A 3-minute break down of how narcissists think

[@Imnotyourdoormat]

*"It's because they prey off you not knowing about Narcissistic Personality Disorder." **_"My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge:"_** Hosea 4:6*

[@pamsloan84]

Watch their body language. They are predators who prey on nice, giving, compassionate people because it's all about what can I get for me? To hell with everything else.

[@lilfairycupcake]

its not that your stupid, you just dont know. my education was had by total chance, and it was nice of jesus to throw me that bone.

[@karonmcclanahan8235]

I actually had one whisper "I'm a narcissist" while we were making out... I ignored it on purpose and that night I looked it up. Next time we hung out I could see it then I said "did you just love bomb me" the look of shock on his face .. yeah I did my research. Now I'm scared for my life.

[@lilfairycupcake]

@@karonmcclanahan8235 wow! thats odd, and also top secret for the narc to give up such info. plus side, now you truly know what a narc is, how they operate.

[@PersianDollTarot]

💯

[@aloksrivastava7938]

Good people don't insult you for your kindness. If a person acts ungrateful for your kind behavior, simply go no contact. Narcissists don't deserve a second chance.

[@Solscapes.]

Hard to do when it's your parent. Harder still when it's your only parent and you're an only, disabled child.

[@aloksrivastava7938]

@@Solscapes. Indeed if you are a disabled child then no contact is not an option. The only remaining option is to just maintain minimum interaction with them. The lesser the interaction, the lesser will be conflicts.

[@Solscapes.]

@@aloksrivastava7938 thanks for the advice, but to be frank, it's not helpful. Already avoiding her as best possible. What I need is a supportive community, but she sabotaged every attempt I made in five states, and people like her seem to be in leadership roles in every community. So, the amount of support I need just to give the appearance of functionality is seemingly unobtainable, and the dystopian nature of our narcissistic hierarchies is soul crushing to the point that I no longer have the energy to look for a community. Although part of that is probably the covid. Just "minimizing contact" isn't going to cut it. People like her are killing people like me and the very planet we live on.

[@RationalNon-conformist]

Funny though, mid range narcs say these things too. My narc step mother in law is a lower midrange and she is truly cruel, but she flips it on everyone else. They believe we are the narcissist, even if they are the obviously cruel ones.. it insanity!

[@aloksrivastava7938]

@@RationalNon-conformist No narcissist is without an army of flying monkeys. Most scapegoats are strategically isolated for continuous gaslighting by the narcissists so that you begin questioning your own reality. Neighbors, family members, acquaintances or sometimes even people who are absolute strangers to you take side of narcissists to attack you and your beliefs. True test to determine whether someone is a narcissist or not is how sincere he is to his words, commitments and actions. If you try keeping your word in every possible way, then you are not a narcissist, regardless of what others may say.

[@Joefest99]

A narcissist doesn’t think to themselves “I’m unworthy of love”. They are blind to their own flaws and wrongdoing.

[@C.Church]

Ypure thinking of a psychopath. Narcissistic people have the shame component. That shame comes from unworthiness.

[@pheonixm2678]

Subconsciously they do

[@liliaaaaaaaa]

Narcissistic individuals don't feel or experience love in the same way as normal, healthy people. For them, lovebombing & idealising the object of desire in the beginning is based on a limerent fantasy, when you are separated from them, for the purpose of conquering you, not to love you. Likewise when they use charm to flatter others & joke with them wherever they go, they do so, in order to get the dopamine kick of narcissistic supply, then moving on, discarding the other person like they never existed as they move on to the next source. When they do conquer you & achieve enmeshment with you, their primary aim is to have power & control over you, not to give or receive love, so they will treat you like an extension of themselves, not a separate individual they value & respect. They will then start the discard, dismiss, separate, followed by lovebomb, enmesh, discard all over again roller coaster ride on a never ending cycle. Even if you leave them, then engage with them on a detached level, they will continue the same behaviour. Once you've worked them out & no longer react to their manipulation, they will start the mirroring, gaslighting & projection narcissistic rage phase which can turn psychopathic. So that's why it is always recommended to go no contact with them. Unless they are self aware & having therapy working on themselves & demonstrating that they actually value you & have empathy consistently over an extended period of time then you just need to remember they are just programmed differently to the rest of us. They don't feel oxytocin the same way a normal loving bonded person would feel, they are quick fix dopamine driven, which means that you'll only ever just be an inanimate object, a plaything to them, to play around with, then discard once they're done. If you want to be someone's slave or plaything to flatter someone else's ego at your own expense that's up to you. Just remember that, all you women with hearts out there, protect yourselves & save yourselves for the right people.

