Would you choose forgiveness or let karma do their thing

[@khamtshering8621]

It’s karma , as now a days we don’t have to wait for next life to see for karma as from my opinion I would love to help him as friend but will never except him as a husband .

[@Kham_bhumo]

Same here!

[@kunchokchodon7722]

You are so beautiful and funny. God bless your family. We love you.

[@tenzinsamten039]

As a buddhist follower, we should always ready to be compassionate...we have seeds of compassionate... therefore, he will remember her for lifetime if she help him...no need to be his husband but help him

[@tenzinglobsang2756]

I agree !!!

[@lobsangdolma9394]

Never accept him as a husband again as he doesn't deserve you. He had betrayed you and your son, played with your emotional and consider you as a piece of toy to play with your life. Such a person won't change and let karma fix everything. Even his second wife left him and he is suffering. You don't need a lier father to your son as he is already grown up and has faced tough times of neglect etc. Self love is important to protect you and your son from the unseen situation, keep distance and usevyour brain over your emotion. You had enough trauma of betrayal etc .. move on and work for your own son's life.

[@tibettibet4844]

A for Ball , you are smart lady. People love to listen your talk. I love to listen your life experiences. Learn a lot from you. You are kind fun loving person. 🌎✌️😍

[@rinukhadka5004]

Yea i am go for forgiveness and have to b compassion. Coz we r the followers of his holiness.

[@samsara2244]

As a humanity i think she should help him but don't accept him as a husband. Great opportunity to show compassion in action. After all he is her son's father and her son will respect her more by seeing all these kind things.

[@Rinzin-q4x]

Never ever accepted again because when she needed him, he didn’t even care her condition

[@kunecho1]

Dear, you're a great mom. Keep up and don't forget to take care of yourself.

[@TibeTang_choe]

It’s called Microblading it’s doesn’t stays forever colour fades slowly and gets lighter.

[@DawaDolma-g7y]

Yes it will look darker few days after procedure but it will fade n get lighter n look good 👍 ❤

[@pemashasok1760]

Love your vlog always! So glad to learn that there’s some steps being taken finally for Dukdak!! He’s so adorable 🥰 God bless him always! Wishing you nothing but all the luck n success in Dukdak’s future! 💕

[@Sid72020]

I would never go back to him. Listen to your family, they wants best for you. I would rather use that time to focus on my son and my self. But how dare he ask for your forgiveness when he took advantage of you and left you when you needed him the most. I know we should be compassionate to others but we often forget to be kind to ourselves and give too much to the people who deserves so little of us. I hope you keep this in your heart.

[@jamyanggyatso7606]

We love your talk ❤❤😂😂

[@stellalam5162]

He is the father of your children and holds a very valuable position regardless of anything. It’s your time to practise compassion and also this would also heal you and your kids🙏 and him too… win win for everyone.

[@tenzinlekdhen9790]

She better to help him as she can stay rest of life her happy , she never regret for her son n her life

[@Victimoflove.]

In short, If I am in her place I wouldn’t romantically get back with him ever again but, as a father of my kid I would definitely provide some emotional and if possible financial support when possible, placing child on top priority.

[@tenzinpaldon8932]

NEVER accept him as a husband again, period. As for HELPING him as a Buddhist, I would think as a mother first. How is his personality? His belief system? His thought processes? The people around him? His family? Helping him would involve spending time with him. Not just her but her teenage kid. Teenagers are at a very crucial stage in their lives. Does she want someone like this man to spend time with her child? Is he going to be a good role model? Is his experience a good lesson to your child? OR is he going to emotionally exploit the child? Spew hatred? Is he going to physically, emotionally and financially drain you both? These are some questions she needs to consider before committing to HELP him.

[@tenzinnoah]

She can financially and emotionally help him but she shouldn’t go back to him I think.

[@dekyi3561]

She needs to be strong and ignore his request. Once a crook always a crook. Focus on her son and live a good life. Only reason he wants her is he is in need of help. Bad idea to go back to him. Her family is right.

[@peyangtibetan2173]

Follow her heart ❤️. Not others opinions

[@kunchokdolma7666]

Well, compassion and forgiveness are important, but what is more important is dose she have same feelings for him as before. Infact, she have to live with him till marte dham tak!!!!. Moreover he had given enough pain pain before so in my opinion she shouldn't look back rather move forward. What's big deal if he is a father of that child. It's easier said than done.

[@Tsering2420]

Whatever happened to this guy is totally Karma. He is sick and helpless that’s why now he remembers her and want her back, not because he misses or love her and his son. I wouldn’t go back to him, but can go help him if he need any help. She can forgive him and go see him in this situation, but wouldn’t go back to live with him.

