A 4 Minute Plea To Drummers

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_______________ A 4 Minute Plea To Drummers -- Don't stop. Don't quit. Don't give up. Fall 7 times, get up 8. Ignore everyone. Forget the haters. Focus on you. Never give in to pressure. We need your voice. Work smarter. Practice better. Focus more. Work hard. Set goals. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop.
And if you ever need motivation, an ear to hear your frustrations, someone to celebrate your wins, a place to vent about your failures, or a kick in the butt...just let me know. That's what I'm here for.
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[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Don't stop. Don't quit. Don't give up. Fall 7 times, get up 8. Ignore everyone. Forget the haters. Focus on you. Never give in to pressure. We need your voice. Work smarter. Practice better. Focus more. Work hard. Set goals. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. Don't stop. And if you ever need motivation, an ear to hear your frustrations, someone to celebrate your wins, a place to vent about your failures, or a kick in the butt...just let me know. That's what I'm here for.

[@eddiem484]

Stephen Taylor Dude, I gravitate towards your teaching/insight style. My whole life, I've had these sounds in my head, always tapping on the desk at school, getting detention etc lol. The disconnect has always been...my limbs can't produce the sounds. I took lessons at 8 yrs old for about 3 months, nothing since...fell off, for years. I retrieved my white 1992 Tama Rockstar DX, 25 yr old set from my parents house when the house was sold...I dusted it off. I need to face the 'sound in my head'...I'm at it again finally! Any words would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance sir!

[@brobob52]

Thank you. Some days i feel i can play anything while other days i can barely stay on time with a 4-4 beat. I started drumming only a couple months ago so i know i have an extremely long way to go. But vids like this make the jorney that much easier.

[@SonsuzOlaslk]

Stephen Taylor I just love you man. Thanks a lot for your videos. I started learning drums at the age of 32. Now it's been 4 years almost. I am not even close to where I was imagining about my playing and everytime I say oh no I can't make it you are coming with another motivational video. I appreciate it. Much love and peace from Turkey :)

[@eddiem484]

Dude, I'm gonna nick name you Yoda! You go deep into the meaning of whatever you're teaching! Lol I'm the same way, but I over think things.

[@Drazer012]

You know thanks a lot for this. Just happened upon it but this is exactly what i've been feeling recently, no desire to practice because i feel like i havent been getting better even though im sure i am. Time to get back into the saddle and kick some ass.

[@jorgebuenrostro5212]

For me, a really competitive person (I am working on changing this about myself), it's always been the "Oh there's an 8 year old kid playing way better than what I might ever be able to, why should I even bother?" Seeing all these kis reaching places at an age way younger can be a little desmotivating, specially for highly competitive people like me, but I am working on it, and of course I am working on becoming a better drummer every single day. Thanks a lot for the words Stephen, I appreciate them and they exactly what I needed to hear. Cheers.

[@JacobCoxDrumming]

I feel the exact same way man

[@SuperDrumsforever]

Even if your not gigging realize how great drumming is for your brain and emotions. I look at it like a meditation. Many of my friends have quit and I just keep doing it day after day. People ask me "how did you get that good"? My answer, "I just never quit". I just want to be really good at drumming,even if I am never known. Just for the pure love of it. I have also found rhythm to be very healing as well as grounding. When I was younger it was for groupies, attention ,ego and a party lifestyle .Now it is for the pure of love of drumming. Compliments are nice but when I leave the stage I don't need to be told how great or wonderful I am. All the teachers , videos, sheet music or help we need is all around us to use. Much of it is free. I still have to be willing to spend countless hours learning a complex rhythm until I own it. The benefit to all this hard work is, you are developing soul in your musical expression. Your character is developing and that comes through you as you because you paid the price of not giving up. When I see or hear an amazing musician I am impressed that they had the true grit to continue to pay the price. What you put into drumming comes back. Ask yourself ,"why am I doing this? As we have breakthroughs in drumming our character is molded, which is a blessing in so many ways that might not seem connected to music. Nothing will stop me. If I cannot drum because it might be a disturbance to others I will play a pad.If a pad is to loud then I will air drum. If that is not possible then I will practice in my mind (silently) Clapping,stepping working with rhythm even if I have no drums. The Universe gets the message that "I will do my personal best" No one ever said it would be easy but I am playing things I could never conceive of playing even a year ago. Baby steps. I love the beginner mindset. The greats all seem to have it. So much to say and yet my drums are calling me.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Couldn't agree more

[@drummersagainstitk]

Yup times 10.

