A REAL WEEK OF CURLY HAIR | How I manage wash day to day 5

[@ayad2928]

the fact that my hair is exactly like yours and I had no idea because I though my hair was super damaged or just weird since I never see your hair (or any curly girl hair on social media) throughout the days, so I've always been looking for a product/technique to help my curly hair look "normal". Tbh this video made me feel so much better about my hair

[@bluyellow]

Riiiight!! Me too. It was so nice to see a social media curly girl actually show their genuine curly hair journey throughout the week …. We really only see a portion of peoples journeys and I often forget that and hate my curls !

[@insideout_sam]

Same girl same

[@lenamandwee2002]

This video was so honest and I related so much. My hair looks like your day 3 hair here day 2 for me! I am still trying to train my hair to wash it less but sometimes it’s just unsalvageable and I get headaches from it!

[@l.lawliet433]

same my hair feels disgusting plus i have an oily scalp

[@parsakamali4957]

@lena mandwee What do you do with single strand knots? I startes getting them when my hair reached a certain length and My hair is like destroyed rn

[@parsakamali4957]

@Lena mandwee I get them alot and they never unravel so it's like on a single hair I have 3 knots. do you use coconut oil?(tnx for the reply btw)

[@lenamandwee2002]

@@parsakamali4957 I like the olaplex oil

[@CleopatraPapadopoulos]

I agree. I can't go passed day two or three at best.

[@jadeansted5852]

Thanks that was actually really helpful to know what’s “normal” and not just a wash day 👩🏽‍🦱

[@JiixBooks]

I cannot stress enough how much I appreciate these realistic videos bc I’ve started to hate my hair so much and seeing you show how you handle it just love 💜

[@beverly3760]

Echoing what everyone else is saying about the unapologetic honesty in this video! It 's validating to know our curly hair isn't abnormal if it isn't internet perfect 24/7. Love this community of curlies and love you Jayme Joe

[@simplyjess9689]

seeing you're 3rd-5th day hair is so relieving. I always feel so ashamed and frustrated when my hair gets to that stage so its nice to see that its just a normal stage for curly hair. we need more curlies embracing this stage

[@ditajacob]

Omg please please do more of these ‘through the week’ videos. Even if it’s just a shorter “this is how it looks after waking up”… “this is what I’m gonna do with my hair today” kinda video would be so helpful. My hair is a lot like yours but thinner.. so after I put it into a loose bun/ponytail and sleep on it, the curls rarely last more than 2 days (even using a satin pillowcase). I always end up refreshing and leaving it down but it’s becoming such a pain, so trying to figure out other hairstyles and the struggles behind it. Thank you!!

[@bluyellow]

Yesssss please i second this comment !

[@skywalker6763]

X3

[@whatwendylikes]

This was the most relatable curly hair video I have ever seen. Thanks for keeping it real. You are gorgeous every day!

[@bluyellow]

Thank you for keeping this real and honest. You showed the true struggles of curly hair. Trying new products loving them & then realizing they don’t work for your hair. Ahhhhhh all so relatable 💕💓🙌🏼

[@doslbabe]

As a curly hair girl this video was honestly amazing to watch. It’s 100000% spot on what’s it’s like to have curly hair, the days after wash day aren’t as easy as people think. I loved how honest this video was

[@CegomezChannel]

Thank you so much for filming this video!! I've been so annoyed at my curls for such a long time for being frizzy and my hair not lasting looking good for too long, I thought I was the only one!! Your hair always looks so good in your videos but I loved seeing the reality of your curls after a few days, they always end up looking so good after you fix your hair tho!! thanks for the content

[@roxannearismendez1315]

I love this honest video! It makes me feel so much better about my own curls. I go through a lot of the days you do. I pick mine up in a messy bun just like yours for work 2-3 days a week, and some of those days I can let it down and doctor it up a bit if I need to. Too bad we can't have day 1 or 2 hair always. People love curls, wish they had curls, compliment curly girls A LOT, but don't realize how much work it takes to have curly hair. But I wouldn't trade much curls or the work for straight hair.

[@clairemckinley691]

I don’t know if you’ve done this yet but I would love to see a video of what your hair looks like washed and dried with no product or styling! I really liked that this video helped to break down the expectation of having perfect hair all the time and I think that a video showing your hair in its natural state with no product or styling would help add to this as well as being super interesting!

