgriesauer3825]

Awww. Poor Jihoon... regret his decision he does. As soon as he saw his baby being born, he wished he was there. Difficult decision. He knows he needs money for his new family, but until the actual birth, he didn't appreciate how special this once-in-a-lifetime experience really was. Guess they have to have another baby someday so he can be there.😉

[@ummabdulrahmaan8827]

Beth Griesauer hope they can afford to have 1 more :)

[@bethgriesauer3825]

@@ummabdulrahmaan8827 - If babies came only when parents could afford them, or were ready, the world's population would be a fraction of what it is today. Sometimes they just happen!😉😋

[@ummabdulrahmaan8827]

Beth Griesauer I don’t know really but I watch 100000 of Korean drama lol. I’m an addict to it lol,that why I love JIhoon and Deavan. Having a kids in Korea it’s so expensive the way they talk about it. From nursery to University that they always have 1or maxi 3 children. 3 kids in Korea it’s a Lot of kids. :) like you can see I believe God Always provide. But I have 3 sons in the U.K and if you want to make them go out have fun like swimming club karate club or going cinema or healthy restaurant like Japanese. You really need to work hard to provide that. And in Korea it’s a bit like China Education is the key from young age. I got 3 kids I teaches them myself maths English, French and etc, I help them how much I can do so they don’t stay behind in their school curriculum it’s a lot of work really. I do understand why my mother only had 3 :) Teaching, cooking working and educating that Not easy at all. ;( But I love each one of them.:)

[@ummabdulrahmaan8827]

Beth Griesauer I’m counting Drascilla too He become the father and will be the provider for her too:) I pray he do a great job toward her too :). Having a great step dad can be a great step for any kid:)

[@margielynneverette8046]

@@bethgriesauer3825 we could use a few less people on this planet to be honest. It's not all about popping out babies

[@n3xsq870]

The parents are speaking from age and wisdom.

[@marinarassin4231]

His dad is so sweet and always understanding

[@lisabarnes6492]

Luv his parents so kindhearted. They will be awesome Grandparents.

[@xoxoMARCI22]

I just gotta day the mom’s highlight is poppin! Very nice parents by the way.

[@calication2487]

His parents are amazing

[@Bondisaurus]

Jihoons parents are so lovely!! Bless them

[@megandelamar6194]

I love his parents dude. Great people.

[@wotintheworld]

This Korean dad should write books on how to be one, and then write books for people on how to be people properly. Dudes loveable.

[@karinavinas8846]

Poor Jihoon and he has amazing 😉 parents.

[@margielynneverette8046]

Yeah poor jihoon stuck with that neurotic Ice Princess😞

[@elebea868]

Beautiful family. Peaceful and kind.

[@ashlady9]

Poor Jihoon. He seems like such a nice guy.

[@ViciousVixenBaybee]

His family is such a blessing.

[@angelakopet7480]

His parents are Adorable I'm hoping these two get it together

[@call2872]

His parents are very supportive and understanding.

[@areyoukirringmeirriyaa]

him : says something bad mom: AIGOOOOOO

[@Rose-dl6kk]

The mom's skin looks so good for her age!

[@jillgonzales8698]

I love this family

[@ILookLikeDrakeSoYeah]

I’m seeing everybody acknowledge how supportive and caring Jihoon’s parents are. This is simply the culture, which is a huge difference from what we have in the US. Jihoon’s parents have each other, and neither of them (usually the mother) have an unhealthy attachment to their son. If we would encourage the nuclear family and fidelity between spouses, none of that weird hating the daughter in law crap would happen. I think at least 85% of married American women can say they do not get along with their in-laws. Let’s do better.

[@Guillan80]

I like His voice, he should have his own movie character voice over.

[@Angelface11]

I love Jihoon and Sumit- such nice good character men. Love them. Wish they would come to america- we need more quality men here.

[@blue_akira]

Agreed. My two favorites also!

[@boricuagirlrodriguez4798]

I love Jenny and Summits love story... And the location India it's so exotic and cool.

[@NC-hu3ti]

Sumit turned out to be married. I feel sorry for his wife.

[@magnolia3521]

Jihoon made me love Koreans even more... Look how hard he is trying his english so cute

[@elden5052]

Kudos to him for not running away from responsibility, like many others actually do.