[@alivingstone4Him]

Truth! They believe they are sinless. Jesus called out the sin and blindness of religious leaders of his day who hated him, envious of him and wanted to destroy him! See John 9 for the story of this when Jesus healed the blind man. These people think everyone should bow down to them and if not they will try to destroy you. They want to be worshipped because it’s the devil and demons in them and Satan wants worship. He tried to get Jesus to bow down to him so he would not go to the cross for our sins but Jesus would not bow to him ! - Matthew 4:1-11 Thank-You Jesus ! ✝️ Jesus overcame so we can also through Him who makes us more than conquerors in this evil present world that Satan controls. (Though God is greater and ultimately in control!)

[@C.Church]

@@Joefest99 I replied to this before but it's missing. Except for the first visible reply yall don't understand what a narc really is.

[@bartholetbayana9198]

Cool video, your channel is really an inspiration. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@bartholetbayana9198]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@bartholetbayana9198]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@MarkAble8]

A demonic spirit. Any attention you feed them is supply for them. This is why ignoring them completely is the most powerful weapon you have. Starving them of any attention or intended goodness is the mindset you must have to break the bond. I know it sounds unloving to intentionally break your bond with them, but it’s critical to understand that their abuse and control of you was never love one bit.

[@EricLouisYoung]

Yes! Exactly. There's no real soul in the drivers seat full time. They are being operated by evil spirits.

[@Grateful4life4time]

They are truly broken people 💔

[@MrNatural73]

LEACHES FROM HELL.

[@km-my4un]

I believe in demons partly because of my experience with narcs.

[@johnmaurer2035]

The demonic aspect of it doesn't get the press it deserves.

[@nopereradicator]

The narcs ARE the demons.

[@Stephanie-di7qy]

There are strong demons 😈 inside these ppl. Jezebel and Leviathan and more, I'm sure. "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places". Ephesians 6:12 Pray for their deliverance.

[@johnmaurer2035]

It's like a forcefield that permutates 6 feet from them.​@@Stephanie-di7qy

[@LambentWolfess]

​​@@Stephanie-di7qyI truly believe calling on Jesus is what saved me one particular night I was being held captive (it only lasted half an hour or so) by a narc. The demon was unmasked, and serious threats were spoken to me...

[@hoyaloya]

A really great summary. I dealt with a few covert narcissists (CN) as a trial lawyer. Confronting and yelling at them gives them "fuel." They'd prefer that you praise them, but they will take negative comments too as it fuels them. If you shame them, however, (rather than just getting angry) they'll crack. Everything about you has to be zero emotion. No calls. No texts. Have information sent to them by others. Also, giving them no attention really makes them go nuts. When you go completely silent, they ramp up the attacks looking for a reaction. Not all convert narcs are demonically possessed, but I am convinced that some of them are. You "win" by not engaging. They pull fuel from you through your emotions. It's weird, but that's what happens. The CN is very dangerous. They low-key set you up to destroy you. They want to know everything about you. The Bible figured out the covert narc long ago in Ephesians 5: "Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them." Nothing gets a narc in more turmoil than being exposed.

[@itstiminhere1]

After 33 years I live alone now and I have to thank you for being one of the teachers about this who helped me! I have peace now. I also love listening to you talk!

