Meet The British Mormons | Stacey Dooley Sleeps Over

Stacey is visiting one of the few families in the UK who practice Mormonism. As of 2022, less than 1% of the UK's population practice Mormonism. Their eldest son of three, Adam, is 17 and deciding whether to become a missionary for two years. Stacey will be joining the family at the time of this life changing decision for Adam and finding out what it's like to grow up with the strict parenting code of the church.
Stacey Dooley is fascinated by modern family life and wants to find out what how the more unusual households across Britain live. These families have lifestyles that others might judge but Stacey isn't here to judge, she's not here just to visit but she's here to stay! Experiencing all aspects of family life, to find out what really makes them tick!
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[@laurencecoldrick3158]

I'm so glad that Adam spoke up against the homophobia, thank you so much for doing that. Honestly I almost cried. Glad that the younger generation is moving on.

[@J-S.I]

That’s a crime and a grave sin. They sold out their religion. Lol

[@Emroxyoursocks]

I've heard the translation was done wrong and it was meant to say a man shall not lie with a child, I'm a Christian but not a Mormon.

[@sageofsixnuggies]

yesssssss this!

[@sageofsixnuggies]

you are a crime@@J-S.I

[@Gdavras]

Who cares 😂

[@ezra2971]

Adam is amazing for speaking up about the homophobia and for questioning his own dad about it because he has a point, one many of us share and question.

[@christyyamada3530]

What a wonderful kid Adam is. Keep using your voice my sweet boy!

[@melissamoran5626]

That also talks about the respectful parents he has

[@cassicurrie6798]

I see the utmost kindness and respect from the host even though she has different views and opinions. I also see it in return from the families of which she visits. This is an extremely informative series. Thank you for sharing.

[@UsernamesForDummies]

I have to say that I really value Stacey’s personality and character in this series. She can go to a convent, a country manor, a Mormon family and always finds some common ground. It also looks like anyone, no matter where or who they are, warms to her. She has a very inquisitive and non-judgmental personality with an engaging sense of humour. Considering how insecure and tongue-tied I get when I meet new people, even if they’re from a very similar social circle, I do admire that.

[@jenniferlynn3537]

Ditto

[@katiek1856]

My Aunt used to invite in the missionary Mormons and offer them a home cooked meal and give them access to a phone or email to call home or a friend or who they wanted to call. She knew they were under such tight restrictions and these are just young sheltered kids suddenly in a strange place and on their own. She said they would always come back and it was to just hangout out with everyone. They said it made them feel better to be surrounded by a family. They never talked about the religion at all.

[@kiyadixon9650]

I've just discovered Stacey this morning and I guess first I'll say I adore her curiosity, investigative nature, respectful approach to learning about sensitive topics, but I NEED to compliment her further by saying just WOW like she is so sooooo beautiful. Just gorgeous.

[@lulubelle53]

YES!!!! 100% agree! (found her like 2 days ago!)

[@sethjaffe9095]

@@lulubelle53 just found her today

[@Kitkat-wu3ow]

Adam was so brave to speak up.

[@anoukslaman1412]

I felt touched by adam speaking up about the homophobia within the religion, thank you for bringing up that topic

[@noideachannel9530]

My husband left this religion after he did his mission, when he was teaching it to other people he started to question it and the more digging he did the more questions he had, so he left😅

[@clearstonewindows]

The opposite happened to me. The restored Gospel of Jesus Christ saved my life.

[@bennytwo6136]

😊😊😅😅😊

[@vericaz3894]

​@@clearstonewindows Without any sarcasm , I swear to you, what does it mean when you say, the restored gospel ...I'm truly asking cause, I truly have questions ..could you be so kind to explain to me what that means.. please, thank you , and blessings❤

[@clearstonewindows]

@@vericaz3894 no problem happy to answer any questions. Restored. Mean that it was brought back. It was lost. After Jesus Christ was killed so were his apostles. So people interpretations crept in. So God sent a modern prophets to bring back his ancient church, in preparation for the 2nd coming of Jesus Christ 🙏

[@phillisob]

​@vericaz3894 If you're interested, the history and culture of Mormonism, all sects, will provide *endless* wild material!

[@Ray-pt5bi]

😂her snacking at the crisp before blessings, then saying oh my god 3x😂 faillll

[@jonjahr3403]

I'm an Ex Mormon and I thought that was hilarious 😂 tbh though, if I'd been there I would've patted her on the shoulder and and said "it's OK"

[@matthewmic12345]

Although it may have been funny it’s quite rude and you can see how embarrassed she was. This is why rules/etiquette or belief in certain traditions are important in life as to avoid embarrassing situations

[@micheletotton9342]

Stacey really is exceptional at her job ... empathetic, funny, bright, perceptive and the family are lovely

[@emilywiebel3238]

Love Adam, the way he stood his ground at dinner over homophobia. I love that he’s following his religion but also standing up for what he truly believes even if it’s not what the church necessarily believes.

[@AnneS508]

How is it homophobic to believe God intended sex and marriage to be between a man and a woman? It is actually a logical belief. To ridicule or be rude to someone who believes otherwise is a different matter. I did not see any of that happening here.

[@JoostWasR0bb3d]

​@@AnneS508 yep cheers Anne nans doin spins in the living room thinking she's a fidget spinner

[@user-fn2cs9dj1l]

The Mormon Church changes its doctrines because there is always a quorum and a new living prophet. For ex. they did not allow any race other than white into the church until the 1970's because to be a minority was to be stained by the devil. They openly hated gays and sent them to retraining camps but then decided to accept the fact that homosexuality exists and to love the sinner and hate the sin while expecting the gay person to pray it away and not openly talk about it.

