I’m in the exact same position with my boyfriend and his drinking. I asked him to stop drinking during the week and only drink with me on the weekends. I felt kinda weird about asking him to do that because he’s a grown man but it’s for the best. So I think you did the right thing by asking your boyfriend to stop drinking
@lourdesmercedes3 жыл бұрын
Same. Well my boyfriend and I would drink alot together like ALOT it was bad and interfering with our lives. Then I went to a detox program and I've been sober for 3 months now. He would drink sometimes after I stopped and we'd fight and things would get bad. Even when we were both drinking things would get bad. Now he realizes and has stopped and things are sooooo much better. It's crazy I wish I would've known what I know now when I first started drinking. Plus drinking is so bad for your body. Now I have health problems. It's just better to not drink.
@amberwillis96173 жыл бұрын
I had to ask my ex husband to stop as well, since he was endangering our baby. I worked nights and would come home to find him passed out drunk and her screaming in her cot, found out as well he was leaving her by herself so he could go out drinking. He didn't understand the problem and refused to do anything so I had to make that choice to divorce him. You can't tell them or force them, but you have to make them aware of their actions and the harm it causes them and others around them and the consequences it has. I wish you guys luck with supporting your other halves and hope that their able to get better
@lourdesmercedes3 жыл бұрын
@@amberwillis9617 I'm so sorry that happened. But I'm glad you're a strong person and momma to do that. It takes alot to leave someone you love. It's hard. So I give alot of respect to you and anyone else who can do that. Hope all is well for you. 😊
@lindamunro44222 жыл бұрын
@@amberwillis9617 Good morning 🙏🏾 it's 11:04am in England. You have done a brave thing by protecting your child from an intoxicated father, please do not forget that, you have a real mother's instinct to protect! No mother, whilst working hard at work to pay the bills and put food on the table should be worrying about her child's safety in their own home. It was a difficult decision to make, but you made the right one. I am sending you and your child blessings from England 🏴 xx 🙏🏾
@juls.faithh Жыл бұрын
@@amberwillis9617girly r u good now?
@sennap71093 жыл бұрын
Tip for anyone: If you want reeaallyy black eye makeup(that also doesn't crease easily) use liquid eyeliner as a base and blend it w eyeshadow
@katherinelong8373 жыл бұрын
My bf is the same way about drinking. Every time he drinks he gets sad and it gets bad. But he can’t stop drinking so it’s just an endless cycle. I literally felt you so hard when you talked about it. I hope it gets better for you guys💕
@jaimie86642 жыл бұрын
The endless cycle is what I'm currently going through. It's tougher than expected.
@ellam62973 жыл бұрын
def not tired of these makeup tutorials i love them :) it feels like I'm doing my makeup with you
@francesfrance96163 жыл бұрын
Lol , I was a 90s goth This was pretty spot on even with the contour It's nice to see someone make use of stuff they dont particular like its artistic
@shr00mbean183 жыл бұрын
Something that helped me with my drinking problem is drinking matcha green tea instead and now Im just addicted to that lmao.
@partytime80923 жыл бұрын
You are not responsible for a grown mans feelings if he's hurting that bad... It's on him to get the help he needs at this point.
@Wtfffffffffff27462 Жыл бұрын
@tiru tiru no one cares
@cadybtterfly5213 жыл бұрын
i'm not tired at all of makeup tutorials/grwms, i've been doing my makeup alongside ur vids + it makes my morning brighter
@batcheeba3 жыл бұрын
Smart of you to let him know where you stand, remember he has to take the responsibility on by him self. The long term effects are very ugly so quitting is imperative.
@cliffemall.3 жыл бұрын
They r so pretty i havent watched their vids in a minute-
@allyma33 жыл бұрын
What did u use for ur pfp?
@jazzy89413 жыл бұрын
who r u talking to
@cliffemall.3 жыл бұрын
@@allyma3 wym like where i found the picture? I just found the pic on tiktok a while back and edited the skin color to be more like mine, if you search like emo cartoon drawing or something on safari or google you might find it and then you can save it and edit it however you want. I hope that was somewhat helpful lol 😭😭 sorry if it isnt :
@cliffemall.3 жыл бұрын
@@jazzy8941 ? No one i guess i was just complimenting them :))
@2facedfairyana9303 жыл бұрын
@@jazzy8941 blake uses they/them pronounces.
