A rant no one is ready to hear.

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Kelly Stamps

Kelly Stamps

Күн бұрын

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@SebiDtv
@SebiDtv 2 жыл бұрын
im an actual life coach and I can confirm that most people want justification for their wrong actions instead of trying to grow beyond the things(insecurities) that cause them to have behaviors that are self sabotaging and do things that are detrimental to the goals that they have.
@j.du6
@j.du6 2 жыл бұрын
And water is wet. Narcissists will rationalize anything. It's a bonafide epidemic of projection and lack of self-honesty. It's everyone and anyone's fault but theirs, always.
@drac7876
@drac7876 2 жыл бұрын
What kind of training does a life coach have to undergo and what qualifications are necessary ? I’m curious
@John.Asante
@John.Asante 2 жыл бұрын
​@@drac7876 they have to be really charismatic and convincing lol
@louilind4300
@louilind4300 2 жыл бұрын
@@drac7876 well you can study it, take some courses but also helps if you started out completely off but managed to improve yourself, turned yourself into a decent human being after all that bullshit, born with some empathy (or gained some later) and have a deep need to help others. Tadaaa... There you have it.. A great coach.
@steve19149
@steve19149 2 жыл бұрын
Sasha is a life coach with no followers or other profile. 🧐
@maryjones9477
@maryjones9477 2 жыл бұрын
dont forget to tell people: “have the day you deserve” it adds a sprinkle of confusion and disrespect on their end
@aldilorenzo9675
@aldilorenzo9675 2 жыл бұрын
Where did all the good people go? All the cool people are inside, vibing in their rooms, and taking themselves to dinner because they feel the same way~
@MsJujubee3
@MsJujubee3 2 жыл бұрын
This
@TASconfidential
@TASconfidential 2 жыл бұрын
Yup!!! All the good people have become misanthropic introverts.
@mslisha100
@mslisha100 2 жыл бұрын
This part!!! 💯
@aylinlugo8031
@aylinlugo8031 2 жыл бұрын
Yup 🌟😊
@evepk888
@evepk888 2 жыл бұрын
So true
@TASconfidential
@TASconfidential 2 жыл бұрын
The more you increase your level of class, intelligence, couth and your character develops, the more you realize that others have NOT evolved, and “friends”, start fading out. Let them go, live your best life, and don’t look back.
@laetitiabecker6920
@laetitiabecker6920 2 жыл бұрын
Yeeep
@NickyM_0
@NickyM_0 2 жыл бұрын
Yep!
@Alwaysdes__
@Alwaysdes__ 2 жыл бұрын
Finally, someone said it. It literally sucks here because WE suck here.
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
WE ALL ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM
@mylesp89
@mylesp89 2 жыл бұрын
Ppl been sayin this lol
@wordnodoubt2
@wordnodoubt2 2 жыл бұрын
*THANOS* has entered the chat
@cris_here
@cris_here 2 жыл бұрын
Suck or stuck? Lol
@bookofgloryx
@bookofgloryx 2 жыл бұрын
I feel this so much because I'm in the same spot. It is really exhausting to know you're putting your energy into nothing. And it is very tiring to be the only one who cares. So for the last month I literally haven't spoken to anybody. I'm like - I'm so done! I'm at a point where I"d rather be alone then have people around me who don't know how to emote or care about those around them. It is so weird. Took me a while to really see it as well. So I totally get you. GO make that money now xx
@JanJan4Infinity
@JanJan4Infinity 2 жыл бұрын
Feel the same way
@bookofgloryx
@bookofgloryx 2 жыл бұрын
@@JanJan4Infinity I'm honestly shocked so many feel the same. Something is deffo wrong then. Prob social media ruined ppl"s brains...
@issabradshaw2877
@issabradshaw2877 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same
@Mara-wp6rx
@Mara-wp6rx 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@LittleOutCast
@LittleOutCast 2 жыл бұрын
girl i have been going through the exact same thing. recently i cut off everyone. and i mean everyone, that was not adding value to my life. Allow me to explain. A lot of people want yes-men and yes women or a hype man to hype them up. They don't want friends, they want entertainment. AND IM NOT NETFLIX NOR HULU so i said begone parasites and walked away. A lot of people want people around them just for the sake of not being alone. They don't have true love for you, and they do not value your presence, but they will constantly reach out for you. The same way a lot of people are too insecure to do basic things by themselves. They are too afraid to face their demons and past pain, so they fill their lives with pointless "seat-filler" friends just to fill the void in their lives. Hurt people hurt people and I have decided to not let those hurt people wound me anymore. I am not perfect. I have insecurities and I have trauma as well that I sometimes want to run away from, but I would rather be alone for the rest of my life than be surrounded by toxic individuals. Life is TOO short for that.
