A Sour Affair

The plaintiff says her daughter, the defendant, resents her because she is the product of an affair. The plaintiff claims she gave her daughter a loan when her paycheck didn’t go through but hasn’t been paid back, so she’s suing. The defendant insists her mother has always favored her sister, and she denies owing anything.

[@lenaywhitlock4179]

MOM HELD HERSELF ACCOUNTABLE AND THAT WAS A BLESSING! HELP THEM LORD! IM GLAD JUDGE SAID HE WAS GOING TO HELP HER!

[@danapanapooper1441]

I agree, I hope they get everything straightened out.

[@muhammadcollins9275]

A whore is a whore. She slept with different men and gave someone else another man child in the first place. She brought the problem and this will continue to hurt them forever. No matter what they say, the woman is a disgrace and whoever gives another man someone else child is a disgrace

[@ramiyna]

When? She owed her daughter to conceive her in wedlock. She owed her the truth about who her father is. How she gon say the father didn’t want to tell her yet? It’s up to her fornicating behind, the one who carried & delivered the child to tell her who her father is & she kept it from her on purpose. She set all of this in motion and still tryna put the responsibility on others.

[@muhammadcollins9275]

@@ramiyna That's the truth and someone is saying she is accountable. Her sleeping with different people is her decision but lying about the child father is unacceptable

[@lavinder11]

She didn't.

[@chaquitajohnson-qq8tu]

I was so happy to hear judge Mathis say they would help her pay for cosmetology school. That literally put a big smile on my face.

[@zenatellsthetruth8457]

She not gone go 😂

[@Stradagee]

​@@zenatellsthetruth8457thank you, I was looking for this comment

[@wearenottogetheranymore2658]

Same ❤❤

[@Alex-sq3kp]

❤❤❤

[@cataleyahennessy2284]

The way her mom got happy for her and started clapping for outta happiness she’s going back to school🥰✨

[@Mo-yd8xc]

There's no such thing as illegitimate children, only illegitimate parents.

[@nawgee]

Preach bro...this here FACTS

[@JojosOasis]

That’s facts!

[@startinajackson606]

Exactly illegitimate parents. Just straight messy having an affair having affairs with married men and all this nonsense then you bring a child in the world and they do treat the child different because it’s a product of their affair and they feel some type of way because the father doesn’t wanna be bothered but what did they really expect that he’s gonna leave his wife for them it’s just these mothers are messy and I really feel sorry for that daughter

[@dspenderella9671]

Thank you. This case hit home. My mom claims she doesn't know why it's hard to love me, but still won't admit it has anything to do with losing her first love and fiancé b/c they cheated on each other while he was deployed and she was away at college. They could get past each other cheating, yet he couldn't get past her having another man's child from it, and I honestly think that's why she gave up, never tried to get to know me, and sent us to live with family members when I was a week old. She doesn't see the connection, but the fact that she was able to love her husband's kids, but not me should tell her something. I honestly think when children come from unfavorable messes that illegitimate parents create, then it's better to give them up for adoption into a suitable family who will love them rather than bouncing around with family you burden them with and foster care - they're usually treated like throw away children in circumstances like that, so if these illegitimate parents aren't man and woman enough to treat the children right, then just give them to a family who actually wants them and will treat them right right...

[@gelliewelly4894]

⁠​⁠@@startinajackson606maybe she expected him to be an adult and take care of his child. A cheating man isn’t a prize to a mistress and definitely not to a wife. If he’ll lie to his wife , he’ll lie to his daughter. It’s not just the mothers that’s messy , it’s the fathers too and the women that supports there bad decisions.

[@CaliforniaSeamstress]

her mom is a sweet heart

[@Queenspirit777]

I'm so happy the situation turned into a blessing for the daughter.