[@keithadamo304]

Drumming Drummer I feel the same way I’m a metal drummer for over 40 years now 57 years young I push the young bucks into a hole new level of pain and enjoy every second of it ! The world needs to hear your drumming put your self back out there! 🤘🏼

[@boomerguy9935]

Yes! I'm 74 years old and I've been playing since 1965. I started in rock, moved over to jazz and my motive for drumming has evolved many times over the years. Even though I don't play outside the house nearly enough anymore, I still play in my Man Cave because this is my therapy. My best playing comes sometimes when I sit behind the kit, exhale and just relax without thinking. I hear stuff come from my drums and cymbals that I didn't even know were in there. It's like someone else took over. I'm not talking about any specific thing like a solo or pattern; it's more like a rhythm that my soul is riding. Don't overthink it. Just enjoy it. If it ain't fun, then you're doing it wrong. I still try to learn something new every single day. I wish I'd had KZbin back in the day. So much to learn, so little time.

[@JacobCoxDrumming]

That was so heartwarming and moving man

[@65Drums]

We all need to hear this every now and then thanks :)

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

65 Drums Indeed we do

[@AJJohnMusic]

I love this because it doesn't only apply to drumming. For me, it applies to college. For others it could be your job, your sports, your livelihood, etc. Deep I know! But very refreshing to hear it out loud :)

[@wunoteu]

I'm almost 66 years old. No I never hit the big time,only small successes. Knew I could play when I was 12, no family support. I'm retired living in a foreign country, I practice 3 to 6 hours a day on a pad and the floor( no room in the house to set up)play once a week at an ex pat jam session, I get food for pay. You know what? So what! I love playing,always did,nothing can stop that!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Gotta do it for the love

[@gracegeek4678]

You, sir, are living proof that there is more to teaching than showing people how to play the drums....Blessings to you!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Grace Geek Thank you my friend

[@rockinrick5522]

Don't quit, you'll beat your dash board table tops and spoons to pieces and 35 years or so later you will get drums again and wonder what if I had kept playing all that time?

[@chromaticswing9199]

Loved how you explained this! Very colorful and down to earth.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

lol

[@johnk3841]

I stopped playing when I was 8 years old. I gave up after my first lesson. Now I'm 19 and have been playing for four years. I wish I didn't stop playing. I always wonder how better I would have been if I kept playing from 8 years old to present. That doesn't stop me from wanting to keep improving and playing though :D

[@someoneelse101]

I too wish I hadn't stopped sometimes but there are certain things preventing me from doing so such as space for both storage and practice, the fear of reaggravating injuries sustained, and the attitudes of some toward drummers as a whole which I find repulsive and eliminates the questions as to why these people can't hold onto a drummer for more than months at longest. One bad apple spoils everything. Call me selfish or boorish but I'm stating fact.

[@mredrumz4782]

Thanks so much for your encouragement. Just finished practicing and felt absolutely like it was going nowhere. I had just started thinking, maybe this just isn't what I'm supposed to be doing with my life. Afterwards I happened to log onto youtube and this was literally the first video that popped on my screen. And I just want to express my gratitude. Thank you. Definitely what I needed in this very moment. Peace and Blessings.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Glad it hit you at the right time my friend

[@zoldlomblegolas1]

Thanks for this video. I've started playing drums relatively late, around the age of 25, before that I was lacking the money (I was a university student) and didn't have any practice space. Now I play in two tribute bands, taking weekly lessions, trying to practice every day. Sometimes it's really hard to improve and it's time and energy consuming to play 3-4 hours on a rehearsal for both bands, but I'm trying to stay motivated. Your video helped me a lot when I was trying to quit, thanks for that.

[@benfrank8649]

We all need this message from time to time. My drum teacher was a spiritual teacher more than anything. He always said the biggest obstacle to progress is not acknowledging the small signs of improvement. If you can play a paradiddle five BPM quicker than last week that is success! He also talked about Bill Bruford’s snare sound and how legendary that is. And that Bruford even said it came from what he thought was bad technique. Our weaknesses are just as important as our strengths.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Ben Frank You had a great teacher

[@Kyp031]

In 15 years I been through every attic, basement, garage and storage unit imaginable just to be able to play. I've lost a space for a year now but I still did not give up, for opportunity has emerged and in a month I'm back behind my kit. Your absolutely right man!