[@namcho2008]

Forgive but never forget. Implies she shouldn’t take him back. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[@tenzindolkar3938]

As a father of your child . You should forgive him and try to help him as much as you can .

[@noratenzin6962]

Her heart wants to be with him and her brain is saying don’t do it, the reason why she is asking from others is she would like support to her hearts decision which most of her own folks who know her personally probably wouldn’t do it because they love her and knows what she went through, that’s why asking random people who are not biased and look at both sides. Bottom line is you know him the best and your situation also your heart the best, go with what your heart says it’s all it matters ❤ life is not all about revenge, anger or bitterness

[@sonam1359]

Help as much as you can , but never stay with him. You can do every thing without hasband. He is really bad guy. Be smart with ex. Have a good day.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@tenzinkyipa4324]

My opinion is that please forgive him if you can but it's upto you.

[@deckyiboom204]

I like and love to listen your talk 😅only because you always share your experiences and reality in on going life. God bless from Delhi❤

[@dolmayangzom5463]

I want to listen your song. Pls sing the song.

[@Wang.tsang2010]

My experience never rejoin,I know lots people's relationships, never happy life again, just ignored.

[@lhadontenz4]

At this time she should practice the forgiveness and compassion not because of her ex husband but because of another who man being who is suffering so much and I am definitely know his physical and emotional level . So please go to help him as ur old friend who is a helpless and needs ur help. I hope god save him and for all .

[@choenyizikze]

You can help him but never rejoin with him...listen your family decision is best becoz they saw your troubles and all.live your happy life with your son...

[@dawadhondup1157]

I love your voice🎤🎼🎵🎶🔊 too ! ,🎉💯👍

[@dolkartsomo4464]

I wouldn’t go back to him. Once betrayal is good enough. I think he needs help with his sickness . He hasn’t thought about his own son and wife when he was having fun with other woman. she left him now he remembers his family. He seems selfish. Be smart and don’t put yourself and son in problem.

[@NY-USA]

My personal opinion and suggestion for your subscriber would be, it is okay to help some one who is in need. Specially if the person is father of your child. When u r helping ur ex because he is ill, does not mean u need to romantically get involve. Yes, he was mean and selfish for what he did, but u can be the good example for your child. If u don’t help him just becoz of what he did to you and ur family, u will be doing same to ignore him. So I suggest to take this in more kindness level and him being the father of your child, u can provide him emotional support. God forbid, if he passes away, this would be the most regretful thing u will carry with urself for the rest of ur life. So just provide that support as a friend, him being the father of ur child, ur child will learn good lesson from you. End of the day, ur child is growing bigger, he or she will learn from you the meaning of kindness. Off course I do not want u get hurt too, so when u get involve to help ur ex, do not get involve with him romantically.

[@bhumokhusim5205]

I totally agreed and I swear on hhdl I cried a lot of crying reading your comments. Pls help him😢😢😢

[@NY-USA]

@@bhumokhusim5205 yes I felt same 🙏 I believe she should help him.

[@tenzintsenleck1996]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏well said

[@tenyedol9578]

I’m also going through like 14 yrs still now but listen our holiness speech. Holiness always said that forgiveness and silence is the best answer so it’s ur life do good and self before others

[@LhundupTashishar]

I suggest that she could help him, if she is able to, but must not think of living together with him. Period.

[@tseringdolma3268]

Lhakpa, i always love to watch your live as well your vlogs. Everything that you talk has soome values. Really love your great personality. Here its my suggestion - Though he is very selfish to call her again when he was in pain and forget everything that he has done for her before. But as being her son's father or her ex love, she could help him financially or emoemotionally. but never and ever live together as her husband. I think all these make her and her son in worry and trouble.

[@issadecs3995]

Noooo never ever, don’t ever go back pleaseeeee for your kids sake! Let him serve his karma

[@Tenzindon3]

As a Tibetan or follower of his holiness the Dalai Lama,we should be compassionate,loving n caring.so in my view,she should help him as an ex wife but I don’t think she should go back to his life n suffer again.anyways I pray for fast recovery n smooth treatment 😢

[@tenzineng12345]

Help while he is sick then stay friends that best deal as we are his holiness follower so compassion while do it girl and please let as know also what you decide also

[@tenzinsalje7131]

Love all your volgs... thanks a lot...❤we all will look 🙏 forward to see your volg of single or solo singing. 🎉you are the strongest bravest, coolest, smartest mom ... having your patience in caring for him.... keep going ahead🎉....the remaining years of your life will surely be peaceful clam n happier... Me as a bhudhist nun will grantee thus .. Looking forward for your old Hindi songs...🎉❤

[@Ranrig]

Its Karma...Leave him on Karma...Dont repeat the same mistake again ..He doesnt deserve her help and concern, 'not even as a bhushist, as humanity or for the child.....

