"A Lot Of Guys Are Scared To Date Black Women" - BKCHAT LDN: S6 EPISODE 13

[@ruthiee8344]

These adults aren’t adult enough to have this conversation…

[@Gchild2k6]

Madam, clap for yourself. Your Dad go dey proud oh

[@lilyagyeman]

Honestly bc this would have been a interesting topic

[@matthewprince9705]

You need an O.G. Uncle or tough Auntie in the room that the men and women fear to moderate. Without moderation from an elder the whole thing is pointless, as young Blacks can't behave... 🙄

[@clientele732]

They’re not even having the conversation bc the whole first half of the video they talked about average person when the question was CLEARLY about men of status.

[@wazamanikurudi9649]

I agree 100% this non productive conversation should be held by more emotionally informed individuals.

[@batzar1238]

The fact that the term colorism came up in the last 4 minutes is wild

[@axa5005]

the girl in the brown tried to bring it up earlier in the episode but her mic was turned down when she made the comment.

[@master-of-mind5881]

What the hell is colourism?

[@1212CSmith]

Ironically, the most manly "woman" on the panel called MObama a man.

[@Tuminse05]

@@master-of-mind5881a discrimination towards darker skin people in every ethnic group

[@master-of-mind5881]

@@Tuminse05 👍🏿

[@rachyyadyy]

that girl calling michelle obama a man when loyce brought her up was nasty af. confidently perpetuating misognoir as a ‘fully black’ woman is crazy.

[@teedasawaneh471]

I’m utterly disgusted by her comment. Her man was the president of the United States. Who’s her man?

[@onlineonlineaccount2368]

@rachyyadyy..always misogynoir this and that ...some new fancy faux-french term.

[@rachyyadyy]

@@onlineonlineaccount2368 nothing new or ‘fancy’ about a term that has been used since 2008. if you’re uneducated just say that.

[@Gchild2k6]

There is sufficient evidence that she is a man. Even Barack slipped up and called her Michael. Do oyur research.

[@eikichionizuka2206]

Michael is actually a man

[@percepticyte4022]

Saying systemic racism doesn’t exist because you can work hard and still get the job is stupid

[@clientele732]

Especially bc the conversation wasn’t about jobs…it was about aesthetics

[@adebayoadeniran6675]

ashleigh is delusional, she'll be alright still.. 😂

[@TwinCitysFinest]

Slave minded ppl always seem to get systematic racism confused with confidence & equal opportunity 😂😂! Bih thought she was spittin some game or somethin LMFAO 😂!

[@Nonso-x7y]

It doesn’t exist

[@Lily-xo-xo]

As a black platform, with a predominately black audience knowing what has been happening e.g. with Shxtsandgigs podcast. Why would you have a debate on this tired, boring, degrading topic? Even the title of this video "A Lot Of Guys Are Scared To Date Black Women" - Do better, you're a black platform and you have a debate about black women and by the title alone you know what you're doing, of all topics you could debate why this topic? Especially knowing what has been happening on social media. Instead of having a debate about societal beauty standards about black women and black people as a whole. A whole debate about black women, people do not leave black women alone....

[@madamluis2537]

It’s the truth though. Why not talk about something that’s literally being discussed all the time 😂

[@ramlawodhr7721]

What’s been happening with shxtsandgigs podcast?

[@Renee-pv2iz]

The timing of posting this is so ironic

[@ampungi1]

@@madamluis2537it’s better that u hv this conversation with ur daughter and set her mind this way. It will be healthy for her. 🙄🙄they need to try this topic “WHAT RICH WHITE WOMEN DATE BLACK MEN AND MARRY THEM” 👀👀👀👀

[@Oyasavvi]

They want clicks even if it comes from rage bait not necessarily good notariety 😭 being from the US at first I really appreciated the topic scenarios and content matter bc I love animated lively in depth discussion. But if you’re looking for that amongst BLACK ppl of the diaspora then you might wanna frequent old Grapevine videos 🔥🔥real experts of culture who were opinionated and well informed and discussions stil got heated but w more decorum Whereas here I’m realizing a lot of the UK audience doesn’t appreciate BKChats as once before because the topics and way of thinking by some of the participants can be off putting and outdated. Ofc there’s always gotta be a FEW characters who stand to be character but chaiiii

[@letmecommentinpeace3187]

The little mixed girl is always talking about irrelevant stuff but getting onto the af guy

[@astroidroach1873]

Ngl she talks str8 💩 🤣😭😂

[@aleshasinclair8529]

@@letmecommentinpeace3187 most of them do and they never stay on topic ugh 😩

[@Zino600]

Shes a clown

[@simplyjamz6668]

It's because she's only 18/19, she's really not needed

[@letmecommentinpeace3187]

@@simplyjamz6668 at allll!!!

[@Theblaqueone716]

That young girl don't wanna hear about back in the day but she proudly yaps about roadman every episode in conversations that have nothing to do with roadman. She's a joke.

[@Zino600]

Single baby mum pending

[@sunishotra9958]

Cause that's who she's attracted to which is a bad move imo, but at that age you can't tell them anything they're gonna do what they want. She might be another one that learns the hard way, but i'm hoping she doesn't.

[@enosger]

She like roadkill

[@Femiforeign]

Well, shouldn’t be an excuse but in reality, the human brain ain’t really fully developed till 25, hence, expect her underdeveloped brain to speak ignorantly sometimes. Soon, she’d get to that age and look back at her actions with utter cringe.

[@FA9082]

Does anyone else find it HILARIOUS how the conversation is about how black women are difficult to deal with and then the girls on the show proceed to be incredibly difficult to deal with 😂

[@dakhariiballard9661]

This was such a unintelligent way to have a conversation lol. Folks spent 30 minutes arguing about shit that had nothing to do with the topic because of ego, 10 minutes was spent talking around the topic, and 5 minutes was spent actualy addressing the topic at hand (which is colorism and social stereotypes/preconceptions of black women).... Yall UK folks stay talking bout "let me land" but yall not even going to the right country, let alone the right airport.

