90 Day Fiance: Yara Reveals America Was Never Her Dream and SHUTS DOWN Ukrainian Women Stereotype

In this exclusive clip from the upcoming episode of '90 Day Fiance,' Yara reveals to Jovi's family that living in America was never her dream. She also gets offended when Jovi and his mom bring up a stereotype placed on Ukrainian women. ‘90 Day Fiance’ airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.
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[@skunkie110]

First they accuse her of just wanting to come to America. Then when she says it’s not true and may want to move closer to her mother, they accuse her of wanting to take their son away from them... she can’t win either way. They find fault in her whichever way she goes.

[@3d3a3v3i3d]

Because they are possesive abusive assholes. They thought they would have power over her because they ,,allowed her dream to come true".

[@WoodlandPrincess369]

Thats pretty much americans in a nut shell. we are all going fucking insane here. not sure whats happening. probably chemicals in the water tbh.

[@argiedude3762]

So...their son would live in a place with public healthcare? It's amazing, a win win situation

[@sscarey01]

Honestly as an American these parents are an embarrassment seriously, so rude to her, he is a grown ass man! I will never be like that to my kids significant other! You give kids wings and then let them fly! It’s his journey not yours!! Support and be an anchor if needed!

[@Marauder1981]

You know it.

[@veronicagraham901]

I like that Yara speaks her mind. Lol the whole conversation with his parents was priceless.!

[@taylorozimek7635]

Love that she literally just reversed the scenario of her taking him away instead of him taking her away and then they got pressed

[@reddog6363]

maybe they should be more Welcoming to her so she doesn't move Jovi away! Not everyone has a dream of moving to the US.

[@darlenescott9786]

They cant be more welcomong she is a cold fish

[@michaeltaylor9080]

Fact they all wanna get out of Ukraine do some research on the country and you will see its a well maybe I shouldn't say

[@afgusti4269]

@@michaeltaylor9080 you are from the us aren't you? A lot of people want to move away from their countries, but the only reason some of those people consider the us is because of the dolar. The dolar is a more valuable currency so if you send money back to your family it's worth more. But you honestly think most people with opportunities would choose a country that has shootings, a lack of public health and free education on top of the shitty situation you have for workers. You are delusional

[@Ruby-Rosales]

Why does she have to abandon her family? Not Jovi?

[@afgusti4269]

@@Ruby-Rosales because yankies are super entitled

[@cmmtorres]

Its funny how first they were worried that she just wanted ro come to America, and then when she let it be known she'd like to live in another country, they panicked, lol.

[@chriscorvino2685]

and yet in the end she stayed. So clearly she was all talk.

[@FriendshipIsMagic1998]

@@chriscorvino2685Jovi is the one that doesn’t want to leave. She has a baby and a husband so she can’t just decide on her own. Also if you’ve been watching the show you would know that where they plan to live is their biggest argument. She wants to leave America, but Jovi won’t agree.

[@Bannflyfisher]

​@@FriendshipIsMagic1998Jovi is clearly a moron. You can tell from the gormless expression on his face.

[@lrke208]

Yara: Stereotypes like "all Americans are so stupid" Me (Danish): Wait that's a stereotype? I thought it was facts.

[@josephwaggoner2397]

Wow.

[@JustsJordan]

Literally how is that a stereotype if it’s real😂😂😂

[@dekulevi936]

Dude I live in the U.S and some people here are foolish.

[@emilyhanlon4434]

Litteraly😩

[@deason2365]

Because et reality shows are a gage on American intelligence, last time I checked most peaple who are top ranked in their fields are educated in America

[@Hannardele]

My respect for this girl 📈📈📈📈

[@LesEx777]

yes

[@Fio.7673]

I am from Kazakhstan, but lived in Ukraine for more than 5 years. and to be honest, Ukraine is an incredibly beautiful and friendly country! I’m very disappointed that I had to leave Ukraine because of Russia’s attack on Ukraine... but what’s in the Video is a stupid stereotype about Ukrainian women) Ukrainian women want victory and peaceful skies.

[@АннаДавидова-ь5ы]

Thanks)It's Ukrainian girl 🇺🇦😘

[@ОлегКость-м1б]

🇺🇦❤️‍🔥🇰🇿

[@deanpruit4216]

OMG even as an American I find all these people stupid. I mean she obviously wanted just to get out of Ukraine. She could of gone to the UK if she met a guy there.

