A trip to the pediatric eye doctor.

[@jennbeth1]

Thank you for being so honest about the challenges of raising a disabled child. I appreciate how you speak to Freya. You don't talk to her like she's a baby. I have a lot of respect for you.

[@Freyasluckyarm]

We were just talking about this with her preschool teacher. She says she reminds everyone working with her that she is not a baby and to talk to her like a 5 year old. I appreciated that

[@tracyriordan7011]

​@@FreyasluckyarmThat is so true about Freya not being a baby anymore and talking to her like a child her age! That is so smart and appropriate! ( :

[@tracyriordan7011]

Oh my heavens, I love Freya's hairstyle today, with it mostly down! She has such gorgeous hair just like you, Marci! ( :

[@elizabethdeleo3123]

So very glad that Freya’s eyes are good. I just had two eye surgeries in St. George. Not much fun but a miracle happened. I can suddenly see out of my right eye. I have not been able to use that eye since birth. And yes, I’m 83 and this miracle was not expected by the doctor or me. It was just to get rid of a cataract. Now I can see clearly, lovely things like little Freya and that makes my heart sing.

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Wow! That is amazing!

[@tracyriordan7011]

I hope I get this result when I get my cataracts removed!! I am sooo happy for you, Elizabeth! ( :

[@sharonjones4995]

Liam is so grown up, such a wonderful young man!

[@Angela-zp2gy]

Love Freyas hair down! She has such beautiful hair. Liam is gonna make a wonderful dad one day. He is such a good guy

[@tracyriordan7011]

He really is! ( :

[@tinahauser8864]

Her hair is gorgeous! I can only imagine how difficult it is keeping her out of things than can harm her. On the other hand she’s learning from her explorations, and even learned how to play the cymbals (sort of) using plastic lids!

[@Freyasluckyarm]

@@tinahauser8864 oh yes she can make music out of anything

[@tdecker2937]

You are doing a great job, Mom!!

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Thank you so much!

[@tracyriordan7011]

I wholeheartedly agree! ( :

[@sherry8894]

I really love Freya's hair down. It looks so beautiful! Of course she is always beautiful. I wouldn't worry too much about the bow incident. It sounds like the little girl's mom wasn't bothered by it. She understood. You're a great mama to all your kiddo's! Your videos aren't ever boring and I enjoy the therapy sessions.❤

[@CrystalCat24]

Same, same, and same!

[@lindasprettypressons]

Liam looks like he’s getting so grown up. 💜

[@Djsexton25]

Freya is so beautiful and her hair is getting long, I love it!!

[@Mari-ek7su]

Oh that hair 😍🌻💜 Liam is so handsome and sweet. 💙

[@beclairful]

She is just SO DARN CUTE!! ❤️👍🏻🙏🏻

[@hiddenhand6973]

6:26 😭🥰 sweet kids, God bless you all

[@lisabeaver2919]

Freya's hair looked gorgeous. And Liam is looking so handsome...

[@DonnaKillin]

Love love love you and Freya❤❤❤ Just watching you fix Freya’s hair amazed me. I was an only child and tomboy all the way except that I did love my baby dolls and Barbies. I have issues doing my own hair, let alone my daughter’s hair when she was little. I always felt bad that I could never give my beautiful daughter cute little hair styles.

[@wendystephan35]

My little charge with CDLS was diagnosed with cognitive blindness. She had far sightedness but the way her brain saw things was a bit different than us. It opened up a whole other world of disability help. She had visits from the Blind organization who were on a whole other level. They were simply wonderful. Her eyes would light up and a huge smile across her face would greet her dedicated therapist. They were under the name of Board of Education for the Blind. Just a thought. You do have a Utah Board of Education for the Blind and Deaf. And by the way. You make one beautiful witch!

[@Freyasluckyarm]

How could they tell what her brain was comprehending

[@wendystephan35]

@ Good question! And I don't really know but I imagine they devised some tests where she had to reach for something which would test depth perception and stuff like that. I remember once she was lining some blocks up on a bench and would cross the room and check them and then go back and rearrange or add and subtract blocks. But not all the time. It did seem she was trying different ways to look at things. I don't know!