[@empresstt8731]

The young girl i swear just talks for talking sakes 😂😂😂 you like roadman we get it. Bless her heart

[@Michiboo77]

😂

[@axa5005]

she begs to talk and then what comes out of her mouth is just a complete waste of time.

[@Rezentful06]

🤣

[@jasonhaven7170]

which one?

[@Congolesegirl_243]

@@jasonhaven7170 I think they meant the light skin women 😂

[@suavemente4039]

liah begs to talk but then adds nothing to any of the points i cant😭😭😭😭

[@makailaangela1873]

literally idk why she’s on this

[@usethis4511]

OMFGGG as a black woman I am Exausted!!! Why must we be talked about 25/8 like GOOOOOO AWAAAAAAAYYYYYYY

[@yvmt1728]

Cos they make themselves seen and heard 25/8

[@r.mcr1]

@@yvmt1728not all just these london hoodrat blacks

[@MelodyDovour-ib6ft]

25/8 doesn't exist

[@r.mcr1]

@@MelodyDovour-ib6ft thanks sherlock

[@SipLikeKermit]

i think it’s bc a question was asked by another black woman?

[@dovemendez3132]

Black men and self hate runs so deep it’s no longer sad it’s a tale as old as time…

[@SohBee]

"Me no Black papi" talking about self hate 🤣

[@starsoftheworld5150]

You’re a black man yourself so what are you trying to say ?

[@olanosergio]

I keep hearing this term, self hate. What does it mean exactly.

[@elianie18]

@@olanosergio meaning you dont love your image first of all. therefore mixing with lighter skin to continue your gene in a diferent shade. no self preservation

[@lordraven]

very true but the @blackbetterment is working on a solution

[@sarahlala5787]

Loyce is so mature and put together. I also like Ashley, I wouldn't exactly say she's mature, but she can defo have a conversation without shouting and wanting a fight. if we had more people like them in the panel then perhaps the questions would get answered.

[@niajones5881]

THIS IS THE PROBLEM!! They get immature ppl on the panel and sometimes even the questions they ask is immature it’s so frustrating. Why can’t they have a debate panel without any arguments it makes the show hard to watch.

[@michael43567]

To black women, embrace your natural features & have pride. Yes some black men date out, but it's still plenty of us that want black women

[@MeschacMbuyambo]

True

[@onlineonlineaccount2368]

@michael43567....Bro but if they date out ...i bet you they don't write a whole comment like this for you. Many bw have anti-bm sentiments you better wake and smell the coffee bro. I say this in good will to you.

[@iaintmadatcha]

Preach! That fake & blonde hair does my nut in SMH

[@DennisMacharia-gi9ts]

Self hate is a generational curse, it's God's plan 🙏 powers above us.

[@iaintmadatcha]

@@michael43567 Isaiah 3:16 is deep

[@KingdomofKinship]

“Getting moved to” isn’t a metric on anything. Most men move to anything. We are thinking about sex all day.

[@A_S996]

Soooo many women think it's an achievement to be moved to

[@michael43567]

Well said

[@Ohthatgirllaho]

Gabz wrapped up amazingly. The people on the panel don't understand his ability to tap into different prospectives and articulate these ideologies in order to answer the question given. He analyses things so well even if you don't agree with him, you cant say he doesn't make sense.

[@LightsCamera-j7g]

His of a different yolk in terms of his maturity, mindset and logic his just watching them most time would have been a better fit with old cast members like Lucas, Esther & co

[@Ohthatgirllaho]

@@LightsCamera-j7g100% he deserves on OG seat!!!!! Him and gogo top tier!!!

[@Gchild2k6]

Gabz was simping and was terrible. You females don't know shiz. What he said placated your insecurities helping y'all avoid accountable but he was utterly wrong as was ashleigh. If the men were useless what does that make the many females that not only picked them but procreated with them? What worse than very very useless?? lol This is so sad to see so many black female [women in general too] that just lost. Faddaaa...mind don scatta well well.

[@michael43567]

Step 1 is to stop caring about celebrities

[@RoderickSpode]

Facts

[@Megantheepainter]

That Michelle Obama comment at the end really wrapped up what type of damage colorism and the Internet has done to peoples minds. Sad.

[@EmyIbifik]

And the female propagating the nonsense is the one that actually do look like a man .

[@terrig2222]

Her only contribution to the panel was putting down a successful black woman.

[@Megantheepainter]

@@terrig2222 that part. Like she had nothing to add, but some accusatory, racist bullshit

[@liyaha5173]

She really had to nerve to say it twice, especially when she looks like that

[@Crukren89]

People forget how spiteful women can be to each other. The fact she chose to attack Michelle Obama lets me know what type of person she is. Can't build with someone like that hating on a BLACK WOMAN with class and dignity. She's a disgrace.

[@denzilatkin6459]

Can’t lie Ashleigh was speaking facts 💯 she held her composure and still got the point across

[@samueljallah9350]

Why would you let an immature kid on the show?

[@jr5296]

Which one?

[@samueljallah9350]

@@jr5296 the young girl that keeps interrupting and says stupid things

[@ejmx8085]

@@jr5296the one in blue

[@hilaryosei9408]

Yhhhhy ​@@ejmx8085

[@RoderickSpode]

You mean the Mixed-Race girl. ​@@samueljallah9350

[@draedogglawson]

6:49 King Richez "I Can't Get Offended" 5 seconds later King Richez "What Did You Say?!?!?!?!

[@empresstt8731]

@@draedogglawson 🤣🤣

[@annonymous7375]

That shii was too funny 🤣🤣

[@betterfad3d]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@grace.4481]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TheEsemert]

😂😂😂 .. he went straight to insults. I can't!!

[@NrdStreetSaint]

It's crazy cause Dami actually raises some good points - it's the delivery that people don't take seriously 😔

[@BlackJackOfAllTrades1]

Richez is insecure asf, donny thinks he's bad but he's out here pressing girls but left the room when Chyna got up in his face and was bare quiet for the rest of the episode. People like him get humbled sooner or later

[@prettylittleliarsforever5902]

!!!