@trini_d93 жыл бұрын
I’m so in love with ur hair
@gray1813 жыл бұрын
as a 17 year old who still cant do makeup a beginner's makeup tutorial would be much appreciated, but seriously don't make one if you don't feel like it or don't want to. it's your channel :)
@apinchofdisappointment3 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat sthjgdfh
@brittneeroussel51103 жыл бұрын
Love this makeup!!! & I know exactly what you’re going through with your boyfriend , it’s hard … but at least he sees it’s a problem & he’s trying to slow down. All you can do is be there, wishing y’all the best! 💗
@hellfirehaze3 жыл бұрын
You're not being overbearing about your feelings about the way your bf drinks. Like how it interferes with his mental health and is concerning for others around him. Your feelings are important. I luv you Blake
@jk52383 жыл бұрын
i literally just bought that eyeliner and now i’m scared🥲
@ctokyox9773 жыл бұрын
Omg u should rock this style more often looks so good on u!
@catieneff96793 жыл бұрын
tbh just post what you’re comfortable with! but I would be happy to watch you grocery shop and it sounds relaxing
@nerissacrawford8017 Жыл бұрын
Kind of random but the XTORT poster on the background makes me so happy! The finished look reminds me of 90's supermodel.
@Ratsonfire3 жыл бұрын
I really like your content it’s rlly fun/entertaining/kind of comforting for me. I think you are really cool/inspiring and to hope to grow into someone like you, but being myself of course!
@thesunshinegirl5553 жыл бұрын
Can I just say you’re so well spoken and I love your style sm!
@lesliecartagena12922 жыл бұрын
It’s the same style every one is doing it’s an alt look it’s nothing like actually being alternative.
@emofrankie3 жыл бұрын
therapy suggestion !! latinx therapy has a directory, it’s easy to find a therapist by your location, and they have various other mental health resources available. they’re very progressive in terms of the lgbt+ community and being apart of a social justice network, plus they provide sliding scale therapy!!! hope this helps anyone and everyone
@kc-qr8zn3 жыл бұрын
Could you do a tutorial of how you do you eyebrows , like shaping or drawing on ? I really want to do my eyebrows like this but I find it difficult and it doesn't turn out this way 🥲
@Ashlikes2read3 жыл бұрын
Yes please I hope she does one!! I love her brows! I love brows thin!
@anaira.i3 жыл бұрын
It’s really not all that hard nor do y’all need a whole in depth tutorial like just rewatch the part she does it practice makes better 🤦♂️
@kc-qr8zn3 жыл бұрын
@@anaira.i sorry but it might not be 'easy' for everyone? And the tutorial could just be another makeup one but more focused on the eyebrows.
@melymantsenda94703 жыл бұрын
@@Ashlikes2read they*
@anaira.i3 жыл бұрын
@@kc-qr8zn what I said went completely over your head
@notsosweetlemons20783 жыл бұрын
Omg this is what I wanted to look like in high school! It really really suits you
@Meg-dg5sj3 жыл бұрын
2:52 so precious i love their smile
@flowrgurln3 жыл бұрын
this look is literally so cute !! i’m gonna recreate fs!
@trini_d93 жыл бұрын
This look is so beautiful 🤩 wowww 🖤🖤
@alexisrene58543 жыл бұрын
I’m in love w. The hairstyle
@rebeccalatham11 Жыл бұрын
I'm not a fan of most makeup tutorials bc of the act ppl put on, but I just subscribed to you. Your energy is so relatable, and wholesome and real. So thank you for that. Lol jwd.... are you an earth sign???
@ivazzzz6883 жыл бұрын
I will SO try this makeup tonight. Looks great and I LOVE the base.
@cemeterygirlxo Жыл бұрын
it’s been two years, did you ever try it?! lol
@armpitfart3 жыл бұрын
i understand you completely, my boyfriend is the same but with weed, sometimes he's okay but i just wish he could be sober with me when he's spending time with me. its not fun having to look after him.
@saigonmvmi3 жыл бұрын
definitely understand how you feel, i’ve had to take care of my mans one to many times in the past to the point where i was fed up.. but we’re still together & he has gotten better to where i don’t have to watch him anymore. but it’s also easier not being around him when he does do it
@aliciamorales1443 жыл бұрын
I go to therapy every 2 or 3 weeks depending on how I feel! (And my financial situation) on paper it seems far apart but three weeks goes by super fast
@alyssabryant4523 жыл бұрын
I love that hair style on you
@mollyyazzie81213 жыл бұрын
Try doing your eyeshadow first then wipe away the fly away then do base makeup. Hope that helps
@spdiso3 жыл бұрын
yessss plsss talk about your jewelryyy i need new places to shop
@sithro39613 жыл бұрын
i love the new hairstyle omg
@noemcdonals47323 жыл бұрын
DUDE I ENJOY YOUR VIDEOS SO MUCH! And I love how you do your makeup and everything! You are so pretty!🥺😗💋🤚🏼
@eiredp2 жыл бұрын
YOU LITERALLY LOOK LIKE CLAWDEEN WOLF???? UR SO PRETTY OMGGG
@ellam62973 жыл бұрын
off topic but i love your voice
@fayrouz80803 жыл бұрын
wait you look so good with a side part!!
