A man's abnormal obsession with his younger sister [Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.04.02]

[@kristylynn8831]

The girl looks so uncomfortable when he talks. I definitely don't have a good feeling about this.

[@elliotdella9196]

I know...I hope she is getting actual therapy instead of this show

[@Kimun888]

probably he got to stalker stage already, one day he will rape her if this continue ,so scary........

[@wheresdarice3988]

Oh sweet home Alabama is that man gonna rape his own sister?!

[@zenithAhsan]

WhErE's Da RiCe?!?! IKR i feel so scared

[@pandaluver101able]

The brother is just too creepy.... asking a 29 year old to sit on your lap, not letting her close her door, not letting her talk to other men only to him, hour long conversations everyday, that’s just too much. Also there has got to be more to the story the mother literally had her daughter move in with her to protect her from her brother because she suspected something too... he needs help

[@e.k_liadon]

I honestly think the part when she mentioned he was upset at her for closing her bedroom door creeped me out the most. I'm not saying that none of the other things were beyond creepy, because they were, but not letting her close her bedroom door? Should she change in front of him then? Is she not allowed to have privacy? (Even married couples get some sort of privacy!) Seriously, the way he acts with her (especially the comment "who is she talking to on the phone for an hour?") is like a jealous boyfriend trying to control his girl. It's....just not right on any level!

[@anxx5233]

when he left his girlfriend in a date to give his sister a help that she didn't even need, we knew he's a delusional creep

[@Maya-sv1pz]

imagine if she didn't. things may end up differently

[@nurulraysha_afiqah]

Yeah, i’m agree with that…

[@estherhwang822]

yep totally 💯

[@efloyd9754]

When yeonwoo said 'your sense of duty to protect her, shouldn't become your right to control her', I felt that

[@jhopeee8520]

"All brothers do that" Me: *looks at my brother who is ignoring me for a whole month*

[@huffy6479]

@Loli Pop ikr😂😂

[@Gloxx-nk9sm]

for me it's more like a whole year 😂😂😂

[@inthekeyofcici]

Me:Doesn’t even answer my phone calls even before I moved

[@MaiMarei]

The realness

[@skullrazor]

Your brother is aware you are there. Trust me. Brothers care about you, just show it indirectly - that is by acting like ur invisible. TRUST ME I do it to my siblings too😂😂

[@e.a.1548]

The fact that even the mother suspected him makes me even more nervous...poor girl.

[@vnick6243]

L U M A T I C ikr, her mother seems trying to protect her, to keep her away from her brother. This brother really needs help.

[@e.a.1548]

V Nick I mean, if the mother didn't think it was a big deal I could understand it as if it wasn't... but telling the daughter to move with her to protect her from the brother makes me think something big must have happened for her to do such thing..

[@lilybell8104]

That says it all! He can try to manipulate ppl into believing that he's not in love with his sister, but who would ever admit to that? Noone. His actions speaks louder than his words. I hope the sister breaks free from him, you can see how worried their mother is

[@gemdoll4684]

Same feel bad for the girl but why she accepts his calls? I don't have a great relationship with my one of my family members so I just forward their calls to my voicemail they would text me a lot so I just put it on MUTE. My life is soo much more stress free and if I don't wanna see someone I just tell them to not go over to my house. And if I wanna lock the doors close the door shut the door I do so. This girl needs to put her foot down. She's basically an enabler to her brothers weird fetish and over obsession.

[@winonadaphne6445]

we're lucky to have grown in a western country where society promotes individual happiness over chaining yourself to allow another person's happiness. in china and korea, there's SUCH a bad stigma over not being a "perfect family", they feel OBLIGATED to suffer bullshit so people will say she's "caring" and a "good sister". it's bullshit. she needs to be FIRM with him, she needs to realise he's emotionally manipulating her and stop feeling guilty for HIS SICK TWISTED MIND.

[@nurulrahmi5439]

Can at least this show have an actual psychiatrist or what

[@radbunnie2297]

Yes.

[@radbunnie2297]

That's exactly what I was thinking. It's like talking to a school counselor. Censored.

[@LiveLongArtProsper]

It does. After the episode.

[@Reaper-ok8rl]

It does backstage.

[@nctea5088]

@@Reaper-ok8rl Really ?

[@meryal8262]

This brother needs to back off... I 'm in shock that he almost burst into tears when they at the end tell him to let sister live her own life. I understand that the sister finds the brother's behavior problematic. But what is going on with this brother? That is not ordinary love for a sibling. He crossed the line a long time ago. I hope he gets help.

[@gwen6937]

Merya L Honestly, if can’t even deal with letting his sister live her own life, I wonder how he’s going to cope if he goes through a break up. If he gets this obsessed, would he end up stalking his ex? I feel like he would.

[@meryal8262]

Obviously, he has problems which he needs to get help for.

[@superiorkims5294]

Cause he probably did something far than just let her sister on his lap, it's just that she doesn't tell more in depth what's going on just because he is still her brother after all and it would be so embarassing for her brother as well for the aftermath

[@sleepyhead1768]

Merya L I hate it when people say he might have went farther with her. It makes me worried. I don’t know if it’s a cultural thing but in America this is considered strange and not normal. Since even the girls from momoland have brothers and we’re uncomfortable I don’t think it’s cultural. It’s good he cares for her at least but he needs to back off a little please. Hopefully he understands it’s strange and doesn’t continue weird stuff with her.

[@phelevries9138]

Merya L i

[@laurenlaxton-mogul800]

if this was aired in america this would have gone a totally different route

[@VasReds]

They would have ended up shooting the entire neighbourhood

[@stanloona1064]

“ladies and gentlemen..... we got him.”

[@joenbjerregaard7816]

in the US, the male homo sapiens is a hunted species

[@atiyaha8191]

@@enfpflower5751 definitely lmao

[@Kyuukoks]

*SEND HIM TO THE RANCH*

[@Bhabna10]

I don't feel like this show helped her situation at all

[@rachele.3229]

It never does

[@remiung]

Rachel E. - agreed, whenever there’s a person causing the concern, they never learn anything, they just say that they’ll make things better because it’s on television

[@Bhabna10]

@@remiung they just laugh about everything.

[@somnumxsleep5067]

Don't they have professionals at the back?

[@LunaMoonah]

Same...

[@vvvvvv_649]

3:35 - 4:06 "My brother said that all older brothers do that, so I asked around and they only talk to each other once a month to check if they're alive." i died like where's the lie xD

[@manailadaiana2717]

I can assure you that it's true. I don't talk with my brother for a long time and we live in the same house 😂😂😂

[@kellyklauss]

Lol I just saw this at the part of the video

[@mela8510]

Thats so true XD me and my brother live in the same house but we barely talk to each other

[@lemonpie1425]

Same here

[@jaeheekim228]

Me and my bro live in the same house but we always use our phones so we less communicate with each other 😂

[@crayons1584]

I think they approach some problems with too much humor, or the people should go to a more serious place. Problems like this is just a straight up creepy

[@koyena4276]

They should really consider putting an actual therapist in the show

[@lynx3845]

It’s an entertainment show what did u expect

[@bongwatersoop]

They’re laughing and joking about how gross her older brother is that is probably in love with her .. they’re romanticizing it... if this was in America I’d wouldn’t be s laughing matter .you can tell how uncomfortable she is and they’re all just joking and laughing....

