A Look Inside the INFJ Mind (Joe Goldberg) | MBTI memes

Ever wondered what it looks like inside the mind of an INFJ? I edited a video by highlighting the strongest features of the INFJ personality type.
INFJ toys with perspectives and considers how each person can look at the same thing differently. This enables them to see connections between things and grasp underlying meanings. INFJs make decisions based on ideas and theories that they form based on their own insights.
INFJ's are perfectionists with a vision, and they quite often tend to get disappointed in people. They want to have an impact on people in a way that creates harmony, supports emotional or physical needs, and improves the position of humanity.
➫ Characterization: Joe Goldberg's personality comes in ranking as an INFJ according to the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. He has a combination of strong morals, idealisms and a focus on the future. Joe is constantly reading other people. His small interests turn into unhealthy obsessions, with his attempts to interpret the meanings and connections of others behaviors so that he can use this information to his advantage. He also lives in a dream world of fantasy and idealism. He wants to make the world a better place. Joe’s logical trait is what essentially keeps him out of trouble.
The INFJ adapts more to a world of abstract possibilities and perspectives than to a specific world of details and experiences. They can struggle to stay focused on the present moment. INFJs may read so much into things that they lose track of what’s on the surface. If you are an INFJ you might be imagining how an event will play out in ten years and become blind to what’s happening right in front of you.
Movie: You (TV Series 2018- )
Character: Joe Goldberg (INFJ - 4w5)
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The 16 Personalities of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator are: INFJ, INTJ, INFP, ISFP, INTP, ISTP, ISFJ, ISTJ, ENFP, ENTP, ESTP, ESFP, ENTJ, ESTJ, ENFJ, ESFJ
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[@aniza4471]

As an infj I can confirm I have a sarcastic-comedic internal monologue going on 24/7

[@SnookyDre]

Facts 😂

[@ryanp9441]

So tru.

[@randomgaygirl]

100%

[@francovincenzino3102]

Same

[@angelaengle12]

Saaaaaaame. I can't even stop it either.

[@ByHisGrace443]

The quiet stare is so relatable. Its caring for people and trying to be good for them, but at the same time absolutely disliking their BS.

[@_sleepdeprived_]

This!!!

[@dbboy2133]

YES!

[@laefe91]

Yes xD

[@GrafinVonHopper]

O que é "BS"?

[@ByHisGrace443]

@@GrafinVonHopper bobagem ou apenas cocô de touro

[@veen950]

I can't stop smiling 'cause this is like he's literally speaking in his mind like I do,, Judging everyone inside, swearing and just had a best conversation all alone

[@Shahzad-ss1jq]

Best conversations are with myself because I won't judge myself That often

[@nnastasys8082]

Omg yes

[@kamikazefu-2364]

So INFJs are INTJs , but unlike INTJs they don't actually say what they think .

[@starsaligneddino]

Basically yeah

[@gogocreep681]

That's exactly what I thought

[@wienzard36]

exactly.

[@Himeko-wv7fu]

Ti vs Te

[@starsaligneddino]

@@Himeko-wv7fu bingo

[@carolinediaz4834]

no matter how shitty and creepy joe is, his inner monologue was the funniest thing in season 1 and 2

[@giftshezi198]

It is hey😅🤣

[@milkyway_939]

Come on, he had no choice

[@trishawallingsford4146]

What show?

[@milkyway_939]

@@trishawallingsford4146 are you new here?

[@nmercenary]

@@trishawallingsford4146 the show is called “You”. It’s on netflix. I haven’t kept up with it buuut season 1 for sure was an excellent season. I hope you enjoy. Don’t mind the people that ask if you’re serious. I’ve missed out on a lot of big shows and movies that i didn’t watch until years later.

[@hibaammar7954]

" who's protecting her " no that's not my problem " THE BIGGEST INFJ MOMENT THAT I SUFFER FROM ALL THE TIME

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

YEEEE!