[@unknownentity7964]

​​@@Freyasluckyarmthere's specialised testing for cortical blindness ('brain' blindness). They do something like use an EEG to monitor brain waves while the kiddo is looking at stuff. I think there may also be another method where they scan they brain, and they can see which areas of the brain light up when different things are in front of the eyes. They can use that to determine if any signals at all reaching the brain from the eyes, and also can figure out if the kiddo just has a little trouble with it, or a lot. They can also figure out what visuals are better for the kid. Like, if they need big contrast to see better, a black background with yellow text for example. I think the best place to get that testing started would be with a neuro-opthalmologist. Or if you don't have one, a regular neurologist should be able to do some level of testing or send you to someone who can! I hope this helps :) Edit - you may want to ask Stephanie about it (Sebastian's mum) because I believe Sebastian has had testing done to see what his brain is able to see/process too

[@CrystalCat24]

​@@unknownentity7964this is amazing and fascinating information!! ❤❤

[@ninademci1500]

Thank you very much for sharing Freya’s life with us. Her hair’s beautiful down! As you know, that’s what toddlers do, even special needs children. Halloween’s not my favorite holiday. In my opinion, I wouldn’t worry about the glasses until she goes to school and is doing close up work. She scoots very, very well!

[@mtrevino3993]

Loving her hair as well! She had a good rhythm going with those lids 😊

[@Freyasluckyarm]

She does! I’m always surprised by her musical ability

[@CrystalCat24]

Freyas hair is so long and luscious!! Love checking in with you guys!

[@MarjorieFlohr]

I’m wondering if we could see what Freya does at her feeding therapy sessions. I’m interested in how they got her from not wanting to touch food, to actually putting food in her mouth. Those therapists must be amazing!

[@Freyasluckyarm]

I do have a couple of feeding therapy videos if you want to check them out

[@judyashton3030]

Glad you like the new eye doctor. Liam is such a good big brother. Looking forward to sharing in y'all's next adventure ❤

[@dollfactory]

Marci, thank you so much for allowing us in your life and in your families lives. Your channel brings me so much joy and happiness. Also I've learned a lot through you and your videos so thank you So much!! You're a Rock Star ☺️🙏🫂🤟

[@Freyasluckyarm]

You are so welcome! Thank you for being here

[@biddiemutter3481]

I'm glad the doctor was nice. It's always good to see you whatever you do😊

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Thank you! 😊

[@CrystalCat24]

Hi there, Biddie! I remember you from Beckham's channel. I absolutely adore him but I stopped watching their channel because they started to be all about KZbin fame and money and that's when that line gets crossed into exploitation... Click bait, constant sponsorships, etc. its very dangerous and also very unhealthy for Blakely and her obsession with vlogging and 'her friends' at such a young age. It was disappointing because I was interested in seeing his progress, especially with the wheelchair! 😢 He is so smart! I even DMed them to show them that I didn't even try, at ALL and within 2 minutes, seriously 2 minutes, I had their home address,their parents address, and all of Hunters work information because of how much they share online. They didn't seem to care (and they did respond to me) which had me pretty surprised. Priorities, I suppose. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Marci and Stephanie are much more tasteful to me and it just really made me realize how much effort it takes to actually bring awareness to special needs and disabilities and also stay private while sharing certain things. Anyway, sorry for the random mini rant that you didn't ask for!!😂😂 I also don't hate them or anything like that, I was just extremely disappointed and unsubbed, but I still check in every few months. 😅 Anyway, i just wanted to say hello because I've always enjoyed your comments and say that it's nice to see you here! ❤❤ I've been following these guys since the beginning! Great family and videos. XOX take care!

[@CrystalCat24]

@biddiemutter3481

[@biddiemutter3481]

@CrystalCat24 thank you! I just found your comment!