[@san-vy8os]

thank u!!

[@niinapochmann]

yass

[@cocaerin]

my brother blocked me so i can’t even text him lmao

[@vminhope3040]

😂😂😂

[@TT-pl1zn]

lmao 😂😂

[@tryxxsi2275]

Same here

[@diobrando3682]

I felt this

[@Iunorrpr345]

@Maria Gonzalez lmao same

[@deimanteganyte1904]

It looks like the poor girl was about to cry :/ She should file a restraining order.

[@TheBackupUp]

Ikr i feel bad for her and uh.. the brother is fucking weirdly obsessed eith his sister.

[@TheBackupUp]

Omg every time they bring in a new situation i start crying for her.

[@skullrazor]

Y'all over estimating this. If you were told by ur parents to take care of your sister at such a young age, you would live up to the promise, and sometimes you always act like that. Sitting on his lap is probably what he done when they were younger. You could say he hasn't yet grown up, but yea, he did take it too far; making her feel imprisoned.

[@inesdreedy]

Skull Razor please don’t try to normalize his attitude, she is almost THIRTY, he does not need to check up on her now that she lives with her mom. this is over caring and it’s even getting creepy, like is talking everyday for an hour on the phone caring? no

[@TheBackupUp]

@@skullrazor of course i would take care of her. But not to the point where i would take care of her even when werr adultz. I think that something happened to the brother after his mother told him to take good care of his younger sister that would make him qoute on quote 'Obsessed with her'

[@Marina-dm5ex]

Notice how he's constantly deflecting their questions about his creepiness with questions of his own? (such as "Is it wrong that I want to be nice to my sister?")

[@hummus463]

i bet he has some sort of weird fetish, tbh. and then he tries to justify what he is doing by saying that he's being a good brother. it's so grossssss

[@angelzhp]

it’s called gaslighting

[@bigboihobi5918]

“All brothers do that” Me: *looks at brother who projectile vomited just because I gave him a hug*

[@MyoFPS]

AGAGAGAGAHHAA

[@kappapride_5843]

Lmfao 😂😂😂😂 projectile vomited

[@DannyBoo242]

There were so many red flags Run girl run!!!

[@daphne2108]

다씨 run run run

[@tian7743]

stream pinky star (run) by gwsn

[@jessicacagrace]

Run Forrest, run!

[@nabila6401]

@@tian7743 stream run by bts sksksk

[@alyssafrazier2766]

@@nabila6401 DASHI RUN RUN RUN

[@nrnsrn99]

"there's no 29 years old baby in the world." "she's sitting right there." omg i'm so sorry but it's so cringey and it gave me goosebumps

[@mizizz3793]

kairin _ I almost threw up in my mouth when I saw that part

[@RM-dd3yq]

I think it is so cute 😆

[@nelichairi4678]

kairin _ me to..me to 😂😂😁

[@joshuajimenez7531]

my brother cant even say that to me lmaoooooooooo. that guy is just so weird.

[@silverrain2256]

kairin _ i screamed on my pillow

[@venusianism]

14:06 .. that was so unnecessary.. doyoung laughed a bit too carelessly and loud at that. will never understand how body shaming a woman is funny to some people.

[@lemonicowo]

jaehyun and mark both looked disapprovingly, and im sure doyoung didnt mean anything by it!! ofc theres always the possibility that he did find that actually funny but sometimes when everyone laughs you kinda just... go along, esp on tv

[@venusianism]

nico ! you can tell the difference between an “uncomfortable, im gonna go along with it laugh” and a genuine “that was funny” laugh. his immediate reaction was a genuine laugh, whereas mark and jaehyun genuinely just didnt find the joke funny or wasn’t comfortable. doyoung seemed very comfortable laughing at it based of his body language. im an nctzen myself so this isnt coming from hate,, just pure disappointment.

[@YongyoonKim]

Welcome to Korea.

[@koirasikin]

It was mistranslated and they actually didnt make comments about her body

[@diobrando3682]

winwin’s elf ear why the fuck are we analyzing laughs my guy it’s not like he directly told her that 💀

[@elris452]

i don’t like to jump to conclusions but...i don’t know about this.... sitting on his lap, when she doesn’t like it. honestly the brothers behavior is suspicious idk idk... i hope it’s not anything to do with incest..

[@mai-bc5io]

Ur right this is actually disgusting, he might have those thoughts though

[@strawberrymole6398]

What if one day he lowkey raped her i feel like he did

[@444sun]

Doubt it idk he's just like a dad like a single dad or something

[@RokkouA1]

No one here watched till the end

[@notjunior]

I watched the whole thing but still think he might have this kind of feeling for her. Something like oedipus complex maybe?? Idk, it's just too weird

[@gojiberry6829]

That was so rude how they said she should skip a few meals to lose weight!!! Her weight isnt even the main issue at hand!! 😬😬

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

Goji Berry IT WAS A JOKE

[@mysteryelysian]

ms bread seola It wasnt funny to her . Did you see her facial expression? Not funny at all.

[@ruiem14289]

yeah it's not funny at all, they're just rude

[@parkinglot1651]

It's how Koreans 'talk', they mean, she *could* skip a meal to lose some weight (as in if she wanted to)

[@roselee8942]

keroppi That comment was still uncalled for and irrelevant to the issue at hand. If I was her, I don't need to be reminded of my weight as I try to bring up an uncomfortable issue about my brother crossing boundaries

[@chloelau382]

The way the hosts all laughed at her and pointed fingers like "You sat on his lap?? You?? You shouldn't be!" just feels so accusatory and towards the wrong person. This is lowkey the first step of victim blaming lol? I've only watched two episodes of this show and its just terrible.

[@paulajurczak3542]

It gets better later on

[@paulajurczak3542]

But I do agree with what you say they jump back and forth

[@ggundercover3681]

@@paulajurczak3542 explain how it gets better because I'm not gonna watch this show. every time I try to it rubs me the wrong way and makes me feel Korea still hasn't progressed to deal with serious topics, at least generally as a nation.

[@harshmnr]

@@ggundercover3681 The episodes I've watched haven't been so bad. I mean from my perspective it's mostly like trying to give the people with the problems a platform and at least feel like their problem is legitimate, and in that respect it seems generally successful. The hosts help them talk it out and it probably gives the guests more progress than if they just kept things the way they were (never contacted the show etc). They try their best at forming a solution but of course they only have a short period of time. Sometimes they do make jokes that can seem insensitive. But I guess they're just trying to keep a light-hearted atmosphere (most of the jokes aren't bad). Either way watch it or don't watch it whichever you want; I'm just providing my opinion. ~:~

[@mazhiang_dishia_]

@@ggundercover3681 u be talking like hosts from ur country r better💀 ofc they did some mistakes, but u can't expect everyone to react a certain way in a situation all of the time.

[@nk9912]

It honestly feels like he's kinda grooming her in a way. Which makes me worried for her because these kinds of situations can escalate into sexual harassment or rape. I honestly hope he gets help because he needs it.

[@SaraH-jn5db]

I dont think its escalating I think it's something that happened when they were younger and it's just transitioning into a different manifestation of behavior now that shes older

[@duvetbyboaa]

i dont think so at all

[@sibongilegill5278]

@@duvetbyboaa what do you think it is?