[@anastasiyalvovskaya3673]

This 🙌🏻

[@sagemaster1357]

So how are you today? INFJ: (I am not fine, my head hurts, and I feel like I'm getting closer to death each minute) INFJ: I'm Fine :)

[@Shahzad-ss1jq]

My normal conversation

[@JJ-APF]

Uh, wrong. We never say “fine”, too many implications.

[@fighterrrx]

@@JJ-APF True. I feel like "not bad" or "OK" are more common. If we're feeling mysterious we just smile and shrug.

[@nh-ko9sp]

When I’m around girls I say- “I’m so amazing” in a fun way and when I’m around guys I just say “yeah I’m good” in a, life is fine kinda way

[@nh-ko9sp]

Because people are always saying that when girls are upset they say I’m fine so I just avoid saying “ im fine” because then people are gonna think im trying to hint at something

[@redsky3696]

arghhh, as an INFJ,... i feel like this is totally..like "stop it !everyone hear our monologue" .

[@mbtishots]

You are right. I'm starting to regret uploading this video 😅

[@grazynawolska8160]

@@mbtishots no! Expose 'em! EXPOSE ALL OF THEM!! Hehehehehehehe -intj ;)

[@sparklenights5421]

@@grazynawolska8160 lets expose intj next time :D hihi

[@grazynawolska8160]

Lol totally cool with that :) we bluntly say what we think anyways, social harmony be damned! hehehehe 😉 -intj

[@redsky3696]

@@grazynawolska8160 INFJ & INTJ 👑 + 👑 🌟

[@smbyna4660]

"People, people are predictable, I can't afford to be predictable, my life depends on that"

[@CaptainJeanLucPicard]

😊 Don't go around exposing us like this

[@soraya101]

the moment someone predicts something id do, i start freaking out

[@grazynawolska8160]

INFJ's judgey and manipulative side coming through

[@thekatigaming]

I cracked up so much. I feel Joe on his last line, "we the species deserve to go extinct". I love being an INFJ 🤣

[@VixenValori]

the real definition of a dark infj 💀

[@newself3180]

"Home sweet prison" is the most relatable sentence ever.

[@imaneiso1688]

Soo damn true 😂

[@jamjam0409]

Usually, I try to be compassionate with people. I only become like this when I'm very tired, stressed or I had a very bad day.

[@z.2891]

same.

[@SirMo]

Same. Joe I believe in this show (I only watched a few episodes) is not a healthy INFJ. He's a bit of a sick puppy. We all have that side but we don't act on it, and we usually come up with excuses for people rather than solely judging them.

[@jamjam0409]

@@SirMo For sure. From what I know he is a serial killer.

[@SpotlessMind871]

Good to know, it honestly sounds exhausting to be like this 24/7

[@jamjam0409]

@@SpotlessMind871 Yeah. We know he was a psycho but here it looks like some extreme Ni-Ti loop.

[@cssndrrr4257]

"If I leave, they would talk about me." THAT'S SO FREAKING RELATABLE. I'M ALSO AN INFJ SO...

[@alizeee7077]

As an Infj myself I feel so related to joe not the killing ofc I mean the stare, always predicting, reading people, self talking, being a-hole inside & angel on outside yup his character is definitely Infj

[@user-ov7fg9hu6h]

Joe's inner monologue is so accurate, that sometimes I can even predict and figure out what his next move is going to be.

[@sweetambary]

Do all the Infj maintain the internal dialogue? I do it when I do daily activities, but not when I'm around people, they distract me.

[@peekInsideThisHellOfMine]

Am either isfj infj or intp. Once have a personality test say "unclear" and my internal dialogue is just as you have explained yours except when am blank and staring into the void.

[@kk3326]

Sometimes i got distracted by my own thoughts when im around people so i just pretend i was listening to them

[@annewithane1100]

24/7 baby. Even in my sleep

[@dragonmark9092]

I'm an INFJ, and yes, I am in my head the whole time, I act interested around others, but I'm really only half paying attention.

[@cappuccinogoodfinger]

Not as much as I used to during my teenage/early 20s... but it still occurs sometimes when I’m alone...