[@Wonderwall36]

thank you, Danielle

[@webbsamples]

I appreciate you doing the three minute format. You always make your points well, but keep it in this time frame. Also, thank you for stressing going no-contact.

[@deborahrichardson3731]

It was true time and time again that any time he (narc) did something "nice", it was because he'd done something rotten, bad or just plain wrong. Everything had ulterior motives, everything.

[@peterdee6061]

Sad but true

[@seventhson27]

I finally realized that when things were going really good with my EX, she was doing something she was trying to cover up. When it was good, it could be really good, but when it was bad, it was Hell.

[@natalieparker3187]

So true. My son narrowly avoided this disaster but not without trauma to all of us. All the money we lost, all the damage, still worth it to be shod of her. It would’ve been trauma the rest of our lives!🤯

[@jenniferjones1987]

It’s a lot harder to get away when it’s a family member.

[@reettaelina]

Yes it is but I am so full of them and I feel like they just want me to leave them live their own sick life without me😢

[@ianstewartorr8455]

My mother and brother

[@alivingstone4Him]

“And a man’s (and woman’s) enemies will be those of their own household. “ - Jesus Christ who is God in the flesh (Matthew 10:36 also said in Micah 7:6) God help you and protect you!

[@robiness5344]

I got away from my narc family a year ago, and never felt better!

[@craigj6045]

It is Evil, you are correct.

[@anthonyeads88]

The more I learn about this the more depressing it is

[@seventhson27]

Narcissists really BELIEVE that there is nothing wrong with THEM.

[@alivingstone4Him]

Correct! just like the Pharisees who thought they had no sin and were righteous. Jesus who is God in the flesh who they hated and wanted to destroy called them out! Though they claimed to “know” God the Father and yet when He was standing in front of them they claimed he had a devil. Jesus told them the devil is their father. Go Jesus! Jesus saw right through them. They could not trick him nor flatter him! He called out their sin and blindness yet they thought they were perfect. - John 9:39-41 If we say we have no sin we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. But if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. - 1 John 1:8-9 ✝️ For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. - Romans 3:23 Jesus is the remedy for our sins He bore on the brutal cross so we can be forgiven and get on the narrow road that leads to life. - Matthew 7:14 It’s going to get a lot worse friends as the Lord has warned in the Bible - the word of God which is alive and powerful! ->> 2 Timothy 3:1-5 & Matthew 24 God bless & protect all that are being abused & deliver them.

[@shalona1974sweden]

I always check the boxes for narcissism, but with my so called "best friend" for 30 plus years. I've finally managed to walk away though and only surround myself with people who give and get energy from a place of love, trust and respect 💕

[@GuitarMatt]

Yeah, I've had some breakups that weren't the best, but what I thought was a fellow scapegoat was a bad "friend" too. I appreciate your story because I'm not here for romantic heartbreak, but for family of origin disowning and of this so-called "friend"

[@monicam8408]

I swear the emotional pain of breaking off a ‘best friend’ who is narcissistic is worse than a break up in a romantic relationship with a narcissist. Just went through that and going through it myself. I thought I had a friend for life only to find out in the last year they let their mask off completely, the lies, the betrayal, the manipulation, the baiting, the scapegoating, it all became crystal clear. The grief of losing my best friend, but that friend was nothing more than a mirror of my own self. The cognitive dissonance of this for me to digest all this has been like living in a twilight zone. I love her and miss her but not all the narcissistic garbage. No contact is the only way.

[@shalona1974sweden]

@monicam8408 So very well written, describe exactly what I feel and went through as well. All my best wishes for you to move on and surround yourself with genuine, loving people too..that deserves your friendship. 💛🤗💛

[@shalona1974sweden]

@GuitarMatt Thank you for your honest response. I feel with you and hope you're in a much better place, with good friends. 💚🤗💚

[@radzhurl8711]

Its from day one, i have vivid memories of that...they already started the game, you thought they are your soulmate, God sent...now you know the truth..❤

[@KP-dd2ci]

"It's like emotional torture" Oh, it absolutely IS emotional torture.