@ayden_james3 жыл бұрын
idk if that's a mirror but that camel thing on your wall is so rad!
@juicepussy25073 жыл бұрын
Please do more tutorials like this 🥺. You look so pretty btw
@jaiyeszn3 жыл бұрын
yes you should definitely encourage your bf to stop drinking. for his sake if hes suicidal. and since its affecting everyone, he should acknowledge that. thats my opinion. it could become worse over time for him AND you. i also love your makeup, im definitely gonna recreate this look :"DDDDD !! thanks to you, i can do decent makeup looks TwT
@sparkle6772 Жыл бұрын
yes pls to the eyebrow tutorial !!
@mojodojo93313 жыл бұрын
aquaphor (regular or the baby kind) has helped me with my dry patches!! also making a homemade balm with herbs like calendula, chamomile, and oils like coconut/olive/grape seed/almond/olive and beeswax to harden. aquaphor is the quicker fix tho you may have to use it for a few days but it should help! and for finding a therapist i used PsychologyToday, they usually tell you if they offer in person or not and they also show you what insurances they accept. it can be a little tedious, but the best of luck to you 💜🌚
@mojodojo93313 жыл бұрын
btw omg you look so freaking elegant i love it !!! 😍🥰
@strxwbxrria73033 жыл бұрын
i love 2 see all the looks/ creative looks u come up with :) each makeup tut
@diamond-lee48853 жыл бұрын
Always appreciating and respecting your openness and honesty, you are such a true queen 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 Wish we were closer I’d love to go with you ❕❕🥺
@vertebratawashere3 жыл бұрын
You should try doing eyes first and then the base, then you would not need to worry about ruining it with the eyeshadow
@inlovewithlifeandyou3 жыл бұрын
ur so pretty & ur cat is adorable
@ganbarekrissychan3 жыл бұрын
To help with dry skin try Neutrogena’s HydroBoost. It goes deeper than regular creams and lotions.
@No-qk6eg3 жыл бұрын
i rlly enjoy ur makeup vids omg
@alexandriakingsman23253 жыл бұрын
Pale skin girlll is all the way hun
@jewliannapena93313 жыл бұрын
Get those face shaver things maybe it takes off dry skin
@olgismolgis3 жыл бұрын
the nintendogs music😫😫
@hayleysnyder63482 жыл бұрын
The cat in the background🥺❤
@youaresoveryloved3 жыл бұрын
you’re so beautiful blake
@luckyvampie3 жыл бұрын
I am 13 years old and it’s my first time using make up :D so i’m watching basic tutorials and hoping for the best
@Dutchess.Babyyyy3 жыл бұрын
Try putting oil or Aquaphor on the dry patch
@imwealthy1113 жыл бұрын
you are extremely pretty wtf
@nightmrj3 жыл бұрын
im so sorry for yall in these comments this is why i dont go near relationships i only trust myself im rlly hoping u guys figure it out soon :)
@cinnamonmatcha3 жыл бұрын
this look is so cute !!
@audio910002 жыл бұрын
Very cute 😍 I love it!!
@amerykahfuller8932 жыл бұрын
It’s giving 90s grunge still cute tho 🖤
@babyg7183 жыл бұрын
You're not being overbearing you're just being a caring significant other but i wish you both luck
@kazkilos3 жыл бұрын
YES PLEASE DO VLOGZZZ💖💓💘
@SK-bf6md3 жыл бұрын
i LOVE the makeup tutorials. can we get a euphoria vibez tut?
@diamond-lee48853 жыл бұрын
I’m late but I’m here n more in love than everrrrrr🥰🖤🖤🖤🙏🏼
@Iostlight3 жыл бұрын
Posting at 4am ❤️🇦🇺 #nosleepgang
@antoniaalvarado8753 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loovveee!
