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Iqra in London

Iqra in London

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@kajalgupta7033
@kajalgupta7033 11 ай бұрын
Dear Iqra, I am writing this comment to let you know how wonderful heart and beautiful soul Allah has blessed you with. Your every vlog is so meaningful, the words and topics you choose to talk about are very insightful and relatable to full extent. Alhamdulillah I came across your channel to gain a different perspective and wisdom in a way. I truly appreciate your hardwork, enthusiasm and clarity of mind. May Allah SWT bestow His choicest blessings on you, Ameen Love & Hugs Your revert sister in Deen from India ❤️
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words. May Allah make ease for you in this new path of life. May Allah brings lots of barakah n khair in your life ameeen. Your comment made my day ❤️
@hayafareed5902
@hayafareed5902 11 ай бұрын
Reallyyyy she is owsmmmmm woman mashallah...
@kulsumkhalid6071
@kulsumkhalid6071 11 ай бұрын
Welcome to the religion of peace kajal
@HappyLifeWithZariaAdnan
@HappyLifeWithZariaAdnan 11 ай бұрын
Ap boht acha bolti han
@sonikhan3264
@sonikhan3264 11 ай бұрын
Such a pure lady May Allah bless you always ❤❤❤
@saraha3068
@saraha3068 11 ай бұрын
Im sorry but if husband is a cheater?? I couldn’t do it anymore, i tried to save my marriage for ten years, but his cheatings never stopped, i had to ask for divorce, my marriage was effecting me and my children mentally, i had to quit, but Allah knows i tried my best.
@MusaMalik-k2x
@MusaMalik-k2x 5 ай бұрын
If husband is a cheater then what should a wife do?
@Daffodil-e2v
@Daffodil-e2v 5 ай бұрын
How r u managing ur finances? Are ur parents supportive? Do ur children get bullied because of having a single parent?
@shahanayasmeen1767
@shahanayasmeen1767 5 ай бұрын
I can feel your pain 😢
@MishzOfficialchannel
@MishzOfficialchannel 5 ай бұрын
Same here sister. Ive been through the same.
@SidraKhan-bk1uv
@SidraKhan-bk1uv 5 ай бұрын
Same here...but Allah pak ne Lambi Rassi di hai easy husband's ko so wait and watch agy kia hashar hota hai inka
@samraali1188
@samraali1188 11 ай бұрын
These four things should be Deal Breaker: 1. Physical Abuse 2. Substance Abuse (drugs, alcoholism etc) 3. Extra Marital Affair 4. Haram money Baqi sab maslay solve hojatay hein
@Dubai.momof2
@Dubai.momof2 4 ай бұрын
Emotional abuse too sister. I agree with you
@Sae_Hidori
@Sae_Hidori 11 ай бұрын
Meri shadi ko 15 sal hone wale hain mashaallah ❤️ or hamare relationship me aaj v wahi respect or muhabbat hai...... Mere husband ne mujhe shadi k bad ek bat kahi ki jis tarah miyan biwi ka mohabbat band darwaza k ander hota hai waise hi larai jhagra v band darwaza k ander hi hona chahiye...is cheez ko aaj tk main follow kr rhi hoon...
