A simple vetting test - how to check if a woman is into you and worth the time in persuing further

[@redlionesv]

Done very similar things in the past unknowingly. Was just doing it to do it. Testing women for cooperation. Being late, low level bad jokes, confrontation etc. All of this to see what response I would get . Always keep in mind things don’t typically get better with time they get worse Salute to the content creator

[@viceroy7792]

That’s brilliant. I’m going to try this. Thank you!

[@centric145]

Someone told me that they use to test the guys ,annoying them to see if they get angry to see if they are able to control their temper... or to see if they are miser ...those kind of things.interesting.. testing each other

[@kahlilg9824]

I’ve had experience with tests like that being Muslim I use that instead of actually touching her. However I inadvertently did those tests. Like much of intersexual dynamics what is understood in a sort of quasi instinctual /social way was articulated. I will be adding this to my tool belt though

[@ivormcc1]

Quality content as always brother. Andrew Tate has a similar type of test he talks about in his PHD course. It's a compliance test. Very simple and good for the 1st date as opposed to his being the day after the lay.

[@abdelkarim8376]

Sounds like a good women Allahoema barik

[@জীবেরস্বরূপহয়কৃষ্ণেরনিত্যদাস]

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[@fatguy3814]

Bro this is fawahish man. We have stay in alignment with the methods permitted sah ya Abu American? You know this stuff inside out. Doing this privately is one thing. but public advocacy is another, testing out girls Allahu musta'an Akhee.

[@sigmamericanarkana3634]

I've been thru the same (your first story) even with hungry 3rd world country chicks. It's amazing how poverty girls can be so entitled. Good video

[@qasimimtiaz114]

social media boosting their ego

[@asyaspath6231]

Dating.. you are dating right?... with a non mahram.. two... you and that girl... that is not halal. Rasulullah pbuh forbid this. At least delete this post. Do not misguide people by deen. You are known as a practicing by your viewers even also by me. Once you do a mistake... do not inspire people to get into that same hole... What do you want us (muslimah) to behave? Do what "that girl" is doing with you (the stranger man) in your meetup in that malll? If i do what that girl do, my father will definitely mad at me and blame me so much for being cheap and shameless. Absolutely. Do you think my father true or you are true? I feel like it is old fashioned and outdated if i will behave like fatimah if so. astaghfirullah. Muslim influencers around the globe are really confusing.. I dont know what i should do or think

[@SimmerDownNow]

That's definitely haram and quite literally a date. Maybe the first test SHOULD be to ask her to go somewhere with you two alone and see whether she says yes or no

[@RsZ789]

Great tips, was the meeting together pre-approved by her wali or since it's a public space does that make it okay?

[@earthynomad7160]

If my father saw me holding an emptying cup for a capable man in a place out side of work , He will force you to marry me . 😅😅. I hope men don't listen to your advice and Start implementing it .

[@GordoEats98]

And that’s why you’d fumble a good man who’s testing you

[@RoseMary-vs3io]

This is awful, and where were these sisters wali's?

[@josephjones836]

To be fair, it's not a Muslim thing and you still need to compliance test the people your circle.

[@BilalMarcus]

i have a vetting test at work. i ask a woman to make me something to eat at home. when they make me a home cooked meal and bring it to work, i feel like she is into me. but i havent married a woman out of this vetting process yet. i think that i do something afterwards to spoil my own gains.

[@AbuAmerican]

vetting is about sorting out the women you shouldnt marry... its not a process of getting women to marry you.. that is different

[@BilalMarcus]

@@AbuAmerican what i meant was that i use it as a way to see if she is even into me

[@drunkondrones]

@@BilalMarcus it is a solid test... but you need to pull the trigger and marry

[@Korumeb]

When you are walking with the sister in the mall how does that work if she is a non mahram

[@safeyalrahman]

High Quality and useful content

[@yxsuf3]

what source you meeting them online brother… the apps are terrible

[@AbuAmerican]

Yea they are truly horrendous

[@qasimimtiaz114]

You are so creative, bro.

[@raineoffyre]

Hey man, just started following you. Love the vid and your commentaries on the other boy's videos. Question, is there a video of you posted at the mall in the background? Just curious what it was about. Thanks!

[@raineoffyre]

@@AbuAmerican Oh ok, cool. It just seemed interesting!

[@SadikKhan-wt8cs]

Brother, I'm a little confused. I'm sorry, I don't mean nothing rude. But, are we allowed to meet up with a women without her wali? It's really a genuine question. I really just want to know. If you have a video on it, could you give me the link? Or if you don't, can you make one? Barakallahfeek.

[@AbuAmerican]

nah its not ok, this is known but until the Ummah stops being a bunch of racist wankers people are going to do what they have to in order to get married

[@GH-wy9mo]

Hahaha true tho

[@Omars17]

@@AbuAmerican As an Afghan ill say its your test and ill never be able to relate to it but stay a top G. Unfortunately people will be arrogant and look down upon colored people but one day you'll die and be proud of your own sabr when you are rewarded inshaallah.

[@TheRealAceReeve]

​@AbuAmerican Subhanallah!😢 You're right brother!

[@SimmerDownNow]

@@AbuAmerican sounds like cope tbh

[@keepitreelcatfishing5883]

Make a video on how to vet the potential gold digger

[@AbuAmerican]

Not being rude, honestly but I have a question: Do you TRULY have enough gold to have to worry about a gold digger?

[@keepitreelcatfishing5883]

@@AbuAmerican yes.

[@contrarian4762]

Great advice - thanks.

[@fairuzi]

What happen to the marriage app?

[@Lordlos9]

This is highly informative and will waste a lot less time.

[@tucosalamanca4478]

Abu, the king of Verarsche

[@kashkid7777]

Genius

[@mustafaburakasc6225]

Liked already 👍

[@1karley]

So did you marry the girl that passed the test?

[@AbuAmerican]

no, she failed a major test... I couldn't overlook it

[@AnonymousAssassin7]

The more attractive she is, the less trustworthy she is.

[@Islamicadventures277]

Anonymous Assassin not true

[@toobig5570]

great video

[@rezzar3328]

Mashalllah

[@javabrown9202]

Background Video is kind of distracting. Not really adding value to the video imo. Still a good video though.

[@enesje61]

is meeting woman one on one not haram, or markuh?

[@abuyusuf12]

Bro what kind of meetings are these seems like dates. Is this you alone with her or a wali there?

[@abuyusuf12]

@@AbuAmerican I get you and feel the same no one helps yet I can't holla the sister. What do you think i should do ?

[@abuyusuf12]

@@AbuAmerican Yh i think ill do that no more waiting on ppl. Thanks

[@abuyusuf12]

@@AbuAmerican man you are soo right.These people judge you if you talk to a sisters but never bring you in!

[@abuyusuf12]

@@AbuAmerican amazing!! Exactly what's on my mind.

[@nizamekhan2736]

@@AbuAmerican what's your system, care to explain how you do things? And what apps do you use?

[@HMD1986-]

If you are average men you can’t do this test . When you have money is different case .

[@jarodorla6949]

abuamerican with your noteriety you have non-muslim viewrs and subscribers just look at your heavy twitter game. kindly do a video on how men can filter women cause most men dont,@6:35 true facts by the way how did u get your videos like this with you in the left corner?

[@jarodorla6949]

@@AbuAmerican ok cool thanks bro

[@strangeanimal490]

Don't

[@seyamnida3994]

she was probably annoyed with you lol

[@AbuAmerican]

Could be, bit she didn't show it... It's a very good sign

[@MuhammadIssaMoussa]

did you married her abuamerican lol ?