@alicemiriah
@alicemiriah 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this video is like that moment where you finally get to meet a millionaire and they end up ranting and being way more relatable than you imagined.
@fashionstudent408
@fashionstudent408 2 жыл бұрын
Spending time alone brings this level of self awareness 🧠✨
@willmax95
@willmax95 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahaah thiss!!
@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777
@thefrustratedneetaspirant7777 2 жыл бұрын
Is she not a millionaire?
@asharaperkins2296
@asharaperkins2296 2 жыл бұрын
Same, girl, same ! Us "normals" are stuck in our houses because we're over the outside world 😞
@lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663
@lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663 2 жыл бұрын
THIS 👆🏽 💯❤.
@nicolausthothmes2325
@nicolausthothmes2325 2 жыл бұрын
So thats where you ladies be. Aiight so what if we make like an icecream truck system, but the tune lets the good women who are in their houses know where we are all at? trying to find a solution.
@asharaperkins2296
@asharaperkins2296 2 жыл бұрын
@@nicolausthothmes2325 DO IT!! 😂 Actually, if you want to find us .. Whole Foods, Trader Joe’s, Marshall’s/TJMAXX/HomeGoods 👍🏽👍🏽 I actually made a quick video that I’m gonna post on my KZbin about it tomorrow 😜
@KmChx_MX
@KmChx_MX 2 жыл бұрын
Fr! It used to be “all the freaks come out at night”, but now they’re just out cause everybody else got tired of the crap going on rn. 2020 gave me a spearhead to cut people off and I’ve not been more chill
@adatbh
@adatbh 2 жыл бұрын
Literally
@quincylockett9554
@quincylockett9554 2 жыл бұрын
I think the problem is MOST people are selfish as hell.
@skaio.5279
@skaio.5279 2 жыл бұрын
we should all be more selfish, but not hurt others intentionally
@brittaniebrockett507
@brittaniebrockett507 2 жыл бұрын
Completely agree….and I get tired of feeling like I’m being taken advantage of by people who are clearly self-centric and only value others based of what they can do for them.
@iamnzurisam7863
@iamnzurisam7863 2 жыл бұрын
Im 41 and dead azz over people. I just came from a whole day of hanging by myself, and it was great! Most people love being the victim and never want to fix themselves just want others to adjust to their bad behavior. Accountability is nonexistent.
@Liloi9667
@Liloi9667 2 жыл бұрын
I relate too hard holy christ. my villian era lasted about an hour but next time I WILL embrace it for a longer time period.
@itsajahnixoxo
@itsajahnixoxo 2 жыл бұрын
We’re pushing for 2 hours 😭
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
An hour is something to be proud of!
@Divinely222
@Divinely222 2 жыл бұрын
I tried but then a big random dog walked up to me and I said : “oh sorry”. Darn it! He just wanted me to pet him 🙃
@Rovena_
@Rovena_ 2 жыл бұрын
Just changed my sheets, had a shower and now watching Kelly's video - a perfect way to end a long day 💅💅
@s.g.4435
@s.g.4435 2 жыл бұрын
Same haha 💆🏻‍♀️
@raisaburdak
@raisaburdak 2 жыл бұрын
What time is it for you where you live? It’s 4:22pm for me rn, sounds like it’s night time for you
@poppycalliope
@poppycalliope 2 жыл бұрын
sounds amazing ✨️🌿
@adjustedlenses3507
@adjustedlenses3507 2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
Self-care Saturday!!
@bekahelder537
@bekahelder537 2 жыл бұрын
This was brilliant. I have a hard time finding those genuine friends as well. I lost someone who I thought was my best friend. It can be heartbreaking.
@frimunya
@frimunya 2 жыл бұрын
Same happened to me 😔
@Candicedickinsonllc
@Candicedickinsonllc 2 жыл бұрын
so glad it’s not just me
@bekahelder537
@bekahelder537 2 жыл бұрын
@@frimunya I’m sorry. I just lost my “BFF” and it breaks my heart. You deserve people that treat you better!!