[@jasminesander8719]

Love this video so much! I finally felt like I could actually relate to how someone's curly hair can look after a few days! Just a tip, wearing a bonnet or silk headscarf to bed makes such a huge difference in day 2,3,4 etc. it was a game changer for me! Especially since you already have incredible curls, I highly highly recommend!

[@elissacarroll1130]

Thank you Jayme! Always so important to see such lovely reality of hair. Definitely good for all of our mental healths :))

[@chroniclesofcalm904]

Super relatable! Would actually love more videos with the same concept. Especially advice around working out/ sweating with curly hair (styles while exercising and products to salvage the sweaty hair haha). A bit frustrating wanting to work out 4 times a week with out washing it every time haha

[@kendallrice5705]

I loved this video! I thought I was the only one that would start getting matted knots by day 2 and struggling to figure out what to do with my hair the next couple days. My hair is getting longer too and as much as I love it it so much more work. Thank you for showing us curly hair isn’t always glamorous, most the time it can turn into a mess depending on what you have going on throughout the day and especially the weather.

[@yahairasishaw]

Not only do ur curls look good but ur bod literally my dream body thank you for all of the content u make for us!

[@jessicasopolis3904]

Great, helpful, real wprld curl help here! Thanks for this fabulous video!

[@jessicasopolis3904]

We love a multi talented queen!!!

[@_bloodymarii]

I looove how realistic this is 💗

[@emmacrane9381]

Loved this video! So nice to see a realistic week with curly hair

[@shirushgraydi9667]

Thank you for this honest video. I've been watching your vidoes for over a year now and this one is my favorite. I also have very long curly hair and I used to brush it dry, use unfitted cream etc. Then I found you in youtube (I'm from Israel) and I started using your techniques and my hair grew and become curly, healthy and much more pretty. Also I have VERY bad hair days and weeks sometimes but when the hair is looking good you forget all about it. Thank you and please dont leave youtube for tiktok😉

[@skywalker6763]

Nick might not know how much of a display of love it is for you to let him play with your hair lol

[@janneke2315]

Thank you soooo much for this video ❤❤. This video showed that curly hair isnt perfect 5 days. All the social media made me feel bad about my curly hair. I take really good care of my curls but it doesnt look like other curly girls, i thought. This is so realistic, so thank you

[@wajeehaalam5849]

This vedio is so satisfying like I used to think I'm abnormal to have thoes frizzy hairs on 3rd day!💕 All love to you, you made my day

[@fierylatina1]

Thank you for not letting me go crazy with my hair thinking it was so bad because of something I was or was not doing... It is totally normal and it does get out of control LoL...ty

[@na5314]

Hi dear Jayme, I don't know if you will be reading this youtube comment, but I wanted to place it here anyway in hopes you and others may benefit. When you said "I will be doing the unthinkable as a curly girl brushing out my hair" I felt compelled to let you know that it's okay. I know some might disagree, but truly it's down to knowing your hair and what is best. I personally dry brush before washing my hair because I lose less hair, and ironically enough it is truly less of a hassle. Fun fact, if you use oil (you don't have to use a lot) before detangling, it will provide enough slip to allow those tangles to come out. Also detangling your hair in sections can help too versus trying to get all the tangles out in one go. Again, this is all based on trial and error. Personally, I try detangling when my hair is matted and wet and it's a disaster. It's so much better for me to dry detangle and I don't cause any breakage due to the oil providing slip for my hair. On top of that if you do pre-poo oil treatments it's so beneficial for your scalp, and it protects your ends and gives them some nourishment before further stripping of a shampoo. I highly recommend giving this a go especially since you have longer hair now. If you do give it a go I hope it adds to your routine and makes it easier. God bless you! My fellow sister in Christ. :)

[@graceofgod4924]

Love love love this video. I have wavy hair and it always loosens through the day and it bothers me so much. Nothing beats wash day. I always thought if I had curly hair the loosening wouldn’t happen as much but now I see that it does. Thank you so much for making this video. 🥰

[@candacemackintosh6227]

I liked the whole video❤❤Ive been watching your videos for a very long time now and I love your honesty, your vibe, your voice, cuteness with your family too💖💖and how you try to make us feel good and showing us its okay that your hair gets so messy in this video😂and yeah😊thank you, and love you❤😘

[@simhaaaaa]

How often do you wash your silk pillowcase and how do you care for it when you do wash it? maybe make a tiktok about it!!

[@twinkletinglez]

I use a different silk/satin pillowcase every night. Mine are fine to wash with my white or towel load. I never put them in the dryer and always air dry with my delicates.