[@yoonloywong9377]

@@sibongilegill5278 i dont know its like confusing and hard to explain.I think they should come up with a separate and specific word for this type of behavious XD

[@idontknowwhattoputhere5434]

I think that the divorce kinda messed him up and he probably didn’t want her to feel the he did, maybe he felt he wouldn’t be protected when they divorced so now he copes by trying to protect his sister even when she doesn’t need it. So it’s very obvious that he is just scared and cares but I do agree that this CAN turn into some else, especially the way she described the stuff he says or does, he sounds a bit manipulative.

[@sithlord_dani]

idk why most of the panelists thought it wasnt a concern. They probably didn't think deeper into the problems of this concern. The lap sitting, the open doors, the hour long calls, JUST ALL THE BOUNDARIES were crossed. It's honestly repulsive. I hope the sister and mom are doing much better.

[@TenYasha897]

Joy Ortiz The lap sitting wasn't weird though, You guys are dirty minded this isn't like foreign countries where sitting on ones lap is considered weird, because in Asian countries is like having a baby or child on a fathers lap, and that's how the girl was describing it as, her brother treating her like a child at times 😒

[@miya-eg9vx]

RaijinEX the reason it's so strange is because he's not her father, but her older brother, and the fact that she's almost thirty years old.

[@miya-eg9vx]

RaijinEX idk where in asia you live because this kind of treatment is def abnormal

[@kielbestboi1133]

@@TenYasha897 I'm an asian but I don't sit on my brother's lap. that's just so weird and ew.

[@couleurful]

RaijinEX Why you calling people dirty minded. Even KOREANS in the audience found it wrong that she was still sitting on his lap.

[@lulubreadddo]

“They only talk to each other once a month to make sure they’re alive” that’s the most sibling thing ever 😭

[@apoorrva]

look at jaehyun being the gentleman that he is

[@klp_user3262]

I picked the right bias

[@tristahalagean3966]

Kaila Llamas-Preciado same

[@user-it7fl1fe8p]

AGH BF MATERIAL

[@MM-ex5kz]

such a prince

[@CarolCao]

This dude got a weird obsession.... and i don't think he should get married or have kids. I hate to say it, but it would be hell for them

[@andiuptown1711]

Fr

[@Elsagwene]

I agree. Very scary to think about if he got married and had kids. Ugh.

[@bobagreen8668]

*Dr. Phil where are you*

[@radbunnie2297]

Lol yes

[@weiyingscale1697]

Underrated

[@sandjeshuko5819]

LOL obv we need Dr. Phil

[@miffylova]

Dr Phil is not helpful either 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@ShotoTodoroki-if6vy]

We need someone like Gordon Ramsay on this show wtf

[@ZACKASSY]

He obviously need help with his obsession towards his sister. It's too extreme even lovers don't do that. He seems to see his sister like a woman which is dangerous.

[@jiminstyles6020]

He's not like a dad at all. He's acting like he is her ' Daddy ' if you know what I mean

[@redroom7628]

someone's been reading wattpad........

[@jiminstyles6020]

A.R.M.Y A.R.M.Y LOLLLLLLLLLLLLL shushhhh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@BTSARMY-dp7xv]

A.R.M.Y A.R.M.Y oml😂😂

[@kofirain]

omygod😂

[@flop.anywaystanloonastanta8107]

😂

[@ryoujika]

Bruh what's wrong with the people who said it's not a concern??? The girl is so uncomfortable, she can't even live her own life without her brother insisting on forcing himself into it. She must've felt very suffocated. I wonder how they're doing now

[@OkOk-ci2hi]

Probably the only aspect I DON’T like about this show is that they always find a way to make negative (and unnecessary) remarks about women’s bodies 🙄😒

[@laceybonner7534]

Ive lived in Korea for awhile now and thats just Korea...

[@leej-vq6hl]

Right?? Im korean and that is a norm. And i hate it. But no one actually realize.

[@rinoamenna]

yeah I dont see why they would cut up the sister for her weight when the brother looks bigger then her to be honest

[@wilavyfrangky406]

True. I’ve been watching this show for a while now and they always comment about women’s body-_- kinda rrruudeee

[@ozxo]

this show keeps popping up in my recommendations and *oh my god* i have a much bigger problem with this show than just that

[@197anapinto]

He looks like he likes her but like romantically its weird

[@begformeowcy]

ARMY MOCHI I agree, he’s in romantic love with her. He has some serious internal conflict going on with his feelings, that he should really seek help for.

[@christinewee9505]

There's love in his eyes.

[@anxx5233]

it's totally like a boyfriend's love but the boyfriend is a delusional control freak and he also have extra power over your life because he's your brother.

[@TheBackupUp]

Alabama Korea V.1

[@charmanderjin2360]

theres lust in his eyes

[@redbullvodkaa]

Thank gosh jaehyun is the only one who isnt blind and sees it as a concern I felt bugs crawl all over me during the whole thing

[@mirani2571]

yeaa he's the only sane one there who is clearly not okay with that & seems uncomfortable the entire show because boi knows something is sus about this "older brother obsession".

[@성이름-n9g5l]

You judge the person in the video without knowing the context correctly.

[@mirani2571]

@@성이름-n9g5l FYI I watched the video and then commented about it besides what I said is true so idk what's with your issue here , the older brother clearly doens't understand the difference between obsession and taking care of her sister in a good way where it's not toxic. If he knew that already her sister wouldn't have to write a letter to this show lol 🙄💁‍♀️. It seems like you're the one here who didn't understand the context and can't comprehend the naked truth , pls get some braincells to understand things properly 🤦💁‍♀️

[@성이름-n9g5l]

@@mirani2571 아오 그냥 저기 있는 연예인들 진행 맥락 1도 모른다면 가만히 있어 외국인이면서 말이 많아

[@mirani2571]

@@성이름-n9g5lumm seems like you're stupid. i'm talking about the guy not the celebrity lol where's your mind at. first read my comment properly and then reply to me , your lack of understanding is the cause of your own arguments and also me being a foreigner doesn't mean that i can't talk about things like these lmaoo you sound like a boomer ngl, please for god's sake, get a Life

[@jaehyunjustwantssomemilk8298]

Everyone has said it but I'll say it again. Jaehyun is such a gentleman. My love for him only grows each day 🖤

[@bethany1850]

ugh i can relate

[@StarFeather]

IKR LOVE HIM

[@StarFeather]

HAHAHA yes i love jooe omg i love her reactions and everything so much aHH

[@myathegrandma]

Same

[@warriorrcatsarecoolaj1670]

TRUEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[@MsSusiePan]

That is the most obvious case of incest I've ever seen displayed this casually

[@solakawooz7092]

I was a huge fan of this show until suddenly I’ve been noticing their negative body image comments! And why do they always seem to make a serious situation liked this funny!!!!!

[@少しアニヤ]

Not only this show. Koreans in general think it's okay to say these things n they think it's funny smh

[@nika5318]

Eventhough it’s wrong, they see it as looking after the person. To them it’s the equivalent of saying “stop smoking”

[@ratdoto2148]

It's miss translated. It was actually kind of like an idiom that would be better translated as "skipping a meal could be called a diet". Korean doesn't use pronouns much like Japanese or many other languages so translators take liberty in adding them. That's what happened here and I think it was wrong as It didn't seem direct at her.

[@lavafishswims1635]

It's not really the show. That's one of the more unfortunate aspects of Korean culture. They don't usually say stuff like that with malice. They're trying to "help you improve" yourself. But it is awkward. I worked there and just got used to it and brushed it off, but I understand that's harder for others.