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 11 ай бұрын
So true. Masha Allah ❤️
@N.a.q.1609
@N.a.q.1609 11 ай бұрын
I completely agree with you... Meri mother in law ne bhot choti choti baato pe bhot matter create Kiya. Somehow I adjust the things for one month... But some matter was exgraatte alot by my mother in law... And I spoke to my family and their family members... Matters to kuch solve hue ni .. balki ek hi mahene me hum dono husband wife k bich itni duriya badh gai .. k baate ab ego pe aagai .. ek mahena shadi rahi...8 mahene mai apni maike me rahi....or uske baad meri talaq ho gai.... Dekha Jaye to Baat shayad kuch bhi ni hoti .agar mai or mere husband samaj paate... Q k doosro ko bata k to baat... Talaq pe hi pohch gai... Khair ...Jo hua usse maine bhi yahi sabak liya hai... K husband and wife k beech kabhi koi teesra nahi aana chahiye....unki khud ki aulaad bhi ni... Dua kijye ....k Allah Tahla muje bhi sabar de.... Or hamare partners ko humare haq me behtar farmaye. Ameen
@sameenashaikh5276
@sameenashaikh5276 11 ай бұрын
But a woman is helpless, when husband shares every small thing with his parents, and act innocent in front of u...commitment shall be from both the sides....one side this advice doesn't work
@AieshaFarhat
@AieshaFarhat 4 ай бұрын
You are right sister
@saniaali477
@saniaali477 11 ай бұрын
MashaAllah such wisdom. Golden rules of marriage survival. ❤
@crscntyt11
@crscntyt11 11 ай бұрын
Can’t agree any better than you
@hirasohail7369
@hirasohail7369 9 ай бұрын
This video is a therapy. I am going through a fight with my husband. Seems like Allah sent this video to me as a message
@s.g.2103
@s.g.2103 9 ай бұрын
Same here
@asmaausman6007
@asmaausman6007 9 ай бұрын
Allah pak sb ki jorian salamat rakhy...Allah pak mery husband ka saya hmesha mery sr p slamat rakhy...mjy bht dar lgta hy kyun k main bht kam aqal hun
@Ruqayakhan-y6t
@Ruqayakhan-y6t 9 ай бұрын
Me too😊
@khubaibzia1590
@khubaibzia1590 11 ай бұрын
Iqra apiya. Allhumdullilah allhumdullilah me bi esy hi krti ai hu and 10 years ho gay hen but sakoooooooon hy life me. Ye BAAT muje mery husband ne kahi thi walimy k bad ❤❤❤ AP ne re mind krva diya muje Mera function ❤❤❤ thankssssss❤
@syedrabiya2201
@syedrabiya2201 11 ай бұрын
What will one do when u are the only one to communicate n the other one doesn't give a damn....it's easy to say when ur spouse atleast listens to u.....
@homehappiness2909
@homehappiness2909 11 ай бұрын
I really liked this topic of yours, i was married at a young age but i knew the value of friendship and asked my husband to be my friend first and then my husband kyunki friend jaisa bhi ho apko acha lgta hai lekin husband/ wife se ek expectation ho jati hai aur waisa na hone par bura lgta hai. I hav been through though times but never ever i let others know about my jhagda and even if husband started to speaking out loud i used silence and sabr. Today is the day that my husband is supportive in every thing even my mother in law prefers living with me rather than her own daughter because of behaviour issues. All thanks to Allah. Dear Iqra u r guiding people with your beautiful words may Allah bless you always. Each and every topic was covered beautifully Masha Allah. Lots of love to you💕
@qpixelthree80
@qpixelthree80 11 ай бұрын
I agree with not complaining about small issues with people/family.. but Many people use the “don’t discuss our issues with family” as a way to continue abusing their spouse. If you are feeling overwhelmed by your relationship with your spouse and your body is screaming at you telling you that something is wrong and it’s not simply “not all marital disputes” please tell family and get them involved. It’s not just about physical abuse. Some people will neglect their duties or even withhold affection to control the relationship/you. This is abuse and overtime will chip away at your self esteem. The longer you accept it and keep silent the harder it will be to make a change. It’s okay to inform family of things that are driving you crazy/breaking your heart/will, and they can offer you a place to stay so the other spouse learns it is not acceptable and hopefully fixes up.
@junaidmehsud6531
@junaidmehsud6531 10 ай бұрын
Appreciating and very matured wife ...Allah apko Khush rakhy...Meri bhi shadi hny wali coming soon...InshAllah apny Jo Jo batain ki hy agar insan ispy Amal kry to waqai BHT sary fasad khtm ho jy ...very nice...life me aj aik new advice mili hy aik bari behn ki taraf say....thanks GOD bless you...
@MynaCh
@MynaCh 11 ай бұрын
Thats exactly what we r doing since 4 years.. jo b hy apas mie sought out krien .. thats a good advice❤
@naheedfatima6838
@naheedfatima6838 11 ай бұрын
How intelligent you are, every single word you said is in our experience, very well explained. MashaAllah you are very good girl. Well brought up.
@hamnaubaid5820
@hamnaubaid5820 8 ай бұрын
Randomly ye video samny aii i am not even married but found this video helpful ❤very wise advices 🫶🏻stay blessed
@aisharafeeq4299
@aisharafeeq4299 11 ай бұрын
This is so amazing sister you covered everything! Pray Allah give us the ability to practice and may it be sadqa jariya for you. Ameen
@hafeezrahman6149
@hafeezrahman6149 11 ай бұрын
If husband and wife follow the principles and guidelines in Islam the marriage would be a blessing. Very good blog.