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
aww :(
@annabellawr
@annabellawr 2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@sandracrump
@sandracrump 2 жыл бұрын
I can 100% percent agree with Kelly!!! When you break the stimulation and the matrix you feel this heaviness and feel like you don’t fit in anywhere! It literally is painful to go through
@birdsofparadise1
@birdsofparadise1 2 жыл бұрын
yes exactly! it feels like people are brainwashed robots without empathy or actually caring for others and i disassociate, it's scary!!!!
@racheltruth3822
@racheltruth3822 2 жыл бұрын
Accountability is definitely lacking in these streets.
@simonescorner
@simonescorner 2 жыл бұрын
Omg it’s like you’re inside my head. I feel the exact same way 😩 People are SO annoying! And I haven’t found not one good friend and I’m about to be 25
@jordancartier504
@jordancartier504 2 жыл бұрын
SAME!!!
@CiaoColeG
@CiaoColeG 2 жыл бұрын
I had zero good friends after high school until I was 26. Maybe volunteer? That's how I met my friends.
@simonescorner
@simonescorner 2 жыл бұрын
@@CiaoColeG I definitely have to get out more
@BlueDragonArt
@BlueDragonArt 2 жыл бұрын
There are two golden rules that no one seems to want to follow: "Do unto others, as you would have done unto you." And "Make new friends, but keep the old; one is silver and the other's gold." I have found, very, very few abide by these. Everyone's out for their own gain. Especially that ones who preach the loudest about being caring, and good people. If you gotta be loud about it, instead of letting your actions speak, then how genuine are you? Anyway, I just wanted to rant, too.
@minalove6582
@minalove6582 2 жыл бұрын
This is great!
@erinniccoinn1gh
@erinniccoinn1gh 2 жыл бұрын
there's a lovely little tune that american girl scouts sing based on that second adage. it goes 'make new friends / but keep the old, one is silver and the other's gold /circles round / that have no end, that's how long i want to be your friend.'
@aliviablount
@aliviablount 2 жыл бұрын
Omg finding genuine people is so hard!
@Antonia-yj4de
@Antonia-yj4de 2 жыл бұрын
I promise not everyone is like this! Glad you're still just being yourself and not letting other peoples bullshit change you. I feel this generally with a lot of society but I hope you find people (who are probably just smarter and more mature) that you enjoy spending time with, hopefully they can change your mind!!!!!
@goatofdavinci
@goatofdavinci 2 жыл бұрын
thats what happens when you try to make happy everyone around you. thats the price you pay for your honesty and softness. yeah kindness hurts too.
@nayajohnson6315
@nayajohnson6315 2 жыл бұрын
Yes kindness does hurt but at least you can feel good about it at the end of the day or cry it it out. Life is all about balance.
@goatofdavinci
@goatofdavinci 2 жыл бұрын
@@nayajohnson6315 you are right
@birdsofparadise1
@birdsofparadise1 2 жыл бұрын
it wasn't supposed to be like this. society's measures of respect and capitalism has changed people into self centered greed monsters.
@goatofdavinci
@goatofdavinci 2 жыл бұрын
@@birdsofparadise1 you are right.
@Sarsooori
@Sarsooori 2 жыл бұрын
Same Kelly saaame! Been removing myself from these situations and doing a lot more solo activities! Keep nurturing and focusing on those 3 genuine deep relationships 💗
@kitluwi2495
@kitluwi2495 2 жыл бұрын
I actually kinda feel the same. I'm so done with being nice. And I think mine stems from me being a people pleaser all my life, always adjusting to the environment just to cater everyone's needs. But I'm not victim! Me being tossed around whenever and wherever was my fault and i acknowledged it. I learned the hard way and I'm so done being nice and I need to start putting myself first.
@BeautyBeatdown
@BeautyBeatdown 2 жыл бұрын
I don't have ANY genuine friends and I turned 40 in February. 🤷🏼‍♀️
@Andreea93chan
@Andreea93chan 2 жыл бұрын
I don't have any genuine friends and I am 29. 😂 There was a time when I would have series of panic attacks because of this. Glad this ended.
@CEDL4072
@CEDL4072 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 34 and in the same predicament 😅
@LadyIllusion11
@LadyIllusion11 2 жыл бұрын
I am 32 years old and I have 4 good solid friends. And I am completely okay with that. Cause this world is cruel and I don't want unless ppl around me 🤷🏾‍♀️
@Ray-pp5qb
@Ray-pp5qb 2 жыл бұрын
FOUR!!! real ass friends. you doing good. well done you. cherish them.
