"But I Have So Much Love to Give!"

The Dad You Never Had: theclareyschoolofeconomicphil...

[@free_at_last8141]

They really do have a lot of love to give. AFTER they "love" for a few decades without you.

[@Autonomous15]

Give you hell.

[@GodLovesBachelors]

Today's average wom3n weighs 170lbs. That's scary.

[@jth_printed_designs]

Yep, at only 5’4”

[@why-mope]

As a man who eats a ton of sweets... I'm still considered under weight by modern women's standard... Feed me free food government!

[@slowbastardo9101]

So they got a dozen more pounds than me!?!? Hell naw!!!

[@fjorddenierbear4832]

Here in Batumi, Georgia, I have seen about 2 giant women over 3 weeks. Not that I want the women... Women are women, after all. 1% Small Business tax for freelancers, can use Foreign Earned Income Exclusion to reduce or eliminate American income tax burden as a US citizen. Anyway, we need more Americans and other foreigners here before those Russian expats take over everything. It's a nice place, very free, with very low crime. If you like Wendy's, it's everywhere here. Also, Subway, Dunkin', Burger King, McDonald's, etc. And amazing local food. Meat dumplings everywhere.

[@zachjackel]

As a 5'11" man with a beer gut Im at 200. My weight isn't good theirs is cataclysmically bad. One weekend of pizza and ice cream and they could catch up to me.

[@johns.1854]

I have so much love to give to the top 10% of men whose existence I am aware of, as opposed to the bottom 90% that are invisible to me.

[@michah321]

Don't kid yourself, men are no different. Men only want the 10% of women who want the top 10% of men

[@shanepatrick641]

Yep exactly!! We’re all invisible to them!

[@kirito3082]

10%? More like 0.1%

[@joelfenner]

No joke: Once ran across a girl's dating profile that had the phrase "I'm so fat, anywhere you grab feels like a t1tty" I still shudder, to this day, thinking about that. No. Just.....no.....

[@dennisharry8408]

That's a pretty horrible visual. Eeesshhh.

[@claytonbouldin9381]

If she were honest with herself. She would have referenced a water bed mattress instead of boobs! 😂

[@jackdeniston6150]

More accurately, and painfully, it is Men who have so much love to give. Only Men

[@chugjugs6081]

Only the desperate men

[@visionaryman3548]

​@@chugjugs6081 Yeah, I was like that once... Not any more.

[@chugjugs6081]

@@visionaryman3548 Please explain

[@jimdavis8391]

​@chugjugs6081 You get bitten a couple of times, then perhaps you get bitten badly, it takes a little if effort, time and money to get over that. Perhaps you don't want to get bitten again?

[@Prosecute-fauci]

And bears

[@cdumbeldorf5310]

Cappy: “Is she fat?” Chick client: “No, she’s calorically-endowed. She’s an 11.”

[@jth_printed_designs]

An 11 on the Richter scale

[@Autonomous15]

@@jth_printed_designs 11 more on the BMI scale than she should be.

[@WarbirdPhoenix]

11... Tons?

[@ViltrumiteIsRite99]

Calorically-endowed= GOAT’d

[@aaron6622]

If they really had love to give, they'd try to make themselves attractive, because that's an expression of love.

[@elinope4745]

Highly agree. Letting yourself go after marriage is a huge sign of disrespect. The effort of acquiring or maintaining a fit physique is a sign of self respect as well as respect and care for your partner.

[@AS-ok8hi]

It’s unbelievable how terrible so many look I can’t imagine not trying to look my best, and honestly it speaks even more volume when women don’t take care of themselves because they’re supposed to be beauty objects lol

[@user-pt4fs4xd2t]

Jeez at atleast if your are a few pounds over the hemisphere put on a hijab call it quits looks way more respect instead of a nasty tank top even a shirt

[@smithsmith1956]

Islam is right about women.

[@chugjugs6081]

That they mature at age 6? Gross dude

[@smithsmith1956]

@@chugjugs6081 That's dumb. No, the way they keep their women on short leashes. That a woman in positions of power and authority are a major issue. And the way they arrange marriage because they know women are absolute garbage at picking the right men.

[@smithsmith1956]

@@chugjugs6081 No. That's dumb. The way they arrange marriage because the men know how absolute garbage vvo men are at picking the right man. And that vvo men in positions of power and authority are a massive problem and should not be allowed.

[@smithsmith1956]

No. The way they arrange marriage because the men know how absolute garbage vvo men are at picking the right man. And that vvo men in positions of power and authority are a massive problem and should not be allowed.