[@Vannie3000]

Thats what I thought too

[@globalprincess5471]

Me 2

[@debrettreese-Tanner]

the mom is sweet at heart and love her child. I see it in her. She tried to do the right thing in her eyes not knowing it was hurting her daughter

[@muhammadcollins9275]

Giving another man someone else child is what is right or what. She is a disgrace and not at all sweet. She caused the child problem

[@lifeastina2695]

@@muhammadcollins9275 she didn’t know mf that’s my mom watch your mouth

[@bmichelle7402]

@@muhammadcollins9275 She made a choice between giving her child to someone who was willing and able to love and care for her, or traumatizing the child by raising her in a household where her sibling got all of the love and attention from a father, while she wondered about hers. I think the mother made the decision she thought was best at the time. It was a no-win situation, no matter what choice she made.

[@muhammadcollins9275]

@@bmichelle7402 The choice she made was a terrible choice. My elder brother mother lied about aborting the pregnancy and gave birth to him and my father never knew until my brother was 19 years. A whore is a whore because that's why she was sleeping around. I see no reason to justify her actions

[@muhammadcollins9275]

@@bmichelle7402 The man was still willing to be in her child life because he is a good man and not because she made a good choice after lying to the man for 2 years. Do you imagine the pain the man passed through when he knew the child he loved was not hers and what the child passed through and still suffering because of her mother actions. You want someone to be your child father, then don't sleep around and have sex with only the person you want to be your children father.

[@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324]

This is not a foster care or crack case....move on Judge.

[@dededennis1081]

Right I was so confused when he brought that up

[@bryanjohnson8982]

Much respect to JM for paying for her to go to school. That was very nice of him

[@startinajackson606]

He could see the sadness all over her it covers her like a blanket because of the mothers sins it literally makes me sick.

[@paperchasentx4162]

My perspective changed when the young lady said she’s not working yet has her own child…. Makes me wonder if she just taking advantage of her mom who obviously enables her. Depression is very real , excuses are real, & manipulative ppl are also 🤷🏽‍♂️ who knows. Glad Judge helped her out I wish them well.

[@sheenaperez1882]

The daughter can't keep using that excuse for everything. She's gown now and need to do things to progress and get help if she need it. She's very ungrateful and need some maturing.

[@erogg1]

Yeah nah sounds like she had problems with her mom and used find out about her father as method of get back

[@eternaltrav3885]

Glad to see someone else can see that.

[@erogg1]

@@eternaltrav3885 yeah it was clear pops was stepping out convince his side chic to stay quiet until he was ready to be introduced to her and he getting off with zero blame

[@couleuredgirl6314]

My brother did that to my dad. Got a DNA test to prove I was my dads child. I’m black they are white! After that kicked me to the curb. 😂😂😂 I’m cool on it. I saw what it was.

[@darycreem]

The girl almost flipped when her mom said she would not babysit until she got the rest of her money! I am sure her mom doesn't even charge for babysitting! Yet, she has to bring the girl to court to get what is owed to her. Tough love would stop the babysitting until the girl started paying her back or require payment UP FRONT for babysitting!

[@WVnurseJo]

Glad to see a case where it still worked out for both mom and daughter. I applaud the mother for taking responsibility for her actions. And I'm glad to see the daughter trying to overcome her past, God put a hedge around her.

[@Joyclyn]

A hedge around me too.... Please God

[@briteinwilson8148]

Generational curses..BREAK EVERY CHAIN!

[@maddenmaze6891]

Judge Mathis is a blessing!!!!! He is so sweet!!! All it takes is one person to see something in you!!!

[@cgogetit]

This girl has NO life plans at all! She has an excuse for everything. 20 years down the line she'll still have excuses. It isn't all on the mom.

[@twill1007]

I agree, she should do the work to let the grudge go . All three parents made the decision not to tell her until later

[@Orlandoloc83]

That’s 96% of females tho

[@novembrluv]

​@@Orlandoloc83 you're either gay or by yourself.

[@Orlandoloc83]

@@novembrluv u would love that either way it bothers u how ? But for the record head of household have my two kids and my wonderful wife with me lml. But come again lol

[@novembrluv]

@@Orlandoloc83 👏. Your comment was stupid, just thought I'd let you know.