[@76_Red_Pills]

These vids are keeping me in reality. Not crazy.

[@LeahIsHereNow]

They prey off the fact that we cannot conceive of trying to systematically destroy another human being. Empathy is a blessing and a curse.

[@kathleensmith8365]

Everything you said makes no logical sense in a sane world. But every word was true. The Narcissist lives in a bizarre world of their own. That is why you are so important to act as interpreter. We cannot help them or "fix it". We must take responsibility and save ourselves.

[@malcolmwaddilove1822]

So true,in particularly buying her flowers as soon as the last bunch wilted away? I purchased new ones as one does! But she kept insisting I buy no more (how strange) I thought, I'm so thankful I escaped four and a half years later,what a painful painful time it was,I got of light compared to alot of People❤

[@janetduncan87]

Oh yeah, when ever i wasnt at his disposal, he'd come looking for me. Tricked me into moving from my house to another town away from my church, my family, and my friends.

[@jennifera777]

This is so on point and well put. I have had to exhusbands that were narcs and I believe I was conditioned to accept this behavior because I was raised by narcs and they try to call me a nac. I spent my life trying to find love outside my family only to keep running into the devil and then my family cut me off and pushed me out of the house and basically disowned me even though they are the narcs. It's very traumatizing. Thank goodness for people spreading awareness like yourself.w

[@Joe-hf3cn]

Walking, filming & talking so well without any slightest of pause to regather your message,, just an incredible grasp of the narcissist’s motives & patterns

[@TheNJDirector]

Heartbreaking. Truly a societal disease.

[@aboveaveragejoe6795]

Demons exist

[@jaygee6823]

You are so right on this! Hit the nail on the head!! I'd love to have you in my corner when dealing with my narcissistic twin brother.

[@suntzu6122]

I dated a narcissist once. For 3 years they put on a good show. When we broke up they didnt want me to 'move on' or be healthy any time soon so they did some shxt to me that was so evil and inhuman it literally gave me PTSD.

[@renarich4942]

How are you doing now? Hope u are better you deserve better.

[@ssnders2522]

Same here a 4 year relationship broken off and she was so evil and vindictive she did some unthinkable things that nearly ruined my life I’m still traumatized until this day and that was 3 years ago

[@conversingwithconita]

I've been loving your content for months. Sorry Lady this is my 1st time commenting.

[@clarencehoover6748]

Well said. Paradoxical, indeed.

[@JayAllen-oq7hi]

Thank you. I have experienced what you described in the mind of a narcissist. Pure evil, and they always play the victim. Now I have learned to put my "narc" out of my life.

[@TRdoFbS]

Excellent!!! 💯🎯🎯🎯🏆🏆🏆

[@ruthgrace-sw5uj]

Good way of putting it, they are not able to receive love as they believe they're unlovable, I think that's a compassionate and healthy way of describing the mindset. I know it's infuriating but it doesn't help to always be angry at them

[@ChosenTactics4]

Great breakdown. Sounds spot on. I never wouled have guessed that about my old "best friend". 🎯

[@Devik666]

Some people hide behind diagnoses aswell

[@jax-ew7lw]

Until you get to the point where you not in acceptance of all things, but rather in the allowance of them and realize while they might be the toxic taker, you are the equal counterpart in being the toxic giver. You have to ask yourself why you let yourself be put on the pedestal in the first place and why you didnt love yourself enough to not be codependent on another's validation. They are what they are and you have to come to the understanding the way that they are is a valid option, so you can bring all of your attention back to yourself. Casting shadows at shadows only makes it stronger. Great explanation none the less.

[@Tony-ib2vm]

Yup, many will often vocalize, "They're so dumb..." Translation: "They're so dumb, for trusting me..."