[@brucepower3429]

I used to follow him but he changed when he got "big" with JPT he did fall back to where he is now but every episode i watch he talks over people and he has this issue that he constantly wants to prove that he is tough. - It's disappointing

[@KingRichez]

@@BlackJackOfAllTrades1 lies

[@GuyDJFBGT]

I watched that back they asked him to leave? Big difference.

[@aaronbutler2541]

@@brucepower3429he changed when he got new teeth

[@caiy]

ashley clocked him ngl

[@Bblizzyyt]

Everyone likes to beef Ashley especially certain MEN and it irks them becuase she acts calm and composed

[@aleshasinclair8529]

@@caiy she did because he was acting like a 🦝 and got called out now like she said he wants to backtrack

[@KingRichez]

@@aleshasinclair8529wow how exactly? People love talking crap 💩

[@aleshasinclair8529]

@@KingRichez king because the things that you said in the past on your show and pearly show it’s just the vibes I got I could be wrong 🙃🙃

[@khoshalpashtoonmal1845]

@richez Ashley can’t take your views and opinions that actually correlate with known facts based of studies. U ain’t doing nothing wrong stand ur ground and watch the 🐀 come out their shells

[@Nevergnnanoe]

‘King’ Richez is always arguing and threatening women.

[@blackyout7824]

They came at him

[@OrichiMaru-ir5uq]

​​@@blackyout7824 That doesn't count to them, they have no problem infantilizing themselves up to the point of totally dehumanizing themselves just to get a " point" across.

[@leonkilbury3754]

They started it though. Stop simping

[@Nottinghamfinest]

A man has the right to defend himself from a woman verbally

[@Yahashuaskid]

The most ironic thing is that the 2 darkest women are the prettiest- Loyce and the girl with her hair in a bun top 😂😂😂😂 personally darker women are more striking, go argue with your mum 😂😂😂😂

[@BlackJackOfAllTrades1]

FACTS !!!

[@Yahashuaskid]

@@BlackJackOfAllTrades1 yup!

[@martheefekele9145]

Facts

[@stoleethatsme]

lies. the one with the blonde is not actually attractive. a BUCKET of makeup and still looks like an odd bird with funny shaped breast. the other girl yes, but not the blonde top one. her disposition isnt attractive nor her physical. in the confession she has on less eye makeup but still alot and you can see her face even better and its not hitting

[@iaintmadatcha]

No lies told

[@Dareallesley1]

The girl in brown should have calmed down. She started it. Don’t get upset when he responds

[@KingRichez]

Exactly

[@Sh8kS]

And thats the issue, the group shouldve called her out for starting it

[@tm_yt496]

He continued it and made it worse😂 if anything she got way more slack than him(not watched the whole vid yet)

[@RoderickSpode]

@Dareallesley1 Aparrently, she had tits surgery and a bbl and yet, she still look busted. Yet, she thinks some Black Premier league footballer, is going to pick her?

[@SophiaTell-HelpsAll]

When it comes to labeling someone as "ugly," I struggle to understand what gives anyone the authority to decide what is or isn’t considered beautiful. We are all part of a wonderfully diverse group of individuals, each with unique quirks, passions, and behaviors. This diversity is what makes the world so vibrant and extraordinary. No one has the right to diminish another person based on something as subjective as appearance. It’s a shallow perspective that often serves no purpose other than to inflate the ego of the person making the judgment, as if they have placed themselves on a pedestal as the ultimate arbiter of beauty. This mindset is neither uplifting nor constructive; it isolates and belittles individuals based on narrow and self-serving views. I do, however, agree with one point: society has become overly fixated on idealized versions of beauty often portrayed by celebrities. These so-called "norms" fail to reflect the genuine, multifaceted beauty found in everyday people. For instance, there are countless happy and thriving relationships within African-origin communities and among individuals who celebrate their shared heritage. This is just one example of how beauty and connection transcend superficial judgments. True beauty lies in character, compassion, and the ability to uplift others-not in conforming to arbitrary societal standards. Let’s embrace and celebrate the diversity that makes us human.

[@chanel.d5082]

The red shirt guy gets triggered so easily lmao🤣🤣

[@Fx_LOKIAR]

Makes good content 😂

[@Jennifer-uh8th]

My Slavic boyfriend treats me like a queen, he pampers me, surprises me with gifts and trips, he treats my siblings like his siblings, he respects me and pushes me to become the better version of myself. I’m a Nigerian woman by the way. Ladies it’s time to date outside your race!

[@aaronb1226]

@@Jennifer-uh8th AND? 🫠

[@lucybunwa5833]

right!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@Zino600]

No one cares

[@GinjaFajr]

Go and live in Poland. Don't bring him to Africa. This is not a competition. We are happy with our circumcised, naturally athletic african men.

[@Gchild2k6]

Good luck to you. That slavic dude is doing us a favour.

[@JazIsAwsome2]

‘Michelle Obama is a man’ ?? That comment was very ironic compared to the topic

[@_Myra123_]

Yh that took me aback, and it shouldn’t have been skipped over like that

[@TwinCitysFinest]

Even if Michelle Obama was a man, she's still way more attractive than the person that put that out there 🤷🏾‍♂️. It's kinda sad actually lol 😆!

[@lreezy89]

Richez was on his reds this vid,Wasteman 😂😂

[@johnsmith9387]

Proper wasteman

[@KingRichez]

@@johnsmith9387😂😂😂 internet big mouth

[@KingRichez]

Internet big mouth

[@Thatiswhatitismadefor]

He really is a weird male. Self hate issues strong with the riches guy

[@nexxanor-1059]

Taking my pfp smh

[@betterfad3d]

Why is richez getting so mad at a woman like this 😭😭😭

[@Laurennnx8]

U get 😂😂

[@srv1183]

She came for him out the blue?