[@smithsmith1956]

No. The way they arrange marriage because the men know how absolute garbo V.V.O. men are at picking the right man. And that V.V.O. men in positions of power and authority are a massive problem and should not be allowed.

[@Tetelestai-cw8qy]

Tall children shouldn't be voting. Everything else is none of my business because I'm not a bear.

[@vesubioromo9425]

Whatever a woman says, especially if it favors men, just mentally add the words "for now." For them, a relationship is that space between carnival rides. Men, don't listen to what they SAY, watch what they DO, and don't DENY what you see. Protect yourself at all times.

[@doctordetroit4339]

Women have fallen so far so fast it's inconceivable to those of us who remember back when they were decent and sane ...yet shockingly true.

[@SC-gw8np]

Price to pay for worshipping Satan.

[@tulkipper3555]

More like when they were disciplined and tolerable.

[@mirceazaharia2094]

I cannot even CONCEIVE of dating a vvoman, let alone doing the "horizontal tango" without agreeing on a price and time limit beforehand.

[@WizdaVision]

“I have so much love to give… …But not enough SIMPs to keep supply consistent.”

[@Torgo1001]

"But I have so many lives to wreck!"

[@mirceazaharia2094]

Not mine. Not mine.

[@fivesevenandtwo7828]

“I have so much love to give.” To quote women: No one owes you anything for that.

[@maninthehills7134]

She can give all that love to her cats. Wine and pet stonks ftw

[@user-nr7jm1so5j]

Says ... the snake before it strikes.

[@Chad-nx7rs]

Or says the skunk before it sprays.

[@Mr.Ambrose_Dyer_Armitage_Esq.]

Modern Females: *_"I have so much love to give!"_* Us: *_"Pshhh! To YOURSELF!"_*

[@bribri1657]

"but I have so much to give!" What do you mean? The HERPs? The Syph? The RHEA? 😂

[@bas3q]

Ladies: #1: You don't have to be supermodel/Instagram hot to attract a kind and successful guy - the mp3 effect is a thing (Rian Stone has gone into detail on this, worth listening to him on this one) #2: You don't even have to explicitly ask a dude out - just approach him, make your intent clear and put him in a position to ask. This is like hitting a ball on a tee, if you can't put forth that minimal amount of effort, you don't deserve a dude's interest in the first place.

[@stevec3526]

MeToo, means YouAlone…

[@stevec3526]

For one, men prefer healthy women who have self control.

[@de14jabs]

Isn't that a mythological species? Cuz I've never seen a real one

[@SSNESS]

Why would they ask us out when they’re not going to pay for anything?

[@jwarrior9986]

Know your worth kings, drizzle drizzle! 🤣

[@city_of_coompton6832]

Yeah my gym membership costs money. I put in the time and the effort to look good for the ladies, the least they could do is pay my monthly membership fees.

[@jonathanmichaelsmith9012]

It makes my heart sing to see them receive the same energy I did when I was in my 20s and still gave a damn about dating.

[@joshingyou40]

The grandpa the world needs

[@explosivetwist]

Greeks had 7 types of love. zero in on "philautia" compassionate self-love. yes, women have so much philautia to give.

[@bigtomboye]

Wow 😲 Extremely interesting 🤔

[@lawr5764]

I thought they had EIGHT.

[@explosivetwist]

@@lawr5764 chill sperg. the point still stands.

[@blondequijote]

No wonder they needed a Macedonian king to make them conquerors. They were clearly lovers and not fighters.

[@lawr5764]

​@blondequijote Most of those words weren't "love" like we think of a big romance. The indivitual words meant: Erotic love Parental love Infatuation Brotherly love Romantic love -- obviously Self love -- (mentioned above) That's all I can remember

[@freedomnsurvival8472]

A lot of love for you but more for themselves.

[@dacawone]

This is one intro I never skip. Because it's funny. And true.

[@Captain_Jack711]

Me too!

[@rtbear674]

Until I don't, and demand 50% of all your net worth.

[@Bobbakerfield]

this episode is exactly why I listen to you. this is how the beautiful ones happened in the mouse utopia experiment. please do an episode on the beautiful ones in the mouse utopia experiment. I think its right up your alley with your high IQ.

[@zeorhymer6]

A lot of love to give? Will that help raise our kids? Will that help pay bills? Will that make the home peaceful after a long days work?

[@zebare726]

no NO REEEEEEEE!!!!

[@steveretiredandcranky]

Love don't pay the bills

[@Maulhawk]

"Until the pain of staying the same exceeds the pain of change, no one will change."

[@RAMZAVFX]

I gotta admit hearing Cappy sing single mom was hilarious.

[@AS-ok8hi]

I say hi to every girl now basically and half of them just stare at me and don’t even respond lol.