@mommyaisha9057
@mommyaisha9057 11 ай бұрын
5 years ago,I had a really bad argument with my husband which led to series of other arguments which nearly led to our seperation. The worst thing was that our parents and the entire family got involved. Some said it was my fault ,some said it was his. Everyonw tried to mend our relationship. Everyone was too desperate to make us a happy couple. Noone gave us space ,no one really knew how to help a couple who wants to part ways. The pressure, the opinions ,the constant nagging left us in a very difficult position. Everything escalated really quickly to a worse state. The troubles we had between each other started to feel too small compared to the troubles our family gave us. Me and my husband ended up together only because we had to endure too much pressure from family. We both were super traumatized. The trauma of all the drama that was caused due to family's involvement still lingers in my heart. Since then we never tell anything to our family.we both have been emotionally shut.no matter how big the problem is ,we sort it out together no matter how long it takes.
@shireenkkhan
@shireenkkhan 9 ай бұрын
Dear Iqra I have seen only 2 of your vlogs ,watching this vlog made me happy to see such wonderful people like you still exist. May Allah bless you.
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ❤️
@sumerasyed5877
@sumerasyed5877 11 ай бұрын
Dis is so true.. evn am married for more dan 6 years now.. evry single word of yours i can relate.. my thoughts are same as yours.. and alhamdulillah till today i never involve anyone in btwn us..my sil's always thought v never fight.. but one day i told dem dat its common to fight but v keep in btwn us nly.. and I live in a joint family.. nd Dil halka karne ki baat you should talk to allah cry in sujood.. Dil halka hojayega..
@GulDiaries-686
@GulDiaries-686 11 ай бұрын
I’m totally agree but mere husband har cheez me apni sisters ko involve karte the or mai khud tak rakhti thi is waja se humara reshta kabhi bhi teek nahi ho paya and we parted aways
@ruhmerakhan4767
@ruhmerakhan4767 5 ай бұрын
Asalamualaikum wrwb Very good advice, Alhumdullilah married for 24 years and I have always done this and my husband too. We never shared anything What's happening at home with anyone and Alhumdullilah all the relationships with in-laws were always happy and everyone respects us as a loving couple.Alhumdullilah❤❤
@AllInOne-hq4lz
@AllInOne-hq4lz 10 ай бұрын
Jazakallah for this wonderful message.. i just went through very hard time of my marriage. Lekin Alhumdulilah aub all good scene hai. I would like to mention yea jo kisi sy share na karnay ka kaha hai na bohat best baat bole hai. Exactly jitnay loog involve hotay hain outna he mushkil hojata hai sort out karna. Please remember me and my family in duas. Thank you.
@mohammadbabar6408
@mohammadbabar6408 11 ай бұрын
Mashallah bohaaat acha topic n bohaaat hi achi realistic approach to resolve the issues between husband and wife iqra sis you did the justice with the topic Allah aap ka Hami o Nasir ho aur sub husband wife ko aisa hi khubsurat rishta rakhna chahiay Allah hamesha khush o abaad rakhay aap dono ko Ameen
@kiyanijee8921
@kiyanijee8921 5 ай бұрын
اقراء جی ایسا لگ رہا ہے یہ تو میں بول رہی ہوں یہ میری سوچ ہے ۔ میں ایسی ہوں اپنی باتیں جھگڑے نوک جوک کوئی بھی کسی کو نہ بتاتی ہوں نہ ظاہر کرتی ہوں ۔نہ کیے کبھی ۔۔ اور بہت سچ بات ہے شادی سے پہلے دس بھی منگیتر سے بات کر لیں لیکن جب جائیں گئی ویسا نہیں پائیں گئی جو ہوتے وہ اور شادی کرکے روپ سامنے جو آتا ناں 😢
@ShumailaMo
@ShumailaMo 11 ай бұрын
Me and My husbnd also 2 different personalities bt this tip is amazing k baat apni khud tk rkhni chahye ghar walon ko batani ni chahye koi b baat you hv share amazing thoughtful suggestions really need of every couple
@mariaikram4857
@mariaikram4857 9 ай бұрын
Very good advice Respect sb se phly ha husband wife ma r ye boundaries ap dno ne hi set krne ha Married life is so beautiful But bht afsoos hota ha jb log is pakeeza rista ko khrab krte ha Sb parents ko apne beta ho ya bete un ko before marriage hi ye sb cheeze skhane chaye
@momosvlogs8478