[@laalipandey297]

I love this vedio.. it’s so honest and real .. every curly girl go through this frizzy days and Feel stress but we learn that it’s normal and we should love our hair all days 😊

[@LolaSilvers]

You look stunning and your hair is stunning! ✨

[@robyn6454]

Thank you for this honesty!!! This is exactly what my 5 days looks like! Side note I’m so jealous of curly girls with small/round foreheads, the slicked back look isn’t a vibe for us five heads

[@toniapedd]

This is why I began straightening my curly hair! The struggles of in between wash days!🥴 Jayme, what is your favorite refresh/restyle product for non wash days? Pleeeese answer!!!🙏😘 I'd appreciate it soooooo much❣❣

[@Nothing7194]

Well I went from let's try that CPR stuff to "oh yeah, no" real quick! So thank you for that product review!!

[@belindachappell9875]

Your hair is stunning babe. Loved the emotional highs and lows, could really relate although my hair doesn’t get quite as curly as yours. I gasped out loud when you revealed your day 3 nightmare knots from that product 😂 😱 but you rallied and made it work. I also quite like the brushed out curls as an alternative look. Thanks for the honest view into your curly hair week. Super entertaining ❤

[@kenomis]

ok but you and your sister hit them notes😭❤️

[@ariesgalaxynation9579]

I totally relate, when my hair was shorter it was easy to manage and fix whatever was wrong with it, now that it’s longer it becomes messier on day 3 or even day 4 and I’ve set myself a goal of washing it every 7 days but now I’m thinking I should reduce it to twice a week.

[@ggfgfj]

hey jayme a video on scalp care would be great! i feel like a lot of my curly products have done some strange things to my scalp??? or like hair in general, like im not sure how healthy it is to pack on so much product anymore

[@Angelinaslifefl]

Soooooo grateful for the honesty!!!!!

[@julespearson]

Thanks I needed this today! I normally blow dry my fringe a bit straighter but today it just did not want to go straight and I just had my boss ask if I had just been to the gym as my hair looked like a mess!

[@w6kasa727]

Hello Jayme Jo, hope you are well. Can you please do a video about Curly Hair Product Recommendations? My hair type is 3b, but it does look like your hair in a way. You made me really proud and happy of my curls... 😊

[@evelynchavez5274]

my hair looks just like this! do u think protecting it at night would help? also i always re wet it and style it again maybe on the third day. you slick back a lot which i’ve learned pulls on your scalp. now anytime i have it up it hurts me knowing it’s pulling my hair. i use hair clips right now. i also try doing a braided look at the end so if my scalp needs any oils it’s easy to apply for my wash and for detangling.

[@xAngeloftheDark]

I am beyond in love with this video! THANK YOU

[@muniebabdullah7959]

You're tips really help me with my hair

[@cookiediangelo8511]

That actually did make me feel better about my hair thank you :)

[@LenkaMuir]

You are so gorgeous, that even the worse hair was still amazing!

[@Nora-nl9zc]

ahh do you think you could make a video telling us where u got ur jewelry from? I always love them sm

[@jacobdecker2564]

My hair usually looks good all the way up to day 4. Day 5 depends on how I slept the night before and then I sometimes push it to day 6 before washing.

[@EverythingsOrange]

Yay! This is just like me! I'm naturally blonde and curly so my hair is very fine! 3/4/5 day hair is hard! 5th day is just fluff at that point definitely a bun is needed

[@a.b.7932]

I needed this. Glad I’m not alone. 💜

[@royah5404]

Love the video and the honesty!

[@biancaalcaraz2908]

This is so relatable. I always wondered if others struggled like this too with their curly hair, my hair is forever in a bun 😅

[@emmaphilo4049]

I liked the look of your curls brushed out. You have beautiful hair :)

[@ashantyr4128]

I feel you with the layers girl me toooo!!!!

[@user-KK812]

omg she looks like bella hadid in the second pic in the thumbnail ! she looks absolutely gorgeous !!

[@BonBon2828Z]

Curly and wavy hair looks so much better than straight

[@reaanthi9601]

please please please do an ayurvedic mask (Amla powder or Brahmi, or Ashwagandha, or Bhringaraj) I'm telling you, you're gonna see BIG difference in curls staying curly for a long time. I was praying God would show me what to do and first time I tried out Amla mixed with Moringa powder, my hair BECAME PHENOMENAL, I had the most juicy curls for 7 days without refreshing. Get a deep conditioner you love, put some amla powder in there, even some moringa (little amount bc it has protein) mix it all up, put it in dirty hair (doesn't have to be clean curls). Leave it in for 25 mins and rinse, doing your actual routine. In God's name, You'll see extreme change for the better.

