A Ship in the Storm

[@cathyboots947]

I wish my son would have called me, I wish my son would have come home. But he didn't. Listen to this man. He is wise. Whatever you do don't quit... My son quit... He was in Alaska. He had a great job he had money in the bank he had everything going for him he was 31 years old. And he took his life 5 years ago in August 17th 2017... it's a living hell for the family to deal with on a daily. Holidays are horrible... Contact your mom and dad if you get in trouble give them a call. Don't sit in silence. Reach out to someone. My son didn't realize how many people loved and cared about him. He's gone forever. Depression is a liar. Depression tells you that no one cares. Don't let depression lie to you. Don't quit because every storm that you go through in life makes you a stronger wiser individual... Get up in the morning and put your armor on. And when Life starts throwing arrows. You will be able to withstand them. You will come out stronger than ever. Don't quit. Don't ever do it. I miss my Son 💔😭 so MUCH.👣🌄🌻🍁🌿🌏❣️

[@benji9871]

You are a beautiful person. Thank you.

[@guywerry6614]

Thank you for sharing that, turning your pain to "help another boat". May Christ comfort your heart.

[@Sirjxy]

This comment saved my life tn.. thank you.

[@phoenixd9679]

I am so sorry for your loss of your Son 🙏💐🕯

[@panthermodern6572]

Depression doesn't lie. It changes you, alters the way you think. To a depressed person their thoughts are as logical as laws of nature, and that's the scariest thing I've ever felt. To know with your mind that people care for you and love you, but not being able to feel and acknowledge that with your heart and soul is hard. But as long as you keep yourself strong mentally and physically, you can live with it, and perhaps it'll get better eventually. Hope is strong, hope is what saves you in the darkest hour.

[@hallowedjester3]

Hearing you talking about boats made me remember something my grandfather once said - "When the ships were made of wood, the men were made of steel, now the ships are made of steel and the men of wood." Thanks Dewayne for reminding me to be a man of steel. God bless

[@zsedcftglkjh]

Steel sinks, wood floats.

[@b3_op103]

@@zsedcftglkjh explain the steel boats than... besides why try and disect his grandfathers great quote anyway? what have you to gain? and while your at it explain all the sunken wood in the ocean everything sinks if were being extreme. the point of the quote is the men were strong their tools were weak but they made do, now the men are weak because their tools are strong and they no longer need to be.

[@cumsteak]

@@zsedcftglkjh ...?? you should prolly Google the US Navy

[@SleepBeforeYouThink]

@@b3_op103 steel is more dense than water, so it sinks. Wood is less dense, so it floats. The reason boats made of steel float isn’t because steel can suddenly float on its own. It’s because steel boats are made specially with buoyancy compartments, essentially pockets filled with air.

[@SleepBeforeYouThink]

@@AJ0223 no, I was quite clear. It’s not my problem that you are too remedial to keep up with basic logic. Also my username is my god given name from birth it cant be childish. That’s like saying the name Steve is childish. You are incoherent. What point did I miss? He asked to explain steel boats, and I did exactly that. I explained it in a way that even someone like you SHOULD be able to understand.

[@vicentedelay8245]

A ship in harbor is safe but that’s not what ships are built for.

[@PSUK]

If your ship doesn’t sail in, swim out to meet it.

[@Skateordie77]

Damn that was good.

[@PSUK]

@@Skateordie77 it’s how I see it. 😘

[@bw2442]

Some storms are way bigger than the boat was designed to handle. Wisdom dictates finding a safe port to sail another day.

[@stevecooper7883]

"Little ships should stay to shore but bigger ships may venture evermore!" -Benjamin Franklin

[@DieselMech]

“the true mark of a sailor isn’t how many seas he’s sailed, but how many storms he’s weathered.” -Matshona Dhliwayo

[@cmr1127]

I'm a 36 year old man,and I've had to make some tough decisions in the last 2 weeks.im now raising 2 boys on my own working 50 hours a week and it's tough it is..I stumbled across your channel as I was rite in the middle of the storm and I just wanna say thank you,I love you 2..and I am a warrior, and so are you Sir

[@tutorialchief]

35 year old, two difficult children and a wife i dont love, stay strong brother, never give up

[@jat2319]

@@tutorialchief Best of wishes to you both and all. Stay strong.

[@iriswestdyk684]

Ryan… congratulations on being a single parent. Being a single parent will test everything your made of. Luckily you are not the only single parent… Try to reach out to Friends and family, and other single parents. Most importantly stay away from drugs and alcohol and you will reap the rewards. Hug them every day and tell them you love them!

[@randyl6541]

I raised 2girls myself. I worked 6 days a week doing metal fabrication. Right about your age when my wife left me. It was hard as hell at the time but now looking back it was some of the best time in my life. I will say our house was peaceful after she left and my daughters think I’m a rockstar. They are 23 now (twins) and I’m 55.

