“I’ve had the privilege to not be angry” damn julen. Damn. That really was profound. Thank you for reflecting and understanding
@WynneLКүн бұрын
Hear, hear. As someone who grew up without a lot of privilege, there's no shame in having privilege--only in not recognizing it, or worse, denying it and gaslighting others. We need people like Julien in this world, to speak to people of privilege who don't get it.
@jordanjacobs90444 күн бұрын
His shirt is made by company called Transfigure, which is a great queer-owned company in Michigan that really gives back to the community and makes great stuff!!
@hannahreen4 күн бұрын
Thank you for this!!
@MamaStyles4 күн бұрын
Ty! I’ve got two trans kids and although I don’t have money for groceries let alone a shirt….my birthday is in December so I’m gonna ask for this ❤❤❤
@samm91514 күн бұрын
I just ordered one. ❤
@kitm1414 күн бұрын
Well, take my money! Thank you for the info, I’m checking my basket out now.
@samm91514 күн бұрын
@@MamaStyles im sending so much love and positivity your way. Happy early birthday ❤️
@sarraphinasorrow4 күн бұрын
Jenna was the big sister who taught me to think big and spread love growing up. Julien is the big brother who to this day gifts me sunshine on gray days in my adult life. We are lucky to have this corner of the internet. Thank you both for all you have gotten me thru in just being yourselves 💚 love you dinks.
@DanielleVlog3653 күн бұрын
This is exactly how it feels.
@reny77252 күн бұрын
Yes exactly. 😔 miss you Jenna🖤
@amber4305Күн бұрын
As a woman in florida, I didn't realize how many women hate other women and themselves. I don't understand.
@laurenrenfro828820 сағат бұрын
Women despise other women. It's wild to me. Most women are "not like other women." And they see themselves as a part from, or one of the "good ones." One that the guys will accept as different than other women and let them have a pass from all the horror other women are gonna face. Just like other minorities who voted for him they seem themselves as the exception. We need to work together to care for one another and not be such an individualistic society. It's wild. I'm sorry you're in Florida in these times. I wish you strength and the ability to move should you need it or want it. Sending love and support from Chicago.
@comicartbymar216320 сағат бұрын
It's so soul crushing but especially when you realize it isn't only women hating other women which is fn crushing enough but it's everyone...humans hating other humans.... people everywhere lacking any empathy for people anywhere... it's so surreal and I still don't know if it really fully sunk in yet to me....I don't want to believe it
@Deus_ex_lucifina19 сағат бұрын
More so that they like to think they are seen as equal to men by our society, and that because they claim to be Christian they are a moral absolute.
@KateCarew13 сағат бұрын
I was sadly not shocked by the internalized misogyny that showed its face. In 2016 I had to accept (we all had to come to terms with…) the staggering racism, xenophobia, fear and downright absence of empathy, kindness and compassion that persists in our fellow man. I was raised by my grandfather a Holocaust survivor and he taught me to always hope, always face life with optimism, but don’t fool yourself into assuming people are inherently good. Most are, but some simply aren’t. Fit some of us it’s just so obvious how we should be, how we should live but other people are driven by a different set of motivations. It’s demoralizing, depressing and ultimately very SAD, but I’ll take some disappointment in exchange for feeling connected to our tribe.
@marahbaker861512 сағат бұрын
@@KateCarewMy husband and I were just having this discussion earlier today, it really is internalized misogyny and it's so sad
@k4zbr04 күн бұрын
I'm trans and became an orphan because of this election. Told my dad I was officially cutting contact with my mom (who has been abusive my whole life) and she made him choose between us. He chose her. I wish people understood how evil they are. But I am determined to persevere and uplift myself and the rest of my community. We have each other. Don't lose hope. We have gotten through so much and will continue to revolutionize the rest of the world to catch up with us.
@LessThanThree764 күн бұрын
@@k4zbr0 Stay safe and stay strong. You are not alone in this. ❤️
@Grace_dink9064 күн бұрын
70 million people voted for your rights including everyone here much love 💜💙
@kitm1414 күн бұрын
You’re the third trans person I’ve heard this story from in the last few days and I expect to hear more. It’s horrifying. Your determination and refusal to stop hoping is beautiful. I grieve with you and I believe in you.
@ink444l4 күн бұрын
i believe in you and am incredibly sorry. this is unfathomable. you matter to me now
@dumpsterpanda884 күн бұрын
I know we don't know each other personally, but if you’re in the Dink fam you matter to me and so many other people. Found family can be even more powerful than our blood sometimes and I think that's what this community is. Hang in there 💙
@chaicat34 күн бұрын
it is terrifying to live in a country that doesn't treat you like a human, i hope everyone is doing okay 🫂
@KindaMinimal4 күн бұрын
I hope you are doing ok as well!!
@tluvsbeauty14 күн бұрын
Sending vibes of love, compassion, protection, safety, and peace to anyone who reads this🫶🏼 We all have inherent worth as human beings, and I’m so fucking sorry that half of the country believes otherwise… the gravity of the grief and anger I feel at that truth is ungodly - I hope we are all able to give ourselves the space, grace, and compassion to be messy and angry and upset for as long as we need rn.
@realm90033 күн бұрын
I dont understand why everyones so scared? most of the problems people are discussing are state problems. Vote for people in your state you trust
@yellow.31823 күн бұрын
@@realm9003for me at least it has a lot to do with the people who voted for him. That’s who I’m scared of, because the election revealed that their are a lot more of them than a lot of us thought. The hateful rhetoric that Trump and his supporters spread around leads to violence and hate crimes, so those in minorities are scared of being attacked, especially in red states. As a woman, the fact that a r*pist and raging misogynist were voted to run this country, and the fact that a lot of young men voted for him, has made me fear men more than I ever have.
@BubbleBunnyy3 күн бұрын
@@realm9003 Look at things like project 2025. They want to change the country in a big way, I live in Florida and it's sucking so much right now. Abortion is not going to be able to happen after 6 weeks. Women will die because of that. Women who get pregnant, have something traumatizing happen to their baby, and they cant abort it even for a serious medical issue will be the reason women die. It happened to a woman in texas. She was having a miscarriage and because it stoill had a heartbeat they couldn't help her and she got sepsis and passed away.