@momosvlogs8478 11 ай бұрын
Finally some sensible content...really appreciate ur dil ki baat series...keep it up❤
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 11 ай бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@hareemhasan2665
@hareemhasan2665 11 ай бұрын
Hi! that’s great advice you gave out. I’d like to add though, please stop stereotyping women as ‘zara ziada emotional’ creatures. Yes we’ve been told this, but it’s actually a very hateful way of invalidating women. If you take a closer look at reality, it’s mostly men who lose control over their emotions and get verbally, and even physically abusive. Aap ne sunay hon ge qissay, jidhar ‘ghussay mein aa ke’ aik aadmi ne aurat ko talaaq ki dhamki di, aur talaaq bhi de di. It’s mostly, 90% of the time, men who are so emotional that they end up ruining their marriages in the heat of the moment. And by saying things like ‘women are just more emotional creatures’ - you are taking away men’s needs to hold themselves accountable for how they are actually the ones who are far more emotional. It’s men who show extreme road rage in traffic, who get extremely angry if someone overtakes them on the road, who throw a fit if the waiter gets their order wrong. ‘aadmi tou phir hotay hain thoray ghussay ke taiz’ is what is used to excuse them. you have a great platform, please use it to help women understand that it’s not their job to single-handedly save their marriage.
@amrinmanjiyani
@amrinmanjiyani 11 ай бұрын
All words are 100% said truth... sacchi aapne sab sahi kaha.. totally agree with u
@rabeylwakas539
@rabeylwakas539 5 ай бұрын
Boht achi baat ki hai aap ne bus humen ye baten late samjh aati hain.. I wish unmarried larkiyan is ko seekhen aur Amal kreyn
@ayeshaxhk
@ayeshaxhk 11 ай бұрын
Alhumdullilah i have watched this video before my marrige...even as a teenager .... am going to get married soon and In Shaa Allah i will take care of those thing❣❣
@NATASHAPATRAWALA
@NATASHAPATRAWALA 7 ай бұрын
A true bond is where both have respect for each other and takes their points to consideration. Male ego should not exist and that's great that u and ur husband both agree equally on each other's opinions. That's how every couple must work as a team
@Fatimaah.m90
@Fatimaah.m90 11 ай бұрын
This is one of the most beautiful videos and lessons I heard today . I've seen this same situation in our house too. Unfortunately people take everything personally and they feel only they are right others aren't. Larkion ko he zayada sacrifice and compromise karna parta hai Chup rehna parta hai .
@healthydietgoal7940
@healthydietgoal7940 11 ай бұрын
AOA api main itna kho g thi vlog main mjy pata nai chla kab khatam ho gya vlog main or sunna chahati thi ap ny jo bat btai hai wo kamal hai 100% kam ki bat hai thanku so much .....thanku so much again...I am Atiqa Afzal
@Theworldofzoniumi
@Theworldofzoniumi 11 ай бұрын
Meri shadi ko 3 month hue hain or apk is vlog say muje kafi help mili h jazakALLAH Kafi cheeze samaj main ai h
@dr.Awaqas
@dr.Awaqas 11 ай бұрын
Communication is the key Ek dosray se baat karen, ek dosray ki expectations pochen , apni similarities or differences k oper baat karen Dont assume or think usko pata hona chahiye , jub tak ap khud nahi baten ge Agr baat nahi ho pa rahi aur larai shuru ho jati hy tou I would advise k ohr ghar se bahr baat karen kisi park mai , beach pe, chai pe jahan ap ird gird moujood logo ki waja se apne emotions control kar saken Apni larai ussi waqt end karne ki Koshish karen aur ek dosray se khafa ho k na soyen subha utha k issue aur bada lagne lagta hy aur ghussa aur b barh jata hy Shuru ka Kuch Time baat karne se b larai hoti hy lekin phr aisi adat parti hy k laraiyan hona hi khatam hojati hy aur srf discussion karne hi solution mil jata hy Haftay mai ek dafa ek ghanta kum se kum zaror nikalen srf apne rishtay k baray mai baat karne k liye
@srabanichaudhurychakrabart9045
@srabanichaudhurychakrabart9045 11 ай бұрын