[@sad_af3306]

As an INFJ, Joe's my favorite character

[@JJ-APF]

As an INFJ I can attest this entire series would be me in a bad mood or depressed. Watch it? nah, I’m good.

[@backyardanimals777]

it's too dark, and INFJ's are very bright when others are absent

[@morgancongedo4107]

As an INFJ I do confirmed we constantly talk with ourself in our head, but this hateful talk is only reserved to people we can't stand, with people I care about it's more like "why?" not "why are you so stupid and dumb?" The quote at 7:34 is the most relatable for me, I always say that in my head and girlfriend

[@shannon1242]

I was just thinking about that part when he was going Why do women subject themselves to ( blah blah blah) when my mind would just be "Whyyy?" but with a lot of specific meaning to that particular Why that is instant.

[@morgancongedo4107]

@@shannon1242 exactly, it's like to have a mind into our mind

[@sararaquelfdcp]

Agree

[@ruatfelachhakchhuak7823]

We infj are so judge and good at predicting that we think others do the same to us, so we try to impress others everytime

[@Ayesha_F]

Word

[@fadthetic]

The reason I'm binge watching 'You' is because he's an INFJ

[@realxenice]

as an INFJ myself,this is actually very relatable bc all the time i just staring,looking around and just talking inside my head. its kinda fun tbh

[@nh-ko9sp]

Same this is how I entertain myself

[@DinoTamer-22]

Same and then later I forget if I actually said something or just said it in my head. Hard to keep track sometimes.

[@vonn2221]

And people "think" we are quite isnt? If they heard what we talk in our mind, they probably get seizure

[@DeeDeex007o]

@@vonn2221 🤣🤣🤣

[@Lenyxx3]

As an INTP, I thoroughly enjoyed this. Also, I noticed that Joe’s problem might be that he surrounds himself with too many extroverts.

[@kyurei4478]

This is the most accurate depiction of INFJ I've ever seen.

[@kelseybrown9593]

Hahaha my husband can't watch this show with me anymore. As an infj, watching it I was like "yes joe yes that's right you're right she's gotta go it's a tough call but if we going darks that's what's gotta be done.". And my husband was like "I don't wanna watch this anymore".

[@grazynawolska8160]

He can't process your dark side

[@ghostsheet777]

🤣

[@yoongoongi4349]

haha i'm watching it with my isfj boyfriend and i'm proud that he's siding with the infj murderer. a few times he questioned his motives and i was like "oh it's an infj thing. we are blind to our own faults but crucify other people for doing the same things and falling short of our own standards. it's an issue." it's fun seeing how horrible i really am.

[@grazynawolska8160]

@@yoongoongi4349 lol you being so real is amazing. We all suck a little bit. It's what makes us human... -intj

[@yoongoongi4349]

@@grazynawolska8160 aw thanks. we are truly terrible. but also great at the same time.

[@Kennedy_77441]

this is honestly how I get when I am super irritable or tired or stressed/just generally mentally unwell, not the violent stuff obviously but just having cynical or rude thoughts and assumptions about people and I have to sort of reel myself back in at that point and try to assess why I am being so negative. I try to see the best in people and of course nobody is perfect but if you get stuck in a thought cycle like that it is hard to enjoy anything at all, it's okay to loosen up a bit

[@zorleone]

As an INTJ I can proudly confirm that I have conversations and internal monologues in my head.

[@Brenna_Ellie]

Same

[@robertwestbrook8865]

Okay.....I'm so glad I'm not the only I NFJ that watched YOU and literally didn't know what to say because it was as if someone was listening to my mind. Yes... even the murderous demented infatuation stuff!

[@di380]

INFJs are definitely observers 🤣🤣🤣

[@randomgaygirl]

his inner monologue makes him even more attractive.

[@kikiteu]

The inner self talk is soooo realatable i swear- also the things he was saying was on point.

[@dreamin_between]

INFJ common problem 'shit that wasn't a joke, say something anything '.