@chelsea9641
@chelsea9641 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ray-pp5qb I’ve only got 3 at age 20. I am fine with having only 3 friends!! It’s sooo hard to find genuine friends.
@greytab7027
@greytab7027 2 жыл бұрын
Last month I thought to myself..Was I made to be of service for others? Like, was I meant to be a slave for the human race? And others get to be main characters, raised up and to bask in the joys of life. I genuinely don't know what it's like to checked up on without someone needing something from me. I've been cutting ties with many and I've learnt that I'm not meant to have a lot of people around me and thats OK because I get to experience a bit of peace
@biolife3274
@biolife3274 2 жыл бұрын
And you have to set boundaries with friends, family, coworkers, whoever. You set the terms for everyone who comes into your life.
@knightyyknight1494
@knightyyknight1494 2 жыл бұрын
It’s Gemini season and I can relate girl. Folks tell me their one-sided issues wanting validation for being trashy…I can’t get with none of it.
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I thought I wanted to make new friends but I always just feel drained. What really gets me in addition to complaining about very straightforward boy problems is the random gossip. It happened recently with someone new but she had no idea that I was actually good friends with that girl. It was so unprompted too. I can’t be around high school behavior
@ArielBri3295
@ArielBri3295 2 жыл бұрын
I’m right there sis. Lived in New York for years working corporate. I became mentally ill. Moved to Miami and never looked back.
@melindaji5382
@melindaji5382 2 жыл бұрын
happy early birthday kelly! it's so easy to feel drained from every social interaction these days, & sometimes i end up going into every friendship not trusting that it's genuine--a lot of the time it isn't! but regardless your confidence & self-respect (& respect for others!) give you the real queen status
@idontknowsht6772
@idontknowsht6772 2 жыл бұрын
Story of my life 😩 Definitely had to cut off a sht ton of one-sided relationships this year. 🙅🏽‍♀️Totally cool with that. And you definitely deserve better.
@ericb4498
@ericb4498 2 жыл бұрын
Kelly you’re the total package, you’re fine, smart, funny, successful, responsible. A lot of quality men out there & any of them would be lucky to have u. A little trick someone taught me is not to dwell on your problems, if I’m upset about something I’m over it in 5 min unless it’s something very devastating. Lastly I’m sure u were joking but don’t mess w someone else’s automobile, it’s the most chicken sht thing someone can do
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you and yes, I need to learn to to dwell on anything And no I'm not keying someone's car LOL
@kierahazelitt
@kierahazelitt 2 жыл бұрын
People can be energy drainers. You have to clear your space which includes people and things that don’t deserve you.
@jagaroo
@jagaroo 2 жыл бұрын
Kelly I am a man thanks for saving me from the chaos I was going to envoke on women. I am typically a honest guy as best as I try to be. Iv been toyed with cheated on, and left emotionally drained. I wanted not care about the next person I was with but I realise I will only create more hurt people if I do so. Thank you.
@adatbh
@adatbh 2 жыл бұрын
Proud of you
@natasharules770
@natasharules770 2 жыл бұрын
We hurt others trying to show how strong we are. We break each other then look for people who aren't broken
@thechrisverhoeven
@thechrisverhoeven 2 жыл бұрын
Wow 2 whole days, huh? Don't worry Kelly. Anytime you need to get something out of your system, we're all right here to listen. Or at least, I am. I think it's time for a friendship detox. Or purge so to speak.
@krux3759
@krux3759 2 жыл бұрын
I feel the same and it’s gotten to the point where I don’t wanna go out in public because I don’t wanna deal with other peoples bullshit. Like I don’t want to speak to strangers anymore LOL I just can’t deal with it anymore omg
@0uterspice
@0uterspice 2 жыл бұрын
Even when I do get a text now that's like "hey, how are you??" I don't ask how they're doing in return in my response, because I know they are going to tell me anyway because that's the whole reason they texted me...to vent. Sigh.
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
YEP. No point in responding!
@Bubblies005
@Bubblies005 2 жыл бұрын
I got broken down and emotionally abused to the point of now I match the energy others give me. Love this for you. Don’t stand for any BS ❤️
@A8NTnoVidHeO
@A8NTnoVidHeO 2 жыл бұрын
You're just outgrowing your friends and deciding what your new standards will be. That's a normal thing - insist on your new criteria and you'll find people who are authentic and lovely. Good luck! 🧡
@TranquilWanderer
@TranquilWanderer 2 жыл бұрын
I FEEL YOU. I think it hit me at the age of 25 of how cruel and messed up people can be 🤗 I feel like I was living in a box before that
@nessie968
@nessie968 2 жыл бұрын
I hope I find nice and genuine friends someday. going to cherish the hell out of them because it sucks being with toxic ass people who don't care about you.