[@christianmorin1437]

i start by my self a long teenage dream to have my kit and play at 48yo now 51 cant still play a single song over a track like acdc back to black i learn how to use meteonome 4/1 and still suck and not able to kill that single song.....i want to quit ....but i still keep my kit and try it in anothe way try to do found a structure how to work .....i miss the time when i was crazy happy to have my new kit ...so i will keep up and try to have fun again

[@michaelvarney4723]

I actually came back to this video for the emotional support. Last year, I switched to open handed playing to accommodate for arthritis in both shoulders, and, playing jazz, my left hand struggles to even get near the spang-a-lang my my right used to deliver in 280+ bpms. Once again: thank you Stephen! It's criminal that this video doesn't have more likes.

[@jefftaylor947]

The "dislikers" of this video must have not taken your advice and realized they DID waste their time by quitting. Thanks for the words, brother. As a 40 yr old (married 15 yrs and dad of two), I am on a practice pad in the basement after I got the kids to bed. I may never "make it" and be able to quit my day job, but having confidence on a gig makes all the difference in the world, and certainly makes it all worthwhile. Very much appreciate your vids!

[@isihernandez9752]

I agree 150% and your encouragement is really appreciated. Simple, forthright and easy to understand. Don't stop, don't give up. I'd like to add another thing: just have fun when you're playing. Enjoy each and every moment you sit on your drums. No matter if you're a pro or an amateur*, no matter if you're a begginer or one of those awesome drummers we all know, no matter if you're amazing skilled or if you suck.... just enjoy and have fun when you're playing. And I say this for several reasons. 1st even the greatest stars have sucked at one point (and they probably still sometimes). And remember that we don't usually see them while they're practising and working on something new. They're human and so, they can also feel frustrated sometimes... but they don't give up ! 2nd having fun doesn't mean you don't have to work hard, but if you enjoy it, it isn't so hard after all... 3rd we all know good, bad and average professionals in any job, but who are usually the best of them? those who really love and enjoy their job. When you're giggin', what's the best way to make your audience enjoy (that's your job in a gig, isn't it?)... exact, the best way is to enjoy yourself and transmit it to the audience. 4th as the popular saying goes here in Spain - where I am - "nobody is born knowing anything" (free translation). 5th take a look to all the skills you can have in any aspect of your life... what are you better skilled for, for those things that you love and enjoy doing, or those that you hate? Having fun with drums is the best way to learn and develop your drumming skills. * And finally, remember that a good pro should also be an amateur. In fact, the French word "amateur" just means "lover". So, don't stop, don't stop, don't stop, don't stop.... having fun !!!

[@marcusbrown87]

I go through this a lot! It's so hard to progress sometimes. When I get into one of those phases I usually take a break for a week or so and usually when I come back, It's so much more fun. ALSO, what I do to help is write a list of things I can improve on and want to learn and chip away at it.... Bruce Lee said "If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else. It will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." I never used to know what he meant until I became a musician

[@therealspooks]

I started playing when I was 11, played solid until I was 30, did recordings, did shows, then a new career stopped me. I am 51 and just started playing again with my first kit in over 15 years, I still played from year to year but not that much. Besides some stale chops and muscle memory a little sore, it feels fantastic to play again...NEVER QUIT!!

[@drummer899]

Hey Stephen. First of all, thank you ! I'm a 28 year old drummer from germany. In 2016 i was accepted in music school and couldn't have been happier. But just when i started living my dream everything fell apart. death in the family, financial problems , lost my practice space...just a perfect storm. My teachers held me in high regards and now that I'm out of a deep depression, i dont want to give up my dream....

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Then don't. Trust me, I've had some really dark times as well...they pass. Keep pushing. The turtle wins every time!

[@drummer899]

Thank you, man !

[@mcsequoia5107]

Thank you for sharing about your life. I've had similar difficulties and have been in and out of depression over the past year. I sincerely wish you the best in the pursuit of your dream. Keep on' plugging away, my friend. Also, in Neil Peart's book, 'Ghost Rider: Travels on the Healing Road', Neil talks about protecting & tending to that small, flickering flame that was left after the death of his daughter & wife within 10 mths. It's worth reading if you can get a copy of it.