@wborgfeld14 күн бұрын
Man. “I feel like I need to apologize for my demographic” is the most apt way to describe my feelings. That and an existential dread that comes with raising a daughter in Texas under this administration.
@cinditas874 күн бұрын
As a fellow Texan, the dread is real, and you're not alone❤
@PeachysMom4 күн бұрын
As a yt woman, I am right there with you. We really let the entire gender down.
@CazzPhoenix4 күн бұрын
I've been struggling with that feeling for a bit myself and I saw the chat where many were saying "you don't have to apologize" which I fully get, but knowing that I, a straight (presenting) white cis man am mostly going to be okay, when so many others are not sucks to say the least.
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@ESPHMacD2 күн бұрын
The dread, but also this deep grief that no matter how hard I try I will never be able to atone for the atrocities that people who look like me wreck on to all of us with pride. What matters though is that we keep pushing on, that we, of all people, don’t give up on the future we all were fighting for.
@maddijones72234 күн бұрын
Once it was called I immediately turned to your videos Julien and Jenna’s old videos. I needed to disassociate for my mental health and watching your game play and Jenna doing crafts and whatever made her happy got me through the past few days. I needed to laugh and forget for a second so I could build myself back up and now I’m fired up and I can’t thank you and Jenna enough for that for helping me through this. Dink fam for life ❤
@LawNerdAmber4 күн бұрын
Yep, I'm forever grateful she and Julien both made/make content. They bring/brought so much joy.
@cutecats5324 күн бұрын
Life hack: if you delete all of your youtube history then watch jnj vids they'll recomend a lot of jnj vids. Been me too lately. I'm having a little extra bad life on top right now so don't know if I can even watch this video.
@Serendipity000004 күн бұрын
I did the exact same thing! It helped
@EmilysBickel4 күн бұрын
I also watched old Jenna and Julien videos 😢
@kawaiisakuramochi49574 күн бұрын
I did the same thing, too! I’m still rewatching their old content.
@theyoshow4 күн бұрын
I don't like being angry. But I am. It's hurt manifesting as anger. How does one continue to love a country that loathes people who look like me?
@Grace_dink9064 күн бұрын
i’m so unbelievably sorry 💙
@ilovenycsomuch4 күн бұрын
What do you look like? Who loaves what you look like?
@dreamweaver4444 күн бұрын
@@ilovenycsomuchis that even relevant
@iseetheWAYVision4 күн бұрын
@@ilovenycsomuch Stop.
@mayapowers964 күн бұрын
I love you
@CozieGhosty4 күн бұрын
It’s definitely shocking but not surprising. Though I dared to hope, and I feel kind of betrayed. I know we can make it through and we must stand for and support each other. But sometimes it just feels… sad.
@samanthaaiello4 күн бұрын
Perfectly summarized my feelings. I knew it was a possibility, but I really hoped for a different outcome 😔
@M0rbidCuriositea4 күн бұрын
Betrayed is certainly a way of summing it up.
@KiPisMe4 күн бұрын
This is exactly how I feel. Every word of it.
@samm91514 күн бұрын
You’re not alone in those feelings. Keep safe, keep loving, and keep pushing on. There is still hope. Communities like this prove so.
@vertebrate35074 күн бұрын
“We” as the collective will survive but we are about to witness so much more preventable death. We aren’t all gonna survive this
@giuliacacciatore47654 күн бұрын
thank you for being my safe place for as long as you’ve been on youtube julien.💙
@lisaneukar4 күн бұрын
Dont let the result of this election change our closest circles. Volunteer, donate, protest, and communicate. If we support each other, we can continue to keep some version of our beautiful community through the coming years. Wishing everyone Peace Love and Saftey ❤️
@lilahend4 күн бұрын
Yes!!
@Kaye09MNchick4 күн бұрын
Connection is SOOO important!! You can still do good things for the community! 💛
@KiPisMe4 күн бұрын
It just doesn't make any sense. My brain can't process this outcome. It has made me realize the amount of hate that exsists outside of the California bubble that I live in. The amount of people who value the price of eggs over human life. All I can do is protect and love from my little spot in the world.
@ilovenycsomuch4 күн бұрын
You said it right there: you’re living in a bubble… you need to be more aware of what’s outside the echo chamber of your bubble & the news you watch
@Kayroreeder4 күн бұрын
Have you seen the California voting map? 39.8% of the state voted for Trump and he won the majority of counties
@theonlybingledingle4 күн бұрын
@@ilovenycsomuchSo why are you here? Why are you here to just make upset people, more upset? Do you get off on it? Is it something that just *really* kisses your ego? Reflect on how you choose to spend your time.
@JalapenoBizniz4 күн бұрын
@@ilovenycsomuchthe same can be said to you? Go away
@Amelia_Rose_3334 күн бұрын
@@ilovenycsomuchthere’s no problem living in a bubble when it’s full of safety, acceptance, and love. For some reason people like you just want to go around popping all the bubbles and making sure NO ONE feels safe. 🤮
@PositiveRaincloud4 күн бұрын
I have never had such horrific anxiety in my life about this election, and I'm not even a U.S citizen. I'm from South Wales, UK. But the majority of Europe is literally sympathizing with you all. We're really scared as well. It's also made me question my entire reality and everything I've ever known. Never would I have thought such a forward country would vote for someone with stone age political views. Please stay strong.
@Kaye09MNchick4 күн бұрын
Just remember that there are great people here too! Not all of us voted for Trump. 💛
@ytn1f4 күн бұрын
Same here. I’m Canadian and for days leading up to the election my chest was hurting non-stop like a severe anxiety attack. I almost went to the hospital but I figured it was the election and the pain went away Wednesday morning… replaced by sadness of course. I’m so sorry to everyone in the US- the world is grieving with you 😞💔
@English3Muffin4 күн бұрын
American and I’ve barely eaten or slept since Tuesday. My anxiety has also never been so bad. Thank you for the sympathy. The one thing I’m holding onto, even in knowing we can’t even blame the electoral college this time, is I know tens of millions of us didn’t want this. And I have to believe a significant portion of those who voted for him aren’t going to want what is about to happen, they just didn’t realize it. Sending love. Will do my part in mitigating the harm he’s about to inflict on us and the world. 💙
@exnedu17384 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. It does make everything a little easier.