[@realityutubetv8846]

True Character is shown through adversity.

[@mustlearnmore4884]

"If a man knows not to which port he sails, no wind is favourable." - Seneca "The greater the difficulty, the more glory in surmounting it. Skilful pilots gain their reputation from storms and tempests." - Epicurus "A ship in harbour is safe, but that is not what ships are built for." - John A. Shedd

[@jeffklepzig920]

You're a rare and preciously gifted man Dewayne. And we're re all fortunate that you were born in a time when you can share your gift with the world. For the good of us all, don't stop what you're doing. Regards from the east coast of Australia.

[@jeffklepzig920]

@Rigbone G'day Rigbone. I'm down in Coffs Harbour. Yeah theres not many of us but we Aussies are everywhere. Take it easy.

[@harrisonbergeron5393]

Very well said Jeff.

[@jeffklepzig920]

@@harrisonbergeron5393 thank you Harrison.

[@mralexforbes]

Greetingz brothers & sisters. From Newcastle NSW ‘Straya :)

[@jeffklepzig920]

@@mralexforbes I love Newy ! Lived at Nelson Bay a thousand years ago.

[@hyperbaker87]

On behalf of all the young man and women who has and who will stumble upon these videos, I Thank you for shining a light through these storm and darkness. I'm a 21-year-old and I can say that this is the kind of school we need, especially now a days. Too bad I'm here at the last week but, looking forward to next year. Will be going through previous videos.

[@hanswoast7]

I can also recommend you Jordan Peterson, Gabor Mate, Jocko Willink and Simon Sinek. Good luck on your journey!

[@joshlarson4278]

“Dried out and cleaned up” big one for me. Been working my way out alcohol addiction lately, going to college, trying to work my way into a better life. Thank you Dwayne. And to the rest, we are all stronger than we know. We just have to steer into the waves.

[@nathanisenhour4420]

I'm pulling for you brother..Keep your head up. Adjust your compass true every so often.. one day at a time..take care..

[@dove7271]

and... call out to the master of the sea whom is Jesus Christ♥

[@0num4]

Hey Josh, how are you holding up? From one sober person to another: You can keep going. Even if you misstep here or there, you can continue to make yourself and your life better.

[@joelm7621]

what's up Josh keep up the good work, keep steering into the waves. my position is the same and I keep looking at my age and accomplishments.. stuck in the past. in this manner, I wasted a lot of todays. Today is the day to seize - I am finishing uni, 6 months without addiction and growing religiously. The past is the past let's get tomorrow to be something of our choosing to be proud of

[@marshall3759]

I also needed this. I'm 33, I was up all night after I made a noose and set out some clothes. I really soaked this in and listen to what you have to say and it's level. And it's inspiring. I used to need to make art, need to be outside and cycle. I need to push through this. My oglala ancestors wouldn't want me to be the growing statistics. I always wanted to help folks..

[@jordandiaz993]

Love you bro ❤

[@23dantes]

We need to bond together as people, that being said I love you man ❤️

[@DavidPrObooMBer]

Stay course brother. We'll get through this.

[@krystle8534]

Sending you a virtual hug, please don't give up❤

[@3k445]

You need to Weather this storm....you will love and respect yourself much more after...form a routine, do the mundane tasks and burn yourself out physically. Love and blessings from a woman who is weathering her storm of a parent suddenly passing...and having the responsibility of running the household on her own...with dad and brother. I was suicidal at the beginning and felt lost as my mum was my world....but You can and WILL do it. Xx

[@jamesmetzler2031]

Wow Dewayne , this was powerful. So many young people need to hear this today. I have a young friend whose boat is in danger of going under. I am going to send this to him. My boat is old and foundering. The bilge pumps are on their last legs. But I had a good run and I'm not giving up. Nobody is coming to help me, but I've started bailing anyway. Thanks for this.

[@caseG80]

Amen we will all pop out in the sunshine

[@BeauNero666]

Dewayne seems like an ol lighthouse for us all. Some hope, some wisdom, some guidance if you want it. Hope your friend will make it to shore.

[@jeffape63]

Your analysis of Gandhi was spot on. When I was in the Army I was talking to a fellow soldier originally from India. Mentioned Gandhi to him in conversation once. Imagine my surprise to learn that not all Indians were happy with the things Gandhi did ie giving half the country away to form Pakistan, etc. Caused a re-evaluation of cultural icons on my part.

[@jadenkutz]

Hell of a storyteller you are, in a good way

[@whizzbang8023]

Thank you Dwayne, I hope you realize just how much of a help and blessing you are. I'm 42, husband & father of 5 and have recently been diagnosed with lymphoma. I had the privilege of being raised in a Christian home and was Saved at a young age. I live near a few costal churches and the fishermen in them have seen some terrible storms while at sea, some have lost their lives to them. My father flew for the RAF and conducted many search and rescue sorties for those in peril on the sea. Hearing those men sing the hymn "Will your anchor hold" when you know they've been through storms physically, mentally and spiritually is a moving experience. This storm that I'm heading into isn't of my making but I take comfort that I can call out to the master of the storm and find solace in the chorus of that same hymn "We have an anchor that keeps the Soul steadfast and sure while the billows roll; fastened to the Rock which cannot move, grounded firm and deep in the Saviour's love. I pray that God will bless you, your good lady wife, your viewers and help you in this work that you undertaken.