[@valhumphries2704]

The daughter is still harboring feelings from her early childhood and has trust issues. It makes her come off as cold and nonchalant. Hopefully she will seek therapy so she can heal.

[@justbenice7448]

Clear sign of clinical depression. If there's a chemical imbalance, medication along with therapy may be in order.

[@kentthomason6285]

Favoritism is REAL. Parents try to act dumb to it, and aloof kids are not dumb they feel and see the Favoritism. Usually the kid that's favored end up being the one that abandon the parent in old age 😆. Folk if you HAVE KIDS TREAT THEM LIKE THEY'RE YOURS

[@sereneamani1713]

I hope your statement applies to the "some" parents that show favoritism.

[@kentthomason6285]

@@sereneamani1713 don't be slow, it's implied, it doesn't have to be stated.

[@JessicaSmith-yd2nm]

Truth. It's 3 girls including me. I'm the middle but haven't spoken to my mother for 3 years now. The eldest sister is the golden child. One min they joke, laugh, talk about other ppl, etc then the eldest sister called my younger sister (speaker phone) calling our mom every bad name in the book because the mother went talking behind my eldest sister back

[@kentthomason6285]

@@JessicaSmith-yd2nm sad it should never be a golden one. Now I understand if a parent distance themselves from one that cause havoc

[@lavidaloca2344]

I think if a parent has 2+ children, each child is going to get a different version of that parent 🤷🏽‍♀️ 1 child watching the parent with the other child, I think it's human nature to get envious to a degree but ultimately once we mature and start having our own children, it's then that we understand 😉

[@condesabeatriz9303]

So glad JM offered to pay for cosmetology school. What a blessing!

[@WarGrowlmon18]

I'M NOT TALKING TO YOU!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@drayaa_amour]

She keeps using that pity train to make her mother feel guilty so she can keep getting money out of her. She’s using every excuse to not do anything with her life. Depression is hard but it is manageable you just have to have the determination. I really pray that the Judge’s support will push her to do better & appreciate her mother more. Mother’s don’t live forever and once she’s gone, the daughter will realize that no one in this world will be there for her like her mother.

[@mimisliveboutique3543]

Exactly I had the exact same situation and I was mature enough not to make my parents suffer. That family member had no right. She wasn’t mistreated 🙄.

[@mimisliveboutique3543]

She needed to pay her mother back. That shows her lack of character. Mom don’t do anything else for her monetarily. She is using her mother.

[@daniellem.6794]

I'm glad somebody said it. She is grown now. Your life is your responsibility.

[@layshalay7410]

I hope y’all never have kids

[@Lovely_1One]

The daughter has a LOT of excuses! SMDH I went through abandonment from both of my parents, raised my damn self, lived in the hoods of Detroit Michigan, was traumatized, sexually assaulted, dealt and still trying to heal from depression and anxiety having panic attacks etc. I finished high school and graduated from college and got my bachelors degree so all these excuses are just that!!! You have to WANT better for your life. I don’t have sympathy for anyone who keeps making excuses. Hell many of us went through worse than that and still came out on top not sitting around wallowing in being a bum! SMDH I don’t want to hear it. I was shifted from household to household as a young tween and teen and slept on the floor and couches. Sorry. If I can do it, everyone can! I don’t have no compassion for the damn excuses! 😑✋🏽🙄Hell no! I can’t even finish this episode. This seems forced like hell.

[@jaydub4661]

She didn't work through her issues and so she keeps being upset. She is also still young. I've been a victim of MANY traumatic experiences. Some too horrible to name here. Therapy talking with people who had similar experiences and other tools helped me. Your post seems really upset and Im guessing some of that has nothing to do with her. I wish you healing from the things you went through.

[@prova12]

Everyone goes through trauma differently, period.

[@Lovely_1One]

@@jaydub4661AND?!?! I was THREE when the assaults started! So you can move around and miss me with more excuses for someone you don’t know who sounds like she is trying to get smooth over and just sounds like a spoiled brat! She said absolutely nothing that warrants anything. She is FULL OF EXCUSES and TOO damn grown to not WORK and take care of her kid! PERIOD!