[@michaelminutti3227]

Tell it! This is the truth! Thanks for posting this. A lot more people need to know so they can’t prevent this from happening to them

[@RoryStarks]

My ex told me her "superpower" was pretending to be nice to people and then controlling their behavior. She is well aware of what she is.

[@Drogonmoon]

I’d like to know more about the demon 😈 face person that turns up

[@digdug9275]

Soldier up Productions talks about that

[@70Ford302]

I used to bring home flowers and put them in a vase on the kitchen table. Then she started to just ignore them or be like "and what are THESE for?!?" They're not FOR anything?!?! I was at the store and just thought they were pretty?!?! Best of my knowledge girls like it when you bring them flowers? Fine, that's the last time.

[@GuitarMatt]

You made the RIGHT choice doing a 180° there!

[@magg7771]

Thanks a lot for your videos❤ They're really helpful.

[@chareajohnson2320]

This is a wake-up call everyone😮

[@Wonderwall36]

Great to see you again, Beautiful, I'd missed you 🖤

[@FreeggNinja3618]

These videos are such a wake up call

[@dianehenke2539]

Great info. Thank you!

[@mattmccracken1768]

My wife to a T. Wasted 33 years of my life.

[@ThomasWilliams-lc7eu]

You are so spot on thx for what you do for us that's had to figure it out the hard way

[@benjaminchavez1232]

You break it down so clearly. Dang.

[@LittleLulubee]

I pray every day for the day that my demon brother permanently and completely leaves my life 🙏😭😭

[@libertycan6959]

Great info. Stunning woman

[@blackswann9555]

Thanks! I needed to hear this. ❤

[@soulsurfer5531]

BEST NPD video! Ty

[@ego_ogre]

absolute truth bombs here --

[@Solscapes.]

I can sum it up in one word. Selfishly.

[@jeffreyjackson5229]

You don't need 3 minutes. One simple statement will suffice: It's all about them regardless of how it appears on the surface.

[@invizibl-mw4md]

Wow. That's what my parent narc says. "What are you doing for me?"

[@DF0011-]

Amen. Love through the brain.

[@sandrathomas2893]

People get delivered from these spirits and are normal afterwards. So we know it's a spiritually rooted issue. Most often God has turned them over to a reprobate mind and seared their conscience for rejecting Him 🙏

[@tonymontana8664]

I live in NJ. At this point in time you can probably substitute average american with narcissist.

[@sandrathomas2893]

2 Timothy 3:1-7 tells us this is true.

[@Spicy5327]

I’m very familiar with this type of person because I was married to one. My question is, “how do you win against the narcissist? What makes them mad?” Because to me, they make no sense. They’re actually pretty damn stupid.

[@FBomb-z3t]

Well said and so true 😊

[@pippipster6767]

Both are in fact operating in ignorance. The victim doesn’t know what NPD is. Most of the time, nor does the narc … They just ‘are.’

[@JoshuaTrinityWolf-dc4up]

My wife and I gave our 25 year old Narciccist neighbor a compliment for helping with a runaway hound dog , two days ago.The pay back was her starting lies that made another neighbor turn on us. Then that neighbor was ashamed and confused that she was set up. I guess the Narciccist wanted a fight to start but my wife and I are sigma wolves with 57 years of history back to our mining village. lol When you can read someones cards it's magical.

[@te7605]

You explained it well!

[@zaharishtonov]

Right on!

[@ruipedrovilarinho5560]

Good luck and Sucess with your work

[@Magdalene777]

What if you do stop talking to them and didn't fall for them but then they stalk you for years?

[@LittleLulubee]

Get a restraining order

[@karmarising144]

Well said.

[@JacobCarlson-uq1my]

Is it possible that someone could say I love you to someone way to early because they are possibly in the learning process & not be narcissistic? I definitely see the importance of waiting for quite awhile before saying that word.

[@danielskyles6184]

That's good Danielle!