Very well said 👏. And you know the facts you said about settling between couples internally on their own without involving 3rd party ------ 100 percent correct. When i got married, like you i soon understood that there would be so many issues between us although it was love marriage. Moreover, we work in same organization. But fortunately my husband and me sat down and promised ourselves that we would talk or discuss between us Without involving any other person. Iqra, this year in July , we would celebrate 25th years of marriage which has many ( secret) 😂 larai jhagre but still we are called by our relatives and friends as """"" jam sandwich couple """". God bless you and your husband 😊
@aamnamemon3186
@aamnamemon3186 9 ай бұрын
My husband is lier. I tried to safe my marriage for 2 years. But marriage life was deteriorating day by day. Affecting my mental health as well. Now seperated with having my 8 month daughter in hand
@anarkaliandar
@anarkaliandar 11 ай бұрын
بالکل ٹھیک شاباش بہت سمجھدار بچی ہو اللہ تعالی میری بیٹیوں کے نصیبی اچھے کرے اور تم جتنا سمجھدار بنائیں
@SairaJamshed-rt5fz
@SairaJamshed-rt5fz 7 ай бұрын
Mri b same ap jesi situation ha mra b aisy hi 2 sal nikah raha mre husband b uk or mjy b shadi k bad pta chala k mai ne jesa unhe 2 sal mai samja wesy to wo bilkul b nai... Or ap samj sakti hn is taklef ho jab aisy hota ha... Allah tala mre liye b asaniya paida kary or jesy Allah tala ne apko himmat di mjy b mily ameen.. Bht achy sy ap apni shadi ko manage kr rahi hn
@arshia769
@arshia769 7 ай бұрын
Omg same was with me . Mery husband USA rehty h r Mera visa m kafi problems rhi so after 5y Mera visa laga but yaha aa kr Mjy totally different insan mila . AGR m kisi ko kch btaun to koi believe hi nh kr skta reality Kia h . Ub bs beti ki wajah s yaha reh rahi hmm . I was a working lady r always kehna yaha aa kr prhna job krna etc r yaha aa kr bat hi nh suntay . I can’t say a single word Jo m chahti hmm and this leading me towards depression and anxiety
@AsraShafin
@AsraShafin 11 ай бұрын
Mashallah u are very matured im recently married and goin through this right now I take your advice sister u explained very well and your content is very relatable I badly need to hear this ❤
@ashiff7781
@ashiff7781 9 ай бұрын
Jo sari batein aspne batayi sahi hain. Emotional intelligence bhi hona zaruri hai. Lekin ek baat ka dhyan rakhna zaruri hai ki, abuse ko samjhen. Not just physical abuse emotional and psychological abuse ko bhi. Abuser ko bahut faida hota hai agar aap apni baat kisi se nahi batate. To abuse ko kabhi na chupayen.
@Ayesha_Siddiqua_03
@Ayesha_Siddiqua_03 8 ай бұрын
This video is very helpful💯 and mai bhi ghar me sabse choti hun and Maine Apne bhai behnon k dekha hai nd mujhe ab bacche kaise paalna hai wo bhi samajh aa gayi hai kaafi had tak,Alhamdullillah ❤I just hope jab bhi I get married ,I try to give my best for the sake of Allah ,aur Apne jo bataya Bahut helpful hai ❤
@sehararif1419
@sehararif1419 11 ай бұрын
This vlog caught my eye and all you said is 110% true
@Sidrasfooddairies
@Sidrasfooddairies 11 ай бұрын
So happy to talk about this topic with a great way to say.....❤❤❤ mri shadi ko 5 saal ho gay but aj tk mry susral ma khbi mry r mry husband ki koi bt kisi ka muh sy ni Soni q ka hum na khbi apni koi larai room sy bahir discuss ni ki....mujy lgta tha shyd Asa ma hi sochti ho ka husband wife ko apni bt kisi ko btani ni chaiy ..but seriously mujy apka vlog dakh ka son ka itni khushi hoi ka wakai ma na apni married life ka start sy ab tk jo Kam kiya wo wakai hmry rishty ko boht kabil e izat banata ha mry susral ma koi mry susral ma koi Asa ni ha jo hmy koi bt kry ❤❤❤❤
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 11 ай бұрын
Masha Allah ❤️
@Muskaan__12345
@Muskaan__12345 11 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more on the fact that others can not forget and forgive like spouses can. Also, I want to add to the point to the deal breakers list. it's not just the physical abuse. Emotional abuse is a real thing our family had a realtion with a person with narcissistic personality to be specific he was a covert type.... Nobody in the world would believe that such a good person treated you like that, so... any kind of abuse is a deal breaker and requires 3rd party involvement for sure asap.