[@betterfad3d]

@@srv1183 lol you ain’t get my question

[@stoleethatsme]

dshe is rude, cuts people off, adds on crap that wasnt actually said, thinks she can tell someone their thoughts arent their own and while putting on that she is better than she actually is so cut the bull

[@thechosenone93]

Sso a person isnt allowedd to get angry at a woman?

[@erenjaeger9485]

Ashleigh is such a bird brain, just because YOU haven’t experienced discrimination as a black woman doesn’t minimise the statistical evidence and thousands years of black people being stepped over for opportunities despite qualifications. And to minimise a black man talking about his experience and say that it’s “excuses” and “self victimising” pfffttt absolute weirdo

[@Tommybotham]

Noone is scared to date Black Women.

[@onlineonlineaccount2368]

@Tommybotham...Many can by Cr**** though 😅 loco crazzy

[@siblingschannelyah9909]

black women were in the carribean? african usa or uk , black women are not all the same

[@onlineonlineaccount2368]

@@siblingschannelyah9909 Mostly American and Carribean. African ones are nice and calm unless they want emulate their american ''sisters'' with all that mean mugging, bad behavior and non-feminine attitutes.

[@windsurfer8824]

​@@siblingschannelyah9909Exactly

[@EsiriE]

Some non black men are 😂

[@luvmetenderly89]

Loyce - the most level headed woman on this podcast !!! Love her to bits man 😄❤

[@KBTheMillennial]

Loyce is leng, can’t lie!

[@Gchild2k6]

Not in her personality, mind or character where it matters. AVOID AT ALL COST.

[@KBTheMillennial]

@@Gchild2k6 I’m not naive, I don’t trust any woman. I don’t even care for ‘personality ‘ anymore, that can change like the weather. And I’m aware that she cheated on her ex husband. I’ve been there, done that and now have no interest in anything serious with a woman. But she looks nice, so I will give her that 🤷🏿 Appreciate the advice though 👊🏿

[@loycenagawa8638]

@@Gchild2k6it’s like someone paid you for a review! You did all that research for free? Damnnn

[@loycenagawa8638]

@@KBTheMillennialthank you for the compliments, let’s stay on the topic 😉🫶🏾

[@Gchild2k6]

@@KBTheMillennial well said except for give her compliment online. Online attention and likes is like a drug females are addicted that gasses their mind, allows them to created an over inflated ego of their worth and hence make bad decisions in reality. We should not encourage that in any way. No girl wearing makeup is nice. See her without all that fake face

[@Nadines_Devotions]

When you coming from watching a dope educated and brain stimulating panel to then watching this feels like you have just lost a brain cell 😂 😂 but I’m going to watch for entertainment not education 😂

[@diaryofbonike]

Real!!!!! 😂😂😂

[@aleshasinclair8529]

@@Nadines_Devotions facts

[@Michiboo77]

Thank youuuuuu!!!!!!

[@Tommybotham]

What brain stimulating panel did you watch?

[@GinjaFajr]

What did you watch before this??

[@michael43567]

Saka is the only high profile black player in the prem that I know of that is in a relationship with a black (dark skinned) woman. It's very noticeable that black/half black players overwhelmingly deal with non (fully) black women. The furthest they'll go is a half black woman

[@tm_yt496]

Eze Sterling idk anymore

[@michael43567]

@@tm_yt496 Sterling yes. Eze's wife looks to be mixed race. But yeah, kinda crazy how we can't even name 5 who have black partners

[@joehouston2833]

Ollie Watkins, Ezri Konsa, Marcus Rashford

[@michael43567]

​@@joehouston2833 Watkins girl is white, Rashford's girl is Hispanic (Afro Latina), and I literally couldn't find any image of Konsa's girl. Remember, I said "black (dark skinned) woman". So Rashford's girl wouldn't even count even though she can pass as black

[@Baraka-z9f]

Idk maybe it's me and only me but why as man are you worried about who other men are dating?? Five years ago that was a very female type of behavior. What changed??

[@doublem.kmasimbaashe1478]

The michelle obama comment is outta pocket bruv. Like common now

[@tm_yt496]

Yh that was crazy and it just got skipped over like what

[@prettylittleliarsforever5902]

I knoooo she’s not talking aswell

[@Steph-lc7hy]

People really believe it too

[@TwinCitysFinest]

That's the crazy part ​@@Steph-lc7hy smh 🤦🏾‍♂️!

[@apshiweda]

Just because you're the loudest, doesn't mean you're the smartest.

[@esthernwaoba4746]

9:05 this guy really popped off on her because of a comment she made. Fragile ego fr, sitting there arguing over fooling things and not even discussing the topic because she said something you didn't like? 😭 this man is emotional fr

[@jamilapalmer3451]

“We’re not going to save you, drown!” Had me weak 😂😂 I fucking love her!

[@MxrleyHD]

Black men are not scared they just don’t want to deal with the toxic behaviour back and forth constantly so they tend to go for women who have better attitude and are able to corporate with their program 💯🗣️

[@gloryosaodiahi9917]

🙄🤡🤮

[@willgggg900]

So you don't think us black men also have does issues ?

[@mrgrizzle6673]

"You cant handle a black woman, thats just what it is" is anyone suppose to "handle" their woman or man? Cah I thought in relationships, were suppose to be supportive, loving trustworthy, commincating etc. But handling? Leave that to the dog handlers

[@KingdomofKinship]

Which self respecting man would actually actively seek out a woman he has to “handle” furthermore how could you see such a woman who can’t hold herself accountable as your equal. Your self esteem has to be in the gutter.

[@JohnWonder00]

It’s acc rodonculous the mentalities of people 😂😂

[@mrbrown111]

💯

[@mrgrizzle6673]

@@JohnWonder00 fr g, seems like a form of simping as well

[@KNitro123]

Legit they think like this, say nonsense like this, then wonder why black people are beginning to date outside their own race

[@MugandeMuyoka]

This topic is tired. We need to do better and understand the way society has affected our group and how some separating factors and conversations have come about and remain in todays ideals and what needs to change. A lot of these views were very dated ngl, and a lot of them are not trying to move forward and defend black women and black love and relationships. I beg, can we do better. I've just finished this and I'm glad to hear the last 5 ish minutes of this. I'm glad they spoke about the FACTS of these damaging statements.