[@user-pj8ji5df5k]

Hey, thanks for speaking it up Алга Казахстан! And hi from Dnipro

[@niyarak]

I came from Kharkiv, Ukraine to the US because my job is here. And I eagerly want to come back to Ukraine when was is over. The more comfortable, with great service and healthy food, and good medicine and dentists I have never meet in the whole world. Americans just didn't see Ukraine what it was before the invasion, hope they will come to visit..

[@faddawarriortv]

Lmao, that's the whole point of a marriage, to leave your family and start a new one. Df, he a grown man, time to let go!

[@lezaanvanwyk9202]

that's what I was thinking.. like they know he's a whole grown ass fucking man right?? 🤔 Not a baby. So they don't want to compromise but she must have her family come visit in America instead of finding somewhere in the middle. fuck outta here. 🙄

[@JTG313]

Period lol

[@Joanzalwango_256]

Why can't these so called "Americans" only look for their fellow Americans since they tend to be offering a favour to their significant others from other countries since they think they are the gate way to America

[@vanillajack5925]

Lol because most American women are obese 🤷‍♂️

[@OrangeeMoon]

@@vanillajack5925 true. American food is the worst..everyone that comes gains weight.

[@vanillajack5925]

@@OrangeeMoon very true!

[@dontbeugly1029]

Why do foreign woman go looking for American men then want to move back to their country....She an adult and made a decision to come to Date American men...if want to live in another country then date a man there....Some people only have one child ,,,How can he support himself

[@toofastsorry8724]

It's going to be an issue because they won't be able to see their son or their future grandkids often? What about the Ukrainian Woman? So she should deal with what you can't handle? Awful people. They seem like racists too.

[@ghosttori]

I dont understand those kind of people because they should think about both sides. What if she moves to America. What about the other grandparents, how are they going to see their grandkids. Those parents are an embarrassment for the us and it proves that the stereotypes are right.

[@Kara-kx1lb]

​@@ghosttorithey are not an embarrassment to the American people. She CHOSE to come to America. Noone twisted her arm. They love their Granddaughter. And now they are in the Ukraine. So her and her mom, keep talking about Jovi in front of his face. Looking for an apartment without telling Jovi. Now that is RUDE!!!

[@cjwriteryt]

No disrespect to Jovi but he should be thanking God that she's even with him. She could've done sooooo much better. Some girls act like they're desperate to be in love

[@sunnyshope6480]

IF YU WATCH THE SHOW YOU CAN SEE SHE DISAGREES WITH EVERYTHING ANYBODY SAYS - SUCH AN UNHAPPY PERSON

[@black-db2my]

Good one Yara ...👍👍👍 it's like no life outside America

[@02loud]

I like Yara more and more every episode.

[@Dollsfromlondon]

Lml me too!

[@diamondsparkle9967]

I love this girl, she's so chill and doesn't care what anyone thinks about her.

[@sunnyshope6480]

SHE IS SO INCREDIBLY RUDE AND ONLY LOVES HERSELF AND SO DISRESPECTFUL TO EVERYBODY SHE AS MET

[@adeel-eh7xq]

I don't like her. But she shouldn't be having to put up with ignorant comments like that.

[@Syzygyzzz]

I mean Budapest would be much nicer.

[@alexivaskevics2166]

Agree

[@paige4076]

the mom was clearly trying to like call her out and imply she was using her son to move to america but then was still mad when she said she'd rather stay closer to home, you can't have it both ways

[@kyttyke89]

as a Hungarian i was surprised to hear Budapest. Its a cool city to live in tho :)

[@Ptimiya1]

Minus Orban, Hungary is pretty cool

[@fruitypie]

Hungary is cool except Orban and his government. We love Hungary 🇭🇺 ❤

[@kyttyke89]

Completely agree unfortunately 😅

[@ОлегКость-м1б]

Budapest is the pearl of Eastern Europe, hello from Uzhorod neighbors)

[@lisovyj_diadko]

as Ukrainian, szerintem, Budapest van egy szep varos.