[@sayusayme7729]

Thank you 🌌

[@ReadingsbyDom]

Narcissism is used far too frequently. It’s used as a cope rather than accepting self-accountability. What was allowed that shouldn’t have been. Lack of boundaries and self respect. Eating the ego cookie sucks. Easier to cope with… They were a narcissist!

[@air1bbr]

Cool info......🌷

[@jefft724]

I much prefer narcissist info videos that are not geared towards romantic relationships. I totally get it is based on the experience of the poster. But for me, I have always had to deal with at least one narcissist in my life at 41, whether it be a parent or a coworker. I would like to see a lot more narcissist info based on dealing with coworkers. I can tell you 1/10 coworkers are narcissists.

[@junglekutz5625]

If you’re grown, and you cannot tell the difference between a sound, ethical and trustworthy person. Yet you know everything about other things……whether it be shopping, what’s good for your butt and figure…….in addition to know how to play whatever games that’s necessary for you to come up/be seen and liked. I don’t know what to tell you. As the very “narcissist” that you’re speaking about, plays on all of the above because to some degree they have the same interest and mindset. Which allows them to have full access (mentally) to whomever, in an array of ways.

[@ronniepirtlejr2606]

100 % agree!👍

[@johnmorganjr769]

Yes, totally blissful, then 😲

[@johnmorganjr769]

Nailed that one 💯

[@EXSlimShady8798]

“I went to all kinds of trouble for you, but you enjoyed your life with others.” : That's why maybe 90 percent of "bar girls" are narcissistic personality disordered and the men who fall in love with them have this bitter cry. like me.... I told her I would live for you, come live for me. I didn't say I would die for you. she was already trying to kill me.

[@wayneelliott1180]

Yes, they are evil. They know exactly what they are doing, they love doing it, and they leave a trail of ruined lives and relationships in their wake. If we sneeze at 10 AM, they catch a cold at 10:15 and we are targets for life. Liars, manipulators, cunning, destructive, obsessed, relntless. Evil.

[@JosephineArmstrong-l1u]

So true ❤

[@user-zy8gk2nn7d]

because it is true - narcs are unworthy of love or anything good

[@JABINVA]

And once you figure it out and truly understand it and the deep rooted reasons for it, I equate it to the ending of the Matrix when Neo is fighting with only one hand, I could destroy my ex quickly at the end by literally just stating what she was doing and what weak root cause was motivating it. But you pretty much should expect a full blown wrath once you can do that. 🤷‍♂️

[@zholud]

How do I figure out if I am a victim of my covert NPD girlfriend or I am an NPD myself without knowing it and my actions caused my GF to discard me? I sometimes do feel I’m not worthy of love (when it’s birthdays and holidays and I hate celebrating) and I do (now that I know what NPD is) find it strange I was love bombed at times for no particular reason (but then came demands in a form “you don’t love me I do this and this and you never do even this” etc)

[@sandrathomas2893]

You are self reflecting. You are not a narcissist. They don't consider if their own behavior could be harmful. They lack regard, concern and remorse. You are what psychology calls "codependent " even though they use the term wrong. Work on building your self esteem. I recommend God and His Word. And knowing your true identity is in Christ 🙏

[@zholud]

@@sandrathomas2893 I hope so :) but...one thing she said made me wonder - it's when, say, she cooks for me and treats me well and does small nice things - I do think "damn that's very sweet but I am so bad I don't take her out to restaurants or did not commit to going with her to roller-coaster (we went once - and I am not a big fan I don't understand how one can do these crazy things 10 times in a row) - and in a way the more nice things she does the more guilty I feel I am a bad person, which, actually, may be the case cause I am self-centered and I mostly try to arrange nice things for "us" that I think are nice from my perspective - I don't "sacrifice" doing something that requires a lot of effort for her in return - I do it in my pace in a more calm and stable way...at least that's the story I tell to myself. I think I am at least self-centered (but at the same time I treated her well) but I now am somewhat confused if I am an NPD myself...it's nice that she cooks for me and it's amazing - but I did not date her so that she would cook for me. I wanted to develop together and have common interests and both reach our goals supporting each other, but not having a competition "oh, you don't love me and I am just wasting my time here cooking for you...wtf?"