[@Stryper101]

Sending prayers for healing

[@moto3463]

Sending you all the best in health & healing

[@mpep1356]

Be a warrior. Finish well.

[@douglasrock9414]

Very moving. We Will pray with conviction and claim your 100% deliverance. The health concern you have is not yours. Give it back to satan. Invoke the Holy spirit through Christ to drive satans sicness back where it belongs. IT IS NOT YOURS! I would suggest if you are saying " I have lymphoma" just say "Ive been healed". You HAVE. Know it. Say it. Let no one say otherwise. Miracles are REAL. They are being performed all over the world. Not fancy churches, necessarily, but by people just like you. Fully trusting and strong Christ followers/believers. Let no one speak of anything but your complete deliverance. Even doctors. There is no room for doubters or miserable comforters. Christ raised the dead. Greater is he, Christ, that is in you than he, satan, that is in the world. Stopping to pray NOW, Love you. Doug Rock

[@danielhealy539]

I'm Losing my job and being made redundant and i'm keeping positive and fighting but reading your comment puts me in my place and puts everything into perspective. my thoughts are with you i cannot imagine what you must be feeling. but you've helped me. Thank you

[@georgelanier1018]

Whoa man I was cooking my supper and listening to this.. didn't take long before I was standing in my kitchen weeping. I have heard alot of motivational talks lately but this one tops them all. For me my pride and cynicism keep me from asking for help, I have been working on something I'm passionate about, sadly most think I'm crazy and won't even listen to what I have to say and walk away if I even mention investing. I refuse to let go of this dream die despite the storm I face. I want to thank you sir for your most inspiring message. God bless you and your family.

[@zonefreakman]

The people who are unsupportive mostly I think they don't have any of their dreams fulfilled so they can't give genuine emotional support because they don't know what it's like to fulfill their life's mission. They are stuck in negative and morose thinking. But most people are like that, and anyone who makes an effort like yourself are very courageous for braving that storm. Some people might even look on at you with like someone else said with jealousy, or resentment because they bought into lies why they cannot make their life better. Those people would rather tear other people down who are become successful so that they don't have to look at you and to feel the disparity between them and yourself.

[@coheedfreak06]

Finding older folks to gain perspective from is one of, if not the best way, to grow as a man. Although, I would like to add that some of the more inspired mindsets and dawning of realizations for me, has come from a man four years younger than I. Do not let pride and a systemic notion that "older is always wiser" stifle you, from receiving that which you need, from someone who has learned more from you, in a shorter span of life. I love you guys! let's keep growing and finding ourselves in a very trying period of life. 🙏🏻

[@zeestrees2780]

Love when your videos pop up. Somethin bout hearing you talk is really peaceful. I find myself listening to you most in the morning when i start my day making breakfast and sipping coffee. Idk how to explain it but hearing you talk is calming

[@Saint_pierre]

Big support from a 17 year old that lives in Macedonia, Europe. Your channel is my favorite on youtube keep doing what you doing.

[@millchar]

That was beautiful. You are truly carrying out Gods message to all of us ❤

[@lhm1586]

Coming from a young Brazilian man, who've dropped college a few times and fought some mental disorders, I just discovered your channel and every single video I watch gives me some deep insight, wise words. Gonna send your videos to my dad, he would love to watch this talks as he's also a deep thinker who tries his best to pass on his knowledge to me and my brothers. Thanks for such videos!!

[@craig5477]

Dewayne & Momma have created a school. Initially I thought this school was about something that really interested me so I subscribed to enjoy learning about a lifestyle that I have been a part of at points in my life. And I learned a lot about that lifestyle. But the most important things this channel teaches us is about people & ideas. Dewayne & Momma are using their life experience to help us all find a path through “the storm “. And they do it in a way that gives encouragement to all that are willing to listen. The horses appreciate it to because being a standup, logical & reasonable person makes life better for all around us … people & horses.

[@uglyanxiety6841]

You mean so much to us all sir! I just became sober(fully) in Apri of this year. Life has been very difficult to cope without drugs/alcohol. Your videos put my mind at peace. I actually fall asleep now to your advice and knowledge now instead of the voices of regret and shame. Thank you.