[@gangstagrandma]

I live in Guatemala and we see the young adult missionaries around town who are from the US and UK "spreading the word". Very respectful kids. I'm sure they get a more rounded education from the locals than vice versa. I'm an atheist, but enlightenment comes in weird ways. Politeness goes a long way here.

[@JustDiane71]

My son was in Guatemala (Bueno Vista area) a year ago with his church. He was 18 when he went, first time away from us besidesleepovers with friends. (He's not Mormon, rules while away aren't as strict as this church and it was there a little over a week.) It was an amazing experience and he loved every minute of it!! He really enjoyed the kids and adults he met. He speaks about the kids often, he really fell in love with Guatemala culture and people. Thank you for saying how respectful the kids in missions can be. Made me one proud mama.❤

[@massiahgrom]

Amazing young people . Its a privilege to get to know them .

[@brooklynnchick]

I live in the US and while I don’t agree with all of the LDS’s theology, the PEOPLE of the Church of Latter Day Saints have supported and loved me my entire life. When the young people come knocking, I always invite them in for a drink and whatever I recently baked. They’re lovely, mature, sincere souls and it is the least I can do to offer a break and a kind word. I’ve never met an LDS member who didn’t choose their own path, I’ve met quite a few who left voluntarily and found another way.

[@MrTopcat3333]

I've been approached many times by Mormons, Scientologists and Jehovah Witnesses. When I tell them I'm Catholic, they quickly stop talking and leave me alone.

[@Jac-Jay]

Those missionaries are starved of their own parents love and home comforts because they are forced to go out and sell a lie..I do what you do amd and invite them in, lots of them break down and admit how sad they are but cant disappoint their family at home, such a wrong way for young men and women to live out the best years of their lives

[@aspentree4935]

I'm with you. If I were religious I'd join! But, I'm not.

[@user-lv1bm8eu1o]

Church of Jesus Christ…not church of Latter-day Saints.

[@user-fn2cs9dj1l]

I have experienced same. Or it is especially hard when the missionaries come from completely different socio economic classes or just have personality clashes. They are then even more homesick and discouraged. Their days are programmed, they are endlessly critiqued by the church and to leave early is seen as a stain on their character and a failure to their family and friends. Upon return most girls and boys go to a mormon university in the US where they will almost assuredly find their husband/wife. This is especially creepy for the girls since if they are not seen to be actively trying to date but study and achieve a degree for an independent career the bishops will actually begin talking to them, placing leaflets of "parties" they are expected to go to and are always watching. The girls are meant to be breeders and the earlier they are married the more children they can have. @@Jac-Jay

[@VirginiaMyers-fj5cv]

Best video. Im not Mormon, but these people were so kind and genuine.

[@Apricot90]

It's the peaceful ignorance in their narrow minded bubble.

[@SilvaPeric]

agreed. I am not Morman, but I have communicated with Mormans plenty a times.

[@camdynsprite5363]

Latter Day Saints. It was changed a few years ago.

[@stilltrying619]

The sad thing is believers can be completely well-intended and genuine, but the homophobic doctrine and rules still push many queer members to consider or attempt suicide. "God loves you, but living out your inherent identity is a sin against Him and he'll punish you eternally unless you repent" is a mind-bending message that wrecks people's self-worth. It's sad that so many earnest kind-hearted people feel obligated to enforce it. You can see the parents discomfort while they talk about it.

[@susancampbell922]

I miss the Mormon boys that were on their mission here, I had three that would come and visit me every day and I was severely pregnant and couldn't go anywhere and they really made the difference for me because then I wasn't left all alone and I would donate food to their cause because they're not given very much to survive on when they go but the mom in me took care of them too.

[@maggg8450]

May I ask what country this was in? I think its a beautiful story

[@susancampbell922]

@@maggg8450 I was in Pontiac Michigan, USA

[@robertmccannel8598]

I am not a Mormon, but I know many and genuinely love their sense of family and kindness.

[@angela218]

this was such a well balanced video! normally religious documentaries seem to be either a tone of shunning/utter disbelief, or a positive ‘wow! how different and pure’ that completely overlooks negative aspects of faith like homophobia and the expectations placed on children born into the faith.

[@702degrees]

100% this. i've seen so many people praise mormons in docus like these because of their kindness, their generosity, their commitment to their lifestyle, etc. in reality, though, a lot of them are super kind and generous up until you're a family member who has come out as gay, or even has just stopped believing, and then you're basically shunned, much of the time. this sort of smiling, sympathetic veneer often covers the more darker aspects, and really influences how people see them; civility is a tool the LDS church has figured out how to wield expertly. (not to say that all mormons are fake about their kindness! but they specifically don't show the other stuff underneath and it can get quite irritating to see people praising the nice, lovely sentiment that a lot of mormons appear to possess when they are just as capable of damage (like every other community).)

[@lulubelle53]

OMG Stacey, as a former Mormon (a long time ago and a convert for almost 10 years) you did this so much justice. I'm enjoying every episode, but this one deserves a comment......you are terrific; respectful and insightful in so many ways.......

[@jonirnmomba4130]

7:13. “Dancing around to inoffensive pop songs” Kids dancing to Macarena 😂

[@lisaburns8664]

She clearly doesn't know what the song Macarena is about....😂😂

[@elisemiller13]

@@lisaburns8664 I just found out!