[@deepbluntman___8650]

Thx for this words, was exactly what I need it today😁

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

EgaR_ Seum666 Glad it hit you at the right time my friend

[@sheilagatpolintan]

Thank you for the word of encouragement. I won't quit even I heard a lot of negative words bout my drumming. I'm serving God not people. What I need to do is to make effort, practice more etc.. For the better and for Gods glory.

[@Armz316]

Earned a sub.+like! Thanks for being a blessing & for the motivation kind Sir! My frugal drum kit is a 5 pc. Pearl Vision Artisan II New York Splatter. I'm currently taking formal drum lessons, but my last 2 assignment feels hard. Thanks for bringing me back on track. Take care & God bless you! Peace everyone!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Glad to have you hanging around the channel!

[@williewhite7037]

Thank you so much for those encouragements. Sometimes if those words were coming from just anybody, it would sound cliche. But coming from you, it carries a lot of weight. Thanks again.

[@Matraccio]

I've thought to quit many times, even now sometimes. I've found this video in the right moment...thank you 🙏🙏🙏

[@unclereaper33]

You are absolutely correct about all that you say here. I'm 55, been on and off my drumsets for years. Been at double strokes for over 14 months and still can't get them. But here I am, going back at it again. The issue for me is that I need this. It's been at the top of my bucket list forever. Thanks for believing in all of us. It really does make a difference.

[@hilaryking2790]

You r so right thank goodness I have you keep dreaming and drumming my friend from Freddie Newfoundland Canada

[@syllablistic]

I recently left a band of 5 years for reasons I'm not willing to talk about on the internet, and was up until recently feeling like I should take a step away from drumming/writing/producing, just music in general. But I've been fortunate enough to have friends that kept pushing me when I didn't want to anymore, I joined a new band with all the knowledge I've compiled up until now and even took another step and started a solo project in a completely new genre of music as another release for myself. And I just have to say that I agree with you, it was the best decision I've made in a very long time and it was the simplest... I've seen a very drastic improvement in my attitude and my Outlook on what it is that I really want to do with my art form. And it all stemmed from three words. Don't give up.

[@deepbluntman___8650]

And a big big thanks for all what you do for the community. You are a great teacher a great drummer and I think a great man! 😁✌️

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Thanks so much...humbling to hear

[@drummerboyhenry]

I've been drumming for about 20 years now. And I used to be REALLY good. Idk what happened, but I'm not anymore. And I want to get back to where I was, or even PAST that. But no matter how hard I try, it seems impossible. I just love drums so much. I Wana be able to play the way I hear it in my head. Idk what to do...but this speech was definitely encouraging.

[@claudiolobenwein]

Thanks a lot for that, Stephen! I've been studying for three years, and through this time I've thought of quiting several times. It's really hard to see I'm not getting better, or realize the time spent seems not to worth... but after seeing this video I know I can't quit. You just gave us a very important message. Thanks a lot!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

You bet Claudio

[@AdversaryNemesis1124]

I listen to you almost every time I get behind that kit. You're a blessing!

[@miketorossian]

This is true on so many levels. Even thinking about quitting might take someone back a few steps. Thank you Stephen for these beautiful motivational videos.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

You bet Mike

[@n0iseboy]

Such as life...this is inspiring on many levels and your genuine support of us all is greatly appreciated. Viva la DrumShed.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Angelo Chappetta Thanks Angelo!

[@MichaelMarion96]

Thank you so much for this video Stephen! Around last year, I had to go on a hiatus for about a month or so when it came to playing drums. I am someone who has dealt with depression and horrible Anxiety. When I am playing drums (or just doing anything in general), I always get thoughts going through my head such as "you will never be good enough" or to just "give up because it is not worth your time". Videos like this mean the world to me and I am really thankful that I now have something to go back and listen to when I get back into that state of depression. You're an amazing drummer and a great teacher that has taught me so much throughout the years. Thank you for everything :).

[@derekdauchan2741]

This is a inspirational grand slam brother Stephen. With all the chops fests and amazing display of drumming (and bass ) technique, it's easy to feel that you will never be good enough to hang. I've found that with patience, interaction with good teachers and musicians and playing whenever you can will help you get past the roadblocks that we encounter. Drummers of all skill levels are always in demand .

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Thanks Derek...so true!