[@Gchild2k6]

You are lost and clueless and should go back to your father if you think moving forward is defending black females when they are a significant part of the problem. In order to move forward you must have intelligence to 1) identify the problem aka black females not in the feminine nature and disrespecting black me 2) state it openly and deplore such behaviour for being bad and not the optimal 3) Hold females accountable and push them to change for the better not sweep it under a rug to defend females like they are perfect. YOU CAN GET LOVE WITHOUT HONEST AND TRUTH. Given you females aversion to honest/truth, most of you do know what love is and cannot love. PS. Pushing black love is doing 1 - 3. THINK if you can

[@Fx_LOKIAR]

Our community will be better if black women actually sit down and listen because black men have been saying why they don’t go for black women but black women just insult them. If you really want the community to get better there has be better understanding between the two genders.

[@Gchild2k6]

@@Fx_LOKIAR Exactly. You cannot lead people who don't want to follow and think they should lead. Leave these black women to pass away alone. Focus on the younger females who have not yet been brainwashed as fathers and brothers to help them grow up with sense and traditional.

[@greigdavis5281]

Miss BBL don’t be throwing stones if you live in a glass house. Why you talking of his teeth when nothing on you is real. This type of hypocrisy is on another level🙌🏾

[@KingRichez]

Exactly 😂

[@khoshalpashtoonmal1845]

U can tell her BBL gone wrong why she still got a flabby belly? Ain’t they meant to take form the belly fat and love handles to put in they ass? She probably hasn’t walked in her life that belly is really pissing me off now 🥲

[@Rezentful06]

Facts 😂

[@certii_sagrizzy5614]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@wnttalk]

Such an unproductive conversation 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@dixieelliott6307]

This king rich guy is so embarrassing how can a whole grown man behave like this. He is so easily triggered all bark no bite!!!! I think he needs to try therapy. Seeing a black man like this makes me scared for any woman he dates : no self control at all - so disappointing to watch!!

[@KingRichez]

“No bite” we will see very soon

[@emmanuelsebalu6847]

@@KingRichezdo u do anything or touch any1 in future episodes about we will see lol clown

[@A2Zitolduso]

You need a life omg 😮​@@KingRichez

[@Sharon-xj1em]

@@KingRichezyou need to calm down you’re embarrassing

[@dixieelliott6307]

@@KingRichez really wasn’t saying it to be mean or encourage you to ‘Bite’ from the sound of your response.However some self awareness will go a long way! It’s not what you say it’s how you say it. The way in which you address your peers really doesn’t reflect well on you. You make valid points but are easily angered or moved. Practice being kind to yourself you don’t need to prove anything to anyone!!!

[@chanteldabrat9578]

why is queen richez so hostile towards women😂

[@davinatv5121]

LIKE?!?!

[@leonkilbury3754]

Says chantel the brat who hates men

[@ClassyGyal]

The light-skinned guy also needs to acknowledge that whilst Tom has leverage over him, he also has leverage over Gabz. I don't know what that lil anecdote was trying to prove but we as light skinned people also have a privilege in white society over our darker brothers and sisters.

[@SarahKnight-ii5ru]

Their hate u

[@Rzn.1027]

My girl threw Gabz under the bus 😂😂😂

[@richievu4055]

😂

[@Derikcarpenter]

He looks like P Diddy 😂😂😂

[@VocallyYours3]

I can’t believe that these are the adults who are apart of today’s society. I don’t know many black Americans who are more divided even here in the USA. 🇺🇸 I just pray for all of the kids who are born throughout these lifetime.🙅🏽‍♂️

[@SB-gs5oy]

This was not the group of men to be discussing this topic.

[@stoleethatsme]

neither were the majority of the women if thats the case

[@blackups__6554]

Your statement is already biased, because it assumes that the women were are acting right?

[@MyWilliam41]

​@blackups__6554 yeah they were acting out they were delusional and wrong and the dudes kept trying to give them a Damm soft landing all the dudes were weak punks and the women just wanted someone to agreed with what ever bad attitudes..

[@leonkilbury3754]

Oh be quiet

[@josephfong2003]

Ok, but can we admit that Gabz wrap-up speech was so inspiring and uplifting tho… literally made me teared up 😭❤

[@visualtube3d232]

“You didn’t have that energy for Chyna” I swear this girl has the memory of a goldfish🤣🤣, Richez confronted Chyna like three episodes ago.

[@KingRichez]

😂😂😂

[@VanessaViolet55]

It's not released in chronological order

[@tm_yt496]

tbf that was the first episode filmed bc the episodes are not uploaded in the same order that they are filmed

[@BlackJackOfAllTrades1]

"confronted him" but then left the room when shii was bout to get real and was moving shy for the rest of the episode ...🙃

[@jaypey8253]

@@BlackJackOfAllTrades1 he didnt leave, he wanted the smoke and to go outside, everybody begged him to leave and he left coz it wasnt his house, but he was down to throw hands

[@batzar1238]

Gabz point that as you progress in the industry, Black men need to find someone who fits their aesthetic, and that tends to be non-black women is crazy. Although it is a minority, you are still able to find successful men with black women, so it really is a testament to how much you value BW. If you really wanted a BW at your height of success, you would find them so this unadaptable narrative is void.

[@MeschacMbuyambo]

It's because white women look better

[@Gchild2k6]

Wrong. There are more successful black men than the few black females with the mindset and mannerism to accompany him. Problem is you females do not live in reality and think tons of females are good. Alot of you, your feminist and liberal mindsets are the complete opposite of the traditional and submissive mindset such a female would have. The white females tend to know their place and happy to play that support role without envy or trying to be equal/share the limelight. With few exceptions, the black females don't. Men are a very practical so we make a calculation, should we risk it with a black female hoping she will be that magical rainbow aka the few or go with a white female who has demonstrated from uni that she is that female. PS. The smart white females go to uni to find a husband, alot of you black females go to uni to get a degree so you can tell a man you don't need him. HA HA. SPOT THE DIFFERENCE.