[@alaplaya89]

Came looking for this comment 😂

[@DieAlteistwiederda]

I guess it's not offensive as long as you can't understand the lyrics? 😂

[@Itsgonnabemayy]

I thought the same exact thing 😂

[@CallemJay_McNeill]

I was thinking for a moment "How blessed they are to have three sons who all seem well mannered and good natured" then to hear how they had gone through all of those miscarriages and the stillbirth of a baby girl 😢 Things aren't always as they seem

[@eli7742]

I absolutely love this family. Everyone is so kind, considerate and gentle, particularly the parents. The kids are so blessed to have them as parents, would like to have a family like this one day. Much love to them all.

[@MyMerryMessyGermanLife]

They come across very nice, however, Mormons are known for disowning their kids if they leave the church. They’re also very strict and expect compliance.

[@camillewarren2486]

​@@MyMerryMessyGermanLifeI grew up Mormon left the church and still have very good relationships with my family in the church and still have kept my friends

[@MyMerryMessyGermanLife]

@@camillewarren2486 I’m very glad to hear that! I’ve seen countless videos on KZbin of exmormons talking about how their families disowned them. But it’s a spectrum, like most anything else, I guess!

[@simonettegiselle2655]

@@camillewarren2486You’re the minority not the majority and acting like you’re not is disingenuous.

[@patmccrutch3927]

@@camillewarren2486your story is not the vast majority. You got very lucky!

[@AbigailsCorner4444]

One of my best friends is LDS. She is one of the most caring and intelligent people I have ever met. While the religion is definitely not for me, I can appreciate the beauty of their teachings and their tight-knit community. Every single person I've met who was from the church has been super friendly and eager to learn about the world around them. Although there may be flaws like any religious community, the main message that they preach seems to be loving others and serving people.

[@CCGamingVids]

You must not have met an Utah Mormon then. Super judgmental of anyone who isn’t like them, disown their family members that leave the church. It’s very ugly. And I know because I live in the most Mormon county in Utah. This family is lovely though, at least from outside appearances.

[@user-fn2cs9dj1l]

They also must always appear happy and friendly. There is a documentary on the misuse of opioids by Mormon women, especially those with many children. They are expected to be perfect. To have a spotless home, to do charity work within their own community, to have their children involved within alternative children groups ex no girl scouts but bumble bees, cook healthy meals, service their husband's every need and do so with perfect lipstick and a smile while having kids of all ages.

[@gracious-champongandwe1881]

Adam welcome to Zambia. I stumbled upon Stacey’s program. I liked am from Zambia only to hear at the end that you are coming to Zambia. Enjoy your stay in Lusaka.

[@CG-on9jv]

I love this format! It's amazing. I'm a religious scientist and love when people explore other people's life through religion.

[@JustDiane71]

We all should learn and respect others religious practices.

[@inna1633]

​@@JustDiane71 agree with the respect till some point. if is gonna harm people emotionally and phisically than some should step up and the line especially in US between a cult and religion is still unclear

[@sineadmurtagh943]

@@inna1633all religions are cults. Some are just bigger and have been around longer.

[@butterpecanrican_]

Oh dear sweet Adam, I wish nothing but the best for you. Please hold tight to your convictions. That's what made me pull away from religion when I was just 8 years old. I have an aunt who is gay, she's been one of my favorite aunts my whole life and literally the best human you could ever want on your corner. I couldn't wrap my 8-year-old brain around how this angel of a human was sinful because she found love. Apparently, I had critical thinking enough at that age to say screw this lol. Never devoted myself to religion again.. yeah, as a child I was forced to go to church, but I didn't pay attention anymore. Like, I stopped caring. I continued believing in God until my 30s and that fizzled away too. Nothing happened to make it go away, I just one day found that I was forcing myself to keep believing in a deity. It wasn't easy, I had to grieve the loss of a life-long friend.. but I just didn't believe anymore and I had to accept that and come to terms with it

[@saltandsriracha]

This breaks my heart! God is still here for you when you are ready to seek Him. We are all sinners, just like your wonderful aunt. We are broken and in need of our Saviour Lord Jesus Christ. He is here to save. ❤ all the best to you!

[@ashleyingoldsby]

Thanks for such a respectful and wonderful video. I had the best experience serving a mission for the church 15 years ago, and it has impacted every decision of my life since.

[@user-bw3fl7fj9w]

Where?

[@Donna_Relaxing]

this just popped up. I am going to see it Stacey Dooley has other "sleep overs" like this. Here I am alone on Christmas eve, and I really liked this.

[@leonorabarany5061]

Merry Xmas from Hungary😊 I've been watching some of her other sleep overs too.

[@phillisob]

Christmas is the worst day of the year for me, but I just discovered these and they're helping me white-knuckle it through. Happy Christmas. ❤

[@Donna_Relaxing]

I'm about to watch Call the Midwife christmas special here in America on pbs... day is almost done@@phillisob

[@christinaurban7229]

I am stage 4 metastatic breast cancer so I need help getting through a lot. Of days.

[@estefaniaboujon6830]

​@@christinaurban7229 best luck to you!

[@canadianhappyinitalytruest6556]

I watch this just to learn how to be an amazing house guest…. Stacey is wonderful!!

[@taylorvercillo9752]

I served a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and it was a wonderful experience. It seems awful from the outside but it’s a time of peace, friendship building, and learning about Christ. I think it’s great that Stacey was respectful but curious!

[@elizabethkimberleygallias3215]

Do none of the missions involve building or doing useful things in the community? Or are they just talking to people?