[@tiffanymaddox2722]

Sending hugs to you. My son was recently diagnosed with Autism. He struggles so much with social cues and making friends. He has a heart of gold but it is heartbreaking when I see people roll their eyes at him or think he is weird or odd. The diagnosis was not a surprise but as he has gotten older, the social emotional piece has become more pronounced. He often feels left out and it is so frustrating when I see him struggle. You are an amazing mom with a beautiful family. I love watching little Freya grow. She is going to do great big amazing things in this world!!!

[@CrystalCat24]

It still blows my mind that some people are like that when they see someone not 'typical'. IMO autism is very, VERY common, so you would think the world would be comfortable by now. ❤ Sending you love. Please don't let the 'watchers' get to you. Just remember that they are just curious because they aren't informed. Give urself some grace. You deal with enough on the daily! ❤❤

[@BonnieLetourneau-zi7es]

She looks so pretty ❤❤

[@gwenbrashier1884]

Oh wow, Liam look.how grown up you've gotten. A very handsome young man. 💙 Ohhh my goodness, how cute is our Freya! I love her with her curled hair. ❤❤ it's great news about her eyes, and this Dr seems more able to understand her condition. Freya has certainly taken a growing episode, she seems taller. Marci and Chris, you have a beautiful family. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Freyasluckyarm]

😊 thank you

[@a.life.reimagined]

Toddler mode! She's very curious for sure. Liam sure looks like Chris. Twinnsies. Freas hair sue looks cute, but with her onto everything, I'm sure it's better up. Blessings to you all❤❤❤

[@tinyTears]

Freya’s hair looked lovely and Liam is growing up so fast he is a handsome young man x

[@ruthjosephson3102]

So glad Freya doesn’t need glasses - at least not yet. While you had a cold Halloween, we had a very unusual 80 degree day here in Connecticut!

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Wow that is warm

[@TrishaPoeta]

I'm from CT also! Small world. One snowstorm last year and a weird October and November here. I remember when I was growing up all the snow cold starting in mid September it's November and I'm still wearing flip flops LOL

[@TrishaPoeta]

​​@@FreyasluckyarmI just replied and Marci it's November and I'm still wearing flip flops LOL not what it used to be one snowstorm last year I wish for more this year. How does Freya do with snow with her temperature intolerance?

[@aboutdawntoday]

She is so cute and Liam is so handsome.

[@alyssachestnutt4833]

She is gorgeous Marci just like you are

[@MarjorieFlohr]

I love Freya’s hair! I’m glad her eyes are okay and she doesn’t need glasses. It might be hard keeping glasses on her. I wonder if all her energy lately is the beginning of a new stage in her development.

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Let’s hope so

[@karenligus8224]

It has to be hard when other little ones don't know how to react to Freya. At least the Mom was cool about it. It's good to hear that she's been on the go! She's keeping you on your toes! I hope you show all your herbs in bottles. I envy you that you know where your ingredients are coming from- your own garden! I'd love to do that! Have a great weekend! ❤

[@Freyasluckyarm]

I wish I could post a photo here. They all looked so pretty

[@Bindismom]

Oh Marcie, that hurt your mamas heart didn’t it. You do such a good job of being loving, fair and encouraging to each of your children. It’s a tough journey along the way, you certainly have the intelligence, integrity and love to see it through. Hopefully as Freya grows, so will awareness that people can be different but it’s ok. Her hair really did look so pretty and sadly that’s half the battle. If you don’t put on a good front, people can be very cruel. That shouldn’t happen with Freya too much as you keep her and all your children so sweetly and nicely dressed. They also have the manners to go with it. Liam is the perfect big brother. 🤗👍👍❤️

[@Freyasluckyarm]

He is such a great big brother and thank you. It did hurt a little bit

[@phyllismontoroula6454]

You great family Your kids are wonderful

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Thanks so much

[@DaynaCMathews]

I’ve been quiet on comments lately. Sorry! I hope everyone is feeling better. No fun being sick. 🥺 I will be driving through Cedar for Thanksgiving. I hope the storms stay put until I get there haha! Love to you all! ❤

[@Freyasluckyarm]

I hope so too. It seems it’s always snowing on thanksgiving.