@lavendermenace80784 күн бұрын
@@ytn1f ya everyone I talked to here (east coast of Canada) was anxious, and the overwhelming sense of dread, and questioning how it could happen is a lot. I'm so scared for what it will do to all those people, and I'm so nervous to see how it will also affect us. Our politics tend to kinda copycat the states and we have a federal election coming up in a year and several provinces just had or are having their elections. Hoping canada stays safe to give the folks who can move a place to seek refuge. I know there was some discussions on changing refugee conditions for people coming from the states if it was due to trans/homophobia but it unfortunately probably never happen cause canada does so much of our trade with the USA, so doing anything to upset them would fuck us over finically (I don't think you should prioritize money over people's safety but our government does not hold the same sentiment)
@someguyvan4 күн бұрын
ur the best example of a person who legitimately uses their platform and privilege for the maximum good that i could ever conceive of. thank you for all that you do
@camila_nailedit36454 күн бұрын
I hope one day San Fran Solomita sees this video and realize that they have the best dad ever💜
@meljstephan4 күн бұрын
I feel like if I let myself cry about it, I won't stop.
@yahchiminie65304 күн бұрын
from one dink to another, i'm glad you're here and a part of this community. it's not over yet. we're still in this and i for one am not ready to give up. take time to feel your emotions and when you're ready to get back up there's a spot waiting for you. sending you lots of love 💜
@marcykiger98994 күн бұрын
Sending you love
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@ushanka473 күн бұрын
lmaooo
@BenleyyКүн бұрын
we'll get through this together!
@junegirl98704 күн бұрын
My husband is trans, and I'm a stay at home mom. I was and still am angry, and hold my daughter tighter. But I've decided to turn that anger into action for my family. Making sure legal paperwork is in place, that we have plans, that we will fight through this. Thank you Julien and dink fam for making this a safe space, my husband and I can mentally rest here, and we need it now more than ever. I'm grateful
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@dchouk26804 күн бұрын
I’m trans and Canadian and our government has our own looming clown (PP) preparing for an election, parroting republican US ideas, but my heart is with you all right now. 💛 Especially with my fellow trans people, and all other marginalized people, on that side of the border. My own parents fell down the right-wing radicalization pipeline and I’ve been no-contact with them going on 7 years. It’s so destructive. Virtual hugs from next door 🫂😞
@Akanikki3 күн бұрын
My 6 yo son is trans. Im terrified of the election next year. Sending mom love from BC ❤❤
@nikoandros12204 күн бұрын
while i’m more of a lurker (watch vods mostly) ty for fostering a community that feels safe ❤- as a trans masc it still means the world to me, even if i’m not an active participant
@DobbiWandKenobi4 күн бұрын
I’m terrified as an immigrant living in Texas. I’ve spent almost entire life here, this is all I know. I’m tired and frightened. Growing up exactly the same as everyone else but having zero of the rights they do has always angered me, but I stayed motivated to grow in spite of it. And now, I don’t know. I’m scared for myself, my family, my female and queer friends, strangers who will be affected. Thank you for your words, as well as everyone else here in the comments, it’s beautiful to see that support and love is everywhere, even in the most painful and difficult moments. Wish you well everyone!
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@thewillow3457Сағат бұрын
Stay safe and good luck. Sadly a massive population that voted were hispanic males.
@hopemxx15244 күн бұрын
6:30 .. crying cuz my 'punk' friend group dissolved to rally for an abuser. so yeah, its an extreme disappointment to be failed by the men who say they support you.
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@Wraiven223 күн бұрын
Wow. There is absolutely nothing “punk” about voting for a far-right silver spoon nepotism billionaire. Unbelievable.
@thelostremainunfound4 күн бұрын
Thank you for saying something. I'm a gay, disabled trans man and seeing silence from so many creators is less comforting and more agonizing because it feels like they don't care or see the pain those of us who will be effected most are going through. It isn't comforting to have someone who doesn't want to "ruin the vibe" ignore the very real cost this election has. I don't need regular videos about the situation by any means, but an acknowledgment of those of us who are scared goes a long way to feeling less like the world is caving in on all sides. I don't know what we're going to do but god I pray it is even only just half as bad as we are fearing. It will still be a terrifying and evil time to live through but at least there would be a chance at rebuilding. Right now I fear there won't even be a stone to kick with the plan to level the country that looms over us.
@M00N_IVY4 күн бұрын
Exactly my thoughts as well. It felt healing in a way to hear him acknowledge it but also give us comfort through what he does. I think thats exactly what we all need in order to process. Like community is so important and it helped to cry while he talked about it for awhile. I hope you stay safe and know I see you and care about you, your rights and your well being.❤
@loganwebb11714 күн бұрын
I’m sorry that you feel so scared. This is a scary time for America; we truly don’t know what Trump and his administration are going to do, and it’s terrifying. The only thing I disagree with in your statement is when you mentioned other creators. I disagree in particular that them not talking about the election means they’re ignoring their audience. They could still be trying to process this craziness, too, and are not ready to talk about it. Just my two cents, though.
@M00N_IVY4 күн бұрын
@loganwebb1171 yeah it literally just happened so it would make sense if people need time to process.💕
@thelostremainunfoundКүн бұрын
@@loganwebb1171 I should have been more specific. I was not having a great day and was thinking emotionally and I forget that the people I follow are more essayists and those who regularly talk about controversial topics or the like so seeing them shy from it is hurtful. I also follow political channels and seeing them not directly mention trans people being in harms way in all this really frustrates and discourages me. Obviously not /all/ channels need to mention politics. I actually did not expect Julian to mention anything (mainly because I don’t keep up on his live stream content as much as I wish I did) so that was a pleasant surprise. We’re all processing this differently and ultimately I don’t need a internet celebrity to say something so I feel better. I just want people in general to acknowledge what a blow to several communities this is and many won’t until an influencer tells them to care or brings it to their attention. Not a system I’m particularly happy with but one that exists regardless sadly. That said, I do agree that people likely need processing time. We all do, I know I have and am still processing. I hope more people are willing to make messages of hope (doom and gloom even when acknowledging the impact on minorities is not helpful for mine and others mental health) because already the amount of unalive attempts and completions have gotten frightening and people need to hear that things will be okay. We have to survive because d3ath is not an option but hope is crucial to the sustaining of life in times like this. If that at all came off harsh or clinical, I’m sorry. I don’t mean it to be. I’m admittedly still numb even almost a week later. I don’t know if I’ll ever fully process it until we hit January. Much love, my friend. Please stay safe during these next four years 🧡
@x3BobOКүн бұрын
This! ❤
@poultonpawtrol4 күн бұрын
Sending love to anyone in the world right now who needs it. The change will come, we will get there. I am with you 💙
@samm91514 күн бұрын
As a transman to a cisman….thank you. Thank you for being a man I can look up to with pride. Edit: The apology was not needed because you have nothing to be sorry for. Just like I cant help my walk in life just existing as I am, neither can you. It’s what we do with our voice that matters and you are amazing.