@tianam2302
@tianam2302 2 жыл бұрын
I am literally going through the same thing. I allowed ex friends to re-enter my life just for them to hurt me again. I’m tired of being that emotional punching bag as well and being seen as “mean” for my honesty. Great video like always 💗
@TeaLeaf222
@TeaLeaf222 2 жыл бұрын
As a glasses wearer I felt that shift of your frames before you went in!! Haha I love you and im glad you’re sitting with yourself and taking stock of what you want out of your relationships. Im a little older than you and your friend is right. It doesn’t get easier but you get stronger and if you keep going within like this you’ll only become better as a human, more compassionate and forgiving to yourself. Im no angel but I too have grown weary of the people that don’t believe in cause and affect. They’ll tell you a story but leave the part out where they actually shook the table. Then you get called the bad guy when you address the reality. Great video. This is what growing up feels like and I appreciate the earnest share here.
@nompumelelondlovu2859
@nompumelelondlovu2859 2 жыл бұрын
Broke up with my ex because he almost bumped someone with my car and the next day he pretended like nothing happened maybe he was embarrassed but accountability reassures the next person that they are aware of what they did
@bi8911
@bi8911 2 жыл бұрын
As someone grew up internationally. I will say Americans are Super indirect when it comes to communication. If you can connect with international people, people who weren't born in America.
@NickyM_0
@NickyM_0 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of Americans come across as super dysfunctional. People talk about the American dream but it looks like a capitalist, racist, multicolour nightmare!
@honeydew1678
@honeydew1678 2 жыл бұрын
What’s funny is, I am exactly at the same point in life you’re in. Every single video you’ve made this year, I have lived. It just never ends! But despite all of that, i’m out here living my life. Not about to let other people ruin my day. I love ME, and I’m going to continue loving me, even if it makes me selfish sometimes.
@briblack2307
@briblack2307 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed to hear as I’m in the middle of family drama 🥲 people look at situations through with their own lenses that are filtered by past wrongs others have done them, and mistakes they themselves have made, and refusing to take off those metaphorical sunglasses blocks their ability to see THE truth of the matter at hand.
@paulaconstantinescu524
@paulaconstantinescu524 2 жыл бұрын
I''m going through something similar, but on a smaller scale. You gave me such drive and hope, and then the last message just deflated everything 😂
@joanofadventure3933
@joanofadventure3933 2 жыл бұрын
I thought I was watching the origin story of the new Stampede Villain character. 😂 On the real, we have these unspoken rules in society that being a good friend includes allowing others to dump on us, and drag us into their bs. But in the end, it's our choice, whether or not we want to participate. I think you know this already. It's the expectations we have of the other person that get us caught up. 😭 Anyways... Happy Birthday Ms. Gemini! 🎉
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. And thank you for the birthday wishes!
@dragonsmith9012
@dragonsmith9012 2 жыл бұрын
Yo, Kelly. You should get into game design. With your advanced knowledge of aeronautics, and interpersonal dynamics, you can make a flight simulator in Unreal Engine 5, but the twist will be that there's aerial dogfighting as a metaphor for disputes between BiSHES. 😯👍❤
@genesismedina4903
@genesismedina4903 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you need to work on boundaries. Most will suck you dry if you let them. I don’t think they can help it, so you need to reserve yourself for people who CAN help it.
@uglyasalullaby1056
@uglyasalullaby1056 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that I’m hearing this, I needed this it makes me feel less alone. I’m empathetic person and guess what, even if I did give my genuine advice to friend, they NEVER actually listen lmao. They just want to keep doing the same bullshit and vent to me when things become bad again, it’s a vicious cycle. I’m so done with these kind of friendship and that’s why I’m living alone and stay away from humanity. And I also consider myself not fit into any group and very direct in a way, I’m always being kinda and nice at first, but after seeing the same stupidity and bullshit happens over and over, I either have to be honest and blunt, or have some sentences prepared before hands so I can mindlessly comforting them without disturbing my peace lmao
@kathleenharris8824
@kathleenharris8824 2 жыл бұрын
I completely understand how you feel. When you help people it’s not appreciated and they keep expecting you to do it. I am on some work and family group texts that I hide alerts. It’s too much sometimes.