[@DianeLee-je7jm]

Maybe as friends/acquaintances get older and notice "differences" as you said, perhaps they'll also be learning of diversity and respect for others so it will equal out 🙏🏽💜

[@eatinghealthy2893]

Love Hair ❤❤

[@ossier2796]

Freya’s hair is beautiful 😍

[@dawnrex3712]

One thing Freya doesn't lack is exercise. That little kid can scoot across that floor like crazy. I guess I'm kind of like her. One day I can get a lot done, with plenty of energy, and think okay, I'll do this and this tomorrow. Tomorrow comes and it's like nope, not up to it. There will be other days. I loved her curly hair today. She looked so cute. I have hair that curls naturally. Which can be great but sometimes I look like I have bull horns. 🥰

[@Freyasluckyarm]

She is so full of energy

[@lisamoore6804]

Have you ever made tomato preserves? It's soooo good. My grandma always made it.

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Not yet!

[@shelleybaker2358]

All your kids are so cute!

[@mbart91891]

OMG her hair as beautiful as Goldilocks ❤

[@janicemichaloski5292]

Freya's hair looks so pretty like that she is such a beautiful girl ❤

[@SmilingBeaver-ou7nc]

Happy weekend Freya and Fam💜

[@brittanydaniels1102]

I decided to cut all animal dairy including buffalo/water buffalo and sheep's milk yogurts and cheeses two days ago to see if I could get rid of my congested stuffy runny nose and today I woke up being able to breathe a lot easier meaning my nose is no longer congested stuffy and runny anymore. I caught this stuffy runny nose from my mom about two weeks ago and I just couldn't get rid of it last week and I thought all animal dairy including buffalo/water buffalo and sheep's milk yogurts and cheeses for the last two days and I have finally gotten rid of my congested stuffy runny nose today.

[@StarryDreamer28]

how exactly do you check eyesight on a little one? or a nonverbal kiddo? lol I don't even remember mine being checked til I was 8. at least the mom was nice about it!

[@Freyasluckyarm]

They look into her eyes and put different lenses up to them. I don’t know what they see when they do but that’s how they tell.

[@jpeg2525]

❤

[@mikestasinopoulos5447]

I was just at the eye doctor they say my vision is great good luck marci

[@Freyasluckyarm]

I’m so happy for you

[@mikestasinopoulos5447]

@Freyasluckyarm thanks

[@cynthiacarter9336]

Her hair looks beautiful 🤩 If it's so cold why doesn't she have socks & shoes on?

[@Freyasluckyarm]

We always start the day with them but she takes them off immediately. When we go places it’s usually easier to keep them in the car so we don’t loose them

[@brendariley1303]

I love freyas hair today

[@sabrina19ization]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@eliatone5842]

Aw Get Well Liam and Chris big hugs❤💐🕯️🙏❤️get well soon both By tte way Frayer is looking si tall now and ❤️

[@NANAOF252]

Freya has a beautiful head of hair besides being beautiful. I think she gets it from you Marci you are a beautiful person inside and out.

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Thank you so much

[@bencaldecott6583]

Good morning.

[@mariajesusmorales6121]

💌

[@JaniceTaylor-it3ed]

Hi Freya have a great day 😊

[@carleen2841]

Freya’s hair looked especially cute because of the wavyness left from the braids! 😁.

[@Freyasluckyarm]

I think so too!

[@linettahillebrand9936]

Love Freya's hair. She has very pretty natural highlights . I've noticed Freya is starting to look more mature. She is losing her cute little baby face and growing. Anyway? Im happy she didn't need glasses right now. Marcie you are a great mom, and Liam, Fiona and Jessie all are very happy and loving kids.