[@WhelanDrums]

You can truly never have enough positive reinforcement. Sometimes even with good individuals around us the journey of personal improvement can still feel like a lonely one. Videos like this remind us all that we are truly equal and more so that we are all in this together. The drive to get up every single day and go at this MUST come from within and this definitely needs practice just like our drumming. I've personal slowly learned to enjoy this process by firstly working my ass off but more importantly learning never to expect too much from others. Through teaching I've come to realise that people but way too much unnecessary pressure on themselves. We all started playing because it was FUN and it's easy to forget that sometimes. Learning how to love the struggle of practice along with finding your place in the industry in definitely a challenge but I think the first thing to understand is that the HARD WORK never ends. When I excepted that I started seeing real progress. What a wonderful message Stephen my man 👊 The journey never ends 😀

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

So true

[@TomDangs]

Dont stop making these videos i listen to them when i take a break from practicing then get pumped to go back at it! Thanks for the encouragement! Wish i never stopped taking lessons i would be alot further along to reach my goals.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

No plans to stop here ;^)

[@ardaanyazl8074]

Excellent advice, after playing blindly (got that phrase from an old drummer about 10 years ago) for almost 13 years, started to practice from start (i never got proper lessons on drumming), getting better with every time i play with my friends. Keep it up folks.

[@thescript_terhi6266]

The mental game of drumming is so tough! I never realized it until I started taking lessons a few months ago. Thanks so much for all of these insightful and encouraging videos, just what the dr ordered 🙏🏼

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Yea, the mental game is 95% of it...the rest is just practice.

[@gmoney1592]

Thanks Stephen. This is a great message . Sometimes we need to hear a positive message like this . No way I’m ever quitting . This is reinforcement to work even harder . Thanks again

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

You bet Gary...we all need it sometimes

[@mghc7]

Well said....37 yrs playing and I'm still trying hahaha..there are certain things I just can't play...but,it's a journey and an adventure...I tell a lot of my students don't compare yourself with anyone else..it's your journey and your road to success...now do it...

[@PanicMachine423]

Thanks so much for this video it was just what I needed to hear. After not playing for 7 years after the breakup of my last band, I picked up sticks again and for the first time since I started playing at 13 really started studying and trying to develop as a Drummer with a capital d rather than just trying to be part of a collective. Just been offered my first bit of recording work since going it alone and deciding to try and become a rounded, freelance played, and although excited I am filled with doubts about not being ready or good enough. This message really got through. Thank you.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Mr. Kerrigan Drums You bet! Glad you picked the sticks back up

[@kc-vf4lp]

I needed to hear this. I've been teaching myself through your videos and other great teachers. Where I live every tutor I've come across teaches kids which I totally get but no one has time for a 54 year old. I've made progress by myself but would do better with tutor in person. Quitting has crossed my mind several times but hey what's the point of turning back now.

[@craiggledhill7391]

hey Stephen, guys and Gals I stumbled across this vid while looking for something to reignite my passion for playing as i was seriously thinking of giving up, i'm a 46yo drummer from the UK and have been playing on and off since i was 23 but had been passionate about drums since i was 13 and i'm only truly happy when playing, so many thanks Stephen for this vid as its prevented me from quitting and more than likley it being the biggest regret i would have. Life is really tough at the mo and practice is only once a week and with my current band, and it takes me an hour to drive to practice, so not much alone time to work on getting myself back up to what i was 10 years ago, But by God i'll find a way dammit. Anyway many thanks again and with repect to "We need your voice" i'm gonna take a chance and let you all hear my drumming voice from about 10yrs ago, which is the level i wan't to get back to (first goal :) ) have a listen it's basic stuff but its all original tunes, you may or may not like it but hey even with the mistakes i was quite proud of what i'd acomplished. 1drv.ms/f/s!Ai2qlu5nPk7FfBNEfK9DCKInqJs any comments, advice will always be welcome and will help me set new goals and improve which is what we all want right :)

[@williamsharp8254]

Thanks for the pep talk. It was perfect timing. I just have to remember to have fun and do not be quick to judge myself. I just have to remember at my age I am going to be a little limited on what I can do so I need to be realistic.. I just love you videos.

[@Xedalin851]

One thing I’ve found myself doing over the years is that when I feel like I’ve hit a wall or my drumming has plateaued for a while, I’ll shift my focus to something different and I love it. - Drumming for me comes in short “renaissance” periods where I’ll just get way better at something and improve a shit ton over a while and then hit that wall. After my drumming did that then I started focusing on rhythmic theory like polyrhythmic and metric mods and what not. - I’ll quit when I’m dead though! Love your videos as always dude!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Great tactic

[@chriseldridge4712]

I love what you’re doing with drumming and inspiration. Needed that ! God inspired!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Chris Eldridge Thanks so much Chris...glad it hit you when you needed it.