@janetvansky3621
@janetvansky3621 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 76 and feel the same - you are not only lovely, but brave to speak your truth.
@kemyiah6026
@kemyiah6026 2 жыл бұрын
I am usually a silent stampede member and I always wanted my first comment to be something profound and matches the wit of my fellow stampede members lol! but I just couldn’t not comment like you literally hit the nail on the head! That’s why I have been staying to myself and not wanting to put myself out there to make new friends because I have been burned so much in the past! However I’m sure I’ll find my genuine tribe one day!
@southernbelleinthecity
@southernbelleinthecity 2 жыл бұрын
“Yes, because I have home training.” I’m happily in my menace to society era. I felt this entire thing.
@Funnymombecca
@Funnymombecca 2 жыл бұрын
I also love venting to the camera. It’s just so good to get it out of your head.
@danvensa
@danvensa 2 жыл бұрын
you just have to get rid of the toxic people from your life and the world will seem bright again 🧐
@uncutjems
@uncutjems 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this was enlightening. After 5 years here I recently concluded there is a big lack of disrespect in the US culture. And maybe this means Kelly Stamps has some of the best audience. Because we gravitate to similar personalities and we are all keeping to ourselves, over the ignorance and disrespect out there. The nice ones. Most of us not selfish enough to be ambitious enough to escape spending our lives helping others and ending up being trampled on.
@darrellwillie7123
@darrellwillie7123 2 жыл бұрын
You literally just read off my thoughts for the last 5 years. I relate so much to you. Thank you for this rant. I believe that you expressed what many of us think. Thank you for being you. Stay encouraged.
@angelasagenda
@angelasagenda 2 жыл бұрын
I just turned 50. I’ve been following your channel since your first 10k subs. I still can relate to you though, despite the age difference. Keep your chin up, there’s still a few good gems in society. It’s just getting harder to find them
@mabepage4013
@mabepage4013 2 жыл бұрын
omg i used to have a friend who would rant to me the same way and if i didn’t justify her or agree with her she’d get mad. like don’t come to me if you don’t want my honest opinion
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
Like there’s a 50% chance of me agreeing with you or disagreeing. I don’t understand why they bring these things to us 😂
@mabepage4013
@mabepage4013 2 жыл бұрын
@@KellyStamps exactly 😂 like would they rather us lie or be helpful
@flowersandperfume355
@flowersandperfume355 2 жыл бұрын
this is literally how I feel. Im glad I never settled for bad company out of desperation and loneliness. You have to put yourself first nowadays and make sure you surround yourself with good people who are kind, and respectful, and have integrity. I think thats whats missing in a lot of social groups. its like social media has normalized cattiness and mess and drama. I have an amazing friend group now and if I never looked around and explored different spaces and just decided to e stuck in one spot I probably would never have met them. I knew I deserved better. I no longer ignore red flags to "keep the peace" cuz if its not bringing me peace it gots to go
@TheGDEventI
@TheGDEventI 2 жыл бұрын
It is so satisfying to listen to someone as real as you.. People have been dragging me into their drama continiously and I’m done! Tired of people who think that they’re more important than everybody else and that everyone has to put down everything to listen to their toxic behavior. It is as if this generation is totally consumed with narcissism, with exceptions ofc.
@amalachukwuasuzu1898
@amalachukwuasuzu1898 2 жыл бұрын
I love your rants because you are especially straightforward and honest. I completely agree with all the points you raised. Plus IM A GEMINI too. We Gemini need to stick together because it seems like everybody hates us. lol
@ayannabrooks6680
@ayannabrooks6680 2 жыл бұрын
This ^^
@lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663
@lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663 2 жыл бұрын
RIGHT, fellow Gemini ♊ ❤💯
@cjo4210
@cjo4210 2 жыл бұрын
Gem gang unite!
@escobarines
@escobarines 2 жыл бұрын
Same ♊ It was surreal to hear Kelly lay out thoughts that I've recently had 😭
@KellyStamps
@KellyStamps 2 жыл бұрын
Everybody hates us but we are honest even if we are flaky and flock around and move like birds Lol
@firefeethok_tui2355
@firefeethok_tui2355 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly…..People are caught up in the current social theme of being very self-centered. They want attention, recognition and status/value without doing the work of building a good character. People dont feel they need to give respect And instead of driving their own ship, creating their own place, they want others to do it for them, give them material things they want and still scream, its my perogative, (to make said bad decisions). Kelly Stamps…youre spot on. And Youre right. Society is breaking down, aka end of roman empire kind of breakdown. We are watching it. PS where is the spatula. That is classic.