[@user-zg6nl7nu4w]

This show in general is just useless and have the wrong approach to a serious problem, none of these people are qualified to really help their guests, their purpose is to make an interesting content out of someone's misery. It ain't right.

[@ursulatakuma1430]

I noticed the problem is bigger than what we saw here because of the mother's behavior. There's something else going on and it's disturbing me a lot.

[@molierresignoga]

Are you talking about the fact that the Mother had to move the daughter into her home? I think he be assaulting her real talk

[@charmanderjin2360]

@@molierresignoga the mom sense the danger. Moms instinct always right.

[@molierresignoga]

@@charmanderjin2360 yes for sure, I know from first hand experience

[@eli9578]

Oh lord. I'm not even 2 min in and I'm cringing.

[@kimikoburton]

Totally. I have had the same expression for about ten minutes. My face hurts...

[@ren-zy9qp]

Even the title makes me cringe

[@parismarkley7975]

I’m 44 seconds in and I already see a problem with what he’s doing

[@yumikosuicide9411]

I just read the title and cringed

[@lav3nder.bxrbiee334]

Kimiko Badger is your face okay now?

[@woodpecking9672]

it isnt funny at all? theres nothing to laugh about its borderline creepy.

[@yukikanegawa7470]

Nothing borderline about it

[@kiwii2163]

It’s even more than creepy, it’s disgusting tbh

[@purpledawn2727]

Maybe it's a social norm in korea that you're somewhat rude if you show discust? Therefore it's more polite to smile and laugh? Idk, I feel like culture might be a part of it, or the show just tried to make it funny for the audience.

[@amandab8433]

Not borderline at all. It's gone waaaay past creepy.

[@meganwilliams7129]

The comment they made about her weight was so disrespectful and had nothing to do with the concern. I also feel like the sister is not telling us everything and that there could be more things going on behind closed doors.

[@kaitlyn6336]

Its okay to talk/joke about weight in korea... It's so annoying so many people in these comments, wants to hate on my culture, well guess what it's normal where I'm from and said out of concern for health

[@meganwilliams7129]

Kyuri First, i'm not trying to hate on your culture at all. Second, yea talking about weight is considered a normal thing in korea but there are other ways to show concern then making jokes about someone who is bigger then the ideal size. Also my comment was not mean't to offend you, I said it because she looked uncomfortable when they started talking about her weight.

[@palmtree1958]

it's not that disrespectful to say something like that in korea. If you're going to watch korean shows, you've got to be prepared for a lot of stuff that might trigger western ethical or moral alarm bells. It's really just not that big of a deal.

[@MinttMeringue]

Kyuri Yeah, it bothers me in these shows but I'm not too angry because it's normal there. But at the same time, understand that you guys also have a high rate of eating disorders and seem to make a joke of that as well. So things like that ring our moral bell. Someone being 55 or 57 kg is generally healthy, unless they're shorter. The West is simply against the "everyone should be under 50 kg" thing, because of things like celebrities who are considered pretty and a preference for fit people. (Muscle mass can make a skinny person weigh a lot.) But I think most people who watch shows like this do have some sense of understanding the idea that these jokes are fine in Korea

[@ilBRV92]

@Kyuri just because it’s normal to talk about doesn’t mean it’s not doing harm. The girl was obviously uncomfortable after they said that. As a Korean, I know that it’s not taboo, but it’s a part of our culture that should be progressed - especially in a country where mental health care is essentially nonexistent.

[@nayeonn1e]

That comment about her weight at 14:07 really made me angry, especially with everyone laughing.

[@amy-ge9sv]

I know. That really upset me personally since I also have trouble with self image and weight...

[@BeerJxx]

Koreans... so usual. They wouldn’t even care about this if her brother wasnt stopping her from getting married.

[@exstalle2736]

Ikr

[@atiyaha8191]

Same that really annoyed me. I'd be so embarrassed and upset if I was her

[@kay2393]

it's not what he actually said in korean, the subs are very wrong. they said she can handle herself in a way that was pointed towards the brother, not her.

[@MrPinklove1]

I feel like this show would really benefit from having like, actual lawyers or mental health professionals and like... a cop or something. Some of these situations are just so... wrong for them to be making light of it yanno.

[@aia1190]

My older brother is kind and protective and we catch up on the phone for up to 40 minutes once every couple of weeks but that’s it, there’s no way he’d ask me to sit on his lap that’s not normal

[@nelizapinto1076]

That is the only thing i think isnt normal but the rest i think is pretty normal for a protective brother 🤷‍♀️

[@samanthaperales1380]

Ikr🤣🤣

[@TheBackupUp]

Come! SIT ON MY LAP😤 No i dont want to😕 YOU HURT MY FEELINGS😭😭😭😭

[@eshunstellaama7553]

Same with my favorite cousin and I sometimes sit on his lap because he still thinks I am his favorite little cousin but he doesn't behave like the brother in the concern because I am allowed to go out without him calling

[@sweetsummerday1761]

@@TheBackupUp lmao-

[@peanutbutterfiend]

OMG the brothers face at the very end, Jesus Christ he looks crushed knowing the majority of the audience had a problem with his behavior. I agree with everyone else, he needs to see a psychologist over his incestual behavior that he think's is okay to do as an adult...wish this show would provide updates for some of these people that come on the show.

[@vanessacheeispretty]

honestly i feel like the brother just said he'll "try his best to do something about it" so that they could hurry and end the show, not because he was actually serious about it. i'm disgusted at a lot of things, and looking at the comments section it seems like we all agree there was definitely some foul play in their relationship. it's march 2019 now and this was aired in april 2018, i hope that things have turned out for the best. this is really weird and i felt super uncomfortable watching it...

[@whatitdobabyboo69]

i feel like there's more to the story but she won't say

[@venn_unicornz5312]

Bex Gild it's on TV I don't think she will spill everything

[@cresdc8481]

same. it feels the situation is too light for it to be this so concerning

[@winterpang641]

Bex Gild like 18+ stuffs? OxO

[@thisshadeismybleach9752]

Abuse?

[@user-bm4xt3wy3l]

14:08 HOW RUDE 😠 She is a beautiful and nice woman and she doesn't deserve to be treated like this

[@wheresmyrooptoff4056]

Lmao nigga that's not even close to rude, Stop whining about a joke that was literally mistranslated. Why are so many people so sensitive like you?

[@mazamerid8207]

where's my rooptoff shut up

[@seonghwasbae2771]

@@wheresmyrooptoff4056 bitch bc it iant something to joke about

[@lalaland-pc6er]

@@wheresmyrooptoff4056 dude...body dismorphia is a thing.

[@deewilliams3000]

I’m not sure how that’s rude? However perhaps the translation to your language is wrong because the Korean is not rude?

[@mih8ko]

I'm no expert but the divorce must have really affected him and the fact his parents splitting he didn't want to split from his sister to, he felt even more attached to her fearing of detachment like how his parents divorced. But this really needs to be dealt with a therapist or something. There is something quite disturbing and it needs sorting out.