@FoziaSayyed-b5t
@FoziaSayyed-b5t 10 ай бұрын
Thnks for giving wonderful advise .. allah mjhe b itni smjh de ki shadi k bd m gltiya na kru or mre hone wle husbnd b ameen
@JuvairiaCheema
@JuvairiaCheema 11 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah me and my husband have same thoughts👍🏻
@nomansaiyed720
@nomansaiyed720 11 ай бұрын
ما شاء الله Ese hi achchi knowledge dete hai ❤
@naaz_hope_is_allah_510
@naaz_hope_is_allah_510 11 ай бұрын
Aslamualikum appi jazakallah kahir for shering this big tip because meri shadi abi nai hui hai but inahallah jald honewali hai aur muje kafi help melige is video say allah ne apko zariya banke mere pass behja es video say may allah bless you appi ❤
@Beauty.guidance
@Beauty.guidance 11 ай бұрын
MashaAllah ap bht positive hain❤, Yah best video hai...litterly is me bht se asi cheezin hain Jo me ny experience ki hain...
@rolidelhi4596
@rolidelhi4596 11 ай бұрын
What about husband who has this habit of complaining to his mother and sister about issues of his wife ? Initially he himself took promise not to involve others and now breaking his own promise every other day. He never admits his mistake, rather blames his wife for breaking his promises.
@shaziakhan9808
@shaziakhan9808 5 ай бұрын
Then that guy is at fault...no need to involve 3rd party
@Usman-n3c
@Usman-n3c 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much dear api iqra ap ny deeply baty share ki myri life ma be bohat problem the or hai inshAllah ma apny husband K sath mil k zindagi ko bahtar bano ge inshAllah plz pray for me every one ❤❤❤❤❤
@Zainab_dusha1224
@Zainab_dusha1224 11 ай бұрын
Pehli nar mene kisi se sahi salah suni h kitni suljhi hui batein..mera bhi yahi mann h bilkul apki trah ..nahi to logo ko share kro to wo bus attitude dikhana sikhate he ghar ko yodna sikhate hen or badtamizi krna sikhate h ki tum ese kro nhi to samne wala apko chhota samjhega kamzor samjhega😢😢😢😢sad reality of our society 😢😢allah apko khush rakhe dear
@Arusa206
@Arusa206 11 ай бұрын
ketni piyari baatein ki hai apne .. ketna deep sochti ho ap .. very good advices .. thanks alot !
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 11 ай бұрын
❤️
@fazilamudassir43
@fazilamudassir43 11 ай бұрын
Wow I’m amazed first time saw your video and I’m impressed by your advice. Are u a therapist or psychiatrist etc?
@abdullahjan9295
@abdullahjan9295 11 ай бұрын
Zbrdas dear iqra dil jeet liya sab khuch bilkul perfect bola hai ❤
@ice-chills5153
@ice-chills5153 11 ай бұрын
At least your husband listens to you and doesn't complain his mom anything MashaAllah. Any advice for such husbands jo apni maa ko sab kuch bata ker biwi ko bully kerwatry han.
@arhamsdedee7738
@arhamsdedee7738 11 ай бұрын
Very good advice. I am married for 5 years and now I will adopt this beautiful habit. ❤❤❤❤
@SpokenEnglish22
@SpokenEnglish22 11 ай бұрын
I appriciate your way of thinking. Mashallah nice advice❤.
@sfatmasf
@sfatmasf 11 ай бұрын
Maine aaj yonhi screen par aa rahi video open ki aur iqra ki bat bilkul ❤dil par jakar lagi aur maine subscribe kia channel and ek k bad ek kai videos dekhi Pure heart, Allah ki Naik bandi jise Allah ne in salahiyato se is liye Nawaza hai k wo logon k kuch kaam aa jaaye aur wo aaa bhi rahi hai❤ Allah Hamesha khush rakhe Aur Dunia Aakhirat dono jagha kamyab kare ❤Love from Saudi Arabia❤
@Iqra-faizan124
@Iqra-faizan124 8 ай бұрын
Ye batain mjhy bht km umer m bht achi trhan smjh achuki thi
@Lahore2LondonLife
@Lahore2LondonLife 7 ай бұрын
Thanks Iqra, you've picked just the right words to describe a complex issue that we all face, excellent content.