[@ririkonjo6144]

Oh he so good father 😔

[@margielynneverette8046]

The baby is so beautiful and so sweet I love all his black hair❤

[@bellasee1]

I like his parents and him,She is a little demanding and crazy hope it’s just having a baby. But the little daughter is a sign somethings not so normal with them. He and his parents and darling.so sweet.

[@sgcl10658]

She was just worried. Being stressed having a baby while taking care a toddler plus the money problem. He is a nice person but he lied to her about his financial situation.

[@RailgunBlaster]

I live in Canada yet I could see myself through Jihoon, as if his parents were talking directly to me. Cultures around the world are so similar yet we fail to notice. Respect to these elders.

[@cassandratanmonde]

I like how his dad thinks.

[@yuhem9188]

I love his parents!!!! So sweet

[@DJSherinee]

I looove his parents, so cool and smart and caring, he is lucky!!

[@iLOVEpalestineNlebanonFOREVER]

Jihoon is the best dude on this show.

[@katlynsmith662]

Omg when the dad said if it was up to me I'd go in a heartbeat hehe he is so sweet

[@saarkoene2761]

I love how his mum tells him to do a hunderd/thousabd times better from now on. That is how you raise your sons, no spoiled brat! ❤

[@chiahuichong7304]

Jihoon's father is always awesome!

[@Ash-vw4yt]

I mean I know jihoon still lives at home too but it Korea it’s different than America. I’m sure it’s hard to make ends meet there way different than here. In asian culture families usually live together and take care of each other

[@cjok8367]

He is a lucky young man. His parents are so kind and loving. Especially his father.

[@twahl6714]

His family💜💜💜 such sweethearts and great parenting!

[@angieolabode3160]

Once again I freaking love his dad!

[@jaywan5553]

His family is so precious.

[@lilmamagc]

gosh this feels like a drama...the angles i cant

[@80bbygrl]

His parents are so sweet. They seem to really care about her.

[@nichline]

His parents are the best. Somehow I got teary eyed when they told him what’s more important and that the dad would’ve gone in a heartbeat if it was him.

[@PrincessIrie]

I was alone during the recovery process at the hospital . My baby daddy was home like a retard playing apex

[@youngflex229]

Wow

[@POCOSU]

God damn

[@benjohnson6154]

Then why did you have a kid with him?

[@markelminions850]

I love this guy and his parents... They are sooooo sweet!

[@MeganArtistry]

Jihoons parents are amazing 💖💖💖

[@MissesWitch]

"Even though money is important, I think this is more important right now" Well said!

[@jinshuk2747]

his parents r so sweet n kind.

[@23Eulogy23]

His parents are SOOOO SWEET

[@britinig5850]

His parent are so great!

[@claudiamarianidamato9499]

This is the only couple I like .

[@theMiraculousAngelic]

Claudia mariani Same

[@waterbabe415]

Jihoon’s parents are such nice ppl.... they raised him well ❤️

[@breakdancerQ]

Jihoon's parents are so sweet and good, he doesn't know how lucky he is.

[@mistymorgan8068]

His parents are so lovely

[@donnaengel6413]

Oh! I like his parents. They seem very sweet and thoughtful.

[@209rose2]

Omg the looks on the Dads face priceless

[@purplelanternxox6793]

😭 His parents are so sweet, I'm a first time Mom and this is the *Kind Welcoming and Supporting* mom I want to be.

[@lululs4014]

Jihoon always cracks me up! " I can't change the plane ticket, because I'll loose money"😂😂😂 (I didn't intend to be mean, it just sounds funny with his facial expression)

[@festivetoe9492]

his dad is so pure

[@CassChrissy47]

His parents are very supportive 🙂

[@salamkala14]

He is the sweetest DAD IN THE WORLD!!!!!!

[@naturalbeauty5028]

His parent are so supportive. The dad let him know what more important than money

[@heyitsnayaa6736]

He really comes from an amazing family, out off All the 90days , Jihoon definitely my favorite ❤

[@jkimva703]

I feel like taeyang gonna grow up hating jihoon...his dad and who knows not want to do anything with him because of the things deaven will say to him. Such nice grand parents too but I can see how this is going....and it’s beyond sad

[@lucasdeabrielle7375]

When youre not just *very sad* But *Very so sad*

[@mariloualvarez4100]

His mom is honestly so beautiful 😍 omgg

[@skyward360]

Im enjoying watching the interactions with the parents

[@Readzboox]

I think was Korean in a past life. I love everything about their culture

[@familylifetoo9541]

His family seem so nice