[@BigBecky25]

She has a beautiful strong mother so do I better appreciate her while she’s still here!!!

[@GamefaceSport]

Great job, Judge. God bless you young lady. Keep your head up.

[@angelicrealtor1]

I was ok until the daughter LIED on her Mother. SHAME ON HER!!! I wish them both the best. Young people REMEMBER that you only have one Mother and when she's gone you have really lost someone.

[@justbenice7448]

Meh, unfortunately all mother's aren't cut from the same cloth. Some are highly abusive and toxic. So, let's keep that in mind as well.

[@ashleyjohnson3397]

The end had me laughing.. what she need a baby sitter for if she’s unemployed?? Lol

[@mariahhowell1343]

I was just sitting here saying the same thing. What she need a baby sitter for? Can’t even pay her mom Back. Unemployed and in the streets.

[@SRT_DRE]

Where baby daddy at?

[@lifewithangelina92]

@@mariahhowell1343 sometimes need a babysitter to go to interviews or job searches. Also, you can’t pay somebody if you don’t have a job or income 😊

[@mariahhowell1343]

Right because I’m sure she was going on interviews 😉

[@drelex9845]

@@SRT_DRE she said he not around at all smh

[@Jessica-qf3xs]

Girl , never ask the man. They seem to always leave the important details out😅😂

[@LeshaFBaby]

Yes

[@VocallyYours3]

Wow I’m glad the judge was looking out for both parties.🙏🏽

[@leahtistrahmad1369]

The mother’s daughter is clearly ungrateful and using the excuse to be mad at her mom and the world bc her father wasn’t in her life. Look how the tables have turned. The daughter baby father isn’t in her child’s life, but got the grandmother babysitting.

[@gb5262]

An probably feel like she shouldn't pay her mom to keep her grandchild...If the mother wasn't in ur life she would have to pay someone else or bring her to school or work

[@gt43025]

I feel sorry for the Mom. She’s still trying to make up to the daughter which the daughter is a Mom now & needs to get therapy & meds & stop making her Mom feel bad. Tomorrow’s not promised to no one 😢

[@Hi-nl2jg]

Yall need to stop acting like children gotta forgive their parents just because theyre their parents.

[@darlenehouston8361]

You love your parents but sometimes they can be toxic to you.

[@shadowsmith1386]

@@Hi-nl2jg ikr I'm not going

[@muhammadcollins9275]

The mother caused her trauma, how do you feel to know the father you know and sees as your father is not because your mother lied to you. The mother that is supposed to protect you

[@__khadijahhhh]

The mother said she may not love her dad but she love what she made…come on now, make that make sense. How can you love your child if you don’t love the person they came from?

[@dollarperlike4087]

Prayers for both of them, their situation and relationship 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@wadilotus]

Mom seems a little touched.

[@mrsmahriii]

In Jesus name🙏🏾✨🙏🏾

[@khrisi9410]

So the Defendant felt favoritism after she was told the truth. She chose to be angry instead of grateful that a man stepped up. Her real Dad dgaf. I hear excuses. Her family loved her.

[@opheliacovington561]

Exactly my thoughts!!

[@lavidaloca2344]

Very ungrateful because not only did she have 1father, she had 2 but wants to focus on her mother's decision to not tell her until she was mature and clearly this is why, because how she is behaving now.

[@wizardofahhhhhhz]

To the entire “sneaky link” culture of 2023…please do not create a child with your sneaky link. The kid will be impacted by your bad decision for their entire life.

[@couleuredgirl6314]

And both parents will tell you when you are grown to get over it! Pure craziness to bring a child in this world like that. My story!