@asmafarahi2353
@asmafarahi2353 11 ай бұрын
Itni pyari baten ❤subscribe to karna hi padega😊
@kulsumkhalid6071
@kulsumkhalid6071 11 ай бұрын
Mashallah jazakilahu khairan, itni kam Umar me itni samajhdari ki batein meri choti behan dil khush ho gaya alhamdulilah ❤
@mahiramajid897
@mahiramajid897 8 ай бұрын
7 months into marriage i totally agree with you. I wish every couple is told this beforehand
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 8 ай бұрын
May Allah brings lots of happiness in this new chapter of your life ❤️
@nuzhatghani1162
@nuzhatghani1162 5 ай бұрын
بہت زیادہ اچھی باتیں بتائی ہیں آپ نے اللہ تعالیٰ آپ اور سب کے لئے آسانیاں پیدا کریں آمین ثم آمین
@mrsamirza4392
@mrsamirza4392 11 ай бұрын
Walaikum salaam Apa my Name is Iqraa too from South Africa 🇿🇦 hubby Pakistani. Glad I found ur channel been binging for the past 2 days love and appreciate ur content and ur storytelling skills 😊 making marriage work really is a two way thing but men don't make any efforts and accept when they need professional help which makes things extremely difficult but in sha Allah will keep on trying
@syedaayesha8355
@syedaayesha8355 11 ай бұрын
MashaALLAH such a beautiful and pure heart you have. How gracefully and respectfully you explain all this. MashaALLAH so happy to hear you and inshaALLAH whenever I'll get married I'll use this rule pray for my health JazakALLAH
@ShamsulAlamSahab
@ShamsulAlamSahab 9 ай бұрын
Darood Ibrahim daily 313times aur 4qul sures fatiha ayatul 70times subha shaam padhne se husband and wife me koi na itefaqi nahi aati padh k k dekhe please
@sameeraakram1971
@sameeraakram1971 11 ай бұрын
Apki videos sy bht kuch seekhny ko milthaa hy bht soothing voice hy nd barhen dil ko chooti hain kafi din sy apky video ka intzar tha Or aj bht seekhny ko mila aj yahi topic chahye tha mjy need thi aise advice k
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 11 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@nazdrawingchannel
@nazdrawingchannel 11 ай бұрын
Bahot bahetarin bat batai❤👌👌
@shaikhnagma2317
@shaikhnagma2317 11 ай бұрын
Very Important message and much beautifully expressed.Jazzak Allahun Khairan.
@Starsworld-or3sc
@Starsworld-or3sc 11 ай бұрын
Sister rozana 4 qul ayatul kursi or nazer ki ayat parth ker khud par or husband par tasavur me dam kren or paani par dam ker k khud bhi piyen or husband ko bhi pilaayen isse bhi lartaayi jhagertey kam hottey hn likin husband ko btayen nahi k paani dam walla he Normal paani me mix ker den
@beautifyNOW
@beautifyNOW 11 ай бұрын
Excellent advice. You are so wise for your age Masha’Allah. ❤
@rabiakhanrabiakhan2799
@rabiakhanrabiakhan2799 5 ай бұрын
Really i like ur positive haabit sister nd meri shadi ko 4saal hogy hyn but sometimes main bh asa he krti hon but ab nahe karungi
@maryamfatima4108
@maryamfatima4108 11 ай бұрын
Extremely satisfying content. Waqae Dil ki Baatain he krti hain ap api ❤❤ May Allah Pak ease your all hurdles of life. (Ameen)
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 11 ай бұрын
Ameen ❤️
@attiakabeer1991
@attiakabeer1991 9 ай бұрын
Topic is good but I m surprised to see u using nescafe. As it's an Israeli product. Kindly stop using this
@zeenatsajjaad
@zeenatsajjaad 7 ай бұрын
ma sha Allah bht achi bt Hai same meri b yhi soch Hai me b aisa krti bht achi advice Hai kindly sb lrkian goar kijiye GA faida hoga in sha Allah
@FatimaNoor7038
@FatimaNoor7038 9 ай бұрын
Really appreciate your advice...😍✨💯, however I'm a college student 😁
@shahanarashid777
@shahanarashid777 11 ай бұрын
As always excellent advice. We had a neighbour who told her daughter on the day of Rukhsati that when things happens between you and your husband don’t tell me because she said I’m a mother I will judge and her hurt but you and your husband will forget and be happy after arguments but she said a mother won’t forget. You’re so good Masha’Allah Iqra because this is best advice you
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 11 ай бұрын
Thank you ☺️
@fauzianeazi6562
@fauzianeazi6562 11 ай бұрын
first time i am watching you but you are ultimate you have brainwashed many issues jazaak allah khair ❤
@sakinamirsultan6072
@sakinamirsultan6072 11 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah...Mine are love marriage... I am a Malaysian Pakistani and my husband are Pakistani...I'm so lucky to have such a loving, caring and supportive husband...we don't lived in family's house, we lived separately and that's why we are happy. I think the important thing is husband and wife have to communicate and do not tell to the 3rd person about your family's problems because it will make it worst. Mashallah we have been married for 25 years and have 3 son's. My advice do not tell your problem to others... It is better talk to your spouse.