[@TenKyichung]

For my opinion. Listen to ur heart . If i am in ur situation I will never ever give him a second chance. This is Karma . U should listen ur family caz when u were in dark ur family the one who help u and follow ur heart

[@Ranrig]

He was mature enough to differentiate good n bad when he had betrayed his wife 'and the son...He had conciously did bad to her, not even thinking about the innocent son....He deserves more than this ...Let him taste his own medicines n let him know how it feels being betrayed n how painful it is to get hurt by the one whom he expects....Let the karma play its game now.....

[@tibet5950]

My opinion, firstly he’s the father of your son and he’s your ex husband. To be honest, take a deep breath and listen to your inner heart. Sometimes it helps for you to take your own decision while listening to your loved ones and randomly advice/suggestions. Secondly… if it’s really hard for you to moved on even your seeing someone in your present or even you have seen in the past then you both set a time to talk in respectful since you both are adult. No need to bring the past topic and it will bothered you two. After do what’s your heart says to you and most importantly listen to your inner heart/ your instinct. That way you will not regret in the future what you have done. So take your time and no rush. We are Buddhist and kindness is in our blood so helping emotionally support or financially support everyone can do. So think carefully and make a firm decision. All the best ❤ Thank you Lhakpa 😍

[@Lhakpa501]

Follow your heart, you have one life to live. If you still love him then give him a second chance. People learn from mistakes.i wish him well🙏

[@tenzinkyinzom312]

If she is single and still have feeling for him then I think she should give him one more chance and this should be the last chance

[@lobsangchoetso8352]

I am watching your videos only for Drukdak he is so adorable

[@lobsangdolma911]

I will say don’t accept him as a relationship but help him and care him because we all are human being.

[@babe7293]

He was never there when she n her son needed him the most. He not only left her but he chose the other girl over her without thinking about them. Just imagine if she is still in India and he is not sick, would u think he will care about them? I don’t think so. Let him n his wife deal with the situation. Why would u go through this headache again live your life n you don’t need to think twice , just recollect all the past bad memories u faced each day and then decide accordingly. U will have your answer right there without any doubt. He was your past and it’s ceased to exist, it’s just a bad memory n I m sure u don’t wana face it again

[@sangmoyangzom]

I would advise you not to reconcile with your ex-husband, especially considering his past actions of leaving his baby mom for someone else. His return during times of trouble may not be a solid foundation for a healthy relationship. It's essential to prioritize your well-being and your son's future. Forgiving and moving forward to build a fresh life might bring you more happiness. Focus on self-care and consider the possibility of finding a partner who truly values and respects you. 🧘🏻‍♀️ forgive but don’t forget!

[@jampalhamo8511]

She should listen to her family

[@tenzinpehor7126]

Help him if she can, that's it.

[@jackson6501]

I knew that its karma but I thing as a human being please to help him through money if not possible through emotion as much as possible that it and also god bless him.

[@lhakpachoedon7637]

If I were her situation..... I won't accept his proposal......better don't stay with him .

[@SangKtan]

Kids may say they don’t need father but deep down they do. I think she should not be in a relationship with him but help him. After all not only was he her ex husband but his the father of her kids. I don’t think she should totally ignore that. What happened in the pass had happened and karma had come to him, by helping him will only be your good deeds, your good heart. By not helping is also fine but we as Tibetan alway have sympathy/ nyingjay. I think you should help, reconnect the father and kid’s relationship. You don’t want to look back years later and think I wish I helped him then. You don’t want that regret to carry on with you.

[@tenzinnamdol7027]

V love the way u talk ❤🎉.

[@fooolll2334]

God has given her a chance to help him not everybody get so go on as a we r same human being whether in relation do ask ur kid as he has seen u very near when ur in pain

[@Old_school143]

Once a cheater always a cheater .. she shouldn’t give him a chance

[@jamyanggyatso7606]

If I am her,,, never accepted again

[@wangchuksherpa5554]

First it’s a childhood crush and they have a kid together. The lady’s compassionate love ❤️ will always have huge impact on that pathetic guy who’s suffering. Just do your best to help this guy.you don’t need to marry him again but you can help him. I can sense that there’s some space in your heart for him as you requested for comments about the matter. A4ball ,hope this thoughts of mine helps

[@nyimaDD]

My opinion is she can help him as he is illness.but don’t go back to relationship. I think he is not worth for that.