[@lavidaloca2344]

​@couleuredgirl6314 that's because what's done is done. What else can they do besides continue to love on you and wait for you to mature 🤔

[@Fannyyyyy_]

Omgggggggggg thank you Judgeeeeee she needed this! 🥰🗣️ YOU GOT THIS BABY GIRL😚

[@Dub4Lyfe]

It's soooo many hurt/bitter/ mentally lost young girls out here walking the earth💯 she choosing a profession that's flooded with competition like a nail n hair tech instead of finishing up her criminal justice degree! I guess anything is better than what she has now, which is NOTHING💯

[@BREEZYM6015]

I got fortunate to land my current job with nothing other than a high school diploma. I don't make a ton of money but it's well above minimum wage.

[@Brialouiseee]

Same here. Super blessed. I did some college but didn’t graduate. I have a job making over 6 figures. Sometimes a basic understanding of something can open great doors

[@familyfirst78]

yes I never understood why jm always says you can’t get a good job with just a diploma that’s just not true i know people with degrees that are struggling it just depends on the situation

[@yourfav8679]

Mom made a mistake and is owning up to it. Daughter is ungrateful clearly mom is trying her best to compensate her.

[@meeka7067]

Family members can be so messy

[@jennevamadison3803]

The mom and married man were messier.

[@randomyoutubeuser53462]

@@jennevamadison3803 but the family members had no right to telling her

[@randomyoutubeuser53462]

@@jennevamadison3803 yall always blame the woman what abt the man that was MARRIED

[@brendahudson8578]

Just because the daughter said it don't make her no more truthful than the mother but JM berating the mother as a lier..he never disappoints so predictable.

[@KeishaBeenReleased]

Have a blessed and prosperous day!!

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

Same to you

[@LeshaFBaby]

You too beautiful

[@blasianluvschocolate397]

Thank you and you have a beautiful blessed day also queen 👑..

[@generationalcursebreaker5397]

Her daughter is beautiful

[@cinnaminstixx]

The daughter is playing the entitled victim card and her mother must really love her to continue to enable this foolery. By the daughter moving out to live with a girlfriend, make a baby with a dead beat, not complete school, and not have a job means she has a proven track record of just not being responsible.

[@itsjustmeshay]

Exactly 😅

[@kandylaland]

Exactly!!

[@lydiasnowden5001]

She is doing well, taking care of her daughter,own apartment and working.

[@justbenice7448]

Clinical depression is a beast. Left untreated it can get worse and negatively impact every area of one's life. Folks tend to minimize it at their own peril.

[@MunchiieXO]

Mom is a blessing and everyone makes mistakes, it’s how you deal with it.

[@marylenehall405]

Man I was so happy when he said they gonna put her in Cosmetology school I think he felt her pain especially with the depression knowing what his daughter went through.I loved this episode

[@kenyanasavage6267]

I understand the mother bc the love you have for your child is the most beautiful/scariest thing in the world. But depression is real and I am sure the young girl feels like she is alone in the world ..

[@kandylaland]

Alone in the world how?

[@4nomenal28]

These moms do what they can to provide and protect these kids. They turn into ungrateful adults and want to play victim. Judge Mathis was a little bit of an enabler on this case. Call your mom poor, yet you have no job, a baby and a man that doesn't show up. If your biological dad wanted to be in your life he would have. He is a coward. I pray she gets the help she needs because as a Black woman we rarely have the luxury of being victims, we are warriors!

[@Beautiful_Goddess-Kaay]

Very well said Queen. ♥️

[@ambzcloud]

Sometimes we are victims, though. This trope that Black women have to be "warriors" all the time is part of the reason so many sisters are depressed out here. I'm not saying the daughter has made all the right decisions in life, because she clearly needs to get herself together and do better, but teenagers say and do dumb things--that doesn't make them any less victims of parents' poor decisions.

[@4nomenal28]

Of course we are victims often, but when you heal, you become a survivor! You have to want that. Yes, we deserve to take our capes off, and the sooner you let go of the pain,, you can do so.I just don't think she should have treated her mom so badly for doing her best. It's the same as when I hear so many blaming their moms for absent dads. Most women don't chose that.