@a_siddiqi101
@a_siddiqi101 11 ай бұрын
one of the best piece of advice I've ever received, jazakillah khair 💗 , may Allah taala bless you with his blessings here and hereafter. Aameen 🌷
@LITTLEBITOFEVERYTHING-23
@LITTLEBITOFEVERYTHING-23 3 ай бұрын
JazakAllah khair for a great advice honestly if people start doing this loads of problems will solve on their own. I wish to meet you some day InshaAllah you have that positive vibe.
@IqrainLondon
@IqrainLondon 3 ай бұрын
Insha Allah zarur mileingey 🩷
@Sarah-f7x1d
@Sarah-f7x1d 11 ай бұрын
Wese kabi kabi khayal aata he ke kyon larki ko hi husband ki sari family ko apna parta he husband pr to ye sab laago nhi hota. Jabke hamare mazhab e is chez ka koi concept hi nhi. Idhar larki ki shadi hoi or wo aisi aisi jhanjaton me parr jati he ke marte dam tak phir chutkara nhi milta. Afsoos......Hmara mazhab to boht hi simple he lekin society ke pressure or norms ne ise boht complicated bana dia.
@hammadahmad253
@hammadahmad253 11 ай бұрын
bohat hi piyari batee maire husband ne muje first night baat ki ti k humare drmayan ok b baat hogi is room se nhi nikligi na mare ghar wako ko pata lage na apke taraf hum done khud baat clear krenge Humdulilah humare kabhi kisi bi baat ka kisi ko kuch nhi pata hota.sab normal SHUKR ALLAH PAK KA
@shaikhnausheen922
@shaikhnausheen922 11 ай бұрын
Ma Sha Allah sis 😊
@Gamer_live_series
@Gamer_live_series 8 ай бұрын
Cheating is no no. Children will follow their father.so no bad example for them
@AishaKhalid-rb9hr
@AishaKhalid-rb9hr 11 ай бұрын
Bohat achi sharing,keep inspiring us...❤❤
@Arsamajeed
@Arsamajeed 11 ай бұрын
Marriage is a teamwork both there's no mean for only single person saving it
@johrasadiq6179
@johrasadiq6179 10 ай бұрын
BHT itminaan Mila hai apki BAAT sunke.... JazakAllah ❤
@thetrendoflife
@thetrendoflife 7 ай бұрын
You are right sister all couples get into fights, just don't drag the conversation too much.
@ayatmalik1391
@ayatmalik1391 11 ай бұрын
Iqra ap boht achi baty krti ha Jin ko sun kr motivation milti ha. Please please please zada vlogs share Kia kra . Apki baty Sunna bht achi lgti ha
@Gadgets-SariaShujaat
@Gadgets-SariaShujaat 10 ай бұрын
Ache ar suche log allaha ko bi pasand hain yar too good ☺️
@laibashoukat8961
@laibashoukat8961 10 ай бұрын
This is the best advice...this is the first video from this channel that I watched.... it deeply connected to me ... .. can u people give more such advices ❤❤❤❤❤ .... By God I liked it so much.... there is a lack of social intelligence also .... I think u can make more productive videos on such topics....❤🎉🎉
@rizwanhussain4878
@rizwanhussain4878 9 ай бұрын
MashaAllah sister you are great ❤
@mahamnasir6607
@mahamnasir6607 11 ай бұрын
Beautiful advice and such a calming video Ma sha Allah ❤
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