[@thokozilepatala7097]

Good answer not everyone wants a green card, get over yourselves please

[@im.aliena]

When she said Budapest ...his mom face was like " wtf is that👁👁?" Lol😂😂

[@lucirisfisher9659]

Lol! She is holding her own

[@ireallydontknow8616]

I mean... she's not wrong

[@userrsofia]

As a girl from Ukraine, I wanna say that… she’s absolutely right👑💅

[@mahaliabarnes8195]

So they're saying her family means nothing and their son must stay a boy forever. Well if it works for them.....

[@JTG313]

What I don't understand is...HOW THEY ASKED WAS SHE JUST TRYING TO MOVE TO AMERICA and then GOT CONCERNED WHEN SHE SAID SHE PREFERRED BUDAPEST. 😂😂😂

[@nahtally.b9139]

Daaaayuuum, Yara!!! 🤣😂🤣😂 I am with you on this one!!

[@wanjiru50]

Nice one Yara...😆 🤣 😂

[@doctorchaimaachanel8974]

Hhhh personally with all the chaos in America i don t really want to be in America They think people want to live in their madness no thank you

[@smoonpie]

So when her mother is "loosing" a daughter and can't see their kids regular, that's fine. They are just second class parents and grandparents?

[@nikkirosa2687]

Yara is an icon and she is the moment

[@Thegoodaf]

I think it is pretty crappy that the mom went against Yara’s wishes and made the party knowing that is NOT what she wanted. Disrespectful!

[@lizliz4186]

Everybody from Ukraine wants to come to America. 😂🤣😂 Oh the American ego 🤣😂🤣

[@michaeltaylor9080]

You can guarantee they wanna get out of Ukraine do you research

[@ryacalico7648]

@@michaeltaylor9080 but they don’t dream of going to America 😂

[@TheEroina]

@@michaeltaylor9080 i am from Ukraine, i don't want to move anywhere. what are you even talking about lmao?

[@michaeltaylor9080]

@@ryacalico7648 then why do so many come here

[@michaeltaylor9080]

@@TheEroina with lowest GPA per capita and a decreasing population if your trying to prove a point good luck but I don't blame you for not wanting to leave home

[@Beepthesheep123]

i don.t think they know where Budapest is at this point.

[@sieanadinwiddie8644]

Oh my God this is so common on the show. When they show that they're not here to stay in America and be in America like they thought they still get annoyed or upset when they want to live somewhere else maybe. do they not realize that the Foreigner is leaving their whole family and their whole lives too? They always only think about themselves about how they're going to miss out. But they never think about the other person who misses out family time as well

[@sylvia6474]

I dont see what she sees in him.

[@malandz9555]

The dad tries to do damage control to make the insult a bit easier to digest after clearing his throat. Unfortunately, as America isn't the place to be they may move away. Serves you right.

[@liviaoam]

So either way she's a problem for them? If she wanted to stay in the US she's is marrying for citizenship? If she wants to go to Budapest also a problem? She needs to leave him he's a terrible person and nasty to her anyway.

[@VocallyYours3]

I can’t believe that any of these marriages WORK!!🤦🏽‍♂️

[@edwardnigma6963]

If they’re designed to, then why have a show?

[@Evealaquisina]

He's a grown man.

[@NalaMahal]

Living outside the US for a few years, I know understand the rest of the world’s perception of the country.

[@sarahdo2651]

So it's ok for her to move to America for him and not okay for him to move for her?

[@lizzievillalobos798]

Yara talking about stereotypes... 😂😂😂😂😂🤪

[@danicox3110]

Omg I love how the dad talks

[@araci515]

Girlllllll you are good!!!!!💚💙💛💜! Love love love your answer!!!!!!

[@theembeard765]

What's wrong with the parents worrying about losing their son and grandkids? Most American parents cant wait for their kids to move out quickly while the rest of the world it seems appreciates their families a little more. I dont want my kids moving far away, life is so much more enriching and fulfilling being around people that you love

[@DannsProductions]

He’s a grown man. He can make his own decisions.

[@edwardnigma6963]

Moving a few states away is easier for visiting on the holidays than moving a few countries and bodies of saltwater away.

[@theembeard765]

@@DannsProductions ok Captain Obvious

[@kristinaraine4841]

What about her parents being so far away??? Or they don’t count????