[@LivvyAlexW]

@@elizabethkimberleygallias3215I think the senior missionaries are the ones doing the work in the community. The young people just try to convert

[@gwengold8154]

​@elizabethkimberleygallias3215 your question made me chuckle a little 😊 talking to people about the gospel is the most useful thing imaginable( if you truly understood the gospel. ) But, yes, many young people opt to go on what we call service missions. Instead of proselytizing, they serve others. Sometimes young people will start on a proselytizing mission and have anxiety or other issues and switch to a service mission. On top of that, we have missionaries who help out whenever there is a natural disaster of any kind. They spend countless hours clearing debris after a hurricane or things of that nature. Even proselytizing missionaries have been known to help mow lawns for elderly or teach English as a second language or any number of helpful things.

[@clearstonewindows]

The Gospel has been very useful for me

[@stacy6994]

​@elizabethkimberleygallias3215 depends on area and need of people. If in downtown Chicago no there isn't structure building. nevraska we help with building Farms fences ect, other countries say Philippines yes they help build waterways. But the lds church also has humanitarian trip s to help build.

[@JJN15]

I don’t need to believe in this religion to know that young people all over the world, especially in the UK, need something that helps them grow and mature. The resilience, skills and confidence gained in those experiences stay with you for life. Stacey talking about how she spent her weekends as a teen like they were good and these people are weird, shows how much something like this is needed.

[@Agape122]

I felt the same, I feel the weird thing should be intoxicating yourself and going out to noise and drugs at such young age, and sadly it is seen as normal. From 18 to 20 years old I went to live in a monastery as a volunteer. It was an experience that absolutely made me grow and get the best skills I have now as a human being. Many people called me crazy to choose that instead of College, but I truly felt College was pointless if I didnt find a deeper meaning for my life. If you dont know why you are in this world then why to go to College or marry or do anything? There must be some deeper motivation inside in life otherwise I feel even if you have the best things externally , it means nothing as you feel empty internally.

[@essay7425]

I really want to say THANK to the Preston family and to Stacey! Thank you, dear Prestons, for providing an insight into your life and faith and for hosting Stacey so that it can be shared with us in this video! All my best wishes to all of you and regards from Germany 🫶🌺

[@ak8990]

Served a mission for the Latter Day Saint church and it was the best decision of my life. The sacrifice is hard but I grew so much as a person. The rules are strict because it helped to bring us closer to God and focus on Him 100%. It wasn’t able the conversion numbers as it was helping to bring people closer to God. Some of my best memories weren’t about the people who joined the Church but about how I truly helped people in their relationship with God. Good for Adam choosing to make this sacrifice.

[@Agape122]

That is very interesting, I believe in God and I sometimes thought about joining the mormons as I see there is something especially wholesome about them, but could you clarify to me, is it true that a man can marry several times? I have friends who told me to be careful with the Mormons because they showed me documentaries where it is said that man can have 3 or 5 wifes, if they want to like in muslim faith, but without limits ( in muslim faith the limit is 4). Is it true?

[@ak8990]

@@Agape122 no, many years ago some members practiced polygamy but that ended in the late 1800s early 1900s. Now anyone who would try that is excommunicated. There are some churches who broke away from us who still practice polygamy which is why the misconception about us practicing it still occurs. But no, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (our full name) does not practice it

[@Agape122]

@@ak8990 ah ok thanks to explain!

[@devonlod]

Thank you for the way you made this, this style of reporting is amazing, it is so organic and neutral. Thank you.

[@tarajenkins775]

I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Thanks so much for exploring this religion. I especially loved when Stacy said “it is good to question and not to accept things blindly”. That’s how most of us stay active in this religion because we are constantly asking and searching - and the answers keep leading us back to Jesus Christ. I love to explore and learn about other religions. I find so many good parts in other religions. I love to incorporate the things I learn into my worship of Christ. I hope we all can have open hearts and minds and learn about each other - it just makes the world better.

[@clearstonewindows]

Yeah it does!!!

[@jacqueline8559]

I'm a Born again Christian. Our beliefs strongly differ. Genuine question.....Do you believe, as we do, that the only way to Eternal life in Heaven is through the Salvation of Jesus Christ, the only Son of God. That He died , on the Cross, to save us and Allow us to be cleansed ,so we can be in God's Holy Presence for Eternity?

[@clearstonewindows]

@@jacqueline8559 yes there are differences But that phrase you said we believe very much. We believe the purpose of life is yo grow.

[@clearstonewindows]

@@jacqueline8559 like you said only son of God we would say the only begotten son of God. And we may had the Jesus Christ is thr creator of heaven and 🌎. We believe the gathering of Israel is happening now.

[@Immortaltrashbagwithhands]

My constant questioning was discouraged and the answers I found were why I left but some people can become mental pretzels to dismiss all of the issues with the leadership structure, the “doctrine” and the church itself.

[@lucianeedgington9421]

I cried like a baby, absolutely beautiful and well done!

[@DeeDee-vj9dv]

I may not agree with everything going on in the Church but there's no denying that these kids will grow up with way healthier morals and habits than most kids these days.❤❤❤

[@lulubelle53]

but the guilt and the shame is horrific.....

[@ebenhammond636]

Just love how real your documentaries are, I have been enlightened by this. Thank you Stacy and team 😢❤

[@andrewclarke7368]

What a beautiful video. You presented both sides very well. Thank you for this and your unbiased approach. Truly refreshing!

[@CG-on9jv]

But I have to say it's a bit contradictory not to drink tea or coffee, but to consume unhealthy food like we see in the documentary. I exercise every day, get a lot of fresh air, always eat fresh food, lots of salad, vegetables, rice, but I also drink 3 cups of coffee with oat milk a day and to call that unhealthy, I highly doubt it. It always depends on the whole package. Eating a pizza once a week is not the end of the world, but eating it to lunch and dinner every day is definitely no longer healthy. it's about balance and calculating

[@clearstonewindows]

Google how long we live compared to our cohorts and you may think differently.