[@Freyasluckyarm]

I totally agree! Looking more like a kid and less like a toddler

[@Carolhealthfan28823]

Afternoon/evening

[@nadyneingrassia1479]

Freya's hair is adorable. She is definitely Zoom, Zoom, and Zoom. Liam is looking grown up.❤

[@Freyasluckyarm]

He is!

[@Bellakania520]

Do your other kids see eye doctors you only mentioned Liam and Freya Also on Halloween for me it was like 80 degrees

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Just Liam and freya

[@Bellakania520]

@Freyasluckyarm why don't your other 2 kiddos go

[@Freyasluckyarm]

@ because they don’t have eye problems

[@Bellakania520]

@Freyasluckyarm that makes sense and I hope Freya won't need glasses

[@kimingraham5618]

Freya is so sweet Is their something wrong with your son.?

[@Freyasluckyarm]

No

[@wandajaynes1006]

Freyas hair is so beautiful

[@suemuster9826]

She is growing up to fast Mom. Pretty soon she may be walking. I love your family ❤❤❤❤

[@sophiaduarte745]

You have a Beautiful Family.❤💕

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Thank you so much!

[@alyssachestnutt4833]

Freyas hair looks so beautiful from her braid

[@stacypogue3183]

Freyas hair is beautiful

[@barbarafrancis533]

Look at that pretty hair, and mom yours is pretty also m

[@vdeniceeckert3494]

Love her hair, can I ask ? Does she not like shoes or socks? I seldom see her with them.

[@Freyasluckyarm]

She takes them off the minute we put them on. If she takes them off in the car I usually leave them in there rather than risk loosing them when out and about

[@JaniceTaylor-it3ed]

Cute 🥰

[@eliatone5842]

Please don't ever feel worried about Frayer celebrating tte Holidays the way you all do. She will always find joys, if just being around you all, being loved by you all😊. With Autism we have similar problems with Holidays ,Celebrations Cinimas, Heat Cold ,Textures,sensiry loves dislikes , becoming overwelmed with situations that seem simple to others. But our parents just let us do what we wanted to Celebrate our own way, and in that way they made things so wonderful memorable, that we still remember the simplest of things still now that most wiuldnt remember 40 dd tears later and it's beautiful . We see things like that like putting on a DVD, its beautiful and with smelly vision and felly vision often too . Its very emotional but so very beautiful , especially now our parents are no longer with us or our loved ones we shared those things with. So be reasured You are All being beautiful Mam, Dad and Siblings to Frayer, she Laughs ,smiles so very much, that says how right Your All doing this in tge way You are all helping her to love her life😊🎉

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Thank you.

[@yayarosales]

Freya can be Sebastian's little girlfriend. They are both the cutest ❤❤

[@LisaMcase59]

I've never heard of a 6 month old wearing glasses

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Liam was 3 months when he got us glasses. 6 months when he had surgery.

[@Bellakania520]

Under 20 mins 👇

[@KimberlyAgar]

Have you ever think of teaching your daughter sign language to be better sunce she can't speak and thought this could help and people do one hand signing and others who is like her have used it too

[@Freyasluckyarm]

We have been teaching her sign language since birth. It is her first language. Before her seizures she knew about 20 signs. She lost all of them and has worked her way back up to 10 signs.

[@Bellakania520]

Does Freya have ADHD if you don't mind me asking

[@Freyasluckyarm]

She has not been diagnosed

[@Bellakania520]

@Freyasluckyarm ok thanks you had said she was go go go and I know that's sometimes a sign of ADHD

[@jonimosteller8946]

She maturing but it is hard for us moms of special needs kidos🫶🏻

[@Amanda---]

FRY SAUCE?? Wow. I used to live in Idaho Falls and every place even McDonald's had it. But then towards the mid-2000s they slowly stopped offering it. I really miss it. I know you can purchase it in the grocery store but I really loved that small-town feel. Don't worry, keep letting Freya put herself out there. I think these experiences are better than no experiences if you understand what I mean. 🫶😇😇💙💙💜💜

[@Freyasluckyarm]

Oh we are a big fry sauce family. Can’t eat fry’s without it.