[@robertwestbrook8865]

I made the mistake of getting drunk and stoned at the same time while I was going through some hard stuff once. Apparently my inner monolog and my thoughts began flowing without impedance and before the end of the night. I had lost a few friends, most never treated me the same after, and one that won't stop asking me to do it again.

[@netsardin4019]

7:11 Yes indeed! This is my usual daily internal conversation - INFJ P.S. and many more things from this video are very accurate. Thanks! Very cool video)

[@mbtishots]

Thanks 😄

[@netsardin4019]

@@mbtishots 😄

[@alexanderbuchler4048]

for real 💀

[@AnushkaBhattacharya710]

lol i get he is a psycho murderer but gotta say his inner thoughts monologues kinda made him relatable to me....like his thoughts make sense....most of the time

[@shachintheartist]

Mind Ni-Ti loop mostly happens in night 😅 The INFj is a detective of Emotions 😆

[@dwiputri9117]

I never been more connected to a character in a movie and he's being infj explained why. He's being natural stalker is creepy yet familiar with myself

[@jfinity_362]

I felt so violated watching Joe and his mindset. Literally mine when analyzing people

[@qiuzhang97]

He’s like an insidious version of my mind, one that’s chock filled with neuroticism, leaving me feeling very queasy

[@masterunknown6236]

Believe me, this is the closest that gets to my mind. And the thinking to talking ratio is PERFECT! Im into MBTI for more than 2 years and this is the best video SO FAR!!

[@alyssaalberto9143]

Joe is my spirit animal as an INFJ.

[@user-ij6py2zi9b]

Oh so you stalk your crush on social media (and real life) to learn more about them so you can analyze their behavior so you can manipulate them to love you and end them when they don't...? Me too!

[@blancheb3533]

Seems like a nice and decent person but secretly judgemental and manipulative. 100% infj

[@TheNobleChipmunk]

Everyone needs to keep in mind that the character Joe Goldberg may be an INFJ, but his Enneagram type 5 should be also taken into account. So before any of you start generalizing all INFJs, do your research.

[@CaptainJeanLucPicard]

Thank you for this . Type 5 here and INFJ A. So he is type 5? Good god save me .

[@TheNobleChipmunk]

@@CaptainJeanLucPicard You'll be fine, it don't mean you are a serial killer like him....not yet anyways. Everyone evolves differently.

[@VortexThePrime]

I appreciate that you included the Carl Jung reference lol. It truly has come full circle when he is referenced in something we're analyzing the cognitive functions of. 😆

[@LilacSnowBun]

I missed that. XD What was the reference??

[@VortexThePrime]

@@LilacSnowBun He asked Joe "Do you know if this Carl Jung book is gluten free?"

[@LilacSnowBun]

@@VortexThePrime XD amazing, thanks 😂

[@neshyaayu7158]

No wonder why I understand him so much -infj

[@1venom74]

That internal monologue is soo real!!

[@eebedebee8915]

Why does my kidney hurt fucking got me 😭

[@Ixarus6713]

When I was watching this I was like "i relate to Joe so much, except I'm not that dark." It makes sense that Love failed, she was too loud, too obvious, too impulsive. You need to be quiet, which Joe is. Even she doesn't know what he's really thinking. Also: "we as a species deserve to go extinct" 😂😂 too true sometimes, too true.

[@lagcrash4626]

Lol! His reactions when surrounded by extroverts.. so on point! 😂🤣😂🤣 I feel you man... Touche! 🤭🤭🤭

[@OhDarth]

1:54 "Why does my kidney hurt?" LITERALLY ME

[@saramasoudi5066]

4:40 "I know , i do my research"

[@CaptainJeanLucPicard]

That " kill me now, kill everything" when I am surrounded by people I am uncomfortable with....

[@user-rc8dg5kt8z]

I'm INTJ, pretty sure about that however I relate to Joe Goldberg's voice-over, the thing is I often say the things out loud , he doesn't.

[@kuromii2693]

That's a difference between an infj and an infj

[@marumow219]

both my old sis and old bro are INFJ, but this vibe is more like my old bro.