[@ambzcloud]

@Monique Shuntae I totally get what you're saying about wanting to heal. And I certainly think that absent fathers are solely responsible for their decisions to be absent. But I'd also wager that a woman who is having unprotected sex with a married man is aware that she is making a choice that will likely harm any potential offspring of that union, whether it's in regard to child support or physical presence. The mother here seems like she has been supportive of her daughter and I really respect and appreciate that. I definitely don't think she's one of those demon mothers. I just wish more people would give credit to the fact that you don't just reach the age of adulthood and suddenly have no negative feelings toward the things that hurt you when you were a minor. Most Black folks don't talk about the importance of therapy and mental health wellness, so I can't be mad at her for not knowing how to stop feeling victimized and be a "warrior". She never even finished high school. She couldn't really vocalize a general plan for how she was going to get from point A to B in her life, so I suspect that she doesn't even think about wanting to heal; she just lives in the moment [and then makes bad decisions].

[@inukoko2012]

It’s sad seeing parents sue their kids. My mom would never! Like that’s your child, and if you feel like they’re taking advantage of you and using you for your money, then stop helping them and teach them tough love. Idk I wouldn’t sue my child.

[@kandylaland]

You got it all wrong.. it's called accountability! At some point she needs to be responsible!

[@inukoko2012]

@@kandylaland I don’t have nothing all wrong because I wouldn’t sue my kids. My mom raised me w/ respect,responsibility and she spoiled me because I earned it. I’m grown and she always tells me if I need her let her know however I don’t use my mother nor ask her for money even the times I was struggling for a time period because she did her part already by raising me which is why I said in my comment stop helping your kid if you notice a pattern in them using you or not learning responsibility. However I still wouldn’t sue my kid, I just wouldn’t help them financially anymore.

[@jays.5978]

How she get pregnant but has a “girl” friend?! Make it make sense

[@LMartin-fw1py]

The partner identifies as a female, at least that's what I heard.

[@blasianluvschocolate397]

Could be bi-sexual

[@ambzcloud]

Some people are bisexual.

[@Cjwt58]

Women have girlfriends as friends, no sex.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

she ment her Best Friend

[@astrology4u]

I wish the mom and daughter nothing but the best.

[@ambzcloud]

I hope she does well in cosmetology school! I'm glad they were able to be friendly at the end--hope their relationship gets/stays healthy.

[@aprilhamilton3689]

I’m so happy for Judge Mathis addressing the mental health issues that plague our community because of trauma that most of us have experienced during our lives.

[@K_Cole0128]

Paying her mom would’ve been the right thing to do.

[@kiahstubbs4918]

I believe the mom tried her best and loves her daughter.......the daughter is a beautiful young lady well spoken and a go getter but needs therapy to heal............

[@shibba24]

The mom didn't try her best. One of the most important decisions you can make for your child is who you create them with. The mother slept with a married man and brought forth a child. We give our black mothers every excuse, smh. The standars in our community are low.

[@jessilynntorres4064]

God Bless You Judge Mathis you are such a blessing. You are such a great judge. You are such a great judge.

[@Ricky-MR.214]

Judge Mathis ALWAYS HAS ME ROLLIN WHEN HE STARTS TELLING THEM THEY SMOKE CRACK🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@wadilotus]

Awww… mom’s a lil slow.

[@lifeastina2695]

Watch your mouth about my mom

[@wadilotus]

@@lifeastina2695 but it's true, isn't it? 😆

[@Rudeytabooty]

This was annoying as hell. “Love is bigger than money” so you take advantage of your moms love and money and think you shouldn’t pay because you were brought into this world from an affair, girl bye. And the using depression as an excuse for everything is getting old and tired! She said it didn’t “stick” meaning she wasn’t interested anymore like lmao judge Mathis be falling for the bs all the time.

[@Alesana907]

Not the "entanglement" being the direct result of her daughter's existence and then blaming the daughter for her own dysfunction

[@K_Cole0128]

The mess we make when we lie and deceive.