[@lifetalkwithdan]

Hi Friend, just want to encurage you to change your profile name. The Bible make it clear that words are powerful. You can talk Life or you can talk Death, friend. Talk Life, believe in Jesus Christ, read the Bible daily, if only a few verses per day. And pray with thanksgiving in Jesus Christ name, also daily. And I promise you. The anxiety will gradually dissolve and a New and beautiful version of you will gradually start to flurish. I believe in you brother, and so does The Lord. ❤️🙏 Peace be upon you, Dan

[@VintageSoul_1]

You have, and continue to change my life for the better with each one of your videos. I've been happier in my life, I've had more money in my life, but I've never felt as whole and true and on the path that was meant for me as I do today, thanks to you. From the bottom of my heart, I love you too Dewayne. Thank you so so much.

[@caseG80]

Many others read the comments share what you've changed accomplished in this change you've made. Amen for taking the steps to follow your heart I truly believe doing so with kindness leading the way anything is possible.

[@nicolasgruman635]

Dewayne I really appreciated the video. I'm going back to church now after 15 years and I've cut off all the bad influences in my life. Thank you! You showed me where my life needs to go. I appreciate all your videos and say hi to mama for me.

[@firzen0000]

This video is so incredibly important to me that I had to download it. I'll always keep it around on my phone, and it will be my source of strength and determination whenever I'm going through rough waters.

[@Watamelon-yx1mj]

I dont see alot of people mentioning this, but its insane how you can make such a story about a theory like this and how big of a life advise can come out of this while also being so relatable. I have read alot of things like marcus aurelius, epictetus, st augustine things like these. But this just hits home the same amount as these books BUT in just a small video. You dont see it like this maybe but you truly are a philosopher and Jesus is proud of you for spreading his name at the same time for so many people. God bless to you Dewayne and your wife/family. Best of luck with the moving towards a new place and a new chapter in your life

[@smoke5620]

Thanks for being out there Dwayne! You help me and others weather that 15 mile wide storm and keep the boat afloat. Thanks again buddy… Your in my prayers.

[@lukanplays3876]

I'm very happy to hear these words right now, I'm a teenager and live in Brazil we were having our presidential elections today, and everyone in my social media and in real life was fighting. My parents are not that happy with the results because we are a farmer family, and the man elected today has very anti-agroindustrial policies. So I was in a pretty bad mood, but your wise words made me happier, thanks a lot, I might even show this video to my parents after this, even though they don't speak English. I hope someday we stop fighting about politics or religion. Have a good day Duane!!!

[@cheapasmilk]

Thank you for talking about family today. I rented an apartment with a good childhood friend. So we could afford to move out, and all the fun things we both enjoyed. We take care of the tasks we both feel need to get done, because we respect each other. My dad and younger brother both had to bum the couch the last 2 years though. I've been very bitter about it, I never show it though to them. Because they are safe, I love them even in bitterness. You healed me when you talked about the Pride(the good kind) of returning home to loved ones. I was pretty immature, and frankly. I understand where some of my self hatred stems from now. That bitterness is the words of others, who kept saying I should kick them out. They don't have anywhere else to go. I can feel the love of their trust in me more clearly now, I have on some level a renewed strength in me. More room to move. So thank you sir.

[@HeyYoSurveyTime]

You're a good man. 35 year old man here, no family, no wife, no children, no friends as I've cut off who I need to cut off. Plowing through the waves, with faith that the Master will see me through. Thanks for some light.

[@guitarplayer5611]

I think you are helping people with horsemanship, but I also think you are helping people in life. Keep up the wonderful videos!!!

[@sergedenovo2389]

I love that "alone" video. It made me subscribe to this channel. It never crossed my mind to point fingers. I made my choices.

[@ecamp6334]

I'm happy to hear that you're coming out to Wyoming in the Spring! My husband and I have subscribed to your channel and have enjoyed your vlogs very much. I love that you are speaking positive and encouraging words to the men, young, old and in between in our country. It has been on my heart for many years. I'm a 66 year old Mother and Grandmother that quit watching sit-coms many years ago, when the Cosby Show and others started depicting young boys as inept and stupid, and little girls as always smarter. That was when my son was five years old. I didn't want him subjected to that nonsense. We are blessed to live in a part of the country where men are respected and women are given the same opportunities as men. That being said, Men, don't give up. The Lord has hardwired it in your DNA to be an overcomer, a cultivater that makes things better than the way it was when you first got it. Keep the faith.

[@RachLZelda]

I went back home to my family a couple of years ago and it really helped. We all help each other and love each other every day. Society tries to shame people for living with their family, and it really means a lot to hear you speak so strongly in favour of being with your family. It really felt like you were speaking directly to me, and I feel really encouraged. Thank you very much.

[@codytiger4]

Listening to Dewayne reminds me of reading out of Proverbs or going to the local gas station and listening to the old timers talk. So much wisdom. Thankful for everything you put on here. You truly do inspire me to lead my family in the right direction in a time where there's so much uncertainty and lack of strong rooted leadership/advise.