@MamaStyles4 күн бұрын
I’m the mother of two trans teenagers and two teen daughters who our biggest worry up until now was putting groceries on the table and now I’m worried they could be killed or carted off 😭 What have people done!!!
@TypeHoeNegative4 күн бұрын
thank you for being you! ♡
@English3Muffin4 күн бұрын
Sending love to you and your family. I am so sorry. Hug your babies and stay safe. 🩵🤍🩷
@DaphneORiley4 күн бұрын
They say they're taking back America, what really gets me is the traitors part of the LGBTQ community that voted for him. Talk about Stockholm syndrome.
@ItsDozzy4 күн бұрын
no one's killing anyone ma'am relax. no one is making murder legal.
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@shilox54694 күн бұрын
I instantly texted my American friend and almost demanded her to come to my country (🇩🇰) and stay here. Its scary- stay safe ya’ll. Please look out for each other, All of the nordic countries and all of Europe is with you. We can’t believe it either.
@hannahbrown54654 күн бұрын
How are the vegan options there 😅😅😅
@kh65984 күн бұрын
We're here allright! 🇫🇮💙 Heartbroken and confused but we'll keep up the fight together! Sending strength and light to everyone🤍
@InsoIence4 күн бұрын
A Pole in UK sending warmth. It went well in my country and where I live, I hoped for the same for USA. Nothing is yet lost though and none of it is guaranteed either. We must always be ready and need to work even harder to have it well. You know as they say - anything worth having is worth fighting for. All of the best to those who have been failed.
@kitm1414 күн бұрын
Aw, hell yes we are. 🇬🇧 I’ve heard some American friends worry that they will be judged by non Americans and honestly, that won’t happen. If you wanted something better, if you voted for change, there’s nothing but sympathy and concern here. We are watching and we are worried for you.
@pennylan3644 күн бұрын
Well I can pack my bags in half hour, my friend 😊
@Maybetomorrow224 күн бұрын
I'm not american but i feel so sad, angry and scared for the women, bipoc and members of the lgbtqia+ community. I've never wanted to vote in another country's election so much. You all deserve so much better, stay as safe as you can and please stay, so many people have left this earth already as a result of this. Love and support from the uk xx
@freddy75342 сағат бұрын
As a queer poc, this is the kind of cis straight man that I would feel safe around. Your existence gives me hope 🫶🏾
@sarahjulien28134 күн бұрын
Sending lots of love to you, Jenna, and the doggies.
@curcapsicum4 күн бұрын
Fucking hell Julien. The world needs more people like you, and I mean that so intensely. I can relate to so much of how you're feeling, even as a Canadian. Keep being you, man.
@reny77252 күн бұрын
There’s lots of us, just not on socials lol
@amandaking95274 күн бұрын
I don’t feel angry this week. Before the election I felt a lot of fear, but now I feel sad. I hate how divided everyone feels. My family and I are worlds away just because of the media we consume and I don’t understand how they can be so blind to the fear and suffering of other humans. I try to extend as much understanding to them as I can, but I never feel like I get the same respect. They don’t even know how much damage they’ve done to our relationship because of their unwillingness to even consider that they might be wrong for a second. It’s so painful, even though I care so much about them and know they think they’re doing the right thing.
@3mma_lee4 күн бұрын
The moment i heard the results, I ran to the discord bc i KNEW if there was any community that could empathize and understand my pain and anger it would be the dink fam. So a HUGE thank you for creating such a safe space for us and thank you dink fam for always being there. The day after the election, I put my phone on dnd and sunk into my bed while watching your videos bc i knew your content (in addition to chris and julia of course) would help to heal my broken spirit. You definitely are a source of light to a lot of us. I will forever be grateful for you sharing a piece of yourself with us.
@garyprime69834 күн бұрын
A lot of my family don’t understand why I’m so upset and disappointed with these results and the future to come. But I don’t understand how they don’t have empathy for those people being targeted and the ones who are going to suffer and not the ones that don’t make it four years because of who’s in charge and dictating their own life decisions/possibilities. Love y’all and take care during these next four years🫶
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@cassidyb.35314 күн бұрын
Needed this, thank you papa
@theslenderchick17974 күн бұрын
Man, Julien, you really hit the nail on the head. You put these feelings into words that I myself could not because of just how lost I felt. I worry about my trans friends, I worry about the women in my life, I worry about my own partner who is black (I am a cisfemale, but I am also pansexual and a mixed person of color). Like there is so many feelings we are having to come to terms with, almost like the stages of grief...
@rivergreen17274 күн бұрын
My roommate (platonic partner) and I spent Wednesday evening researching emigration options. Unless things change dramatically between now and graduation, I'm leaving once I finish nursing school. So grateful to be going into a career that can open international doors for me.
@EmilyRose43434 күн бұрын
As a Canadian in the USA and in the system for 30 years highly recommend looking into backlogs of which countries you are looking at.
@ThisIsOverratedx4 күн бұрын
We have a nursing shortage in Australia atm, but finding a place can be hard coz of our housing crisis. If you don't mind living outside a major city it may be an option. I hope you both end up somewhere safe and comfortable ❤
@missbeaussie4 күн бұрын
I fear that there won't be anywhere to run to soon.
@peacechickification4 күн бұрын
@@missbeaussiethis is the problem. It’ll be everywhere. I’m in Canada and I was sad and scared thinking about us accepting refugees.. until I realized that after our next election we may not be any different anyways. I’m already rallying on how to make sure our election doesn’t mirror Tuesday.
@lee_yuhhh4 күн бұрын
question: what is a platonic partner?
@CrackahCrushah4 күн бұрын
As straight white dude. I feel your feelings hard. The least I can do to compensate for the damage inflicted by those like me. I do everything I can to support women, women have been amazing to me. The least I can do is be a mature man that’s supports them every way I’m able to.