[@arelysarelys2515]

2:41 is spot on. Spot exposing us like that.

[@cptg00se]

I'm glad the internet exists.

[@killiansmith6349]

Reading people accurately up on first meeting, then stalking everything I can about them, forming a personality to accommodate is my speciality... Except I don't do the last part. I could but that's crazy lmao PS the heart shaped mistakes podcast, barf omg. -INFJ 4

[@janecenufer9097]

Idk anything about this show, but I was relieved to find out that this guy is psyco from the other comments. I totally have a somewhat snarky inner monologue, but it is not as dark as his. I promise the non-psyco INFJs don't hate you THAT much lol

[@CaptainJeanLucPicard]

Some people can literally pierce through our monologue inside our mind. I have hd some people ask me literally "what did you just say " when I did not even utter a word but just thought something of the said person in my mind.

[@jyothilakshmi369]

I like his facial expressions 😂 Stone faced doll

[@3_words]

It's crazy how i have this voice in my mind 24/7, and it's actually pretty funny

[@AjumentaDaTriboDeIssacar]

Years ago my boss told me that I was one in a million .as I replied: - well,I know I’m crazy . But that much ? And him : - You are one in a million because it is impossible to manipulate you into anything, but you manipulate everyone so gracefully and almost imperceptibly , and get even to toughest if person to do whatever you want that I can’t even find an answer to how you do that ! And I : - What do you mean I manipulate? I don’t manipulate anyone . That is so not accurate , and I’m absolutely sure that I am pretty soft and let people walk all over me . I have a hard time setting boundaries . And now I’m a one in a million manipulator ? How is that possible? ( I was genuinely confused and impressed by his commentary about me ) As he replied : - 💁🏻‍♀️ There you go .. Well, if you had a dark heart you would cause some serious damage , but thanks God you are not a bad person .. just a naturally talented weird being 🫠😂 So I left his ( in person chat ) looking at him with a mad face 😠 😭 ( I believe him to be an INFP ) we are good friends , although it is hard to grasp on his crazy ideais of how yoga can be connected to life in other planets and that Tesla came from Venus while him being a very smart electric engineer and dying his hair with different colors every week while being a responsible down to earth father and husband ( it is just two much random, unconnected activists and interests for my poor NI 🍑 to process. ( but I love INPF’s you guys are pure poetry ) So , yah .. to be an Infj is so weird and strange , fells like (sometimes) we play without even knowing how to play , and win the game by accident.. the how and why questions never ends …

[@cindydubs9082]

exactly how i think 24/7, but i just hide it pretty well hahahahaa

[@Brenna_Ellie]

I can relate to some of these thoughts even tho I’m an intj.

[@pandorabox5532]

0:32 Bold words from someone who impulsively ended up doing a lot of unnecessary and illegal stuff for "love"

[@salsabilashukeri628]

I think……..everything is so dmn good! Me(infj) : just lack of feeling

[@tikerlivvy1582]

That´s my Infj brain, when i don´t wanna take §hit from anyone. This mood approximately lasts for 5-10 minutes...

[@JN-dj5xh]

I can relate to him on so many things

[@HisameArtwork]

and ppl say Daenerys Targaryen and Albus Dumbledore aren't infj. hah! I'm an INTJ and I know what you guys are up to. XD

[@giftshezi198]

Yeah act like hero like a savior knowing that's the only way to gather strength in battle to manipulate them to the bigger picture they can't see.

[@HisameArtwork]

​@@giftshezi198 well as long as it's not for something evil I'm on board. Thing is it's very hard to tell with them and evil is debatable especially by them. My lil sis is an INFJ and seems like the sweetest person but when I found out her fave game is Hitman, I was like, yep, pure INFJ right there. Also I suspect my husband is INFJ cuz he can be soooooooo convincing with his logical arguments and appeal to emotion, I haven't seen anyone resist his chams once he sets his sights on something.