[@thegrlsunny]

@@MeschacMbuyambo Savannah James? Coco Jones? Lauren London??

[@mlove8158]

@@MeschacMbuyambowhite men look better tbh

[@MeschacMbuyambo]

@@mlove8158 yeah right

[@shosho3166]

Jadon looks like them female Sikhs who have beards.

[@pgnextdoor]

😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dead

[@nraboltz1822]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nraboltz1822]

😂😂😂

[@ebbzkpobi9182]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 ahhh I thought I was the only one who clocked

[@dastargirl]

I’m crying yo😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@cmajor7388]

get king richez off the show deffo over 30 acting like 13 year old. cringeeeeee

[@KingRichez]

😂😂😂 hater

[@cmajor7388]

@@KingRichez i try lowe u every ep but u make it hard not to hate

[@KingRichez]

@@cmajor7388 oh please

[@Gchild2k6]

He needs to stay on the show as the only one with stats/living in reality in general not the subjective Smping of GABZ AND DAMI. Dangerous female raised weak boys that destroy the community.

[@Thatiswhatitismadefor]

@@KingRichezyou have very raccoon coconut vibes mate

[@civildiscourse7626]

37:51 - “I want a dark skin guy because I want to be the lighter one in the relationship” This is a common reason why some prefer dark skin men, it’s not that they find it more attractive necessarily, it’s that they feel insecure when with a lighter skin man.

[@monicaa8374]

It’s not common actually. Not an insecurity just consequences of colourism . Darkskins will think like that now after being impacted by colourism

[@jasonhaven7170]

Same with height

[@TheWondersOfInfinity]

This is no different to black men wanting lightskin women to be fair.

[@civildiscourse7626]

@@TheWondersOfInfinity what do you mean?

[@civildiscourse7626]

@@jasonhaven7170 yep, exactly.

[@fidaus540]

This guy said “the average black woman is unattractive “ . Most people are average so you’re basically saying the majority of black women are unattractive . How is he getting to spin this as I said most black women are average that’s not what u said . Nobody is twisting your words that’s literally what you said . Ashley is asking why you thought most black women are unattractive then and bro goes on a whole tangent about how he likes above average people. The self hate is real

[@stoleethatsme]

so what and the average black man is also unattractive. no spin needed. the average white guy is also unattractive and so on and so forth. cut the crying bs

[@KushQueen9]

😂😂 that's what I was laughing at. Unattractive and average are two completely different words. Pure gaslighting!!

[@1024sofia]

exactly... and then we have pick mes like Liah trying ti further justify

[@Shaniaa00]

We need mature adults like on jubilee how the adults are actually composed and can have an articulated conversation without threatening to beat each other up smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@jason38800]

bkchat uploading schedule all over the place

[@leatitiamairsx447]

@@jason38800 🤣🤣🤣

[@memyselfandi4841]

but u still watching

[@hush2911]

fr

[@4thTribeJudith]

That’s why I come back after a few months to a year. I’m just now catching up. Last season I watched was when that girl took her wig off lol… I can’t keep up with their schedule

[@jason38800]

@@memyselfandi4841what’s me watching got to do with my post. Do you have comprehensive issues uncle ?

[@maimunadjalo3376]

I have been watching backchat for years and this is the very first time I am going to comment. I apologize for this being a long paragraph. Trend central knew what they were doing with uploading this video knowing what is happening with shitsngigs. Currently, people are discussing the fact that black men fail to protect black women and I truly see this in this video. I believe that it is totally unacceptable having a grown man disrespecting another woman like that. How very sad to see that the women were telling the girl to net let him get under her skin, but how many men told king richez to just low it. If he acts this way publically towards a woman then I don’t know how he handles his disagreement with his partners behind closed doors. I just wish that the other men on the panel would have interrupted king richez way earlier in this fight. Another thing, the red pill community has put a focus on men “putting a woman in her place”. I just wish that men would understand that showing people how badly you can insult and scream at them, shows how unable you are to control your emotions when faced with a disagreement. Isn’t being stoic, rational and showing discernment what masculinity is all about? Then how come these men become the most emotional, loudest and rudest, all qualities they criticise, ridicule and villainize women for? Isn’t masculinity having a high conduct of oneself even in the most uncomfortable situations and doing so with integrity, respect and honour? Is this really how we want to show our community how we should speak to each other when we’re triggered? On the other hand, I do see how the girl shouldn’t have made the comment considering that she wasn’t even there. No man will feel comfortable with his “manhood”challenged like that. I do hardly believe that both of them are at fault. The woman failed to respect the man in this case. This situation is such a perfect example of what is wrong in our culture. There is a stigma on dark skin women, how they are. I do believe that a lot of women feel very hurt by their relationships and it that sadness and frustration comes out as anger. Black women who date outside their race are statistically happier than black women who date within their race. I think this clearly shows that black MEN & WOMEN need to reflect on their behavior and ask themselves how they contribute to this phenomenon. It is time that we collectively as a culture come together and finally talk about what we want to accept happening in our neighbourhoods. We need to start having real converstations about why BM struggle to give the attention, love and affection their women needs and BW need to ask themselves why they struggle being soft and vulnerable. We need to stop holding the other accountable for the mistakes done by another. Y’all please be respectful under the comments!!!!!!

[@aaronb1226]

👀🍿

[@tca3884]

whats going on with shitsngigs

[@r.mcr1]

aint nobody reading allat

[@miambiya3028]

@@r.mcr1well I sure did

[@MelodyDovour-ib6ft]

We aint read all that, essay/assignment.

[@rezlaso2742]

Never has there ever been a time in BkChat people talk normally and not argue or talk over others, so messy man 😂

[@erikax1940]

It’s a debate show

[@rezlaso2742]

@@erikax1940 so it makes it alright to constantly argue and shout over each other? Got you.

