A lack of self-accountability will rob you of your success!

[@Jenahh-aye]

This is so well spoken❤ Love being blessed with your gorgeous self, sharing your light and wisdom two days in a row. Getting us spoiled.

[@LadySpeechSankofa]

I can’t wait to spoil you guys some more.

[@thepleasurebosstv4883]

Grand Rising Tribe‼️💕

[@fr33f4l4st1ne]

everytime you affirm our inherent problematicness, my perfectionism crumbles that much more. gods, Thank you.

[@LadySpeechSankofa]

You are so very welcome my dear.

[@thefreeasabirdkate]

@pinkmoonrabbit2072 If you haven’t already read it, I really really enjoyed, “A Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control”

[@gabbiecadabbie8305]

Thank you LadySpeech! I really enjoyed this video and I hope you will make more like this in the future 💖

[@LadySpeechSankofa]

YAY!!!! This is definitely a direction I am moving in. You will definitely see more videos like this. Let me know what subjects you would like me to cover.

[@Trutka91]

Thank You for existing and speaking. ❤ I know one person that reached "success" without accountability. He had great job (now he is retired), but he never really connected to the people. He doesn't speak to his sibilings, and the closest people he has are mailnly terrified of him and avoid him as much as they can. And if he were more accountable, Im sure, that he would have even berrer job at the end of his career, and he would have an extended loving family.

[@illustratedmum1050]

Thank you Goddess King. 🙏💗🙏 Please keep the videos coming! We love you! 💜

[@BombasticlyBee]

I am prepared😅 I’ve had to learn how to take accountability with my love. Understanding that once it’s given it’s cruel to take back without notice. My spirit moves when you speak, we are appreciative of you.

[@icametomakecupcakes71]

Bring it! We all need this tea!

[@Mstia0806]

I’m in self accountability season, this is for me- thank you.

[@emmaegtberts8419]

Thank you for getting me to look forward to mondays! Your videos always elevate my day 🥰 I'd love to hear more about self accountability, so keep the videos coming puhleaze! I learned about self accountability last year. I had a huge fight with a very close friend. The fight was literally going in circles where we each kept going on about how the other had hurt us. Then i realised that lack of self accountability was the reason this fight kept going. So i stopped, and took time to recognise her hurt and and apologise for it. That was hard as hell, but it did break the cycle pf hurting🥰 i can move beyond the hurt now😄

[@rubynovel]

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[@DelicateMfnFlowerTabS]

Definitely do a second one for THIS! Keep the videos coming! YOU speaking to me in my core... ❤

[@anukephoenix1196]

The Lack of self-accountabilty lead me to allow a man who had nothing to lead me to destruction. Me accepting accountability led me to choose me. I acknowledge that I need to work on me and heal. I only have room for me.

[@Laelia-h9t]

Thank you so very much for your constant teachings 🙏❤️

[@LadySpeechSankofa]

You are so welcome

[@Ms.Jamie30]

Oh please keep these coming!!! I think I’m my own problem I had self accountability when I got myself sober…. Had to have a deep self talk there! Knowing I have a tendency to lead with emotion rather than logical thought.. so I always re examine and evaluate to make sure I did my best!

[@dim7yem]

Finally found you on YT. Thank you for sharing & being you❤🎉🙏🏾🖖🏾

[@LadySpeechSankofa]

Welcome family!!!!

[@thefreeasabirdkate]

So timely…thank you for this ❤

[@Tink1208]

I have heard you say that we are problematic, but it doesn't cancel our greatness a couple of times. I struggle with this. I take accountability for my mistakes (mostly) but not my successes because I focus on my negative traits thinking my mistakes cancel out my success. I have been thinking about this in a all new way and it's giving more patience with myself and other people. My boss always says "if you're not making mistakes, you're not learning anything!" Changed my world.

[@BuckysNeighbour]

THANK YOU KING!! This is so very important! For years i was so full of hate towards someone because of my own insecurities and jealousy, and in turn it made me into a very bitter and toxic person. Took me a long while to accept that my anger was misplaced and instead I should have focused my energy on my self confidence and just working on myself without comparing! Sadly however it was too late and i lost a person who was important to me, my bitterness over the years made her dislike me more and more. Although there was alot else to that bond, this part was my mistake and i own it. Despite losing that friendship i am still working on myself and healing those parts of me. I’ve never felt better! And this said person who was my friend, needs to learn this lesson too. She blamed me for everything wrong in her life, blamed me for her own decisions that i had absolutely no control over, and so forth… i wish her and everyone healing, i am doing my part. Btw I’ve missed some livestreams i miss you 😭 hope i can join the next one!

[@MonicaHasner]

I can attest to a real internal sense of peace of the mind, heart, and soul in practicing self accountability. I wonder if people know what and energy expense it is to anchor yourself in blaming others. Love the video and as always it speaks to my heart, mind and soul ... thank you.

[@shelleyandcritters841]

This! More please 😊

[@antidotearchive]

My role in some hate crime directed at me, and my family, has always been problematic. There are 2 particular areas where I’ve begun to make headway. Again. Note the Again. This is not the first rodeo. I want to write a memoir. I can’t accomplish that goal without self accountability. I like to rest at night and sleep. I can’t do that to the best of my ability without self accountability.

[@LadySpeechSankofa]

You got this my love. The entire universe has you.

[@naomibradfute3902]

Thank you! I always appreciate your words. I allowed past events to overtake my mind and spirit and failed at graduate school. I am going back and I would appreciate if you could about how this works, the steps of self-accountability. Maybe it looks different for different people, but I think some of it is universal.

[@LadySpeechSankofa]

You got this! And I can definitely do another video at some point about the how to in regards to self accountability.

[@icametomakecupcakes71]

Thanks!

[@roguewolf128]

I hope this video becomes an anthology, it's amazing and on point as usual. Also the moment I realized my parents were human beings with their own hang ups, a few things shifted mentally. Noticeably my mom's projected insecurities through capitalism and colonization. She was a smart woman, but didn't have tools or info to recognize it. I have my own body issues, but I sit and explore those feelings when they come up now and they don't come as often because I'm taking accountability for my own hang ups about my own body. I do slip up, but I recognize that I made a mistake and take the time to heal. This was an essay, my bad, lol

[@LadySpeechSankofa]

Thank you so much for this comment my dear, and for your support. I’m definitely gonna be speaking about this a lot more.

[@heathervanwinklehewlett9726]

❤😊