[@TiffIsMe]

@ 10:25 - I mean, WERE they poor? .. I may be wrong for this, but I resent my mom a bit b/c we were lower middle class growing up … I just believe that parents should make money BEFORE they make kids so that their child’s childhood is reasonably comfortable

[@gb5262]

I'm trying to understand why is it children & some friends want you to keep to you their children & dont feel like the grandparents need to be paid ...if they had to put the children in daycare they would have to pay

[@kgbrown5563]

There is a difference between being depressed and suffering from depression. I think this girl wants to do what she wants to do when she wants to do it. I imagine that she definitely was traumatized but she is using that trauma imho.

[@lbridges1986]

Did she say entanglement 😑

[@nation301]

I had a friend that hates her son cause he looks like the dad. The dad cheated on her and had another family. Lord bless them!

[@quentinjones6877]

I saw a post on Facebook last year of someone asking men how could they disrespect the woman who brought them into the world and one man had said his mom mistreated him growing up because he looked like his dad

[@ladeiiluck]

@@quentinjones6877 that’s awful 😢

[@miltonmoore1690]

Beautiful young lady . God bless her.

[@tjbooker9948]

I would never go on TV court with my mom. She's too much of a Dingbat.

[@Roni-Ron]

I wouldn’t loan her no more money nor would I get her out of trouble again

[@gb5262]

👏🏽👏🏽 not even baby sit

[@sherita17]

I don’t understand parents taking their child to court to pay them back. My parents would NEVER

[@Browngirl37013]

Everything happens for a reason. In this case, now the child gets to attend school for free

[@lavidaloca2344]

and you probably aren't disrespectful to your parents either and pay back your debts

[@tolegittoquit09]

Glad the mom said she was wrong but that goes out the window with the excuses and the daughter needs to heal and get herself together and move on ..i know she is hurt but its time to grow up ..these neglectful parents kill me coming in suing they kids like they aint cause them life long trauma smh

[@sydnitaylor3249]

If thats the case why would she come around asking for stuff when she's grown and she dislike her mom so much and feels like she did her so wrong. If you as me it a scammer situation.

[@kiahhh444]

12:14 I get the judge’s point but that’s not this woman’s case. The mom took accountability. The daughter seems like she would have been ungrateful regardless of what happened

[@nickynick_]

I’m trying to figure out what the mom needed to take accountability for. You’re father didn’t want to be in your life. Your moms husband did. They thought it would be best to wait until you were old enough to understand the situation before they told you. A messy family member thought different. Where was mom wrong?

[@tolegittoquit09]

@@sydnitaylor3249 as someone who has a ain't ish mother I know how it is to need your mother and help ur parents but when you need help it comes with conditions that woman wasn't that great of a mom and now she has to deal with consequences u can't scam ur own parents especially when they scam you of a childhood and then gaslight u as an adult that is not normal it's still her parent

[@tolegittoquit09]

@@kiahhh444 she also had her living in hotels and stuff u can definitely tell that girl been through trauma..she should have just cut her mom off cause it does look bad but her being the child I'll take her side

[@twill1007]

All three parents involved made the decision to wait til she was older to tell her about her father . NO PARENTS are perfect, she’s grown and should work to let go of that grudge

[@armcandi36]

You mf kill me talking about move on smdh exactly why people have depression

[@sherita17]

everybody’s face when she said entanglement 😂

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

😳😹😹😹🤦🏾‍♀️

[@niqbrown1774]

The mother should have told her daughter the truth from the beginning regardless… I bet she didn’t get her counseling for realizing that she was bought up in a lie.. seems like the mother is guilty now and has the nerve to wonder why her daughter doesn’t like her or has trust issues smh I hope she gets counseling soon.

[@brandonwilliams966]

When is "from the beginning"? What age does that start at?

[@lavidaloca2344]

It wasn't just the mother, all parents involved agreed so why is she just mad at the mom 🤔

[@Stradagee]

She's gonna show up to class all of 1 week...😂😅

[@touchedbyyou4698]

🎉🎉🎉🎉 i hope to see her on the big screen doing celebrity nails

[@AngelRaeeee]

The daughter is gorgeous 🎉 hope she’s doing well regardless what she looks like or how she lives

[@Sirdewitt]

I believe the daughter. Mothers do be mad at their kids especially when the man they want don’t want them. I believe the mom gave an ultimatum to her father and he chose his wife and now mom is bitter and resentful and took it out on the daughter. We see it all the time. However the daughter is grown and has to move on from the past. I know it hurts but we’re here now and she has to make a way for herself and her child.