[@CptnCobblestone]

25 and reevaluating my life. Thank you for the boat and storm analogy. I needed to hear that. As a lost man, I’m going to refocus and decide where to set sail in my life. I need direction and discipline with myself. More importantly I need purpose.

[@johnmacri7440]

Good for you. Keep pluggin

[@loudoggmo]

Another great motivational video. Thank you so much. My life is so hard at the moment and your videos help me so much. My little girl is my everything, the CPO date is Thursday I really hope this gets dropped and I get shared custody of my little 9 year old luv bug.

[@Sutcliffe371]

My Dad passed away last week, he was a sailor and brought us home everytime on trips to Bermuda, Nova Scotia , sometimes I dont know how but he did lol. So many storms on a 31' sailboat he built. Your a great mentor, ty for being a voice of reason for these kids nowadays.

[@Robfog6]

Thank you Dwayne. Please keep this channel going for as long as possible! Young adults these days need it.

[@BlakesPipes]

Storms come and will go, I see it at 49 years old. Glad I found my way as others did not see light on the other side. I found mine, by finding me! I have found a great person in me. Keep up the great work you supply. We grow when a tough storm hits our boat. We don't learn if we don't experience the hard water times. It's how we survive and find flat water to make progress with our knowledge. Good stuff. Can't change others, only yourself.

[@EverAscendingSyndrome]

Profound. History based. Great story telling. Great advice 👍. So many 💎 Gems of wisdom. "Writing ✍️ your obituary" spoke to me.

[@805hiker2]

This right here, is what our young people should be viewing as role models. As a guy who didn't have a strong relationship with my dad (or any other male figure) I am finding your videos to be so very much insightful and full of wisdom. I've seen several of your videos and have enjoyed every one of them but this one hit harder. I am most certainly not at the giving up point in any way whatsoever, but the last few years have been rough. Having kids in and out of school during COVID, less socializing, dad passed away, major career change, and a divorce with 2 young kids involved. All of this literally in the last 3 years. Some days are good, some not so much. Sometimes I wonder if this is just my new normal. But when I look back I can say that things have gotten better, however at a very slow pace, but better overall. It helps to stop thinking so much of the past, which we cannot change, and also not think too much about the future, which has not yet arrived. Staying in the moment and appreciating what you have (rather than dwelling on what you don't have or how you think things ought to be) helps a lot. Be like water and go with the flow of life, don't resist obstacles/hardships, find ways to go around or over and continue on your journey. Love you guys! Hang in there!

[@bennybennerson7728]

I enjoy watching your videos a lot because it gives me a look into a different life as a 17 year old Aussie man who never had a good relationship with my dad you’ve given me a lot to think about because I was never told what’s right and wrong so I’ve just had to figure it out my self

[@comesahorseman]

I can relate! 👍

[@jamesrobison9527]

If you find and talk to older men, they will be more than happy to help you along the way, just remember they are teaching what they were taught. If it's for you awesome, if not look again.

[@TimRobertsen]

You speak to the soul. This left me in tears. It hit home real hard, life has been very tough. Your wisdom is a blessing.

[@iamhear_officially]

I love these chats Dwayne.... you are a breath of fresh air for a lot of people. Thanks for doing these ✌️

[@kevincrawford6864]

I'm not even in to horses and somehow came across this channel, the wisdom and advice will keep me coming back. More and more young men seem to be confused and disgruntled today with all this nonsense going on. I have noticed a lot of men today are being raised in single households and think that has something to do with it. I suspect there is a lack of masculine roll models in majority of American homes today because of a combination of things, a lack of accountability and government incentivization of divorce with masculinity being labeled as toxic as well. It was refreshing to find your channel, I think you are helping a lot of young men including myself keep moving forward through the storm.

[@stevebrough304]

Thanks for the words of encouragement Dewayne. This likely hits home for more people than we probably realize...

[@rayhillsman1765]

Growing up in a rural town, I knew a lot of people with horses, many of them kind, good, strong people. You remind me there are still people like that. The world's full of crazy now. I'm steering through my own storms. So I really appreciated hearing your message today. Thank you.

[@KatGlance]

Another great video. You surprised me on the direction you went, with the storm analogy I thought you were going to say hang on the storm won't last. And yes, family first. In times past many generations lived in one house and they all benefitted from that as long as the home was built on love. The old need the love, help and entertainment of the young. The young need the teaching of the old. There should be no shame in going home, there should be rejoicing it is what you do when you land home. Thank you! Note: Edit changed word house to home.

[@nicholassalazar34]

What an amazing speech. These words truly helped me today, at this point in my life. Dewayne thinks he's just a regular guy... when in reality he is an amazing man.

[@kristycook6041]

I don't think that I'm alone in sayin' and feelin' that there's just somethin' about who you are that the spirit bears witness with... somethin' 'bout real, and calm as a cuke, and peace, and kind loving wisdom. No-matter the topic, there's just something about your videos that compels a person to, not only ask themselves questions, but to, take the time to answer them... Honestly. Your calm demeanor digs in to the soul. It's extremely healing. I've been told that God works in mysterious ways, and that His timing is perfect, and while I don't know you personally, your videos lead me to believe that that's true.