[@blei5579]

They don’t consume caffeine because it’s a stimulant.

[@marigoldbeam5475]

​@@blei5579Precisely.

[@maggie2sticks717]

Plus a nice cup of judging others...

[@midnightmoonlight8612]

@@blei5579 Genuine question, what about all the caffeine in fizzy drinks?

[@CatfishingwithCos]

absolutely amazing...great host

[@_origin]

We absolutely love Stacey! Make sure to check out the other episodes available on our channel!

[@Laura-lg5zg]

Thank you, Adam! It was absolutely beautiful what you said!

[@KM-pq7sr]

What a lovely family. If only we had more people like this in the UK.

[@angelcakeeee]

I enjoyed this, it’s well done. I love being a member! It’s something very close to my heart.

[@viv.vaclop]

Dear Stacey I really do appreciate these documentaries of yours. It really does make me appreciate my freedom and my sense of liberty that probably I am not thankful enough on a daily basis. I’ve seen a few of your episodes and although I do find them very appropriate, I am not sure I understand why you’ve asked so many rightful questions to this family of Christian Mormon and not so many to the lovely Jewish family. Homosexuality? Restrictions? I mean, it would have been very interesting to have answers from them too

[@gemmagreen7340]

Enlightening and very informative, it has answered some of my questions!

[@angelamoreno5914]

Stacey is a star! What a beautiful soul all around. I’ve watched her sleep overs, and never failed to be respectful and thoughtful to every situation is admirable! Love her! ❤

[@claravrsnik7858]

Beautiful, uplifting serie❤

[@henryfullman2703]

Adam seems like a very normal decent lad who has been forced into following a religion. He doesn’t seem to be very interested in. I hope that mission doesn’t ruin him as he seems like a very respectable young man.

[@miagreatest9960]

I’m definitely not speaking for or against the Mormon religion, …. all I would say is how good it was to watch decent, hard working, productive, law abiding members of society getting along, living their lives raising educated children who are a credit to them. No offensive, law-breaking or socially unacceptable behaviour. No drain on us tax payers. What a joy to see decent families enjoying quality time together.

[@Agape122]

Yes they seem to be such lovely family. I am thinking of joining the mormons. But I feel maybe the very strict rules could make the kids unhappy eventually

[@isabellp.5730]

@@Agape122 I'd highly suggest watching some of Jordan and McKay's videos (they are a married couple, former sealed-in-the-Temple Mormons), especially the ones explaining some of the ceremonies (there is a playlist). It's really interesting stuff to know, especially if you're considering joining. I don't know about you, but I 'd like to know lots about anything that requires me to commit to paying 10% of my income. Best of luck in making the best, most fulfilling decision for you! Blessings!

[@user-fn2cs9dj1l]

That is a generalization. There are many Mormon men who do drink and cheat on the sly. There is domestic violence and drug use. It is just hidden far better by the church community.

[@dragon_ways]

Sensitively done, leaving opinions and conclusions up to the viewer.

[@CC99978]

Adam seems like a lovely kid, can't be easy

[@NavajoSunBeauty]

I really enjoyed this. Thank you Stacey❤

[@colindasilva2442]

Cult pure and simple. Adam is going to break free for sure and good on him . Stacey is amazing

[@jacqueline8559]

Yes, there is so much Adam doesn't agree with , in the Mormon Church. He's going on Mission to please his family, not because he's genuinely called by God. And because he wants to visit Africa!! He will fall astray from this belief system, for certain. It's definitely a Cult. I wish him well, whatever he does in his life

[@stacy6994]

Missions are not for the family or God's people they are for the person going. It's for them to learn to do hard things, build their own testimony. Most don't want to go on missions but most all are glad they did for growth. They learn to live more than themselves and decide if being in the lds church is for them. If not for them they chose another path.

[@colindasilva2442]

@@stacy6994 as we say cult

[@ihateu444]

@@colindasilva2442your existence is a cult

[@colindasilva2442]

@@ihateu444 oh I do hope so dear

[@Evulnation]

So different seeing British mormon kids compared to US Mormon kids. I am from England and moved to the states when I was 16 back in 2009. I didn't know about the Mormon church before moving and then found out about it at my High School because there was so many of them there. They were extremely uptight, very strict about themselves and others, it just didn't seem like they were being kids. Whereas in this show, you can see the kids here in the UK who are growing up as Mormons are a lot more easy going and down to earth about it all. Nice to see

[@allidetwiler2291]

As a Christian, this was a really good bit of insight into another religion that I didn’t know anything about! Thanks for taking the time to teach us!

[@tabletuser4551]

He does not question his faith, he wants to give you a proper answer. They are brought up with lots of information of right things that when someone opposes or gives a different opinion, he is thinking 'why Stacy asks that, where or how Stacy was brought up'. Church tries to maintain the whole community together, busy (specially singles) so that they don t need to think of other matters as sex. Everything in their lives is pure, positive, beneficial; they endure doing the right things, moral, values, prepare for life as adults.

[@carrieostler5809]

Thanks for this!

[@Amalie.x7fv]

I loved serving my mission- it was a lot to give of myself, but I also grew so much and met and came to love so many different people. I served in the Philippines and Washington State (due to COVID I had to leave the Philippines early) but I am so grateful for the experiences I’ve had, people I’ve met, and language I’ve learned. It has changed my life for the better and I believe that member or not, God loves each and every one of us and gave His beloved Son, Jesus Christ, as our Savior and Redeemer so that we could return to Him someday. I know some disagree but please be kind in the comments haha- I’m a regular person just like everyone else, my religion just is different in some ways, just like every other religion compared to the next. God bless!