@leeannisellsuttideanda23033 жыл бұрын
I needed it, gracias ❤️
@uhhellooo3 жыл бұрын
Nancy Downs vibes 💓
@Mario-ip3pl3 жыл бұрын
Firstttt ilyyyyy🖤🖤🖤🖤
@trini_d93 жыл бұрын
Unlucky for you, you weren’t first but almost 😅
@SymphonyTaylor3 жыл бұрын
The makeup and hair was so definitely 90s! Yeah your bf needs to cut alcohol off cold turkey 💯👏🏼
@nightmrj3 жыл бұрын
ur cat is so cute omg
@bloodliriel2 жыл бұрын
Weeeellll... my dad is an alcoholic. I know how bad it can get and for that reason I advise everyone asking my opinion to rarely drink. I mean, have fun and get silly drunk, but don't booze until you lose brain cells, don't make it a regular thing, and especially don't use it to cope with things. It WILL come back to bite you in the a** at some point and that will be a very very rough awakening. Therapy is the thing to do, even if it is just ten sessions it can change a life path. Apart from that, thank you for your video! I am old enough to be a 90s Goth and enjoy this more than I probably should 😀 greetings from Luxembourg 🇱🇺
@vicarioustourist3 жыл бұрын
Super cute! 🙀
@larrie37103 жыл бұрын
the cat in the background 🥺🥺🥺🥺
@planetbonnie_3 жыл бұрын
omg yes beginners makeup plass
@Mushy_moons2 жыл бұрын
Ik I’m super late but I relate sm on the therapy thing, I’ve been going to therapy on and off for like 4 years but they stopped carrying my insurance and literally nobody else takes that insurance for some reason. I be callin everyone and they are like leave a message and I don’t know how to do that so I hang up and procrastinate looking for a therapist for like two more years
@mavinchii12903 жыл бұрын
Hey Blake I was wondering what products you were using on your face, just got a gift card to ulta and wanted to try a new foundation and concealer but I’m also interested in experimenting with other products. THANKS xo take care love
@Ava163492 жыл бұрын
I hope you found help, if not try your local clinic they typically offer sliding scale options .
@4lpinestarZ3 жыл бұрын
mila kunisss
@lizzy93483 жыл бұрын
It sounds like your boyfriend just shouldn’t drink.
@catieneff96793 жыл бұрын
try taylor counseling they’re in dallas I went there they’re pretty good! I had a lesbian therapist
@Justme_2473 жыл бұрын
Pretty!
@memep.92203 жыл бұрын
I remember I couldn't do eyeliner one time and it didn't do a line and I got mad and decided to paint my whole lid with black eyeliner and it was sooooo...cute hehe............but it's nice how they get so personal in these videos it's been so long since I watched a video I used to be 15 watching them and I'm gonna be 17 soon time really flies...~ 😅😁😊
@adrisoa3 жыл бұрын
13:19 it’s called a cupids bow
@Aprille9992 жыл бұрын
Cute!
@beeluvslean10 ай бұрын
omg you look like zendaya but with more sharp features
@mackenzierivercasey67523 жыл бұрын
My bf and I both got into the habit of over over drinking....he can pull out of it, but since my mom got sick I ended up using it as medicine for my emotions....since her condition is complicated and I'm young and no one understands. But I'm coming out of the shock and trauma of it. I'm going to clean things up and be there. For her, my family, my bf, my friends. And most importantly, myself. You can do it. It starts with finding hope again, beleif in the world, in yourself, allowing yourself to enjoy things again....without the drink!
@shewholuvsall Жыл бұрын
Yeass eyebrow tut
@larnie3673 жыл бұрын
I’m in the position where I am the one who needs to stop drinking, I have BPD and Complex PTSD, I definitely view drinking as a coping mechanism for myself but it affects my relationships with people and genuinely isn’t healthy, I am thankful that I can catch on to it before it gets worse as alcohol addiction is very common in my family. I say just try to be there for the person but also let them know that the habit is unhealthy
@jenbrophy79563 жыл бұрын
you are god damn pretty dude
@rescue.repair.reward3 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful, intelligent, and talented.
@pauline.b50953 жыл бұрын
Yess
@marissavivian37113 жыл бұрын
Have a question beautiful ! What tattoo gun do you use? You might have mentioned it in older videos I must have missed it though 💜
@luastapfer16943 жыл бұрын
I’m watching this on a train and I was like? who tf is playing french accordion music?? and then I realized it was the background music for this vid lol
@burbujas44483 жыл бұрын
Honestly they just shouldn't drink at all if it makes then feel that way. I don't think you're being harsh because you know them best and if it's signaling red flags there's probably more to it. I used to be the same way my freshmen year in college with drinking and I didn't snap out of it til a traumatic experience made me feel sick at the smell of alcohol. It really is a cry for help but when you're so deep into it you don't even realize you're harming yourself. Tmi but hope that anecdote helps
@allyma33 жыл бұрын
just a feedback, turn ur video audio up when u editing bcuz its rlly quiet (unless it's just me then sorry) but id like more hair videos or maybe reaction of old vids or something idk but i am kinda tired of the makeup only a little bit, mainly bcuz i cant rlly follow it since i dont have much
@jazzy89413 жыл бұрын
its not that quiet tbh
@melymantsenda94703 жыл бұрын
It’s not quiet
@1menininhaeu3 жыл бұрын
*My mom hat3s me (she tried to k*ll me) What I do?* 😣