[@isaidwtfover]

I totally agree with you. May I also suggest far north bushcraft and survival. He’s great to watch and listen to, too.

[@geofft7664]

I'm 32, lost my job during covid and i had to move back home with my mom to and admit to her i was addicted to fentanyl. Ive been living here a little over a year now and she's helped me get off that stuff without rehab or detox, just family. 11 months sober now. I'm also about 11 months free of depression as well. Been spending my days helping my mom revitalize our property, it's got 20 years of overgrowth. Just recently found this channel. A lot of what you've got to say really reaches out to me, i appreciate the wisdom you've got to share.

[@zonefreakman]

Good job man you made it out of the storm. Many people addicted to that stuff end up dead. For those that have died maybe they had no one to help them through it. For me if I didn't reach out to other people other than my family, then I'd be in a bad place.

[@snake_boot]

Well spoken and thoughtful as always.

[@DCX103]

I'm honestly finding just the foundation of these videos meaning Dwayne's voice, look, and manner of appeal is truly humbling before the topic of the video even begins. I feel notably humbled/content after just a few minutes of listening to any one video

[@StihlRunnin]

I enjoy your videos very much, god bless.

[@adamthebassist93]

I appreciate how much you draw from stoic philosophy. Worry about the things you do have control over. You may not have control over the storm but you have control over your own boat and what you do with it.

[@DominereEvansMusic]

Dewayne, you don’t know how much I appreciate your videos. From horse teaching to your wisdom. Thanks!

[@johnwilson9720]

I have watched your videos many times. You have some of the best advice for all to follow. Doesn’t have to be horses,ships at sea,politics or whatever. Keep up the great work you are doing. 16:41

[@Zzzzzzzzzzxzxxzzzzxx]

This had me in tears 😭 My late husband used to say smooth seas never made a skilled sailor. I lost him in 2020 a boyfriend in 2021 & split with someone very dear to me a couple weeks ago. I needed this message. Thank you 💙

[@Prince1911_]

The last part about moving back with your parents really “almost” made me shed a tear. 28 years old. Lived on my own pretty comfortably for the last 7 years or so. With inflation and high monthly expenses, I seem to now be drowning “in a storm”. Pride won’t let me go back to my parents house even though my mom and dad welcome me with open arms. May be time to wisen up and go back just to get back on my feet. Thank you sir for the kind words.

[@Addithebaddie123]

Hey dewayne thanks for the chat. I like the analogy of the Buffalo in the storm. From what I understand they will head directly into the storm. Of course they will get hit hard with the front but they will also be out the other side sooner. Like your suggestion about steering the boat into the storm. Be like a buffalo!

[@washburnbilly]

Sir I don't say much on most videos but I think that this is a brilliant way of thinking! You are top notch one of the most wise men that I have ever came across. And I am not here to stroke your ego, I really mean it. Very few have ever got that compliment because I don't say it often. However after watching you for a little while I think that you are one of the best with wisdom. Thanks for doing these videos because they are important! GOD bless

[@beeamerica5024]

Very well said Dwayne I might add I have never spent a day alone the promise of the holy Spirit the comforter is with you always so that you will not be alone 💥💪🐝

[@mikethomas4570]

Never relied on anyone, worked hard entire life, and considered myself a follower of Jesus most of my adult life. Arthritis got me hard this year. Every step I take is extremely stiff and painful, still trying to hold down my full time job, and part time lawn care hustle in summer. Can’t understand why some of my immediate family I’ve supported all these years aren’t reaching out in my time of hardship. Feeling unloved. I’m so thankful for my faith, knowledge, and relationship with my creator. I know my future, and looking forward to leaving this evil world. Praise and love to lord Jesus

[@depthhealing]

This is Dr . G. Rex Kruhly, founder of Depth healing Technology. I am a big fan. This particular talk is a masterpiece of wisdom. Thank you. I am inspired. . Inlight. Dr. G

[@francescoquerini8989]

Man you really tuch us at the core! Thank you

[@shaunroberts9361]

Thank god you have parent's to go home to. Some of us do not have no parents to go home too because they have past on... This was good Duane. Thank you for sharing.

[@Evan-eq3uh]

Not sure why I never liked or subscribed until this video but damn this hits hard.I like to watch these videos because you make me feel real, holsom and hopefull. True badass. Let’s get back to real life. I think we will all find each other when the time comes…

[@shadow_stalk]

17:09 started telling my life story literally almost word for word..when i was 23 17:40 .. now 29 and a completely different life then i onced lived... biggest things that helped me was getting off social media and getting toxic fake people (even family can be toxic)out of my life.. some of those boats cry wolf and just wanna take your boat from you.. be careful and surround yourself with good people!!!