[@shanepatrick641]

That’s most women for me! lol 😂

[@rocket_scientist5353]

Game over man! Game over! (Imagine spit flying out of my mouth).

[@scottb296]

But I have so much love to give! For violent felon Tyrone with a life sentence in jail. Cubicle Carl gets no love, Andy Accountant gets no love, The guys who would actually accept, appreciate, and want, and in some cases need all this love you have to give, you've got none for him or them.

[@michah321]

the women who want to love the accountant and the cubicle guy are INVISIBLE to men

[@Coyote-wm5op]

It really is funny when you ask a woman out and she doesn’t want to but then stays single and complains 😆

[@Eltipoquevisteayer]

"I have so much love to give" So is everyone else, even the hot girl has love to give, even the hobo at the station, everyone has emotions and thoughts to share, congratulations on that being your trait

[@jojo1232ish]

Unfortunatelly it's not obvious at first time, but only when you find it out

[@grantwithers]

I would just tell ol cap that it seems that some new research maybe has thrown a bit of a new light on the obesity issue (and overweight issue). Turns out it may be the issue that swapping from fresh meals prepared daily (FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE) to the processed meals we eat today, and generally processed foods, apparently steals your SATIETY FOREVER (even if you manage to switch back to the fresh meals prepared daily). In one manner or other, it's not entirely clear how this happens just yet. And this is apparently likely true even if this diet is introduced to you at a super young age and you switch to a fresh diet prepared daily after being a child. It helps to explain why the shift from supermajority thin or muscular to majority fat back after the 70's especially. As nobody really got "lazier" etc. more than previous generations, though perhaps more sedentary. Which is obviously another cause, along with stressors at work and just modern life etc. In any event, it isn't all just "values". You need "super values" towards being in good shape to be in good shape these days. I'm in decent shape myself, but to pretend that it doesn't take actual willpower (read "work") is a fantasy. Whereas back back in the day it was as natty as falling off a log. Because they were sated.

[@EmperorSaistone]

Wonders happen, I got asked out today by one for breakfast. But this is also europe and not the us.

[@josephguido9301]

We need to get May 15th noticed as "National Ask a Man Out Day."

[@Ja50nkAt]

I don't have the time to go out, I work 50 hours a week plus going to the gym, and when I do get down time I just want to sit in my recliner and watch netflix in my studio apartment.

[@goombah226]

I am the prize! Drizzle drizzle!

[@timothykuring3016]

I never believed that any woman ever needed to ask a man out. If they are friendly and they smile at a man, and he is at all interested, he will ask them out. Even average women could pull that off without any effort at all. Women don't handle rejection well at all. I never failed to ask out any woman, even average women, if they were friendly and at least a little interesting. I only had a problem with women thinking I was shy because I was generally quiet, so they would ask me out when I hadn't asked them out because I wasn't interested, so they forced me to reject them, and they would flip out. But I have to admit that partly I would reject them because they were insulting my masculinity. They should have understood that I would ask them out if I was interested, and it seemed to me that they were just pointlessly setting themselves up for rejection, and they were trying to establish an emasculating relationship. I was so masculine that I usually provoked a lot of hostility in men. And an unfeminine woman to a masculine man was like fingers on a chalk board, or like trying to force the same poles of a magnet together - the repulsion of unfeminine women was too strong. They would make a masculine man's skin crawl. Although I was generally quiet, I hated feminists from a traditional point of view and I could argue circles around them, and remain calm and rational while whole classrooms and lecture halls full of them were losing their minds and screaming bloody murder. And I might start laughing at them if they tried to attack me. Their attitudes and their complete lack of feminine grace and chastity irritated me, so I poured fire on their heads. It kind of made even the sweet women afraid of me.

[@timothykuring3016]

Of course, I totally agree about the basics. You have to be attractive to each other. I always believed it was partly in the eye of the beholder, because I found some women very attractive that other men scarcely cared about, and there were women that all the men would talk about as being super hot, and I didn't see it. I didn't think they were attractive at all. I think it's nature and genetics to a large extent. For instance, women are drawn to a man by his smell, when their genes are compatible, and repulsed by his smell when they aren't. The pill interferes with their deep genetic selection like that, and some women have been known to be completely repulsed by their husbands after marrying them and going off the pill. Attraction is to some extent mysterious, which gives us room for play.