[@Sweetrottenapple]

I met missionaries and I always took the time to let them talk. It is nothing from my life and time and means so much to them. Usually they are the nicest people you can meet on the streets. I am Roman Catholic but I don't go to church. I am just trying to be nice to people and not treat them like trash just because I don't agree with them in all their points of view. I feel we need to be kind to each other even if it is hard sometimes ❤At least being polite is never a bad choice 😊I adore the oldest son! He is so bright and intelligent and I just love the fact that he has his own questions and dares to question! I really hope his missionary work going to go well for him. The whole family is just lovely.

[@mizfrenchtwist]

hello , great share , thank you for sharing🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰....................

[@LaraBounds]

❤ I've been binge watching all the shows! So cute, sweet, funny, uplifting &much more! ❤ty allllllllllllll the way from Texas!

[@user-lv1bm8eu1o]

Loved this!😊

[@brittanymcguff]

When she put the chip in her mouth 😂 Don’t worry we really don’t care. We are just trying our best to follow Christ and love one another. We aren’t perfect just like any one else. Thank you for being respectful ❤❤

[@zinarose861]

I don't know but something tells me she did that on purpose knowing that they'd bless the food before they eat. I could be wrong though.😊 Edited for spelling correction.

[@lulubelle53]

yes, possibly staged!!@@zinarose861

[@Chloemagnificent]

There are “Mormons” who both support LGBTQIA marriages, and who have testimonies of the LDS gospel. Adam is an example of this, and how it can be difficult to be in this middle ground. I personally am very grateful for Adam and the representation he gives. He’s a wonderful example of this new generation.

[@amandabillingsley9436]

Amen!

[@mariafehr9307]

wow, Adam ist echt ein starker, junger Mann. Ich finde auch, dass er eine gesunde Einstellung hat bezüglich seinem Glauben.

[@shylascalf]

Loved this

[@Agape122]

Aww omg I was so touched by this family they seem so loving and united, such a beautiful family you can see how they have pure hearts and how the kids are deeply loved and supported. I believe in God and I wanted to join the Mormons sometimes as they seem so happy but I have doubts because I heard and read stuff about them having several wifes, and some weird things which made me feel it could be a cult. I believe their principles are for sure good as it seems to create very wholesome families. I am very happy Adam got to go to Africa! I a hundred per cent believe they.will see baby Clara again, no matter what. Some souls are united to you even before comception or birth, and the soul is still there waiting for them

[@imawordgirl]

Latter-day Saints don't practice polygamy, although it's part of the Church's early history. So don't believe everything you read online. :-) There are some small break-off sects that still practice polygamy.

[@curiuosgirl3243]

As an LDS woman in her 50s, I'm glad my parents taught me the word of wisdom. I'm thankful that I avoided addictions... because I have so many non-LDS friends my age who suffer with health problems I've never had to personally experience...

[@user-uf6ke2hf7l]

One of the wild things I just learned about the missions is that they even have to pay to go on the mission. Wild. Learned a few days ago from an ex mormon youtube channel

[@thuvu8605]

To be honest, I have just know about Mormon around 6,7 months because I join English Club free for local people in Vietnam. I don’t understand either why young people must serve for free for 18 and 24 months, I mean they need to save their own money for that trip. Working outside almost all day to covert people. Such a hard job! I can’t even myself to do it. When I ask them why they choose that they say they do it because they believe and want to be volunteered, they smile and be kind all the time. But somehow I can feel that they force or pretend and try to make their parents and community proud. Even they don’t want to do it themselves.

[@carolinedaisy5593]

Love the host of this video. Her honest reactions are so funny 🤭🤭

[@angellaalakit]

So glad these children are being raised well.

[@jonpoulda3362]

They’re being brainwashed, not raised well.

[@user-zn6ym9gw3j]

I am so glad that I was raised differently and that I am raising my daughter differently. All this guilt about sexuality is not healthy.

[@cloudycloud4171]

@@user-zn6ym9gw3jshagging dozens of people isn’t health either.

[@katefevre6222]

I like this show, because it is so interesting how other people live. I have an open mind, no judgement, may disagree with somethings in each episode, but that does'nt give me , or anyone else the right to judge anyone for their beliefs.

[@doclittlejohn3261]

The Clara story explains the parents dedication to righteousness and “trust even when we don’t understand”

[@user-og2wt3le4j]

At 7:04. It looks much like LDS youth dances in Canada. It is good to see this many active youth having a good time.

[@jenlee9695]

My children and I are very happy that we’re out of the Mormonism. Too many things don’t line up with our values. Too many of doctrines, theories don’t make sense. There are lots of shame, guilt, and judgment. Now, I’m happy for my children to freely explore who they are, and do what they feel is right for their life and society without meeting church’s standards and expectations.

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

Do you consider yourself athiest or agnostic now, or just mostly anti-religion/anti-religious establishment?

[@jenlee9695]

@@TheKatarinaGiselleI believe in humanity and living mindfully. Focusing on the here and now gives me peace and meaning rather than the religious narratives I was taught.

[@WranglermanLevi]

@@jenlee9695 so athiest?