[@erikax1940]

@@rezlaso2742 kinda how a debate works

[@rezlaso2742]

@@erikax1940 lol ok Erika.

[@gstar6233]

Imagine black girl make that comment about Michelle Obama

[@mzmendoza1590]

Loyce and Ashley are Drop Dead Gorgeous 😍😍😍 that’s all 🫶🏽

[@SarahKnight-ii5ru]

So the mix race girls are pretty

[@Honeysmma]

So, Ashley is a subscriber of King Richez? Every episode bringing up his KZbin content….like 7 years ago come on ash 😭😭😭😭

[@r.mcr1]

shes tryna hold it mums😭

[@Honeysmma]

@@r.mcr1and she be miss quoting him she doesn’t listen to understand she listens to argue and I’m tired of dem being in the same episode because it’s coming as a vendetta

[@r.mcr1]

@@Honeysmma word bro she binge watches his videos from qway at yard, builds a whole 100 page long case against bro then comes back to waffle about things irrelevant to the topic. kinda funny tho😭

[@Honeysmma]

@@r.mcr1and the thing that pisses me off is she will say don’t get mad like why are u purposely saying things u know is going to cause a scene or set him off

[@aleshasinclair8529]

@@Honeysmma it shouldn’t set him off because it’s what he said 🙃🙃🙃

[@thegrlsunny]

Ashley is so smart, I love her.

[@Memeplex_Z]

They are not scared - they just don't want to put up with certain behaviour

[@Crukren89]

Ashleigh That whole segment that about how Black People move in " White spaces " is half cap because some of these companies (White Collar jobs) have Diversity inclusion quotas. Events is a whole different ball game and even artists to record label owners . Theres pathways into certain industries that are race gated. Early 90s DnB/Jungle was more black centric until White men got in there and race gated the genre.

[@keep3alini664]

I was thinking that cos i legit worked at a place that had a DEI quota to fulfill by 2025 lol. A lot of white collar is just diversity quotas rn i aint complaining but im not gonna act like i got these roles based on my merit. Merit/talent is quite irrelevant its simply whether they like you as a person hence why the most incompetent ppl be getting in high positons simply cos they are likeable

[@Crukren89]

@@keep3alini664 Yea fr. My sister got a management role mainly because of her personality mainly, the owner even told her lol that fact she is black made it even easier. Sisters in corporate aint no joke though

[@onlineonlineaccount2368]

@@Crukren89 So how did they ''race gated'' the genre then ? That means then that the blk djs/producers that created the genre never created the networks, logistics, economic and financial frameworks for it to be commercial. The WM saw that avenue like they see it with many things as usual. And blk folks just complain we see this patteren over and over again even with reggea and dancehall so then the question is what do brothers got to do be more attentive to build instead of sit on the sideline and be some posterchild of ''diversity and we are all the same'' because clearly WM don't see their own position that way. We always on a begging ting .....is tiredsome.

[@Crukren89]

@@onlineonlineaccount2368 I know bro its annoying for sure. Its been happening for decades. Literally someone i know from the House scene whos a black producer was talking about how his white promotor said he was doing " Too much "and started to get sidelined for gigs.

[@onlineonlineaccount2368]

@@Crukren89 See bro this is what i am talking about. Brothers always on the ''sideline''. House, UK garage, Drum n Bass etc. Brothers where at the forefront of all of this now if you go to techno/dance scene or festival its fully yte controlled ( from sponsers, brand deals, avenues etc. You see European DJs who just came to scene with some likkele dj set in the room....becomming millionaires while brothers from the UK who was doing this since the 90s still poor or getting old gigs here and there with oldheads...its just tiredsome bro. Its like brothers don't have that business savy and assertive mentality ...only when its about money/deals or showing how of rudeboy/tuff guy they are towards other brothers...but sushh as churchmouse when WM and Jws men are in the big seats of record labels, marketing agencies, commercial brand sponserships etc...

[@theukeconomist6518]

You're living in a majority white nation, therefore a white lady will always be the beauty standard in the UK. For example, a Chinese lady will be the beauty standard in China, an Arab in UAE, etc.

[@joehouston2833]

Demands where you at.. in London, white definitely isn't the beauty standard..

[@BlackJackOfAllTrades1]

Thats not true , China is affected by eurocentric standards hency why a lot of them get eye surgery to widen their eyes instead of embracing their natural eyes. In South Asia & Africa lighter skin is viewed as more attractive that's why skin bleaching is an issue in Africa. Eurocentrism has infiltrated every nation around the world

[@raregrimebeats1352]

@@joehouston2833what is the beauty standard in London?

[@theukeconomist6518]

@@raregrimebeats1352 It will still be a white lady as you measure data based on national statistics.

[@CeeceeH1819]

Actually the beauty standard in China is WHite!

[@mevsme7532]

That Gabz guy looks like Martin Lawrence 😂😂😂

[@mosaictwin]

With a hint of diddy

[@nublack4006]

Why do they always derail, the question is “A lot of guys are scared to date black women”

[@leatitiamairsx447]

I already KNOW this is going to be a veryyyyyy heated Topic 😂😂👏🏾

[@promisemaduako7191]

As always every week 😅😮😮 lol

[@leatitiamairsx447]

@@promisemaduako7191 This one is going to be a madness tho lool 😂

[@TalkupwidTee]

I saw the topic and I took a deep breathe 😂😂😂

[@aisha691]

Please liah doesn’t have the range. Don’t bring her back she’s too young.

[@sashal7812]

*whispers in Fuhad and James 💀

[@neeciiw7840]

Yep💯🤣

[@aleshasinclair8529]

@@sashal7812 🤣😂

[@KingRichez]

Wow 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@suicidal8020]

@@KingRichezyou look desperate in this comment section bruv be quiet

[@Yahashuaskid]

lol Fuhad and James are Loosers mate

[@jacklyneverage3881]

King Richez needs to calm down. He goes over the top with people. Also, he said very disgusting things about BW 7 years ago. He didn't mention anything about women, in general, he specifically isolated BW and only applied his views to BW. He compared BW to other racial groups of women and said we were the least attractive and said BM are the only group of men who have to overlook and ignore our faces to date us.