[@tonyehrenberg1708]

I really needed this today. Thanks for being there for us.

[@Alistair]

great advice for anything in life, not just drums :) I've not played for a while, but I'm hoping to move soon and have space (and no neighbours) to set up my electronic kit again..

[@joebob344]

Subscribed!I'm a bass player by nature, fooled around with drums but I want to be a guitar player now. A lead player. I'm 44 years old and just for my own enjoyment. It gets hard and frustrating but I keep pushing on. All of the great ones had the same EXACT issues I'm having. Hitting the wrong strings, no dexterity etc. But it WILL come in time. You just have to work through it and it will get better. Not just in music but in life. Never give up!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Glad to have ya!

[@wikuslombard6373]

Not quitting! Never! Your series on practicing changed my life. Progress every day. Besides I'm too old to quite.......

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

So glad that practice series helped that much Wikus!

[@davedalessandroDalessandro]

Thank u for your inspirational words one thing people dont see about themselves is improvement example you lift weights for 6 months and you think man I'm not getting any bigger then somebody you haven't seen for 6 months says holy cow you're getting huge it's the same as playing you don't think you're getting any better then you play with a band you haven't for a while and they notice your improvement everybody stick with it! if your focused while practicing trust me your getting better!!!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Yea, we're our own worst critics. We're just too close to it.

[@pablocruise678]

Love this!!! It’s so easy to get discouraged and give something up than it is to hold on and persevere.

[@_t2x]

Thank you Stephen. I greatly needed this.

[@SimonHintonNZ]

Well Said Stephen! out of all the players ive come across online i find your content the realest and most practical ... no suger coating & cutting through the bullshit everytime! Great work!

[@zander_senpai]

It's always a pleasure to watch your videos Stephen! Truly inspiring, and ty for the reminder. Really, thank you .

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Glad it hit you at the right time my friend

[@keithadamo304]

Stephen always enjoy your prospective on drumming! I’m 57 started drumming when I was 10 lm still learning and always growing! I’m still writing and recording Thrash and Death Metal this style of music is the most challenging drumming l’ve ever experienced , you always have to get out of the comfort zone, It takes years too become a solid musician! In the end you can be and old fart still haven FUN

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Totally agree!

[@MrThuggery]

Great advice! thanks man. Was very active drumming as a young bloke then fell in love, work, study, family etc....recently purchased my first kit in about 27 years! been having a ball since, I'm shit house currently in timing and speed and polyrhythms etc but I have a ball and can see the "OLD (Young) me" now and again!

[@mikeskenne]

Your comment about reflection and perspective is key. You may know where you're going, but you don't truly know a place until you are there. And even then things may change. I've been hung up on this or that groove and I just can't get all the components to cooperate. I'll practice it for hours/days/weeks - Nothing - It just won't click. Then, out of the blue, I'll be at a restaurant, a movie, on the bus/train, and bam! It pops, I get it! It's all of a sudden common place. Like I've been able to play it all the time. You are a wise man, Stephen. I appreciate your positive encouragement and insight. Thank you.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Perspective is everything imho

[@TheFightak]

Great video Stephen. I hadn’t been able to practice my drumming regularly for a few months up until last week because of school. Going back to it is admittedly frustrating when I’m not as good as I was of I can’t play something I learned a while ago as well as I once could but you’re right. It’s not worth quitting. If anything it makes it more rewarding. Nice message and I hope people listen. Thanks.

[@alexquin3662]

Usually I think of all these motivitional videos like it's the bullshit. But now it hits me at the most needed time. Thank you.

[@SKragseth]

Needed this Stephen. Motivating and a little kick in the arss to get my practice time back on track. Been spending too much time jamming, which is fun, but I know I want to be better and need to work harder. Going to start the 30 days to better doubles again

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Spencer Kragseth Love it!

[@stellar_head]

Powerful message and thank you for the video. We need help like this once in a while and this shows how much your heart and soul are into this lifestyle, your students and subscribers. Great stuff Stephen!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Thanks...so glad it hit home with ya!