[@benklein6299]

Man my eyes watered up and I got chills watching this video. Thank you for being you sir.

[@jamestalo9533]

Yeah man mine too. I felt like he was talking directly to me. Sometimes I feel like I steer towards the storm more often than not.

[@gatheringwolves]

Seems like every time I have a bad day, your videos make their way onto my path, thank you for making this videos.

[@jamesorton1228]

I’ve been watching your videos for a while now. I’ve enjoyed all of them. This one however. Is by far the most powerful and encouraging one yet. Thank you so so much. James. Australia

[@patriciarist856]

Hy Dewayne, I recently discovered your channel, I am watching from Romania. I am 29, just bought an apartment all on my own and am trying to turn my life around. I started saving more, and turning to family for emotional support if needed. I loved partying, and I still do, but I do it way less than before, I wanna go back to my old self where I went hiking and spent more time outside. I try to make something of every given hour of the day: if I commute, and I do a lot, I read, or I call my family ( I call them every day ) I walk my dog, if none of my friends are available we go on a longer walk. I really try to live a balanced life but I still have a long way to go. I love your channel you are an inspiration. Keep up the good work

[@HeatherDMorris]

I love your stories based on the Lords word. I had a heavy heart last night for lost family members and I tossed and turned and had terrible anxiety. I've talked to them about how Jesus can change their life till i am out of breath. Two of them have talked suicide. I'm praying for them to accept Jesus

[@joshuamccord2414]

We will most certainly be praying for you and your family members my sister in Christ Jesus, He is The Truth and The Light, No man comes to the Father except through HIM . God is the only power source for our hearts beating every beat, no other power source but HIM , He always supplies the air we breathe, every movement we move is only allowed by HIM I love the verse , Be Still And Know That I Am God! Amen

[@HeatherDMorris]

@@joshuamccord2414 thank you !

[@joshuamccord2414]

It's always my pleasure to pray for my family in Christ and the lost , who are blinded by Satan and don't know Christ. I too have lost family members that I continually pray for each day. Merry Christmas to you and your family my sister in Christ.

[@brandonfouts4074]

I shared this video with my dad and he also enjoyed it

[@kevinmm20]

Great message. This is the essence of the wisdom given by the ancient Stoic philosophers.

[@kbentch]

Great video - awesome talk. Several of my kids and grandkids need this. I sent it to them. We live in Wyoming. If you come to Wyoming and have a “Meet and Greet” I’d love to meet you all and shake your hand! God’s blessings on you and yours in Jesus’s name!

[@kbentch]

PS. I needed the talk too!!

[@zachsmith5877]

I've been waiting to watch this video for a couple days, and I just watched it at the perfect time. My father is one of those guys to shake his fist and point his finger at the storm. I'm trying to learn how to steer my ship through the waves, and people like you are helping me get there. Thank you.

[@bobdefiglio2.045]

I just found your channel and I want to thank you for your message. You know when the pandemic started, I felt helpless, I felt there wasn't much I could do, but the one thing it did do, was it drove me and my family out camping, like I used to do with my step dad and mom. I also took up hunting and fishing again like I did when I was younger. In the quiet of the woods one day, I noticed I started feeling better about myself and my situation. I then went back to church again and joined the Knights of Columbus, because I felt better and I thought maybe I could help others to feel better. I went to the soup kitchen to help out, and I found myself listening to a homeless man's story. Of all the things in the world he could want, he wanted someone to listen to him, so I did. Each time I went back, I kept listening to him. I let him talk, he got better each time I went back. He now lives in the village where other homeless people are rehabbing. I like to think my listening to his story each time I go helped him.

[@distracteach]

Another great discussion, Dewayne. In the teaching world, we're experiencing turnover rates never before seen. I have colleagues who have been placed under such extreme stress that they've put themselves in the hospital. I've personally experienced major health problems as well. Our storm has turned into a hurricane, and the onset of "burnout" is so high and so fast that many are isolating themselves from their support system (their colleagues and families). It's preventing us from helping the other boats (teachers). As far as the storm, we've got post-pandemic ed. policy, and the lack of social-emotional growth affected kids are displaying. We are seeing policies and behaviors that feed off each other to exponentially worsen the conditions. As far as helping the boats, our admins are supposed to be our support system...but are instead poking holes in the hull while all the teachers as colleagues frantically bail water. The result, teachers are grabbing their life vests and making for the shore. A great analogy Dewayne, hopefully the storm doesn't last much longer for us.

[@astealthyfish]

I lost my mom last year around Christmas and the holidays this year are really getting to me. This helps a lot. Thanks.

[@lucasgritz2857]

Protect this man at all costs

[@davidfarrall]

Spot on, Dwayne. We must try to be Riders of the Storm. Aim your Vortex into the difficulties of the Storm, as Abraham Hicks says. Find the things and people you love and pursue them. Help others on the journey and never give up, no matter what…….. Keep on churning, “die” a little each day and win through……..