[@frogetfultoad]

It's funny couse: 1) so like her family doesn't need to see their grandkids???? 2) who in their right mind would want to live in America

[@xbjrrtc]

This gross goofy guy has the audacity to look down on her??

[@andrewmiller6754]

You're not gonna "loose" your kid of he moves to another country but good luck to him learning Hungarian 🤣🤣🤣

[@emilyhanlon4434]

Do they actually think that everywhere outside of America is a shit place to live and it’s super dangerous 😩😭

[@patriciadorman677]

The parents need to accept the woman their son has chosen and allow their son to be a man. They are not losing their son. Bottom line it's his decision and many people get married and move away. Yes, it's hard for some parents but "that's life". Your children will grow up one and have their own life. Some parents do not realize the pressure they put on their children/child by fighting to mot let go. Hey, their gaining a daughter🙂🙂👍👍

[@mariecatherine5029]

I love Yara!!! She is confident, smart, articulate, and kind. I wish you the best Yara. Stay true to yourself and don't allow anyone to bully you or demean you in any way no matter who they are. You were created by God for God and anyone who doesn't appreciate this simple truth is not worthy of you.

[@TheChristy56]

Good on Yara

[@mamako7325]

Smaaap ! Hahahahaha you said it well girl ! So funny ! 😅😅😅

[@cmmtorres]

Its funny how first they were worried that she just wanted to come to America ( they were rude about it., Then when she let it be known she'd rather live closer to her mom after marriage,, they panicked, lol.

[@djespo69]

They have this new invention called the airplane. You should try one

[@ChristopherLaw-qv4ou]

As much as it is her duty to be respectful towards his parents his parents also have a duty to be courteous and kind to her

[@aleaiacetaest9132]

And today one year later, we all know Jovi’s mom was right. Yara wants to move to Europe 🤦

[@luluinterrupted9213]

This was fucking great! Love Yara!

[@SoilShift]

Well guys such questions are confirming that stereotype 😂😂😂

[@vivietamihmih8460]

slovak here (we are next to ukraine and also slaws) sorry to burst your bubble but 99% of people who want to leave my country aim for Germany UK France Czech aka europe.

[@callofdutyMrtb]

My husband before he thinks that.. I was like I told I don't wanna come here bcoz my family is the Philippines,and u will say that shit to me..I told him if I can go home now i will go home but im gonna bring my kids and he said u just want child support ..I was like child support? Even right now that are we living together I don't ask u anything to buy me a simple stuff .. u buy stuff for ur self but u don't ask me if I want something.. i told him before if he can live in philippines coz i dont wanna leave my family .. he said he cant bcoz he got 2 kids in 🇺🇸 he wanna be with them so I understand it just crazy u sacrifice ur family he gonna think that way it just hurt my feelings after all I did.. so far right now were still together.. this not my dream to come here ..it just the situation bcoz I love him I sacrifice to leave my family in philippines.. I hope I don't hear that stupid stuff from no one else..coz u don't know what I sacrifice.

[@realta140]

America is not everyone’s dream. I would hate to live here

[@JackRabbit002]

Why did this tickle me so much!! Lol and why do I have now share it with the Lasses on my WhatsApp Oh the places MXR brings me

[@erichavnen3727]

I thought I was looking at Bruce Jenner... Ugh

[@behappy9591]

You too 😂😂😂😂

[@ІвановІван-ь2я]

This is simply a masterpiece! 😂😂😂 Americans think that there is no life outside their country, just Afghanistan around. At the same time, most have never even been to Europe.

[@vitaliytsikhotskiy8757]

Americans are somewhat similar to russians

[@argiedude3762]

The USA is like Argentina, you only emigrate there for two reasons and two reasons alone: A- You're desperate B- It's closer than Europe

[@innomino2568]

But one more thing guys, i guess many mothers are just like this. Even in Ukraine in my hometown Odesa that’s happens, sons are so dependent on mother opinion and even after marriage mother want to know all about them personal life, how wife is cooking what she is wearing how she treat her son and how she grow them kids, and always she is sure she know all better. Sometimes they can come to home even without a call, and get so insulted if they do not have a keys from son’s apartments/house. So i guess thus is a problem in many countries in Italy too there are mother choose woman for her son, she can even come during a date and talk to her son’s women))

[@niyarak]

I came from Kharkiv, Ukraine to the US because my job is here. And I eagerly want to come back to Ukraine when war is over. The more comfortable, with great service and healthy food, and good medicine and dentists country, I have never met in the whole world. Americans just didn't see Ukraine what it was before the russian invasion ( russians just jealous us thats why they wanted to destroy our country).