@serazvi53874 күн бұрын
We value safe men like you so much. Just so you know.
@ItsDozzy4 күн бұрын
you you should feel the most amount of disgusting shame every morning when you wake up, remind yourself you're a privileged white man. carry around that guilt and shame. let it eat away at you. never be proud of who you are and never stick up for yourself. :) I find doing this helps me wonders when dealing with my white guilt and you should do the same
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@Sumtimreh4 күн бұрын
While I appreciate this message, I do worry about your health Julien. I hope you also take care of yourself and don't try to take on the weight of the world. We watched Jenna do that and it hurt so much when it broke her. I hope you both remember you are loved and your wellbeing is important to us.
@beaniby5 сағат бұрын
My parents, my sister, and my wife’s parents voted for the winner. Against mine & my wife’s pleas for them not to support someone who wants to strip our rights away, and the rights of other marginalized communities. There were so many people staring at my wife when she and I went to vote because she’s gender queer. It was an awful feeling, we’ve been looking into moving to another state… We live in Kentucky Thank you for your heartfelt sentiments and supportive words 🫶🏼
@_niyabella21 сағат бұрын
As a black queer woman, it’s so infuriating. She was so qualified. OVERLY qualified. But the country’s so racist and sexist and homophobic… it’s miserable living here, or anywhere, honestly, as someone who looks like me. You never ever truly feel safe.
@elissahe237719 сағат бұрын
That's not even the case. She wasn't in the primaries so she had no votes for her, but she somehow won the nominee. She has been VP for the last 4 years now and she has not once been to our borders. She was supposed to be the border czar but she failed because she doesn't care. Multiple wars have started under Biden and she has no plan on finding a MIDDLE GROUND COMPROMISE to end them because when there's war, the government can abuse the 16th amendment against the working class. Why would you follow the party that weaponizes the LGBTQ and POC into fear of the other side. I rooted for Trump and I don't give a shit about who you sleep with, what you think you are, your skin, or any of that because it doesn't affect what's going in or out of my pocket and you're not in my bed. We had major floods happening on the east coast and all Kamala offered to those who lost homes, valuables, and family was $750 that they would have to pay back plus interest or they would lose everything again. And you're okay with that? She's willing to give illegals over $2k a month and free housing, but can't do that for people who are legally here and would be her charges to take care of? Open your eyes and stop thinking it's about the LGBTQ or your race
@PoohBear9217 сағат бұрын
I bet if it was republican woman running you wouldn’t vote for her. So stop crying racism and all that bs.
@meg24443 күн бұрын
Anger isn't inherently bad. It's your body's way of telling you about injustice and unfairness, it is the spark that ignites action, and resistance. It is not a bad thing to be angry. We just have to find productive ways to channel that anger. Let's all use this justified anger to refuse dystopia, to refuse fascism and isolationism and oppression. Let's be angry together, so we can fight for each other. Thank you for this beautiful statement Julien
@dumpsterpanda884 күн бұрын
Thank you for this message Julien. You vocalized a lot of what I've been feeling. As a white person I also feel shame and anger at those in my demographic voting to take others rights away and voting against their own interests. But as a queer disabled female, who likely won't survive the next four years if certain policies are passed, I just feel scared. I'm grateful for communities like this helping to amplify minority voices and keep each other safe where we can 💙💜
@ushanka473 күн бұрын
no one’s rights are being taken
@markigirl27575 сағат бұрын
Just know there are those that will fight for u. We will unfortunately have to learn the hard way bc we as Americans are complacent
@FoxRatajczak4 күн бұрын
Thank you Julien. I'm terrified as a queer, disabled person. I genuinely don't know what to do with myself, but your streams have given me so much comfort throughout my life. Your words mean a lot in a not parasocial way
@leothepuppp4 күн бұрын
fellow trans neurodivergent man here, i'm not in america but the president of my country (argentina) 100% supports tr*mp and their beliefs, when we got the election the only thing i felt was sad and worried, all i could say to my friends is that we got each other's back in any way we can, we're still surviving wishing all of you in usa lots of love and courage and hope, sending my best thoughts to all of you there
@maiutisКүн бұрын
eaaa
@sarachapa47974 күн бұрын
Ty for sharing this with us, Julien. Your vulnerability and your platform, and the beauty you provide to make us (or at least me, I can only speak for me) feel safe is so incredibly needed. And I thank you for giving me a space to feel safe being me. Ily and I appreciate you.
@madisonp2804 күн бұрын
In a state of mourning. Grief stricken. We can only do our best to be the kind of people we need and fight to protect each other
@doomedjane4 күн бұрын
For me it hardly feels real
@makaylarae7354 күн бұрын
seriously. like a nightmare.
@KiPisMe4 күн бұрын
Right. It just doesn't make sense.
@AmathystCrow4 күн бұрын
I really needed this real message. The comfort you and the dink community brings is so needed. You put a lot of what I was feeling into words. It's everything to know there's people like me out there and there's some sort of hope. Living in a red state as a queer woman is very isolating sometimes. I love you all, even though we've never met. I see you. Your light and compassion is priceless. Never stop caring, even though it hurts sometimes
@julisa73 күн бұрын
Ladies, if any of you have considered taking a martial art, do it now. I started training Brazilian Jiu Jitsu this summer and I'm a woman of color. We need to be prepared unfortunately... but if you find the right gym/community it's so worth it. It helps your confidence, mental and physical health, you find a great community, and learn a new skill. Just endless benefits. Stay safe.
@tigerlilyjanineКүн бұрын
You’re making me cry. My spouse is nonbinary and my sister is trans and suicidal. I keep typing these comments under various KZbin videos wanting to connect and then never posting them because I don’t even know what to say. Thank you for acknowledging your privilege and the scope of your influence. I have certain privileges too, and I’m determined to do the very most with them. Love to you and everyone here ❤
@This_Is_Just_To_SayКүн бұрын
Love to you too ❤ And to your spouse and sister ❤
@Nyxxsify4 күн бұрын
Times are changing and not for the better. It's a tough pill to swallow. I know many are angry including myself. Now the question is how do I make a change. I cannot sit around and cry. Now is the time to fight to make my voice louder. Take all the anger and do something about it. I plan to do that and I hope many here do the same.