[@yourconscious7960]

I played a tough production this past weekend literally had two rehearsals... Played a lot of music I was not firmiliar with...so I had a lot of challenges needless to say we got through the two nights I was really feeling bad about after the gig Questioning is this life for me.... But after watching this video I feel much much better!!! Thanks Man

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Glad to hear it. Those gigs can be tough...they stretch our ability and we come away knowing we could have done better if we’d had more time. But, the fact that you can go in and make a situation like that work with so little time speaks loads about your ability.

[@yourconscious7960]

@@StephenTaylorDrums thank you for the encouragement I really appreciate it Love from Cape Town South Africa 🙏

[@heladoscuro5074]

This is exactly what I needed... man, you're a great inspiration for me. I've recently been experiencing a glommy phase in my life, so chaotic and overwhelmingly depressing that I even thought of quitting drumms, but, you've just cheered me up to keep on going, and I'am eternally grateful for that. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK AND NEVER CEASE TO BE THE AMAZING HUMAN BEING YOU'RE!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Zair Маяковский Makes my day to know it hit you at the right time Zair

[@dibakarpramanik5812]

Thanks Stephen ..thanks a lot.. I will not quit.

[@djstixtrix]

Ive just started with your drum shed and The Art Of Practice. Thank you for this. Ive been playing for 31 years, been pro for 17 and to be honest my technique and playing are !BASIC! as hell. Its time to up my game, and you are helping massively. Thank you for you energy. Thank you Thank you Thank you.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Douglas Jones What up Douglas! So glad I’m any help at all in your drum journey man. You’re focusing on the right things

[@tkelly830]

Love these messages, they genuinely help brother. Respect 🤘

[@donovanbarr5134]

Thank You for your Inspiration Sir! I love how real you are, thanks for not sugar-coating everything!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

You bet Donovan!

[@patrickshawsaxdrums3323]

Thank you!! So true an much needed.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

You bet!

[@lucapanetta2617]

Just thanks. This comes right in time for me, you are a huge inspiration for me, dude, never stop neither Stephen! You are my man 🎉

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Don't worry...no plans on stopping here. I'm way too stubborn ;^)

[@greglenthall3697]

As Eduarda Henklein once said in a brazilian interview "i play drums because i love it, i smile when i play to inspire other kids to learn music. It's big big fun". Quote from an interview with a very motivated and multi talented 6 year old musician/singer/model and childrens motivator.

[@alexbaker7609]

These videos are still as inspiring as ever, myself and I'm sure many others just want reassurance from someone that we can achieve our goals, and you always deliver on that Stephen, thank you very much.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Glad it hit you at the right time my friend...and you're more than welcome Alex

[@noahpirsch6798]

I have these old recordings on my phone of me playing when I started, I like to listen to those when I think I’m not going anywhere in my drumming and look where I’ve gotten

[@polohobbies]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Much love man, thanks for everything you do for this community!!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Marco Espinoza Love right back at ya Marco 🙏🏻

[@mattflores4786]

How could you dislike such an amazing video

[@GoofyGoofballl]

Needing this right now, because i haven't got the ankle technique down in 6 months...

[@BTPPaintBallTeam]

Just restarted playing after about 15 years sucks having to start over but never gonna quit again

[@tommo3378]

Hi Stephen. I regularly feel exactly the way you’ve described at the beginning of this video. I lost a gig many years ago to a much “better” player (who by the way is a great friend to this day). I lost the gig because a. My friend was a far more advanced, and experienced player. b. I was terrified on stage to the point I couldn’t think clearly or feel my hands. c. A recording session (my first) exposed all the weaknesses in my playing, timing etc. The band went on to sign a deal and tour Canada etc. I gave up playing for nearly 25 years as a result. I eventually picked up the sticks again and I now play regularly in a covers band with one of the members of the band I was sacked from! (I have a day job so ltd time to practice) I have a passion for drums and music but regularly ruin any sense of enjoyment with self limiting beliefs of the sort you mentioned. “I’m just not a natural”. “I’m not talented enough”. Stuff I pull off in practice I don’t try during gigs in case I screw up. I constantly compare myself negatively with my friend and other drummers. You get the picture!! I often get to the “why am I doing this, nobody rates my playing, I’m gonna quit” stage. It’s a struggle

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

The mental game is a real thing. It's a war we have to constantly win at...battle by battle is how to do that though.