[@reaanthi9601]

@@maddie-hs4ln I'm from greece so I bought it from an online nearby shop but you can find them anywhere, even Ebay sells them. Just make sure its 100% natural and not mixed herbs. I recommend you watch Proudmane and CurblyProverbz. They have full videos dedicated on them. Proudmane has one video in particular where she describes the benefit of every powder (for irritated scalp, hair growth, hair strength etc) while CurlyProverbz gives you a lot of tips on how much to use and when. (Its important to let your hair cope/rest after those masks bc they're really strong. I overdid it once and got protein overload so be careful. My mistake was I did two masks in a small period of time) Now I'm making tea rinses for hair growth but I reccomend deep conditioner mixed with ayurvedic powders for curl improvement. My tips are; the less you do the better, a tea rinse or a deep conditioner mixed with ayurvedic herbs once a week is enough. Do it for 30 mins before you properly wash your hair. And last but not least, always always always deep Condition AFTER those treatments to balance out the power of these herbs. They're really strong and can leave the hair very dry if you dont deep condition.

[@reaanthi9601]

@@tiffanyalvord4757 for some reason It kept failing to reply the whole answer to your comment, but I answered to maddie for the both of u

[@reaanthi9601]

@@maddie-hs4ln haha no probs. I'm glad I could help. Let me know when you try it out 🤗

[@phos9867]

@@tiffanyalvord4757 γεια σου ειμαι απο ελλαδα μηπως μπορεις να μου πεις απο που το οηρες ονλαιν

[@reaanthi9601]

@@phos9867 μόλις τώρα έτυχε να δω το σχόλιό σου, γιατί το ειχες κάνει στην άλλη κοπέλα και δεν μου έστειλε notification. Το αγόρασα από το organic brands. Απλά να είσαι πολύ προσεκτική με την δοσολογία. Πάρε μια μάσκα μαλλιών φθηνή που δεν σε νοιάζει και βάλε εκεί ένα με δύο κουταλάκια του γλυκού amla ή moringa ή ένα και ένα. Βάλτο στα μαλλιά σου τύλιξε τα με μια πετσέτα και μετά πλυνε τα μαλλιά σου κανονικά. Βάλε ξανά μάσκα, αυτή τη φορά μια ενυδατικη κλασσική. Εννοώ χωρίς ayurvedic σκονες. Ξεβγαλε και κάνε την ρουτίνα σου όπως πάντα. Πες μου νέα

[@camillavanwijk2725]

Loved this, thanks!! Indeed made me feel so much more normal bout my own hair. Does you scalp not get itchy after day 3/4 hair? Thats often why i need to do a new wash day.

[@cocoacoolness]

I feel like I always need to brush my hair out on around day 3 or 4, then I either embrace the friz, or put it in a messy bun. The next day the frizz has usually settled a bit and I can refresh it properly

[@ruth8268]

Thank you! Yes, I feel more NORMAL! I would like to see how you slick your hair.

[@Yasyaiche]

Thank you 🥺💕 this was such a helpful video

[@umadevi0101]

When you get a haircut, what do you request? Just layers and framing your face?

[@doniaghobashi]

Love this video! Great job!! 🙃

[@jadesimone_]

this is whyyyy i’m SO scared to use new products or any products at all that aren’t leave in conditioner. cause soon as i put it in it’ll look real nice, but soon as i wake up the next morning my hair looks crunchy & stiff with like the most messed up curl pattern. 😩

[@AnaVelaRpo]

one of my biggest problems is that my hair is always tangling. Like, nightmare tangling. Everyday no matter when I washed it. How do I keep it cute without havig to untangle it dry?

[@avadeleon668]

SHE GORGEOUS

[@cameronramsey8268]

I wish I could curl my hair I've tried to get it to curl but it just poofs out but I'm going to the hair salon tomorrow so I'm hoping they can help me

[@timwiesenfeld8031]

This is the exact reason I never wear my hair curly … i cant deal. The first day is fine and then I straighten it bc from day two on its just terrible

[@andreaherrera754]

Omg same. Except in the summer I can’t. I don’t have AC and I can’t fight the humidity to straighten it, the house is so warm i can’t even dry it. So it’s an entire summer of me wearing my curly hair slapped in a bun on top of my head 💔

[@StormyDay]