@Lynneemilieperez
@Lynneemilieperez 2 жыл бұрын
We have our popcorn and tea! All ears
@xenaramos445
@xenaramos445 2 жыл бұрын
👀👀
@MSkp4wo
@MSkp4wo 2 жыл бұрын
hey, 3's a crowd! if they're truly people that you feel aligned with, that's all you really need. also I think I've only really had 3-4 friends around me at all past periods in my life, albeit those groups/ppl were not the kind that i feld good beign around or people I've outgrown now. but that's just to say, 3-4 people is really all I've ever known as a complete social circle, so ur doing great :)
@hangingwithjen
@hangingwithjen 2 жыл бұрын
late night rants are always the most entertaining!
@Funnymombecca
@Funnymombecca 2 жыл бұрын
The secret to venting is eating a bowl of cherries at the same time. Don’t ask me why, it’s just a must in my house!
@pollypocket4323
@pollypocket4323 2 жыл бұрын
That’s so cute!!
@L0VEisAmixtape
@L0VEisAmixtape 2 жыл бұрын
I love that!
@kendalledwards4848
@kendalledwards4848 2 жыл бұрын
I felt more hopeful after reading your parting words, because at first, I was like; "Noooo ... Kelly let them do it to her" !!! It is SO hard to find a serious, confident, person on this earth, who has your best interests at heart. Kelly, you know what I think it is? I think people like us, who are looking for mature, trusting, relationships, with people who can hold their own & don't exist, to put their lives burdens on others, are hiding out and questioning life, just like you and I - which makes it almost impossible - to find each other. I'm stating the obvious ... I know, so why do we continue to care? Hoping you can help me ✌️ ❤️ and Sooouuulll ... Stay strong sweetie!!!
@nompumelelondlovu2859
@nompumelelondlovu2859 2 жыл бұрын
Ended a friendship because I felt like an emotional dustbin. True people are insecure. No accountability what so ever
@Urr342
@Urr342 2 жыл бұрын
This feeling of when teachers gets serious, scolds all the students then the whole class gets silent and listens lol No disrespect Kelly ,luv u
@miss11blackwood
@miss11blackwood 2 жыл бұрын
😅
@TisHotMessHistory
@TisHotMessHistory 2 жыл бұрын
I'm here for Kelly's quest to make f*** you money! I love it!
@nicholasherner8012
@nicholasherner8012 2 жыл бұрын
Professor stamps, I have been going through a rut of sorts that made me think that I should have a quarter-life crisis and you have cemented embracing my villian side. I had wanted to reinvent myself into a darker character because only super villians and misguided super heroes become billionaires. Look at Lex luthor, Tony stark, and Ronald reagan. Thelank you for everything that you put out. Your content is inspiring and it's so awesome to see who you've become from your first videos on youtube
@MP-il8ys
@MP-il8ys 2 жыл бұрын
As a redhead, I'm always curious about people putting on red wigs when they turn evil...
@alwaysglistening
@alwaysglistening 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@victoriaestelle200
@victoriaestelle200 2 жыл бұрын
No but your personality is everything 😫👑
@kathyma1571
@kathyma1571 2 жыл бұрын
I'm also a gemini and completely relate to everything you said!!
@lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663
@lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663 2 жыл бұрын
RIGHT 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽👍🏼❤
@achanwol
@achanwol 2 жыл бұрын
this is too real oh my goodness, expressed so much of my emotions. no type of shame or respect - it’s exhausting & i get nooo love in return
@DiciestDruid
@DiciestDruid 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you gotta just go out to the mountains and scream.
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 2 жыл бұрын
The world only changes one person at a time, so, the solution is to learn it and understand it instead of being disturbed by it. You can’t help how you feel Kelly bcuz you’re young and decent. You’re a strong, sensible, and good woman. I was the same way when I was your age. But the hard feelings people have has to be passed through and healed. Even the good has some inner healing to do.
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes, yes!! I feel this so heavily. We gotta find people who match our energy and detach from those who don't.