[@giftshezi198]

@@HisameArtworkYes evil is debatable there can be good in evil as well. We INFJ like weird evil characters. Low key your husband is dangerous 😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@c.s.70]

@@giftshezi198 Makes sense, INFJ understand complex deep psychology.

[@shortreelproductions]

The perfect personification of an INFJ. And Amy from Gone Girl is one too.

[@robertwoods5169]

If I'm not always stuck in my own world thinking politically this is the kind of thing that's always going on in my head. I swear I feel better when this sort of monolog is going on than when I'm being consumed by my obsession with politics.

[@editorjeannie2318]

That was fun now I need to check out the show

[@themakuachronicles]

Why do I feel so….seen .. 😅and noticeably bothered after investing so much effort in just blending in with the background and scenery to avoid… being seen as much as possible lol

[@stay_eeek]

Now I'm trying to voice out what I really think, so my mind won't kill me when I feel like bottling up my feelings.

[@mimikamanda4346]

"Check it comrade" "Well it's a script" Soooooo me 😅😂😂😂

[@champagnefadre]

I never thought I’d find myself relating this much to joe

[@grumpyschnauzer]

Spot on! 😅 oh wait… 😢 and I live in a non-superficial area of LA. “See, this is me living without you…” “A quiet guy who just wants to live a quiet life.” Man, we are quite judgmental though.

[@lucieoliviera314]

This video just makes me want to film a crossover of You and Fleabag

[@annabelle3762]

God damn it the internal monologue 🤣🤣

[@dondonini137]

so, this is why I sometimes shift back to INTJ they're too similar 😂

[@jacobandersen6075]

I think this video does a good job at portraying why I hate being an INFJ.

[@tatjm7454]

Wow I haven't watched this show but suddenly I want to see it. I can relate to this dude. Inner self dialogue is one of my things

[@Snowball_Butterfly]

INFJ the movie

[@grazynawolska8160]

Lol "INFJ, the TV show" you mean.

[@Snowball_Butterfly]

@@grazynawolska8160 I don't see it as tv series.

[@morganjeffrey3774]

Unhealthy INFJ

[@Snowball_Butterfly]

@@morganjeffrey3774 the movie

[@angelaengle12]

OMG! I can't breathe! This is hilariously accurate! x'D

[@jelmerskalleberg6987]

I’m just dying !! ENFJ my self , I relate to this a lot but the Fe is totally in the way to be in the Ni world, addicted to the Fe standards of giving everyone a good experience, pulling me away from my Ni vision and the one who really deserve a good experiences / Shame of a prideful person!

[@jenniferfrances8793]

This is why I love Joe lol 😂

[@amadeobagacay2202]

what i really do like about joe goldberg on this character.. he really characterize the whole infj. thats why im really hook into this tv show. so mee.. infj is totally depressing.

[@Jay-vr1mz]

Relate to this so much especially when in a bad mood but i always catch myself answering back to my remarks with frustration like "no man come on dont say that stop being a dick!"

[@kikikatz4002]

Literally the line in my mind: 8:07 and that 'kill me' line. (Infj)

[@Jaymastia]

I knew it. I knew it. Infj joe

[@sandalidahanayake4972]

the accuracy 😂💯

[@yourmissright7]

that last line is relatable af

[@bvniermann5859]

Great Movie 😉📽👌

[@nataliemacias5713]

I was with my friend on vacation and she kept pointing out when I’d make sarcastic comments playfully…. I have to say I knew I was sarcastic but not that sarcastic. So as a INFJ I can say this is pretty spot on.

[@kelimutscheller1960]

Evidently this is a show I need to get into

[@syedarubina1741]

i definitely have this weird monologue going around in my head 24/7... with all kind of colorful swear words.. and i don't even use them in my day-to day vocabulary cuz you know.. I'm the "kind and cool/calm" girl in my group (is that even group at this point.? whatever) :/

[@jon4254]

Finally, this may be bad but I relate to him a lot

[@waywardmagician]

As an INXJ, I conform. I do have inner monologues and think things that I know I will never say out loud. No wonder I related to Joe in the series so much.