Why don’t you wet your hair down!!?! I have very long hair and honestly, I don’t know what I would do if I couldn’t refresh every day! Here’s an easy fix: have two 16 oz sprayers on hand, one with water and a tablespoon of your crème (if it’s a small sprayer, adjust accordingly) and the other with water and a tablespoon of your gel. If your hair feels soft but is frizzy, use the gel water. If your hair feels dehydrated, use the crème water. Or use both if necessary. I’ve made stronger solutions especially for the gel but adjust both mixtures to what works best for you. (Spraying gel on your hair is awesome. ) This saves you from washing and feeling frustrated and doing damage by having to put it up all the time. Usually, the underside of my hair is okay, I just do it on the canopy, but I’ve had days when I soak it. Detangle with fingers. When it gets super tangled, I’ve even brushed it out completely, rewet it with the crème solution almost completely wet and finished with straight gel from the tube/jar. Winter is coming so remember too you can’t use your summer routine bc of the dew point, add a LIC bc of the dryness and use protein and moisture masks every week.

[@Boss_etc853]

I keep forgetting not everyone wears bonnets and scarves to bed lol im like “wtf isnt your hair going to be tangled rolling around on the pillow cases??” 😂

[@karahall6296]

This video helped me a lot. Do you have any advice for going days without washing? After 2 days I have so much oil, flakes and itchiness.

[@AmandaSeeny]

Thank You soooo much for this!!! 💙💙💙

[@jessicaflamenco6732]

Where do you shop at?! Your tops in all your videos are super cute!

[@chambersjc85]

I’ve been following you for so long! You are just stunning, and I love your hair! Is your hair colored? If so, what color? We kinda look like we can be cousins, and I want your color! ❤️❤️❤️

[@littlefroe3316]

Are you wearing clinique black honey? Looks similar. Also great video

[@livymandonguilles]

I NEED MORE VIDEOS OF YOU DANCING OMGG

[@proprietaryblend]

Jayme Jo 💕thank you sooooo much for sharing - Would you be able to let us know what shower cap you use and any other recommendations - it is so hard to find an effective shower cap for long curly hair .. which is why I rarely use.. they tend to create like a sauna effect for me and don’t fit hair even in a pineapple 🍍 🥴🤣😂

[@dariarumjungle7530]

the good thing about this is we have similar hair texture and we do similar things other people is not helpful😂👍

[@tamirescosta6557]

Jayme! I was looking at this video but from 1 year ago, and your hair has grown SO MUCH in just a year! what is your secret sissss I am STRUGGLING to get my hair pass shoulder length:(((

[@hannahsamir3110]

Thank you for this video♥️♥️♥️

[@leannebakker9075]

I,m not the only one who is afraid of what my hair will be like in the morning. I thought it was only me💀😇

[@simhaaaaa]

I really liked this video!!

[@tiya9676]

can you do video on how u brushed curls out and still ended up with something presentable for the next 3 days? 😅😅

[@upekadissanayake1583]

Thank you so much for this ❤

[@auzzieag6058]

where are your black flares in the dance clip from? xx

[@mollysoukup2315]

i love this!!! i love your videos much and they are so inspiring and i am learning so much. your curls are BEAUTIFUL!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ i have 2c 3a curls. the under layer of my hair is 3a but for some reason the top layer of my hair is straighter. i am curious why it is like this. can i do anything to make the top curlier?!! is it damaged?!

[@faffounette]

A ponytail messes up the top of the head. It flatens the curls and creates frizz. Do a pineapple instead

[@shesnour]

i discovered i had curlY haIr like 2 years ago cause when putting a hijab u always just brush it so i never noticed my curls ... now i feel much better knowing that the texture i was getting from brushing my hair dry everyday WAS ALL MY MISTAKE

[@alahaw9781]

I need a tutorial sm!!! 8:45

[@yourstrulysas]

can you do a tut on slicking you hair (day 4 hair) please !!!

[@italyshanmei]

Same struggles even with much shorter hair lol

[@ForeverEffervescent777]

what products do you use to slick your hair!? love your videos!

[@monnaboulette8747]

What type of haircut do you have?? I love watching your videos. Thanks

[@bhawansandhu4541]

how do you slick ur hair back? what product do you use?

[@Ikigai747]

Thanks for making this

[@huntervassar8691]

Love day 5 😌

[@ΧριστιναΧριστηδου-η5ω]

From Greece my hair is exactly like yours

[@ashleenicole5799]

So relatable 💜

[@AshHeartz]

Do you have tips on how to sleek curly hair? I always get frizz!