[@romiinasuve5543]

,,hey sis are you alive?" ,,i'm alive" ,, ok bye" Me:WTF 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@wigsnatched8890]

Romiina Swan I'm weak 💀

[@miya-eg9vx]

don't all brothers and sisters do that

[@romiinasuve5543]

miya I have 4 sisters and 1 twin sister... this is exactly how we talk with each other

[@shbzh528]

I also want him to like stay away from me even if he doesn’t do anything now. Like I want him at least 3 meters away from me

[@kofirain]

same

[@katerose6216]

"She could skip a meal to lose some weight " I think that's a bit too much

[@gyarugirl]

Kate Rose you don’t THINK. That was too much and personally, it triggered me.

[@estherjykim9088]

Can I ask where you got tht? Cuz when i was listening to it none of the mcs said tht in Korean. Like they was a part tht her brother saying "my sister doesnt eat or cook when she is alone" and the mc was commenting on tht by saying "she doesnt seem to need your care, she can handle things by her self... she is 29..." im not sure who translated the video but the way they translated wasnt good enough

[@tinylilowls987]

@@estherjykim9088 if u have KZbin English subtitles I think u can find it

[@toriballa2063]

@@estherjykim9088 if they said that why were they laughing I don't see how it's funny

[@estherjykim9088]

@@toriballa2063 because the way the mc said was to support the lady and to be sacastic towards the brother's act... If you dont find it funny then ill say its a cultural difference.

[@bellagaara1]

I don't know, this relationship is a little creepy. Perhaps Dr.Phil would be a better show for this.

[@少しアニヤ]

The world doesn't revolve around americans and their doctors u know. There are plenty of them in korea

[@tmaxwell6033]

@@少しアニヤ not on this show obviously.

[@moominmay]

bellagaara1 hell no not ‘Dr’ Phil. They need a real qualified psychiatrist!

[@ricebeansrockroll882]

Dr. Phil is a fucking nutjob. He would turn this into the girl being in the wrong or something.

[@Jordan-ng2uv]

doctar pill

[@crystalades3294]

Check the brother's phone/laptop , if they find inapropriate/unusual pics of his sister then it's sure a very huge concern

[@winonadaphne6445]

and his porn history, it'll all be incest.

[@nadyasabila2547]

mynameis Desire I don't think they would do this lol

[@piya-tf]

Tht's actually a smart suggestion

[@percycat213]

He probably has a shrine dedicated to her hidden somewhere 😆

[@Feena78631]

I am pretty sure there is something more than the concern the family came to solve on the show. The brother is totally creeping me out. He seems like a very caring person and his sister seems lucky to have a brother like that, who cares about her health etc in this generation, however, the whole physical aspect of this brother and sisters relationship is disgusting to me. As a 29-year-old woman, she should have the common sense to tell her brother that it is inappropriate for her to sit on his lap at all!! It is damn disgusting, I cannot even think about it! He should back-off a little. There are limits to a brother and sister relationship and he has crossed them. Even Fathers don't do that, I cannot believe he thinks his actions and words are correct.

[@nuages8915]

nicole auguste fathers not brothers ....

[@anitasartistry]

She does try to tell him sometimes but I'm pretty sure there's more to it. It's TV, we don't know the full story.

[@パステル-b4v]

ikr, it creeps me out bcs i have this feeling that the brother likes his sister in a romantic way. i mean, look at the way he's treating her

[@hoshistiger7238]

Korea is a different country all together and literally just speaking up to your older brother is really disrespectful

[@youthsonyeondan3233]

Afreen R EXACTLY like me and my older brother we hug and I give him a kiss on the cheek to greet him and what not that's like the "normal" behavior between brothers I feel like (also I'm 16 turning 17 he's 40 so he's more like a father also so we have a really close relationship) but like despite everything he said I feel like he does have some type of different feelings for his sister and I got more concerned when the mother said she suggested that the girl would move in with her to _protect_ her from her brother like???

[@nunmcbuttcheekbleh2658]

"All brothers act like that" Me: *stares at brother* Brother: * throws a bottle at me* Who tf do you think you are. Lil brother: *throws another bottle* yeah who do you think you are Other brother: *pats my head* guys lets do this... Me: thank you Other brother: you've gotta use something harder *throws a shoe at my head*

[@bruhdoyouknowmeyouno.8972]

Rude! lol 😂

[@НелиБадалова-с9р]

SAMEEE

[@Snowhite-tx4sm]

Same my bro yells at me or ignores me everytime i try to talk to him. Yesterday, he even threw a bottle water at me coz i cursed at him :(

[@fuglyduchess1258]

Your comment reminded of It's Always Sunny when everyone just gangs up on Dee for no reason. 🤣

[@user-tm8sx2pj7c]

This is absolutely disgusting and it is making me so mad that these people are not seeing the problem. This brother has some serious issues and he need some help from a professionel not from some clueless hosts and celebrities. The people who are coming to this show are REAL people with REAL problems who need REAL counseling. The show is called "Hello counselor" so for gud sake get some real counselors on the show or shut the whole show down!!! I never been so angry and sad watching a video before. This is really disturbing! Poor girl, there is definitely more to the story than she is telling.

[@wheresmyrooptoff4056]

You clearly don't understand the point of this show, which is to spread awareness about the problems the people have, possibly get them help financially, and motivate the people to get better help. The show itself is good help as it is. It's counselling but also mainstream.

[@pandaonsteroids5154]

@@wheresmyrooptoff4056 I agree with you so much. I have been a fan of this show for a while like 2-3 years. I ALWAYS see comments with people complaning, but this program has special episodes where they check up on people's situations and many peoples lives DID CHANGE because of this show. ~ This show DOES WORK. And you know how I know that? I've watched so many episodes. I figured it out. •People come on the show in order to sort out their problem, so they ALREADY have the heart to change. Coming out is the first step. •Second is the hosts and guest dig through lots of their past, find the reasons for things. In every episode, either the person with the concern or the person being "told on" finds out something they didn't know. This will change their mindset. •Third, more than that they tell each other stuff and make promises they never have before. This changes their relationship and helps guide a hopefully successful future. •Fourth, to help aid the process, the hosts explain what the person being "told on" did wrong. To some people they are nicer or meaner to depending on the situation. Anyways they try their best to get everyone on the same page. This is something ONLY a third party can do. ~ These people had the courage to let the whole world know of their problem, so why can't they fix it? Every attempt can't be sucessful, but the show has impacted many lives. -.- And like you said. awareness is good too!

[@callmewaves1160]

I do agree to some extent but I do think this show does assist people to address negative situations in their lives.

[@biboba604]

@@pandaonsteroids5154 Where could I watch the special episodes? I'm getting hooked to this show haha

[@averagetomfoolery]

@@anissamontano9892 Yeah that episode was horrible. instead of admitting people we're being racist they were like "could it be that you're buff? I mean you look really strong, do you work out? you're handsome" and just went off the subject and talked about his looks again every time he tried to bring it back to what he actually came there to talk about.

[@maymay2769]

That comment about her weight at 14:00 was a bit unnecessary lol I'm glad this is less creepy than it sounded by the title, like I phone my siblings for an hour to catch up a few times a week so thats not strange, but he is too preoccupied with her.