[@Emma-pr2pr]

An absent parent can spew a life time of trauma. 1st by not being present, next by telling the child lies about the active parent. They are never there to see the results of the trauma caused.

[@lanag492]

Some kids label themselves black sheep bc they learn a difference until 12 she was fine or some kids can be darker skin than the other kids and label themselves black sheep bc of colorism

[@dededennis1081]

The daughter is so ungrateful. She needs to take accountability for her own actions, I hope she takes advantage of the free school and get her life together for her and her kid.

[@vinahxo]

I do agree that a that would cause a lot of trauma finding out about your dad but i feel like as you get older you can’t just be throwing that excuse to not like your mom around and then still ask for money and favors. I heard favoritism not abuse. it’s normal to feel favoritism between siblings but some parents won’t even hold themselves accountable or let alone help their kids out pass 18.

[@a.konadu4010]

Would never sue my child for any amount...ever.

[@sarahrean7174]

For real especially on tv !

[@susiesolangesimpson2828]

Happy Friday y’all! ❤❤❤

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

I hope you and your loved ones have a safe weekend

[@Bbq643]

Shouldnt pay for her school. Let her get student loan and a job like most people. She alreadya went to school once and dropped out

[@MonroeMat]

Quit hating 😂

[@sereneamani1713]

@@MonroeMat fr tho

[@nunyabee760]

I wish them both well ❤

[@packshow126]

This young lady looking her mom in the eyes and lying in front of a judge has nothing to do with her father issues.

[@WarGrowlmon18]

I believe the mother and think the daughter just feels entitled to it because Mom favors Sis

[@lifeastina2695]

She doesn’t favor me ,she treats us equal

[@jeffjo8108]

Yes JM be saying some real things but then he be dragging on to the point I be LOST 😂

[@cashmayes7168]

Almost died wen mom said she wudnt baby sit lmaoooo

[@reecespeace9109]

Idk why but I instantly started crying when the girl started talking about Criminal Justice and depression.. same girl 😪

[@bluecollarscholarmelrosepa5673]

Women please be HONEST to your Children about who is Their Real DNA FATHER....The hurt and pain also the Ridicule that the children go through is Unnecessary and Thoughtless on the Birth mother Actions🌄🌅

[@loveni_33]

If she had someone that was there caring for her who was willing to tell her when she was ready when would she/he tell her?

[@loveni_33]

Because truthfully I feel like they were gonna tell her if it wasn’t for that meddling uncle/aunt/cousin/family friend

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

I hope the young lady finds her way in Life

[@mel...s]

I wish the best for this young lady!

[@melval4135]

I have a problem when people say I never said I would pay you back. When they know they should.

[@zurislaughter9031]

When given money it’s legally considered a loan unless stated a gift.

[@WilbertGross]

It's actually the opposite. If it's not mentioned up front that it's a loan, then a loan can't be enforced.

[@MsxWeTTHolLY2307]

The mother was more appreciative for the cosmetology school than the daughter

[@MrLenroc82]

Girl wasn't being treated unfairly.....she wont get specific. She's a "victim" type

[@edwinalane9548]

And she knows she owe her mom that money

[@barryrammer7906]

This is heartbreaking. Mom is a sweet lady. Shes spoiled and mad. She needs to heal stop blaming mom.

[@saturnladee110]

My daughter (only child) will be 24 in August. She has never paid me back any money in her natural black life! 😂😂😂😂 Come to think of it, she never asks me to "borrow" money she just asks me for money. I don't think I would take it from her if she did pay me back.

[@arj104]

Baby girl so cute...and spoiled! She got a free baby sitter, bank, and punching bag all rolled into one!