[@OrangeeMoon]

Lol love this..shut them all down. 😌

[@Kosh998]

I am from Ukraine and Ukrainian friend sent this to me. I want to comment. Like 5% of Ukrainians before the war would just pack everything and leave to America. Much more people have vague dreams of living somewhere in the West but in fact won't abandon their home and friends for long. I feel like America artificially creates tension by denying those 5% of wannabe-Americans and then scaring their population with millions of barbarians ready to storm their borders if they wouldn't became even more xenophobic

[@evanmcinturf6848]

But you're cool with her leaving everything she knows😂

[@wesleyff2869]

Why does everyone on the show think that living in America is the ultimate blessing?? I mean the nature and national parks are pretty impressive so a vacation I can deal with but I never ever would consider living in the US and I’m sure many people would agree with me.

[@Kara-kx1lb]

So why did she marry an American?

[@dshybella]

So you don’t want him to marry a Ukrainian cause greencard but when she proves you wrong y’all have an issue with that too? 👁👄👁

[@damienfleming33]

Atleast we dont get arrested after speaking the truth

[@ulianakrainska6442]

Go go girl ❤❤❤

[@bbelacevic]

That lucky guy has a chance to move to Europe, his parent should be happy for him escaping USA

[@micjakes1]

Yara is soooo cutie.

[@emmavelazquez926]

First they get upset because they think she’s using him to ‘come to America’ then they get upset because she doesn’t want to stay in America 🤡

[@sunshine-td1hr]

first they are shaming her for wanting to be in America then because she wants to live in another country lol ,what a Karen..

[@Hellokittylove324]

I mean she has his baby?? I’m sure she’s planning on staying with him.

[@_Sarby1]

Yes but that doesnt mean they'll be in the US. They can be a family anywhere

[@Hellokittylove324]

@@_Sarby1 I meant like she won’t run away from him or she’s using him for anything

[@llb8664]

She's got that Budapest grip on him✊

[@sensei1781]

Lol the parents....

[@ЕлизаветаПронская-ц8г]

Where I can find these full video?

[@katerynasol4447]

Ахаха ржу просто!! Молодець дівчина, сказала як відрізала😅

[@jeffreyd508]

I left the Police State to live in Ukraine! That place sucks lol

[@nellamarkkanen6568]

here from tiktok

[@rosemimose8456]

Omg what to do in America. Always was for me the most boring place 😂 I like Europe

[@enjoijenie]

Do people now understand where Yara is coming from?

[@enjoijenie]

Looks like their son has a porn addiction 😳

[@Dollsfromlondon]

She's right:/

[@craigp9973]

ok well i bet there’s a few more wanting to move to US now in light of current events

[@dekulevi936]

That girl is very smart.😎 Also why can that family move to Ukraine, it's better their than here.

[@lizzievillalobos798]

Well, there are people who look for a visa and someone who pays their bills... Maybe not every body in slavian countries, but there are a lot of web sites for that.... Also from Africa, Latinamerica... 🤷🤷🤷

[@olund88]

Hahaha! Yep it's all about ya'll -PARENTS. Screw what son may wants ... an ADULT son . does THAT concern you Joey? 😂

[@mexton]

Where do you find these guys..lol You can do much better.

[@michal7508]

Americans who think they are the only country worth mentioning are so cute. I mean it's okay… because they don't feel the need to move

[@courtneyboudreau4284]

Kinda are tricky haha

[@canelaHL]

You American 🇺🇸 dream rich 🤑 husband

[@kp5414]

I like her lol 😂

[@Pquintanilla68]

She seems not to like anything in America, so she shouldn't of come to America. Stay in your country! Dont complicate your child's life by marrying someone from another country and then expect that person to move to your country. She's high maintenance not a good match for Jovi.

[@hodakader2647]

I luv her 😂😂😂