[@charlesputnam9370]

A couple years ago I took a group of guys out fishing. We had caught a limit of red snapper and could see a storm coming. We pulled up anchor and headed for the bay . We where almost there when we heard a mayday call. Got the guys GPS number and punched it in turned around and went straight back out 10 miles into terrible seas. Luckily we where going into the waves. Coastguard tried to get me not to go. Took two hours to go ten miles. Found three guys hanging onto the bottom of capsized boat. Boy they where happy to see us. I was orphaned at age 12. Never made much money. Drive tractor s for fifty years planting , plowing and harvesting. Saved a little money bought an old boat fixed it up. I have been an alcoholic and quit drinking. Been through a lot of hard times. Yet you just got to get through the storm . These guys where looking for a helicopter but got saved by an old farmer. I am 68 years old still working on a farm everyday cause I can't afford to quit. Just keep going into the storm I love it.

[@24infernoX]

This is making me cry so much. I'd think that with the cards I was dealt, I would be able to succeed in life. Be someone that is more productive and respected, but that just isn't the case. Life is a map that you can't figure out. You may think you're in Oklahoma, when you're really in Missisippi. Lately, I've just been stuck. Think the wall that this man had talked about has finally approached me at 27. Making me think about where I'm going. Is my boat able to overcome the waves that are brewing. Can I become someone that is valuable to not only others, but myself? Truth be told, I've never valued myself. And this man has helped me realize that I need to value my own boat instead of looking at everyone elses. We are all different individuals. So thank you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

[@modernmanmasteryco]

Beautiful, Dewayne. Thank you…from the deepest places of my heart 🙏🏻❤️

[@Frankflores111]

A deep talk whilst the sound of the wind can be heard in the background. This video felt as though it came out of a movie scene Thank you for your words, Sir. Your videos are gold and have an impact on people. You're a clear example of what positive masculinity should look like. Young gentlemen like me need to be surrounded by advisors like you, especially in these modern times where toxic behavior is encouraged Keep doing what you do, Sir. This channel is amazing Greetings from El Salvador 🇸🇻, the country with the best coffee in the world

[@travelingapps9546]

You're a phenomenal story teller. Just really enjoy your videos

[@MinhTongDuc]

I rarely comment on KZbin. But you are a gift of God! Thank you! 36 years old man from Vietnam.

[@punglao8261]

This is the first time I’m hearing wisdom of this caliber. It has brought waves of tears to my eyes for the first time in months. I cannot express enough how helpful your words are to hear. I won’t add another bundle of burdens to your heart, however I will let you know that you are providing the tools to self improvement to lost souls like me. Please never stop giving advice to us or the people around you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, Sir!

[@avikchatterjee1945]

You are reminding me of two great poets Ted Kooser and Donald Hall. They always valued family. Great great video. Love you.

[@seoulbeat943]

One of your best talks. Although I was blessed with a great mom, I grew up without a father figure. There have been many times where I've needed a father's advice. I'm very glad that I found your channel. It definitely is of great help for people like myself.

[@MajDisaster19]

More people like Duane in the world. That’s what makes it better.

[@hero4220]

Your words moved me to tears, thanks for this message, Just listened after working the graveyard shift at 711, staying with my grandma after a divorce that took the little I had, if I go down I’m going down a warrior, thanks for the reminder

[@OneEyedDrummerTDHE]

Ive never been more thankful in my life that i worked on farms growing up especially after being raised in san Diego CA. I learned more then i ever imagined, cutting trees, building lumber, and building lean to’s, fixing tractors, laying fence, putting up electric fences. Best days ever little did i know

[@GhostToes1]

Great video sir. As a 36 year old father of two, I've always been a rock, the rock, ways will be, but your videos truly are a great little guide to help keep these hands strong and keep safe and shelter the things that I love, be a great man for the world and teach my son to be an even greater man.

[@ggbooliano]

Meeting my storm head on. Thank you. I have a great father but he spent most of my childhood working to put food on our table so I missed out on wise teachers in my life. Thank you again

[@James-cu8jk]

You Sir, are doing god's work!! Prior to starting your channel, I'm sure you didn't think it would be saving lives (and you are). You are definitely on the right road.

[@brandonharmon4309]

Your words have inspired hope, resilience, and the strength to pay my dues and keep moving forward, learning from the mistakes and applying that knowledge to the future. I sincerely wish a happy life for you, You're just what the world needs, but doesn't know yet.

[@marcwheeler7111]

I just want to say I love you too. You have become a voice of reason in a place where there was a huge gap. I listen to your videos every morning. You are an amazing individual and I am thankful I found your channel. I know you love doing the wrangler school, but you really should consider doing a mens/couples retreat where we all just smoke cigars and talk about life. Keep it up!!!