[@sonamdhargyal3143]

Please tell her to keep relationship as divorce couple, where he can interact with his son. Since he failed to keep his responsibilities as father and husband in critical time . He will not going to change. As we Tibetan used to say that dogs tails will never be straight even if you keep it straight in ice for hundred years . Since he is suffering from deadly diseases please show some compassion as we Buddhist and since we believe in karma. Please help him financially as much as you can . And also give him permission to look after his son once in a week. Never make mistake of going back to that con man again. There must be hundreds reasons why his new wife left him. If you again live with him as living partner or legally married couple, then you are liable to support him and pay his bills. Financial it is suicidal decision.

[@tenzinwangmo5464]

It’s karma. Karma always hits him

[@DomaBhutia-k6s]

I'm from kalimpong dolma ❤

[@tseringyangchen5611]

My best advice is better to help him as a friend but not as a husband because we are Buddhists that our holiness always advise us from love and compassion in every teaching.... Hope u will understand well ..

[@kelsangchoedon7128]

You are a natural story teller... And to that yet another wonderwoman who wants to hear public opinion, I want to say FORGIVE, if you could and help if you can. That man is already punished enough, not by the decease he's caught by, but by GUILT. Exact similar story was told to me by another woman, who chose FORGIVENESS... and stand by him while he took his last breath at HER house..She has no regrets.

[@dolmayangzom5463]

Yes,help him if he is a patient of cancer, he's life is very short, there is a karma God punish him😮.Be kind to him, no matter, we r Buddhism.

[@TashiPassion]

It all depends on his characte rs while they were together. And it would be an obvious no if he was ever abusive or has an addiction. But helping him makes great sense at the moment . And the second chance is suggested very highly if he has reliased the mistake which everyone does dues to circumstances not by choice. Also, getting idea from her son can help . The biggest point of Buddhism is sharing your knowledges learnt from your life experiences and sufferings

[@metsvlog6813]

Help him as a human being but never allow to stay with you and don’t keep any relationship with him

[@kelsangc6700]

I think if she wants to help him, she can as a friend. But no need to be his wife to help him though.

[@lhazomtsering457]

My idea ...is don't go to that man again who have you lot of pain and I would like to go with my family decision ...don't go towards pain . He should suffer and thats his karma ...karma do exist . ..pls I beg to the lady that pls don't go towards once more pain in yr life ...pls pls pls

[@tseringlhaze2195]

Tashi delak a for ball I am one of your subscriber when you make bread ,in the flour at couple eggs, it comes very good he don’t even novice

[@lolaten4274]

Must say - stand with family, they r there when u need them and your ex - enjoyed his part already. As a bhuddist - thats the karma - he has to deal with it himself. You focus on ur life and ur kid. May b give him few money and run off as far as u can. His sick or his separate from his wife has nothing to do with u and he clearly send u that message long time ago.

[@nimatsering7373]

Hi as my suggestion just think when we see unknown person sick we give the best to help that fellow but he is ur son dad so compassion is in our blood. I know how ur life had gone through when he was in abroad which I have gone through the same pain. But leaving the past behind you better help him as a humanity. But don’t accept him as ur husband which he don’t deserve. GOOD OR BAD WAT YOU PUT OUT COMES BACK TO YOU.

[@tseringdolma3268]

Love you always

[@chimetsang9227]

She should let life and karma take care of himself. It’s not like one day, two days…it is for a long time and she (with her son) is also gonna witness the journey and after her ex-husband’s death, the two of them (she+child) is gonna suffer and live a traumatic life…so better let it be as it is. At least they won’t have to witness his suffering, plus suffer with him themselves and be traumatized after his death.

[@penbhuti]

She must have gone through a lot mentally and emotionally, but I feel she should help him as a show of respect to the father of her child. The kid will appreciate her kindness to their father in the future. I'm sure it would be difficult for her to accept him as a husband after what he has done, and I don't think she would like to get back to him. However, if he has no family or relatives to look after him there, she should help him if she is able to. Cancer is no joke. But do what you feel is ✅️ .

[@kelsangdolker3853]

My suggestion is help him as a human being dats it. Don’t keep any relationship with him. Never forget what he did. If same thing she did with him thn he able to forget n help her n come back to her.??? So help him only s a another human being else ur wish🙏🏻

[@tibbhumo6878]

First if she couldn’t take decisions with her family. What did she is going to do with stranger’s opinion? Her family is the one who suffers with her when she has problems. Her child doesn’t have father when the child needed the most. The child is grownup now. We can’t decide for her what to do or not.