@avianna77384 күн бұрын
YES! THIS is the transmutation we all need to be shifting our anger into. 🙌
@markigirl27575 сағат бұрын
THISSSS
@SmallTunechiКүн бұрын
Long time lurker, but this is one of the greatest communities I've quietly been part of. What you've cultivated here is truly beautiful. As a black woman, I'm not even surprised, honestly. This is just what this country does to us over & over again and STILL we try to pick it back up. I'm carrying on because I have an 18 yr old son & I'm worried for LGBTQIA+, immigrants, disabled people...and any other marginalized community. I'll help them however I can, for however long I can. But Julien, sincerely...thank you.
@clo_beanery4 күн бұрын
Julien… you should never feel obliged to apologize for your entire demographic. You are ONE person, you are an individual. And a good one at that.
@heckinCHONK4 күн бұрын
Julian is one of the few creators I feel is genuinely a good person.
@meljstephan4 күн бұрын
I'm devastated, but sadly I'm not surprised. I've been just trying to avoid panic attacks all week
@rawringalykat4 күн бұрын
I hope that you can find something that helps relieve you from panic attacks. I’ve been in the same boat; it’s been this nonstop feeling of dread, anger and anxiety. I hope you find something to bring you peace in these hard times💕
@ObviouslyOwen4 күн бұрын
I struggle with panic as well. Take care, it can be really hard, but you will make it through. For me, panic attack talk down videos are really helpful. If you'd like I can share my favorites. Be well, friend
@Prettymapleleaf3 күн бұрын
Sending love to you
@TheDragonSylvia3 күн бұрын
Okay but why did Julien apologizing for people not protecting me make me cry healing tears?
@CarlosPerez-uz4ol3 күн бұрын
Thank you Julien and the community for being a place for hope, love, and kindness. I am a cis man in a blue state with my fiance being pan. We have friends who live in Florida and we are scared for them. The best we can do is support and advocate for those who can not help themselves. Although the future looks horrible atm, it will not change how we love and support one another. If anything, our love has grown exponentially and it is imperative we watch out for each other. We are all one big family and I would not have it any other way. Big hugs and love to y’all dinks. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Gracyn11023 күн бұрын
This. Friends who I haven’t talked to in years reached out to me bc they knew I would be suffering, and it’s really been the difference between completely giving up and finding the strength to fight another day. Love, hope, and joy is how we get through this, and we’ll get through it together. Wishing you the best ❤
@phoenixliv4 күн бұрын
I am mourning my nation and my faith in half my neighbors.
@beckyolivia15454 күн бұрын
As a woman,a grandmother LGBT grandchild as a part Puertorican person,as a woman of color,as a military wife,as a retiree,iam heartbroken & scared. Seriously considering leaving the US.
@Billybob7161_23 сағат бұрын
“I have a lot to say and nothing to say” is so relatable. I have so many thoughts in my brain but it’s too painful to talk about it.
@starilie4 күн бұрын
The anger for me stems from the injustice happening right before our eyes. No one in power seems to want to do anything about it and roll over. People’s lives and safety is in jeopardy now and they are not doing anything to calm down this rising anxiety from our communities. It’s extremely upsetting. But thank you for being a voice of reason julien, you affect more lives than you know.
@markigirl27575 сағат бұрын
I don’t think it’s the people in power that don’t want to do anything they benefit from it. It’s us that seem to not want to do anything about it tbh.
@maggyny2534 күн бұрын
Don’t feel shame julen. You can be hyper aware, and it is not for nothing. You know your heart and you have helped literally so much in so many ways, so has Jenna. Be angry. Be angry with us. We are all hurt. Thank you for talkin about it man seriously.
@allyhoops23244 күн бұрын
Hearing him apologize for his demographic sent me into tears. Of course, he's never been one that's needed to apologize. But for all my life, the number of sexist remarks and gross male behavior from straight white dudes that has never been apologized for... by anyone... even loved ones. It really hit me hard. If only more men were strong enough to feel shame or apologetic for their peers behaviours, then we probably won't have the toxicicity in the gaming community and even in America. I will remember this message forever, and I hope that the world starts to get behind you Julien and everything you stand for. Thank you.
@MovieTrollop4 күн бұрын
Thank you both for always being a soft place to land when everything is terrifying and big. I hope we can be the same for you, and eachother.
@DevynSpeedRacer4 күн бұрын
As a queer black female presenting person, all I can say is that I have been insanely grateful this week for everyone who keeps loudly saying how much they appreciate and feel for my community. It was so hard to watch more than half of American blatantly say how much they hate everything about me and agree I shouldn’t have any of my rights but for the half that stood with us, y’all have definitely made me feel seen! Thanks for being an amazing human! SUPPORT QUEER BLACK OWN BUSINESSES!!!
@Wraiven223 күн бұрын
Our black community members showed up for us. Our queer community showed up. At least I can take solace in that, even if it was incredibly disturbing to learn that so many people I thought were on our side really aren’t. Big hugs.
@Updog892 күн бұрын
We need to pressure the DNC to get its stuff together and actually promote winning strategies, communication and candidates.
@sindalari4 күн бұрын
I think I'm just in like... denial. I've been going about my days not thinking about what's about to happen to us all. I want to keep myself informed and be proactive but I feel like I will be swallowed by my anxiety and sadness if I do.
@peacechickification4 күн бұрын
So far I’ve had a day of foggy numbness, a day of deeply heavy sadness, and a day of manic, slightly delusional energy that I’m shocked didn’t turn into a panic attack. The hint of denial in the delusion probably helped with that. It’s gonna be a good long while before I’ve even kind of come to terms with this tragedy.
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@mouterspace38924 күн бұрын
This video is the exact reason you are my favorite content creator. Thank you for being empathetic and kind. Thank you for giving me hope that people like you actually do exist. Thank you for standing up for what you believe. Thank you for providing a safe, fun , and welcoming community. Thank you for being authentic and real. And thank you for being the light that I can look for when I am in the dark.
@casrrole4 күн бұрын
hearing him say I had the privilege not to be angry really made me feel like my anger isn’t displaced. I’m not American, but American politics take up such space in the world that I’m angry for people allowing this to happen. I’m angry for how okay they make it seem to be taking peoples rights away. I’m angry that politicians and people in my country will undoubtedly use this to wield that same sword. I’m so angry at how fucking useless and worthless people keep telling me I am. It fucking sucks. And I have so much hatred in my body for people that made this normal.