[@EndohMiharu]

Yeah it is, but unfortunately that's how Asians are. Weight isn't considered a sensitive topic so people joke about it openly a lot. It's offensive to us Americans, but I don't know if Koreans get offended. I'm sure many do get offended, but there's probably also many people who are just used to it so they learn not to be too offended. But yeah it's unnecessary, and as a Chinese American, I get annoyed every time my family mentions my weight. -.-

[@EndohMiharu]

khaye claire, I agree it was rude, but that's from our viewpoint. In Korea it's not seen as a "disgusting" remark as it would be seen in America. It's not as severe. These days I'm sure you've heard the term "roasting" someone. It's very much like that. Like yes, it's a jab at her weight, but they don't take it as seriously as we would. Just cultural differences. Just like how in America, cursing at each other while arguing is pretty normal, but this segment shows how seriously Koreans take cursing. It's seen as the highest offense to curse at each other even when arguing. Different cultures just have different rankings of severity for certain offenses.

[@sydneyly9454]

mi☆haru Actually, that's not how asians are. Just because people talk openly about it, it doesn't mean that people don't get hurt.

[@sugamango4050]

mi☆haru Ik as an asian, I hear that way too often to take note lol, I don't even know if that's a good thing

[@vijetha.creates]

Tbh it's so common all over asia to hear jokes like that. It's sort of a norm? Idk how to explain it, but it's less rude than it sounds in english. Like how if you make a joke in english but translate it directly to another language, it might not sound quite right but in english it's funny

[@Irinka-su9yn]

Jaehyun hasnt said one word he just sat there looking serious XD

[@bruhdoyouknowmeyouno.8972]

Sometimes smiling 😀

[@nabila6401]

As he should

[@sofiaguerrero0969]

Ugh why did that MC embarrass her about her weight especially when she’s sitting next to those three guys. one thing I’ll never like about Korean culture is their outright way to talk about weight. Some people are more sensitive than others

[@joynied5052]

fofiax she's not even that big either

[@sofiaguerrero0969]

Joy Nied I think she’s a normal sized healthy girl. Like are these MC’s so used to seeing girl idols with their carboxy leg shots and paper cup diets? Those aren’t real girls, those are practically manufactured models by their agencies

[@norastifler]

And one of them clapped so rudeeeeee

[@taehyungswifeu1328]

fofiax i agree . For me she seems just right!❤️

[@youngjoo9798]

exactly, so i grew up in the US and im korean, and im not overweight or anything, im 115 pounds and around 5 feet tall so pretty normal, but sometimes my mom will tell me i need to lose weight or my moms friends will say 'you need to lose a few pounds' and same goes with my aunts and uncles (very rarely though),, i think that from my perspective as growing up in america and then looking at korean culture, they really are just obsessed with being extremely skinny. and apparently its natural for weight to come up if you're a little bigger. they were raised that any extra weight is bad and they might not knowingly say it and move on bc of the environment they grew up in but i feel americans are a lot more aware of things thay could potentially hurt someones feelings

[@sashaclark9396]

That is probably why he doesn't have a girlfriend. The gestures and caring he should give to a girlfriend is being given to his sister.

[@gskduiaknfa9976]

Nop i dont think its more about his look

[@miskyralte14]

25:29 "Your sense of duty to protect her shouldn't become your right to control her." So true!

[@fbiopenup8305]

I’m so afraid that there’s some sort of sick fetish/ infest going on.

[@MoominJeno]

Trey incest*

[@TheBackupUp]

@@MoominJeno try Try*

[@Maya-sv1pz]

infest = incest fest?

[@sumbrerose]

Where can I get a Jaehyun? I'd like to order one, please.

[@saturdayies]

lmao😂

[@sugamango4050]

I don't think the original will ever be for sale but you can surely hunt for a duplicate :D

[@janeg4512]

Rose-Ann Laoang out of stock, sorry

[@sugamango4050]

Okay but everyone trying to sell him how tf did you get hold of him lol

[@sumbrerose]

Nyxee MSP yes, please.

[@Bhabna10]

The mother knows what's up

[@ForevaLaTrelle]

THEY DONT THINK ITS A CONCERN? What is wrong with them?!?!?! THIS DUDE HAS PROBLEMS

[@chachacha8501]

in america, this would be considered borderline incest.

[@katem5520]

Zoe Jeneth not just in America

[@e.k_liadon]

It's considered borderline incest in Korea too. Or were we not just watching the same show? Did you not see how disgusted everyone was?

[@shadowidol5571]

Weekender Girl yeah America isn't as cultured as Joe zenneth thinks it to be 😂 😂

[@FMKAnimation]

Anywhere but Korea

[@diesfromthecringe3573]

Bruh in korea there was a law where ppl with rhe same last name cant marry lmfaoo korea is the last place where u wanna havw incest

[@amyespitia3921]

The conversations at the beginning were uncomfortable and gave me red flags everywhere. I have an older brother 4 years older than I and he never acted the way this guy did. Creepy vibes is what I was getting from watching this

[@for_enhatan]

*jaehyun's such a gentleman i envy that girl ;-;* but regarding the concern, i am cringing so bad and disgusted like when it was even only the first few minutes of the vid like wtf

[@lincolnrod137]

that comment about her weight was so rude and totally unnecessary.

[@Kubra409]

no its not he just said she looks like she eats well. And its true that shes a bit overweight. Its korean humor.

[@lol-tm9mx]

@@Kubra409 how is she overweight?? she literally looks completely fine. stop defending your oppars lmao

[@samanthaperales1380]

@@lol-tm9mx ikr! No offense but people in korea often make jokes about weight and even here and it isn't funny,it's actually offending😒

[@revelbangtanexo2642]

Ikr i was shocked

[@sailing-xu1mw]

the thumbnail made it seem like he actually was wearing a whole chef attire, I was kinda disappointed that he didn't

[@mpumim652]

And the little facial hair I think

[@noonescrush]

if i had an older brother who acted like this i would punch him in the face

[@janeeden1004]

avi Same omg

[@jinsdumplingakaprincess9398]

How about, talk to him

[@troysayshi]

Yeah, about what a creep he is

[@noonescrush]

the girl in the video tried talking to her brother too and did it help? no, she felt guilty.

[@jinsdumplingakaprincess9398]

avi I’m talking about if that was you, you said if your brother acted like that

[@jayleeintaiwan3051]

As an older sister who's parents also divorced when we were young (my brother is 5 years younger) I somewhat understand what he's talking about, but this is too extreme. My brother will always be my baby brother, but that doesn't mean I'm going to baby the hell out of him until he dies. Will I cry when he gets married? Of course because that means he's found someone that makes him happy and he's ready to start his own life. If he forgets his lunch for work or school one day of course I would drive to bring him something. But at the same time he has his own life and I'm not going to be there for him all the time. This guy is just crossing the line. She can't even talk to him comfortably about her life. It's important for siblings to have a good communication (even if we fight) system because you will never have someone as close to you as your sibling.

[@rooo2002]

14:05 why y'all being so rude for? Brother: ''She doesn't eat home when she's by herself.'' 1: ''It doesn't look like it.'' 2: ''She could skip a meal (go on a diet) to lose some weight.'' And the audience just laughs. It's not funny. She's beautiful.

[@nabila6401]

They are weird

[@gwen6937]

I would be scared to be his sister or even his girlfriend. There's something so suspicious about everything he's doing. It's not normal behaviour.

[@mitphol]

please bring some profestional staff is sad that you said she should skip her meal.

[@kaitlyn6336]

Westerners at it again... Its okay to talk/joke about weight in other countries. Don't try to change a culture you don't belong to. You're not going to like a culture for everything it has, but you need to respect it if you want to delve into it. If they want to be progressive and sensitive about jokes, let the citizens of Korea decide. If she was anorexic and someone said they are checking in on their sister every day to see if she ate too much and the counselors joked that "trust me she's not eating enough if anything she could eat more" to prove a point, none of you would care.

