Toxic In-Laws & Their Interference In Desi Household | Dil Ki baat

Toxic In-Laws & Their Interference In Desi Household | Dil Ki baat
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[@gluglupatates]

Dear Iqra, I am fairly new to your channel and this is the first time I watched your dil ki baat series. MashaAllah I am blown away by your wisdom and gentleness and insight. I love that you are trying to help others through your channel. Keep up the great work and looking fwd to more. May Allah preserve your good intentions and accept your efforts.

[@binteismail6444]

There should be no kitchen sharing in joint family. It will end most issues.. wife should be provided with separate portion with her own kitchen.... seriously it will make alot of things easy

[@shabanasayyad4741]

Sorry the cases which you discussed r not at all toxic... Their just a communication gap which can be solved by heart to heart talk too... But with truthful feelings only... Toxic people r narcissistic people....

[@sanobershah3000]

I’m living in joint family but Allahumduillah I am so much happy and want to live with my in laws happily the reason behind is my mil she is totally love she never treat me like dil she always treated me like her daughter and same with my sil they all are loving too koi rok tok nahi ane Jane mai khane penne mai sone jagne mai no never the reason behind all scene is my lovely mil ❤

[@Parentingtips007]

My husband is not doing any job and my mother in law dont want to send him out of city or out of country. He is not giving me money to fullfill my needs and my father is supporting me. I am worried what i can do.

[@ayeshaahmed4833]

Salam, Im 19 yr old im nikkahfied and shifting to london at the end of this month. I dont know how i will treat my in laws and how they will treat me im soo confused at this point of my life. Everything will change for me at the end of this year and this scares me alot.

[@rhubreh]

Salaam at the beginning of the year,I have a mental breakdown due to toxic in law despite not living with them . I did 100 for them . I have a strong personality , but still I was touched by the toxicity 😢😢😢

[@misbashaikh1202]

Thts good tht u helped the other lady to reflect on themselves first .. but this culture must b stopped any how ..sharing with in laws and if u wid a toxic partner then move on .. Allah bahot bada hai .. sb kar dega

[@shabanasayyad4741]

Comparison itself is wrong... Every person is unique n so his or her fate too...

[@Anamstudies]

I don't agree with you on the second story you told , it's right that the girl should give more time to her marriage in the beginning but the husband should also understand that she had lived so long with her family and this sudden change in lifestyle and being away from family must be affecting her so they can take it slow instead of just imposing new rules on her , the husband didn't have to get away from his family he will never understand. And she should definitely talk about her issues with her mother in law to her husband but we should also understand that it's a very hard thing to talk about such things to your husband especially when your bond is new it can lead to great misunderstandings so it's not as easy we should also acknowledge this fact but at the end of the day it always better to talk about it instead of bottling up which will lead to it coming it out in a different way which will not be healthy. I really admire you Iqra , I truly do and i really wish that you get all the things in life that you wish for but i think since you haven't experienced it you will never truly understand how it feels to be in the other person's shoes . And all those people who are saying that these stories were not toxic but just have communication gap i think they are toxic to people around them in their own lives . Especially the woman who is getting abused is absolutely not a matter of communication gap , I know its not that simple but abuse is something which is very unforgivable and cannot be fixed by talking.

[@XunairaXafar]

These are not toxic situations.... yes the case one, we can say it and in my opinion that husband has some mental disorder and gaslighting kinda habits and case 2 isn't toxic, it's just communication gap. I will contact you on Instagram regarding this topic.

[@Afarh-e8v]

Bohat khoob... Kitni clear baten hai aapki... Not married yet but yes simple issues ko bada bana kar rishte kharab hojate hai... Agar ham aqal se kaam len tou bohat sarey masle hal honge... Rahi baat abuse ki tou woh sarasar galat hai... Islam mai koi jagah nhi uski.

[@sairakh5303]

Muje aap ka vlog es liye hi acha lagta hai k itna sakoon hota hai koi chik chik nai alhmdulliha or Allah pak hamesha es tara hi rkahe ameeeen or baki rehi sab k saath mil kar rehna muje apni saas k saath es liye acha lagta tha k ek baro ka dar rehta hai insan wo kaam nai karta jo hame badh mein pata lagta hai k ye bare hote to hum nai karte ek yani ek baat ye k jab merj saas zinda thi to mein aone miaa jee se itna jagra nai karti thi dar hota tha k wo sone gee to kia kehne gee ye nai wo bohat zalim thi itna hi jitna ekmaa baap apno beti ho kehte hao shaud ys b bohat kammaa to maar b leti thi par wo bas baat hi karte thy shayd meri baat samaj naa aay par es tara ki bohat sari bate hame rokti hai jo hamre liye theek nai hoti baro k gher par hone ki waja se ye muje on k jane k badh pata laga Allah pak on ko jannat mein aallah muqam de ameeeen ya rab

[@shabanasayyad4741]

Yes you said very much true.. Gut feeling.... Intuition never mislead us...

[@AbdulBaqi-pv5cl]

Jo problem Apne batai me wo dono face ker Rai hon 14 Saal hogaey mere shadi ko 4 bachy hain mere or mjy nai permission k me mama k Ghar ja kar Raat rahon 1 month Baad he jati hon or bus kehna ye ha k AP agar apni feeling ko side me rakh ker husband or in k Ghar walo ka khayl rakho to boht cheezy theek ho jati hain jawab nai deti bus Jo good ho sakta ha wo kerti hon sari dunia Bhool chuki hon bacho or husband k lea .baqi Allah pak se Dua kia kro k sub ki life's ki problem door ho jaen wo din kehta me b kehti wo Raat boly me b bolti bus Kuch time kerti Rai to 100 me se 70 percent problem solve hui me ne khud ko Kuch time k lea sambhal dia or doosro k lea jeya but AJ khud k lea b boht kerti hon aik dukh ha Mera k mere mama foot ho Gai or mje UN k Sath time nai Mila k me guzarti bus 😭😭😭😭

[@rubabfatima3342]

Aap ki baat mujhe bilkul sahi lagi in-law wali aap ne bilkul sahi kaha bahut si baton ko Nazar andaz karna padta hai

[@ghufranasdiary6755]

Main bhi joint family me nhi rahti, lekin in laws tarah ke Tarah ke baat banate rahte hain mere bare, aur mere husband ko koi fark nhi padta,

[@sumrafatima3755]

Assalamualikeum Iqra, just similar to your other vlogs this one's very productive too especially the one's that closely emphasises on the societal and patriarchal issues.With reference to the topic, I'd say most of what you said is accurate.Ignoring small things and letting go is not just a wise act but even in our beautiful religion it's appreciated on a vast magnitude.Whereas i believe in some cases letting go turns out to be an act of promotion as the person on the other end percieves it as innocence and lenience.This builds upto some extent where the situation eventually escalates thereof it's crucial to set healthy boundaries for people to share the same space in bliss and harmony.

[@Trendyfashion427]

Woww very nice and realistic vlog ... MashaAllah .By the way aap ny suna hoga k saas k baad husbnd mai wo rooh ajati hy 😂😂😂 agar aik orat kich time saas k saat guzary or phir alag ho jaye tho husbnd mai wo rooh bas jati hy phir so be careful😂😂 .2ndly saas hamare maa k tarah hoti hy agar kuch zyada bol b dy tho ignor krna chahiye agar maa ki nazar sy daikhy tho bohaf easy hoga ignore krna. .. anyway waiting eagerly for the next vlog

[@amnaumar8171]

Very good positive vlog iqra .