@Aether_Paradox3 күн бұрын
Hi Julien (Black Man in Ohio here) I personally don’t think you need to apologize. You aren’t the problem. And I’m sure the other people here agree. I’ve been lurking since Jenna went dark and have always appreciated your awesome outlook and vibes. We will get through this together.
@HeyoItsZero4 күн бұрын
I feel so hurt by this election. My neighbors all have their signs up, all showing they're unsafe to go to or trust. Thank you for being a good and safe place and making a good and safe place. Y'all please be safe and know none of us deserve to live in fear and deserve to live life as our full, authentic selves.
@TheWeeklyFangirl2 күн бұрын
The rage is an appropriate gut reaction when facing this kind of injustice. The rage means you know what's happening is wrong. And it is wrong. We shouldn't be this terrified for the future, and terrified of our government, and even unsure of who to trust within our own ranks because about half of us just betrayed the other half. This shouldn't be happening...the rage is natural. It means you're paying attention.
@Oopster374 күн бұрын
Definitely feel that anger and frustration, but also an urge to be better for those around me. Thank you for this ❤
@ash211114 күн бұрын
hugs to you all, I see you and am with you
@alexisshead30004 күн бұрын
Julien you are truly so wonderful. You are a very empathetic person and so incredibly intelligent. You have always used your platform for good things and helping lift up the voices that need to be heard. I am scared as a women but your page is an escape that is so needed 💙 dink dink
@arianazagarella73152 күн бұрын
I’m part of a Facebook chat group. Most are in Australia and when my state went for Harris they started blowing me up. As the night went on we all watched in horror and they were concerned because if America gets into any wars their country deploys as well. People who voted this way are incapable of thinking of or caring about how our one country affects the rest of the entire world. I felt the need the next morning to apologize for my whole country.
@alyssafletcher77864 күн бұрын
I'm here in Texas and am absolutely terrified for what's to come in the near future 😢
@sindalari4 күн бұрын
Same here, fellow Texas-stuck person. Stay safe in the sea of red we are amongst.
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@Wraiven223 күн бұрын
I can’t believe Canadian Ted Cruz still won against the most born-and-bred Texan imaginable. So sad for you guys. Here in Indiana we had a similar story with our governor race… these people just voted straight red with no care for who they were really voting for 😢
@nataliepetitt69964 күн бұрын
as a disabled queer person i’m terrified and hurt about all of it. but having a safe space with Julien and the dink fam means more than i could ever express
@LightingInvoker3 күн бұрын
To all the Dinks out there who are struggling these past few days: Thank you for being here. The world is a better place because you're in it.
@AsiaThinks22 сағат бұрын
Your words are appreciated, Julien! Giving Black women who are small creators and businesses a shout-out can significantly help them grow and eventually transition to financial independence and avoid potentially toxic and discriminatory work environments! There has been so much harassment towards Black Women specifically since election night. It's so sad and makes it difficult to justify showing up for a country that will overwhelmingly vote against the best interests of women...
@missjocy924 күн бұрын
My family has already been affected so much by this election. This affects so many of us. Trans people, BIPOC, immigrants, Hispanics, women…
@aghost942120 сағат бұрын
I’ve been angry and shouting into the void my whole life about the world’s issues. I know we need to persevere and fight now more than ever though I can’t help but feel completely burnt out and numb. Thank you for giving us a safe space to recharge, it helps more than you may realize
@fuzzyDinos274 күн бұрын
As a black, disabled, gay & trans femme, who hasn’t received much of these sentiments from people in my life.. thank you. Thank you for acknowledging us, and your privilege. Thank you for your light. I’ve been scared and angry my whole life, and now I’m coming to terms with safety just not being something I’m awarded outside of myself in this country. There’s just a feeling of dread of the danger I know is imminent. Need to be seen and heard more than ever right now. You’re a good human.
@peachyangy4 күн бұрын
love u julien. thank you for what you do and being such a comfort person. the most we can do is move forward while holding on to each other
@DeathRisiing4 күн бұрын
I really appreciate you. I'm in Canada, but the US election affects us too, and our election is coming up soon, and the dude running for conservative PM is a tr*mp clone. My whole family is voting for him. It's really isolating being the only queer person in the family in a country that's becoming more and more hateful. I've never wanted to live so much in my life (have been suicidal for the past 15yrs). I'll keep going out of spite bc f*ck hate. We've got this, fam. ♥
@Kaye09MNchick4 күн бұрын
I feel you with the s*i*cidal thing. I have also felt this way for most of my life, on and off, and I agree. F*ck them! I’m not giving them the satisfaction that another disabled, “woke” person isn’t around to strip their rights of. I’m a person and a citizen and I have rights. Sending love your way. 💛 Stay safe and stay connected to loved ones! That’s going to be really important going forward!
@NightMystique134 күн бұрын
So sorry your family likes smol PP. I hate him too.🖖🏻
@ManicRainbowStudios4 күн бұрын
I've been watching your content for years and I mostly just lurk but I wanted to thank you for this video. This is one of the realest things you could have said and done during this super tumultuous time. Thank you, Julien. I, too, am angry but my community and I are mobilizing in proactive ways. May we all come together as a community to protect and support one another during whatever storms are coming.
@MsOhaiinicole4 күн бұрын
thank you for making me feel seen and heard . i’m a bi disabled woman and no one in my family understands why i’m so upset .
@IvyGrass4 күн бұрын
I've been trying to figure out what i can do to make a difference. Join Food Not Bombs, become a foster parent, become a yoga teacher, become a healer.
@Kaye09MNchick4 күн бұрын
It doesn’t have to be big. Volunteering or just showing that you care can be the thing that changes people’s hearts or lives. 💛
@15.johnsonangel4 күн бұрын
We're so grateful for you Julen! Your feelings are valid and thank you for holding space for us. You've always been appreciated, and these days that appreciation is amplified 🙌🏿✨️💜🙌🏿✨️💜 Thank you for existing! Love you King!
@Wraiven223 күн бұрын
Millennials held strong and voted against that man. I’m so proud of my generation. Infinitely disappointed in Gens Z and X. I really thought we’d save this country once the boomers dropped in numbers… it’s looking like it’s up to millennials.