[@mitphol]

Thank you for your opinion to be honest I'm from eastern too and I always get suffer from my friends or co-worker or some one just want to make joke about my weigh yes they laugh they happy and what can I do? just pretend to smile and keep feeling sad in side why? because our country always think that is just a joke! if I tell them is not fun so what happend? they will blame me that is my fault that I'm too serius about this because is just a joke! please tell me why we shouldn't change this culture? or I'm wrong that I'm being fat?

[@kaitlyn6336]

I just saw a bunch of westerners commenting the same stuff. In Korea we all talk this way whether we are fat, skinny, ugly, pretty. I've been fat and had people do the same but it's just joke. And I'm saying we should change our culture ourselves if we don't like something, not the American kpop fans who are constantly not understanding that other countries are different from them and that they should respect other people's cultural difference. I'm not skinny so it's commented on but I know my friends here in Korea will also say the same thing when a girl is too skinny. Like how I love American but I can't stand all the girls with their boobs out in public and videos considered funny of kids disrespecting adults, but you don't see me commenting on American music videos and tv shows for girls to stop showing boobs and for them to stop find disrespect funny, telling them they ae wrong for talking/living a certain way.

[@neesta9325]

Yeah sure, Korea has a different culture and all that, but people everywhere can struggle with weight. Just because it is okay to joke about it in Korea does not mean it should be. Saying directly to people that they should skip a meal or two, even it is a joke, is unnecessary. It is a big issue in Korea that everyone needs to be perfect, in school, in their jobs, and at home, and the fact that it is okay for other people to comment on one's weight and appearance is not helping that. You say that you do not find kids disrespecting adults funny, but it seems like you find it funny to disrespect others. So what is the difference between you and those kids?

[@mitphol]

you said all in my head. and I would say that all thing call bully!

[@naimaaa5952]

Hello Counselor doesn't help anyone. They should've did this with police.

[@lenhimcook]

your kpop buddy I read some comments and what you said wasn’t true. I saw a comment from fans who watched many episodes and it actually changed their lives. So don’t assume just because you only watched one episode of this.

[@naimaaa5952]

@@lenhimcook You're just obsessed with Korean culture and don't know the dark side of it, and some is not all.

[@MeneTekelUpharsin]

@@naimaaa5952 If everyone in Korea was as sensitive as you we wouldn't have this awesome show tho

[@naimaaa5952]

@@MeneTekelUpharsin Lol, if everyone in Korea was as dumb as you then they shouldn't have had police.

[@MeneTekelUpharsin]

@@naimaaa5952 That makes no sense but okay. At least it made you Lol

[@ev7568v]

Oh god I got a real bad vibe when she said "can we not do this anymore".. I hope to god she isn't hiding anything more since she's on TV...

[@trekkie4306]

in this house we do not support incest.

[@walfredlim2081]

The brother is doing all for himself. For his own fantasy and liking. He uses his emotion to control others in the family. He is a demon . Throughout the whole show is all about "I feel sad" ... is all about I!

[@aidan-leeholland4962]

They talked rudely about her weight when nothing is bad about it?

[@wheresmyrooptoff4056]

There was absolutely nothing rude about the comment.... IT WAS A JOKE. Grow up and get a sense of humor.

[@bobagreen8668]

where's my rooptoff ha. ha. ha. That’s such a funny joke. They have such a sense of humor

[@wheresmyrooptoff4056]

@BobaGreen ha. ha. ha. good sarcasm. I mean, clearly you have no sense of humor if you're acting like theirs is inferior or wrong, which by the obvious sarcasm, is how it's coming across. People like you need to start understanding that humor is subjective and you only look like an idiot for acting like it's not a sense of humor, when clearly people in the audience thought that joke was funny.

[@matilda8702]

@@wheresmyrooptoff4056 can you chill and keep your rude comments to yourself

[@bobagreen8668]

where's my rooptoff I meant that if even it was a joke it wasn’t funny. And I agree that their comment was offensive. They said it in such a careless way too but it was something to be heavily taken.

[@eliTUNE]

If I were there as a guest I would definitely say it loud and clear that this IS a concern. Smh Like imagine if _you_ were the sister!!

[@PraachiEm]

I don't freaking understand this show. Is Korea as a whole this creepy that they laugh shamelessly about grave topics like this? Eww. Disgusting.

[@LCBABEZ]

Please refrain from putting Korea in a hole like that. I can say America as a whole are racists pedophiles and full of killers 💁‍♀️ but let's not start.

[@YongyoonKim]

Yeah, this is normal in Korea. I'm 1st generation Korean-American and visited Korea 3 times.

[@purpledawn2727]

I think stuff like this comes down to culture. Laughing doesn't mean they find it funny, but it might be something simple as they've grown up with the social rule "it's rude to show discust, just smile instead". Therefore they'll laugh at disturbing stuff. I don't know anything about korea, but I know that every country seem to have its own "thing":p

[@laylac]

Rather than being shameless it’s because they refuse to acknowledge the problem. Things like incest, homosexuality are kinda taboo topics that they don’t talk about. Even if they know it exists they’d rather brush it off as a joke.

[@koirasikin]

It would be considered rude to just say that the person is disgusting and should get some help. Instead they just smile and bear the uncomfortable situations and try to make best of it by joking about it. That's how the culture is.

[@iamproject100]

My younger sister calls our younger brother son but that's about it. She's nowhere near as bad as this. She only calls him that to annoy him lol

[@Kt-cn2rq]

Project Create lol well that's normal to tease siblings this brother beyond weird...

[@jocelynandreamadolen2428]

i used to call my little sister son😂

[@kennedycamille1258]

Project Create I drew your profile picture lol 😂

[@_____1865]

my friend has her younger brother (14 years younger) as 100% her son, but then again she sort of did raised him, but is not in any way weird. This just gave a weird vibe..

[@Hamster761]

Well my little bro and me don't even talk all day. Only if we want to order food. Or when we fight for no reason, which I am sure we all done that. But this dude is to close. Like it made feel uncomfortable.The mom probably knew he was doing inappropriate stuff so she made her daughter move with her. 😓😖😱😳😵

[@megasike3334]

jooe’s relationship with her brother is my relationship to my sister

[@sugamango4050]

why be min yoongi when you can be nice yoongi? Your sister treats you like a celebrity? Your living the life bro, my sister is only 3 and hits me, throws random shit @ me, pulls my hair lol fun time (: -_-

[@francenicoleeborde3505]

_sugamango_ • same except there is 3 of them😑

[@megasike3334]

nah my sister and i rarely talk we’re disgusted by each other lol she also beats me up (i hurt her more of course lol jk) but if i somehow manage to gain an achievement she approaches me asking for a treat and suddenly becomes nice lmfao

[@superiorkims5294]

Same sis same

[@iwatchdaily6377]

same i even punch my bro in the face for touching my shoulder

[@Ahra_Cho]

This program needs to address the problems seriously and in a professional way, with rl therapists and in cases like this even authorities. It's sad that they treat this as if a fly is just passing by.

[@cloerogers6983]

Jaehyun is the best. I knew he would think it was a concern. He's a good person.