[@leonkilbury3754]

They came at him 1st relax.

[@tyvrdez5575]

Gabz must have a white baby mum 😂😂😂 he was pissed at what dami said

[@St.hush9]

Very exhausting how Ashleigh constantly feels the need to address her vendetta which is very much irrelevant and she is very passive aggressive.

[@monicaa8374]

No she’s not passive aggressive she articulated herself directly she’s good. She’s just trying to clarify things

[@St.hush9]

@@monicaa8374 no it comes across passive aggressive when in the side interviews she clearly presents a more vindictive and hostile demeanour to a vendetta clearly presented.

[@kissesfromangels]

that jordayn girl was actually headaching my head this episode. i was so close in just smashing my screen whenever she came on. talking about michele obama when she looks like…yh😅😅😅

[@paulokolo4905]

The problem with this show is They need more well mannered people with good communication skills and a high emotional intelligence. I watch this show and i don’t even see anybody talk for 30 seconds without being interrupted.

[@barb6725]

I mean it’s weird because they live these “spicy latinas” and honestly the obsession is sickening

[@jamz_2339]

i wouldn’t call it obsession

[@barb6725]

@@jamz_2339definitely an obsession

[@Chantss_xo]

Cos they take bullshit a black woman won't take.

[@Goldenxbih]

@@jamz_2339yes it is

[@tm_yt496]

Never in my life have I heard a guy say that😂

[@matteuspittmann2720]

There’s so much content that I have to remind myself that most people producing aren’t at peace. Fam who are at peace don’t need to make content.

[@Jaleel_HS]

ah yes. ive stumbled upon another episode of black men and women not being able to get it together.

[@Gchild2k6]

So sad yet we keep protraying it for likes, fews and some change. Hey, its the white man's faults for exposing and monetizing our dsyfunciton right? God help us.

[@vezokuhlemabuza2121]

When she said " He calls himself king but he doesn't think like a king." I thought that was funny because that's exactly how they think. No "king" is looking at an average women and thinking they are beautiful

[@Chantss_xo]

The look on they faces tells me it's gonna be a festive episode 🎉😂

[@jhussle1]

Especially Ashleigh

[@CelineBouwman]

That Richez guy lets anyone get to him, how’s he screaming and yapping at that girl when she ain’t even saying anything anymore. Every day beefing another member 😂

[@escobarmills6523]

In school/ 90s lightskin was the in thing that’s FACTS! Nothing to do with swag it was what it was dark skin has been shining in the 2000s

[@jhussle1]

I would say darkskins started winning in mid to late 2010s coz before 2018 light skins were still in

[@Mac-money507]

Smurf

[@slackerboy3003]

You shouldn't have to "handle" any woman lol. That's a problem in itself right there

[@T.H-v4h]

Sexually most of y’all can’t handle a black woman. We like bbc.

[@JenniGraz]

I think when you start shouting at each other, you lose the argument, and it's not a good look. Black women can adjust to any situation we hold our men up and inspire them to be the best. If a man feels that he has to go outside his race when he becomes a success, it says a lot about him

[@Gchild2k6]

Err err @JenniGraz Excuse me. Jayde blac is a black female and she did not adjust to be respectful and accept the honest she was given. She instead got loud, then roud, then threaten to thump him etc...Sounds like a woman holding and inspiring her black man to be his best right? Hey, its nice to be a female where reality does not matter. FADAAA, Where are your fathers..I beg oh

[@stoleethatsme]

that a damn lie and hell im a woman. many, not all, of the women do NOT adjust to a situation and are quick to call everything "disrespectful" and show their a$$ to so call defend themselves so just stop lying. also the women starting getting loud first

[@sirflexxx]

Every one of them girls showed why Successful black men often date outside their race, They don't want Women can blow up like that 🤔🤔🤔

[@smileyzt1641]

Every time Gabz, Dami or Richez speak I put it in 2x speed and it’s sooooo funnyyyyy 😂😂😂😂

[@khoshalpashtoonmal1845]

Ima try that 😂

[@Ghostpill1711]

Being “scared “ vs black women not being your preference are 2 completely different things

[@kc270352]

Africans vs Jamaicans, man brought me back to School days lmao 🤣

[@Pretty19991]

Where are the jamaicans?

[@LondonMoneyCashEnterprise]

Jamaicans are almost extinct it’s sad

[@BoDerek-t1s]

Why immigrate to the UK over Canada/us

[@leonkilbury3754]

Good old days

[@mp71001]

@@LondonMoneyCashEnterprise Not in Birmingham, Caribbeans are the vast majority of blacks in the midlands.

[@Dezzi150]

Why does that Ashleigh chick sound like Chris Eubank sr here 14:25 😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂

[@Antonioplus]

For real 😂😂😂

[@umutonimarie5075]

The guy in the red is on steroids. That is a roid rage 4 sure. Ladies, keep it calm because he lost it completely. What an insecurity...oef!

[@heavygass979]

the one on the far left is the only one who isnt argumentative af and is actually listening to both sides.

[@muntari82]

This Episode needed Chyna how can man go missing for such a Big Game

[@tm_yt496]

He had a suspension he will back next game

[@mynameischyna]

Bruh they didn’t appreciate me now they screaming where’s Chyna smh 🤦🏾‍♂️ the game ain’t sh* 😂

[@mynameischyna]

@@tm_yt496😂 yes coach

[@muntari82]

@@mynameischyna bro at least u have served ur 1 match suspension

[@mynameischyna]

@@muntari82 😂 red carded

[@briancasa1054]

I hate bulky tactics when people gathered together n go after one person who carries himself differently! He is right people are quick to react and slow to listen! This is the world we live in unfortunately! Also our biggest weakness as a black community is understanding we were taught to unconsciously hate each other! This is why it is so hard to come together n unify as one! Both men and women need to reflect on their behaviour mindset!