[@123pb]

Dam this man can ramble on

[@arthurcutaiar9994]

I think the reason men determine how things change and they adapt to it versus women who don't in our cavemen passed men would go out for days at a time to hunt for days at a time and when there was no game left they had to improvise or go home and tell the old lady we aren't eating for the next week. Women on the other hand stayed at home in the cave waiting for the man to bring food home and he always brought food home because he did not want to hear her ratchet mouth when he come home empty-handed. If it was up the women we would have never left the caves

[@gary6754]

for whatever reason that caption and picture looked hilarious to me

[@mmmmmMuffinz]

thats a great song by Fedde Le Grand

[@electrocademyofficial893]

Lol

[@shaunlawton5550]

Sorry Cappy I can’t get taller so I’m cooked.

[@shanepatrick641]

Exactly me to. I’m screwed as well.

[@panoramapete5758]

The AI boyfriend would be perfect for most woman except for one thing. He wouldn't legally be able to vote democrat. Though, the democrats would definitely be up for changing that.

[@stevemacca786]

The poor bugger that not only dropped her in the drink but then summersaulted head first 😂😂

[@Phyrior]

'I have so much love to give!' No you don't! Everyone has limits. You need to wait on that until you actually find yourself in that couple, and then drip it out like an IV bag. Don't be the woman who drops it all in one go and then decades later wonders 'where the love went'. You already spent it. And worse, you didn't work on refueling in all the time since.

[@shanepatrick641]

Totally agree if only they’d actually listen!

[@unknowncommenter6698]

4:14 to be fair, at least homeless people have an excuse of nobody hiring homeless people due to them being homeless. Or so I've heard.

[@Anicca108]

I'm not questioning the wisdom of getting dating advice from a risk-averse Gen X recluse in South Dakota with bad internet, but how long are we going to beat this dead horse about how things are? Both sides are just going to keep getting fed up with each other until everybody is 80, and no one is going to budge toward any kind of reconciliation.

[@ljr6723]

Dating advice is economic advice.

[@doctordetroit4339]

Because every day another male zoomer with no dad comes of age and needs to hear this....there is no reconciliation, there is only collapse and then possible recovery. Women almost never ever admit they are wrong. Hence no reconciliation. And it's not risk averse....it's survival.

[@CruelandCold]

For every Aaron Clarey, how many Matt Walsh's and Steven Crowder's are there? Don't even get me started on the Destiny's of the world. We are still a minority of men, and this is still new information for men everywhere. Get over it.

[@CruelandCold]

Also, why do women deserve any kind of reconciliation for a situation that not only they created, but they also refuse to acknowledge and take responsibility for?

[@AsAugustSleeps]

Apparently you haven’t seen a real world female 4 tell a real world male 8 that he’s not good enough for her. Women’s arrogance is completely out of control. There is no reconciliation.

[@survivethrive2468]

These women out here are like used cars with shitty carfax reports. Salvage and rebuilt titles with high mileage and bad service history records lol 😆 😂 😅 🤣 smh

[@Gabby-er1sr]

Metoo ate my homework

[@francoiseeduard303]

🤣”I have so much love to give” and I am 5’6.5”, multiple genetic/congenital conditions, and is generally overall unattractive. Nobody cares!😂 I hope the AI boyfriends drain their wallets!

[@shanepatrick641]

😂😂 I hope so to lmao 😂😂

[@ldreese33]

The Baby Reindeer woman had a lot of love to give

[@z3r0_35]

"I have so much love to give!" Really now? Their actions suggest to me that love is the last thing many of them have any ability to give, much less desire to do so. They're like the titular character of Citizen Kane, they want everyone else to love them, but don't want to give any back.

[@alphathinktink]

Blurry Cappy is blurry.

[@elmateo77]

The bears will love large women...

[@golennironns8548]

Ai, girlfriend like delta oohhhh...... I'm liking this

[@Auticusx]

They do have a lot of love to give. Just not to average men. That love is only for the top. But thats biological imperative speaking, and why humanity has survived as long as we have.

[@city_of_coompton6832]

That's not true. Civilization is based on monogamy. Women's only option was to "settle" for an average man and a least pretend to like it otherwise she'd be shunned by the community.

[@Auticusx]

@@city_of_coompton6832 nothing i said has anything to do with monogamy or polygeny. It is a woman’s absolute biological imperative to breed with the highest value man as is objectively shown in the human genome showing only roughly 25% of males that ever lived reproduced vs 80% of women that did.

[@michael10613]

@@Auticusx It might be like that in nature, but we live in a manmade society. Average men aren't gonna bust their ass for nothing. The collapse is happening

[@ehynn]

pronounciation on monosyllabic cappy 13:11 >:C

[@zebare726]

Whamen

[@buckholtz31]

This intro is way too long.. Jesus.. it was entertaining the first time, but this is why people hate boomers

[@bigmoney1723]

Go find a Bear to love, sweetheart

[@zebare726]

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