[@leylag1466]

I am a member of the Church since 2017 and many things changed since my conversion. I have grown in age and I have grown as a person and woman. A few years after I converted and I decided for health reasons to quit smoking. I never drank alcohol so that wasn’t an issue. I quit coffee, tea and sodas as well. However not for religious reasons but for health reasons. My church family is beyond amazing. If I ever need anything, I can turn to my brothers and sisters and it will get done. Serving a mission is something that I would never push on my children as a matter of fact my oldest son left the Church in 2019 due to his own wishes and he is certainly entitled to make that choice. You can’t and should not force your beliefs onto others and make them feel obligated to live a certain way. We all are individuals and need to find our own paths. It’s not my job to guilt trip my offspring. My privilege is to love and support them no matter what they decide to do and to believe. Gay, straight, Buddhist, Christian or Atheist whatever the case may be. My babies are my babies and the children out their are other peoples babies. Therefore I will love them all like they are mine.

[@debras3806]

So sad…esp the Ghanaian guy…obviously has no idea about Brigham Young’s intense racism…

[@clearstonewindows]

“It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so. “ - Mark Twain

[@romydamons9351]

Also, mormons believe that being black is a curse. Why would he join such a religion? 🫣

[@christigentry3981]

It is sad that he doesn't know how that religion didn't even allow blacks until the 70’s. Why would GOD want only one race to know HIS teachings?

[@clearstonewindows]

@@christigentry3981 I'm sorry but that statement isn't factually correct. We had black congregations snd un segregated congregations before most churches. But yes we did not have black leaders in the church until 1979.

[@christigentry3981]

@@clearstonewindows do you have factual proof of what you said?

[@ellie3365]

You know, when I step back, the disco is actually age appropriate! We all should be dancing and having fun with no alcohol if we are underage- I don’t see anything wrong with the innocent fun

[@teamcougars]

I do enjoy church services but I’m also glad I wasn’t raised that going every Sunday was the only way to reach Heaven, my parents raised me to believe and live my life by the Ten Commandments, to think of others before myself and to help others above all else be a good person and to raise my children to do what they can to try and the world, your community a good place ❤❤

[@osam6356]

wow! I know most of the people in this video. Just incredible people!!

[@Hippabellita1]

So, they don't drink coffee or tea, but why is there a Tassimo mashine and a kettle in the kitchen? I know you can use the kettle for herbal teas ..... and I also know that this is a very trivial observation and question :-))) but it caught my eye, and made me wonder .... The family was very lovely; I would have loved to give the mom and the dad a very big hug. And it's so sad that Clara was not able to grow up with them and three younger brothers :-(((

[@Amalie.x7fv]

I have one at home, we use it for tea and brewed cocoa

[@carolmccabe4359]

Lovely family ❤ Adam is a really special man

[@kimberlythomas4373]

Stacey, you have a tendency to be a bit judgmental towards members deciding to go on missions. I’m a member and went on one when I was 21. What you don’t understand is that it’s an amazing foundation for the rest of your life. Many previous missionaries become extremely successful because of the skills learned on their missions. With that said, I’m in my 50s now and tend to be a much more nuanced member but I stand by the foundation the church provided. It’s truly amazing.

[@kimberlythomas4373]

I’ll add that attending university doesn’t provide the same unique experiences that going on a mission does. Plus, so many missionaries attend university afterwards but are so much more disciplined and focused after their missions.

[@maggie6834]

Why are people more in shock and awe about a 17 year old giving 2 years of their life to service of their religion but even less in shock of a 17 year old becoming a drug addict, we live in a very strange world at a very strange time when Stacey Dooley questions his sacrifice this much, what a sign of the times......No Im not a mormon but yes one of my brothers is plus his children are self sacrificing and self disciplined. I do know that to believe in nothing other than yourself and the messages of the world are not working !

[@nomorecaterpillar]

Tea is “unhealthy” yet it seems they only eat beige food.

[@suze1712]

So funny, that's what I thought, such an unhealthy diet!! Where is healthy eating on the agenda???

[@thuvu8605]

Absolutely, many missionaries whom I know say tea and coffee are harmful and then they drink Coca-Cola. I mean that is a joke about health issue😅😅😅

[@Sandstar942]

That's just brits

[@gwengold8154]

​@@suze1712guilty as charged! It's true. Many latter-day saints could do much better at eating healthy. Including me.

[@clearstonewindows]

@@gwengold8154 Agreed. I look at the BMI changes in the US and think that Utah should be doing a lot better than it is.

[@brookg1]

Well done.

[@um-5587]

I really hope Adam sees that this is a cult and breaks free... I really think he's smart so I really hope that for him,, that he can live a normal life

[@marigoldbeam5475]

Absolutely, there is a whole world of fornication and debauchery that he is missing out on. Instead of worshipping God he could be worshipping some random popstar or actor like all the other youngsters do. He has so many Friday and Saturday nights drunk and vomiting in the streets to catch up on, and music concerts coked out of his head and worshipping dancers dressed as demons simulating sex acts, to catch up on. Not to mention all the STDs and unplanned pregnancies he has managed to avoid to date. Yes, he is really living an unenlightened life and all the rest of you have the way and the truth.😉🙄

[@N0N4M30]

He’s also super handsome he deserves more in life

[@N0N4M30]

If he reads this I hope he’ll look into other people who left this cult

[@skyedouglas7109]

I’m not Mormon but I think religious families in general teach good morals and respectful behaviour.

[@user-fn2cs9dj1l]

I hold back from such generalizations. Feminists are not really respected in the Mormon Church. There are very delineated gender roles and you the church's expectations are always there. Marry, marry young even better, have children asap, man get degree or work for other Mormons and woman will stay home or visit other Mormon women. Generally where I live Mormons have their own cultivated areas. They have their own schools for the young, they have their own neighborhoods. There is a communal playground, workout place, etc and most are gated communities.