@jules162
@jules162 Жыл бұрын
I’m curled up in the exact same blue blanket!!! Thankful for Kelly’s wisdom and honesty as always (:
@alizeshelby3028
@alizeshelby3028 2 жыл бұрын
You literally took the words out of my mouth …. I’m just over EVERYTHING 💯
@PhillyDom
@PhillyDom 2 жыл бұрын
WOW THATS HOW YOU FEEL
@biasedjonny
@biasedjonny 2 жыл бұрын
Real shit! I think its important to tell the truth about how you feel when it comes to people you may be acquaintances with. I've def been there before and its super draining, but there came a point where I just cut everyone off that doesn't serve me for the better. Keep it up with the killer vids
@naturalsavant10
@naturalsavant10 2 жыл бұрын
Yessss self reflection and accountability are non-existent. It's so exhausting..
@MoonChild-1994
@MoonChild-1994 2 жыл бұрын
Kelly, you are calling it out and this is refreshing. Thank goodness cause it's the TRUTH.
@apieceofcoffee
@apieceofcoffee 2 жыл бұрын
Classy is eating a frozen Tyson fried chicken strip cooked in a toaster oven and dipped in honey while watching Kelly Stamps also eat a crispy chicken strip. As a HARD Capricorn, I have zero patience for BS and hypocrisy, therefore I naturally hate everyone. I'm very lucky to have found someone who equally hates hypocrisy and lazy whiners. Glad you've found a potential life partner to also hate the world together!
@rwansays
@rwansays 2 жыл бұрын
Love you Kelly! And happy birthday where its May 30th already somewhere else! Geminis get tired of it too and need to recharge :) Little reminder that like attracts like so just be and allow everything you are to gravitate towards you, it will find a way all the way from the mountains😉
@scoobysnax8127
@scoobysnax8127 2 жыл бұрын
Haha! Kelly is half my age but always sooo relatable. Exactly how I feel about people, lack of accountability, hearing about toxic relationship cycles for the 100th time. I think I was a lot more naïve about people/life when I was that age and it made it so much easier to get on in life. Now I’m trying to be a full time hater but my humour and empathy get in the way. Sucks.
@UnderRatedBeauty88
@UnderRatedBeauty88 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely my sister in my head. I felt the same way when I moved to Charlotte but left after a year. I’m to blunt for my own damn good. The mountains is to scary to be alone for me.
@JuliaShalomJordan
@JuliaShalomJordan 2 жыл бұрын
Every word you spoke is my personal truth.🤯🤯🤯 God help humanity.😣
@lifewithjessenia
@lifewithjessenia 2 жыл бұрын
“Your not a queen” LMAO. Ok had to pause continuing to watch
@YuraGhim
@YuraGhim 2 жыл бұрын
seriously thought of living in the mountains as well, or at least in a rural prairie and live out my cottage core dream...away from the city life
@WHATEVERKEKESAYS
@WHATEVERKEKESAYS 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never related so hard to a rant in my whole life.. I’ve started thinking I’m a bad friend for not condoning their lack of accountability and victim mentality. Like you can be taken advantage of but then I have to see you walk into a fire over and over. Yho I’m tired😭😭😭😭. Why are the simple things so hard?
@itsthatwifelife
@itsthatwifelife 2 жыл бұрын
Took me so long to realize people can actually be mean for no reason. ♊ are very comfortable with ourselves. we just want genuine relations and growth. let's grow and shine together and the world is in a trend of hate. it's hard to be different but I love it and this rant lol. happy birthday Ms. Stamps🥳🥳🥳
@andreasamuels5875
@andreasamuels5875 2 жыл бұрын
WOW this sounds like my sister and I talking. For these same reasons I stay to myself and its great! just need to figure out how to generate the "F" "U" kind of money LOL! great video! you hit the nail on the head about people these days.
@paulbrown4625
@paulbrown4625 2 жыл бұрын
I believe what you are talking about is a casualty of this generation and era that we live in currently. Everything is about "Me" you cannot respect anyone (Including yourself) with that type mentality. On top of that we have this insatiable desire (Some people) to please others or want to make others like you and in many instances, we don't even like ourselves! God has blessed you and those like you to live a life where you can say "FU" to the world, but that is not who you are. I believe you can still say that without saying that and just enjoy your life, don't worry about others and help when and if you can. Sleep good at night, that's important. (BTW ordered my bed set from Brooklinen; Nice!!). Peace, love and soul!
@asho6689
@asho6689 Жыл бұрын
i know how you feel. When you tell people the truth "they say you're being mean"....adding on because of this "yas" behavoir in our generation there is little people who will tell the truth in your situtaion. I only know 1 person in my life other then my family that will me truth. No one wants to motivate eachother to be a better in anyway in shape or form. No one wants to think from a objective stand point :(
I just got politely robbed in nyc lol
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