[@pooh340]

My suggestion _tell me one thing would he come back to her if he is doing well in his life now ?? I don't think soo.. he would be enjoying with his new wife... but rn he is undergoing through tough phase ... i would help him for what he needed like any expences,moral support etc for the sake of ur son n humanity but never will accept him as my husband again n forgive him

[@dawac3835]

Exactly!

[@TashiDolkar-k5o]

Of course from my side as a human being and being a bhudist we should help him.not as a husband.bhudha bless him.how dare that lady who left him in such a bad condition.she hve no huma n heart.

[@tseringtsomo5875]

She should be give second chance for him.

[@tenkal1425]

As a Buddhist, I think this is a great opportunity for her to practice forgiveness and compassion. If she wishes to forgive him and help him in this darkest time of his life, she should follow her heart and do it, and not because he was her ex husband or the father of her child, but because he is another human being in desperate need of her help. I truly hope he regrets what he did to her, and that he strives for redemption, and I truly hope she can forgive him for what he did to her. Selflessness and compassion is the true meaning of Buddhism. Forgiving him can be healing for her as well ❤️ I wish them both well.

[@tenzinlhaden2214]

Well said. Same here too

[@Urproblemursnotmine]

Definitely forget to reconcile, as Buddhist, Tibetan, ex husband and course biological father of the kid, it’s good if she could lend her helping hand to the father of hers kid, in case he is indeed in need, same time she shouldn’t be around him a lot , looks she is very emotional person, easily get betraying by other people’s emotions and the reconciliation the relationship won’t possible for me if am on her place, life is really short, just focus present life in absence of too much stress around.

[@Tsering-v4p]

I would advice her to forgive but not forget. He has realized his mistakes so, she should stick as a good friend but not move in with him .

[@bhod2ari]

NEVER take him back as a partner or husband but definitely HELP him if you can. Most importantly make it crystal clear to him that he is not and will never be your life partner ever again. Don’t let him disrespect you and your family again. You will be disrespecting yourself too. Sad but karma is a biatch and now he knows

[@xoxoangel1274]

She shud go with what her heart says …

[@Tamlha]

You are great mother

[@karmamenlha5971]

I love hearing your great voice but you change the topic anyway ❤❤❤❤❤👌👌👌👌👍👍I will be next time ❤

[@tenzinkyipa7981]

Help but don't fall again ❤

[@kunlaydolma5992]

I think she should help him on the humanity ground and dont go back to him as wife

[@sonata755]

Be kind for children

[@Tenzin115]

Now a days we don’t have to wait for next life or take revenge.. but in this case if she really used her money to sent him to abroad or went through depression or if he is married with her and father of her son still cheated then I would say don’t patch up with him but help him if he need now because he is her son’s father after all .. if she didn’t spent money on him or married then is ok to patch up if she care about him . She didn’t loose much but if she really spent lotta money in real and they are married still if he cheat then that’s not nice .. but we never know why he got married with second because he need paper ? Or is her first wife so controlling? .. we never know .. god bless .. second wife 😅omg she left him when he is suffering.. sad 😢.. may be he had reason to leave his first wife .. we never know what is behind .sometime depression is because of high ego or sometime because of husband or wife cheating every where ..

[@Wangbrothers124]

Forgive him if he’s really genuine and she’s still love him or her son need his father back. forgiveness is strong personally not a week.

[@tenzinlhakyi6610]

😂😂😂 psychologist here😂 yes! I think it’s better to leave him on his own since he already got his chance long time ago to prove his love for her which he turned out to be a cheater. So, there’s a high chances that he might cheat again and might as well control her in later life with a mindset of thinking that “ she will do everything for me.” So, let him be on his own.

[@bhumokhusim5205]

You can help him as a friend but no need to be physically with him. U can still be with your present one if u have.

[@tenzinla1959]

Once he is your love tht you two have son together in from of ur true ❤️ love.. you should stay with him full support as he is ur sons father. Yeah it’s true tht he did this to you but at last he only have you and he needs ur emotional support not ur financial support.. I think you should stay w him as emotional supporters through all his treatment🙏🏻🙏🏻 Sometimes it’s not just about karma okay god must be testing on you… who knows maray:? After all we all practice bhudhist and our only main practice or teaching is “ Sampa sangho” Nigjay”🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Pokemontenzin]

Being Buddhist with love and compassion give him one chance to prove him he is good husband and father.hope he got lesson from that second wife.I recon he will be a better person.

[@sonamgyaltsen6218]

Always hard work ❤❤❤

[@chemepaldon3746]

I think she should listen to Family opinion , do not listen other people If I your place never ever look 👀 Back or I never go back to his life. What he did you never for get these kind of people, so if you go Back to his life you will get again same problem but is up to you. Good luck 🍀