[@melaniebuilarsen93]

Oh man I breathed such a sigh of relief when he said it was a concern. SENSIBLE & SENSITIVE BAE.

[@SaraH-jn5db]

Which one is he?

[@melaniebuilarsen93]

@@SaraH-jn5db THE SEXY ONE lol ok serious answer, he's in the plaid tan jacket, dimples, and was the one to help the girl out of the ball pit

[@kappapride_5843]

The other girls beside the blonde also made a really good point. Im shocked tho knowing mark grew up in the states but does not see this as a concern 😦

[@christinedo3528]

"I thought she called every man that" sjbihdrbgdif damn

[@tanyamagura7213]

he is in love with his sister PERIODTTT

[@natalieyoshida4262]

Jaehyuns such a gentleman.

[@RainyDay_5214]

I wish they got AKMU for this episode

[@devshrestha9725]

Jessie Chia Agree 100% That would have made alot of sense

[@luluorenge]

But that would be hella awkward lol

[@luluorenge]

@@becca5500 AKMU are like cat and dog too xD

[@zyne5111]

I swear they're the best image of normal siblings. 🤭 They're savage to each other.

[@michanmy]

I really wonder: is anyone taking care of him? He is a child of a broken family, and the eldest one too, who at a young age, had to receive his mother’s request to hold the family together. He doesn’t seem to have any other purpose in his life than to be a dedicated, involved Brother. He was probably just as scared and confused and hurt and lonely through the divorce with no one by his side. He might have projected all of those negative feelings onto his sister, thinking that she closes the door because she might be upset or depressed, perhaps is the reason he has for closing his door. Causing a distance between loved ones might be his interpretation of him not wanting others to know that he is scared or lonely, hence it makes him sad when his Sister is trying to pull away. It is said that the kindest people know what true cruelty is like, and they do not want others to suffer the same fate. He might not know what he is doing is overbearing or creepy. Perhaps he is generous with his affection and communication because he is the person that actually needed it the most. All I see is someone who has a very damaged soul who needs some serious psychiatric healing.

[@dkf315]

agree. as the mother said, he would reprimand her too since she often get sick and undergoes surgery. telling her off to eat more to stay healthy. he has a sister complex and always sees her as a little kid that can't take care of herself. the only weird part is him asking her to sit on his lap.

[@deryang6099]

They all need help. She shouldn't have come there because they are laughing, joking, and belittling her at the same time....

[@seokjinniesunite4339]

Exactly, they did more harm to that poor girl then help. =/

[@shbzh528]

I mean it wasn’t all of them but like.... did you people hit your head or sumn? Because you need help

[@pratigyakadam8893]

Yeah really.. What's wrong with them..? Poor girl..

[@mamazanderson1217]

It is a pity that she was treated that way but she's made his behaviour public knowledge now. Also she's noticed the way people have reacted to how her brother treats her and hope she learns that he's not ok. Cos she has no boundaries or privacy with him and he manipulates her.

[@dominicsimonacfan541]

Exactly!!

[@troupemember14]

Ok, obviously the whole brother situation is really gross and slightly alarming, but I'm really upset that they said she could "lose some weight" so casually. (At 14:09) I know it's normal in Korea (the bluntness, I mean) but I just felt so embarrassed on her behalf.... Clearly Mark is kinda shocked too, just look at his expression lmao

[@FistDaMonkey]

The translation is wrong actually. The guy who said "It doesn't look like it" was definetely out of line but the she could "lose some weight" line that came after was never actually said. It's actually a question, not even a statement. He said "다이어트 삼아 한끼 거를수도 있는거 아니에요?". Which translates to "Can't a person skip a meal or two and think of it as a diet". Which is a very common way of thinking in Korea. Whether you're fat or skinny or normal, people think they could use a diet so it's common for a person to get a salad instead of a burger or something and say "this is my/your/his diet" very casually without implying the person is fat. He was telling the brother that he doesn't need to overreact to her skipping meals because you can skip a meal or two for diet reasons. Yes it's very common in Korean culture to normalize dieting and for everyone to think they need to diet and have it thrown around casually. People say to each other at work "I'm on a diet". It's not necessarily a phrase that comes out of a fat person's mouth. Basically even dogs and cats will be saying "i'm on a diet" in Korea. However, It's NOT normal to just make jokes about someone's weight. That's still rude no matter what.

[@notkaitlyn_]

@@FistDaMonkey I saw a video about Koreans communicating from Dave (idk if u know him but) like I saw how he first came to Korea and like have friends and stuff and one of his friends meets him after a very long time goes like " hey Dave how u been? You seem like you haven't lost weight" smt like that and like Dave was shocked at first but after few years living in Korea it turns out to be a norm so

[@aemun7475]

Him: “ All brothers do that” Me: looks at my brother who smacked on my HEad this morning for no reason

[@mpumim652]

My brother literally jst went into my room farted then left like whaat

[@Snowhite-tx4sm]

My brother either ignores me or throw a bottle at me.

[@lilyjohnson420]

He has wasted 11 years of her life where she could live and be happy, find a husband have kids, etc... but he has abandonment issues so he is holding on the the fragments of a stable family life or at least that is what he thinks he is doing when he really is driving her away and making her uncomfortable. I think there should be times where he is allocated to see her under the supervision of the mother because this is too far. He obviously needs to go to therapy or something and over come his problems before this becomes too much for everyone. Especially the sister. Rant over. :)

[@bravssara]

the comment abt her weight was uhhhhhhhh unnecessary

[@Neha-ue3uk]

I agree it was....

[@johannasuoranta4614]

Agree

[@meiai6487]

Well that's Korea for ya

[@niamhlavery8893]

i 100% agree but i read that "uhhhhhhh" as that fukin mcdonalds meme about ordering food lmao

[@epiquewenqa]

25:53 for someone who reacted like crazy, she says its not a concern -_- these ppl who vote, they shouldn't vote base on their opinion on their own life but how it affects HER life.

[@miki2849]

mark looks so grown and mature wth my son is becoming a whole man 🤧🤧🤧

[@miki2849]

OK BUT IM CRINGING SO HARD AT THIS CONCERN WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK IS UP WITH THE BROTHER

[@mizizz3793]

Lol my thoughts exactly

[@xkookiesmilkx]

nomoredickpics You mean a whole... SNACC 🙄😂

[@noonescrush]

right 😭

[@opal9844]

Glad i'm not the only one who noticed

[@binieweanie]

Doyoung and mark in some serious crack if they don't think it's a concern

[@amy-ge9sv]

I love them but I agree.

[@angelchong1887]

I wanna like ur comment but I can't. Not because I don't agree with you, it's just that the likes are 127 im not sure if I can ruin this moment😂😂

[@mrnarason]

I think its just because their guys and can't understand from the sister's perspective so it just comes off as innocuous to them.

[@iknowherfacebutnothername1123]

Him: “all brothers do that” Lmao what, I haven’t seen my brother for 9 days or spoken to him in 5 days. We live in the same house 😂 Girl run while you can

[@mwk2770]

I think her brother need a psychiatrist.... He seems to mentally abnormal

[@Ariasofnight]

Khutheibam W.K. TRUE

[@whiteg1815]

Pretty much

[@dreamcatcherdami1732]

Khutheibam W.K. yeah...not only that he also need some pyschotherapist(psycho the rapist)...heheh im just jidding just tell me if its kinda corny or seriously super duper corny hehe