[@SammRuza]

I believe I see a coffee maker in the kitchen in the scene after the dance.. but they don't drink coffee or tea? What about soda.. or diet soda? I thought it was caffeine they avoided.

[@yjohnson6546]

Hello, I am a Japanese. I saw some male Mormon missionaries from North America. They didn't speak Japanese well, but they were chosen as missionaries because they were nice looking like actors. Most of them were blond hairs, blue eyes, and muscular. Do you think nice looking guys are chosen as missionaries to get new female members in foreign countries?

[@rosibee4349]

"inoffensive pop songs" - plays the macarena. 😂

[@beetles1964]

I used to be Mormon, from birth to age 26, and as soon as the dad said, "Dear Heavenly Father..." I closed my eyes. I couldn't help it haha.

[@sawyer0815]

What made you leave?

[@beetles1964]

@@sawyer0815 The straw that broke the camel's back was reading the CES Letter.

[@sawyer0815]

Well good for you! I really hope you’re happy now that you’re free and away from the shaming and all of the rigid rules ☺️

[@beetles1964]

@@sawyer0815 Thanks. Getting away from the rigid rules certainly helps, though I do still experience depression and such. I'm working on it though.

[@jonjahr3403]

​@@beetles1964 No kidding? You and I both left at the age of 26. My biggest problem with was my step-dad kept trying to get me to say even though he knew I didn't want to.

[@margiesoapyhairbillian4754]

After Covid i cut the hair of 2 missionaries. They told me how they were able to convert people during Covid. I found it interesting. Very sweet young women .

[@teamcougars]

I have always been confused by the church sending kids on missions yet they have to pay their own way with as much money the LDS church has they really should pay their way 😢

[@Amalie.x7fv]

They actually help a lot, esp if the family can’t afford it, then the church will cover it :)

[@natalien.9528]

Stacey in this episode was like the devil, trying to push the young lad into temptation at every opportunity, "this party is too innocent for a 17 year old" "don't you want to have sx?" "Wouldn't you like some alcohol?" "wouldn't you rather do what other teenagers do?" (which is what exactly? Experiment with drugs, have sx, spend all day on social media, be depressed?). He then proceeded to tell her, that while he was encouraged to go on a missionary trip (as every child should be encouraged to do something meaningful), he said it was his decision, but she just can't fathom that someone would sacrifice hedonism for something meaningful in young years. These children seem more mature and emotionally stable than the typical teenager and the family seems great!

[@cwbrooks5329]

Sooo, when Adam is done with his mission, will he come to the US and attend BYU, or is there a UK equivalent or does he just attend a "standard" university? I noticed the dad is wearing a BYU sweatshirt.

[@lulubelle53]

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[@WranglermanLevi]

The dad probably went to BYU and is proud of it sure, just like any university alumni. Adam can go wherever he wants to university. LDS members often go to church schools because they can get an education experience that aligns with their values and meet and date others who share their faith. Tuition is also subsidized by the church and very affordable for church members. I don't know of a church owned school in UK, but depending on his vocational choice, Adam will likely go wherever he wants to go.

[@cwbrooks5329]

@@WranglermanLevi Hope my tone did not come across as disrespectful in any way, I like the family, and I was genuinely curious. I don't know if you are familiar with BYU, but its admission process is competitive and I am curious to know how many Mormons from the UK attend -- or if there is a sort of BYU of the UK, that they aim for. I never thought about the dad possibly being an alum, but that would be interesting to know as well.

[@WranglermanLevi]

@@cwbrooks5329 not at all, several people asked about that and I happen to know, so I replied. If you see someone wearing a BYU sweatshirt or hat, that is almost 100% guarantee they are a member of the church. Although, non members can and do attend BYU for example athletes, etc. There are many advantages for LDS kids to go to Church owned schools but I suppose that would all depend on Adams ambitions and his family's means. I grew up in Utah and chose not to go to church schools mainly due to not good enough grades and I don't like a lot of rules even though I'm a faithful member. BYU Utah is very competitive. I would guess as a citizen of UK there are many good local options, but some international students DO attend university at one of the church owned schools when or if they are able. In 2001 The Church created what they call the Perpetual Education Fund (PEF) that allows students from disadvantaged countries to come to the US, attend school on loaned tuition and pay it back as they are able. This helps lift more people out of poverty, gain important life skills and develop more self reliance.

[@summerlake356]

Although Mormonism isn't true, this family is still very nice - better than non religious mainstream.

[@carichaos1651]

they are just ONE Mormon family. Being raised in that bigotry, I beg to differ. 💯

[@marigoldbeam5475]

​@@carichaos1651You sound like the intolerant bigot.

[@user-zn6ym9gw3j]

What do you mean, it isn't true? There is no true religion! Every religion is passed by humans and changes which every generation. Please be respectful to every religion. No one has the truth.

[@Agape122]

​@@carichaos1651you were raised in mormon family and had a bad experience?

[@thelastoffluffs6755]

religion should be free, belief should be free. if I have to give 10% of my income just to be a part of a group, I'd rather not. once again, hats off for Stacey for sticking through and the amazing documentary!

[@cloudycloud4171]

But u pay that money for funeral marriage etc

[@jenniferslaughter8849]

You don't have to pay 10% to join, but that is the price of admission to heaven. They teach that if you don't pay, you'll be separated from your family for eternity.

[@AaAa-pf7tj]

​@@jenniferslaughter8849What a crap from them!! So, if I'm born disabled and really can't work and disability-payment is just to cover the basics so I'm poor for the whole life - I don't deserve Heaven?!