[@lilfairycupcake]

BINGO! its the not knowing part, thats the worst. its a hard won, expensive, education.

[@Straightshooterx71x]

Crazy how you know all this info ?

[@alivingstone4Him]

->>> For the mouth of the wicked and the mouth of the deceitful have opened against me: they have spoken against me with a lying tongue. They have also surrounded me with words of hatred, and fought against me without a cause. In return for my love they are my adversaries, but I give myself unto prayer. Thus they have rewarded me evil for good and hatred for my love. - Psalm 109:2-5 Yes, very evil. They love themselves and they believe they are God and not accountable to the true and living God who sees and hears everything and to whom we will all give an account. Read 2 Timothy 3:1-5. To a tee!

[@DonnaS-q9s]

No winning

[@DonnaS-q9s]

They crazy

[@saltykraken9471]

Women use the word narcissist like it's going out of style.

[@hertzeauxduclaire7689]

Imagine the characteristics of the most complete and flawless person, then invert those characteristics in the most hypocritical way possible... that's a narc. They want to be respected, but they don't want to respect. They want other peeps to cooperate with the narc, while the narc competes with them. The only way to fix them is to force them into a situation they can't escape from where they realise THEY are the prey and not the predator... and then direct them to Jesus for therapy.

[@JayakrishnanNairOmana]

Are you related to the famous psychic researcher Dean Radin? You two look a lot alike.

[@ncsprung1847]

I am so confused. I can’t imagine that narcissists know they are narcissists. At least for the vast majority of them. I can’t imagine they have this vocabulary where they can name their actions and their intentions. This doesn’t make any sense to me.

[@realhet]

It's for their survival. They are doing whatever to keep up the false self functioning and to collect narcissistic supply from their surroundings. They do this in order to escape from narcissistic collapse which is the end of the world for them. I am a badly put together narcissist, my body feels bad equally when there is narcissistic/sadistic supply around: It doesn't matter I generate it by abusing someone, or someone else abusing me, I feel bad from both. Normal narcissists don't feel bad when they abuse. Because they feel worse when they don't, because they get closer to collapse that way. This is why I was able to learn my user's manual, to learn how I should function. So now I am able to shut down my false self and live with what remains after: an empty nothing, but with FREE WILL. I'm not going to play in any narcissistic theatre anymore. I become a useless nothing that nobody can control. I am the one who control myself. And I don't control anyone else. With a mathematical example: When all you have is only negative numbers, and have no access to positive numbers, the best you can do is multiply by zero. I have no access to positive emotions, my brain automatically translating them as warning signs of incoming manipulation, so they turned negative. I don't risk distinguish true love and fake conditional love. I don't have the sensors to detect them. I just reduce the inflow of all emotions, so I can be free of them. That involves less and less people in my life, those are just collateral damage. My freedom of control weight more than that. I guess you are more confused now, but this sh1t is confusing anyways, it's a total energy waste.

[@flowersofthefield340]

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[@6stringermadness]

That happened to me. It sucked. I don’t recommend it.

[@MedievalFantasyTV]

Yes, a female narc will do try to trap you in with a baby. My narc told me she was unable to get pregnant because of medical reasons. Then she dropped the bomb that she was in the fourth month of pregnancy. My legs went weak at that instant when I suddenly realised I fell into a trap like a clueless little mouse. Fast forward 18 years, my daughter suffers from severe depression caused by living with her narc mother. I lost everything. Money, my future, the love of my life, my self love and respect, my dignity. I have been falsely accused and almost sent to prison because of her. Even my mom was affected and she lives on meds now. That narc completely obliterated every aspect of my life, and now she leads a great life with what she reaped from me and my mother. There is no justice in this life, there is no god, otherwise these monsters wouldn't be allowed to wander freely.

[@darts-multiverse]

You are sweet