@DanielleVlog3653 күн бұрын
I thought about you and Jenna this week. Jenna could spit some real life advice back in the day. When I felt the darkness Tues/Wed, I found myself taking note of some of her past advice, and I felt a bit safer. The very next day, I had personal actions in my personal life that showed me she was right about a good world. Julien, your empathy here is tangible, even if you are angry. And you've spit another piece of wisdom I'll be sure not to forget, and let these feelings I have now drive me to do better for the better. Keep going. Idk how we got here, but I'm so thankful for good communities like this one. And I'm so happy you both cultivated this community to be so good for and to one another.
@andreannesylvestre37124 күн бұрын
Theres 600 something comments as we speak and i cant even find one that not a supoortive comment. Im Canadian and im scared too, evrytime i see a video posted about the elections the comment section is filled with this guys supporters saying horrible things, i dont know why but for me the comment section is always so scary to read because it feels more real, it really shows me the real face of people. And all that being said i dont know if this is just well moded or if this community is really just exactly as amazing as i think it is.... Been part of this community since i started speaking english back in 2014 and its always been amazing. Thank you to all the vulnerable stories in the comments, thank you julien for being such an amazing person, yall give me hope, please continue to be visible, please continue to fight and please continue to use any and all privileges you might have for the benefit of people who can't ❤ i love y'all ❤️
@TyTurner22 сағат бұрын
thank you
@vernalearn4 күн бұрын
Im trying to keep two things very front of mind to keep me moving forward. 1. Rage... Rage! Against the dying of the light. (Im so mad but Im keeping my spark so I can keep fighting, keep raging. I will not go gentle into the night.) 2. Rainn Wilson saying "If youre pessimisic, if youre cynical, they WIN because thats how they want you." (I refude to LET them win) Julien, youre so sweet. It makes me so happy to hear youre finding great purpose in holding space for the community.
@JMac-274 күн бұрын
Please please explain to me what you think will happen with Donald Trump in the white house? He has NEVER been against gays or their rights. He's been democrat his whole life up to this point. None of us are against trans individuals either. I'm a HUGE Trump supporter and I have zero problems with trans individuals and some of my favorite artists are lgbtq and trans. Im Bisexual myself. Here is what we believe. Keep it away from kids. We want kids to not be taught or persuaded in regards to sexuality. We want them to be kids. We want women to not be beat up and closed out of sports by bio men. We want women's rights in that regard and for us to matter, bio women matter. Trans sports should be its own category or compete in co-ed leagues if athletes so choose. We don't want kids to be able to transition. We are protecting their bodies. We want to protect them and make sure their bodies can mature properly so if they do choose to transition as adults they have a fully formed peni$ to turn into a v@gina and maybe will be old enough to decide if before they transition they can freeze eggs or have a bio child. We don't want to sterilize children. We don't want a bunch of poor Jazz Jennings who will never know pleasure with a partner or herself and didn't have a mature enough body to be able to properly transition and have the physical body necessary, it's tragic. I know trans people are concerned about staying in their body and experiencing puberty but it serves a purpose that will benefit them. If you really want to attack the people that are causing an issue with that please attack the food and drug administration who are putting so much hormones in food that our children's bodies are sexually maturing at 10 years old now. As far as ab0rti0n rights go. DEMOCRATS HAVE BEEN IN OFFICE FOR 4 YEARS, KAMALA COULD CHANGE THEM TODAY BUT THEY HAVENT. WHY HASNT ANY DEMOCRAT BEEN ON THE WHITE HOUSE LAWN PROTESTING THAT CHANGE!?! It's up to the States and each state elects it's own leadership who makes that decision. Trump is not going any further than that, it's in each states hands. Late term is unacceptable. I'm all for choice up to 10 weeks after that it's a no. Plain and simple and that should be acceptable. I've been there. I've had one and I can tell you it's fu*king traumatizing and horrific and it's been 16 years and I still remember the date time and every nightmarish moment. Hopefully anyone who speaks on it passionately knows what they are actually fighting for because it's NIGHTMARISH!!! Nobody wants anything but to protect Americans our rights our way of life against foreign invaders who could do us harm, protect kids until they are old enough and mature enough to make life altering decisions and protect fully formed babies from being sl@ughtered on delivery tables ok!? We don't want ab0rti0n to be birth control, that's all. No I don't believe we have it right as far as those rights go right now but allowing chop shops is not ok either and irresponsible women should not be allowed to take out fully formed babies that are viable willy nilly ok, that's repulsive. Please tell me what more scares y'all about Republicans? Immigration? I've got that too. We aren't against it, only illegally. In other countries you cannot apply for citizenship until you learn the native language. Here in Texas we are forced to learn Spanish, there are several jobs you can't even apply for without being bilingual, it's INSANE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS TO COME LEGALLY FOR THEIR SAFETY AND OURS OK!?! They will get fair wages, not be afraid of their family being separated every 2 seconds and if they get in a car accident they will actually have valid license and insurance to cover their damages. WE WANT THINGS TO BE DONE LEGALLY AND SAFELY THATS ALL. I will tell you right now nobody is coming for your rights, nobody cares about your sexuality. We care about y'all, we care about children, we care about our country, period. I have zero problems hearing anyone out or answering anything to calm anyone's nervousness or trepidation about the future. I think people forget Trump's been president, all he did was keep w@r from happening because he's the pit bull America needs in this day and time because these other country's are getting bold and crazy and America needs and deserves protecting. Children need and deserve protecting. That's all that's happening
@Jennevaaa3 күн бұрын
Julien thank you. for everything you do, seriously. it's so amazing and i love this community so much. im a huge lurker but im always here and its always a joy. it's so nice to have a community as sweet as this one and i'm so happy to be apart of it
@milanorayromano4 күн бұрын
thank you for sharing, seriously. i feel less alone
@Prettymapleleaf3 күн бұрын
You are truly loved.
@rachels.39024 күн бұрын
Thank you Julien. Your videos and Jenna's old videos are my go-to when I am sad or angry. They are the one thing I can count on to always make me smile. And that is truly invaluable. Your work is important and it matters and I'm grateful for all that you do.
@stephanierestlessinseattle52614 күн бұрын
Love you forever love that you love the world enough to feel the anger for the underprivileged
@reka7_754 күн бұрын
I cried over this election outcome & I don't even live in the US. I just don't understand how this could have happened? The choice was crystal clear.