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@leeleslie5518Ай бұрын
Thank you for explaining. Now it's makes sense how weak they are. Facts I don't like them at all and they know it 💯
@rick9870Ай бұрын
These videos are sickening to me. I experienced all the hatred, vile, and injury from my sibling narc, and these videos almost give me nightmares of what I lived through. My mother had said long ago and sometimes repeated how jealous my sibling was of me. my sibling could have had anything I had - except that my sibling was lost by the time they were 10 years old. My sibling lived in a different reality of their own making. The hatred and sadism was so palpable, that I feared for my life.
@EmisangDiphatse-e4vАй бұрын
My brother u heat the nail just everyday. Uve been my medicine from the beginning of the year everyday , I give thanks. Rasta all the way in south africa Swaziland 🇸🇿
@joannturi3968Ай бұрын
So basically their hearts become hardened and colder as the days go by. Therefore it becomes a stone. That stone then transforms upward to the face and the face becomes a cold stone image to behold. Almost like a Medusa effect, they turn to plaster and shatter.
@amandaserle3343Ай бұрын
If only they could open up and be vulnerable but they wont can't help them can we? I would have tried but clearly its not possible very sad . I had a terrible childhood really bad my mother hated me . Yet im an empath went the other way still have childhood traumas im still trying to deal with. Thanks Chris great video as always.
@ellasofiejohansen7051Ай бұрын
You have. a. analytical brain!
@DawnCasazzaLeeАй бұрын
Their a complicated mess but choose that all on their own (sneaky, cunning, lying, cheating, stealing, drugs ect)..One big problem that contributes to them not trying to open up is they don't trust but their the ones that noone can trust..It's a losing battle
@楊宜強Ай бұрын
@@DawnCasazzaLee Yes, we're so trusting. I had 2 women bravely tell me he was cheating. I just couldn't believe he'd be with someone 25 years older than him. I am thankful they tried to tell me. It made it much easier to demand divorce when she called our home.
@WaioraNewthАй бұрын
Eye open to Reality Views on what has been for me. my life atm. I love the comments brings me to a good message and is educated in what is in the now and know it is a Lie lie lies. Ty.
@marijkevandermeer2772Ай бұрын
I have two cats..i have them at home and in the garden and outside the garden...they always come back...more than six years now
@arani4774Ай бұрын
Once you give yourself that space, you need to gather your thoughts and all the past events that happened, good or bad. You can accept those feelings and accept that you weren't the problem,and you can let go. And really can focus on yourself,your life,the thing's that matter to you the most and definitely keep those toxic negative narcissists out of your life,because you don't want to slip back into the narcissists control or manipulation because you feel weak,it's just a temporary feelings of a memory it well pass. You can tell yourself l'm worth more than a fleeting emotion, and you deserve something more than that. Then you can see you are capable of more and a healthy sustainable, tangible relationship,connection, and marriage,career etc,everything positive in your life.
@楊宜強Ай бұрын
Yes, exactly ! In my case I have to deal with him everyday because he controls everything. Each time he comes over I listen to a narcissistic survivor video. That strengthens me to stand firm. 1:03:43
@helenlesleysmith7559Ай бұрын
I'm not a Narc but if I farted in a lift I don't think I could own up 😮 lol
@rick9870Ай бұрын
When I was in the eighth grade, I was sitting with my class. I had so much abdominal pressure I couldn't help but start farting as I ran out the door to the rest room. I gradually began to connect eating towards bedtime with stomach problems in the a.m.
@NarcSurvivorАй бұрын
I understand, but it was just an example. That situation may bring up some shame, so just imagine something more extreme, such as ruining a person's life and denying it and blaming them. It locks them down, and affects their perception and experience for the rest of their lives.
@susancarol4735Ай бұрын
I wonder if he and I lived on a tiny island all by ourselves, …no one else, …if that situation would enable or force them to heal? 🤔
@ritapeters1330Ай бұрын
No it all would even get horrible . .think: they can't run away after devaluing you
@楊宜強Ай бұрын
No, he'd force you to change because to him you are the problem.
@ritapeters1330Ай бұрын
@@楊宜強 yes 😀 good answer
@susancarol4735Ай бұрын
I guess it could be a pure nightmare! LOL …he is far away anyway, and I will never draw such an evil, selfish, clown like him again!