[@Dillardcp]

Excellent timing for me to receive this message

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Glad it hit you at the right time my friend

[@duckz134]

I really needed to hear this, thank you so much ❤

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Glad it hit you at the right time my friend

[@vitormaciel5608]

Wise words. Thanks!

[@christiangil8592]

Thanks for this video Stephen!! Couple of days ago I had a drum exam in the university and it was terrible (at least I feel that way)... Today I feel much better but this video helped me to retake with motivation my practice routine!!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Christian Gil I totally feel you Christian. It probably wasn’t as bad as you thought. Now, I have some NIGHTMARE stories from juries and departmentals in college. Man, they were bad lol

[@peterthejenkins]

I love drums too much to ever quit! Thank you for the motivation Stephen, you're the man.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

You bet Peter

[@rynoolivier4723]

Great message! Thanks Stephen!!

[@MeursaultYT]

Great video at a fitting time Stephen, thanks dude!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Glad it hit you at the right time

[@MiniDaab]

Really good to hear this advice right now :')

[@andresmartinezdrums2787]

Thanks man. Just what I needed. 👍🏼

[@lobbyrobby]

I'm a little over 1 year into learning. I'm starting struggle with the thought if I really want to keep playing. I need one of those, omg I just did that moments. I've had quite a few of those moments but lately it's been completely opposite. I keep telling myself I'm doing terribly. Idk why either.

[@thomasallen4340]

Im sure Neil Peart of Rush at times felt like quitting. Now he went out on top as the best drummer ever

[@MarioSaidWhat]

I haven't had my kit due to living situations for the last year.... Its a weird feeling thinking that I might be done playing drums... Then I saw this, and 7 year old me is calling me 7 year old names.. Thanks Stepehen.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Mario Valdez You bet Mario...it’s just a phase. Been there myself

[@allanmalloy8266]

I have a story to share too those who may need more then a proverb. Years ago I was at my pinnicle, and I couldn't believe how well I played - until I injured my leg and couldn't play my bass drum at all. As a metal drummer that hurts. 4 years since that injury I've had to rehabilitate my leg, and have pushed to get back to where I was. It's been a back and forth since then, trying new approaches, using more practice equipment - some has worked, others have slowed me down, or made me lose progress. I can't tell you how many times quitting has come up - which is natural, but I refuse. Every step is a step closer - even if it takes me another 4 damn years - I'll find my way back there. Thanks for the words, Stephen. I'll make good on getting up the 8th time.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Allan Malloy You got this Allan

[@scottswift8153]

For me it’s like a week of fairly content practice then a bad day and the thoughts start to circle in my head. Then maybe a day or two of not being happy with my playing, then Either I take a day or two off or maybe not and the whole time I’m thinking I’m never gonna get past this and then all of a sudden I have a small break through and I’m super happy about it. That lasts a day or two then again I’m content for a week and the process starts over. I’ve kinda gotten used to it weirdly but those days that I’m not seeing results oh man I am just pissed off at everything. It’s hard but this dream is one of the few I have hope for and I’ve put more time into this then anything. Especially not having an instructor to help it’s a struggle and a half. The days were you do see progress, it feels so damn good.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

That's what we live for...those progress days. Can't know the good days if you don't know what a bad day feels like.

[@micah_drums]

Thank you! Much needed for an upcoming audition process. I’m much further along than I was when I started, so if I fail again, I’ll get back up for take 3!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

UltraPercussion Auditioning is a skill. You get better the more you do it. No one ever told me that. There was a time that I would just go to auditions for the experience. Even if I didn’t want the gig. I just wanted to process so I could get better at it. Then, when something I had an opportunity I wanted, I could nail it. Keep it up and let me know how it goes!

[@micah_drums]

Stephen Taylor First one went extremely well! Part two is two weeks from today. I’ll let you know the result.

[@johngavin1448]

thanks for the inspiration... about to get back on the grind as we speak.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

Get to it John!

[@VoodooRock01]

Love how rather than just giving lessons/doing gig videos you also do videos like this - I don't think I'll ever not be a drummer, but everyone needs a little encouragement sometimes!

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

So true...we all need it at some point

[@toddlavigne6441]

great advice for life in general

[@jorgelopez9620]

Beautiful brother. Thanks

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

You bet Jorge

[@josiahvadeboncoeur3164]

Thank you. This help. A lot. Thank you.

[@StephenTaylorDrums]

You’re more than welcome my friend

[@86AMac]

simply...TY my guy 🤘🏼